EDIT: in case anyone cares. I went to hang out with her and some mutual friends in their 30s, husband and wife. Apparently my friends been fucking the husband and i had the Joy of hearing the, in the act last night. Crushed cant even describe me right now. Shes not my gf so i cant complain but i feel....bad.

I've been friends with this girl since highschool. It was the kind of superficial friendship where we talked about school and gossip but didnt really get to know each other. we went to prom together and i went off to college. we only talked periodically while i was there. 

I returned home the summer of 2012 and we hung out a decent bit and got to actually know each other, to the point she calls me her best friend. she's really cool and I expressed how awesome she was as a friend. I left for college again and we continued to talk to the point it escalated that she'll call me babe and say she loves me sometimes. It doesnt feel like a friendly "i love you." she sends winky faces and hearts. However she mentioned she just wants to have casual sex (didnt specifically say with me) and that she never had a bf so shes not to pressed to get in a relationship now. That blew my mind because shes the quiet, shy type. I felt she was lacking in the relationship department but i had no idea she had the capacity to just go around and have sex with whoever. 

Im back home for this lovely 2014 summer and she's telling me about her times with some guy shes been having sex with. Yet shes still calling me babe and saying she loves me. To maintain the friendship i reciprocate everything in hopes that her real intention will reveal itself. i just dont want to pursue her for sex and screw up our friendship because she really is an awesome friend outside of love and sex issues. Like if she could commit to a single relationship i would date her 100%. Shes always been there for me even when i didnt really know that much about her back in highschool.
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just had sex with a girl i've been friends with for a few years. she wants
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EDIT: in case anyone cares. I went to hang out with her and some mutual friends in their 30s, husband and wife. Apparently my friends been fucking the husband and i had the Joy of hearing the, in the act last night. Crushed cant even describe me right now. Shes not my gf so i cant complain but i feel....bad.

I've been friends with this girl since highschool. It was the kind of superficial friendship where we talked about school and gossip but didnt really get to know each other. we went to prom together and i went off to college. we only talked periodically while i was there. 

I returned home the summer of 2012 and we hung out a decent bit and got to actually know each other, to the point she calls me her best friend. she's really cool and I expressed how awesome she was as a friend. I left for college again and we continued to talk to the point it escalated that she'll call me babe and say she loves me sometimes. It doesnt feel like a friendly "i love you." she sends winky faces and hearts. However she mentioned she just wants to have casual sex (didnt specifically say with me) and that she never had a bf so shes not to pressed to get in a relationship now. That blew my mind because shes the quiet, shy type. I felt she was lacking in the relationship department but i had no idea she had the capacity to just go around and have sex with whoever. 

Im back home for this lovely 2014 summer and she's telling me about her times with some guy shes been having sex with. Yet shes still calling me babe and saying she loves me. To maintain the friendship i reciprocate everything in hopes that her real intention will reveal itself. i just dont want to pursue her for sex and screw up our friendship because she really is an awesome friend outside of love and sex issues. Like if she could commit to a single relationship i would date her 100%. Shes always been there for me even when i didnt really know that much about her back in highschool.
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how do i get this girl to stop being such an asshole?
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