To make a very long story short, I have known my ex-boyfriend for the past 3 years, and we've been romantically involved for basically that entire span. However, he's also been romantic with another woman during this time (I'll call her Sarah). Essentially, whenever one of us would get mad at him, he would just hook up with the other. Most people I know refer to him as a scumbag.

Anyway, Sarah and I despise each other. Finally I got my ex to be in an actual relationship with me last year, and that's when this girl seriously lost it. She ended up having serious psychological problems -- tried to punch me in the face on numerous occasions, would follow us into restaurants and scream at us, got arrested, and I had to file a restraining order against her (it's now expired)...

Bottom line: I really hate this girl. My ex and I both graduated from college and after a pretty tumultuous/distrustful relationship decided to amicably part ways (we're from opposite sides of the country). Coincidentally, Sarah got a job in his home city just as he was about to graduate!

Being the scumbag mooch my ex is, he is currently unemployed, and living with Sarah completely rent-free. She pays for everything. However, my ex and I still talk everyday, and completely spur of the moment I decided to visit him while Sarah was on a business trip. 

My visit with him was pretty intimate, he took me out, showed me around the city, and we did all the couple-y things we did when we were dating. I swore not to tell, but I really want to Sarah to find out. But I don't want it to be linked back to me.

I hate Sarah, and I hate that she thinks she "won" while my ex (whom she WORSHIPS) regularly cheats on her emotionally and physically. But I also want her to find out... because I think it's pretty scummy my ex thinks he can mooch off this girl and still mess around on the side. All in all, I think they're both wrong, and I want her to find out -- but how???
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I helped my ex cheat while his
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To make a very long story short, I have known my ex-boyfriend for the past 3 years, and we've been romantically involved for basically that entire span. However, he's also been romantic with another woman during this time (I'll call her Sarah). Essentially, whenever one of us would get mad at him, he would just hook up with the other. Most people I know refer to him as a scumbag.

Anyway, Sarah and I despise each other. Finally I got my ex to be in an actual relationship with me last year, and that's when this girl seriously lost it. She ended up having serious psychological problems -- tried to punch me in the face on numerous occasions, would follow us into restaurants and scream at us, got arrested, and I had to file a restraining order against her (it's now expired)...

Bottom line: I really hate this girl. My ex and I both graduated from college and after a pretty tumultuous/distrustful relationship decided to amicably part ways (we're from opposite sides of the country). Coincidentally, Sarah got a job in his home city just as he was about to graduate!

Being the scumbag mooch my ex is, he is currently unemployed, and living with Sarah completely rent-free. She pays for everything. However, my ex and I still talk everyday, and completely spur of the moment I decided to visit him while Sarah was on a business trip. 

My visit with him was pretty intimate, he took me out, showed me around the city, and we did all the couple-y things we did when we were dating. I swore not to tell, but I really want to Sarah to find out. But I don't want it to be linked back to me.

I hate Sarah, and I hate that she thinks she "won" while my ex (whom she WORSHIPS) regularly cheats on her emotionally and physically. But I also want her to find out... because I think it's pretty scummy my ex thinks he can mooch off this girl and still mess around on the side. All in all, I think they're both wrong, and I want her to find out -- but how???
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My ex-boyfriend and I have been dating
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