Gday all,

A little history, my girlfriend is a bit of a tomboy, she grew up with only her dad car racing/boat racing/male activities etc so she's always gotten on better with guys than girls.

Few months a go she became real close with one of her male friends, this guys pretty respectful often asks me first if i mind them both going out doing xyz together, I often get invited out with them also. This guy also is pretty feminine, reads woman mags, in to fashion, shopping etc, some of my own male friends have asked if his actually gay - which he claims his not.

So my girlfriend wants to go to another city for a night or two with this guy to do 'girly' stuff as she puts it, they have better shops, better arty style places as we live in a smallish town.

I am kinda jealous she spends so much time with another guy, almost more than with me some days. But I also know what it's like to have friends in your life you can chill with like that.  I'm not comfortable with her going away on a ~3hr plane ride to another city with a guy, if it was a girl I would be far less concerned. She asked me in front of him if I would mind and I straight up said I'm not too hot on the idea. He said he respects that and won't push it.

She also admitted if the tables were turned she would have the same response as me, but only because i don't have super close girl friends.

Not sure if I am being jealous or this is a general concern most redditors would have. As a male i would not travel 1 on 1 with another girl who was in a committed relationship.

What are your thoughts Reddit?
user
GF is going to another city for a night with another guy and I'm not cool with it. Not sure if I am
assistant
Gday all,

A little history, my girlfriend is a bit of a tomboy, she grew up with only her dad car racing/boat racing/male activities etc so she's always gotten on better with guys than girls.

Few months a go she became real close with one of her male friends, this guys pretty respectful often asks me first if i mind them both going out doing xyz together, I often get invited out with them also. This guy also is pretty feminine, reads woman mags, in to fashion, shopping etc, some of my own male friends have asked if his actually gay - which he claims his not.

So my girlfriend wants to go to another city for a night or two with this guy to do 'girly' stuff as she puts it, they have better shops, better arty style places as we live in a smallish town.

I am kinda jealous she spends so much time with another guy, almost more than with me some days. But I also know what it's like to have friends in your life you can chill with like that.  I'm not comfortable with her going away on a ~3hr plane ride to another city with a guy, if it was a girl I would be far less concerned. She asked me in front of him if I would mind and I straight up said I'm not too hot on the idea. He said he respects that and won't push it.

She also admitted if the tables were turned she would have the same response as me, but only because i don't have super close girl friends.

Not sure if I am being jealous or this is a general concern most redditors would have. As a male i would not travel 1 on 1 with another girl who was in a committed relationship.

What are your thoughts Reddit?
user
Girl has close guy friend who shows both of us respect, wants to go on a 3hr plane ride for a shopping trip
assistant