I met this guy in class. we hung out almost every day for over a month. he took me on dates, concerts, family dinners even met some of his friends. Then he tells me he loves me joking. like how a friend says I love you. but then he made things awkward by saying something really goofy and odd and leaving fast.

I know he didn't mean to say I love you and it was in a joking manner but I cant help feeling that this has something to do with it. maybe he got scared I felt that way or that it was moving too fast.

then he ignored me for a whole week during springbreak. now in class he wont talk to me or even look at me. even sat at a table across the room when he ususally sits next to me.

if he lost interest then why would he go through all the trouble of having me meet his friends and family and why would he be ignoring me.

That week of ignoring I only texted him twice. he replied to my second text saying he hasn't been feeling like hanging out. which I said that it was ok. I wasn't even mad so why would he treat me bad.

I forgot to mention I also caught him hitting on my friend but I really wasn't too upset about it. idk if he knows that I know. but im guessing he might be feeling a little stupid for accidentally doing that to my friend but I never yelled at him. why would he be mad at me if he was the one that messed up?

I just wondered if anyones been through something similar or can explain why boys do this
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met a great guy in college and went on many romantic dates only to have him ignore me in class to the point where he has to move seats. Last time we saw eachother he said I love you but days later hit on my friend. but don't understand why he
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I met this guy in class. we hung out almost every day for over a month. he took me on dates, concerts, family dinners even met some of his friends. Then he tells me he loves me joking. like how a friend says I love you. but then he made things awkward by saying something really goofy and odd and leaving fast.

I know he didn't mean to say I love you and it was in a joking manner but I cant help feeling that this has something to do with it. maybe he got scared I felt that way or that it was moving too fast.

then he ignored me for a whole week during springbreak. now in class he wont talk to me or even look at me. even sat at a table across the room when he ususally sits next to me.

if he lost interest then why would he go through all the trouble of having me meet his friends and family and why would he be ignoring me.

That week of ignoring I only texted him twice. he replied to my second text saying he hasn't been feeling like hanging out. which I said that it was ok. I wasn't even mad so why would he treat me bad.

I forgot to mention I also caught him hitting on my friend but I really wasn't too upset about it. idk if he knows that I know. but im guessing he might be feeling a little stupid for accidentally doing that to my friend but I never yelled at him. why would he be mad at me if he was the one that messed up?

I just wondered if anyones been through something similar or can explain why boys do this
user
I loved this guy who started ignoring me for no reason. I don't understand why and I don't know what to do.
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