Me, 18F and my bf 18m have been going out for over a year. We were good friends for about 2 years before we started dating, so he means a lot to me.

We go to two separate colleges. I come back often to see him. The problem is, I almost never go out with my friends. This is because he has a problem with me going out late, and being around people who are possibly drinking. He says he trusts me, but he doesn't trust other people. He also won't let me drink unless he is around. When I have disagreed with him on this, he says that I don't care about him and that I am making him feel guilty, or that I am upsetting him.

It's not like I want to party every day. Later this week I want to go to an event with my friends. I'm just going with girls, I won't be drinking. I've decided to talk to him about it tonight, and try to convince him to be okay with me going. I've decided I'm going to go anyways even if he does get upset.

My question is: How should I go about talking to him about this? He's very stubborn, I'm not sure how I'll get him to agree. I don't want to come off as if I don't take about how he feels about this. Also, am I being the bitch here? I swear this is not a big deal, but I don't know how to make him understand that.
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BF gets upset when I go out with my friends. How do I try to convince him to be okay
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Me, 18F and my bf 18m have been going out for over a year. We were good friends for about 2 years before we started dating, so he means a lot to me.

We go to two separate colleges. I come back often to see him. The problem is, I almost never go out with my friends. This is because he has a problem with me going out late, and being around people who are possibly drinking. He says he trusts me, but he doesn't trust other people. He also won't let me drink unless he is around. When I have disagreed with him on this, he says that I don't care about him and that I am making him feel guilty, or that I am upsetting him.

It's not like I want to party every day. Later this week I want to go to an event with my friends. I'm just going with girls, I won't be drinking. I've decided to talk to him about it tonight, and try to convince him to be okay with me going. I've decided I'm going to go anyways even if he does get upset.

My question is: How should I go about talking to him about this? He's very stubborn, I'm not sure how I'll get him to agree. I don't want to come off as if I don't take about how he feels about this. Also, am I being the bitch here? I swear this is not a big deal, but I don't know how to make him understand that.
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BF hates going out with friends. How do I convince him to be okay with me going out after he
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