I'm not going to get into her backstory because it's not my place, but we'll say that she met a guy (friend of other cousin's) at a family holiday party and got knocked up by him in the span of a month late last year.

Turns out this guy is abusive. He has thrown things, broken things (multiple doors, mirrors, photos, other things), hidden in her house waiting for her to come home, hit her, called her names, etc. When my parents (also like parents to her, long story) found out about him abusing her and not leaving her house, they tried intervening. It was short lived, unfortunately. 

Most recently he stole from her, and I'm pissed off about it. She did file a police report, but not against him, because she couldn't find any evidence of him having done it. 

Also, I'd promised her thousands of dollars worth of baby clothes/items that my child is done using (but some of which I'll expect to be returned) before it turned out that this guy is a crazy abusive asshole and now, I'm not sure I want to give them to her just to watch him destroy them, because he is very angry about the baby. I don't want it to seem like a gift with strings, I just have no doubt he would try to destroy the seats/swings/etc in anger and I expect to get those things back! 

She does not listen to anyone, and obviously she's not going to listen to me. I would really just appreciate advice on what to do in this situation, especially if you've been in something like this. She is like a sister to me, so the whole thing is just very upsetting.
user
Pregnant cousin getting manipulated and abused by abusive boyfriend, she doesn't listen to anyone and is very stubborn and probably won't
assistant
I'm not going to get into her backstory because it's not my place, but we'll say that she met a guy (friend of other cousin's) at a family holiday party and got knocked up by him in the span of a month late last year.

Turns out this guy is abusive. He has thrown things, broken things (multiple doors, mirrors, photos, other things), hidden in her house waiting for her to come home, hit her, called her names, etc. When my parents (also like parents to her, long story) found out about him abusing her and not leaving her house, they tried intervening. It was short lived, unfortunately. 

Most recently he stole from her, and I'm pissed off about it. She did file a police report, but not against him, because she couldn't find any evidence of him having done it. 

Also, I'd promised her thousands of dollars worth of baby clothes/items that my child is done using (but some of which I'll expect to be returned) before it turned out that this guy is a crazy abusive asshole and now, I'm not sure I want to give them to her just to watch him destroy them, because he is very angry about the baby. I don't want it to seem like a gift with strings, I just have no doubt he would try to destroy the seats/swings/etc in anger and I expect to get those things back! 

She does not listen to anyone, and obviously she's not going to listen to me. I would really just appreciate advice on what to do in this situation, especially if you've been in something like this. She is like a sister to me, so the whole thing is just very upsetting.
user
Pregnant cousin is being abused and manipulated by her abusive boyfriend. Need advice on what to do/say/hope for her sake.
assistant