This might be a bit long, but I need some serious advice. My ex and I have been on and off for a couple years. When she has a BF she wants nothing to do with me it seems, but when she is single she starts to talk to me again.

Recently we started talking again and hanging out. She claims she wants to get back together, but she seems to make a lot of excuses when we try and make plans to hang out. I do love this girl and we have been through a lot, but it feels like she is a different person now.  Part of me wants to work things out with her and the other part wants me to have her out of my life.

Basically, how do you tell yourself that she's no good for you? Or do I try and rekindle an old romance and hope for the best? I just cant decide on my own and would like to hear what some of you think and hear some of your advice.
user
ex and
assistant
This might be a bit long, but I need some serious advice. My ex and I have been on and off for a couple years. When she has a BF she wants nothing to do with me it seems, but when she is single she starts to talk to me again.

Recently we started talking again and hanging out. She claims she wants to get back together, but she seems to make a lot of excuses when we try and make plans to hang out. I do love this girl and we have been through a lot, but it feels like she is a different person now.  Part of me wants to work things out with her and the other part wants me to have her out of my life.

Basically, how do you tell yourself that she's no good for you? Or do I try and rekindle an old romance and hope for the best? I just cant decide on my own and would like to hear what some of you think and hear some of your advice.
user
ex wanted
assistant