My girlfriend really hates relationships, she says they feel like a chore. Last night I asked her if she thought our relationship was a chore and she said it feels like it, so I asked her why she's still doing it and she said it's because she loves me and she's making a sacrifice because she knows it makes me happy. I didn't think about it too much last night but I woke up this morning after it being in the back of my mind all night and now I just feel kind of numb.. is she going to start to resent me because she's in a relationship with me? I like to think that the relationship makes her happy too, but now I'm honestly not even sure anymore. I chased this girl for eight months before we started dating and I honestly think I love her too. I know a lot of you will say I'm too young to know what real love is, but this is as real as it's ever been for me. She's everything I've wanted in a girl, but I'm so scared that I've already lost her and she's only still dating me to make me happy. In a way I just want to let her go so that she can be happy and I can start the healing process.. but I'm really scared that I'm not going to find anybody that I feel the same about. I'm scared that she's the girl that I'll always think about and the one that I'll always wish I still had. I don't know how I'll get over her. But do I have to? Should I just let her go? Or should I just wait and see if she breaks it off? Are there other options? Please, any advice or input would be appreciated so much.
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My girlfriend really hates relationships, she says they feel like a chore. Last night I asked her if she thought our relationship was a chore and she said it feels like it, so I asked her why she's still doing it and she said it's because she loves me and she's making a sacrifice because she knows it makes me happy. I didn't think about it too much last night but I woke up this morning after it being in the back of my mind all night and now I just feel kind of numb.. is she going to start to resent me because she's in a relationship with me? I like to think that the relationship makes her happy too, but now I'm honestly not even sure anymore. I chased this girl for eight months before we started dating and I honestly think I love her too. I know a lot of you will say I'm too young to know what real love is, but this is as real as it's ever been for me. She's everything I've wanted in a girl, but I'm so scared that I've already lost her and she's only still dating me to make me happy. In a way I just want to let her go so that she can be happy and I can start the healing process.. but I'm really scared that I'm not going to find anybody that I feel the same about. I'm scared that she's the girl that I'll always think about and the one that I'll always wish I still had. I don't know how I'll get over her. But do I have to? Should I just let her go? Or should I just wait and see if she breaks it off? Are there other options? Please, any advice or input would be appreciated so much.
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