This will probably seem like the stereotypical "girl has best thing she could want and throws it away anyways" type of situation but Reddit, I really need some outside perspective on my decision before I give a final answer.

Here's how it goes:

I have been dating this funny, handsome, intelligent guy for a year and three months. He is clearly head over heels for me-Always wants to hang out, visits me frequently at work, makes me feel as if I'm worth the effort and more. 

But the thing is, I don't feel quite the same. I love him. A lot, actually. He has brought only good things into my life. But I almost feel sick when I think about a future with him. I don't want to. And I can't imagine never being with someone else. I have only dated three people in my life and all have been fairly long-term. 

He would accept it if I broke up with him, but he wants reasons. And I don't have any except for knowing I feel differently. I don't want to get married and I know he doesn't either. In this way we are completely compatible, and he just wants to know why I would break it off when we can still have fun together. Somehow I still don't feel right. Anyone have some suggestions or input? I am desperate for some feedback...
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Girl has great bf, but doesn't feel quite right about
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This will probably seem like the stereotypical "girl has best thing she could want and throws it away anyways" type of situation but Reddit, I really need some outside perspective on my decision before I give a final answer.

Here's how it goes:

I have been dating this funny, handsome, intelligent guy for a year and three months. He is clearly head over heels for me-Always wants to hang out, visits me frequently at work, makes me feel as if I'm worth the effort and more. 

But the thing is, I don't feel quite the same. I love him. A lot, actually. He has brought only good things into my life. But I almost feel sick when I think about a future with him. I don't want to. And I can't imagine never being with someone else. I have only dated three people in my life and all have been fairly long-term. 

He would accept it if I broke up with him, but he wants reasons. And I don't have any except for knowing I feel differently. I don't want to get married and I know he doesn't either. In this way we are completely compatible, and he just wants to know why I would break it off when we can still have fun together. Somehow I still don't feel right. Anyone have some suggestions or input? I am desperate for some feedback...
user
I don't know if I should break up with my
assistant