She broke up with me because I clearly was not doing anything to graduate or better myself. After the break-up I fell apart and sought psychological help. This pushed me though two months of dissertation writing and studying and I graduated in September. Right now I’m doing great, I have a nice job at a big firm, have dated some girls, but every now and then I miss her deeply (I dream about her every other day). She recently texted me to ask me if I thought we’d be able to go for a coffee once she would return from her semester in the States and I replied “Sure, why not.”. Because of this recent “no-contact”-breaking text message I’m starting to feel hope (against my will) and I’m missing her more and more. My psychologist said my idea of catching up with her parents to find out whether she really moved on or not is a good one, but I’m scared to find out anything (good or bad).

What do you guys think?

Thanks
user
She broke up
assistant
She broke up with me because I clearly was not doing anything to graduate or better myself. After the break-up I fell apart and sought psychological help. This pushed me though two months of dissertation writing and studying and I graduated in September. Right now I’m doing great, I have a nice job at a big firm, have dated some girls, but every now and then I miss her deeply (I dream about her every other day). She recently texted me to ask me if I thought we’d be able to go for a coffee once she would return from her semester in the States and I replied “Sure, why not.”. Because of this recent “no-contact”-breaking text message I’m starting to feel hope (against my will) and I’m missing her more and more. My psychologist said my idea of catching up with her parents to find out whether she really moved on or not is a good one, but I’m scared to find out anything (good or bad).

What do you guys think?

Thanks
user
Broke up with
assistant