I’ve been good friends with a particular guy for about a year or two, and I’ve been crushing on him for about a third of that time. Another friend of mine coerced me into asking said guy out, and was heavily involved overall, and so I did, although it took a second time to confirm that I was being serious, as I joke around with him and our other friends a lot.

Background: Our relationship is fairly long-distant; we communicate online, even though we live only 15 or so miles away from each other (I’ve never actually seen him in person; I know him only because of another good friend). Not exactly sketchy, but the way I’m describing it puts it that way.

Scrabbling with transportation and parents and the fact that we don’t go to the same high school makes it all the more difficult, and it’s so much more convenient (at least to them) to talk online. Even if we got together, which we will do at some point, it wouldn’t be as often as needed; our relationship would depend heavily on online interaction.

Things turned out the way I expected. He said that it wasn’t about me, it was a matter of change. He thought nothing would happen at all, and our relationship would fundamentally remain the same. I guess what he meant was that our interactions would basically be the same.

Would things really remain the same, or would they change? The answer would be somewhat obvious in a normal relationship, but we’re (again, somewhat) long-distant. I'm open to questions, since I know that I may need to specify a bit more.
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14 F (probably) crushing on a 14 M for several months to half a year now. Can we date? If so, how? Would long-distant relationships
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I’ve been good friends with a particular guy for about a year or two, and I’ve been crushing on him for about a third of that time. Another friend of mine coerced me into asking said guy out, and was heavily involved overall, and so I did, although it took a second time to confirm that I was being serious, as I joke around with him and our other friends a lot.

Background: Our relationship is fairly long-distant; we communicate online, even though we live only 15 or so miles away from each other (I’ve never actually seen him in person; I know him only because of another good friend). Not exactly sketchy, but the way I’m describing it puts it that way.

Scrabbling with transportation and parents and the fact that we don’t go to the same high school makes it all the more difficult, and it’s so much more convenient (at least to them) to talk online. Even if we got together, which we will do at some point, it wouldn’t be as often as needed; our relationship would depend heavily on online interaction.

Things turned out the way I expected. He said that it wasn’t about me, it was a matter of change. He thought nothing would happen at all, and our relationship would fundamentally remain the same. I guess what he meant was that our interactions would basically be the same.

Would things really remain the same, or would they change? The answer would be somewhat obvious in a normal relationship, but we’re (again, somewhat) long-distant. I'm open to questions, since I know that I may need to specify a bit more.
user
Long distance relationship, somewhat long-distant, but not so long that it would be a problem. Would it change?
assistant