So I (M-23) was into this girl (F-20).  After we met, we texted every week for about 3 months, eventually sharing that we were into each other.  But because of distance at the time, we hadn't even been able to meet up again until last weekend, when we hooked-up (just heavy making out) and I slept over.

But since then, I've tried to send her a little inside-joke message and even later a SnapChat in the same vein, both with no response.

It seems real obvious that on her side this was a ONS, which sucks for me obviously cause I was into it, plus I've never been one to just "hook-up."

And because of this, I have no idea how to approach this.  But because I put 3 months of feeling into this, and not just some one drunken night or whatever, I don't want to just shrug this off.  I want to find closure and get the legit answer.

Has anyone done this before?  Is there a right way to word it or approach the situation?  This has (luckily, I guess) never happened to me before and I could really use some advice.

Thanks!
user
I had a one night stand with someone, which is not the norm, I want to find closure,
assistant
So I (M-23) was into this girl (F-20).  After we met, we texted every week for about 3 months, eventually sharing that we were into each other.  But because of distance at the time, we hadn't even been able to meet up again until last weekend, when we hooked-up (just heavy making out) and I slept over.

But since then, I've tried to send her a little inside-joke message and even later a SnapChat in the same vein, both with no response.

It seems real obvious that on her side this was a ONS, which sucks for me obviously cause I was into it, plus I've never been one to just "hook-up."

And because of this, I have no idea how to approach this.  But because I put 3 months of feeling into this, and not just some one drunken night or whatever, I don't want to just shrug this off.  I want to find closure and get the legit answer.

Has anyone done this before?  Is there a right way to word it or approach the situation?  This has (luckily, I guess) never happened to me before and I could really use some advice.

Thanks!
user
Hooked up with girl (20). Felt real good. No closure. How do I get closure?
assistant