He broke up with me out of the nowhere. He said he hasn't felt anything for me for 4 months, and that he's had doubts even longer.  

My head has been spinning for hours, and nothing feels real. 

He says I should have known,  because last week he said while drinking that if we ever broke up he would be taking my cat, because she likes him better. 

But everything else had been fine.  Last night, like every night we even slept in eachothers arms. He kissed me goodbye this morning and told me he loved me. 

I love him, and making him happy was my world. I adored his daughter and did everything I could to help him raise her. I kept things as clean as possible, he always had clean clothes to wear to work.  I packed his lunches, and made homemade dinners. I rubbed his back after a long day, and I catered to every need he had in the bedroom. 

This afternoon he went and looked at an apartment before even ending things with me. Even after that he paced around not speaking to me for over an hour. Then all of a sudden "I want to break up. For four months now, that's all I've been able to think about."

I'm completely lost. I thought he was the one, we had so many plans. Even a cruise booked for next April. We have been living together a year and just moved into a new place.  Everything is so tangled, all of our things packed together.  

I left, and will be getting the rest of my stuff tomorrow while he's not there. But for now my cat and I are sleeping on the floor at my parents' house.

My family, his family, our friends... everyone is shocked and devastated. 

I just want to sleep but I'm still reeling. He already blocked me from Facebook. I feel so used.  If you need more information ask, I'm not exactly thinking clearly enough to add every detail.
user
He broke up with me out of the blue. How do I get over
assistant
He broke up with me out of the nowhere. He said he hasn't felt anything for me for 4 months, and that he's had doubts even longer.  

My head has been spinning for hours, and nothing feels real. 

He says I should have known,  because last week he said while drinking that if we ever broke up he would be taking my cat, because she likes him better. 

But everything else had been fine.  Last night, like every night we even slept in eachothers arms. He kissed me goodbye this morning and told me he loved me. 

I love him, and making him happy was my world. I adored his daughter and did everything I could to help him raise her. I kept things as clean as possible, he always had clean clothes to wear to work.  I packed his lunches, and made homemade dinners. I rubbed his back after a long day, and I catered to every need he had in the bedroom. 

This afternoon he went and looked at an apartment before even ending things with me. Even after that he paced around not speaking to me for over an hour. Then all of a sudden "I want to break up. For four months now, that's all I've been able to think about."

I'm completely lost. I thought he was the one, we had so many plans. Even a cruise booked for next April. We have been living together a year and just moved into a new place.  Everything is so tangled, all of our things packed together.  

I left, and will be getting the rest of my stuff tomorrow while he's not there. But for now my cat and I are sleeping on the floor at my parents' house.

My family, his family, our friends... everyone is shocked and devastated. 

I just want to sleep but I'm still reeling. He already blocked me from Facebook. I feel so used.  If you need more information ask, I'm not exactly thinking clearly enough to add every detail.
user
boyfriend broke up with me over the phone. I don't know what to do.
assistant