Hey everyone, so I've been in a relationship with this girl for about 4 months. And she's a really bad texter or atleast in my opinion she is and I need an outside viewpoint. We're both in our freshman year of university and we're both pretty busy so when we text I put in the effort to have a good conversation with her, asking how her day was and telling her about mine etc. When she texts back she always uses short answers like cool, nice, sweet, and it honestly makes me feel like she doesn't care to talk to me which frankly stresses me out. I'll say "have a good night" and she'll respond with "okay". I hope I'm not the only one who sees the issue with this. Anyway, I've put it off as she's a bad texter for now but it's gotten to where she does it so much that I honestly feel like she doesn't care to talk to me at all. I don't want to be the guy that confronts her about texting because it kind of seems ridiculous but I feel like shit sometimes and it ruins my day. Writing this post has helped me a little bit but some outside input would be amazing. What should I do? Should I confront her? Should I just stop putting in the effort when texting? I really like this girl.
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Hey everyone, so I've been in a relationship with this girl for about 4 months. And she's a really bad texter or atleast in my opinion she is and I need an outside viewpoint. We're both in our freshman year of university and we're both pretty busy so when we text I put in the effort to have a good conversation with her, asking how her day was and telling her about mine etc. When she texts back she always uses short answers like cool, nice, sweet, and it honestly makes me feel like she doesn't care to talk to me which frankly stresses me out. I'll say "have a good night" and she'll respond with "okay". I hope I'm not the only one who sees the issue with this. Anyway, I've put it off as she's a bad texter for now but it's gotten to where she does it so much that I honestly feel like she doesn't care to talk to me at all. I don't want to be the guy that confronts her about texting because it kind of seems ridiculous but I feel like shit sometimes and it ruins my day. Writing this post has helped me a little bit but some outside input would be amazing. What should I do? Should I confront her? Should I just stop putting in the effort when texting? I really like this girl.
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