I haven't talked to many other males who have had this issue so I am wondering if I am alone in this.

I was broken up with a couple months ago by the girl I thought was going to be "the one". Every reason she gave me for leaving was a reason I had already hated about myself (I'm boring, I have no money [in my defense I am in grad school and work], she wasn't attracted to me anymore, etc). It was the first time I had cried in a long time and I wasn't able to stop for days.

This is where it starts getting odd. The only thing she didn't dislike about me was my performance in bed. So I did as any guy would do, I drank a lot had sex with her and any other female that was interested. Now I just don't want to. It isn't the meaninglessness of life or the meaningless of sex but I feel like I am being used.

Reasonably, I am now emotionally guarded as the rejection is still resonating in my head. I have dated since and am finding myself with women who I am not comfortable with personally but just want to have sex with me.

I don't have any friends that really can relate to this and I feel that there is a social pressure for me to just deal with it.
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Was broken up with by girl, drank a lot had sex with other girls, don't want to anymore, feeling emotionally guarded, wondering if I am alone in
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I haven't talked to many other males who have had this issue so I am wondering if I am alone in this.

I was broken up with a couple months ago by the girl I thought was going to be "the one". Every reason she gave me for leaving was a reason I had already hated about myself (I'm boring, I have no money [in my defense I am in grad school and work], she wasn't attracted to me anymore, etc). It was the first time I had cried in a long time and I wasn't able to stop for days.

This is where it starts getting odd. The only thing she didn't dislike about me was my performance in bed. So I did as any guy would do, I drank a lot had sex with her and any other female that was interested. Now I just don't want to. It isn't the meaninglessness of life or the meaningless of sex but I feel like I am being used.

Reasonably, I am now emotionally guarded as the rejection is still resonating in my head. I have dated since and am finding myself with women who I am not comfortable with personally but just want to have sex with me.

I don't have any friends that really can relate to this and I feel that there is a social pressure for me to just deal with it.
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I had a shitty break up and I am emotionally guarded as if I am being used. Feel like I am being used/emptied out. Wondering if I
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