My girlfriend and I had a talk a little over a month ago about our future and if it will work. It did not end well. I kind of "blew up" on her, from what she says, and now she is convinced it will not work out in the long term. 

From the beginning I was kind of iffy on being with her because we had different beliefs. She views herself as a  Christian Scientist and I view myself as an Atheist. Her belief is that sickness is merely and illusion and can be corrected by prayer alone. She dislikes that I rely on medicine and science to cure my ailments. So, that is where our future comes into play. I want to vaccinate and take our future kids to the doctor and she does not (unless they are really sick). Her argument is that her family does not vaccinate and they are fine, so why should she inject her kids with diseases so they do not get those diseases? I try explaining to her, she has researched vaccinations, but she still thinks it is stupid. 

In addition, she claims we are not compatible because we do not share similar interests. She watches TV with her dad, and reads books (vampire, erotica, sci-fi). I reddit and play video games. We met in college and we are in the same profession. We go to events and do other activities and when do we have fun together. My problems with her is she is openly racist and classist (her familiy is wealthy and she looks down on poor people, I grew up poor)

I have suggested we see a relationship counselor, but she thinks the belief issues cannot be fixed, so she thinks a counselor would be of no assistance. She is afraid we will do nothing but argue and she is strongly against divorce, primarily because her parents are divorced.

She is a beautiful girl and she is very smart (other than the beliefs thing IMO). I love multiple things about her and she loves me too, but the healthcare issue is a major problem that she thinks is unfixable unless one of us gives in to the other, but that would be going against our morals.
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girlfriend is a Christian Scientist, and I am
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My girlfriend and I had a talk a little over a month ago about our future and if it will work. It did not end well. I kind of "blew up" on her, from what she says, and now she is convinced it will not work out in the long term. 

From the beginning I was kind of iffy on being with her because we had different beliefs. She views herself as a  Christian Scientist and I view myself as an Atheist. Her belief is that sickness is merely and illusion and can be corrected by prayer alone. She dislikes that I rely on medicine and science to cure my ailments. So, that is where our future comes into play. I want to vaccinate and take our future kids to the doctor and she does not (unless they are really sick). Her argument is that her family does not vaccinate and they are fine, so why should she inject her kids with diseases so they do not get those diseases? I try explaining to her, she has researched vaccinations, but she still thinks it is stupid. 

In addition, she claims we are not compatible because we do not share similar interests. She watches TV with her dad, and reads books (vampire, erotica, sci-fi). I reddit and play video games. We met in college and we are in the same profession. We go to events and do other activities and when do we have fun together. My problems with her is she is openly racist and classist (her familiy is wealthy and she looks down on poor people, I grew up poor)

I have suggested we see a relationship counselor, but she thinks the belief issues cannot be fixed, so she thinks a counselor would be of no assistance. She is afraid we will do nothing but argue and she is strongly against divorce, primarily because her parents are divorced.

She is a beautiful girl and she is very smart (other than the beliefs thing IMO). I love multiple things about her and she loves me too, but the healthcare issue is a major problem that she thinks is unfixable unless one of us gives in to the other, but that would be going against our morals.
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I am an Atheist, GF is Christian Scientist
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