Long story short. We have been together for 8+ years. I have been the only dad the boys[10, 12] know. She "cheated" over the phone with her ex from 25+ ago. I found out, she admitted it, found out they kept talking, told her he needed to go away while we worked on things, she said no and has continued to hide that she is talking to him.

At this point I don't feel that she is committed to working on our relationship if she keeps talking to him. I feel I deserve to be happy and in a relationship that I can trust. My big problem is that the boys are like my own. 

I need suggestions on how to constructively explain my feelings about her talking to him and what to do about the boys if I have to end the relationship.
user
My girlfriend cheated on me. She keeps talking to her
assistant
Long story short. We have been together for 8+ years. I have been the only dad the boys[10, 12] know. She "cheated" over the phone with her ex from 25+ ago. I found out, she admitted it, found out they kept talking, told her he needed to go away while we worked on things, she said no and has continued to hide that she is talking to him.

At this point I don't feel that she is committed to working on our relationship if she keeps talking to him. I feel I deserve to be happy and in a relationship that I can trust. My big problem is that the boys are like my own. 

I need suggestions on how to constructively explain my feelings about her talking to him and what to do about the boys if I have to end the relationship.
user
Am I overreacting being upset that my ex is talking
assistant