We have been together just over 2 years but live separately in different counties, we see each other every weekend taking it in turns to do the two hour trip to each others towns. 

Towards the end of last year I was getting fed up with my house mates and decided to take the plunge and rent a place on my own. The month before I was due to move he came to mine as normal and said he thought we should break up, we talked for hours and he said he wasn't 'normal' and didn't want a wife, kids ect and thought he was holding me back. 

At the time I kind of accepted it and after talking and trying to say bye to each other he changed his mind, he said breaking up wasn't what he wanted and asked if I would stay with him. I want to be with him so said yes and was relieved we had been able to talk through things. After that he explained he had been having a really bad week and thought he should break up with me as I could do better.

I've been really busy since and had lots going on but now coming back after Christmas holidays I am constantly freaking out about him not being happy and feeling like he doesn't love me. I've talked to him and he says he is happy and has reassured me he wants to be with me. 

I am happy when we are together and we have a nice time together but sometimes I feel like it's hard work to think of things to do together and it feels like we have got complacent. What are things we can do that bring us closer together? How can I stop worrying about him not being happy?
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I feel like my relationship with my boyfriend is slipping and I'd like
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We have been together just over 2 years but live separately in different counties, we see each other every weekend taking it in turns to do the two hour trip to each others towns. 

Towards the end of last year I was getting fed up with my house mates and decided to take the plunge and rent a place on my own. The month before I was due to move he came to mine as normal and said he thought we should break up, we talked for hours and he said he wasn't 'normal' and didn't want a wife, kids ect and thought he was holding me back. 

At the time I kind of accepted it and after talking and trying to say bye to each other he changed his mind, he said breaking up wasn't what he wanted and asked if I would stay with him. I want to be with him so said yes and was relieved we had been able to talk through things. After that he explained he had been having a really bad week and thought he should break up with me as I could do better.

I've been really busy since and had lots going on but now coming back after Christmas holidays I am constantly freaking out about him not being happy and feeling like he doesn't love me. I've talked to him and he says he is happy and has reassured me he wants to be with me. 

I am happy when we are together and we have a nice time together but sometimes I feel like it's hard work to think of things to do together and it feels like we have got complacent. What are things we can do that bring us closer together? How can I stop worrying about him not being happy?
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broke up with boyfriend, now I'm worried I'm not as happy as I
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