My boyfriend and I have been dating for about a year, maybe just a bit more. I'm always the one taking care of things. I don't mind paying for stuff, it makes me feel good BUT i always end up paying, no matter how big or small the purchase may be.

We also STILL haven't had a "real" date. There were never any flowers, no candlelights and dinner. And i know it's not important, because even an ice cream in the park would be great for me, but we've been dating for one year…and i still didn't get a proper date, where it's called a date and we go out on a date and not just to eat.

Another thing is, my birthday was about 2 weeks ago… I didn't get a present from him, although he said he ordered one online. I didn't want much, a bouquet of flowers would have meant the world to me but alas, i got nothing. 

I know I'm complaining but it really bothers me how nonchalant he is about our relationship. All we do is get home, have sex, watch netflix and sleep. I'm always the one who's taking care of his problems as well, whether they concern me or not. What will i do in the future? As sexist as that may sound, i sometimes want a man who i can lean on. I don't want to be the strong one all the time, i sometimes want to feel vulnerable and weak. 

I may be spoiled but it'd be nice if he at least offered to pay for stuff. The economy may still be hard but 5$ for my coffee wouldn't put him in debt. It's hard for me to even bring this up because it feels so petty yet I'm really irked by this.
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I always pay for everything my boyfriend and I do, I would like him to at least offer. Am i overreacting
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My boyfriend and I have been dating for about a year, maybe just a bit more. I'm always the one taking care of things. I don't mind paying for stuff, it makes me feel good BUT i always end up paying, no matter how big or small the purchase may be.

We also STILL haven't had a "real" date. There were never any flowers, no candlelights and dinner. And i know it's not important, because even an ice cream in the park would be great for me, but we've been dating for one year…and i still didn't get a proper date, where it's called a date and we go out on a date and not just to eat.

Another thing is, my birthday was about 2 weeks ago… I didn't get a present from him, although he said he ordered one online. I didn't want much, a bouquet of flowers would have meant the world to me but alas, i got nothing. 

I know I'm complaining but it really bothers me how nonchalant he is about our relationship. All we do is get home, have sex, watch netflix and sleep. I'm always the one who's taking care of his problems as well, whether they concern me or not. What will i do in the future? As sexist as that may sound, i sometimes want a man who i can lean on. I don't want to be the strong one all the time, i sometimes want to feel vulnerable and weak. 

I may be spoiled but it'd be nice if he at least offered to pay for stuff. The economy may still be hard but 5$ for my coffee wouldn't put him in debt. It's hard for me to even bring this up because it feels so petty yet I'm really irked by this.
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I [20 F] end up paying for everything for bf [21 M], whether big or small. I feel his lack of
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