4yrs married.

I was invited to a party with some new work friends and I invited my wife. After the party my friend says that he doesn't like the way she talked about me and doesn't want her over anymore. My wife and I can trash talk each other a little, but it's mostly lighthearted but my friend thought she crossed a line. My wife is mad because in her view I should have her back, and that means if someone doesn't like her I should cut them off. I only have a small handful of friends, and I hate to lose a new one because they don't like my wife. I understand that my wife doesn't have a great social filter, so I can understand if my friends feels she crossed a line. I want to keep my friendship but my wife feels that I'm betraying her. Do my friends also have to befriend my wife?
user
My friend doesn't want to be
assistant
4yrs married.

I was invited to a party with some new work friends and I invited my wife. After the party my friend says that he doesn't like the way she talked about me and doesn't want her over anymore. My wife and I can trash talk each other a little, but it's mostly lighthearted but my friend thought she crossed a line. My wife is mad because in her view I should have her back, and that means if someone doesn't like her I should cut them off. I only have a small handful of friends, and I hate to lose a new one because they don't like my wife. I understand that my wife doesn't have a great social filter, so I can understand if my friends feels she crossed a line. I want to keep my friendship but my wife feels that I'm betraying her. Do my friends also have to befriend my wife?
user
I want to keep my friendship
assistant