We've been together for two years and LD for the last 9 months. I feel like I'm the clingy, needy girlfriend when I talk about my feelings and say that I miss him. I admit that I need a lot of affection and I really need the feeling of being loved and when I don't get that feeling I'm upset very quickly.. then I try to talk to him about my feelings (via fb or something like that) and it's like he doesn't take my feelings seriously.. even when I ask him what he thinks about it or what he wants, he'd simply say "I don't know". 

I just feel blocked out and it's almost impossible for me to talk to him about his feelings or his thoughts about our relationship. When I talk about it I can say what I want.. I just get the feeling to make it worse with every word I say. I'm afraid to be clingy and needy and annoying because I want to talk about our feelings seriously. 

Normally it goes like this: I say how I feel and what I want.. then nothing from him (mostly).. then I panic and apologize for being clingy and needy but saying that I love and miss him and that it's hard for me when he is not with me and that I need to have the feeling that he loves me when we can't see each other so often. Then he would say "it's ok and I'm not mad" but he doesn't really talk about it.. he just blocks everything. 

So how can I deal with this? I really want to talk about my feelings and his feelings in particular because I really don't know what he feels or thinks about it.

I'm tense most of the time because sometimes I'm even afraid to say I love you because I think he might just run away..I try to keep myself busy but sometimes I get so upset that I can't think about anything else..
user
I feel like I'm very needy when I talk about my feelings and it's hard for me to talk to my bf about anything.. how
assistant
We've been together for two years and LD for the last 9 months. I feel like I'm the clingy, needy girlfriend when I talk about my feelings and say that I miss him. I admit that I need a lot of affection and I really need the feeling of being loved and when I don't get that feeling I'm upset very quickly.. then I try to talk to him about my feelings (via fb or something like that) and it's like he doesn't take my feelings seriously.. even when I ask him what he thinks about it or what he wants, he'd simply say "I don't know". 

I just feel blocked out and it's almost impossible for me to talk to him about his feelings or his thoughts about our relationship. When I talk about it I can say what I want.. I just get the feeling to make it worse with every word I say. I'm afraid to be clingy and needy and annoying because I want to talk about our feelings seriously. 

Normally it goes like this: I say how I feel and what I want.. then nothing from him (mostly).. then I panic and apologize for being clingy and needy but saying that I love and miss him and that it's hard for me when he is not with me and that I need to have the feeling that he loves me when we can't see each other so often. Then he would say "it's ok and I'm not mad" but he doesn't really talk about it.. he just blocks everything. 

So how can I deal with this? I really want to talk about my feelings and his feelings in particular because I really don't know what he feels or thinks about it.

I'm tense most of the time because sometimes I'm even afraid to say I love you because I think he might just run away..I try to keep myself busy but sometimes I get so upset that I can't think about anything else..
user
How can I get my bf to talk to me about what he thinks or wants to talk about/about our relationship?
assistant