This had happened about 6 months ago where I was close friends with a couple (let's call them Matt and Sarah] who eventually married.  I was invited to the wedding as well.  Anyway, after about a few months, they had a pretty bad divorce where the divorce courts had dragged it on for several more months.  When it came down to this, rumors began to spread about who was at fault.  Sarah [25F] came to me for support, as she did not have anyone to turn to, which I believed.

At the same time, Matt text me asking about Sarah and whether I was approached by her or if she was at my place (just for visiting nothing more).  I did not respond as I felt that there was immense tension since Sarah avoided any contact with Matt since he would continually stalk her.  Over the months, she was getting bombarded with text messages about how he loves her or that he threatened to kill he cat.  It was very sporadic in what he was trying to say.  Anyway, I just wanted to avoid getting in between them, so I just focused on one side rather than mediate.  Also, I agreed with her points that the guy had a severe gambling problem (but that's another story).

Getting to the point, I have been invited by another friend (Peter/29M) to his wedding and Matt is going to be attending.  Not sure if Peter knows about my falling out with Matt, but I intend to go.  I just want to avoid unnecessary conflict given that it was rumoured at first that Sarah left Matt for me (which was entirely false and now has a public relationship with someone else after and I was in a committed relationship even after their breakup).
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I was in the middle of two friends breaking up and now one of them is coming to a mutual friend's
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This had happened about 6 months ago where I was close friends with a couple (let's call them Matt and Sarah] who eventually married.  I was invited to the wedding as well.  Anyway, after about a few months, they had a pretty bad divorce where the divorce courts had dragged it on for several more months.  When it came down to this, rumors began to spread about who was at fault.  Sarah [25F] came to me for support, as she did not have anyone to turn to, which I believed.

At the same time, Matt text me asking about Sarah and whether I was approached by her or if she was at my place (just for visiting nothing more).  I did not respond as I felt that there was immense tension since Sarah avoided any contact with Matt since he would continually stalk her.  Over the months, she was getting bombarded with text messages about how he loves her or that he threatened to kill he cat.  It was very sporadic in what he was trying to say.  Anyway, I just wanted to avoid getting in between them, so I just focused on one side rather than mediate.  Also, I agreed with her points that the guy had a severe gambling problem (but that's another story).

Getting to the point, I have been invited by another friend (Peter/29M) to his wedding and Matt is going to be attending.  Not sure if Peter knows about my falling out with Matt, but I intend to go.  I just want to avoid unnecessary conflict given that it was rumoured at first that Sarah left Matt for me (which was entirely false and now has a public relationship with someone else after and I was in a committed relationship even after their breakup).
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Do I go to a wedding where one of the people is going to be in the same wedding?
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