About two weeks ago my older sister and her bf went on vacation to Japan, and they returned last tuesday. I asked her how her trip was and she told me it was great but would get into it later since she had to catch up on schoolwork.

Today I was on facebook and her status had changed to "Engaged". Now I'm not upset in the least about that, as her bf is a cool guy, but this happened while she was in Japan so she mentioned she was late to posting it. I gave her a call to congratulate her but was curious as to why she didn't tell me or why I didn't know about it (since we usually chat about every other day or so) and she was surprised that our parents didn't tell me.

I'm not upset with her since her txting from Japan was expensive so she probably only told my parents when it happened and wanted them to pass it on. Even if she was going to tell me, I would've thought that our parents would call me asking if I heard her news yet.

I guess I feel like i'm being outcasted by my parents, i'm up at uni about 50 miles away with a good job up here and have been looking at apartments for summer and the school year which has put a strain on any conversations with my parents. I don't know if it's relevant but it makes this seem intentional from my parents.
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My sister and her bf got engaged over a week and a half
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About two weeks ago my older sister and her bf went on vacation to Japan, and they returned last tuesday. I asked her how her trip was and she told me it was great but would get into it later since she had to catch up on schoolwork.

Today I was on facebook and her status had changed to "Engaged". Now I'm not upset in the least about that, as her bf is a cool guy, but this happened while she was in Japan so she mentioned she was late to posting it. I gave her a call to congratulate her but was curious as to why she didn't tell me or why I didn't know about it (since we usually chat about every other day or so) and she was surprised that our parents didn't tell me.

I'm not upset with her since her txting from Japan was expensive so she probably only told my parents when it happened and wanted them to pass it on. Even if she was going to tell me, I would've thought that our parents would call me asking if I heard her news yet.

I guess I feel like i'm being outcasted by my parents, i'm up at uni about 50 miles away with a good job up here and have been looking at apartments for summer and the school year which has put a strain on any conversations with my parents. I don't know if it's relevant but it makes this seem intentional from my parents.
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My sister is engaged and I didn't know until today, am I overreacting?
assistant