My girlfriend is 21, and we've been together for 1.5 years. We've been through a lot: travel, abortion, monetary issues, etc. Recently we've been long-distance because she needed to go down to California to make money to go to Germany this Spring. 

While down in California, her employer was giving her a lot of hints, despite the fact that she explicitly said she's in a relationship and isn't interested in anyone else. Her employer gave her flowers, paid for her to go skiing, and gave her numerous compliments before my girlfriend almost blew-up and told him to back off. He said he understood, and said he would refrain from being persuasive.

Now she says everything is fine and he isn't giving off any hints. I trust her not to be dicking around with other guys. I still find it troubling that he keeps buying things for her (sky-diving trip). He, she, and another coworker went for a hiking trip, and her employer posted 10 photos of the hiking trip, four of which are pictures of her, the rest being of scenery.

My girlfriend is coming back home for a week at the end of February before going to Europe until June. I'm fine with this, as it's the plan. She's going over there to nanny for her aunt and to travel around Europe with her family. 

My girlfriend wants to go back to this employer in June as she makes $20/hour as she needs to pay off student loans. Her employer has stated that both her and I can work there during the summer. I welcome the work, but am still uneasy about this guy. 

Like I said before, I'm more worried about him and feel a physical rise of temperature any time I hear about him. Is this just a primal reaction, being protective? My girlfriend says nothing is wrong as of now and that he understands the boundaries. Will time merely alleviate my concerns? Or are there questions/concerns I should deal with?
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Girlfriend's employer is showing interest in her. She says nothing is wrong and that it's
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My girlfriend is 21, and we've been together for 1.5 years. We've been through a lot: travel, abortion, monetary issues, etc. Recently we've been long-distance because she needed to go down to California to make money to go to Germany this Spring. 

While down in California, her employer was giving her a lot of hints, despite the fact that she explicitly said she's in a relationship and isn't interested in anyone else. Her employer gave her flowers, paid for her to go skiing, and gave her numerous compliments before my girlfriend almost blew-up and told him to back off. He said he understood, and said he would refrain from being persuasive.

Now she says everything is fine and he isn't giving off any hints. I trust her not to be dicking around with other guys. I still find it troubling that he keeps buying things for her (sky-diving trip). He, she, and another coworker went for a hiking trip, and her employer posted 10 photos of the hiking trip, four of which are pictures of her, the rest being of scenery.

My girlfriend is coming back home for a week at the end of February before going to Europe until June. I'm fine with this, as it's the plan. She's going over there to nanny for her aunt and to travel around Europe with her family. 

My girlfriend wants to go back to this employer in June as she makes $20/hour as she needs to pay off student loans. Her employer has stated that both her and I can work there during the summer. I welcome the work, but am still uneasy about this guy. 

Like I said before, I'm more worried about him and feel a physical rise of temperature any time I hear about him. Is this just a primal reaction, being protective? My girlfriend says nothing is wrong as of now and that he understands the boundaries. Will time merely alleviate my concerns? Or are there questions/concerns I should deal with?
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My girlfriend is being shown interest in by her employer, and it's making me nervous.
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