There is something that has been bothering me for quite a long time and I haven't spoke to anybody about this, and it probably sounds fucking ridiculous.  

When I was in highschool sex and relationships were always a hot topic of conversation among my friends/peers.  When I was junior in highschool,  We were all sitting at our lunch table one day, and the topic of uncircumsized males somehow came about... I just remember all the girls saying how disgusting and unattractive it was.  I am an uncircumsized male.. I just sat there for about 10 minutes just listening to this conversation...  I never would of thought that since that day it would prevent me from entering a relationship or becoming intimate out of fear of taking off my pants and a girl being disgusted at the sight of my uncircumsized penis..  I don't go on dates, I don't ask women out, and even when I know a girl is somewhat into me, I will not make any advances or any slight indication that I am interested in her.  I'm so self-conscious about it, its really putting a burden on dating life.. 

I really don't know how to overcome this ridiculous fear...Iv contemplated having sex with escorts or going to a stripclub and paying for extra services to maybe try and break this fear, but that's something I really don't want to do.

I'm really stumped... I know this is something that shouldn't be of concern, but I really cant shake this fear.. should I go see a therapist or something? This sounds ridiculous, but I'm not making this up...

The sad thing is I really do think I'm a pretty attractive guy, and I have always been the nice guy..I want a girlfriend and I want to date but this is really holding me back.. Getting circumsized is NOT an option..
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There is something that has been bothering me for quite a long time and I haven't spoke to anybody about this, and it probably sounds fucking ridiculous.  

When I was in highschool sex and relationships were always a hot topic of conversation among my friends/peers.  When I was junior in highschool,  We were all sitting at our lunch table one day, and the topic of uncircumsized males somehow came about... I just remember all the girls saying how disgusting and unattractive it was.  I am an uncircumsized male.. I just sat there for about 10 minutes just listening to this conversation...  I never would of thought that since that day it would prevent me from entering a relationship or becoming intimate out of fear of taking off my pants and a girl being disgusted at the sight of my uncircumsized penis..  I don't go on dates, I don't ask women out, and even when I know a girl is somewhat into me, I will not make any advances or any slight indication that I am interested in her.  I'm so self-conscious about it, its really putting a burden on dating life.. 

I really don't know how to overcome this ridiculous fear...Iv contemplated having sex with escorts or going to a stripclub and paying for extra services to maybe try and break this fear, but that's something I really don't want to do.

I'm really stumped... I know this is something that shouldn't be of concern, but I really cant shake this fear.. should I go see a therapist or something? This sounds ridiculous, but I'm not making this up...

The sad thing is I really do think I'm a pretty attractive guy, and I have always been the nice guy..I want a girlfriend and I want to date but this is really holding me back.. Getting circumsized is NOT an option..
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