I have posted on r/relationships about this break-up before. A month ago, my boyfriend (25/m) of 4 months, broke up with me (24/f) over email because of my mother's extreme anger management issues that began to affect our relationship, and because he felt the relationship was too smothering (we spent a lot of time together, and he basically had stopped seeing friends--although I had not). It should be noted that he and I had a whirlwind relationship-- he wanted to get married to me next year after only 4 months of dating. 

He broke up with me exactly one month and 3 days ago. He refused all contact: email, text, phonecall, anything. I was broken. He broke all of his promises to me and left me without any sort of warning. It was a very bad heartbreak.

Last week, I returned his belongings to him by mail (spritzed with my perfume of course). He sent me an email explaining that he was wrong to have done this to me, and what had gone on in his head (his friends and family basically convinced him the relationship was wrong for him). I emailed him back angrily, saying that I wouldn't email him anymore and he had to say this to my face. Surprisingly, he agreed and we are meeting this weekend to talk. 

We have also been texting a bit and we had an hour-long conversation last night. He basically said that he's an idiot, the past month has been torture for him, and he made a huge mistake. I realize that people make mistakes of course, but I am afraid he will hurt me again. He said he realizes he has to earn my trust back, but I am skeptical. At the same time, I miss him quite a lot, and told him so.

Any ideas? I know every situation like this is different, but can this work out?
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boyfriend broke up with me on email, ripped out my heart and now wants
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I have posted on r/relationships about this break-up before. A month ago, my boyfriend (25/m) of 4 months, broke up with me (24/f) over email because of my mother's extreme anger management issues that began to affect our relationship, and because he felt the relationship was too smothering (we spent a lot of time together, and he basically had stopped seeing friends--although I had not). It should be noted that he and I had a whirlwind relationship-- he wanted to get married to me next year after only 4 months of dating. 

He broke up with me exactly one month and 3 days ago. He refused all contact: email, text, phonecall, anything. I was broken. He broke all of his promises to me and left me without any sort of warning. It was a very bad heartbreak.

Last week, I returned his belongings to him by mail (spritzed with my perfume of course). He sent me an email explaining that he was wrong to have done this to me, and what had gone on in his head (his friends and family basically convinced him the relationship was wrong for him). I emailed him back angrily, saying that I wouldn't email him anymore and he had to say this to my face. Surprisingly, he agreed and we are meeting this weekend to talk. 

We have also been texting a bit and we had an hour-long conversation last night. He basically said that he's an idiot, the past month has been torture for him, and he made a huge mistake. I realize that people make mistakes of course, but I am afraid he will hurt me again. He said he realizes he has to earn my trust back, but I am skeptical. At the same time, I miss him quite a lot, and told him so.

Any ideas? I know every situation like this is different, but can this work out?
user
My boyfriend broke up with me because of cheating, now we are meeting and
assistant