I met "James" five weeks ago at a meetup.com meetup for board games. I could tell he was immediately interested, he flirted extensively with me the whole night. We've been to a couple more board game meetups together and have flirted back and forth a lot. I really, really like him, and would love to start having casual sex, but I'm worried I have issues that would be dealbreakers for him.

I am a student currently living with my parents, and I don't have a car. I don't even drive yet, I'm in the process of overcoming a crippling fear of cars that I'm working to get over it with a therapist. (I actually have my learners permit so I've been practicing driving. I should be ready to take the test soon.)

Anyway I'm worried that these issues are super inconvenient, infantilizing, and make me really lame and not worthy of being in a relationship, even a casual one.
user
I like a guy, he's interested, but I have issues I'm afraid of bringing up that make me less attractive and less worthy
assistant
I met "James" five weeks ago at a meetup.com meetup for board games. I could tell he was immediately interested, he flirted extensively with me the whole night. We've been to a couple more board game meetups together and have flirted back and forth a lot. I really, really like him, and would love to start having casual sex, but I'm worried I have issues that would be dealbreakers for him.

I am a student currently living with my parents, and I don't have a car. I don't even drive yet, I'm in the process of overcoming a crippling fear of cars that I'm working to get over it with a therapist. (I actually have my learners permit so I've been practicing driving. I should be ready to take the test soon.)

Anyway I'm worried that these issues are super inconvenient, infantilizing, and make me really lame and not worthy of being in a relationship, even a casual one.
user
I'm worried that I'm too young and not cool enough for a guy who's interested in a relationship.
assistant