I met this girl online about a few months ago. We clicked instantly and after a few weeks were talking constantly. We're both from opposite ends of US so weren't able to meet but we skyped almost daily. I quickly fell for her. 

She was always upfront about having a boyfriend, but as time went on we'd joke and flirt and tell each other stories about our pasts and our hopes and dreams. I got to the stage where I knew her completely as a person, and she knew me too. I thought she was my soulmate. I knew she was having issues with her boyfriend and when I asked she said she was thinking of breaking it off, but was reluctant as she didn't like change and hoped it would just work out. She's an optimist like that. But from the things she said, their relationship had just fizzled out. 

A few weeks ago we were having a late night deep conversation and I told her that I was falling for her. She told me she cared for me to, but timing wasn't exactly great. I gave her suggestions on what she could do when she broke up with her boyfriend. Accommodation ideas and things like that. She was quiet and distant, not her usual self. I think she was just afraid of being alone. 

A few days later I told her I loved her, and asked her if she loved me to. We were skyping and she nodded. Our conversation ended shortly after and she promised me we'd discuss to more tomorrow. 

I got a message later that night saying that she couldn't do this. She said she cared about me but felt some of her feelings might be whatever she thought would make me happy. I tried to talk to her more but she said she didn't think we should speak anymore and blocked me on Skype. 

As far as I know, she is still with her boyfriend. Do you think I should tell him about our emotional affair? It seems unfair to him that she cares about me but is staying with him because she is scared. Any advice?
user
Had an emotional affair with a girl 2500 miles away, she may have still be with
assistant
I met this girl online about a few months ago. We clicked instantly and after a few weeks were talking constantly. We're both from opposite ends of US so weren't able to meet but we skyped almost daily. I quickly fell for her. 

She was always upfront about having a boyfriend, but as time went on we'd joke and flirt and tell each other stories about our pasts and our hopes and dreams. I got to the stage where I knew her completely as a person, and she knew me too. I thought she was my soulmate. I knew she was having issues with her boyfriend and when I asked she said she was thinking of breaking it off, but was reluctant as she didn't like change and hoped it would just work out. She's an optimist like that. But from the things she said, their relationship had just fizzled out. 

A few weeks ago we were having a late night deep conversation and I told her that I was falling for her. She told me she cared for me to, but timing wasn't exactly great. I gave her suggestions on what she could do when she broke up with her boyfriend. Accommodation ideas and things like that. She was quiet and distant, not her usual self. I think she was just afraid of being alone. 

A few days later I told her I loved her, and asked her if she loved me to. We were skyping and she nodded. Our conversation ended shortly after and she promised me we'd discuss to more tomorrow. 

I got a message later that night saying that she couldn't do this. She said she cared about me but felt some of her feelings might be whatever she thought would make me happy. I tried to talk to her more but she said she didn't think we should speak anymore and blocked me on Skype. 

As far as I know, she is still with her boyfriend. Do you think I should tell him about our emotional affair? It seems unfair to him that she cares about me but is staying with him because she is scared. Any advice?
user
Had an emotional affair with a girl who has a BF. She broke it off but
assistant