I've never done anything like this before, so bear with me, as this is all very new to me.

I've had this friend for a very long time, spanning from elementary school, all up until about a year ago.  Last March, I came to her seeking help because I was struggling with mild depression.  It was so amazing to finally have a friend to speak to, and it was nice to get it off my chest once and for all.  Well, after I told her, our friendship immediately deteriorated, and we haven't really spoken about it at all.  Up until last night.

We have a group text with a couple other friends, but it isn't used too much.  Whenever it was used, I said my obligatory hello, and kept it on the down low.  Well last night the group started chatting again, wanting to hang out because it is currently winter break.  Well my good friend texted me individually, which led to me stating I was upset with the fact that our friendship crumbled, and more over upset with her, because she really did nothing in my time of woe.  

I go on to learn that she didn't have a great year either, and that was one of the reasons we drifted apart.  I am torn.  I feel so selfish that I expected her to really be the rock I needed, but also disgusted in myself I never really thought that she could be going through rough times as well.  A couple walls of texts later, we come to conclusion that we both messed up, and are both to blame for our falling out.  It just doesn't feel right.  Whatever friendship we had left is now even more unstable, and I think she is really mad and/or upset with me now.  All while I feel lost on what to do.  I really, really care about this friend.  I just don't know how to get things back to normal, if it can even get back to normal.  

Thank you.
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Had a rocky
assistant
I've never done anything like this before, so bear with me, as this is all very new to me.

I've had this friend for a very long time, spanning from elementary school, all up until about a year ago.  Last March, I came to her seeking help because I was struggling with mild depression.  It was so amazing to finally have a friend to speak to, and it was nice to get it off my chest once and for all.  Well, after I told her, our friendship immediately deteriorated, and we haven't really spoken about it at all.  Up until last night.

We have a group text with a couple other friends, but it isn't used too much.  Whenever it was used, I said my obligatory hello, and kept it on the down low.  Well last night the group started chatting again, wanting to hang out because it is currently winter break.  Well my good friend texted me individually, which led to me stating I was upset with the fact that our friendship crumbled, and more over upset with her, because she really did nothing in my time of woe.  

I go on to learn that she didn't have a great year either, and that was one of the reasons we drifted apart.  I am torn.  I feel so selfish that I expected her to really be the rock I needed, but also disgusted in myself I never really thought that she could be going through rough times as well.  A couple walls of texts later, we come to conclusion that we both messed up, and are both to blame for our falling out.  It just doesn't feel right.  Whatever friendship we had left is now even more unstable, and I think she is really mad and/or upset with me now.  All while I feel lost on what to do.  I really, really care about this friend.  I just don't know how to get things back to normal, if it can even get back to normal.  

Thank you.
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Fell out with
assistant