I have been with my girlfriend of 3.5 years and we have been in a long distance relationship for less than 2 weeks.  I live in Socal and she lives in Norcal.  It takes me 4 to 5 hours to drive to see her. 

This weekend, I was suppose to drive up north to see her.  However on Friday morning, she called me and told me not to go up there because of the bad weather conditions and I will go up the next weekend.  

With my weekend plans scrap, I decided to go to San Diego from LA to visit my friend who I have not seen for some time.  I told her later in the day about it and she gets angry because I did not buy a plane ticket to go see her.  I do not have the financial means to do so.  She basically thinks I did not prioritize her.  

So at 9PM, she called me and demanded me to be up in Norcal in the morning or else she will break-up with me.  With that threat, I decided to ignore her phone calls.  I don't know what to do or how to respond to her if she calls me again.  What should I do?
user
Long distance girlfriend of 3.5 years doesn't want me to visit her in Norcal because she got pissed off and threatened to break-up with me over non-payment of an airfare.
assistant
I have been with my girlfriend of 3.5 years and we have been in a long distance relationship for less than 2 weeks.  I live in Socal and she lives in Norcal.  It takes me 4 to 5 hours to drive to see her. 

This weekend, I was suppose to drive up north to see her.  However on Friday morning, she called me and told me not to go up there because of the bad weather conditions and I will go up the next weekend.  

With my weekend plans scrap, I decided to go to San Diego from LA to visit my friend who I have not seen for some time.  I told her later in the day about it and she gets angry because I did not buy a plane ticket to go see her.  I do not have the financial means to do so.  She basically thinks I did not prioritize her.  

So at 9PM, she called me and demanded me to be up in Norcal in the morning or else she will break-up with me.  With that threat, I decided to ignore her phone calls.  I don't know what to do or how to respond to her if she calls me again.  What should I do?
user
LDR girlfriend makes me feel awful when I decide to ignore her phone calls, etc and threatens to break-up with me if she gets angry. What should I do/say to
assistant