So I have been with my boyfriend for 9 months now. He's my first love and it's my first relationship. He's a passive guy, most of the time. Although he does have his sweet moments. I accept that about him, I wouldn't be with him if I didn't. I'm more vocal about it, throught texts, messages and letters, that is. I don't expect him nor do I want him to change into someone who gives lenghty replies to my sweet messages. But the thing is, a part of me still wants to be acknowledged or appreciated. I sent him a message yesterday on FB. Then when I checked my messages later, it had a "seen on xxxx". It made me feel a bit vulnerable and a bit sad. Although I did say earlier that I was vocal about my sweetness, I'm not normally like that, only with him. So yes, it made me feel vulnerable. I told him that I don't expext him to write a paragraph as a reply, even a thank you or a smikey would be enough. It would be enough to make me feel a bit comfy. This is the third time that it has happened. Writing and not getting any response makes a part of me think that maybe I'm being taken for granted or maybe he doesn't want me doing those things. I'm asking if I'm being selfish, over reacting or what not cause like I said, I know that he is a passive guy. So yeah, first relationship, I'm such a noob :)
user
The problem is that I'm not expecting him to reply in all than a short text or a
assistant
So I have been with my boyfriend for 9 months now. He's my first love and it's my first relationship. He's a passive guy, most of the time. Although he does have his sweet moments. I accept that about him, I wouldn't be with him if I didn't. I'm more vocal about it, throught texts, messages and letters, that is. I don't expect him nor do I want him to change into someone who gives lenghty replies to my sweet messages. But the thing is, a part of me still wants to be acknowledged or appreciated. I sent him a message yesterday on FB. Then when I checked my messages later, it had a "seen on xxxx". It made me feel a bit vulnerable and a bit sad. Although I did say earlier that I was vocal about my sweetness, I'm not normally like that, only with him. So yes, it made me feel vulnerable. I told him that I don't expext him to write a paragraph as a reply, even a thank you or a smikey would be enough. It would be enough to make me feel a bit comfy. This is the third time that it has happened. Writing and not getting any response makes a part of me think that maybe I'm being taken for granted or maybe he doesn't want me doing those things. I'm asking if I'm being selfish, over reacting or what not cause like I said, I know that he is a passive guy. So yeah, first relationship, I'm such a noob :)
user
Boyfriend of 9 months doesn't respond to messages when I send him.
assistant