Hey, so I've decided I need to break up. I hate break ups. 

I wasn't sure about him to begin with but I thought I'd try it out. He's been mostly good, but I definitely no longer want to be with him. I don't want him touching me etc. he has a problem with boundaries. Eg. Wednesday night he came to my house at 1.15AM to see me. Knocking on my window/wall till I came outside.  I hadn't checked FB so I didn't know he'd been trying to contact me (issue w his phone).  Overreaction on his part and it stressed me out. Today he tried to call me 6 times in a row over a 20min period. I feel like he's stalking me and won't leave me alone. 

I haven't seen him since Thursday. I have no desire to catch up or do anything with him, however, I need to break up with him. I need to do it in person, I don't feel like it's something that should be done over the phone. It's making me feel anxious when I think about him/the situation. 

That being said I liked it when we first started going out and when we were just friends. At some stage in the future I'd like to hang out as friends. Given that he is kinda obsessed with me and really intense (tells me that he loves me and wants to marry me and have kids with me etc.) do you think this us possible?
user
Need to break up with
assistant
Hey, so I've decided I need to break up. I hate break ups. 

I wasn't sure about him to begin with but I thought I'd try it out. He's been mostly good, but I definitely no longer want to be with him. I don't want him touching me etc. he has a problem with boundaries. Eg. Wednesday night he came to my house at 1.15AM to see me. Knocking on my window/wall till I came outside.  I hadn't checked FB so I didn't know he'd been trying to contact me (issue w his phone).  Overreaction on his part and it stressed me out. Today he tried to call me 6 times in a row over a 20min period. I feel like he's stalking me and won't leave me alone. 

I haven't seen him since Thursday. I have no desire to catch up or do anything with him, however, I need to break up with him. I need to do it in person, I don't feel like it's something that should be done over the phone. It's making me feel anxious when I think about him/the situation. 

That being said I liked it when we first started going out and when we were just friends. At some stage in the future I'd like to hang out as friends. Given that he is kinda obsessed with me and really intense (tells me that he loves me and wants to marry me and have kids with me etc.) do you think this us possible?
user
How should I break up
assistant