I am in college and have a very great and caring girlfriend. She is cute and doing well in school which is great. We hang out all the time but it usually involves fooling around which is awesome but I feel when we go out to eat or are taking walks she is relatively quiet and it seems that I am bringing up the topics I want to talk about (world news, movies, music, events etc). I generally instigate the conversations and they dont normally go very far which is frustrating to me because I really enjoy a good conversation that can go really deep. I dont think this is her fault and before you say "just enjoy the silence together" we do and I am definitely able to enjoy the silence. But I need more stimulating conversation sometimes. What are your thoughts? Thanks!
user
My gf is a quiet talker and I need more stimulating conversation. Im in college
assistant
I am in college and have a very great and caring girlfriend. She is cute and doing well in school which is great. We hang out all the time but it usually involves fooling around which is awesome but I feel when we go out to eat or are taking walks she is relatively quiet and it seems that I am bringing up the topics I want to talk about (world news, movies, music, events etc). I generally instigate the conversations and they dont normally go very far which is frustrating to me because I really enjoy a good conversation that can go really deep. I dont think this is her fault and before you say "just enjoy the silence together" we do and I am definitely able to enjoy the silence. But I need more stimulating conversation sometimes. What are your thoughts? Thanks!
user
Gf is great and dont want to be passive, how do I bring this up
assistant