So it's been over three months and two mathematics courses (which I don't even like or need) of me dreaming about the blonde sitting next to me in those classes. I've noticed her being cute and nice for the entire three years she's been at the university, but have never had the chance to be in the same classes before. She's really quiet and shy, somewhat like myself. She's always alone and I've seen her talking to like three persons during those three years...

And every week of those months I've spent every thought on how the heck to get that girl's attention. Those classes just don't have any forms of discussion between students, it's just mostly sitting still and quiet... She also seems to come and leave right when the class starts or ends, and never comes to any student activities...

It feels so awkward and impossible to start any kind of conversation with her. Oh, did I mention that this is a department of natural sciences in Finland. The most fucking quiet kind of people you can imagine. Just the thought of saying 'hi' makes me extremely uncomfortable and I've never had the courage to say that X(.

I have no idea about what the heck I should do :(.

It doesn't really help at all that all my past attempts at approaching girls in junior high & high school have been embarassingly awful. I did manage to hold for oven an year after that, but it was the girl who started it. So it's just the act of breaking the ice that's so difficult.

I've never made even regular friendships where I would have something to talk about besides computers... So it'd be quite difficult to get to know her just as a friend. On the other hand, I'm really afraid of her totally freaking out if I directly ask her out. Been there, done that, didn't get the girl :(. I wonder if that romantic movie kind of stuff ever works here. (Fuck you, Finland, again).

What's even worse is that there's only a couple of weeks of school left, and likely no chance of meeting this girl during the summer break :(
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How to ask out a girl that's quiet, and also there's no chance
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So it's been over three months and two mathematics courses (which I don't even like or need) of me dreaming about the blonde sitting next to me in those classes. I've noticed her being cute and nice for the entire three years she's been at the university, but have never had the chance to be in the same classes before. She's really quiet and shy, somewhat like myself. She's always alone and I've seen her talking to like three persons during those three years...

And every week of those months I've spent every thought on how the heck to get that girl's attention. Those classes just don't have any forms of discussion between students, it's just mostly sitting still and quiet... She also seems to come and leave right when the class starts or ends, and never comes to any student activities...

It feels so awkward and impossible to start any kind of conversation with her. Oh, did I mention that this is a department of natural sciences in Finland. The most fucking quiet kind of people you can imagine. Just the thought of saying 'hi' makes me extremely uncomfortable and I've never had the courage to say that X(.

I have no idea about what the heck I should do :(.

It doesn't really help at all that all my past attempts at approaching girls in junior high & high school have been embarassingly awful. I did manage to hold for oven an year after that, but it was the girl who started it. So it's just the act of breaking the ice that's so difficult.

I've never made even regular friendships where I would have something to talk about besides computers... So it'd be quite difficult to get to know her just as a friend. On the other hand, I'm really afraid of her totally freaking out if I directly ask her out. Been there, done that, didn't get the girl :(. I wonder if that romantic movie kind of stuff ever works here. (Fuck you, Finland, again).

What's even worse is that there's only a couple of weeks of school left, and likely no chance of meeting this girl during the summer break :(
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Feels so awkward to even say 'hi' to girl sitting few metres away.
assistant