I bought my girlfriend an iPad for Christmas. While she was at work, I turned it on to play with it for a bit. Already open in Safari was some sort of m+f porn. No problem there, except that on the rare occasion that I ask her if she looks at porn, she says no (if she does, I'm fine with it). But then it gets more interesting. 

I open the bookmarks folder, which was showing browsing history, and I notice searches for celebrity women who are notorious for wearing skimpy clothing/bikinis. At this point I didn't think too much of it. But something told me I should look around more. 

I put down the iPad, went over and opened the closet, which contains a box that I know she keeps some porno DVDs in (that she claims she doesn't watch anymore). Right there, sitting on top, were a stack of Playboy magazines.

A little history about us - we've been in a steady relationship for over 4 years.  We have our share of arguments/disagreements, but overall we get along. Sex is decent, although somewhat declining over the years in both quality and amount (down to 3-4 times/month). I show her a fair amount of affection which she usually enjoys, but she seems gradually more distant, but I can't quite but my finger on what it is. I know this could be conformation bias.
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I bought my girlfriend an iPad for Christmas. While she was at work, I turned it on to play with it for a bit. Already open in Safari was some sort of m+f porn. No problem there, except that on the rare occasion that I ask her if she looks at porn, she says no (if she does, I'm fine with it). But then it gets more interesting. 

I open the bookmarks folder, which was showing browsing history, and I notice searches for celebrity women who are notorious for wearing skimpy clothing/bikinis. At this point I didn't think too much of it. But something told me I should look around more. 

I put down the iPad, went over and opened the closet, which contains a box that I know she keeps some porno DVDs in (that she claims she doesn't watch anymore). Right there, sitting on top, were a stack of Playboy magazines.

A little history about us - we've been in a steady relationship for over 4 years.  We have our share of arguments/disagreements, but overall we get along. Sex is decent, although somewhat declining over the years in both quality and amount (down to 3-4 times/month). I show her a fair amount of affection which she usually enjoys, but she seems gradually more distant, but I can't quite but my finger on what it is. I know this could be conformation bias.
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Found my girlfriend
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