A few months before undergrad ended (I graduated two weeks ago), I (22/M) started dating an acquaintance (22/F) whom I had known for years but had never interacted with. The relationship "just happened" to some extent, and we did tons of activities together, and had a pretty awesome time.

Now I don't claim to be an expert on relationships, but I've dated a few people [seriously] in the past, and have a fair sense of what kind of woman I am looking for what what kind of woman I am compatible with, and I feel like the relationship had tons of potential in that regards.
So here's the problem: upon graduation, in a few months, we will both be working in different areas (WA and CA), and this has been long established. I'm usually a very logical person, and can make decisions rationally without emotions getting in the way. I decided shortly before graduation that a long distance relationship, especially for an indefinite period of time and with only a few months of foundation, would have a low probability of succeeding. I broke off the relationship, knowing I made the most rational decision.

Now looking back, I'm having second thoughts about my choice. I'm mostly afraid of missing out on an opportunity that I may regret in the future. Although I understand that we would still be in the honeymoon stage and there's a limit to how much you can learn about someone after only a few months, I can't help but feel like there was a lot of potential in the relationship that was something I haven't experienced before and something worth exploring; at that point long distance was the only problem.

What do you guys think is the right call? Do I just need to move on, or should I be revisiting this?
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I broke up with a girl right before college graduation
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A few months before undergrad ended (I graduated two weeks ago), I (22/M) started dating an acquaintance (22/F) whom I had known for years but had never interacted with. The relationship "just happened" to some extent, and we did tons of activities together, and had a pretty awesome time.

Now I don't claim to be an expert on relationships, but I've dated a few people [seriously] in the past, and have a fair sense of what kind of woman I am looking for what what kind of woman I am compatible with, and I feel like the relationship had tons of potential in that regards.
So here's the problem: upon graduation, in a few months, we will both be working in different areas (WA and CA), and this has been long established. I'm usually a very logical person, and can make decisions rationally without emotions getting in the way. I decided shortly before graduation that a long distance relationship, especially for an indefinite period of time and with only a few months of foundation, would have a low probability of succeeding. I broke off the relationship, knowing I made the most rational decision.

Now looking back, I'm having second thoughts about my choice. I'm mostly afraid of missing out on an opportunity that I may regret in the future. Although I understand that we would still be in the honeymoon stage and there's a limit to how much you can learn about someone after only a few months, I can't help but feel like there was a lot of potential in the relationship that was something I haven't experienced before and something worth exploring; at that point long distance was the only problem.

What do you guys think is the right call? Do I just need to move on, or should I be revisiting this?
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Broke up with a long distance relationship, now I'm afraid
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