We've been together for 3 years. He's been in jail the last 18 months and before that his mother died so he basically had nowhere to go. I wasn't comfortable with him just moving in and I didn't really want to deal with late nights or a party lifestyle even if it was just on the weekends. Amongst other things. But part of me was maybe willing to try because I loved him and I thought he loved me. He would say it all the time and that he missed me. I had suggested transitional housing programs also. I finally heard from him Sunday after a few weeks and he was mad that I spring the transitional housing on him. He said he was going with his "kid's mother" is exactly how he put it. I never even knew he had a kid's mother. He said he can't have kids at one point and then at another said he had one but never sees her. There was never any mention of a kid or a kid's mother even by his family when I talked with his mother or brother. I'm looking for closure in all this. Sometimes I'm fine and other times I'm not. I'm hurt that he made me believe I'm the only one. I was so faithful to him and I forgave him all the time when he would get mean and we got close over the years. I thought he would go into a program or back with his brother or a guy friend or something. How could he have kept this huge secret?
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Boyfriend of
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We've been together for 3 years. He's been in jail the last 18 months and before that his mother died so he basically had nowhere to go. I wasn't comfortable with him just moving in and I didn't really want to deal with late nights or a party lifestyle even if it was just on the weekends. Amongst other things. But part of me was maybe willing to try because I loved him and I thought he loved me. He would say it all the time and that he missed me. I had suggested transitional housing programs also. I finally heard from him Sunday after a few weeks and he was mad that I spring the transitional housing on him. He said he was going with his "kid's mother" is exactly how he put it. I never even knew he had a kid's mother. He said he can't have kids at one point and then at another said he had one but never sees her. There was never any mention of a kid or a kid's mother even by his family when I talked with his mother or brother. I'm looking for closure in all this. Sometimes I'm fine and other times I'm not. I'm hurt that he made me believe I'm the only one. I was so faithful to him and I forgave him all the time when he would get mean and we got close over the years. I thought he would go into a program or back with his brother or a guy friend or something. How could he have kept this huge secret?
user
boyfriend of
assistant