So this is a confusing one for me.  Not really sure what I should do.  I was with this girl for 3 years.  Starting in high school and going into college.  It ended mutually because we both felt it wasn't going anywhere.  That was almost 3 years ago.  She had been in another relationship and even had a kid with him.  We started hooking up about 5 months ago.  I started wanting to be with her again.  Admited it to her and she said she was thinking the same thing, but needed to talk to her boyfriend about what to do about their child.  A month ago she left him.  Since then she has been very distant and acts like she doesn't want to date anymore.  Today a friend of mine found her OkayCupid account, which I knew about but was told it was only for flirting. I was okay with just flirting. However she was seeking a long term relationship and her profile was definitely geared towards it.  I am upset and a little angry, but what should I do?
user
Was with a girl for a long time, dated in college, and then she has been MIA
assistant
So this is a confusing one for me.  Not really sure what I should do.  I was with this girl for 3 years.  Starting in high school and going into college.  It ended mutually because we both felt it wasn't going anywhere.  That was almost 3 years ago.  She had been in another relationship and even had a kid with him.  We started hooking up about 5 months ago.  I started wanting to be with her again.  Admited it to her and she said she was thinking the same thing, but needed to talk to her boyfriend about what to do about their child.  A month ago she left him.  Since then she has been very distant and acts like she doesn't want to date anymore.  Today a friend of mine found her OkayCupid account, which I knew about but was told it was only for flirting. I was okay with just flirting. However she was seeking a long term relationship and her profile was definitely geared towards it.  I am upset and a little angry, but what should I do?
user
Girl I dated 3 years ago leaves boyfriend, seeks long term relationship, asked my friend for advice.
assistant