So I've been dating my girlfriend for almost 6 months now but the problem is I just don't feel like I mean as much to her as she does to me. At the beginning of our relationship I caught on that she was prude/had trouble being intimate and I expressed that I would wait until she was ready. Months later when things finally did start to get sexual I found out that she had waited longer to get physical with me than she did in the past two relationships. She is still a virgin, so I could still be special in that regard but idk. (Sorry if that makes me sound immature).

I was hurt when I first heard this because I did everything to make her feel comfortable. I told her I wouldn't let that upset me so I never brought it up again. But to be honest, it still bothers me. Now, also I am about to stay with her parents for the weekend. It made me feel special at first but now I also know that I wasn't the first one to do that, and it also took me longer.

I know that it is slightly ridiculous for me to get hung up on this stuff but my girlfriend isn't a very expressive person to begin with so I, being stupid, base her affection towards me off her actions. Unfortunately it's lead me to be a somewhat insecure and jealous boyfriend, even though I do my best to hide it.
Please help! I don't know how to get over this.
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girlfriend waited longer to be intimate than previous boyfriends, despite me trying to make her feel special.
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So I've been dating my girlfriend for almost 6 months now but the problem is I just don't feel like I mean as much to her as she does to me. At the beginning of our relationship I caught on that she was prude/had trouble being intimate and I expressed that I would wait until she was ready. Months later when things finally did start to get sexual I found out that she had waited longer to get physical with me than she did in the past two relationships. She is still a virgin, so I could still be special in that regard but idk. (Sorry if that makes me sound immature).

I was hurt when I first heard this because I did everything to make her feel comfortable. I told her I wouldn't let that upset me so I never brought it up again. But to be honest, it still bothers me. Now, also I am about to stay with her parents for the weekend. It made me feel special at first but now I also know that I wasn't the first one to do that, and it also took me longer.

I know that it is slightly ridiculous for me to get hung up on this stuff but my girlfriend isn't a very expressive person to begin with so I, being stupid, base her affection towards me off her actions. Unfortunately it's lead me to be a somewhat insecure and jealous boyfriend, even though I do my best to hide it.
Please help! I don't know how to get over this.
user
Girlfriend was more genital than usual when we first started dating, now I feel sort of insecure/jealous
assistant