With the previous guy we have been together for a while, having fun, I was in love, but realized that I wasnt going to get the attention and love I want in return, so I decided to keep him around (and have vary hot sex) until I find THE guy. 

Then I found him. He is handsome, smart and adores me. Our relationship is what I really craved for. 

But, we never stopped talking with the other guy. I tried telling him to not text, but he keeps doing it, and I care about him, so I answer ( if I block him, he finds other ways to contact me)

I never wanted this to happen. 

With my current boyfriend, we are not having sex (he is christian), which I'm okay with, because I think it does good to our relationship to get to know each other better first. 

The other guy keeps writing me, tries to convince me to sleep with him, and in a way we have a deeper bond, because we have slept together. 
I would never cheat my boyfriend. 

My head is a mess. They are both very nice in their own way, and I care about both of them. 
With the previous guy we have 8 months behind us, i know him, he knows me, we comforted each other a lot of times, and he understood parts of me my boyfriend doesnt (and also there are parts that only my boyfriend understands, he didnt) 

How do I make these thoughts about the other guy go away? 
We never really broke up, we were never really together.
user
I (20/f) have an amazing boyfriend (19/M, one month) but
assistant
With the previous guy we have been together for a while, having fun, I was in love, but realized that I wasnt going to get the attention and love I want in return, so I decided to keep him around (and have vary hot sex) until I find THE guy. 

Then I found him. He is handsome, smart and adores me. Our relationship is what I really craved for. 

But, we never stopped talking with the other guy. I tried telling him to not text, but he keeps doing it, and I care about him, so I answer ( if I block him, he finds other ways to contact me)

I never wanted this to happen. 

With my current boyfriend, we are not having sex (he is christian), which I'm okay with, because I think it does good to our relationship to get to know each other better first. 

The other guy keeps writing me, tries to convince me to sleep with him, and in a way we have a deeper bond, because we have slept together. 
I would never cheat my boyfriend. 

My head is a mess. They are both very nice in their own way, and I care about both of them. 
With the previous guy we have 8 months behind us, i know him, he knows me, we comforted each other a lot of times, and he understood parts of me my boyfriend doesnt (and also there are parts that only my boyfriend understands, he didnt) 

How do I make these thoughts about the other guy go away? 
We never really broke up, we were never really together.
user
Found my new boyfriend, and now I think about my
assistant