My girlfriend and I go to college together and are able to spend lots of time together.  We both think of this as being a long term relationship and we both love each other to death.  She has had sex before, as have I.  However, we don't have a lot of sex at all, we do it less than once a week.  When we do have sex, it's good for both of us.  I can definitely get her to finish, usually more than once, so I don't think I'm bad at it or she doesn't enjoy it.

It's not even just sex.  We hardly have any sexual encounters (oral, hand jobs, fingering, stuff like that).  Even making out is rare.

The thing is, I'm almost positive she had sex with her exes more frequently than she does with me.  This makes me think I'm not as good as them.  I sometimes feel inadequate, I feel like I'm not good enough for her.  I'm definitely not going to pressure her into anything, I'm not that type of person.

How am I supposed to feel about this?  Why would this be the case?
user
GF of 6 months rarely sex, I think I'm not good enough for her, I feel inadequate, how can I not feel this
assistant
My girlfriend and I go to college together and are able to spend lots of time together.  We both think of this as being a long term relationship and we both love each other to death.  She has had sex before, as have I.  However, we don't have a lot of sex at all, we do it less than once a week.  When we do have sex, it's good for both of us.  I can definitely get her to finish, usually more than once, so I don't think I'm bad at it or she doesn't enjoy it.

It's not even just sex.  We hardly have any sexual encounters (oral, hand jobs, fingering, stuff like that).  Even making out is rare.

The thing is, I'm almost positive she had sex with her exes more frequently than she does with me.  This makes me think I'm not as good as them.  I sometimes feel inadequate, I feel like I'm not good enough for her.  I'm definitely not going to pressure her into anything, I'm not that type of person.

How am I supposed to feel about this?  Why would this be the case?
user
My girlfriend and I have very little sex, and I'm not sure what to think or do.
assistant