Well this entire mess started about a week ago, and has been spiralling downwards ever since I got led on by my gf. 

 What happened first of all is last saturday we go over to her place to see a movie, as we occasionally do, when she starts being unusually affectionate. Before long we're both naked, but to get to the point nothing much happens, we make out and touch each-other (she was leading the whole interaction, we have never done this before and she taking the initiate for everything), but due to her parents coming home we are interrupted.

 As I am leaving, she tells me that she won't have sex until she starts college and lives somewhere else. We are going to different states college, so I am naturally upset; I feel inadequate and I am really not sure what is going on.

 The day after, I try to talk to her about it, and what we're going to do with our relationship after high school, to which she tells me that she wants to do long distance. This is my first girlfriend ever, so I am inexperienced with how they are supposed to work, but I am just by nature really physically affectionate and I don't think I can hold a relationship long distance when I only get to see her a couple times a month. 

 I also don't really want to start having sex in the middle of a LDR, I could be wrong but it seems to me that long distance is for people who are in great relationships and are separated by circumstance, and not a stage in a normal healthy relationship during which people start getting physically intimate.

 I really like this girl, but I am just really stressed and confused. I don't know how to bring up the topic of sex without seeming really shallow, but I want to share another level of physical intimacy with her, and I think it's an important next step in our relationship considering we still have more than half a year to go until we go our different ways in life.

 Perhaps I'm placing too much of an emphasis on sex, or I'm not aware how ldrs, work, but I am really inexperienced and would appreciate the advice of people who know what they're talking about.
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gf doesn't want to have
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Well this entire mess started about a week ago, and has been spiralling downwards ever since I got led on by my gf. 

 What happened first of all is last saturday we go over to her place to see a movie, as we occasionally do, when she starts being unusually affectionate. Before long we're both naked, but to get to the point nothing much happens, we make out and touch each-other (she was leading the whole interaction, we have never done this before and she taking the initiate for everything), but due to her parents coming home we are interrupted.

 As I am leaving, she tells me that she won't have sex until she starts college and lives somewhere else. We are going to different states college, so I am naturally upset; I feel inadequate and I am really not sure what is going on.

 The day after, I try to talk to her about it, and what we're going to do with our relationship after high school, to which she tells me that she wants to do long distance. This is my first girlfriend ever, so I am inexperienced with how they are supposed to work, but I am just by nature really physically affectionate and I don't think I can hold a relationship long distance when I only get to see her a couple times a month. 

 I also don't really want to start having sex in the middle of a LDR, I could be wrong but it seems to me that long distance is for people who are in great relationships and are separated by circumstance, and not a stage in a normal healthy relationship during which people start getting physically intimate.

 I really like this girl, but I am just really stressed and confused. I don't know how to bring up the topic of sex without seeming really shallow, but I want to share another level of physical intimacy with her, and I think it's an important next step in our relationship considering we still have more than half a year to go until we go our different ways in life.

 Perhaps I'm placing too much of an emphasis on sex, or I'm not aware how ldrs, work, but I am really inexperienced and would appreciate the advice of people who know what they're talking about.
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gf leads me on about
assistant