I (18/f) have been seeing a guy (20/m) for 2.5 months and I think he's lost interest. This isn't me whining about that in particular... or even trying to whine at all. I just feel sorta sad about it. I wasn't in love with him and I wasn't particularly 'physically' attached, it just felt like it could go somewhere nice. 

Things were going really well but we hardly saw each other so it was hard to 'keep up'. I think it might be done. On the other hand, he could call tomorrow and want to say hi again. I don't know, that's how it has been for a while. Basically I'm in a weird limbo and I'm not sure if it would be better just to discontinue things with him even though I like him a lot. I feel a little clingy/chasing-him at this point too.

I'm not sure at this point if I keep calling/waiting for him to call. He seemed genuinely sad that we couldn't hang out but who knows through texts/phone.

Who knows guys. Anyway, regardless of what I do next, which you can feel free to give me advice on, HOW DO I CHEER UP ABOUT ALL OF THIS? 

I am not as near-sighted as all this b.s. makes me seem; I understand that in the near future I will probably not care that much about all of this but damn it hurts right now. 
How do YOU ease your mind about someone? I don't necessarily want to refocus. This is the first crush I've had in a looong time and not for lack of trying. 

So I came to reddit because I love you guys.

Throwaway account obviously because it's on this subreddit but I am a frequent user so treat me well please!
user
I'm in a limbo where I'm uncertain about the relationship's status. I would like to cheer up about it and
assistant
I (18/f) have been seeing a guy (20/m) for 2.5 months and I think he's lost interest. This isn't me whining about that in particular... or even trying to whine at all. I just feel sorta sad about it. I wasn't in love with him and I wasn't particularly 'physically' attached, it just felt like it could go somewhere nice. 

Things were going really well but we hardly saw each other so it was hard to 'keep up'. I think it might be done. On the other hand, he could call tomorrow and want to say hi again. I don't know, that's how it has been for a while. Basically I'm in a weird limbo and I'm not sure if it would be better just to discontinue things with him even though I like him a lot. I feel a little clingy/chasing-him at this point too.

I'm not sure at this point if I keep calling/waiting for him to call. He seemed genuinely sad that we couldn't hang out but who knows through texts/phone.

Who knows guys. Anyway, regardless of what I do next, which you can feel free to give me advice on, HOW DO I CHEER UP ABOUT ALL OF THIS? 

I am not as near-sighted as all this b.s. makes me seem; I understand that in the near future I will probably not care that much about all of this but damn it hurts right now. 
How do YOU ease your mind about someone? I don't necessarily want to refocus. This is the first crush I've had in a looong time and not for lack of trying. 

So I came to reddit because I love you guys.

Throwaway account obviously because it's on this subreddit but I am a frequent user so treat me well please!
user
Not in love with this guy I've been seeing for 2.5 months, but I'm sad about it.
assistant