So my SO,lets call him A, doesn't approve of my friend because she drinks occasionally and he doesn't want me to be hangout with people who do that. His reasoning is because its unhealthy and he thinks people who do it are dumb.

 My friend, B, takes amazing care of her body. She runs marathons and is a vegetarian. She goes to college and does party on some weekends like a normal person. We have been friends for almost 4 years. He doesn't want me to be friends with her. 

This being said I'm not sure if A is using that as an excuse because he is trying to control me. He hates it when i hang out with people he doesn't know. Say if i go to lunch with a guy I work with, he will call and demand that I leave (its really embarrassing). I can never be on my phone around him (even when we spend extended periods of time together) but demands that I constantly text him, even when I'm with my grandma. He hates when his roommates talk to me, even tho its just small talk. Its gotten to the point to where he wont let me come visit him. (we live 3 hours apart)

I have brought it up to him that i think he is being to controlling but he refuses to see that there is a problem because he doesn't think he is doing anything wrong. He says that i make bad choices with who I am friends with. He is the type that always thinks he is right. 

I love him and I don't want to break up with him but I also cant live like this. When does a relationship reach a point to when its considered controlling and unhealthy.
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SO won't let me hang out with friend because she drinks sometimes. I
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So my SO,lets call him A, doesn't approve of my friend because she drinks occasionally and he doesn't want me to be hangout with people who do that. His reasoning is because its unhealthy and he thinks people who do it are dumb.

 My friend, B, takes amazing care of her body. She runs marathons and is a vegetarian. She goes to college and does party on some weekends like a normal person. We have been friends for almost 4 years. He doesn't want me to be friends with her. 

This being said I'm not sure if A is using that as an excuse because he is trying to control me. He hates it when i hang out with people he doesn't know. Say if i go to lunch with a guy I work with, he will call and demand that I leave (its really embarrassing). I can never be on my phone around him (even when we spend extended periods of time together) but demands that I constantly text him, even when I'm with my grandma. He hates when his roommates talk to me, even tho its just small talk. Its gotten to the point to where he wont let me come visit him. (we live 3 hours apart)

I have brought it up to him that i think he is being to controlling but he refuses to see that there is a problem because he doesn't think he is doing anything wrong. He says that i make bad choices with who I am friends with. He is the type that always thinks he is right. 

I love him and I don't want to break up with him but I also cant live like this. When does a relationship reach a point to when its considered controlling and unhealthy.
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My SO doesn't want me to hang out with a friend because he
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