My new boyfriend (we have been dating for three months, but going solid for three weeks) comes from a low middle class family. He never has any more than a couple of dollars in his pockets and I really don't care about it. I don't mind paying for our dates and food, because I know his family's money is spent on his and his sister's education, and his Chrons disease treatment. 

We are both currently on our first year in university. Due to his condition he can't really work and go to school at the same time, so he went back to living with his parents after the diagnosis. There is really no way for him to make his own money.

A few weeks ago we were in a store he loves. He said he would come back soon to buy one item he liked. I offered to pay for it now to avoid him the annoyance of going back to the store on another occasion. He was a bit embarrassed, but accepted. A week later he payed me back. 

Last night he asked kinda jokingly wheter I would lend him money sometime. I said that if he could pay me back there is no problem. I mean, it's not like I have too much money, and whatever I have to spare I use on surprising him with something nice to eat, or going somewhere special. And he wants the money to buy paints and some things for his hobby. He has actually been showing me the paints and what he need for his project for a while; i think, maybe he wanted to ask me for money more seriously but was ashamed to.

I told he I didn't really know if it was a good idea to lend him money, cause I think he should better learn to live with what he's got rather than having debt with me. I just think it's weird when it's so early in the relationship.

He felt really hurt, and was very distant today. I told him I would think about this, but he said that it clearly bothered me to think about it and that he wouldn't ask again, making me feel guilty. 

What do you think I should do?
user
Been steady together for three weeks, he doesn't have any money. He wants me to lend him over 70 bucks for paints that he doesn't really
assistant
My new boyfriend (we have been dating for three months, but going solid for three weeks) comes from a low middle class family. He never has any more than a couple of dollars in his pockets and I really don't care about it. I don't mind paying for our dates and food, because I know his family's money is spent on his and his sister's education, and his Chrons disease treatment. 

We are both currently on our first year in university. Due to his condition he can't really work and go to school at the same time, so he went back to living with his parents after the diagnosis. There is really no way for him to make his own money.

A few weeks ago we were in a store he loves. He said he would come back soon to buy one item he liked. I offered to pay for it now to avoid him the annoyance of going back to the store on another occasion. He was a bit embarrassed, but accepted. A week later he payed me back. 

Last night he asked kinda jokingly wheter I would lend him money sometime. I said that if he could pay me back there is no problem. I mean, it's not like I have too much money, and whatever I have to spare I use on surprising him with something nice to eat, or going somewhere special. And he wants the money to buy paints and some things for his hobby. He has actually been showing me the paints and what he need for his project for a while; i think, maybe he wanted to ask me for money more seriously but was ashamed to.

I told he I didn't really know if it was a good idea to lend him money, cause I think he should better learn to live with what he's got rather than having debt with me. I just think it's weird when it's so early in the relationship.

He felt really hurt, and was very distant today. I told him I would think about this, but he said that it clearly bothered me to think about it and that he wouldn't ask again, making me feel guilty. 

What do you think I should do?
user
My boyfriend (24M) is in debt with me (23F) because of his disease, but I don't want to be in debt to him, and I don't
assistant