About 8-9 months ago I met one of the sweetest and most genuine persons I've ever had the pleasure to speak to. We started dating and eventually got into a serious relationship (as serious as it gets when we're this young). I've loved and appreciated every single part of her but then after a few months I started getting second thoughts: 

- I stopped responding to her texts and only answered after a few hours. Not because I didn't want to but simply because I didn't want to put in the effort. 
- I stopped making sure that we had time to spend together during the week. Got bored when we were actually together since we never did anything. Go to bed, watch a movie, talk about everyday things and stuff. 
- I didn't want to be together more than 1 or maximum 2 times a week because I had more fun stuff to do. I would rather hang out with friends, be social, party, play games or whatever. It just brought me more fun. 

After some time I realized that I wasn't giving her half the attention she deserved, but I didn't know whether to let go or not. At this (early) point in my life I don't know anyone else who I'd rather see as a partner but isn't that too early to say anyways? 

Now that she's gone I'm just starting to miss her company and talking to her, but I also find interest in other women. It frightens me to think about being with a special person for a longer amount of time yet I realize that it would be healthy in some way, especially when she's such a good and caring person. 

So
user
I feel like I'm missing out on something and I know that I was a lucky fucker and I'm not going to regret it.
assistant
About 8-9 months ago I met one of the sweetest and most genuine persons I've ever had the pleasure to speak to. We started dating and eventually got into a serious relationship (as serious as it gets when we're this young). I've loved and appreciated every single part of her but then after a few months I started getting second thoughts: 

- I stopped responding to her texts and only answered after a few hours. Not because I didn't want to but simply because I didn't want to put in the effort. 
- I stopped making sure that we had time to spend together during the week. Got bored when we were actually together since we never did anything. Go to bed, watch a movie, talk about everyday things and stuff. 
- I didn't want to be together more than 1 or maximum 2 times a week because I had more fun stuff to do. I would rather hang out with friends, be social, party, play games or whatever. It just brought me more fun. 

After some time I realized that I wasn't giving her half the attention she deserved, but I didn't know whether to let go or not. At this (early) point in my life I don't know anyone else who I'd rather see as a partner but isn't that too early to say anyways? 

Now that she's gone I'm just starting to miss her company and talking to her, but I also find interest in other women. It frightens me to think about being with a special person for a longer amount of time yet I realize that it would be healthy in some way, especially when she's such a good and caring person. 

So
user
In my experience I've found that it's not so important to "like" or "love" someone. It's more important to be happy with them and
assistant