Well this has been very weird to me. However I am not sure if I myself could see this situation in a fair way, since there exists cultural difference concern. 

Simply put, he said he liked me last year, but for some reason I refused him at that time. After that we hardly contacted each other. But I could feel there is still sth between us when we met and talked. 

Nothing happened during the spring semester since both of us were busy with study. This summer however, we began to text again. He is going to leave the country in September and work abroad for two years. He said he wanted to see me, but I found every time when he mentioned to see me is "at night". I know he needs to work during daytime, but even weekends he still only contacted me at night. 

This has happened four times so far, I haven't agreed to meet him at night (usually after 10pm which is very inconvenient). 

I'm very confused because I actually have some feelings for him, so just wondering this- does he want to develop a relationship, or just an ONS?  Why he only texts me and asks for meeting up at night? 

I couldn't answer it myself in case of any cultural misunderstandings. He is an American, and I'm from South Korea.  And he is a very nice guy, every one who knows him will say he is a reliable person.

Thanks for any help :)
user
my crush only wanna meet me at night whenever he contacts me, despite of cultural differences. why he only wanna meet me at night?
assistant
Well this has been very weird to me. However I am not sure if I myself could see this situation in a fair way, since there exists cultural difference concern. 

Simply put, he said he liked me last year, but for some reason I refused him at that time. After that we hardly contacted each other. But I could feel there is still sth between us when we met and talked. 

Nothing happened during the spring semester since both of us were busy with study. This summer however, we began to text again. He is going to leave the country in September and work abroad for two years. He said he wanted to see me, but I found every time when he mentioned to see me is "at night". I know he needs to work during daytime, but even weekends he still only contacted me at night. 

This has happened four times so far, I haven't agreed to meet him at night (usually after 10pm which is very inconvenient). 

I'm very confused because I actually have some feelings for him, so just wondering this- does he want to develop a relationship, or just an ONS?  Why he only texts me and asks for meeting up at night? 

I couldn't answer it myself in case of any cultural misunderstandings. He is an American, and I'm from South Korea.  And he is a very nice guy, every one who knows him will say he is a reliable person.

Thanks for any help :)
user
why he only wanna meet me at night? Seems like he doesnt want to develop any relationship or ONS, just wanna see me. Wondering if he is just wanna see me or actually wanna actualy have
assistant