We've been together 5 months and she goes to uni in September. We are in a LDR at the moment, and her uni is a lot closer to me than she is now (i.e. when she goes to uni it will be less of an LDR than it is now). I think this girl I'm with now is a great match for me.

I'm pretty good with women and don't have much trouble getting girls, i.e. I don't need her, but I definitely want her. 

We haven't talked about what happens when she goes to uni. I have decided I want to give it a shot when she goes to uni. However, I know many people don't want to go into a uni with a boyfriend. My problem is: if she wants to go into uni single, then I'd rather break up now so I can get back to being single and having fun and meeting other women instead of wasting time in a 5 month doomed LDR. However, if she doesn't have any objection to being in a relationship at uni, then I'd be perfectly happy investing more in this relationship. Basically, even though its 5 months away, I don't want to invest time and effort and emotions into a doomed situation.

My question is, how do I bring this up with her? I'm a rational logical guy, and she is quite an emotionally driven person. I feel like if I say "I'd rather be free and single than spend 5 months in a long distance situation which is probably going to end" I'm worried that it will come across hurtful, like I'm overthinking things and treating our relationship like a rational investment opportunity rather than a special magical situation. However, if I phrase it more like "I don't want to be involved with you if you don't want me for the long term" it comes across as insecure, and needy, and I HATE coming across that way.

Help me guys how do I bring this subject up?
user
GF is going to uni in September and I want to invest in the relationship but don't want to invest in a doomed LDR. How do I bring this up
assistant
We've been together 5 months and she goes to uni in September. We are in a LDR at the moment, and her uni is a lot closer to me than she is now (i.e. when she goes to uni it will be less of an LDR than it is now). I think this girl I'm with now is a great match for me.

I'm pretty good with women and don't have much trouble getting girls, i.e. I don't need her, but I definitely want her. 

We haven't talked about what happens when she goes to uni. I have decided I want to give it a shot when she goes to uni. However, I know many people don't want to go into a uni with a boyfriend. My problem is: if she wants to go into uni single, then I'd rather break up now so I can get back to being single and having fun and meeting other women instead of wasting time in a 5 month doomed LDR. However, if she doesn't have any objection to being in a relationship at uni, then I'd be perfectly happy investing more in this relationship. Basically, even though its 5 months away, I don't want to invest time and effort and emotions into a doomed situation.

My question is, how do I bring this up with her? I'm a rational logical guy, and she is quite an emotionally driven person. I feel like if I say "I'd rather be free and single than spend 5 months in a long distance situation which is probably going to end" I'm worried that it will come across hurtful, like I'm overthinking things and treating our relationship like a rational investment opportunity rather than a special magical situation. However, if I phrase it more like "I don't want to be involved with you if you don't want me for the long term" it comes across as insecure, and needy, and I HATE coming across that way.

Help me guys how do I bring this subject up?
user
how do I initiate a conversation with my GF about whether or not we break up now instead of dragging it out?
assistant