This is a fuckton of info and this is a throwaway account because my boyfriend knows my reddit username. 

Characters:
Me [24 F]
Boyfriend Ryan [24 M]
His ex Natalie [24 F]
Our mutual good friend Sara [24 F]

Timeline: I've known Sara since 5th grade. I've known my Ryan since 12th grade. Sara, Natalie, and Ryan friends since 10th grade. Ryan and I didn't start dating til this past February but we've known each other since 12th grade like I said.

Incident: Ryan and Natalie dating in 12th grade. Natalie cheats on Ryan with Sara. Ryan never knows about it.

Advice needed: The only reason I would even consider bringing this incident up is because Ryan tells me he's only felt the way he feels about me once before (with Natalie). Typing this out, I suppose this might be immature jealousy on my part... but I kind of hate that he sees her in this angelic light when I know what she did. 

I kind of think I shouldn't say anything though, because Ryan, Sara and I are all pretty close. Natalie isn't really in the picture...

Just thought I'd ask in case y'all think he deserves to know, though.
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Boyfriend was cheated on 7 years ago by his ex girlfriend with my
assistant
This is a fuckton of info and this is a throwaway account because my boyfriend knows my reddit username. 

Characters:
Me [24 F]
Boyfriend Ryan [24 M]
His ex Natalie [24 F]
Our mutual good friend Sara [24 F]

Timeline: I've known Sara since 5th grade. I've known my Ryan since 12th grade. Sara, Natalie, and Ryan friends since 10th grade. Ryan and I didn't start dating til this past February but we've known each other since 12th grade like I said.

Incident: Ryan and Natalie dating in 12th grade. Natalie cheats on Ryan with Sara. Ryan never knows about it.

Advice needed: The only reason I would even consider bringing this incident up is because Ryan tells me he's only felt the way he feels about me once before (with Natalie). Typing this out, I suppose this might be immature jealousy on my part... but I kind of hate that he sees her in this angelic light when I know what she did. 

I kind of think I shouldn't say anything though, because Ryan, Sara and I are all pretty close. Natalie isn't really in the picture...

Just thought I'd ask in case y'all think he deserves to know, though.
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Boyfriend cheated on his girlfriend 7 years ago with my good friend, never
assistant