A girl I have been friends with for a number of years broke up with her boyfriend 4 or so months ago. Because I like her and wanted to date her for a long time I decided to be there for her, be her friend, etc. I've asked her out a couple times and she never told me no, she was just apprehensive because she just got out of a long term relationship. I fully get this. She likes me, I know this because she has more or less admited it to me.

Her ex boyfriend has severe depression and bi-polar issues and he broke up with her because he didn't believe he could be there for her as a partner.  He also didn't want her having to go through constant stress because of it all.

Her and I have been talking non stop for a couple of months now and in the past week, week and a half her ex started texting her extremely depressed and wanting her to come over, that he wants to be with her, and all the things like that.  The other day she almost ended up taking him to the hospital for depression.  She doesn't not want to be there to help him because she couldn't live with herself if he killed himself.

She's been texting me extremely upset about it not knowing what she should do. I have absoutely no idea what to even say or do anymore. She cares about he ex boyfriend still which I can understand. I want her to be happy. I want her to be with me but at the same time. I can't sit there and say don't go prevent someone from maybe killing themselves. If and when her ex gets help she may go back to him, I don't know. I don't want her to for selfish reasons. All of these things bother me because I care about her and want to be with her.

I have absoutely no idea what to do anymore...
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The girl I like is upset because her extremely depressed ex
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A girl I have been friends with for a number of years broke up with her boyfriend 4 or so months ago. Because I like her and wanted to date her for a long time I decided to be there for her, be her friend, etc. I've asked her out a couple times and she never told me no, she was just apprehensive because she just got out of a long term relationship. I fully get this. She likes me, I know this because she has more or less admited it to me.

Her ex boyfriend has severe depression and bi-polar issues and he broke up with her because he didn't believe he could be there for her as a partner.  He also didn't want her having to go through constant stress because of it all.

Her and I have been talking non stop for a couple of months now and in the past week, week and a half her ex started texting her extremely depressed and wanting her to come over, that he wants to be with her, and all the things like that.  The other day she almost ended up taking him to the hospital for depression.  She doesn't not want to be there to help him because she couldn't live with herself if he killed himself.

She's been texting me extremely upset about it not knowing what she should do. I have absoutely no idea what to even say or do anymore. She cares about he ex boyfriend still which I can understand. I want her to be happy. I want her to be with me but at the same time. I can't sit there and say don't go prevent someone from maybe killing themselves. If and when her ex gets help she may go back to him, I don't know. I don't want her to for selfish reasons. All of these things bother me because I care about her and want to be with her.

I have absoutely no idea what to do anymore...
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Girl broke up with her boyfriend and now her ex wants
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