I met this girl at a Fraternity-Sorority mixer last Spring where we talked for a couple hours and eventually went back to her room. We start watching a TV show and I go to put my arm around her. She stops me saying that she's actually seeing someone. I play it off like it wasn't a big deal and leave. We see each other over the rest of the semester a couple times but not really having conversations.

Then, a couple weeks ago in early - July she messages me on Facebook out of the blue and we get to talking. We talk everyday over the next couple of days just getting to know each other (favorite movies, music, weed, drinking, etc.). Then, one night while we're talking she gets a text from her friend saying she just broke up with her boyfriend or something to that effect.

The girl I'm talking to then writes out a long paragraph saying how she just got out of a relationship a week ago and what she's looking for is commitment. Okay, no big deal this girl is cool I could see myself being with her. We sorted it all out and since then we've talked most everyday having even more personal discussions, had video Skype chats, and we even plan to meet up in person before we go back to school. However, in our conversation tonight the question of "Have you ever been in love?" pops up. I say I've had crushes, but effectively have never been in love. She says she was definitely falling for the guy she had most recently broken up with. I was exhausted from working out about an hour before and was tired as shit so I decided against going into it then, but it did get me thinking.

Everything seems to be going well, but the last thing I want is to have to deal with a breakup in the middle of the semester especially with a dense schedule. At the same time, I've been in the rebound relationship before. Knowing myself, I would take a rebound breakup more personally than I would otherwise. I am absolutely going to be bringing up this issue soon with her, but I'm going on vacation in a couple days so I won't be in contact with her for a week.
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Girl and myself have hit it off, not sure if this is just a rebound or if
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I met this girl at a Fraternity-Sorority mixer last Spring where we talked for a couple hours and eventually went back to her room. We start watching a TV show and I go to put my arm around her. She stops me saying that she's actually seeing someone. I play it off like it wasn't a big deal and leave. We see each other over the rest of the semester a couple times but not really having conversations.

Then, a couple weeks ago in early - July she messages me on Facebook out of the blue and we get to talking. We talk everyday over the next couple of days just getting to know each other (favorite movies, music, weed, drinking, etc.). Then, one night while we're talking she gets a text from her friend saying she just broke up with her boyfriend or something to that effect.

The girl I'm talking to then writes out a long paragraph saying how she just got out of a relationship a week ago and what she's looking for is commitment. Okay, no big deal this girl is cool I could see myself being with her. We sorted it all out and since then we've talked most everyday having even more personal discussions, had video Skype chats, and we even plan to meet up in person before we go back to school. However, in our conversation tonight the question of "Have you ever been in love?" pops up. I say I've had crushes, but effectively have never been in love. She says she was definitely falling for the guy she had most recently broken up with. I was exhausted from working out about an hour before and was tired as shit so I decided against going into it then, but it did get me thinking.

Everything seems to be going well, but the last thing I want is to have to deal with a breakup in the middle of the semester especially with a dense schedule. At the same time, I've been in the rebound relationship before. Knowing myself, I would take a rebound breakup more personally than I would otherwise. I am absolutely going to be bringing up this issue soon with her, but I'm going on vacation in a couple days so I won't be in contact with her for a week.
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Girl I've known for a week has a boyfriend. Just broke up with him a week ago.
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