Hi all,

I have an unbeatable job offer at a company in Silicon Valley. I previously worked at this company as an intern, and I love the projects, the people, and the ability to grow and learn there.

My other option is to stay home or close to home, and start my own gig or take-up a job there. Why would anyone ever consider doing this? Let me explain.

Moving across the country and away from everything I've ever loved is very difficult for me. It also means I lose my SO or at the very least a long distance relationship for a while ( which doesn't work ). There are complex reasons based around her certifications that don't make sense for her to move. She has been a life changing person for me, and is truly someone I want to have a future with. For context, we have been seriously dating for almost 2 years. 

On the other side, I feel like I'm throwing away everything I've worked for. I spent my entire childhood, college, and free-time working towards an opportunity like this. I would be throwing away a huge compensation package, and the ability to learn things and meet people that I could never do anywhere else.  When I was at this company as an intern, I had all of these same perks, but I felt so empty not being able to do any of the things I loved growing up. 

The advice that I'm seeking is about how crazy it would be for me to throw away this offer. The reason it scares me is because if it weren't for this girl, I would be on a plane tomorrow. I don't want the relationship to go sour and be kicking myself in the ass in a year or two. My hometown has opportunities for me to do very well, but it's not even on the same scale.
user
have awesome job offer at company in Silicon Valley, other option of staying home or taking up new job
assistant
Hi all,

I have an unbeatable job offer at a company in Silicon Valley. I previously worked at this company as an intern, and I love the projects, the people, and the ability to grow and learn there.

My other option is to stay home or close to home, and start my own gig or take-up a job there. Why would anyone ever consider doing this? Let me explain.

Moving across the country and away from everything I've ever loved is very difficult for me. It also means I lose my SO or at the very least a long distance relationship for a while ( which doesn't work ). There are complex reasons based around her certifications that don't make sense for her to move. She has been a life changing person for me, and is truly someone I want to have a future with. For context, we have been seriously dating for almost 2 years. 

On the other side, I feel like I'm throwing away everything I've worked for. I spent my entire childhood, college, and free-time working towards an opportunity like this. I would be throwing away a huge compensation package, and the ability to learn things and meet people that I could never do anywhere else.  When I was at this company as an intern, I had all of these same perks, but I felt so empty not being able to do any of the things I loved growing up. 

The advice that I'm seeking is about how crazy it would be for me to throw away this offer. The reason it scares me is because if it weren't for this girl, I would be on a plane tomorrow. I don't want the relationship to go sour and be kicking myself in the ass in a year or two. My hometown has opportunities for me to do very well, but it's not even on the same scale.
user
Have an amazing offer in a fantastic job space in SiliconValley, but want to stay at home or move
assistant