Hello all. A little bit of background. I'm a 21 y.o. female with aspergers. They tell me that I'm on the mild side of the spectrum. I'm in my 4th year of college. I was diagnosed when I was 14. It took a couple years of struggling before I felt like I was in a good place. I've never really had a best friend, or really any friends at all. I was rarely asked to hang out and was made fun of at school. 

In college I met some people and thought I had become pretty good friends with them. They asked me to hang out and I felt I was treated pretty 'normally.' Now, I'm noticing things. Besides my boyfriend and my family, I rarely get texts. I never get asked to hang out directly and when I do, it's my bfs friends asking him to hang out and then he just brings me. My roommates (three of them) all tend to hang out constantly and never invite me to do things unless I ask to go with them. I feel like I'm always inviting myself and I no idea what I'm doing 'wrong' to not get invited.
user
I'm a 21 y.o. female with aspergers, learning to live with it. I noticed that I'm not invited to hang out with people that I should be. I don't know what to do.
assistant
Hello all. A little bit of background. I'm a 21 y.o. female with aspergers. They tell me that I'm on the mild side of the spectrum. I'm in my 4th year of college. I was diagnosed when I was 14. It took a couple years of struggling before I felt like I was in a good place. I've never really had a best friend, or really any friends at all. I was rarely asked to hang out and was made fun of at school. 

In college I met some people and thought I had become pretty good friends with them. They asked me to hang out and I felt I was treated pretty 'normally.' Now, I'm noticing things. Besides my boyfriend and my family, I rarely get texts. I never get asked to hang out directly and when I do, it's my bfs friends asking him to hang out and then he just brings me. My roommates (three of them) all tend to hang out constantly and never invite me to do things unless I ask to go with them. I feel like I'm always inviting myself and I no idea what I'm doing 'wrong' to not get invited.
user
I'm pretty much the perfect version of me and I'm probably doing everything right except essentially never getting invited to hang out. What do?
assistant