Very simply, my gf of 3 months now got into a bit of a argument tonight. We went to dinner, came back and I was being flirty/making moves on her. She starts getting all locked up and tight and I could tell she wasn't really into it. She says nothing, but I knew she wasn't telling the truth, so I pressed a little further. She basically said "you make me feel like you only want to have sex with me". 

Inside I got so pissed off and rather insulted. I'm feeling beyond both (right now, still). I asked her if she was being serious, and she said yeah. I might have fucked up here and said "are you fucking serious?, let me get this straight, you've had sex with 2 other guys before me, and both of which you weren't in a relationships with and one of them was a ONS and you're accusing me of just wanting sex with you?" I continued with, "if I just wanted to have sex with you I wouldn't be doing all of these other boyfriend things with you like taking you out for a nice dinner".

So, yeah, I over-reacted hard but I really like her, and this made my blood boil on a whole other level. I feel rather insulted that she just accused me of wanting sex with her when I CLEARLY don't (both through my actions and words).

What's going on here? Anyone have any perspective of WHY she might be feeling this way? Is it possible I'm doing something? This is the second time she's said this, the first we were drunk and she acted like she wanted to have sex, all the way up until we started having it then started to cry so we stopped, and basically said the same thing, but I let it go because we were drunk. (This was 2ish months ago.)
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gf has now accused me of "just wanting her for sex"
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Very simply, my gf of 3 months now got into a bit of a argument tonight. We went to dinner, came back and I was being flirty/making moves on her. She starts getting all locked up and tight and I could tell she wasn't really into it. She says nothing, but I knew she wasn't telling the truth, so I pressed a little further. She basically said "you make me feel like you only want to have sex with me". 

Inside I got so pissed off and rather insulted. I'm feeling beyond both (right now, still). I asked her if she was being serious, and she said yeah. I might have fucked up here and said "are you fucking serious?, let me get this straight, you've had sex with 2 other guys before me, and both of which you weren't in a relationships with and one of them was a ONS and you're accusing me of just wanting sex with you?" I continued with, "if I just wanted to have sex with you I wouldn't be doing all of these other boyfriend things with you like taking you out for a nice dinner".

So, yeah, I over-reacted hard but I really like her, and this made my blood boil on a whole other level. I feel rather insulted that she just accused me of wanting sex with her when I CLEARLY don't (both through my actions and words).

What's going on here? Anyone have any perspective of WHY she might be feeling this way? Is it possible I'm doing something? This is the second time she's said this, the first we were drunk and she acted like she wanted to have sex, all the way up until we started having it then started to cry so we stopped, and basically said the same thing, but I let it go because we were drunk. (This was 2ish months ago.)
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gf accused me of wanting sex with her when I meant
assistant