Sorry, wasn't exactly sure where to post this. Please redirect me if it's the wrong subreddit.

Background:
Boyfriend is long distance ~12 hours away. We have been planning on moving in together this summer and him moving to my city, where we would get an apartment together. I live with my mom now, not paying rent because I just turned 18 recently. Studio apartments in my area are around $800-$1000 rent alone.

The other day my mom suddenly suggested we move in with her, she would charge us $500. Basically, I'm wondering what problems you could see with this. Obviously, its a great offer but I am afraid of how strict she would be when I was looking for full independence. If she treated me like an actual roommate I would be happy. Another major worry is SEX. Who wants to have sex with their mom in the house plus I'm afraid she would be mad if I did. When my boyfriend visits me in my city he has to spend the night because we're long distance... my mom can be very understanding sometimes but when he visits we can't sleep in the same room and have a strict 11pm bedtime (which I understand, she is my mom) Anyway, I'm just wondering if you guys think this is a bad idea or not, what problems you think might arise, any advice if I do end up paying her rent, etc. I'll answer any questions if you need more information

Also, not looking for advice regarding boyfriend. We are sure about moving in together, whether its an apartment or at my moms. We have been together since I was 15.
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My mom
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Sorry, wasn't exactly sure where to post this. Please redirect me if it's the wrong subreddit.

Background:
Boyfriend is long distance ~12 hours away. We have been planning on moving in together this summer and him moving to my city, where we would get an apartment together. I live with my mom now, not paying rent because I just turned 18 recently. Studio apartments in my area are around $800-$1000 rent alone.

The other day my mom suddenly suggested we move in with her, she would charge us $500. Basically, I'm wondering what problems you could see with this. Obviously, its a great offer but I am afraid of how strict she would be when I was looking for full independence. If she treated me like an actual roommate I would be happy. Another major worry is SEX. Who wants to have sex with their mom in the house plus I'm afraid she would be mad if I did. When my boyfriend visits me in my city he has to spend the night because we're long distance... my mom can be very understanding sometimes but when he visits we can't sleep in the same room and have a strict 11pm bedtime (which I understand, she is my mom) Anyway, I'm just wondering if you guys think this is a bad idea or not, what problems you think might arise, any advice if I do end up paying her rent, etc. I'll answer any questions if you need more information

Also, not looking for advice regarding boyfriend. We are sure about moving in together, whether its an apartment or at my moms. We have been together since I was 15.
user
mom gave
assistant