Myself and my girlfriend have been together a little over 3 years and have been living together for most of that time. For about the past year we have been drifting apart. We both work long hours and don't get to spend that much time together. Lack of intimacy is also a problem, admittedly on both our behalves. She pictures us married while I have not ever pictured that.

A while ago I confided all of this to a very close friend of mine, who advised me to talk openly with GF about it and end things if that's what I wanted. I know that's good advice but I've been a coward and have not mustered up the courage to do it. She can be extremely emotional and I'm worried how she would react.

Now just to complicate things even more, I was traveling abroad a short time ago and met a wonderful local woman [27F]. We spent several days together and there turned out to be a lot of intimacy, some kissing but no sex. I should note that up until this time I was 100% faithful to GF.

Now I'm back in my home country and I have been talking to the foreign woman every day. The way I feel about her is hard to describe, but I'm 100% sure it's more intense than I ever felt when I started dating GF. She has told me she wishes I never left and I agreed with her. This has just further encouraged me to end things with GF, whether or not I'll even see the foreign woman again or not.

I'm very interested to see what you guys think and any comments or advice you may have.
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Been with GF for 3 years, want to
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Myself and my girlfriend have been together a little over 3 years and have been living together for most of that time. For about the past year we have been drifting apart. We both work long hours and don't get to spend that much time together. Lack of intimacy is also a problem, admittedly on both our behalves. She pictures us married while I have not ever pictured that.

A while ago I confided all of this to a very close friend of mine, who advised me to talk openly with GF about it and end things if that's what I wanted. I know that's good advice but I've been a coward and have not mustered up the courage to do it. She can be extremely emotional and I'm worried how she would react.

Now just to complicate things even more, I was traveling abroad a short time ago and met a wonderful local woman [27F]. We spent several days together and there turned out to be a lot of intimacy, some kissing but no sex. I should note that up until this time I was 100% faithful to GF.

Now I'm back in my home country and I have been talking to the foreign woman every day. The way I feel about her is hard to describe, but I'm 100% sure it's more intense than I ever felt when I started dating GF. She has told me she wishes I never left and I agreed with her. This has just further encouraged me to end things with GF, whether or not I'll even see the foreign woman again or not.

I'm very interested to see what you guys think and any comments or advice you may have.
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Unsure about relationship with GF, met a new
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