We agreed to be exclusive about 4 months ago when we started dating. As time went on, I realized we didn't exactly have a "label," but we'd been referring to each other as bf/gf. 

A few weeks ago I brought this up, told her I consider her my girlfriend, and said we should make it official. She liked the idea and said she had been calling me her boyfriend too. 

A few days later when we were hanging out, I said "hey, we haven't changed our facebooks yet, let's do it together." She said she wanted to wait to post some pictures of us and quickly changed the subject, and I forgot about it. 

So a week or so went by after she posted pictures of us and last night I said "hey you haven't accepted my relationship on facebook, everything okay?" She said everything was good and that she was just "soaking it all in" and not to worry, but she would accept it "when the time felt right."  

Reddit, I'm not seriously worried, but I do feel a little strange about her nonchalant attitude, because it's contrary to her pro activeness in all other areas of our relationship. Also, it's a little weird explaining when friends and family bug me everyday with the "Why isn't it on facebook yet?" ha. relatives. 

What's the best advice you have on this?
user
Gf does not want to post our relationship on facebook, said anything was okay. Ask me anything.
assistant
We agreed to be exclusive about 4 months ago when we started dating. As time went on, I realized we didn't exactly have a "label," but we'd been referring to each other as bf/gf. 

A few weeks ago I brought this up, told her I consider her my girlfriend, and said we should make it official. She liked the idea and said she had been calling me her boyfriend too. 

A few days later when we were hanging out, I said "hey, we haven't changed our facebooks yet, let's do it together." She said she wanted to wait to post some pictures of us and quickly changed the subject, and I forgot about it. 

So a week or so went by after she posted pictures of us and last night I said "hey you haven't accepted my relationship on facebook, everything okay?" She said everything was good and that she was just "soaking it all in" and not to worry, but she would accept it "when the time felt right."  

Reddit, I'm not seriously worried, but I do feel a little strange about her nonchalant attitude, because it's contrary to her pro activeness in all other areas of our relationship. Also, it's a little weird explaining when friends and family bug me everyday with the "Why isn't it on facebook yet?" ha. relatives. 

What's the best advice you have on this?
user
GF and I haven't made it "fb official," told her I'm her boyfriend, she said she would accept
assistant