We've been best friends since we were 15. I'm in uni right now and I still live at home to save money. Through the years, my best friend has become a family friend. My parents see her as their daughter, my grandparents give her birthday presents, and she comes with us on family holidays. 

She comes over at least once a week and chats with my parents. She used to chat with me, too. Now, however, it seems like she barely cares about me at all. My boyfriend and I were having problems and I called her, crying, and she told me she was too busy to talk (she was hanging out with some friends). My pet died two weeks ago and she said she'd come over the next day and see me, but she never did. 

When she does come over, she spends the entire time looking at instagram on her phone and snapchatting her boyfriend. When she comes in, I ask her how she is and she answers, but then never asks me. If I tell her about something that's happening with me, she says "oh" and that's it. For example, I told her I have a new column in the student newspaper and she said "oh." I told her I was in a car accident and she said "oh." She didn't even ask me what happened or if I was okay. 

I got really fed up the other day because I was talking to her and she was (of course) looking at something on her phone, but when I was finshed talking she said, "Oh, what? I wasn't listening." It was literally just us alone in a quiet house and she wasn't listening to me? 

Does anyone have any idea what I should do or say? I'm a really timid person and I'm scared to say anything to her.
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We've been best friends since we were 15. I'm in uni right now and I still live at home to save money. Through the years, my best friend has become a family friend. My parents see her as their daughter, my grandparents give her birthday presents, and she comes with us on family holidays. 

She comes over at least once a week and chats with my parents. She used to chat with me, too. Now, however, it seems like she barely cares about me at all. My boyfriend and I were having problems and I called her, crying, and she told me she was too busy to talk (she was hanging out with some friends). My pet died two weeks ago and she said she'd come over the next day and see me, but she never did. 

When she does come over, she spends the entire time looking at instagram on her phone and snapchatting her boyfriend. When she comes in, I ask her how she is and she answers, but then never asks me. If I tell her about something that's happening with me, she says "oh" and that's it. For example, I told her I have a new column in the student newspaper and she said "oh." I told her I was in a car accident and she said "oh." She didn't even ask me what happened or if I was okay. 

I got really fed up the other day because I was talking to her and she was (of course) looking at something on her phone, but when I was finshed talking she said, "Oh, what? I wasn't listening." It was literally just us alone in a quiet house and she wasn't listening to me? 

Does anyone have any idea what I should do or say? I'm a really timid person and I'm scared to say anything to her.
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My best friend spends the entire time on
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