Like the title says, we fight a lot; it seems we can't go a week without some sort of argument. I feel like a lot of things I do set her off, but when she does it, it's no big deal. 

For example: about a week ago I had 3 finals in one day and at the end of the day I was so exhausted and tired. She kept asking me what time I would wake up in the morning and I kept telling her I don't know, I just want to catch up on sleep for a while. On about her 4th time asking, I accidentally snapped and raised my voice and said "Why can't you just let me sleep?" I know I was wrong and shouldn't have raised my voice at her, and I apologized afterwards. Then, last night we were having trouble navigating in the city and after I checked my phone to see which way we should go, she said loudly "I just want to go to Fifth avenue!" We walked silently for a few minutes and then I said to her "Don't be mad at me, it's not my fault." And she responded "I didn't say it was your fault. Did I say it was your fault? No, I didn't." And that was basically all we said for the rest of the night. She didn't apologize and we haven't talked since. 

I love her to death, but how long can we keep doing this if we can't go a week without fighting? I can overlook a lot of the things she does that upset me, but it becomes an issue when she does things that she had previously been mad at me for.
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Girlfriend and I
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Like the title says, we fight a lot; it seems we can't go a week without some sort of argument. I feel like a lot of things I do set her off, but when she does it, it's no big deal. 

For example: about a week ago I had 3 finals in one day and at the end of the day I was so exhausted and tired. She kept asking me what time I would wake up in the morning and I kept telling her I don't know, I just want to catch up on sleep for a while. On about her 4th time asking, I accidentally snapped and raised my voice and said "Why can't you just let me sleep?" I know I was wrong and shouldn't have raised my voice at her, and I apologized afterwards. Then, last night we were having trouble navigating in the city and after I checked my phone to see which way we should go, she said loudly "I just want to go to Fifth avenue!" We walked silently for a few minutes and then I said to her "Don't be mad at me, it's not my fault." And she responded "I didn't say it was your fault. Did I say it was your fault? No, I didn't." And that was basically all we said for the rest of the night. She didn't apologize and we haven't talked since. 

I love her to death, but how long can we keep doing this if we can't go a week without fighting? I can overlook a lot of the things she does that upset me, but it becomes an issue when she does things that she had previously been mad at me for.
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She says and
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