Person I've known for a few years now, didn't really become decent friends until this year. Earlier in the year, was considering asking her out, but she started dating (unofficially) another guy. No big deal, kind of sad about it for a week or two. Got over it.

She broke up with him like a month ago (ish), recently realized I want to ask her out again. Been trying to think it out before I ask her out, because I don't want to lose a good friend if I ask her out, she says no and it turns awkward and we just stop talking (this is always a big fear of mine).

Today, in class we were doing notes from the board, teacher doesn't really care if we talk or anything so we're in a pair, copying notes and everything. Was about to ask her out, and she mentioned something about prom so I waited and listened. Apparently, she went to breakfast one morning with her friend and her friend's freshman (male) friend. They were talking about prom during breakfast and the boy said 'I wish I could go to prom' and she replied, 'I don't have a date, you can go with me so you can say you went.' (Not exact words)

I stopped there. Up until this point, I had been thinking (or I guess, fooling myself) that she would be interested in a relationship. Now I don't know. If she'd just as easily go with some random freshman and not have a problem mentioning it to me, I doubt she cares about any relationship that is more than being friends.

I feel torn because I have no idea what to do. Move on? I could but I don't want to if I don't have to. Ask her out? Even if I could, I doubt she'd say yes.

I would just like some advice on the matter. I'm really bad at dating in general and always get pretty down when something like this happens.

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Person I've known for a few years now, didn't really become decent friends until this year. Earlier in the year, was considering asking her out, but she started dating (unofficially) another guy. No big deal, kind of sad about it for a week or two. Got over it.

She broke up with him like a month ago (ish), recently realized I want to ask her out again. Been trying to think it out before I ask her out, because I don't want to lose a good friend if I ask her out, she says no and it turns awkward and we just stop talking (this is always a big fear of mine).

Today, in class we were doing notes from the board, teacher doesn't really care if we talk or anything so we're in a pair, copying notes and everything. Was about to ask her out, and she mentioned something about prom so I waited and listened. Apparently, she went to breakfast one morning with her friend and her friend's freshman (male) friend. They were talking about prom during breakfast and the boy said 'I wish I could go to prom' and she replied, 'I don't have a date, you can go with me so you can say you went.' (Not exact words)

I stopped there. Up until this point, I had been thinking (or I guess, fooling myself) that she would be interested in a relationship. Now I don't know. If she'd just as easily go with some random freshman and not have a problem mentioning it to me, I doubt she cares about any relationship that is more than being friends.

I feel torn because I have no idea what to do. Move on? I could but I don't want to if I don't have to. Ask her out? Even if I could, I doubt she'd say yes.

I would just like some advice on the matter. I'm really bad at dating in general and always get pretty down when something like this happens.

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user
girl i've been interested in possibly dating may
assistant