I don't know if this is serious enough to post in this subreddit, so excuse me if you find it trivial...

About 3 years ago I found a very kind, funny and pretty girl on the internet. I'm 22, she is near 28. We are chatting regularly, though I noticed that she rarely initiates the conversation - I am almost always first. We are always talking very comfortable from both sides.

We try to neutralize lack of physical contact by exchanging pictures. It quickly went from clothed face shots to naked photos of "important parts". I have some definitely not minor shyness issues, but I overcame them for the sake of photos.

But lately, she asked me for a rather weird thing - she wants me to make a video of myself in the shower. I instantly thought that it's not going to happen. I am 100% sure it will look very awkward, besides my shyness and my "constant pokerface syndrome".

She insist that it takes no time, it's easy to do, and doesn't require any posing and similar things. I tell her that I'm uncomfortable with that, and suggest that I take usual private places pictures instead. She is then confused how is it possible that I'm okay with sending pictures of my dick, but uncomfortable with sending a video of me showering, with face and everything else visible. Maybe it's a fair point, and I can't really explain it.

One of her another arguments is that even if I think the video will look stupid or awkward, she will enjoy it. It doesn't really help me in making a decision. In fact, I really don't want to do that, and I suspect that she thinks she somehow deserves that. (Extra info - she didn't say she will make similar video later, but I didn't suggest it either) Communication is one of the most important things in a relationship, but she seems like she doesn't understand it, and insists me to make the vid even if it's uncomfortable for me.

What to do? Again sorry if it sounds non-serious. We know each other for quite a while and I prefer to stay in this "relationship", but I will have little to no problems with ending it if she keeps acting like that.
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I don't know if this is serious enough to post in this subreddit, so excuse me if you find it trivial...

About 3 years ago I found a very kind, funny and pretty girl on the internet. I'm 22, she is near 28. We are chatting regularly, though I noticed that she rarely initiates the conversation - I am almost always first. We are always talking very comfortable from both sides.

We try to neutralize lack of physical contact by exchanging pictures. It quickly went from clothed face shots to naked photos of "important parts". I have some definitely not minor shyness issues, but I overcame them for the sake of photos.

But lately, she asked me for a rather weird thing - she wants me to make a video of myself in the shower. I instantly thought that it's not going to happen. I am 100% sure it will look very awkward, besides my shyness and my "constant pokerface syndrome".

She insist that it takes no time, it's easy to do, and doesn't require any posing and similar things. I tell her that I'm uncomfortable with that, and suggest that I take usual private places pictures instead. She is then confused how is it possible that I'm okay with sending pictures of my dick, but uncomfortable with sending a video of me showering, with face and everything else visible. Maybe it's a fair point, and I can't really explain it.

One of her another arguments is that even if I think the video will look stupid or awkward, she will enjoy it. It doesn't really help me in making a decision. In fact, I really don't want to do that, and I suspect that she thinks she somehow deserves that. (Extra info - she didn't say she will make similar video later, but I didn't suggest it either) Communication is one of the most important things in a relationship, but she seems like she doesn't understand it, and insists me to make the vid even if it's uncomfortable for me.

What to do? Again sorry if it sounds non-serious. We know each other for quite a while and I prefer to stay in this "relationship", but I will have little to no problems with ending it if she keeps acting like that.
user
Long-distance girlfriend
assistant