The title says it all. I am still very much attracted to her, but I feel like I am just going through the motions at this point as far as physical intimacy goes. Maybe this is odd for a guy but it's how I feel. We haven't been dating that long (couple months shy of a year) but she hasn't expressed any interest in doing anything that is not "vanilla" (I guess that's the right word?). I am not an extremely kinky guy by any means but I want to spice it up, which leads to my question: how do I suggest ways to make it more interesting without sounding awkward/creepy? Do I just ask flat out? I really am not comfortable to just try something on her without talking about it, nor do I think I should. We normally do not have any problems communicating but I am just baffled as to how to bring up this topic.
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want to spice up sex life, can't figure out how to communicate with girlfriend
assistant
The title says it all. I am still very much attracted to her, but I feel like I am just going through the motions at this point as far as physical intimacy goes. Maybe this is odd for a guy but it's how I feel. We haven't been dating that long (couple months shy of a year) but she hasn't expressed any interest in doing anything that is not "vanilla" (I guess that's the right word?). I am not an extremely kinky guy by any means but I want to spice it up, which leads to my question: how do I suggest ways to make it more interesting without sounding awkward/creepy? Do I just ask flat out? I really am not comfortable to just try something on her without talking about it, nor do I think I should. We normally do not have any problems communicating but I am just baffled as to how to bring up this topic.
user
Recently started dating a girl after a year of a long time relationship. How do I bring up suggestions on
assistant