This is a throw away because we share our main account.  Also, I don't frequent this sub so please forgive me if I do something wrong...

I love my wife.  With all my heart and soul.  We have two beautiful children and she is pregnant with our third.

Recently my job has forced me to travel - two days on the road every other week.  She has this guy friend - he's married.  I just don't like him.  Maybe it's because he's a good looking, fit guy.  Who knows.  I know they are just friends - but I can't help but get so jealous.  

How can I get past this?  I've told her how I feel - her response is that he is the only one of her friends without kids - so when they talk or hang out - they can have adult conversations.  She likens it to me talking to my coworkers (she is a SAHM, is that even an acronym?  It is now - Stay At Home Mom).  I get it.  I love talking to friends and coworkers without kids.

I guess I just need reddit to tell me that I am being an idiot and I have nothing to be concerned with.  It's normal for people to text all the time.

Guys and girls CAN be just friends.  I truly believe that and have female friends.

Please reddit, tell me that I'm being crazy and letting my own insecurities affect rational thinking!
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wife is friends with good looking
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This is a throw away because we share our main account.  Also, I don't frequent this sub so please forgive me if I do something wrong...

I love my wife.  With all my heart and soul.  We have two beautiful children and she is pregnant with our third.

Recently my job has forced me to travel - two days on the road every other week.  She has this guy friend - he's married.  I just don't like him.  Maybe it's because he's a good looking, fit guy.  Who knows.  I know they are just friends - but I can't help but get so jealous.  

How can I get past this?  I've told her how I feel - her response is that he is the only one of her friends without kids - so when they talk or hang out - they can have adult conversations.  She likens it to me talking to my coworkers (she is a SAHM, is that even an acronym?  It is now - Stay At Home Mom).  I get it.  I love talking to friends and coworkers without kids.

I guess I just need reddit to tell me that I am being an idiot and I have nothing to be concerned with.  It's normal for people to text all the time.

Guys and girls CAN be just friends.  I truly believe that and have female friends.

Please reddit, tell me that I'm being crazy and letting my own insecurities affect rational thinking!
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I don't like my wife's married
assistant