So my wife (30 f) and I (30 m) are getting a divorce. We've both been very respectful through the process so far. We're still living together while she finds a new place to live because I see no point in kicking her and my son out. We're on lease until July and she can't afford the place were in alone, so it seemed reasonable despite knowing that it's not a great idea. 

Anyway, she woke me up before she went to work this morning (I work late evenings) to tell me she didn't want me to sleep in "her" bed anymore. Now, the bed is technically ours, not hers. I was really confused because I just woke up, so I told her we'd talk about it later. To explain further - I've been taking sleeping medicine and a codeine cough syrup to make sure I sleep and don't cough through the night. I had an upper respiratory infection a week ago that has caused a  really bad asthma flare up after it was under control for 18 years. 

When I followed up later in the day I tried to tell her I have as much right to be there as she does, but she started getting really upset and was asking if she should come home tonight, somewhat insinuating that she felt unsafe, I suppose. I was blindsided by that response because I haven't made any sexual advances, I'm sleeping in pajamas,  and I haven't done anything to threaten her safety.

Now I'm looking at this - I can sleep on the floor, a deflating air mattress, or one of our really uncomfortable recliner chairs... Or I can tell her to deal with it? I have no close friends or family here because we moved out of state so she could go to the school she wanted to.
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my wife doesn't want me to sleep in her bed anymore and
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So my wife (30 f) and I (30 m) are getting a divorce. We've both been very respectful through the process so far. We're still living together while she finds a new place to live because I see no point in kicking her and my son out. We're on lease until July and she can't afford the place were in alone, so it seemed reasonable despite knowing that it's not a great idea. 

Anyway, she woke me up before she went to work this morning (I work late evenings) to tell me she didn't want me to sleep in "her" bed anymore. Now, the bed is technically ours, not hers. I was really confused because I just woke up, so I told her we'd talk about it later. To explain further - I've been taking sleeping medicine and a codeine cough syrup to make sure I sleep and don't cough through the night. I had an upper respiratory infection a week ago that has caused a  really bad asthma flare up after it was under control for 18 years. 

When I followed up later in the day I tried to tell her I have as much right to be there as she does, but she started getting really upset and was asking if she should come home tonight, somewhat insinuating that she felt unsafe, I suppose. I was blindsided by that response because I haven't made any sexual advances, I'm sleeping in pajamas,  and I haven't done anything to threaten her safety.

Now I'm looking at this - I can sleep on the floor, a deflating air mattress, or one of our really uncomfortable recliner chairs... Or I can tell her to deal with it? I have no close friends or family here because we moved out of state so she could go to the school she wanted to.
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Wife didn't want me to sleep in her bed anymore. Am I
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