I don't drink. It completely baffles me when people - who are supposed to be my friends - turn into those peer-pressurey people about whom those role plays in school were meant to warn you. I am so sick of the *stigma* attached to my *choice of beverage*. It's completely ridiculous. You know what's also ridiculous? The fact that people are so *invested* in me drinking. What difference does it make to you? Why can't you just respect my choice? Why the fuck is it such a big deal? Besides, I do enough stupid stuff when I'm sobre. These people cannot take no for an answer. I have no idea why. 

I mean, they are good friends other than that. They're pretty great and they've never tried to pressure me about anything else. I think it's just the drinking culture in Australia that is responsible for that. 

The reason I'm worried about this at the moment is that I have my 21st brithday coming up. I haven't celebrated my birthday since I was like...10 because I haven't even had friends since then. I somehow got conned into having one (because I will apparently regret it for the rest of my life if I don't). It never occurred to me til now that people are going to pull that same crap again. I've tried finding somewhere without alcohol but it's extremely hard to find a fancy-ish, yet reasonably priced, vegetarian-friendly restaurant that can seat 20 people and *also* does not have alcohol. I'm thinking of just cancelling.

I do not want a repeat of last time. I remember feeling like everyone had betrayed me. I remember feeling so alone. When I remember how bad/ashamed I've been made to feel over something as stupid as my non-drinking, it just boggles my mind with rage.
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I'm always ostracised for not drinking and it make me feel like shit, when it
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I don't drink. It completely baffles me when people - who are supposed to be my friends - turn into those peer-pressurey people about whom those role plays in school were meant to warn you. I am so sick of the *stigma* attached to my *choice of beverage*. It's completely ridiculous. You know what's also ridiculous? The fact that people are so *invested* in me drinking. What difference does it make to you? Why can't you just respect my choice? Why the fuck is it such a big deal? Besides, I do enough stupid stuff when I'm sobre. These people cannot take no for an answer. I have no idea why. 

I mean, they are good friends other than that. They're pretty great and they've never tried to pressure me about anything else. I think it's just the drinking culture in Australia that is responsible for that. 

The reason I'm worried about this at the moment is that I have my 21st brithday coming up. I haven't celebrated my birthday since I was like...10 because I haven't even had friends since then. I somehow got conned into having one (because I will apparently regret it for the rest of my life if I don't). It never occurred to me til now that people are going to pull that same crap again. I've tried finding somewhere without alcohol but it's extremely hard to find a fancy-ish, yet reasonably priced, vegetarian-friendly restaurant that can seat 20 people and *also* does not have alcohol. I'm thinking of just cancelling.

I do not want a repeat of last time. I remember feeling like everyone had betrayed me. I remember feeling so alone. When I remember how bad/ashamed I've been made to feel over something as stupid as my non-drinking, it just boggles my mind with rage.
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I don't drink. It's not a big deal to me. I'm worried that it might
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