So my girlfriend and I were together for about two months. However last week I started college about 3 hours away from her. She goes to community college part time and works for an organization where she helps people with disabilities full time. 

A few days after moving into college she tells me she wants to break up because she feels like she's constantly putting others first, and she has no time for herself and she really just needs to better herself as a person.

HOWEVER she says that she still has strong romantic feelings for me. So I told her that I'd be very much open to the idea of a more casual relationship where the only expectation is monogamy.

So essentially we can talk like a couple and act like a couple and such when she feels she has the time and energy for it, but we can just not talk or talk as friends when she feels she's too busy or needs time for her.

She said she's open to such an idea as well, so we're on day 2 of this. Yesterday was very couple-y, but later in the night she told me she needed some space.

So I guess what I'm asking, dear Redditors, is advice on how we can make this work more effectively.

I really do want her to have time for herself to become a better person and do what she needs to do, but I also feel really strongly for her, and her me. So how can I reach a good equilibrium?

Lastly, please don't say "just break up, it's only been two months" because, to me, longevity isn't this huge, overbearing factor. I've been in relationships for years that I haven't achieved this level of closeness with.
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How can I make a long-distance, quasi-relationship
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So my girlfriend and I were together for about two months. However last week I started college about 3 hours away from her. She goes to community college part time and works for an organization where she helps people with disabilities full time. 

A few days after moving into college she tells me she wants to break up because she feels like she's constantly putting others first, and she has no time for herself and she really just needs to better herself as a person.

HOWEVER she says that she still has strong romantic feelings for me. So I told her that I'd be very much open to the idea of a more casual relationship where the only expectation is monogamy.

So essentially we can talk like a couple and act like a couple and such when she feels she has the time and energy for it, but we can just not talk or talk as friends when she feels she's too busy or needs time for her.

She said she's open to such an idea as well, so we're on day 2 of this. Yesterday was very couple-y, but later in the night she told me she needed some space.

So I guess what I'm asking, dear Redditors, is advice on how we can make this work more effectively.

I really do want her to have time for herself to become a better person and do what she needs to do, but I also feel really strongly for her, and her me. So how can I reach a good equilibrium?

Lastly, please don't say "just break up, it's only been two months" because, to me, longevity isn't this huge, overbearing factor. I've been in relationships for years that I haven't achieved this level of closeness with.
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Trying to work out long distance, as
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