I've been dating my boyfriend for a year now. We're basically best friends and always have fun with each other. Our conversations keep me very interested and he's the only one who can make me laugh until I cry. 

However... there are some aspects of his personality that kind of bother me. Like this morning, I was listening to him make a phone call and he has trouble finding the right words to get his point across, even with the most simple things. I just want to grab the phone from him and say what he's trying to say in 1/3 the of the time he's stuttering and finding words. It bothers me that he can't just breathe and think about what he's trying to get across, and then speak. I don't know, he lacks professionalism. 

Whenever he runs into a problem, I feel as if I'm the one solving all of them because he lacks critical thinking. Obvious solutions that are right there in front of him go over his head. I guess what I'm trying to say is that I'm tired of being the one who takes control and fixes everything or finds solutions that are as efficient as possible. I'm always the one who does everything better and thinks quickly on my feet, so I get a bit agitated when he attempts to solve something in the most.. slow way possible. 

He's not very detail-oriented and is very clumsy with his work at times. Is this how it's going to be in the future? I fix every single problem that we come across? We're so young and don't really have anything to deal with, so he really shouldn't be having that much trouble solving simple things at this point.

Other than that, we're soulmates in every way possible. He knows that I'm smarter than him, both with academics and critical thinking. I don't care about the academics, I just wish he could just give me a break and take the reigns for once.

While I was writing this he just asked me whether the word holiday is capitalized. I love this guy but... cmon.............. omfg....
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My boyfriend sucks at anything involving critical thinking
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I've been dating my boyfriend for a year now. We're basically best friends and always have fun with each other. Our conversations keep me very interested and he's the only one who can make me laugh until I cry. 

However... there are some aspects of his personality that kind of bother me. Like this morning, I was listening to him make a phone call and he has trouble finding the right words to get his point across, even with the most simple things. I just want to grab the phone from him and say what he's trying to say in 1/3 the of the time he's stuttering and finding words. It bothers me that he can't just breathe and think about what he's trying to get across, and then speak. I don't know, he lacks professionalism. 

Whenever he runs into a problem, I feel as if I'm the one solving all of them because he lacks critical thinking. Obvious solutions that are right there in front of him go over his head. I guess what I'm trying to say is that I'm tired of being the one who takes control and fixes everything or finds solutions that are as efficient as possible. I'm always the one who does everything better and thinks quickly on my feet, so I get a bit agitated when he attempts to solve something in the most.. slow way possible. 

He's not very detail-oriented and is very clumsy with his work at times. Is this how it's going to be in the future? I fix every single problem that we come across? We're so young and don't really have anything to deal with, so he really shouldn't be having that much trouble solving simple things at this point.

Other than that, we're soulmates in every way possible. He knows that I'm smarter than him, both with academics and critical thinking. I don't care about the academics, I just wish he could just give me a break and take the reigns for once.

While I was writing this he just asked me whether the word holiday is capitalized. I love this guy but... cmon.............. omfg....
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Boyfriend can't speak clearly, I want him to
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