I am 24 and I was dating this girl for about 8 months, about a year ago it was going OK my family liked here and shit. She lost her job and her apartment. So me being a great guy (also kind of a loser living at home) I asked my brother (who I live with) if she can come stay with us for a while till she can get things back in order. 

Things went well for about 6 months and such. Then I was being told she didn't help out (she said she would) but everyday told me she was. Then I hear she was doing this and that (not going into details) and just sleeping till 3 in the afternoon and going on my computer talking to people all loud Skyping I am assuming. I deafened her and talked to her and thought I was setting things in good graces. Then I get accused of not doing certain things she said she would do but in turn actually told my brother and such I said I would do it. Needless to say I ended it with her. She later accused me of being a high school dramatic person. 

Now she is "trying" to make amends so she says. I gave her a chance because I dont like to be a mean guy. I told her I dont know if we can be friends but if you need to talk I can talk. She the goes off and tells everyone I know that I want her back. I ask her about it and she blows up on me. Next thing I know people she knew and I knew are looking at me like I am some sort of asshole or something for leading her on. I never once lead her on, I was straight forward that I wasn't taking her back or anything just wasn't going to be an asshole and ignore her.
user
Ex-girlfriend makes me look like an ass to everyone I know.
assistant
I am 24 and I was dating this girl for about 8 months, about a year ago it was going OK my family liked here and shit. She lost her job and her apartment. So me being a great guy (also kind of a loser living at home) I asked my brother (who I live with) if she can come stay with us for a while till she can get things back in order. 

Things went well for about 6 months and such. Then I was being told she didn't help out (she said she would) but everyday told me she was. Then I hear she was doing this and that (not going into details) and just sleeping till 3 in the afternoon and going on my computer talking to people all loud Skyping I am assuming. I deafened her and talked to her and thought I was setting things in good graces. Then I get accused of not doing certain things she said she would do but in turn actually told my brother and such I said I would do it. Needless to say I ended it with her. She later accused me of being a high school dramatic person. 

Now she is "trying" to make amends so she says. I gave her a chance because I dont like to be a mean guy. I told her I dont know if we can be friends but if you need to talk I can talk. She the goes off and tells everyone I know that I want her back. I ask her about it and she blows up on me. Next thing I know people she knew and I knew are looking at me like I am some sort of asshole or something for leading her on. I never once lead her on, I was straight forward that I wasn't taking her back or anything just wasn't going to be an asshole and ignore her.
user
I got dumped by a girl for "not telling me what she was doing" when she was sleeping and doing things I wasn't doing. I asked
assistant