To start off we have been together for 3 years (4 in april). He cheated on me twice last year that ended up him trying to commit suicide when i found out.... since then, he hasn't done anything wrong (i had been giving him the 3rd degree since and been suggesting he's doing things when he really hasn't) and we are working on being happy again...

I recently found out he had been hooking up with girls during our first year of dating (i.e. pregnant girls, honestly very ugly slutty girls, and girls who had kids which he use to claim were gross to fuck cause they're "pussies were stretched out") he doesn't know i know right now.

When i first started dating him i found out he use to have sort of a vendetta against the female population, fuck girls, they're fucked up, only meant for pussy etc. But i am extremely upset because i gave him the option to tell me about his discrepancies but he chose to lie... he isn't like this anymore but i feel like i have still been betrayed....

Should i take this as seriously as i feel like i am or should i forget about it as it is something he was in the past and no longer has this mentality? I've brought up past shit so much that its really taking a toll on our relationship, he's broken up with me about it a few times but we would end up talking it out within a day. This is a real relationship  worth having and i am happy that i was someone who could change his mentality about relationships with women. We both are so similar in personality and mentality wise and i can honestly say we are best friends (he was the first friend i made when i moved to a new state). He continues to do his best and is succeeding but i cant help but feel he either kept this from me to save his own ass or because he felt it was irrelevant to what we are currently achieving.

Im looking for male or people with similar experiences' responses.

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</b> Boyfriend cheated on me twice, dumped me, but is in fact doing everything he can to get back with me and we are working on being happy again.
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To start off we have been together for 3 years (4 in april). He cheated on me twice last year that ended up him trying to commit suicide when i found out.... since then, he hasn't done anything wrong (i had been giving him the 3rd degree since and been suggesting he's doing things when he really hasn't) and we are working on being happy again...

I recently found out he had been hooking up with girls during our first year of dating (i.e. pregnant girls, honestly very ugly slutty girls, and girls who had kids which he use to claim were gross to fuck cause they're "pussies were stretched out") he doesn't know i know right now.

When i first started dating him i found out he use to have sort of a vendetta against the female population, fuck girls, they're fucked up, only meant for pussy etc. But i am extremely upset because i gave him the option to tell me about his discrepancies but he chose to lie... he isn't like this anymore but i feel like i have still been betrayed....

Should i take this as seriously as i feel like i am or should i forget about it as it is something he was in the past and no longer has this mentality? I've brought up past shit so much that its really taking a toll on our relationship, he's broken up with me about it a few times but we would end up talking it out within a day. This is a real relationship  worth having and i am happy that i was someone who could change his mentality about relationships with women. We both are so similar in personality and mentality wise and i can honestly say we are best friends (he was the first friend i made when i moved to a new state). He continues to do his best and is succeeding but i cant help but feel he either kept this from me to save his own ass or because he felt it was irrelevant to what we are currently achieving.

Im looking for male or people with similar experiences' responses.

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</b> been together 3 years.. sexually abused boyfriend had cheated twice last year and attempted suicide. I recently found out during our first year of dating he had been cheating on me with girls who were less attractive (honest) and basically girls he had described
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