Well first time posting here hoping to get some help. 

Last week I got some texts that my wife was seeing someone else. I confronted her on this and she denied it. We got into a fight about it and she told me that maybe it was a mistake we got married(together 3 years, married since may). She needed time to think about it. 

I went to crash at my dads place but forgot my work laptop. Went home at 11 and she wasn't there. I drove past her friends place on the way back to dads and she wasn't there. I asked her the next day that I was worried the dogs were home alone at 11 and she said she just went to her friends by name. I told her that I had stopped by. She the. Confessed she has been having an emotional affair with someone but nothing physical. She cried and stuff and begged me not to leave her. She isn't sure if she wants to stay with me though. This was Tuesday.

 We went out together to finish Christmas shopping and held hands and cuddled yesterday. I slept at home and we held each other. Unfortunately today we are spending apart. 

I don't know what the hell to do. I talked to her and she said there's nothing I am doing wrong. I am really good to her actually she just feels sad. I'm willing to work through the infidelity but damn it feels like she just doesn't want me to leave. She says she does really love me.

Sorry about the rambling and broken thoughts. Having a hard time.
user
wife admitted to having an emotional affair
assistant
Well first time posting here hoping to get some help. 

Last week I got some texts that my wife was seeing someone else. I confronted her on this and she denied it. We got into a fight about it and she told me that maybe it was a mistake we got married(together 3 years, married since may). She needed time to think about it. 

I went to crash at my dads place but forgot my work laptop. Went home at 11 and she wasn't there. I drove past her friends place on the way back to dads and she wasn't there. I asked her the next day that I was worried the dogs were home alone at 11 and she said she just went to her friends by name. I told her that I had stopped by. She the. Confessed she has been having an emotional affair with someone but nothing physical. She cried and stuff and begged me not to leave her. She isn't sure if she wants to stay with me though. This was Tuesday.

 We went out together to finish Christmas shopping and held hands and cuddled yesterday. I slept at home and we held each other. Unfortunately today we are spending apart. 

I don't know what the hell to do. I talked to her and she said there's nothing I am doing wrong. I am really good to her actually she just feels sad. I'm willing to work through the infidelity but damn it feels like she just doesn't want me to leave. She says she does really love me.

Sorry about the rambling and broken thoughts. Having a hard time.
user
My wife is not telling me the
assistant