Recently been talking to this really great guy over the last month and a half (he's away on long term business for the last 2 months, but he lives near me). Things were going really great. He was calling me every night and we were texting throughout the day, a mixture of normal and flirty stuff. Every morning I'd wake up to a good morning text and he'd send a good night one too.

A few nights ago he open up to me that his long term girlfriend who he was with 4 years ago really messed with his head (seems she was really unwell), so much so that he had a breakdown and it took him a while to recover. He said he is now really wary as a result. He said he wanted to tell me because he has messed up potential relationships before because of it and he didn't want to make the same mistake. I was understanding and asked him if there was anything I should do to make him feel more relaxed to which he told me that I just needed to keep being me because I was doing everything right.

Since then he's really dropped off. He still texts me every morning and evening to check in and out, but the amount has really dropped off. I was just wondering if this a normal thing to happen or if he's just interest?
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Recently been talking to this really great guy over the last month and a half (he's away on long term business for the last 2 months, but he lives near me). Things were going really great. He was calling me every night and we were texting throughout the day, a mixture of normal and flirty stuff. Every morning I'd wake up to a good morning text and he'd send a good night one too.

A few nights ago he open up to me that his long term girlfriend who he was with 4 years ago really messed with his head (seems she was really unwell), so much so that he had a breakdown and it took him a while to recover. He said he is now really wary as a result. He said he wanted to tell me because he has messed up potential relationships before because of it and he didn't want to make the same mistake. I was understanding and asked him if there was anything I should do to make him feel more relaxed to which he told me that I just needed to keep being me because I was doing everything right.

Since then he's really dropped off. He still texts me every morning and evening to check in and out, but the amount has really dropped off. I was just wondering if this a normal thing to happen or if he's just interest?
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