Hey reddit, I have something that's been bugging me for a couple weeks that I need help with.

My girlfriend has begun to slip away sexually from me, it seems. We've been dating for almost 9 months and everything is pretty much perfect. No fighting, no problems, and we are on the same page sexually...well, we were I guess.

For the last couple of weeks, sex is really only about her. I obviously don't mind eating her out a couple times a day and being on top all the time, but it's nice to get something in return, you know? For the last couple days it's been only me initiating sex. It's not like she's reluctant or anything, in fact she complys instantly most of the time, but after she comes I don't get anything. 

It wasn't like this at all before. In fact, up until two weeks ago, she would pretty much always initiate. (She has a way higher sex drive, which i consider to be a blessing). 

The weird thing is, I haven't changed at all since we started dating. Same length of hair, same facial hair routine, same body weight and muscle mass, same skin tone, same EVERYTHING. 

The change seems so sudden, I don't know what to do. I'm obviously patient with her, but it's just concerning, you know?
user
Girlfriend has become less sexually attracted to me, I'm always around during sex
assistant
Hey reddit, I have something that's been bugging me for a couple weeks that I need help with.

My girlfriend has begun to slip away sexually from me, it seems. We've been dating for almost 9 months and everything is pretty much perfect. No fighting, no problems, and we are on the same page sexually...well, we were I guess.

For the last couple of weeks, sex is really only about her. I obviously don't mind eating her out a couple times a day and being on top all the time, but it's nice to get something in return, you know? For the last couple days it's been only me initiating sex. It's not like she's reluctant or anything, in fact she complys instantly most of the time, but after she comes I don't get anything. 

It wasn't like this at all before. In fact, up until two weeks ago, she would pretty much always initiate. (She has a way higher sex drive, which i consider to be a blessing). 

The weird thing is, I haven't changed at all since we started dating. Same length of hair, same facial hair routine, same body weight and muscle mass, same skin tone, same EVERYTHING. 

The change seems so sudden, I don't know what to do. I'm obviously patient with her, but it's just concerning, you know?
user
My girlfriend's sex drive is decreasing, and she doesn't seem to be attracted
assistant