We've been together for about six months. Today he was getting ready and I was helping to clean his room. He left his smartphone on his bed, so I decided to look at old Facebook messages. There are SO many girls that he messaged over the summer, not many replied, but he was constantly telling them how cute they were and such.
There was one in particular that stuck out, so I started reading. It was all about how tired he was of being a virgin and wanted a friend with benefits and was asking her if she'd have sex with him, even though they didn't even know each other that well.

They didn't have sex, he and I lost our virginities to each other, but it's still really bothering me. He hasn't deleted any of those messages and it's really killing me to know that he was just so into losing his virginity that he didn't care who it was with.

I do trust him, but why can't I let this go? It hurts so bad. Please help me.
user
found a bunch of graphic Facebook messages between boyfriend and another girl. She didn't have sex with him and he's asking for it. Why can't
assistant
We've been together for about six months. Today he was getting ready and I was helping to clean his room. He left his smartphone on his bed, so I decided to look at old Facebook messages. There are SO many girls that he messaged over the summer, not many replied, but he was constantly telling them how cute they were and such.
There was one in particular that stuck out, so I started reading. It was all about how tired he was of being a virgin and wanted a friend with benefits and was asking her if she'd have sex with him, even though they didn't even know each other that well.

They didn't have sex, he and I lost our virginities to each other, but it's still really bothering me. He hasn't deleted any of those messages and it's really killing me to know that he was just so into losing his virginity that he didn't care who it was with.

I do trust him, but why can't I let this go? It hurts so bad. Please help me.
user
Found a bunch of graphic messages from SO of six months ago asking for sex with random girls even though he didn't know them well.
assistant