When I met my boyfriend and we first starting dating I had a small gut feeling that he was gay, or at least had some interest in guys. But we went on to have great, regular sex and we both fell head over heels for each other so I thought I must have been wrong. 

My boyfriend is socially anxious, a bit of a people pleaser, and so sometimes he doesn't tell me the truth for fear of hurting my feelings. 

He got hideously drunk last night and I was stone cold sober, our conversation went like this:

Him: 'I think I should be on alan cars chatty man'

Me: 'why?'

Him: 'because I'm gay'

Me: 'what?'

Him: 'well Adam (our friend) looked hot today when he took his shirt off. He is really well built, I wish I looked like that. Don't you think he looked hot? I bet a lot of women would rather sleep with him than me'

Me: 'not really, he isn't my type. So would you sleep with adam?'

Him: 'no'

Me: 'would you give him a blowjob?'

Him: 'no, i dont think I could'

Me: 'would you let him give you a blowjob?'

Him: 'yeah, maybe. I think he would be quite good in bed'

Me: 'I don't think so, he would probably be quite selfish'

I'm not sure what to think of this? I haven't spoken to him yet (he's still asleep) and I'm not sure if I should bring it up any further. How would he manage to get turned on seeing me naked if he was gay? How would we manage to have sex so often if he was gay? Maybe he's bisexual. Do I ask him when he is sober?
user
Talking to boyfriend whilst drunk, he said he was gay and that another man looked hot. Not sure
assistant
When I met my boyfriend and we first starting dating I had a small gut feeling that he was gay, or at least had some interest in guys. But we went on to have great, regular sex and we both fell head over heels for each other so I thought I must have been wrong. 

My boyfriend is socially anxious, a bit of a people pleaser, and so sometimes he doesn't tell me the truth for fear of hurting my feelings. 

He got hideously drunk last night and I was stone cold sober, our conversation went like this:

Him: 'I think I should be on alan cars chatty man'

Me: 'why?'

Him: 'because I'm gay'

Me: 'what?'

Him: 'well Adam (our friend) looked hot today when he took his shirt off. He is really well built, I wish I looked like that. Don't you think he looked hot? I bet a lot of women would rather sleep with him than me'

Me: 'not really, he isn't my type. So would you sleep with adam?'

Him: 'no'

Me: 'would you give him a blowjob?'

Him: 'no, i dont think I could'

Me: 'would you let him give you a blowjob?'

Him: 'yeah, maybe. I think he would be quite good in bed'

Me: 'I don't think so, he would probably be quite selfish'

I'm not sure what to think of this? I haven't spoken to him yet (he's still asleep) and I'm not sure if I should bring it up any further. How would he manage to get turned on seeing me naked if he was gay? How would we manage to have sex so often if he was gay? Maybe he's bisexual. Do I ask him when he is sober?
user
Boyfriend doesn't know if he is gay, I don't know if I should bring it up to him.
assistant