I've never had a serious, genuine girlfriend. I've dated girls for a max of 4 months, and it just never ends up working out. 

The last girl I dated, I thought it was going to be different, things were going GREAT. This girl was literally obsessed with me, telling me she was falling for me hard, introducing me to all her friends, telling her family about me, and just would constantly tell me what an amazing guy I am. We had sex after 3 weeks of actually talking, and I think that messed with her head and it caused a huge issue. She claimed she wanted to stay single, but she gets awkward when she sees me in our group of friends. We're not on talking terms anymore, which sucks. She claimed she wanted to stay friends when she 'dumped' me, but she started ignoring me all together and treating me like shit in front of people on a consistent daily basis. I tried talking to her about it in private at a BBQ, because I genuinely wanted to stay friends with her and not have it be awkward between us, but she blew up on me and cursed me out in public in front of strangers before I could even get into details; she called me 20 minutes later after I left and cursed me out even more because she claimed I 'caused a scene'. Thats the last time we talked.

It's been two months, I've been having trouble finding new girls to actually pursue. I'm not the type to just fool around and hook up with women; I genuinely want a girlfriend, or at the very least, a girl I can get intimate with and go out with. 

I feel like I'm in a slump and that I should try online dating.... Again. I've tried pof and okcupid before, but never had any luck. Literally, I would maybe get a couple of replies, but that would be it. Not to sound arrogant or full of myself, but I don't think I'm a bad looking guy, and I don't send lengthy or creepy initial messages. I just don't know if it's time to give it another shot or what. I want someone I can have fun with for the summer, or whatever is left of it at least... Thanks for any advice!
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Got dumped 2 months ago. Not having any luck finding new girls
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I've never had a serious, genuine girlfriend. I've dated girls for a max of 4 months, and it just never ends up working out. 

The last girl I dated, I thought it was going to be different, things were going GREAT. This girl was literally obsessed with me, telling me she was falling for me hard, introducing me to all her friends, telling her family about me, and just would constantly tell me what an amazing guy I am. We had sex after 3 weeks of actually talking, and I think that messed with her head and it caused a huge issue. She claimed she wanted to stay single, but she gets awkward when she sees me in our group of friends. We're not on talking terms anymore, which sucks. She claimed she wanted to stay friends when she 'dumped' me, but she started ignoring me all together and treating me like shit in front of people on a consistent daily basis. I tried talking to her about it in private at a BBQ, because I genuinely wanted to stay friends with her and not have it be awkward between us, but she blew up on me and cursed me out in public in front of strangers before I could even get into details; she called me 20 minutes later after I left and cursed me out even more because she claimed I 'caused a scene'. Thats the last time we talked.

It's been two months, I've been having trouble finding new girls to actually pursue. I'm not the type to just fool around and hook up with women; I genuinely want a girlfriend, or at the very least, a girl I can get intimate with and go out with. 

I feel like I'm in a slump and that I should try online dating.... Again. I've tried pof and okcupid before, but never had any luck. Literally, I would maybe get a couple of replies, but that would be it. Not to sound arrogant or full of myself, but I don't think I'm a bad looking guy, and I don't send lengthy or creepy initial messages. I just don't know if it's time to give it another shot or what. I want someone I can have fun with for the summer, or whatever is left of it at least... Thanks for any advice!
user
Been single for a couple of months. Need advice on how to
assistant