Hiya reddit! 
I (f24) have decided that my friendship with my best friend of eleven years (m23) has to come to a close. It's not like something massive has happened that has made me realise that it's no longer the best option for us to be in eachothers lives anymore, it's that over the last year we have grown further and further apart. He leads an extremely busy and commitment filled life where as I tend to have a more relaxed life. His commitments and my relaxed attitude have led us to lead in different directions.

The last time we spoke was almost two weeks ago. We were supposed to have dinner together but because he has so many things going on, he kept rescheduling and it got to the point where I told him Id see him another night because I couldn't see us getting in a good catch up that night.

I think the feeling is mutual, that we both know that the friendship we used to have is no longer there, and we both aren't really willing to try to mend it. 

My questions for you reddit are ;
Do we need to have a conversation about this? do we need to sit down and have the discussion so that we both know where we lie in each others lives? 

I'm pretty close to his family, as he is with mine. Do you think it's better for me to discontinue a relationship with them as well? I know his parents would still talk to me about him, and I'm not entirely sure I'd want to hear it. 

Thanks in advance reddit!
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Hiya reddit! 
I (f24) have decided that my friendship with my best friend of eleven years (m23) has to come to a close. It's not like something massive has happened that has made me realise that it's no longer the best option for us to be in eachothers lives anymore, it's that over the last year we have grown further and further apart. He leads an extremely busy and commitment filled life where as I tend to have a more relaxed life. His commitments and my relaxed attitude have led us to lead in different directions.

The last time we spoke was almost two weeks ago. We were supposed to have dinner together but because he has so many things going on, he kept rescheduling and it got to the point where I told him Id see him another night because I couldn't see us getting in a good catch up that night.

I think the feeling is mutual, that we both know that the friendship we used to have is no longer there, and we both aren't really willing to try to mend it. 

My questions for you reddit are ;
Do we need to have a conversation about this? do we need to sit down and have the discussion so that we both know where we lie in each others lives? 

I'm pretty close to his family, as he is with mine. Do you think it's better for me to discontinue a relationship with them as well? I know his parents would still talk to me about him, and I'm not entirely sure I'd want to hear it. 

Thanks in advance reddit!
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