So, I'm 32 and I've never been in a real relationship, but that is sort of due to crippling anxiety issues and being raised religious in the South. 

Additionally, when I was around 27 I discovered I had Swyers Syndrome, which means that I am completely female, but my genes are XY. I did not discover this until I was filing out paperwork for a government job overseas, requiring extensive medical paperwork. Talked to my mother, she told me she felt it would just be added stress to tell this to an adolescent, and I kind of agree with her.

 When I was in high school, the doctors and my parents told me I just had a weird form of ovarian cancer and couldn't have children. Never wanted them, so I apart from...you know...cancer...I was all right with the diagnosis.

So, I'm contentedly infertile and upfront about this with my friends. However, I've dealt recently with my insecurity issues, JUST started seeing a therapist about my anxiety and am ready to begin dating.

Apart from the infertility (obviously, I would disclose that; I don't want kids), do I disclose this? It changes nothing fundamentally about myself. If I do disclose it, how early on? I feel like it could freak men out to find out about my genes unnecessarily. Any thoughts?
user
Later in life discovered I am a female with XY chromosomes. Apart from infertility,
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So, I'm 32 and I've never been in a real relationship, but that is sort of due to crippling anxiety issues and being raised religious in the South. 

Additionally, when I was around 27 I discovered I had Swyers Syndrome, which means that I am completely female, but my genes are XY. I did not discover this until I was filing out paperwork for a government job overseas, requiring extensive medical paperwork. Talked to my mother, she told me she felt it would just be added stress to tell this to an adolescent, and I kind of agree with her.

 When I was in high school, the doctors and my parents told me I just had a weird form of ovarian cancer and couldn't have children. Never wanted them, so I apart from...you know...cancer...I was all right with the diagnosis.

So, I'm contentedly infertile and upfront about this with my friends. However, I've dealt recently with my insecurity issues, JUST started seeing a therapist about my anxiety and am ready to begin dating.

Apart from the infertility (obviously, I would disclose that; I don't want kids), do I disclose this? It changes nothing fundamentally about myself. If I do disclose it, how early on? I feel like it could freak men out to find out about my genes unnecessarily. Any thoughts?
user
Been diagnosed with XY chromosomes and feel like it's a bad idea to start
assistant