I'll keep this short, but basically he said we should break up because we were becoming too different. I was really blindsided by this as it came after a short heated argument (about politics). We'd had debates like this in the past and I thought this was one that we could just laugh about and forget, but the next day he broke up with me. I apologized a lot if i had offended him, which he accepted but still he said we still shouldn't be together because we were becoming too different. I had not noticed anything different between us in the weeks before he called me so I was completely shocked and tried to ask him for a longer explanation and if we could just talk about it. He hung up and didn't answer my phone calls and texts for days. I haven't tried to contact him for over a week, but I'm honestly still bothered over how he ended it. He easily could have met up with me in person (he only lives 15 minutes away)  and at the least could have let me talk to him on the phone a longer. But I'm not sure. I know what he's like and I know he has a lot of pride that he won't let go of, so I don't want to push him any further, but I'm just hurt at how easily he dropped me after a 3 year relationship. Should I try to contact him again? Or should I just let it go?
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Boyfriend of 3 years broke up with me over a minute long phone call after a debate on political views and didn't want to meet up in
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I'll keep this short, but basically he said we should break up because we were becoming too different. I was really blindsided by this as it came after a short heated argument (about politics). We'd had debates like this in the past and I thought this was one that we could just laugh about and forget, but the next day he broke up with me. I apologized a lot if i had offended him, which he accepted but still he said we still shouldn't be together because we were becoming too different. I had not noticed anything different between us in the weeks before he called me so I was completely shocked and tried to ask him for a longer explanation and if we could just talk about it. He hung up and didn't answer my phone calls and texts for days. I haven't tried to contact him for over a week, but I'm honestly still bothered over how he ended it. He easily could have met up with me in person (he only lives 15 minutes away)  and at the least could have let me talk to him on the phone a longer. But I'm not sure. I know what he's like and I know he has a lot of pride that he won't let go of, so I don't want to push him any further, but I'm just hurt at how easily he dropped me after a 3 year relationship. Should I try to contact him again? Or should I just let it go?
user
boyfriend dumped me over a phone call, not sure if I should contact him or just let it go.
assistant