In the past 10 months, I've had four bad encounters with four separate guys who all shared an extremely specific physical type.  I think this means that that type is "not meant for me".  (The four guys were not conventionally attractive men, and I think most women would be unattracted to their type, but for some reason, I was to it.) 

I just got over the last of the four and had to sort of cold reboot my heart and loins to do it, so maybe because of that, right now I just don't find any guys at all, their faces, their bodies, or personalities, very interesting.  

At the same time, I do need to get into a new guy, and do it now, in order to put the period at the end of Guy # 4's era and move on.

How are "types" decided for us, how do they form, and how do I find a new one?  Do we consciously decide what our type is?  If so, how do I do that?  And if not, what does decide it and how can I influence that process or speed it up?
user
I have a bad experience with a certain physical type, which means I don't find any attractive guys interesting, and I need to find a new one immediately in order to get the period at the end of Guy #4's era and move on. How is this type formed, and
assistant
In the past 10 months, I've had four bad encounters with four separate guys who all shared an extremely specific physical type.  I think this means that that type is "not meant for me".  (The four guys were not conventionally attractive men, and I think most women would be unattracted to their type, but for some reason, I was to it.) 

I just got over the last of the four and had to sort of cold reboot my heart and loins to do it, so maybe because of that, right now I just don't find any guys at all, their faces, their bodies, or personalities, very interesting.  

At the same time, I do need to get into a new guy, and do it now, in order to put the period at the end of Guy # 4's era and move on.

How are "types" decided for us, how do they form, and how do I find a new one?  Do we consciously decide what our type is?  If so, how do I do that?  And if not, what does decide it and how can I influence that process or speed it up?
user
Charlie Brown now knows it is time to let go of the Little Red-Haired Girl and all other red-haired girls because red-haired girls are not attracted to him, and that's that. How does Charlie Brown figure out what his next type of girl is?
assistant