My friend is getting married this August. His bachelor party is the same week as GenCon.

I was originally scheduled to go to GenCon this summer, but took a job that made that impossible. I was also unable to go to his bachelor party because of this job, but I made plans for GenCon before they set a date for his bachelor party.

This job went by the way-side, and my august opened up. My friend is pressuring me into going to his bachelor party instead of resuming my plans for GenCon.

I like my friend, we're on great terms, I'm even in the bridal party, but I just really don't want to sit at a campsite all weekend and hike for 2 straight days. Especially considering the spot in the Gen Con trip remained open, having people to split the cost is no small thing.

Both options would require me to drive 4+ hours.
user
My friend wants me to go to his bachelor party, but I'd rather go on my
assistant
My friend is getting married this August. His bachelor party is the same week as GenCon.

I was originally scheduled to go to GenCon this summer, but took a job that made that impossible. I was also unable to go to his bachelor party because of this job, but I made plans for GenCon before they set a date for his bachelor party.

This job went by the way-side, and my august opened up. My friend is pressuring me into going to his bachelor party instead of resuming my plans for GenCon.

I like my friend, we're on great terms, I'm even in the bridal party, but I just really don't want to sit at a campsite all weekend and hike for 2 straight days. Especially considering the spot in the Gen Con trip remained open, having people to split the cost is no small thing.

Both options would require me to drive 4+ hours.
user
In friend's wedding. I don't want to goto his Bachelor party. Would rather goto Gen Con
assistant