Back in HS, I had this one girl who I always had a crush on, even if I had other girlfriends or was single, she always knew a part of me wanted her. And I still believe part of her wanted me too, I just never made an actual move.

We continued talking through college and kept that kind of ambiguous nature of our relationship active. She would always talk the talk without walking the walk, you know, say she would want to visit me at school without ever following through, or vice versa. 

Well fast forward to summer last year and I flat out told her that I had always had a crush on her and just plainly put myself out there for her. Nothing. Oh well, I moved on.

Skip to earlier this week and I get this text out of nowhere asking how I've been and wanting to catch up and all that jazz. Now I'm confused. She was never really the type to go out of her way to talk to me since before I was the one doing all the leg work and she knew I would eventually give in. And even after putting myself out there, we just kind of stopped talking altogether. 

Now, the ball is in my court. I'm obviously still attracted to her physically, but I don't want to give her any leverage in this.

I know it sounds crappy, but the man in me wants to just get what I can out of her (sexually) and then say "see ya". Because of how she reacted when I put myself out there. But if anyone has some prior experience with a similar relationship I would be like to hear your input.
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Former crush now wants to see where things go with me after prior failed attempts,
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Back in HS, I had this one girl who I always had a crush on, even if I had other girlfriends or was single, she always knew a part of me wanted her. And I still believe part of her wanted me too, I just never made an actual move.

We continued talking through college and kept that kind of ambiguous nature of our relationship active. She would always talk the talk without walking the walk, you know, say she would want to visit me at school without ever following through, or vice versa. 

Well fast forward to summer last year and I flat out told her that I had always had a crush on her and just plainly put myself out there for her. Nothing. Oh well, I moved on.

Skip to earlier this week and I get this text out of nowhere asking how I've been and wanting to catch up and all that jazz. Now I'm confused. She was never really the type to go out of her way to talk to me since before I was the one doing all the leg work and she knew I would eventually give in. And even after putting myself out there, we just kind of stopped talking altogether. 

Now, the ball is in my court. I'm obviously still attracted to her physically, but I don't want to give her any leverage in this.

I know it sounds crappy, but the man in me wants to just get what I can out of her (sexually) and then say "see ya". Because of how she reacted when I put myself out there. But if anyone has some prior experience with a similar relationship I would be like to hear your input.
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ex-crush wants to see where things go with me after prior failed attempts, now confused
assistant