This may be a long and unraveling story, but here it goes:

I have a friend who I know was cheated on by his girlfriend. Then later he caught her sending dirty pictures to the person she had cheated on him with. It is my understanding he caught her by means that didn't involve him going through her phone, but messages came to her phone as he was next to it, and her phone being an iPhone, it displays part of the message when the text arrives. He approached his girlfriend about the texts/pictures and I'm not sure what she told him, it was between them. They seem to be working things out, and she has cut off communication with the "other guy."

However, I know she did not tell her boyfriend ALL of the truth, and he may have no idea that she actually slept with this other person. I find her lack of telling him the complete truth to show that it's possible that she never will tell him. I consider them both friends, though I haven't known them very long. I've actually known her longer than he, but duration of friendship isn't always testament to how strong a bond is. I think he is a great guy, and the longer it takes her to tell him, the more it will hurt him and I don't like to see my friends hurt.

It seems like the girl wants to just keep lying because she can continue her relationship. She says "they" are working through their problems. But I don't understand how "they" could be working through their problems if "she" is the only one who really knows what the problem is. I have until today tried to convince Friend A that she should tell Friend B, but to no avail. At this point Friend A has removed and blocked me from Facebook, and refuses to talk to me, and we have another friend (Friend C, if you will) hanging in the limbs possibly about to be excommunicated from Friend A as well. Friend C has tried convincing Friend A to tell, but to no avail as well.

So, do I tell Friend B? Do I let him find out on his own knowing that Friend A may never tell him? I'm stuck in a shitty situation here.
user
I don't know what to do about my best friend who may have been cheated on and may not trust him.
assistant
This may be a long and unraveling story, but here it goes:

I have a friend who I know was cheated on by his girlfriend. Then later he caught her sending dirty pictures to the person she had cheated on him with. It is my understanding he caught her by means that didn't involve him going through her phone, but messages came to her phone as he was next to it, and her phone being an iPhone, it displays part of the message when the text arrives. He approached his girlfriend about the texts/pictures and I'm not sure what she told him, it was between them. They seem to be working things out, and she has cut off communication with the "other guy."

However, I know she did not tell her boyfriend ALL of the truth, and he may have no idea that she actually slept with this other person. I find her lack of telling him the complete truth to show that it's possible that she never will tell him. I consider them both friends, though I haven't known them very long. I've actually known her longer than he, but duration of friendship isn't always testament to how strong a bond is. I think he is a great guy, and the longer it takes her to tell him, the more it will hurt him and I don't like to see my friends hurt.

It seems like the girl wants to just keep lying because she can continue her relationship. She says "they" are working through their problems. But I don't understand how "they" could be working through their problems if "she" is the only one who really knows what the problem is. I have until today tried to convince Friend A that she should tell Friend B, but to no avail. At this point Friend A has removed and blocked me from Facebook, and refuses to talk to me, and we have another friend (Friend C, if you will) hanging in the limbs possibly about to be excommunicated from Friend A as well. Friend C has tried convincing Friend A to tell, but to no avail as well.

So, do I tell Friend B? Do I let him find out on his own knowing that Friend A may never tell him? I'm stuck in a shitty situation here.
user
Friend cheated on his girlfriend and didn't tell his boyfriend, and I feel like I have no option but to let
assistant