My boyfriend is wonderful in many ways, except chivalry...

He has stated on many occasions he doesn't believe in opening doors, pulling out chairs or in not hitting women.

He has said on many occasions playfully that he will slap me if I do something he personally vocally doesn't like. But more specifically and ardently defends in all seriousness that he would hit me (or anyone woman) if I hit him.

I was shocked by this and have tried discussing it with him. But he is adamant about it. He believes any woman that hits like a man deserves to be hit like a man. I am at a loss what this says about his character...it doesn't sound like it's a good thing. I've never met any man willing to strike a woman for any reason. 

Honestly no one should be hitting anyone. But I'm 5 inches shorter than him and near 100lbs lighter, I pose no actual threat. So why the firm stance on an eye for an eye. Or in this case....a black eye for a black eye
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My boyfriend strongly believes any woman that hits like a man deserves to be
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My boyfriend is wonderful in many ways, except chivalry...

He has stated on many occasions he doesn't believe in opening doors, pulling out chairs or in not hitting women.

He has said on many occasions playfully that he will slap me if I do something he personally vocally doesn't like. But more specifically and ardently defends in all seriousness that he would hit me (or anyone woman) if I hit him.

I was shocked by this and have tried discussing it with him. But he is adamant about it. He believes any woman that hits like a man deserves to be hit like a man. I am at a loss what this says about his character...it doesn't sound like it's a good thing. I've never met any man willing to strike a woman for any reason. 

Honestly no one should be hitting anyone. But I'm 5 inches shorter than him and near 100lbs lighter, I pose no actual threat. So why the firm stance on an eye for an eye. Or in this case....a black eye for a black eye
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boyfriend is kind in many ways. But is firm on the idea of eye
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