My whole world is spinning right now. I feel like I can't breathe. I've been seeing this great girl for about a month now. And it's been so great. She has taken me out of my comfort zone and I have taken her out of hers. I'm in love for the first time of my life.

The last couple of days she's been very distant though. Haven't gotten in touch like she normally does. Hasn't replied to my messages. I've been putting it off as my insecurities acting up. I invited her out Friday, but she was busy. Ok sure, I get that. I didn't go out yesterday (Saturday) and this morning a friend (Mike) messaged me saying he saw my mate (lets call him Anders) and the girl (Claire) out together last night.

Mike was in a club we frequent and Anders and Claire walked in. They spent an hour or so there together. Then Mikes party decided to leave to go somewhere else but Anders and Claire decided to stay.

Again I might be over reacting here. But it just seems odd that they would go out together without even trying to contact me and ask if I wanted to come along. I honestly think they ended up together last night. And this is crushing me. I've tried calling Anders but he hasn't picked up. I don't think I could even stand to hear Claires voice right now. It would just break me. What do I do?
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Girlfriend (25F) who I'm in love with (28M) might have cheated
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My whole world is spinning right now. I feel like I can't breathe. I've been seeing this great girl for about a month now. And it's been so great. She has taken me out of my comfort zone and I have taken her out of hers. I'm in love for the first time of my life.

The last couple of days she's been very distant though. Haven't gotten in touch like she normally does. Hasn't replied to my messages. I've been putting it off as my insecurities acting up. I invited her out Friday, but she was busy. Ok sure, I get that. I didn't go out yesterday (Saturday) and this morning a friend (Mike) messaged me saying he saw my mate (lets call him Anders) and the girl (Claire) out together last night.

Mike was in a club we frequent and Anders and Claire walked in. They spent an hour or so there together. Then Mikes party decided to leave to go somewhere else but Anders and Claire decided to stay.

Again I might be over reacting here. But it just seems odd that they would go out together without even trying to contact me and ask if I wanted to come along. I honestly think they ended up together last night. And this is crushing me. I've tried calling Anders but he hasn't picked up. I don't think I could even stand to hear Claires voice right now. It would just break me. What do I do?
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Friend and short term GF went to a club together without
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