This is a repost since I didn't get any feedback from r/relationship_advice. Figured I'd get something with more users, but I've only had luck in this one. Thanks.

This might be long, but I appreciate anyone that takes the time to read it. I've been in a relationship with an amazing guy for over 2 years. We're both 21 & planning on moving w/i the next 6 months to the other side of the country together.

To describe him: always the one to say sorry after a fight, tries to communicate to solve any problem we have, has given up many things to be with me (usually going out with female friends), has ONLY female friends, completely trust worthy, extremely social & makes friends everywhere, basically the nice guy that every female wants to end up being with.

To describe me: insecure, major trust issues (I've cheated in the past so this is karma), shy at first, not many friends.

Recently, I've been thinking that the best thing for us to do is to breakup because I really do believe he'll realize how happy he is without me since he'll be able to do whatever he wants with his friends without having to worry about me being upset. I used to be so laid back & carefree when we first started dating & then one day, something just changed & I became insecure with his best friend. Everytime he mentions seeing her or talking to her (which is rare), I just get so uncomfortable & feel distant from him.

Now. I'm expecting a huge backlash from everyone. I will be the first to admit that I should just get the fuck over his female friends or end it, quit being controlling, and go out and have a life. Easier said than done. Trust me, this is all I want. I want to be ok with his female friends.

So my questions are these. Should I just end it & have some time for myself? Anyone go from being insanely jealous to laid back & how? Sometimes I don't think we are right for each other, but other times I can't see myself living without him. I will never meet another "nice guy" like him again. He takes such great care of me.
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I want to break up with my boyfriend of 2 years because I feel he is really happy without me. I'm always jealous of his female friends. Should I just end it & have some time for myself? Anyone go from being insanely jealous to
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This is a repost since I didn't get any feedback from r/relationship_advice. Figured I'd get something with more users, but I've only had luck in this one. Thanks.

This might be long, but I appreciate anyone that takes the time to read it. I've been in a relationship with an amazing guy for over 2 years. We're both 21 & planning on moving w/i the next 6 months to the other side of the country together.

To describe him: always the one to say sorry after a fight, tries to communicate to solve any problem we have, has given up many things to be with me (usually going out with female friends), has ONLY female friends, completely trust worthy, extremely social & makes friends everywhere, basically the nice guy that every female wants to end up being with.

To describe me: insecure, major trust issues (I've cheated in the past so this is karma), shy at first, not many friends.

Recently, I've been thinking that the best thing for us to do is to breakup because I really do believe he'll realize how happy he is without me since he'll be able to do whatever he wants with his friends without having to worry about me being upset. I used to be so laid back & carefree when we first started dating & then one day, something just changed & I became insecure with his best friend. Everytime he mentions seeing her or talking to her (which is rare), I just get so uncomfortable & feel distant from him.

Now. I'm expecting a huge backlash from everyone. I will be the first to admit that I should just get the fuck over his female friends or end it, quit being controlling, and go out and have a life. Easier said than done. Trust me, this is all I want. I want to be ok with his female friends.

So my questions are these. Should I just end it & have some time for myself? Anyone go from being insanely jealous to laid back & how? Sometimes I don't think we are right for each other, but other times I can't see myself living without him. I will never meet another "nice guy" like him again. He takes such great care of me.
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I'm insecure, jealous, and insecure about him's female friends. Should I end the relationship or try to move on?
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