So I've been dating my current girlfriend for about 1 year and 6 months. About a month ago, she brought up the idea of having an open relationship. I was hesitant at first but then agreed. After a few days, I decided that I couldn't do it, and we were a little shaky for a week or so. I eventually broke up with her because I assumed that she wanted to move on but did not want to lose me as well. So we broke up and hung out a few days after, and I found out that she slept with another man while we were in the open relationship which was a period of literally a few days.

 I was devastated, but she was super honest and showed me her texts between him and her. She basically hung out with him and they ended up sleeping together. However, once I changed my mind, she immediately told him that they could not be more than friends and that she loves me and does not want to be with anyone other than myself. She felt terrible after it happened and even worse when she found out that I wasn't really okay with an open relationship.

 In all honesty, I should have just been real with myself and told her that I wasn't okay with it from the get go. Anyways, we were broken up for about two weeks, and we both realized that there was nothing wrong with our relationship but the recent events just made things weird. We are now trying to rebuild what we had, and I was wondering if anybody has advice as to how we should move forward. 

My biggest issue right now is trying to get over the fact that she slept with somebody else. She technically did not do anything wrong, and  I respect her  because she did not betray me, and her texts show that she was committed to me the whole time. Also, she told me that our time apart and her sleeping with somebody else made her realize that she is not interested in an open style relationship and truly only wants to be with me. Thank you for your time guys.
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my girlfriend slept with somebody else while we were in a short open relationship and I'm having a hard time getting over
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So I've been dating my current girlfriend for about 1 year and 6 months. About a month ago, she brought up the idea of having an open relationship. I was hesitant at first but then agreed. After a few days, I decided that I couldn't do it, and we were a little shaky for a week or so. I eventually broke up with her because I assumed that she wanted to move on but did not want to lose me as well. So we broke up and hung out a few days after, and I found out that she slept with another man while we were in the open relationship which was a period of literally a few days.

 I was devastated, but she was super honest and showed me her texts between him and her. She basically hung out with him and they ended up sleeping together. However, once I changed my mind, she immediately told him that they could not be more than friends and that she loves me and does not want to be with anyone other than myself. She felt terrible after it happened and even worse when she found out that I wasn't really okay with an open relationship.

 In all honesty, I should have just been real with myself and told her that I wasn't okay with it from the get go. Anyways, we were broken up for about two weeks, and we both realized that there was nothing wrong with our relationship but the recent events just made things weird. We are now trying to rebuild what we had, and I was wondering if anybody has advice as to how we should move forward. 

My biggest issue right now is trying to get over the fact that she slept with somebody else. She technically did not do anything wrong, and  I respect her  because she did not betray me, and her texts show that she was committed to me the whole time. Also, she told me that our time apart and her sleeping with somebody else made her realize that she is not interested in an open style relationship and truly only wants to be with me. Thank you for your time guys.
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Girlfriend of 1 year and 6 months had an open relationship with me for a few days, slept with another guy while
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