On Saturday I broke up with my girlfriend of 2.5yrs. We had a perfect relationship - never fought, loved each other, shared visions, etc.  

We went to a wedding last week which sparked her saying things along the lines of, "I want to be with you forever", etc. The comments weren't surprising by any means, but they did get me thinking about where I am in life and what I want right now.

The whole week I became less and less convinced that I wanted to be in a relationship at this moment, not matter how picture perfect it was. These thoughts culminated into me breaking up with her.

She since has been calling me and my friends in tears claiming that she is devastated and can't be without me. I have talked to her a few times and explained that I need at least a few days to think this out.

It may be important to note that I went out last night with some friends and ended up sleeping with a friend of a friend. Probably not the brightest moment in my life but it didn't feel wrong.

So Reddit, I am asking for guidance. Has anyone been in a situation like mine? Am I fucking up big time?
user
ending a perfect relationship with an amazing woman because I don't
assistant
On Saturday I broke up with my girlfriend of 2.5yrs. We had a perfect relationship - never fought, loved each other, shared visions, etc.  

We went to a wedding last week which sparked her saying things along the lines of, "I want to be with you forever", etc. The comments weren't surprising by any means, but they did get me thinking about where I am in life and what I want right now.

The whole week I became less and less convinced that I wanted to be in a relationship at this moment, not matter how picture perfect it was. These thoughts culminated into me breaking up with her.

She since has been calling me and my friends in tears claiming that she is devastated and can't be without me. I have talked to her a few times and explained that I need at least a few days to think this out.

It may be important to note that I went out last night with some friends and ended up sleeping with a friend of a friend. Probably not the brightest moment in my life but it didn't feel wrong.

So Reddit, I am asking for guidance. Has anyone been in a situation like mine? Am I fucking up big time?
user
Broke up with GF to be with another girl, need advice.
assistant