So about a month ago, my girlfriend and I went to a party where she got really intoxicated and one of her friends (female) kissed her, she then apologized asking repeatedly if she did something wrong. She also passed out and got kicked out of the hotel so I had to piggy back her 5 blocks to the parking lot where my car was.

That was my first time seeing her this way and was worried how she handled herself, because she wouldn't have a way home without me 'cause it was a good hours drive and none of her friends helped her.

What worried me the most was that when we finally talked about it a couple days later, I expressed how I felt bothered by how she could kiss her friend even though she thought it was wrong. Her excuse was that she didn't know what she was doing since she was drunk and her friend had kissed her without provocation.

I then asked how I'm supposed to trust her at parties where she is drinking because I can't always be there, since her excuse was that she was drunk. Her response was that I should just trust her and she has never cheated on anyone before. I explained that wasn't good enough for me, then she said that she couldn't promise not to get that drunk again.

I basically told her that I was mad because if she can't atleast promised me that, how do I know she's not going to cheat. Was I too controlling asking her not to get drunk without me?
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Girlfriend got really drunk at party, kissed female friend despite thinking it was wrong, when asked about it she refused to promise not to get drunk again without me. was i too
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So about a month ago, my girlfriend and I went to a party where she got really intoxicated and one of her friends (female) kissed her, she then apologized asking repeatedly if she did something wrong. She also passed out and got kicked out of the hotel so I had to piggy back her 5 blocks to the parking lot where my car was.

That was my first time seeing her this way and was worried how she handled herself, because she wouldn't have a way home without me 'cause it was a good hours drive and none of her friends helped her.

What worried me the most was that when we finally talked about it a couple days later, I expressed how I felt bothered by how she could kiss her friend even though she thought it was wrong. Her excuse was that she didn't know what she was doing since she was drunk and her friend had kissed her without provocation.

I then asked how I'm supposed to trust her at parties where she is drinking because I can't always be there, since her excuse was that she was drunk. Her response was that I should just trust her and she has never cheated on anyone before. I explained that wasn't good enough for me, then she said that she couldn't promise not to get that drunk again.

I basically told her that I was mad because if she can't atleast promised me that, how do I know she's not going to cheat. Was I too controlling asking her not to get drunk without me?
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asked girlfriend not to get drunk without me at parties, she said that she couldn't promise not to do it again, was I too controlling?
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