I have always struggled to maintain a relationship, this being the longest one I have had yet. She has always made me extremely happy when I have been with her, but we knew that breaking up was inevitable at some point as we both were due to finish university and move to different countries in the next year. However, I still continued to develop feelings for her and she did for me, in what was meant to be a "fuckbuddy" situation (later becoming exclusive). 

In the last month I left the town we were in university at, and we both said goodbye, but as we missed each other so much she came to to visit me twice, unplanned. This included meeting my family (something i have never done with a girl). We had an amazing time together and it just made us feel for each other more, the second time we knew we would not see each other again as she is leaving the country for a couple of months, and shortly after that, we are moving to different countries indefinitely. 

This was devastating for me and it seemed for her, but today (only a few days after she left) she rang me crying (very out of character for her, an extremely positive person), and told me she had been drinking and taking cocaine with my group of friends from uni last night, and had ended up sleeping with a good friend of mine. 

This has absolutely torn me up inside, as I was already trying to get over the fact that the only girl that had made me consistently happy would have to part from me due to practical reasons which seem pointless and mundane. However the memories that I had of her comforted me and i could still think of her positively. Now I am completely devastated, I know that whenever I think about her, I will think of her sleeping with him and not the good times we had. This even crowds out the hate I have for him, who was supposedly my friend. She tells me she doesnt even know how it happened, and that she was extremely inebriated, but this has no comfort. How do i get over this?
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found out that my gf of 4 months has slept with my friend last night, emotionally devastated, wondering how to
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I have always struggled to maintain a relationship, this being the longest one I have had yet. She has always made me extremely happy when I have been with her, but we knew that breaking up was inevitable at some point as we both were due to finish university and move to different countries in the next year. However, I still continued to develop feelings for her and she did for me, in what was meant to be a "fuckbuddy" situation (later becoming exclusive). 

In the last month I left the town we were in university at, and we both said goodbye, but as we missed each other so much she came to to visit me twice, unplanned. This included meeting my family (something i have never done with a girl). We had an amazing time together and it just made us feel for each other more, the second time we knew we would not see each other again as she is leaving the country for a couple of months, and shortly after that, we are moving to different countries indefinitely. 

This was devastating for me and it seemed for her, but today (only a few days after she left) she rang me crying (very out of character for her, an extremely positive person), and told me she had been drinking and taking cocaine with my group of friends from uni last night, and had ended up sleeping with a good friend of mine. 

This has absolutely torn me up inside, as I was already trying to get over the fact that the only girl that had made me consistently happy would have to part from me due to practical reasons which seem pointless and mundane. However the memories that I had of her comforted me and i could still think of her positively. Now I am completely devastated, I know that whenever I think about her, I will think of her sleeping with him and not the good times we had. This even crowds out the hate I have for him, who was supposedly my friend. She tells me she doesnt even know how it happened, and that she was extremely inebriated, but this has no comfort. How do i get over this?
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Found out girlfriend of 4 months slept with my friend last night, completely devastated me and need help coping/overcome this
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