Hey reddit, this is a throwaway and I'm keeping the details vague. I'm not sure what I'm trying to get out of this but I guess I just want another perspective. I've been with my bf for over 2 years and our relationship has been great. We have fun, share the same interests. We do differ in the way we show affection and the activities we enjoy. Recently I've started to develop a crush on a friend. I don't really understand how or what I'm feeling and I haven't and would never do anything that would constitute as cheating. I don't think this friend reciprocates my feelings. The worst thing is I don't even know why I'm attracted to him. Sure we share some interests but we aren't nearly as close as my BF and I. I rarely meet up with him in college (never alone) and we use a group chat so we don't really talk one on one. I'm trying to limit how much I talk to him but it's difficult as he's part of my larger group of friends. 

As a result I've been feeling disconnected from my BF and I'm just not getting the "warm and fuzzies" when thinking about him. I'm not even sure I'm still in love with my BF, is this just part of the relationship moving to the the next level or is this the end?
I don't know if this will just go away and I don't want to end up making a decision I'll regret. I really want this to be a phase but I can't stop thinking about what it would be like to be with my friend. What should I do?
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I'm feeling disconnected from my boyfriend and I have a crush
assistant
Hey reddit, this is a throwaway and I'm keeping the details vague. I'm not sure what I'm trying to get out of this but I guess I just want another perspective. I've been with my bf for over 2 years and our relationship has been great. We have fun, share the same interests. We do differ in the way we show affection and the activities we enjoy. Recently I've started to develop a crush on a friend. I don't really understand how or what I'm feeling and I haven't and would never do anything that would constitute as cheating. I don't think this friend reciprocates my feelings. The worst thing is I don't even know why I'm attracted to him. Sure we share some interests but we aren't nearly as close as my BF and I. I rarely meet up with him in college (never alone) and we use a group chat so we don't really talk one on one. I'm trying to limit how much I talk to him but it's difficult as he's part of my larger group of friends. 

As a result I've been feeling disconnected from my BF and I'm just not getting the "warm and fuzzies" when thinking about him. I'm not even sure I'm still in love with my BF, is this just part of the relationship moving to the the next level or is this the end?
I don't know if this will just go away and I don't want to end up making a decision I'll regret. I really want this to be a phase but I can't stop thinking about what it would be like to be with my friend. What should I do?
user
I have a crush on someone else and don't know if
assistant