I [25M] have snooped in the past and copped up to it to my gf [25F] of 6 years.  We talked it through.  It had been a year or two since the last time.  That's an issue I'm working on.

Now she has a new close male work friend.  I won't go into details, but she hides things from me with him and does other things to make me a bit suspicious.  So...I snooped again, and this time, all texts from her new friend have been deleted and I saw a google search for "how to get over a guy" near some searches of his name and views of his Facebook profile.

I asked her about this guy, not mentioning the snooping, and she denied any feelings, we talked for a long time about our relationship and she insisted that she only loves me and I mean the world to her, and that she really wants to work towards getting this relationship back out of the rut we've been in (we both work all the time and barely see each other).

I think if I cop to the snooping, we might have a more honest conversation about what's actually going on (if something is) and why she's having these feelings so we can either work through it together (my preference) or move on.  But obviously, it will open the pandora's box of the snooping.

Think it's worth it to admit to the snooping to hopefully get to the bottom of this?
user
I snooped, gf has new male friend, I'm not sure whether to confess snooping to try and get us back on track.
assistant
I [25M] have snooped in the past and copped up to it to my gf [25F] of 6 years.  We talked it through.  It had been a year or two since the last time.  That's an issue I'm working on.

Now she has a new close male work friend.  I won't go into details, but she hides things from me with him and does other things to make me a bit suspicious.  So...I snooped again, and this time, all texts from her new friend have been deleted and I saw a google search for "how to get over a guy" near some searches of his name and views of his Facebook profile.

I asked her about this guy, not mentioning the snooping, and she denied any feelings, we talked for a long time about our relationship and she insisted that she only loves me and I mean the world to her, and that she really wants to work towards getting this relationship back out of the rut we've been in (we both work all the time and barely see each other).

I think if I cop to the snooping, we might have a more honest conversation about what's actually going on (if something is) and why she's having these feelings so we can either work through it together (my preference) or move on.  But obviously, it will open the pandora's box of the snooping.

Think it's worth it to admit to the snooping to hopefully get to the bottom of this?
user
Opened up snooping and found a google search for a guy's name and views of his facebook profile. Girlfriend denies any feelings for him and insists that she only loves me and I mean the world to her, I'm not sure
assistant