I've been with my girlfriend for over a year now. She was my first everything but she's had several partners and boyfriends before me. When we first started dating the intimacy was high between each other. We couldn't get our hands off each other. 

It's been two months now and we've had sex twice in the past two months. So I tried to initiate the other day by kissing her passionately and then out of nowhere she said I'm not some sort of sex object where I open my legs and let you f*** me. That caught me off guard and totally killed the mood. I got so angry and so hurt by her comment because we have been rarely intimate and how can 2 people having sex in a relationship make someone feel like a sex object. I love her to death I'm not with her just for sex because we have been rarely having sex and if I was with someone just for that,
I would not be with her.

Sex with her is never rough it's always slow with a lot of kissing and I always ask her if everything is going good while we do the deed. I try to make it all about her and make her as comfortable as possible. I don't know what I'm asking for but how does someone deal with something like this. I have to add that she has extreme body image issues, she always goes the the gym 1.5hrs 6 times a week and has a history of binging and purging a few years ago but she's on a nutrition plan now.
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I've been with my girlfriend for over a year now. She was my first everything but she's had several partners and boyfriends before me. When we first started dating the intimacy was high between each other. We couldn't get our hands off each other. 

It's been two months now and we've had sex twice in the past two months. So I tried to initiate the other day by kissing her passionately and then out of nowhere she said I'm not some sort of sex object where I open my legs and let you f*** me. That caught me off guard and totally killed the mood. I got so angry and so hurt by her comment because we have been rarely intimate and how can 2 people having sex in a relationship make someone feel like a sex object. I love her to death I'm not with her just for sex because we have been rarely having sex and if I was with someone just for that,
I would not be with her.

Sex with her is never rough it's always slow with a lot of kissing and I always ask her if everything is going good while we do the deed. I try to make it all about her and make her as comfortable as possible. I don't know what I'm asking for but how does someone deal with something like this. I have to add that she has extreme body image issues, she always goes the the gym 1.5hrs 6 times a week and has a history of binging and purging a few years ago but she's on a nutrition plan now.
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