My fiance's ex-girlfriend, with whom he has a child, lives in his parents house as their tenant. We have the child 70% of the time, she has him 30%, although this part is largely irrelevant. Basically, his parents charge her a fraction of what they could really get for the apartment, and they also help her with other bills.. They remain in touch with her despite the fact that her and my fiance have struggled in court over the last year; she used to threaten to withhold her son from my fiance; she harassed me via text at points; she didn't bring her child to school on ANY of her days last year (which is why they went to court and we now have more custody)... She causes a TON of problems in our lives, and yet his family continues to subsidize her. It feels very disrespectful as we are trying to create a new family together (including their grandson). Am I overreacting, or this is totally inappropriate?
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Am I justified in being so
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My fiance's ex-girlfriend, with whom he has a child, lives in his parents house as their tenant. We have the child 70% of the time, she has him 30%, although this part is largely irrelevant. Basically, his parents charge her a fraction of what they could really get for the apartment, and they also help her with other bills.. They remain in touch with her despite the fact that her and my fiance have struggled in court over the last year; she used to threaten to withhold her son from my fiance; she harassed me via text at points; she didn't bring her child to school on ANY of her days last year (which is why they went to court and we now have more custody)... She causes a TON of problems in our lives, and yet his family continues to subsidize her. It feels very disrespectful as we are trying to create a new family together (including their grandson). Am I overreacting, or this is totally inappropriate?
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Fiance's ex lives with his parents
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