I was in a LTR for 2.5 years with a girl I truly loved. In the end, for a variety of reasons, it didn't work out for us.

Then six months after breaking up with ex I hook up with the new girl. I don't think she compares to my ex in any way, except she's way more kinky in bed. So I go with the flow and develop a sexual relationship. 

She's extremely into me and sort of pushes me a bit to make it an official relationship. And then I sort of go along with that. But I still don't have any real butterflies in the stomach. Sometimes she even annoys me a bit, she can be a bit clingy.

Now I feel dishonest still being with her mainly for the sex as she clearly sees me as great long-term partner and wants me to meet all her family members. Her strong affection can even be quite annoying, constantly hanging from my arm whenever we go somewhere together and constantly looking at me with dreamy eyes and trying to kiss me when I'm busy doing other stuff, like having conversations with my friends.

I can't really see us long-term, though. I was expecting to feel differently, but I really don't think I will.

The thing is, I haven't really been showing many signs that I'm not really that into her as she is into me. So how do I break the news and just break up with her? She will be devastated and she won't understand at all. Is there a way to make it easier for her?

Also feel free to tell me if I'm an idiot.

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I'm seeing this girl for a long time, and we're both
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I was in a LTR for 2.5 years with a girl I truly loved. In the end, for a variety of reasons, it didn't work out for us.

Then six months after breaking up with ex I hook up with the new girl. I don't think she compares to my ex in any way, except she's way more kinky in bed. So I go with the flow and develop a sexual relationship. 

She's extremely into me and sort of pushes me a bit to make it an official relationship. And then I sort of go along with that. But I still don't have any real butterflies in the stomach. Sometimes she even annoys me a bit, she can be a bit clingy.

Now I feel dishonest still being with her mainly for the sex as she clearly sees me as great long-term partner and wants me to meet all her family members. Her strong affection can even be quite annoying, constantly hanging from my arm whenever we go somewhere together and constantly looking at me with dreamy eyes and trying to kiss me when I'm busy doing other stuff, like having conversations with my friends.

I can't really see us long-term, though. I was expecting to feel differently, but I really don't think I will.

The thing is, I haven't really been showing many signs that I'm not really that into her as she is into me. So how do I break the news and just break up with her? She will be devastated and she won't understand at all. Is there a way to make it easier for her?

Also feel free to tell me if I'm an idiot.

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Been seeing new girl for 2 months. Don't think I want
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