This is a long story, but I'll try to shorten it.

I broke up with my girlfriend of 11 months because I feel like I just want to hook up with other people. I also wasn't able to find friends in that relationship, so I felt socially unfulfilled. We both decided it was a good thing to do if I truly felt that way.

I still love her, I don't find anything wrong with her at all. I just felt like our relationship was holding me back.

Since we broke up a month ago, I've hooked up with a person, and tomorrow we're just gonna hang out as friends (I'm at a college where friends-with-benefits is pretty common). I'm trying to make regular platonic friends too, but it's hard because I always feel left out of social events, and the friendly people I do find I have nothing in common with.

Things have been on-and-off okay, but tonight has been my worst night in a while. Right now I'm just thinking: if I broke up with her so I could find friends but was never gonna find friends anyway (because i'm sort of a loner), should I have broken up with her in the first place?

I still would like to hook up with people, so that's still a thing, but how long will that even last in my life opposed to being with my ex?
user
I broke up with my ex to get more friends and have casual hookups. I've had hookups, but the finding friends part isn't going well.
assistant
This is a long story, but I'll try to shorten it.

I broke up with my girlfriend of 11 months because I feel like I just want to hook up with other people. I also wasn't able to find friends in that relationship, so I felt socially unfulfilled. We both decided it was a good thing to do if I truly felt that way.

I still love her, I don't find anything wrong with her at all. I just felt like our relationship was holding me back.

Since we broke up a month ago, I've hooked up with a person, and tomorrow we're just gonna hang out as friends (I'm at a college where friends-with-benefits is pretty common). I'm trying to make regular platonic friends too, but it's hard because I always feel left out of social events, and the friendly people I do find I have nothing in common with.

Things have been on-and-off okay, but tonight has been my worst night in a while. Right now I'm just thinking: if I broke up with her so I could find friends but was never gonna find friends anyway (because i'm sort of a loner), should I have broken up with her in the first place?

I still would like to hook up with people, so that's still a thing, but how long will that even last in my life opposed to being with my ex?
user
I broke up with my girlfriend to make friends. I still want to have sex with people, but I don't want to be a loner.
assistant