Hello, quick background my ex and I were together for 2 years and then I went to college. We made the long distance work, but it took its toll and by the end the year we were struggling to cope with not having the freedom to see each other. I broke up with him, hoping that doing so I was salvaging any possible friendship/relationship that might be in the future. But If i'm being completely honest I was young and scared that when he too went to college he would cheat on me or meet someone else. 
Its been a year or so, and I've got on with my life but I still think about him constantly, just wondering if on a day to day he's okay. 

We still chat but very rarely, which I think has been good for us to get some space.
Since we broke up he's become more involved in drugs and slept around. But I don't blame him for it we're not together.
But all my friends thinks he has hit rock bottom since we broke up, and the majority try laughing with me about how I dodged a bullet. 

I don't know what to do, I still love him. I can see what he's become and he's not the same man but I can't change how I feel.
The way I see it telling him how I feel is a lose-lose, he still loves me but we're different people now and it won't work or he doesn't feel the same and I'm heartbroken all over again.
user
still in love with my ex but have moved on. all my friends
assistant
Hello, quick background my ex and I were together for 2 years and then I went to college. We made the long distance work, but it took its toll and by the end the year we were struggling to cope with not having the freedom to see each other. I broke up with him, hoping that doing so I was salvaging any possible friendship/relationship that might be in the future. But If i'm being completely honest I was young and scared that when he too went to college he would cheat on me or meet someone else. 
Its been a year or so, and I've got on with my life but I still think about him constantly, just wondering if on a day to day he's okay. 

We still chat but very rarely, which I think has been good for us to get some space.
Since we broke up he's become more involved in drugs and slept around. But I don't blame him for it we're not together.
But all my friends thinks he has hit rock bottom since we broke up, and the majority try laughing with me about how I dodged a bullet. 

I don't know what to do, I still love him. I can see what he's become and he's not the same man but I can't change how I feel.
The way I see it telling him how I feel is a lose-lose, he still loves me but we're different people now and it won't work or he doesn't feel the same and I'm heartbroken all over again.
user
Still in love with ex but most my friends think he's gone to
assistant