A couple of weeks ago I (male, 24) went to this monthly dance thing downtown with a friend. I don't like dancing--was not digging it, had a couple of drinks--wasn't feeling too attractive, tried dancing with people. Didn't work out I guess--made me feel down and was about to head home when I started dancing with this girl (we'll call her Anna). We went outside to talk. Found out Anna (female, 31 or 32) was from Belarus (very thick Russian accent, not the best with English). Studying in the city, had been here for five years. I don't remember too much, but we talked for awhile, mostly about movies and food. She gave me her number and we texted a little on and off over the next week. 

Never dated anyone older than me, and she was considerably older, so that was a concern. I guess because of confidence and all that, that I was just being used. My roommate, who is fluent is Russian, was sort of joking around with me that Anna could be using me for a green card marriage, which I laughed off. 

Well, Anna and I went on a date yesterday and it was amazing. We saw this french film at the local indie theater, had sushi, and made out. ten out of ten in my book. but we were talking about all these future plans and things, But the five years thing started ringing in my head. "What if she's liking me too quickly? What if i'm being used?" Everything has been going really well, but I've been hurt before. Should I be cautious? Should I just go with it? So I don't know. I tend to be really paranoid and I don't want to ruin anything because I do really like her. What do you all think?
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Girl I'm seeing likes me too fast, should I be worried?
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A couple of weeks ago I (male, 24) went to this monthly dance thing downtown with a friend. I don't like dancing--was not digging it, had a couple of drinks--wasn't feeling too attractive, tried dancing with people. Didn't work out I guess--made me feel down and was about to head home when I started dancing with this girl (we'll call her Anna). We went outside to talk. Found out Anna (female, 31 or 32) was from Belarus (very thick Russian accent, not the best with English). Studying in the city, had been here for five years. I don't remember too much, but we talked for awhile, mostly about movies and food. She gave me her number and we texted a little on and off over the next week. 

Never dated anyone older than me, and she was considerably older, so that was a concern. I guess because of confidence and all that, that I was just being used. My roommate, who is fluent is Russian, was sort of joking around with me that Anna could be using me for a green card marriage, which I laughed off. 

Well, Anna and I went on a date yesterday and it was amazing. We saw this french film at the local indie theater, had sushi, and made out. ten out of ten in my book. but we were talking about all these future plans and things, But the five years thing started ringing in my head. "What if she's liking me too quickly? What if i'm being used?" Everything has been going really well, but I've been hurt before. Should I be cautious? Should I just go with it? So I don't know. I tend to be really paranoid and I don't want to ruin anything because I do really like her. What do you all think?
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almost got used by a girl, but she was a lot older than me. Should I be worried? EDIT: I'm very nervous about everything. I'm both nervous and scared. I just want to know how to not feel like shit
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