To start off, I'd like to apologize for the long post and terrible formatting. I'm currently using my mobile. 

My boyfriend and I have been together for seven years. He recently came to visit because he attends a university in a different state. While he was here he proposed the idea of getting engaged. Although I loved the idea, I was skeptical as to what his parents would say and I voiced my concern to him. His parents are very traditional Koreans, and from the beginning his Father told me straight out that he did not want me dating his son. His father doesn't like the idea of his son dating someone who is does not come from a family of money, and who isn't Korean. 

Fast forward to the present, my boyfriend arranged a dinner with his parents to tell them our decision. Of course his father said no again and even told my boyfriend that if we got married they would cut off contact with him. This also means that he would not be able to take over his father's business which is what my boyfriend has been planning to do his whole life. 

Things quickly went down hill from there and my boyfriend stormed out and we went back to my house. That's when he came up with the notion to get married without their approval and start a new life together. As romantic as the idea is, I feel as though he's simply saying these things out of anger towards his father. I know he would regret cutting off contact with his parents, and I tried to tell him this but he wouldn't listen. 

Now he thinks that I'm simply making excuses, and that I do not want to marry him. I absolutely love him and would like to just run away, but realistically it would be something he might regret in the long run. I feel very conflicted as to what I should do and would appreciate some input.
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My boyfriend and I have been together for seven years. He came to visit because he attends a university in a different state. He proposed the idea
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To start off, I'd like to apologize for the long post and terrible formatting. I'm currently using my mobile. 

My boyfriend and I have been together for seven years. He recently came to visit because he attends a university in a different state. While he was here he proposed the idea of getting engaged. Although I loved the idea, I was skeptical as to what his parents would say and I voiced my concern to him. His parents are very traditional Koreans, and from the beginning his Father told me straight out that he did not want me dating his son. His father doesn't like the idea of his son dating someone who is does not come from a family of money, and who isn't Korean. 

Fast forward to the present, my boyfriend arranged a dinner with his parents to tell them our decision. Of course his father said no again and even told my boyfriend that if we got married they would cut off contact with him. This also means that he would not be able to take over his father's business which is what my boyfriend has been planning to do his whole life. 

Things quickly went down hill from there and my boyfriend stormed out and we went back to my house. That's when he came up with the notion to get married without their approval and start a new life together. As romantic as the idea is, I feel as though he's simply saying these things out of anger towards his father. I know he would regret cutting off contact with his parents, and I tried to tell him this but he wouldn't listen. 

Now he thinks that I'm simply making excuses, and that I do not want to marry him. I absolutely love him and would like to just run away, but realistically it would be something he might regret in the long run. I feel very conflicted as to what I should do and would appreciate some input.
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Boyfriend's father might not allow my boyfriend to marry. Boyfriend has a proposal but is still not happy with the idea of getting married without his parents
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