My boyfriend has close friend that he invites over from time to time when we're hanging out.

The problem is, I don't feel comfortable around his friend. He constantly checks me out and feels the need to tell me that he looked up my skirt, was staring at my tits or ass (like I didn't notice it myself), or that I have nice feet that satisfy his foot fetish. He's notoriously horny all the time (as many teenage boys are) and has tried to flirt with me from the day we met. He's in several relationships right now, as far as I can tell. Our conversations are mostly about his sex life or overly personal questions about the sex between my boyfriend and I.

I know I'm free to speak up and tell my boyfriend's friend to quit being such a pig, but I know that's not something that's going to stop even if I tell him. For now I just try to avoid him, but that doesn't accomplish anything for anyone, it just leaves the problem there. I don't want my boyfriend to get upset so I haven't told him how uncomfortable his friend makes me. They've been friends for a long time, and I haven't even known him for a full year.

Am I obligated to like my boyfriend's friend? I don't want to make him choose between us, but I also don't want to be around him. I hang out with my boyfriend more often than his friend does, so I think it would be better if they just did stuff when I wasn't around, but that's usually not the case.

Sorry if this seems like petty teenage drama. I'm kind of new to all this relationship business.
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My boyfriend has close friend that he invites over from time to time when we're hanging out.

The problem is, I don't feel comfortable around his friend. He constantly checks me out and feels the need to tell me that he looked up my skirt, was staring at my tits or ass (like I didn't notice it myself), or that I have nice feet that satisfy his foot fetish. He's notoriously horny all the time (as many teenage boys are) and has tried to flirt with me from the day we met. He's in several relationships right now, as far as I can tell. Our conversations are mostly about his sex life or overly personal questions about the sex between my boyfriend and I.

I know I'm free to speak up and tell my boyfriend's friend to quit being such a pig, but I know that's not something that's going to stop even if I tell him. For now I just try to avoid him, but that doesn't accomplish anything for anyone, it just leaves the problem there. I don't want my boyfriend to get upset so I haven't told him how uncomfortable his friend makes me. They've been friends for a long time, and I haven't even known him for a full year.

Am I obligated to like my boyfriend's friend? I don't want to make him choose between us, but I also don't want to be around him. I hang out with my boyfriend more often than his friend does, so I think it would be better if they just did stuff when I wasn't around, but that's usually not the case.

Sorry if this seems like petty teenage drama. I'm kind of new to all this relationship business.
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My boyfriend's
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