My husband and I live in Canada and my family lives in the USA. My grandparents are planning a sailing trip and invited my husband and I, and my sister.

The problem: My grandparents and husband do not get along. They have been rude to my husband. They have fat shamed him, implied he's after their money, think he stole me to another country, think he has ruined my career because I choose the same field as him, have said we'd be stupid to have biological kids because of health issues in his family, so on and so forth.

Needless to say, my husband will not go.

The question now is should I? Despite everything, I love and miss my family and want to see them. I completely understand my husband not going and I won't make him. I'm not sure if I should support my husband and stay home with him, or go.

If I go, my husband will feel bad that he can't be with me. I will obviously miss him.

If I don't go, that's an opportunity I don't see my family.

What would reddit do?
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I have to go to my family. My husband is not going. What would you do?
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My husband and I live in Canada and my family lives in the USA. My grandparents are planning a sailing trip and invited my husband and I, and my sister.

The problem: My grandparents and husband do not get along. They have been rude to my husband. They have fat shamed him, implied he's after their money, think he stole me to another country, think he has ruined my career because I choose the same field as him, have said we'd be stupid to have biological kids because of health issues in his family, so on and so forth.

Needless to say, my husband will not go.

The question now is should I? Despite everything, I love and miss my family and want to see them. I completely understand my husband not going and I won't make him. I'm not sure if I should support my husband and stay home with him, or go.

If I go, my husband will feel bad that he can't be with me. I will obviously miss him.

If I don't go, that's an opportunity I don't see my family.

What would reddit do?
user
My husband and my family don't get along. I miss my family and will miss my husband. Should I stay home or go?
assistant