We started dating around Feb. 2013, 7 lovely months in person, I had to move away due to military father and college (tuition benefits), ever since been LDR. She first had a "break" with me because she felt like I took her for granted and anxiety issues. A week later, she broke up with me. This was our first break up. I took this very harsh and I wanted her back so badly. I couldn't eat and tried to focus on things, but couldn't. I was maintaining no contact until I talked to her friend and he said she wanted me to be there for her during the break and actually talk to her when I thought the point of a break was for space. So I was talking to her, but her messages just felt cold and eventually she went on a business trip to Phoenix.

She's now in a relationship with someone she met two weeks ago, she's in a LDR again. It's awkward because we still both acknowledged we both love each other when she's in the relationship a week ago. Now it's just casual talk between us, just playing games and what not.

What I want to know is what I should ask for when we see each other in person, about closure because I'm confused with her signals. I obviously want to find out the real reason she broke up with me from her, why she sends mixed signals, but what else should I expect or get out from this so I can truly feel whole? What if she throws me a curve-ball about getting back together? I'm just not sure what to expect and unsure about my feelings anymore.

We're also seeing each other in person again, I'm visiting her at Seattle end of August for a convention.
user
Going to see ex after two months of the break up, nervous feelings will catch, but I need to talk to her about understanding
assistant
We started dating around Feb. 2013, 7 lovely months in person, I had to move away due to military father and college (tuition benefits), ever since been LDR. She first had a "break" with me because she felt like I took her for granted and anxiety issues. A week later, she broke up with me. This was our first break up. I took this very harsh and I wanted her back so badly. I couldn't eat and tried to focus on things, but couldn't. I was maintaining no contact until I talked to her friend and he said she wanted me to be there for her during the break and actually talk to her when I thought the point of a break was for space. So I was talking to her, but her messages just felt cold and eventually she went on a business trip to Phoenix.

She's now in a relationship with someone she met two weeks ago, she's in a LDR again. It's awkward because we still both acknowledged we both love each other when she's in the relationship a week ago. Now it's just casual talk between us, just playing games and what not.

What I want to know is what I should ask for when we see each other in person, about closure because I'm confused with her signals. I obviously want to find out the real reason she broke up with me from her, why she sends mixed signals, but what else should I expect or get out from this so I can truly feel whole? What if she throws me a curve-ball about getting back together? I'm just not sure what to expect and unsure about my feelings anymore.

We're also seeing each other in person again, I'm visiting her at Seattle end of August for a convention.
user
I really want to know what I should expect when we get back together. What should I expect?
assistant