Preface: I'm living in Vancouver, WA and she lives back in CA. We met there, both born there, and I moved to take a job.

Predicament: Talked on the phone today, heard she had done a photo shoot for a local artists exhibit. Previously, she had been asked to do a music video for a band that involved full nudity and to go so far as people basically feeling her up. She declined, but I was still infuriated anyone would just come out and ask that question. I don't know who he is or if he was sincerely an artist looking for a model. It wasn't, to my knowledge, an erotic setting other than what she describes as a lingerie-esque top with booty shorts. She explained that it wasn't full nudity or anything to the extent of what I think it was.

 Instantly after hearing she did that, I became infuriated. I felt like someone had taken advantage of her which was clearly not the case. I felt like someone had taken something I hold very dearly to me and violated it. More or less, someone had seen what I only should see. 

I'm not claiming her as property, I understand it is her body and she will do whatever she pleases with it within the confines of a monogamous, committed relationship. She is not the type of person to be unfaithful nor does she just flash every passerby. She is modest in her own way. 

My questions to the reddit world is: why does it bring up such strong feelings? Why do I feel so...violated, if that's the correct term? How can I come to grips with it and let it pass? Why do things like this illicit these reactions and feelings?
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girlfriend did a photo shoot in lingerie, I became extremely upset, why do I feel this way, what is
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Preface: I'm living in Vancouver, WA and she lives back in CA. We met there, both born there, and I moved to take a job.

Predicament: Talked on the phone today, heard she had done a photo shoot for a local artists exhibit. Previously, she had been asked to do a music video for a band that involved full nudity and to go so far as people basically feeling her up. She declined, but I was still infuriated anyone would just come out and ask that question. I don't know who he is or if he was sincerely an artist looking for a model. It wasn't, to my knowledge, an erotic setting other than what she describes as a lingerie-esque top with booty shorts. She explained that it wasn't full nudity or anything to the extent of what I think it was.

 Instantly after hearing she did that, I became infuriated. I felt like someone had taken advantage of her which was clearly not the case. I felt like someone had taken something I hold very dearly to me and violated it. More or less, someone had seen what I only should see. 

I'm not claiming her as property, I understand it is her body and she will do whatever she pleases with it within the confines of a monogamous, committed relationship. She is not the type of person to be unfaithful nor does she just flash every passerby. She is modest in her own way. 

My questions to the reddit world is: why does it bring up such strong feelings? Why do I feel so...violated, if that's the correct term? How can I come to grips with it and let it pass? Why do things like this illicit these reactions and feelings?
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Girlfriend did a photoshoot. I felt violated, then angry. I think this is the wrong place for this kind
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