He broke up with me, and was the one to pursue the reconnection. Not only was the breakup very hurtful, we had a few run-ins over the time we were apart where one of us (or both) were too drunk to  not make a scene, (and ones that were just fine), started a hands-off "friendship", and had ex-sex (with I love you's and lets get back together's from us both) about a month before actually getting back together. He also fucked one of his best friends about a week after the ex-sex and I love you's. I had began to stop loving him and put him in my past when he made a grand gesture to begin to "win me back." Those feelings still come up sometimes...
user
ex-bf and I have been apart for a year, and about 2 months ago decided to reconnect. How do people let go of the past and not feel bitter
assistant
He broke up with me, and was the one to pursue the reconnection. Not only was the breakup very hurtful, we had a few run-ins over the time we were apart where one of us (or both) were too drunk to  not make a scene, (and ones that were just fine), started a hands-off "friendship", and had ex-sex (with I love you's and lets get back together's from us both) about a month before actually getting back together. He also fucked one of his best friends about a week after the ex-sex and I love you's. I had began to stop loving him and put him in my past when he made a grand gesture to begin to "win me back." Those feelings still come up sometimes...
user
I need advice on how to let go of a tumultuous past with my boyfriend and build a strong, loving, healthy relationship.
assistant