I'm really not doing to well. My girlfriend is my first relationship and sexual partner while I am her second. This has always upset me. I waited for someone deserving and she didn't. Her ex was an asshole drug dealer who was cheating on her. They kissed and did some sexual stuff which is very upsetting to me. She's always told me that they only did anything sexual once and she got scared and broke up with him. She claimed to hate and despise him and told me she never talked to him again after they broke up. However, today on Facebook I saw that she had wished him Happy Birthday several months after they broke up. This made me mad; he had cheated on her and she said she hated him. Well I asked her today and eventually she said she lied to me. They actually had done sexual things together twice and months after they broke up they talked again and for a week considered dating. The never did. But the only reason she told me was because I said I was going to text him and ask what she was hiding, because before we talked today she had always hid those things. I feel betrayed because even yesterday she had told me they had never spoken again and she swore they only did it once and she left the house immediately and they never talked again. I'm so angry at her and I don't know if I can still trust her. Do you guys have any advice?
user
Girlfriend of 3 years lied to me several times about their past sexual relationship
assistant
I'm really not doing to well. My girlfriend is my first relationship and sexual partner while I am her second. This has always upset me. I waited for someone deserving and she didn't. Her ex was an asshole drug dealer who was cheating on her. They kissed and did some sexual stuff which is very upsetting to me. She's always told me that they only did anything sexual once and she got scared and broke up with him. She claimed to hate and despise him and told me she never talked to him again after they broke up. However, today on Facebook I saw that she had wished him Happy Birthday several months after they broke up. This made me mad; he had cheated on her and she said she hated him. Well I asked her today and eventually she said she lied to me. They actually had done sexual things together twice and months after they broke up they talked again and for a week considered dating. The never did. But the only reason she told me was because I said I was going to text him and ask what she was hiding, because before we talked today she had always hid those things. I feel betrayed because even yesterday she had told me they had never spoken again and she swore they only did it once and she left the house immediately and they never talked again. I'm so angry at her and I don't know if I can still trust her. Do you guys have any advice?
user
She lied to me about her cheating ex and they didn't talk again after
assistant