Like I said I need help. I've been talking to this girl for the summer. I feel as if she is out of my league and I'm truly blessed to have her.

The problem is that she is leaving for school on the 21st (about 3 hours away). Basically she is scared of commitment and doesn't want a boyfriend. Everything is good between us and that's what doesn't make sense. The sex is good. We are into the same things. We make each other happy.

She has never had a boyfriend and I think that is the problem. I think she is just scared. She doesn't know how it feels to be loved. And she isn't the type of girl to go out and have a bunch of one night stands so I don't think that's the problem with the whole commitment thing. She's stated multiple times that I did everything right and that if she did want a boyfriend I would be the one for her. She even told me the classic "its not you its me" line.

What can I do to make her think about it. How can I change her mind about the whole boyfriend thing? She's trying to fix what isn't broken and it's killing me. I'm crazy about this girl. What can I do, if anything?
user
Girl is scared of commitment. Afraid of the pain and commitment and heartbreak. How can I change her mind about it.
assistant
Like I said I need help. I've been talking to this girl for the summer. I feel as if she is out of my league and I'm truly blessed to have her.

The problem is that she is leaving for school on the 21st (about 3 hours away). Basically she is scared of commitment and doesn't want a boyfriend. Everything is good between us and that's what doesn't make sense. The sex is good. We are into the same things. We make each other happy.

She has never had a boyfriend and I think that is the problem. I think she is just scared. She doesn't know how it feels to be loved. And she isn't the type of girl to go out and have a bunch of one night stands so I don't think that's the problem with the whole commitment thing. She's stated multiple times that I did everything right and that if she did want a boyfriend I would be the one for her. She even told me the classic "its not you its me" line.

What can I do to make her think about it. How can I change her mind about the whole boyfriend thing? She's trying to fix what isn't broken and it's killing me. I'm crazy about this girl. What can I do, if anything?
user
Girl I have been talking to said she wants a boyfriend. I want her. She is scared of commitment. What can I do
assistant