Said guy and I became friends through another friend a few semesters ago and started dating each other around October. We all go to the same college. He abruptly stopped inviting me over/accepting invitations to my place about two weeks ago, but still texts me fairly often and gets lunch with me a couple times a week.  We never actually established if we were dating, and the recent development of "we're probably not" is starting to hurt like hell.  Not sure what's going on in his head or what I should actually think about this.  Mutual friend is not helpful since they had a falling out over a group project, and mutual friend just chocks it up to him being a closeted bastard.

I had a few bad incidents that probably turned him off (got alcohol poisoning and he wound up saving me at the start this, had a couple bad anxiety attacks that resulted in me not being a fun person a week later).  As far as I know though, he hasn't had much homework keeping him busy, because he's in one class and always doing nonschool things when we're texting.

I'd talk to him about it, but he started going to bed ridiculously early (before 10pm, when I get out of work) and I don't have a schedule that allows me to see him during the day.  On weekends he's been booked up with other stuff to do (recent development this semester... he hardly left his room previous semesters). Is there any good way I can deal with this aside from just accepting he lost interest?
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Said guy and I became friends through another friend a few semesters ago and started dating each other around October. We all go to the same college. He abruptly stopped inviting me over/accepting invitations to my place about two weeks ago, but still texts me fairly often and gets lunch with me a couple times a week.  We never actually established if we were dating, and the recent development of "we're probably not" is starting to hurt like hell.  Not sure what's going on in his head or what I should actually think about this.  Mutual friend is not helpful since they had a falling out over a group project, and mutual friend just chocks it up to him being a closeted bastard.

I had a few bad incidents that probably turned him off (got alcohol poisoning and he wound up saving me at the start this, had a couple bad anxiety attacks that resulted in me not being a fun person a week later).  As far as I know though, he hasn't had much homework keeping him busy, because he's in one class and always doing nonschool things when we're texting.

I'd talk to him about it, but he started going to bed ridiculously early (before 10pm, when I get out of work) and I don't have a schedule that allows me to see him during the day.  On weekends he's been booked up with other stuff to do (recent development this semester... he hardly left his room previous semesters). Is there any good way I can deal with this aside from just accepting he lost interest?
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