Last year my girlfriend of 3 years got a new job and really hit it off with all her female coworkers. Two or three nights a week they like to go out for drinks and such.

I'm always invited and welcomed to come, but aside from just generally being an introvert, I went a few times and decided I liked staying home much better as it's just work talk and gossip about other coworkers all night long. There's not much conversation-wise for me to jump in on and I get pretty bored.

Anyway, my question is this. When my girlfriend leaves around 6pm and sometimes doesn't get back until 2am, at most we'll exchange a couple texts. Simple ones like I love yous, I miss yous, can't wait to see you later tonights (we live together), etc.

However, sometimes I feel like I'd like to know a little more about what's going on, but I don't want to know TOO much. I mean, I'd be happier if she'd sometimes text me saying "Hey we're leaving this bar we've been at and going to XXX bar now".

I just feel when she's gone all night long and I never here where she's at I'm worried if something happened to her I wouldn't know where to go to find her/pick her up, etc. 

I tried to bring it up once but I don't think there's an easy way to say "I'd like just a little more information about your activities when you go out and stay out all night" without coming off as "TELL ME EVERY DETAIL OF YOUR NIGHT AS IT PROGRESSES". I trust her fully and love her, etcetc, It's not an insecure vibe that drives this. 

Is it wrong to want to know a little more about her plans as they progress throughout the night? Or should I just not ask anything?
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Girlfriend goes out with female coworkers 2-3 nights a week from 6pm - 2am. Is it wrong that I'd like her texts to be a little more than I Love Yous, and maybe include things
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Last year my girlfriend of 3 years got a new job and really hit it off with all her female coworkers. Two or three nights a week they like to go out for drinks and such.

I'm always invited and welcomed to come, but aside from just generally being an introvert, I went a few times and decided I liked staying home much better as it's just work talk and gossip about other coworkers all night long. There's not much conversation-wise for me to jump in on and I get pretty bored.

Anyway, my question is this. When my girlfriend leaves around 6pm and sometimes doesn't get back until 2am, at most we'll exchange a couple texts. Simple ones like I love yous, I miss yous, can't wait to see you later tonights (we live together), etc.

However, sometimes I feel like I'd like to know a little more about what's going on, but I don't want to know TOO much. I mean, I'd be happier if she'd sometimes text me saying "Hey we're leaving this bar we've been at and going to XXX bar now".

I just feel when she's gone all night long and I never here where she's at I'm worried if something happened to her I wouldn't know where to go to find her/pick her up, etc. 

I tried to bring it up once but I don't think there's an easy way to say "I'd like just a little more information about your activities when you go out and stay out all night" without coming off as "TELL ME EVERY DETAIL OF YOUR NIGHT AS IT PROGRESSES". I trust her fully and love her, etcetc, It's not an insecure vibe that drives this. 

Is it wrong to want to know a little more about her plans as they progress throughout the night? Or should I just not ask anything?
user
I'm always invited to come to work and hang out with my girlfriend, but I'm not always happy with that. I want to know more about her plans and how her night goes over the
assistant