I add "emotionally" because I am in a long-distance relationship.

My GF and I have been having some issues lately, most of the tension derives from not finding a suitable job (the both of us.) While she does have a stable part-time job or two, her income is very minimal.  She feels that she deserves more for the works he puts in but she is more concerned about experience, seeing how the two of us just graduated college this past spring.  The small amount of compensation is leaving her feeling unrewarded and unsatisfied, but with the economy, and our fields, we are both struggling to find something more substantial.  That's the real-life part of her stress.

The second part is me.  Because I go to her to help pick me up in my times of need, my frustrations and fears of the pressure I've been receiving from my family and to find a job to make a living is becoming extremely overwhelming.  Almost every night we Skype, I end up causing her to cry because I'm venting to her all my feelings and concerns, but she thinks that she is to blame.  I've never blamed her for any of my problems; I'm very honest with her and tell her everything.  I guess it's becoming too much for her because every day is another mental beating on my brain.  Ergo, I go to her for emotional support.

We've been fighting a lot, especially this past month (we haven't seen each other since Labor Day) and it's been even longer since we've had any physical release (early-August).  I luckily get to see her this weekend.
I love her very much, and since Sunday (a big release of my anger caused by my dad), she has been acting rather cold with me.  I think she is scared that I might explode again and she can't handle another one of those.

My main question is:

What can I do to help her feel more at ease about everything--the job status, work, our relationship?
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Long-distance relationship, GF feels unsatisfied due to lack of job, stress due to family and struggles finding
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I add "emotionally" because I am in a long-distance relationship.

My GF and I have been having some issues lately, most of the tension derives from not finding a suitable job (the both of us.) While she does have a stable part-time job or two, her income is very minimal.  She feels that she deserves more for the works he puts in but she is more concerned about experience, seeing how the two of us just graduated college this past spring.  The small amount of compensation is leaving her feeling unrewarded and unsatisfied, but with the economy, and our fields, we are both struggling to find something more substantial.  That's the real-life part of her stress.

The second part is me.  Because I go to her to help pick me up in my times of need, my frustrations and fears of the pressure I've been receiving from my family and to find a job to make a living is becoming extremely overwhelming.  Almost every night we Skype, I end up causing her to cry because I'm venting to her all my feelings and concerns, but she thinks that she is to blame.  I've never blamed her for any of my problems; I'm very honest with her and tell her everything.  I guess it's becoming too much for her because every day is another mental beating on my brain.  Ergo, I go to her for emotional support.

We've been fighting a lot, especially this past month (we haven't seen each other since Labor Day) and it's been even longer since we've had any physical release (early-August).  I luckily get to see her this weekend.
I love her very much, and since Sunday (a big release of my anger caused by my dad), she has been acting rather cold with me.  I think she is scared that I might explode again and she can't handle another one of those.

My main question is:

What can I do to help her feel more at ease about everything--the job status, work, our relationship?
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Long-distance GF is struggling emotionally due to stress from job-related issues; need help through extremely stressful times
assistant