Ryan and me were friends in highschool, and randomly reconnected after we had an amazing night at a bar in college. About a week in I saw on facebook that he had a girlfriend already. I guess this was my first mistake. 

I brought it up and it took him a month to break up with her, or so I thought. I tolerated this because we had an amazing emotional connection and even better sex. He was sweet, funny, romantic, and very much swept me off my feet. 

Yesterday, a mutual friend told me that she still had "in a relationship" on her Facebook profile. I confronted him about this and he said that he didn't know why. I dug in deeper, and he admitted that he remains silent when someone asks if they are still together, and she has not told anyone that they've broken up. 

The past four months we have been together, he has avoided introducing me to his friends, because he and his "ex" have been best friends for a long time and they are in the same circle of friends and he did not want to upset anyone. This has hurt me deeply. We have spent time together every day this summer, and have become very close. I have been waiting for him to be ready for an official relationship, and after four months he should have figured his shit out with his ex girlfriend. I thought I meant more to him.

Yesterday, I asked him if he still wanted to be with his ex girlfriend, and he said with tears, "I think I do." I pushed him away and I told him to leave, and he wouldn't leave. He kept repeating, "I just don't know." When I hear "I don't know,"  is it sad that it inspires a small hope that he still wants to be with me?

Reddit, does this girl deserve to know that she has been deceived by Ryan, or is it not my place? I really want him to learn his lesson. Is that immature?
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Ryan and me were friends in highschool, and randomly reconnected after we had an amazing night at a bar in college. About a week in I saw on facebook that he had a girlfriend already. I guess this was my first mistake. 

I brought it up and it took him a month to break up with her, or so I thought. I tolerated this because we had an amazing emotional connection and even better sex. He was sweet, funny, romantic, and very much swept me off my feet. 

Yesterday, a mutual friend told me that she still had "in a relationship" on her Facebook profile. I confronted him about this and he said that he didn't know why. I dug in deeper, and he admitted that he remains silent when someone asks if they are still together, and she has not told anyone that they've broken up. 

The past four months we have been together, he has avoided introducing me to his friends, because he and his "ex" have been best friends for a long time and they are in the same circle of friends and he did not want to upset anyone. This has hurt me deeply. We have spent time together every day this summer, and have become very close. I have been waiting for him to be ready for an official relationship, and after four months he should have figured his shit out with his ex girlfriend. I thought I meant more to him.

Yesterday, I asked him if he still wanted to be with his ex girlfriend, and he said with tears, "I think I do." I pushed him away and I told him to leave, and he wouldn't leave. He kept repeating, "I just don't know." When I hear "I don't know,"  is it sad that it inspires a small hope that he still wants to be with me?

Reddit, does this girl deserve to know that she has been deceived by Ryan, or is it not my place? I really want him to learn his lesson. Is that immature?
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