Title says it all - my GF and I have lived together for 3 years and have a dog and a cat and a wonderful house that we rent. We have plans to move out of state together and have talked about marriage and kids, etc. We have an incredible sex life and I make sure she is consistently getting off (sometimes multiple times per session).  Recently she has told me that she is worried that she is missing out. 

She does not have any friends, which in my opinion is the root of the problem. She feels like she is living in my shadow, and I have told her that I'm not holding her back from making friends or doing her own thing (not fucking other people though). I have briefly thought about an open relationship, and have decided that I couldn't stomach that and I don't think she could stomach me sleeping with other people either.

We have also discussed threesomes to help her acquire whatever it is that she thinks she is missing. This would just be tough to work through as well.

 This morning she broke down and told me she was wrong to want other people and that she is so grateful for everything we have and absolutely does not want to throw it away. I just want what is best for her though- and I am just worried that this feeling she has isn't going to go away. I don't want her to begrudge me one day down the road for keeping her on lockdown or something..

Redditers with experience - could you offer input? It's normal to feel attraction to other people, is it feasable to work through this though? Or should I let her go..
user
GF of 4 years has slight feelings of missing out on sleeping around while she's young, but also does not want to throw away what she feels is the love of her life. I want what is best for her, but honestly do not want to just let her go, If working through it
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Title says it all - my GF and I have lived together for 3 years and have a dog and a cat and a wonderful house that we rent. We have plans to move out of state together and have talked about marriage and kids, etc. We have an incredible sex life and I make sure she is consistently getting off (sometimes multiple times per session).  Recently she has told me that she is worried that she is missing out. 

She does not have any friends, which in my opinion is the root of the problem. She feels like she is living in my shadow, and I have told her that I'm not holding her back from making friends or doing her own thing (not fucking other people though). I have briefly thought about an open relationship, and have decided that I couldn't stomach that and I don't think she could stomach me sleeping with other people either.

We have also discussed threesomes to help her acquire whatever it is that she thinks she is missing. This would just be tough to work through as well.

 This morning she broke down and told me she was wrong to want other people and that she is so grateful for everything we have and absolutely does not want to throw it away. I just want what is best for her though- and I am just worried that this feeling she has isn't going to go away. I don't want her to begrudge me one day down the road for keeping her on lockdown or something..

Redditers with experience - could you offer input? It's normal to feel attraction to other people, is it feasable to work through this though? Or should I let her go..
user
GF is worried about missing out in life and wants to be free and alone to figure out what she wants.
assistant