So this never bothered me much before but I want to know if I'm putting too much attention to something that doesn't really matter.
My husband and I got married very quickly after we got engaged. We had a full beautiful wedding with about 80 people planned in 4 days. My ring came in within those days and he picked it. It's a 1 and a half carat fake diamond.  Cost about 100$ .
When we were dating he did talk to me about how he doesn't really like diamonds because of where they come from [blood diamonds] and I totally understood. But I didn't really think he was THAT serious about the reason. It kind of made me wonder if he was just trying to cheap out or if he actually cared about the blood diamond. He Also mentioned he didn't see the reason as to why spend so much money on a ring. Mind you , he does have the means to get a very nice ring.  
I agreed with him and told him the marriage is what counts , who cares how much someone spends , it doesn't mean he loves me any less. 
After a year of marriage , my ring is now scratched on the diamond and it's obvious to the eye. So when I mentioned to him maybe it's time for a new ring, he said there's no way he's spending money on another one. 
Here's my thing, he's been engaged twice before. The first time it was a diamond ring, the second time it was a really nice expensive yellow stone. He actually married me , why do I get the cheap out ? Does it really matter Reddit ? Or am i just looking at something so dumb ?
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Husband bought me a cheap fake diamond ring , said he doesn't care about it . I want to know if I'm just looking at something dumb or if it really means he just
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So this never bothered me much before but I want to know if I'm putting too much attention to something that doesn't really matter.
My husband and I got married very quickly after we got engaged. We had a full beautiful wedding with about 80 people planned in 4 days. My ring came in within those days and he picked it. It's a 1 and a half carat fake diamond.  Cost about 100$ .
When we were dating he did talk to me about how he doesn't really like diamonds because of where they come from [blood diamonds] and I totally understood. But I didn't really think he was THAT serious about the reason. It kind of made me wonder if he was just trying to cheap out or if he actually cared about the blood diamond. He Also mentioned he didn't see the reason as to why spend so much money on a ring. Mind you , he does have the means to get a very nice ring.  
I agreed with him and told him the marriage is what counts , who cares how much someone spends , it doesn't mean he loves me any less. 
After a year of marriage , my ring is now scratched on the diamond and it's obvious to the eye. So when I mentioned to him maybe it's time for a new ring, he said there's no way he's spending money on another one. 
Here's my thing, he's been engaged twice before. The first time it was a diamond ring, the second time it was a really nice expensive yellow stone. He actually married me , why do I get the cheap out ? Does it really matter Reddit ? Or am i just looking at something so dumb ?
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My fiance bought me a fake diamond ring. I want to know if I'm just looking at something so dumb.
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