Background, have hung out with them for a couple years on campus, decide to live together. Almost the whole time I've known them I've had a GF that I absolutely adore (and she loves me right back). She hung out in my apt after class because it was crowded in her dorm and we spent the nights together. A couple weeks ago one of them texted me that they wanted to talk to me about her in private. I said no way, face to face with everyone is the way I do things. I called him and he said "he doesn't like the way she acts". When I get both of them together, one says that he just wants her to spend less time in the apt (totally understandable, I told him that she would). The other guy just said " we want our friend back" implying that my gf has a bad influence on me (far from the truth). The thing is, they did this to another friend with a girlfriend of theirs a year ago, and I saw it happen. Same words too, "we want our friend back". And now whenever I enter it's just stone cold faces and silence. ~~I'm moving out next semester, but should I leave things as they are or try and get some sort of closure?
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roommates confirmed they want
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Background, have hung out with them for a couple years on campus, decide to live together. Almost the whole time I've known them I've had a GF that I absolutely adore (and she loves me right back). She hung out in my apt after class because it was crowded in her dorm and we spent the nights together. A couple weeks ago one of them texted me that they wanted to talk to me about her in private. I said no way, face to face with everyone is the way I do things. I called him and he said "he doesn't like the way she acts". When I get both of them together, one says that he just wants her to spend less time in the apt (totally understandable, I told him that she would). The other guy just said " we want our friend back" implying that my gf has a bad influence on me (far from the truth). The thing is, they did this to another friend with a girlfriend of theirs a year ago, and I saw it happen. Same words too, "we want our friend back". And now whenever I enter it's just stone cold faces and silence. ~~I'm moving out next semester, but should I leave things as they are or try and get some sort of closure?
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roommates giving me silent
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