This is a very new relationship. And also my first *serious* relationship. She goes to the same school I do and we started flirting and one thing led to another. First of all she grew up pretty sheltered, she hardly ever drinks or goes out with friends but I don't mind that at all.

She knows I smoke but wants me to stop and basically told me we can't have a relationship if I continue to do so. We had a good talk about it but that is what it came down to. I find it hard to believe she really loves me because she might break up with me if I ever smoke again, I mean I still am the same person even if I smoke or if I don't.

It not like I chose weed over her but it is something I enjoy and have been doing for a little while now, and I see no other reason than her to stop now.

 Now I always told myself I won't ever change or act different for a girl because I want to be myself in a relationship. But for her I might try.

So I don't really know what do to and came here to /r/relationships for some advice on what to do.

^^* ^^English ^^is ^^not ^^my ^^native ^^language ^^so ^^I'm ^^sorry ^^if ^^some ^^things ^^are ^^worded ^^strange ^^or ^^if ^^there ^^are ^^any ^^grammar ^^mistakes.
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Girlfriend wants me to stop smoking weed because she hates it. She might
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This is a very new relationship. And also my first *serious* relationship. She goes to the same school I do and we started flirting and one thing led to another. First of all she grew up pretty sheltered, she hardly ever drinks or goes out with friends but I don't mind that at all.

She knows I smoke but wants me to stop and basically told me we can't have a relationship if I continue to do so. We had a good talk about it but that is what it came down to. I find it hard to believe she really loves me because she might break up with me if I ever smoke again, I mean I still am the same person even if I smoke or if I don't.

It not like I chose weed over her but it is something I enjoy and have been doing for a little while now, and I see no other reason than her to stop now.

 Now I always told myself I won't ever change or act different for a girl because I want to be myself in a relationship. But for her I might try.

So I don't really know what do to and came here to /r/relationships for some advice on what to do.

^^* ^^English ^^is ^^not ^^my ^^native ^^language ^^so ^^I'm ^^sorry ^^if ^^some ^^things ^^are ^^worded ^^strange ^^or ^^if ^^there ^^are ^^any ^^grammar ^^mistakes.
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Girlfriend hates weed and wants me to stop but I don't want to
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