So I've been immature in the relationship. Looking at Instagram history and getting hurt at her liking photos of men, getting hurt with her friendships with men.

I want to love her but these make me feel vulnerable and gives me a me vs. her perspective. I'm sick of feeling like my relationship could be jeopardized at any moment. Because technically everyone's relationship is in jeopardy constantly but how to see it like a healthy person?

How to become mature? How to not be co-dependent? How to be satisfied with not controlling her and not letting these things get to me. How to love and be loved and not expect.
user
How to love and not be a co-dependent person?
assistant
So I've been immature in the relationship. Looking at Instagram history and getting hurt at her liking photos of men, getting hurt with her friendships with men.

I want to love her but these make me feel vulnerable and gives me a me vs. her perspective. I'm sick of feeling like my relationship could be jeopardized at any moment. Because technically everyone's relationship is in jeopardy constantly but how to see it like a healthy person?

How to become mature? How to not be co-dependent? How to be satisfied with not controlling her and not letting these things get to me. How to love and be loved and not expect.
user
How do I get my relationship to where i
assistant