Okay so, my GF , she is 19 she lives with her parents and her brother. The reason I broke up with her, and I feel like shit for doing it, because she did NOTHING wrong. Everything was going fine until one day her brother (23) started beating her, like he left bruises on her, and her parents actually had the nerve to say well you know how your brother is, you should not have pissed him off. I was beyond shocked... Like your son is BEATING your 19 year old daughter... I was livid, angry and I did not talk to her for 3 days for just taking it and not calling the police. 

Now the reason why I didn't call the police is she lives a good 1.5h away, and I mean I could not do anything because she told me not to, that she will "take care of it". But I have no idea if she has been telling me what is going on in fear of me leaving. But I can't bring myself to go drive down and see her due I don't want to see her brother otherwise I would get very mad, or her parents because I would bitch them out. She pretty much told me how big of a piece of shit I am and how shitty I made her feel. 

I didn't do anything negative to her, we don't have fights, I mean I get annoyed by her behaviours sometimes. She is still very young and immature, but I have never done anything deserve what she said to me. 

So did I do the right thing? She no longer wants to speak to me or have any contact with me which is NOT what I wanted. I wanted to stay friends and stay in touch so I know she's okay. I didn't want to get involved in this because I don't want to create tension in her family.
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GF (19) is being beat by
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Okay so, my GF , she is 19 she lives with her parents and her brother. The reason I broke up with her, and I feel like shit for doing it, because she did NOTHING wrong. Everything was going fine until one day her brother (23) started beating her, like he left bruises on her, and her parents actually had the nerve to say well you know how your brother is, you should not have pissed him off. I was beyond shocked... Like your son is BEATING your 19 year old daughter... I was livid, angry and I did not talk to her for 3 days for just taking it and not calling the police. 

Now the reason why I didn't call the police is she lives a good 1.5h away, and I mean I could not do anything because she told me not to, that she will "take care of it". But I have no idea if she has been telling me what is going on in fear of me leaving. But I can't bring myself to go drive down and see her due I don't want to see her brother otherwise I would get very mad, or her parents because I would bitch them out. She pretty much told me how big of a piece of shit I am and how shitty I made her feel. 

I didn't do anything negative to her, we don't have fights, I mean I get annoyed by her behaviours sometimes. She is still very young and immature, but I have never done anything deserve what she said to me. 

So did I do the right thing? She no longer wants to speak to me or have any contact with me which is NOT what I wanted. I wanted to stay friends and stay in touch so I know she's okay. I didn't want to get involved in this because I don't want to create tension in her family.
user
Am I doing the right thing
assistant