Been dating my gf for just over a year now, but we knew each other for about four years prior and were infact relatively close friends. University, like it was for me, was very definitive for her, going through two boyfriends and a casual sex relationship. Her reasons for doing things are her own, and I can put myself in her shoes and understand why. And this isn't a "how do I get over my gf's past" question. But rather, how do I get over the 'idea' of how I perceived my girlfriend to be while we were friends, and see her for the person she is now and consistently shown me throughout this relationship?

I'm tired of seeing her as an insecure, male attention seeking person (which then links to untrustworthy in my head). She was once like this, and I'm not hard on her for that. University is transitional for everyone, and I feel confident that she isn't that person anymore... I wan't to see her for the changed, trustworthy, mature person who she has become and who she has been the entire time in this relationship.
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how do I get over the idea that my gf was once insecure,
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Been dating my gf for just over a year now, but we knew each other for about four years prior and were infact relatively close friends. University, like it was for me, was very definitive for her, going through two boyfriends and a casual sex relationship. Her reasons for doing things are her own, and I can put myself in her shoes and understand why. And this isn't a "how do I get over my gf's past" question. But rather, how do I get over the 'idea' of how I perceived my girlfriend to be while we were friends, and see her for the person she is now and consistently shown me throughout this relationship?

I'm tired of seeing her as an insecure, male attention seeking person (which then links to untrustworthy in my head). She was once like this, and I'm not hard on her for that. University is transitional for everyone, and I feel confident that she isn't that person anymore... I wan't to see her for the changed, trustworthy, mature person who she has become and who she has been the entire time in this relationship.
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how do I get over the idea of my gf as an insecure
assistant