She likes to go out nearly every night and when she stays in its usually only to get work done. I want to spend time with her and while we go out together on the weekends sometimes in groups she seems to avoid going out with just me. We'll make plans to have a romantic night out together (just the two of us) and she keeps pushing to have it be in a group. She'll do this by saying that so and so called us and wanted to know what we'd be doing on that date night, or other excuses. I feel like I'm an afterthought in her life and that she doesn't really care about me. She constantly says she loves me and wants to spend the rest of he life with me, but it doesn't feel that way. If she doesn't want to be with me why wouldn't she just break up? This is my first long term relationship so I don't know whether this is a common issue or not. She's from a wealthy family so I don't think its that shes using me for the place, but often times I feel like she is slowly getting more and more distant. We have sex 1-2 a week which is also a sore point in our relationship.
user
I feel like I'm an afterthought in my girlfriends life and she
assistant
She likes to go out nearly every night and when she stays in its usually only to get work done. I want to spend time with her and while we go out together on the weekends sometimes in groups she seems to avoid going out with just me. We'll make plans to have a romantic night out together (just the two of us) and she keeps pushing to have it be in a group. She'll do this by saying that so and so called us and wanted to know what we'd be doing on that date night, or other excuses. I feel like I'm an afterthought in her life and that she doesn't really care about me. She constantly says she loves me and wants to spend the rest of he life with me, but it doesn't feel that way. If she doesn't want to be with me why wouldn't she just break up? This is my first long term relationship so I don't know whether this is a common issue or not. She's from a wealthy family so I don't think its that shes using me for the place, but often times I feel like she is slowly getting more and more distant. We have sex 1-2 a week which is also a sore point in our relationship.
user
I want to spend time with my girlfriend but she only wants
assistant