And it's totally unwarranted. I don't know why, but for the past several months ago it's just been gnawing at me. She's the kindest, most honest person I've ever met and has never done anything to break my trust. But in general, she is a much more outgoing, busy person than me and as a result we don't spend as much time with one another as other couples might because she's usually doing something. It's never been a problem, we're not clingy people and we even often go a day or two without seeing each other and it's always been fine. Our friend circles don't overlap whatsoever, so its really quite rare that we ever spend time with other people when we're with each other. It's always just her and me. But because I'm seemingly so distant from any aspect of her life that doesn't pertain to me, I feel like she could be a completely different person and I would never know. It's not that I have this need to be more involved in her life or anything, I just want to know what I can change about myself. She isn't the type of person who would cheat, and I don't believe that she would ever cheat on me, but these insecurities that I have are driving me mad. I know the problem is with me, so what can I do to fix my issues? I don't want to lose a great relationship just because of my idiotic doubts.
user
I have trust issues and
assistant
And it's totally unwarranted. I don't know why, but for the past several months ago it's just been gnawing at me. She's the kindest, most honest person I've ever met and has never done anything to break my trust. But in general, she is a much more outgoing, busy person than me and as a result we don't spend as much time with one another as other couples might because she's usually doing something. It's never been a problem, we're not clingy people and we even often go a day or two without seeing each other and it's always been fine. Our friend circles don't overlap whatsoever, so its really quite rare that we ever spend time with other people when we're with each other. It's always just her and me. But because I'm seemingly so distant from any aspect of her life that doesn't pertain to me, I feel like she could be a completely different person and I would never know. It's not that I have this need to be more involved in her life or anything, I just want to know what I can change about myself. She isn't the type of person who would cheat, and I don't believe that she would ever cheat on me, but these insecurities that I have are driving me mad. I know the problem is with me, so what can I do to fix my issues? I don't want to lose a great relationship just because of my idiotic doubts.
user
Girlfriend of three years is
assistant