For the basic back story, my boyfriend and I started dating a year before we went long distance because I decided to go to college further north. He got a discount to go to university in our home town, so we agreed that long distance was the best option. So we have been long distance for a total of two years. These two years have been plagued by the single problem of communication. He hates technology to the point that he probably wouldn't have Internet if he didn't need it for school, so he obviously doesn't have a web cam or a phone with face time capability, leaving talking on the phone or texting as our only real communication options. 

Over these two years we have had multiple fights over him never calling or, when he does call, only wanting to stay on the phone for a few minutes. The culmination of these fights is that he wants me to text him and remind him and to tell him when I want to talk longer. This seems like a fine compromise, but now he treats talking to me like an immense chore. He rushes conversations, starts talking to other people, or makes up excuses about why he doesn't want to stay on the phone. He says that he just hates talking on the phone because "it isn't personal" or "It's uncomfortable to carry it around against my head"  but if I suggest him buying a Web cam, he will agree but never get around to doing it. 

After two years of this, it just makes me feel like I have no priority and that I'm not interesting enough to want to talk to. But every time I go home for breaks things go amazingly with no communication problems and this makes me so confused as to whether I should make a problem we only have when I'm gone a deal breaker. 

So my question is, should I just give up the nagging and wait it out until I get home from school, or is this a problem big enough to bring a break up over?
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For the basic back story, my boyfriend and I started dating a year before we went long distance because I decided to go to college further north. He got a discount to go to university in our home town, so we agreed that long distance was the best option. So we have been long distance for a total of two years. These two years have been plagued by the single problem of communication. He hates technology to the point that he probably wouldn't have Internet if he didn't need it for school, so he obviously doesn't have a web cam or a phone with face time capability, leaving talking on the phone or texting as our only real communication options. 

Over these two years we have had multiple fights over him never calling or, when he does call, only wanting to stay on the phone for a few minutes. The culmination of these fights is that he wants me to text him and remind him and to tell him when I want to talk longer. This seems like a fine compromise, but now he treats talking to me like an immense chore. He rushes conversations, starts talking to other people, or makes up excuses about why he doesn't want to stay on the phone. He says that he just hates talking on the phone because "it isn't personal" or "It's uncomfortable to carry it around against my head"  but if I suggest him buying a Web cam, he will agree but never get around to doing it. 

After two years of this, it just makes me feel like I have no priority and that I'm not interesting enough to want to talk to. But every time I go home for breaks things go amazingly with no communication problems and this makes me so confused as to whether I should make a problem we only have when I'm gone a deal breaker. 

So my question is, should I just give up the nagging and wait it out until I get home from school, or is this a problem big enough to bring a break up over?
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