So my ex (22f) and i (22m) were together for nearly 5 years and I thought we would end up together- granted, we each wanted different things in our relationship.

Towards the end, the sex sucked, she was rarely, if ever, into it. It was all about me supporting her over everything- she could have daily breakdowns, and it was like I was not allowed to. It was a bad relationship, but I loved her. Unfortunately, a lot of this was due to her anxiety she never bothered to deal with. We had to do long distance, and she started hanging out with this dude, let's call him Dick, he's kind of a bum.

We broke up 5-6 weeks ago, and I was doing fine- I've been working out like crazy, lost some weight, moving out west to work in film/tv in LA. A few days ago, I got a text from her. She says she needs to tell me something and she needs me not to hate her for it- she's started dating Dick. 

I lost it. I cut her out of my life completely even though we agreed to try to stay friends. I've been just depressed for days now. Like, worse than the initial breakup. I don't know what to do.

I joined okcupid, but even the chicks that have a high percentage compatibility with me wont return my friendly messages. It's like I'm completely unattractive- at least that's how I feel.
user
Ex of 5 years dating new guy,
assistant
So my ex (22f) and i (22m) were together for nearly 5 years and I thought we would end up together- granted, we each wanted different things in our relationship.

Towards the end, the sex sucked, she was rarely, if ever, into it. It was all about me supporting her over everything- she could have daily breakdowns, and it was like I was not allowed to. It was a bad relationship, but I loved her. Unfortunately, a lot of this was due to her anxiety she never bothered to deal with. We had to do long distance, and she started hanging out with this dude, let's call him Dick, he's kind of a bum.

We broke up 5-6 weeks ago, and I was doing fine- I've been working out like crazy, lost some weight, moving out west to work in film/tv in LA. A few days ago, I got a text from her. She says she needs to tell me something and she needs me not to hate her for it- she's started dating Dick. 

I lost it. I cut her out of my life completely even though we agreed to try to stay friends. I've been just depressed for days now. Like, worse than the initial breakup. I don't know what to do.

I joined okcupid, but even the chicks that have a high percentage compatibility with me wont return my friendly messages. It's like I'm completely unattractive- at least that's how I feel.
user
ex dating again after 5 years of
assistant