We started dating pretty young. Moved in together after a few months and were inseperable. We have the same friends and care for them very much. 

About 4 months back she moved to the countryside (120km, 1,5hr drive) to stay at her parents farm and work at a local nursery home. I stayed in our home to work at a nearby plant, I worked hard, about 220 hrs in the last month. She also worked hard and we rarely had the time to talk or see eachother, but we tried real hard. 

Two months prior of her leaveing town we both had a really busy schedule, and were almost never home at the same time. she studies nursing in university and I was finishing my secondary education. 

In july she wanted to breakup because she couldn't find the spark that used to drive us. I begged her to reconsider and at least give it a chance untill our routines synced when we'd be back together for the autumn semester. She gave in and we had a blast for the coming months. She talked about it last week that she really loved me and thanked me for getting her to reconsider.

But then something changes. Last monday I'm on my way to see her, she asks me how I'm getting there and says her father is somewhere near and I could catch a lift with him, she then tells me thats she looks forward to seeing me. 

But when I get to her, say hello to their cat she wants to speak with me privatly and says that she isn't in love with me anymore and that our relationship is over. 

My heart is in peaces right now. I called her up tuesday and wednesday and talked for a while. 

I REALLY love this woman, my heart aches everytime I think of her and there is nothing I would like more in the world than still be in a fruitfull and loving relationship with her.
user
Girl I'm in love with of four years suddenly says she has feelings for me but now she doesn't love me anymore
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We started dating pretty young. Moved in together after a few months and were inseperable. We have the same friends and care for them very much. 

About 4 months back she moved to the countryside (120km, 1,5hr drive) to stay at her parents farm and work at a local nursery home. I stayed in our home to work at a nearby plant, I worked hard, about 220 hrs in the last month. She also worked hard and we rarely had the time to talk or see eachother, but we tried real hard. 

Two months prior of her leaveing town we both had a really busy schedule, and were almost never home at the same time. she studies nursing in university and I was finishing my secondary education. 

In july she wanted to breakup because she couldn't find the spark that used to drive us. I begged her to reconsider and at least give it a chance untill our routines synced when we'd be back together for the autumn semester. She gave in and we had a blast for the coming months. She talked about it last week that she really loved me and thanked me for getting her to reconsider.

But then something changes. Last monday I'm on my way to see her, she asks me how I'm getting there and says her father is somewhere near and I could catch a lift with him, she then tells me thats she looks forward to seeing me. 

But when I get to her, say hello to their cat she wants to speak with me privatly and says that she isn't in love with me anymore and that our relationship is over. 

My heart is in peaces right now. I called her up tuesday and wednesday and talked for a while. 

I REALLY love this woman, my heart aches everytime I think of her and there is nothing I would like more in the world than still be in a fruitfull and loving relationship with her.
user
Girlfriend of four years hates me, but she says she loves me. Says she loves me more than anything else and if
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