Well. I'm 25. I do not have all that much experience as it is. I used to be extremely overweight (have lost a great deal but am still kind of big). I've been dating and trying to date for a little while and I feel like the unluckiest person.

To start, I've been using online dating. I think it's actually pretty great. I tend not to just message everyone, and only try and message people who look like they are putting effort into dating as well.

So far I've found maybe three people since I've been on it (quite a long time actually). Who were genuinely interesting and I've enjoyed talking with. Two in particular.

One of these girls I met, we had coffee and a pretty good time. We made plans to meet and they had to be canceled because she had an interview. I asked her to dinner and she said yes. The day before I'm told she was kind of seeing someone else (you know, dating) and that this other person mentioned he wanted to be exclusive. Nothing to get mad about, that's dating. It was a little disappointing though.

This other girl we have been talking a LOT. Both work nights, and so we'd be texting during our breaks. We would exchanges messages every day. Arranged to meet and canceled because she was called into work. No big deal! Rescheduled to meet tomorrow. Wake up to a text along the lines of "I really hate to do this to you but I'm going to have to cancel on you again. I've been out with this other guy a couple times and I want to see where it goes".

Awesome. Dating, or trying to date is the stone cold worst. To top it off I'm frequently told how sweet and amazing, I am after I'm told they want to not continue anymore. Apparently I'm a catch, just not prize worthy.

/rant
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Multiple times canceled on to see
assistant
Well. I'm 25. I do not have all that much experience as it is. I used to be extremely overweight (have lost a great deal but am still kind of big). I've been dating and trying to date for a little while and I feel like the unluckiest person.

To start, I've been using online dating. I think it's actually pretty great. I tend not to just message everyone, and only try and message people who look like they are putting effort into dating as well.

So far I've found maybe three people since I've been on it (quite a long time actually). Who were genuinely interesting and I've enjoyed talking with. Two in particular.

One of these girls I met, we had coffee and a pretty good time. We made plans to meet and they had to be canceled because she had an interview. I asked her to dinner and she said yes. The day before I'm told she was kind of seeing someone else (you know, dating) and that this other person mentioned he wanted to be exclusive. Nothing to get mad about, that's dating. It was a little disappointing though.

This other girl we have been talking a LOT. Both work nights, and so we'd be texting during our breaks. We would exchanges messages every day. Arranged to meet and canceled because she was called into work. No big deal! Rescheduled to meet tomorrow. Wake up to a text along the lines of "I really hate to do this to you but I'm going to have to cancel on you again. I've been out with this other guy a couple times and I want to see where it goes".

Awesome. Dating, or trying to date is the stone cold worst. To top it off I'm frequently told how sweet and amazing, I am after I'm told they want to not continue anymore. Apparently I'm a catch, just not prize worthy.

/rant
user
I'm 25 and I'm not getting
assistant