My friend of four years asked me to come visit her (she lives out of state now and lives with her girlfriend). I've only been here for one day. She's been in an abusive relationship for about 2 and a half years. She's tried to leave a couple times but she always takes her girlfriend back. I've helped her through numerous breakups in the past. Came up to see her and this first day her and her girlfriend have fought the entire time. I've had anxiety all day and tonight I had to play music in the guest room to drown out the sound of them fighting.

My friend and I had planned to take a trip to Canada for a couple days during the trip and i talked to her tonight and said I'm leaving early and she asked if I would still go with her to Canada. At this point I'm pissed that she thought it would be ok for me to come here. I told her I might go with her to Canada but I'm not coming back to this house. She already booked the hotel. I honestly don't even want to go there tho cause I'm mad at here for bringing me into this and I know we'll end up talking about her girlfriend the whole time. Im thinking about just paying her for the hotel and leaving. I'm done. Is that justified or should I suck it up and be there for her by leaving the country with her for a couple days?
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Friend is in an abusive relationship and is willing to make a camp trip of it. I'm pissed at her. Should I leave her for her to leave for her own good and get a
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My friend of four years asked me to come visit her (she lives out of state now and lives with her girlfriend). I've only been here for one day. She's been in an abusive relationship for about 2 and a half years. She's tried to leave a couple times but she always takes her girlfriend back. I've helped her through numerous breakups in the past. Came up to see her and this first day her and her girlfriend have fought the entire time. I've had anxiety all day and tonight I had to play music in the guest room to drown out the sound of them fighting.

My friend and I had planned to take a trip to Canada for a couple days during the trip and i talked to her tonight and said I'm leaving early and she asked if I would still go with her to Canada. At this point I'm pissed that she thought it would be ok for me to come here. I told her I might go with her to Canada but I'm not coming back to this house. She already booked the hotel. I honestly don't even want to go there tho cause I'm mad at here for bringing me into this and I know we'll end up talking about her girlfriend the whole time. Im thinking about just paying her for the hotel and leaving. I'm done. Is that justified or should I suck it up and be there for her by leaving the country with her for a couple days?
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Friend and her girlfriend are having a fight and I have anxiety about seeing her. Should I stay for a couple days and take her to Canada?
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