My partner and I by all accounts get on great. We are LDR by only a couple hours, we enjoy each others company and always find time for each other and we both wish to focus on finishing our degrees this year before commiting. However she has recently admitted to me that she isn't getting turned on by me specifically and doesnt know why. When pressed she says its something about my demeanor. She had this issue in her previous very long relationship. I've explained to her that nobody is 100% perfect and that my sexual attraction to her is deriven from wanting to please her. I'm starting to wonder if shes just unwilling to look past a minor thing in light of how she likes everything else about me, or if this is genuinely an issue that has no good resolution.

It seems she wants me to do something to turn her on yet she herself says she doesnt know what it is. 
No, we HAVE had sex several times before, and that was her trying to throw herself into it which I appreciate but it seems this 'demeanor' thing is so important to her that psychologically that its not something that can be ignored.
The other thing is, she herself says she cant explain it, I've never encountered anyone like that before. Its not my looks, opinions, behaviour etc. she puts it down to 'demeanor'. 

I know people will say this is a dealbreaker, and its a shame because we get on so well together. However I'm checking with this subreddit to see if anyone has been in a similar situation and managed to overcome it.
user
Im not turning my partner on, dealbreaker or am I overcomplicating the problem?
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My partner and I by all accounts get on great. We are LDR by only a couple hours, we enjoy each others company and always find time for each other and we both wish to focus on finishing our degrees this year before commiting. However she has recently admitted to me that she isn't getting turned on by me specifically and doesnt know why. When pressed she says its something about my demeanor. She had this issue in her previous very long relationship. I've explained to her that nobody is 100% perfect and that my sexual attraction to her is deriven from wanting to please her. I'm starting to wonder if shes just unwilling to look past a minor thing in light of how she likes everything else about me, or if this is genuinely an issue that has no good resolution.

It seems she wants me to do something to turn her on yet she herself says she doesnt know what it is. 
No, we HAVE had sex several times before, and that was her trying to throw herself into it which I appreciate but it seems this 'demeanor' thing is so important to her that psychologically that its not something that can be ignored.
The other thing is, she herself says she cant explain it, I've never encountered anyone like that before. Its not my looks, opinions, behaviour etc. she puts it down to 'demeanor'. 

I know people will say this is a dealbreaker, and its a shame because we get on so well together. However I'm checking with this subreddit to see if anyone has been in a similar situation and managed to overcome it.
user
Don't know what to make of partner who isn't sexually attracted to me. she has previous experience with this
assistant