So I started seeing this girl about 4 months ago now.

We were starting to get pretty serious up until about 3 weeks ago when she started taking the pill as we had started having sex. Before that point everything was great we were both excited about being together, going out all the time, texting all the time, etc. and generally things were happy.

From the day she started taking it she's been cold and distant ever since. We don't go out, we barely talk, etc etc.

I get that the pill can have a negative impact on her body and am trying my best to wait it out but she's been acting like she just doesn't want to know me anymore basically for a few weeks now and it's really starting to get to my head. Despite having talked about it (she acknowledges it's been making her "crazy" as she puts it and wants to change but cant until she finishes her current packet i think?) it's still making me insecure about this whole thing.

I had a girl do this exact same thing in my last relationship after a year or so and she ended up cheating on me so it might be messing with my head a bit.

I'm kind of at my wits end. Should I just break it off? I feel like going through this kind of rough patch mere months into any sort of relationship (using the term loosely here) is a terrible omen for the future, even if it is due to medical reasons. Is it so much to ask that she at least try and be aware of her actions?
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Girl [22f] taking pill, has been cold for a few weeks now
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So I started seeing this girl about 4 months ago now.

We were starting to get pretty serious up until about 3 weeks ago when she started taking the pill as we had started having sex. Before that point everything was great we were both excited about being together, going out all the time, texting all the time, etc. and generally things were happy.

From the day she started taking it she's been cold and distant ever since. We don't go out, we barely talk, etc etc.

I get that the pill can have a negative impact on her body and am trying my best to wait it out but she's been acting like she just doesn't want to know me anymore basically for a few weeks now and it's really starting to get to my head. Despite having talked about it (she acknowledges it's been making her "crazy" as she puts it and wants to change but cant until she finishes her current packet i think?) it's still making me insecure about this whole thing.

I had a girl do this exact same thing in my last relationship after a year or so and she ended up cheating on me so it might be messing with my head a bit.

I'm kind of at my wits end. Should I just break it off? I feel like going through this kind of rough patch mere months into any sort of relationship (using the term loosely here) is a terrible omen for the future, even if it is due to medical reasons. Is it so much to ask that she at least try and be aware of her actions?
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Girl I recently started seeing [22f] has been acting distant [24m] for
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