I think this may be a fairly common complaint, someone at my wife's work is just creeping her out and making her very uncomfortable. 

She works in an elementary school and this guy is one of the janitors. She is 25 and he is roughly 60. He is married with grown children. I have given this guy the benefit of the doubt so many times, but every day there is some new story. 

He seems to make excuses to be around her room whenever he can. He does the garbage emptying and cleaning in a very inefficient way in order to return to her room four or five times in the afternoon. In the beginning of the year, she would make small talk and be pleasant and he would see this as an invitation to stick around when he should be working. Now, she will leave her room anytime he is working and she is alone in there. I don't blame her, it is a secluded part of the school and if he had rape-y intentions the opportunity would exist. However, she has work to do in her room and should not have to do this! She has tried to completely ignore him and be rude, but he just stays there awkwardly, making it that much more uncomfortable. She tells me that she will often see movement at her door and look up to find him staring at her and then he quickly disappears. 

There are other little things like this, just weird behaviors that make it clear he is watching her. The whole thing is so nebulous though that it is hard to advise her to get the guy in trouble when he hasn't **done** anything, you know? She has decided to talk to the principal about it in a non-official way, so that in case any physical thing does happen there will be some record of her concern.

Today she texted me that this man's boss told her that he frequently makes sexual comments about several of the female teachers, including her, of course. This just really pisses me off and made me want some other input. So what do you think?
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Spouse getting harassed at work, making it very uncomfortable. What do?
assistant
I think this may be a fairly common complaint, someone at my wife's work is just creeping her out and making her very uncomfortable. 

She works in an elementary school and this guy is one of the janitors. She is 25 and he is roughly 60. He is married with grown children. I have given this guy the benefit of the doubt so many times, but every day there is some new story. 

He seems to make excuses to be around her room whenever he can. He does the garbage emptying and cleaning in a very inefficient way in order to return to her room four or five times in the afternoon. In the beginning of the year, she would make small talk and be pleasant and he would see this as an invitation to stick around when he should be working. Now, she will leave her room anytime he is working and she is alone in there. I don't blame her, it is a secluded part of the school and if he had rape-y intentions the opportunity would exist. However, she has work to do in her room and should not have to do this! She has tried to completely ignore him and be rude, but he just stays there awkwardly, making it that much more uncomfortable. She tells me that she will often see movement at her door and look up to find him staring at her and then he quickly disappears. 

There are other little things like this, just weird behaviors that make it clear he is watching her. The whole thing is so nebulous though that it is hard to advise her to get the guy in trouble when he hasn't **done** anything, you know? She has decided to talk to the principal about it in a non-official way, so that in case any physical thing does happen there will be some record of her concern.

Today she texted me that this man's boss told her that he frequently makes sexual comments about several of the female teachers, including her, of course. This just really pisses me off and made me want some other input. So what do you think?
user
Wife's boss is a creepy creep that is sexually harassing her
assistant