Hello Reddit,

I'm actually feeling really uncomfortable writing something like this, because I really hadn't had much problems with that topic earlier in my life.

Short Backround: I'm a 24 year old guy from Germany, with a good job and a few hobbys. I had 2 longer relationships (2 1/2 and 3 1/2 years). After the second relationship I got pretty quiet and shy, leaving me with little self-esteem. I hadn't got a date for 2 years now.

I started looking on dating sides, dating apps (like tinder), going to discos and tried to let myself set up by my friends. Nothing really worked in terms of finding someone with similar hobbies and lifestyle.
And if I find one, most likely they say I'm to nice.  
I really don't know where to look for girls which have interests in things like science, tv shows, cooking, playing games, volleyball and internetstuff (reddit/imgur) for example.

Do you have some advice for me?

p.s. sry for potato english, I'm a bit rusty.
user
I'm a shy guy with no self-esteem who needs some advice on where to meet girls
assistant
Hello Reddit,

I'm actually feeling really uncomfortable writing something like this, because I really hadn't had much problems with that topic earlier in my life.

Short Backround: I'm a 24 year old guy from Germany, with a good job and a few hobbys. I had 2 longer relationships (2 1/2 and 3 1/2 years). After the second relationship I got pretty quiet and shy, leaving me with little self-esteem. I hadn't got a date for 2 years now.

I started looking on dating sides, dating apps (like tinder), going to discos and tried to let myself set up by my friends. Nothing really worked in terms of finding someone with similar hobbies and lifestyle.
And if I find one, most likely they say I'm to nice.  
I really don't know where to look for girls which have interests in things like science, tv shows, cooking, playing games, volleyball and internetstuff (reddit/imgur) for example.

Do you have some advice for me?

p.s. sry for potato english, I'm a bit rusty.
user
I'm really quiet, I have no self-esteem and even though I had some great relationships, I
assistant