We just broke up two days ago.
I went to my parents for a night and came home last night at 9:30 and he wasn't here.

 
He goes to the bar with his coworkers every night, usually I end up having to go pick him up and bring him home, but he had the car. Or else I would have. 

He texted me saying he was sleeping at work tonight.

He has a bad drinking problem, and I know he was out with his guy friends drinking all night. But I hope I just hope he wasn't with another girl.

Part of me thinks he just got really really drunk and went to the office and slept. He's not the type of guy a woman desires when he's drinking anyways.
So there's that.

I feel like when he gets home we'll end up talking it out because when he dumped me, he was drunk..and knowing him after being together for over three years, I know how he is drunk and how the next day he feels bad.

We live together, so the no contact thing doesn't work. I don't have anywhere to go. And I'm on this lease.

My goal, is to work toward repairing this relationship by the time the lease is up.

I told him I was just going to my parents house for a day or so, to let us calm down. I told him we were going to talk when I get back and he said okay. 

I know he cares, and he has a problem.

But I just can't imagine him being with someone else. I just hope last night he just drank himself into a stupor.. Because I know once we talk we'll work things out. I know how he works better than he knows how he works..and he has pushed every good thing out of his life.. 
I refuse to give up on him.
user
We broke up two days ago. He went
assistant
We just broke up two days ago.
I went to my parents for a night and came home last night at 9:30 and he wasn't here.

 
He goes to the bar with his coworkers every night, usually I end up having to go pick him up and bring him home, but he had the car. Or else I would have. 

He texted me saying he was sleeping at work tonight.

He has a bad drinking problem, and I know he was out with his guy friends drinking all night. But I hope I just hope he wasn't with another girl.

Part of me thinks he just got really really drunk and went to the office and slept. He's not the type of guy a woman desires when he's drinking anyways.
So there's that.

I feel like when he gets home we'll end up talking it out because when he dumped me, he was drunk..and knowing him after being together for over three years, I know how he is drunk and how the next day he feels bad.

We live together, so the no contact thing doesn't work. I don't have anywhere to go. And I'm on this lease.

My goal, is to work toward repairing this relationship by the time the lease is up.

I told him I was just going to my parents house for a day or so, to let us calm down. I told him we were going to talk when I get back and he said okay. 

I know he cares, and he has a problem.

But I just can't imagine him being with someone else. I just hope last night he just drank himself into a stupor.. Because I know once we talk we'll work things out. I know how he works better than he knows how he works..and he has pushed every good thing out of his life.. 
I refuse to give up on him.
user
bf is an alcoholic, dumped me while drunk
assistant