We met in Japan two years ago, I was a student over there and we hit it off at a bar. Decided I'd go back to my country and get a college degree, I asked her if she'd come with and she said yes, but we agreed it would take some time. This was 8 months into our relationship, and when I got back home we said we'd do daily messaging and regular phone calls, which we did. She then came to visit last summer and all was good. 

I got into college. After that, gradually our phone calls went from bi-weekly to monthly, and our messaging got closer to once daily. She told me it's due to her work, and I could believe that as I know she does alot of overtime (pretty normal in Japan). I should mention that we rarely fight, but if something upsets her she goes pretty quiet and won't tell me what it is until I notice and ask her straight up. Obviously it's harder for me to tell if she's upset when I can't see her. After about half a year in college, for different reasons I decided I'll go back over there when I get my degree. Consulted her, and she told me she's fine either way. At this point the phone calls are bi-monthly and on occasion she'll go two days without replying to my texts. 

In Feb/March, she got a second job that she does on her off days, to save money and work off some credit debt. Since then the two day wait has become a more regular occurrence, and today it's been three days. We spoke on the phone a couple of days ago and she still says it's because she's been so busy with work. I'm going to Japan in less than a month so I'll have a chance to judge the situation better, but it's bugging me alot. Maybe I'm overthinking it and it is really just her work, but at the same time I know she cheated in a previous relationship. In any case I want her to talk more to me, but I'm not getting anywhere as it stands.
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long distance girlfriend in a relationship for 2 years, has been waiting for replies for 2-3 days now, is it intentional?
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We met in Japan two years ago, I was a student over there and we hit it off at a bar. Decided I'd go back to my country and get a college degree, I asked her if she'd come with and she said yes, but we agreed it would take some time. This was 8 months into our relationship, and when I got back home we said we'd do daily messaging and regular phone calls, which we did. She then came to visit last summer and all was good. 

I got into college. After that, gradually our phone calls went from bi-weekly to monthly, and our messaging got closer to once daily. She told me it's due to her work, and I could believe that as I know she does alot of overtime (pretty normal in Japan). I should mention that we rarely fight, but if something upsets her she goes pretty quiet and won't tell me what it is until I notice and ask her straight up. Obviously it's harder for me to tell if she's upset when I can't see her. After about half a year in college, for different reasons I decided I'll go back over there when I get my degree. Consulted her, and she told me she's fine either way. At this point the phone calls are bi-monthly and on occasion she'll go two days without replying to my texts. 

In Feb/March, she got a second job that she does on her off days, to save money and work off some credit debt. Since then the two day wait has become a more regular occurrence, and today it's been three days. We spoke on the phone a couple of days ago and she still says it's because she's been so busy with work. I'm going to Japan in less than a month so I'll have a chance to judge the situation better, but it's bugging me alot. Maybe I'm overthinking it and it is really just her work, but at the same time I know she cheated in a previous relationship. In any case I want her to talk more to me, but I'm not getting anywhere as it stands.
user
In a distance relationship for 2 years, girlfriend hangs out with me once a day, but only with me on the
assistant