I met this girl on OKC. Clicked instantly over text. We had both been through similar and recent breakups. She wanted two weeks to pull herself together, but we talked a lot over text and had a ton in common. Pretty personal stuff.

Well I finally met the girl, and the date went about as well as it could possibly go. Spent a fairly intimate night together. Sex, cuddling, 3am breakfast food, etc.

I've met and slept with a decent number of girls since I broke up with my ex, but this is the first girl I've been genuinely interested in. We had pretty much everything in common to a scary extent. And I know I'm interested because my interest in hooking up with the rest of the women I've been talking to has decreased dramatically. I just want to spend more time with this girl.

But we talked a bit about expectations and life, and she isn't ready for anything serious as she isn't over her ex. Honestly, I'm not exactly ready either as I still miss my ex, but I still feel like I might have something here. I'm pretty much the one guy she's met since her breakup, so I clearly have something going for me, but I'm pretty fucking scared that I'm going to wind up getting hurt.

I get that this is silly. I'm just trying to figure life out and I think I found someone else I gel with. Going to take things slow, but I don't know how not to get attached. Probably a mistake to do this. What's the best way to traverse this delicate situation short of ending things entirely (which may very well be the smart option)?
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I met this girl on OKC. Clicked instantly over text. We had both been through similar and recent breakups. She wanted two weeks to pull herself together, but we talked a lot over text and had a ton in common. Pretty personal stuff.

Well I finally met the girl, and the date went about as well as it could possibly go. Spent a fairly intimate night together. Sex, cuddling, 3am breakfast food, etc.

I've met and slept with a decent number of girls since I broke up with my ex, but this is the first girl I've been genuinely interested in. We had pretty much everything in common to a scary extent. And I know I'm interested because my interest in hooking up with the rest of the women I've been talking to has decreased dramatically. I just want to spend more time with this girl.

But we talked a bit about expectations and life, and she isn't ready for anything serious as she isn't over her ex. Honestly, I'm not exactly ready either as I still miss my ex, but I still feel like I might have something here. I'm pretty much the one guy she's met since her breakup, so I clearly have something going for me, but I'm pretty fucking scared that I'm going to wind up getting hurt.

I get that this is silly. I'm just trying to figure life out and I think I found someone else I gel with. Going to take things slow, but I don't know how not to get attached. Probably a mistake to do this. What's the best way to traverse this delicate situation short of ending things entirely (which may very well be the smart option)?
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I met
assistant