We've been together for more than a year now and is about to get married soon. She was almost perfect for the first few months. Then, she became different. When we argue about things, whether simple or complicated, she always just want to win. She doesn't care about my excuses every single time. Every time I make a small mistake like not getting an 'instruction' right, she gets really mad at me. Sometimes, she threatens to break up with me because she feels I don't respect her by not getting some things right. In turn, I get mad. I always tell her why do you make simple issues complicated. She then curses me with the F-bomb and whatnot. I do not fight back. When I say sorry, she wants me to explain why I'm sorry up to the very last detail.

Most of the time, she's angry at her parents, brothers, and sister when they come visit. When someone jokes about her or something, she throws tantrums. I just sit there quietly and not be part of the chaos.

I'm trying to hold back the wedding until she gets back to her normal self. She's angry at me for holding it back. I make excuses and not tell her the real reason.

Now, she wants all the issues fixed because she feels she is not happy and then she says "What do you think about suicide?". She has done this numerous times already.

I'm scared. I feel depressed.  I do not know what to do. I love her. I wanna tell her that we should seek professional care but I'm scared that she's gonna flip out again or worse, leave me.
user
My fiancée [25/F] turned aggressive and angry when I don't respect her, doesn't love me, and says suicide. It's been a week now and I'm scared
assistant
We've been together for more than a year now and is about to get married soon. She was almost perfect for the first few months. Then, she became different. When we argue about things, whether simple or complicated, she always just want to win. She doesn't care about my excuses every single time. Every time I make a small mistake like not getting an 'instruction' right, she gets really mad at me. Sometimes, she threatens to break up with me because she feels I don't respect her by not getting some things right. In turn, I get mad. I always tell her why do you make simple issues complicated. She then curses me with the F-bomb and whatnot. I do not fight back. When I say sorry, she wants me to explain why I'm sorry up to the very last detail.

Most of the time, she's angry at her parents, brothers, and sister when they come visit. When someone jokes about her or something, she throws tantrums. I just sit there quietly and not be part of the chaos.

I'm trying to hold back the wedding until she gets back to her normal self. She's angry at me for holding it back. I make excuses and not tell her the real reason.

Now, she wants all the issues fixed because she feels she is not happy and then she says "What do you think about suicide?". She has done this numerous times already.

I'm scared. I feel depressed.  I do not know what to do. I love her. I wanna tell her that we should seek professional care but I'm scared that she's gonna flip out again or worse, leave me.
user
Fiancee gets really angry at me and threatens to end our relationship. I do not know how to handle it.
assistant