So my fiancé works in some dangerous heavy equipment, and I expressed my worry for him because I was with him at work. He was fine at first, pointed out I never worry adequately about myself. I responded I'm usually more worried about other people and he exploded. Screamed at me I should worry about myself, not other people, he hates the way I constantly make huge sacrifices so other people (him included) could have minor indulgences. Basically it was the way I was raised- I felt horrible, and I let him know I'm trying to get better with my "martyr complex". That having been said, can anyone give me advice to get me over my martyr complex?
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Fiancé got furious at me today because I don't worry about myself enough. Would
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So my fiancé works in some dangerous heavy equipment, and I expressed my worry for him because I was with him at work. He was fine at first, pointed out I never worry adequately about myself. I responded I'm usually more worried about other people and he exploded. Screamed at me I should worry about myself, not other people, he hates the way I constantly make huge sacrifices so other people (him included) could have minor indulgences. Basically it was the way I was raised- I felt horrible, and I let him know I'm trying to get better with my "martyr complex". That having been said, can anyone give me advice to get me over my martyr complex?
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fiancé had a huge fight with me, and I'm stuck in a crisis of
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