So My girlfriend and I have been together for four years next week, we have also been living together for almost 2 of those four years. She has given me until our anniversary to propose or she is going to move out\leave me. First let me say that I love her with all my heart, but am i crazy to think that we may be rushing into this? The thought of getting engaged scares the crap out of me. All she ever talks about is how sure she is that i am the one and she wouldn't even have to think twice about the situation. I can totally see us together for the rest of our lives, but why now? She is about to quit her job and go back to school full time. We can hardly afford our bills as of now... (are these even reasons not to get engaged?) The worst part is i practically shut down when we try to talk about it. I can't imagine life with out her but I hate the feeling that I have to do this by a deadline. I have known about this deadline for almost a year by the way, and the fact that I am talking about this even to you guys is a big deal for me. I plan on talking with her tonight as i understand how shitty it is for me to come this close to the deadline without making a decision.
user
Girlfriend of 4 years gave me until our 4th anniversary (next week) to to propose or she is going to leave me.
assistant
So My girlfriend and I have been together for four years next week, we have also been living together for almost 2 of those four years. She has given me until our anniversary to propose or she is going to move out\leave me. First let me say that I love her with all my heart, but am i crazy to think that we may be rushing into this? The thought of getting engaged scares the crap out of me. All she ever talks about is how sure she is that i am the one and she wouldn't even have to think twice about the situation. I can totally see us together for the rest of our lives, but why now? She is about to quit her job and go back to school full time. We can hardly afford our bills as of now... (are these even reasons not to get engaged?) The worst part is i practically shut down when we try to talk about it. I can't imagine life with out her but I hate the feeling that I have to do this by a deadline. I have known about this deadline for almost a year by the way, and the fact that I am talking about this even to you guys is a big deal for me. I plan on talking with her tonight as i understand how shitty it is for me to come this close to the deadline without making a decision.
user
SO has given me a deadline to get engaged or she is moving out and leaving me.
assistant