My girlfriend [21/f] goes away to school an hour and a half away from me. She, like many girls, has mainly guy friends. Of these friends, there are many that she has had a sexual past with.

I am 100% certain that she loves me and that she would never do anything to harm our relationship. She in fact swears that she loves me more than I do her. Still, even knowing this, I still can't help but feel uncomfortable when she goes out/drinks/hangs out with them. Again, I know nothing will happen. She really values her friendships and promises that they are plutonic. She would feel uncomfortable with me asking her not to hang out with them and I don't want to be "that guy" or ever be in that kind of relationship.

My jealousy stems from an insecurity within myself that someone would come along that she develops feelings before and takes her away from me. It's not at the point where it's jeopardizing our relationship (yet) but it's becoming a big issue. I need to get control of this. I love this girl and would do anything not to lose her. I considered getting on anti-anxiety medication but am starting to re-consider that option. What advise do you have? Thanks!
user
Girlfriend hangs out with many male friends that she used to have sex with.
assistant
My girlfriend [21/f] goes away to school an hour and a half away from me. She, like many girls, has mainly guy friends. Of these friends, there are many that she has had a sexual past with.

I am 100% certain that she loves me and that she would never do anything to harm our relationship. She in fact swears that she loves me more than I do her. Still, even knowing this, I still can't help but feel uncomfortable when she goes out/drinks/hangs out with them. Again, I know nothing will happen. She really values her friendships and promises that they are plutonic. She would feel uncomfortable with me asking her not to hang out with them and I don't want to be "that guy" or ever be in that kind of relationship.

My jealousy stems from an insecurity within myself that someone would come along that she develops feelings before and takes her away from me. It's not at the point where it's jeopardizing our relationship (yet) but it's becoming a big issue. I need to get control of this. I love this girl and would do anything not to lose her. I considered getting on anti-anxiety medication but am starting to re-consider that option. What advise do you have? Thanks!
user
I need to get control of my jealousy/insecurity before it jeopardizes my relationship with
assistant