A couple months ago, my ex-girlfriend [20F] and I [19M] broke up after dating for about a year. It wasn't mutual; I initiated it and it blind-sided her and left her heart-broken. After some tension following the break up, she completely cut contact with me. It's been about a month and I don't blame her at all. However, I'm not left with a number of sex toys that we purchased (but I mostly paid for, paying for probably 3/4 of the total cost). After the break up, I brought them up and she said she would take whatever I didn't want. So she hasn't directly requested anything.

The toys include a crop, wrist restraints, and a butt plug (never used, was roughly $35), among a few other things.

This leaves me with a problem, in that I don't know what to do with them. I put a decent amount of money into purchasing them all but they're all female-centric and I can't imagine my next girlfriend will be fond of the idea of using them as they were originally meant for my ex. But given that my ex has cut contact, I don't know whether I should try to talk to her to give them to her. Or if I should just throw them away. But again, I spent a decent amount of money (for a college student) on them and don't want to just throw that money away.

Any input is appreciated. Thank you
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post-break up, left with sex toys I can
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A couple months ago, my ex-girlfriend [20F] and I [19M] broke up after dating for about a year. It wasn't mutual; I initiated it and it blind-sided her and left her heart-broken. After some tension following the break up, she completely cut contact with me. It's been about a month and I don't blame her at all. However, I'm not left with a number of sex toys that we purchased (but I mostly paid for, paying for probably 3/4 of the total cost). After the break up, I brought them up and she said she would take whatever I didn't want. So she hasn't directly requested anything.

The toys include a crop, wrist restraints, and a butt plug (never used, was roughly $35), among a few other things.

This leaves me with a problem, in that I don't know what to do with them. I put a decent amount of money into purchasing them all but they're all female-centric and I can't imagine my next girlfriend will be fond of the idea of using them as they were originally meant for my ex. But given that my ex has cut contact, I don't know whether I should try to talk to her to give them to her. Or if I should just throw them away. But again, I spent a decent amount of money (for a college student) on them and don't want to just throw that money away.

Any input is appreciated. Thank you
user
Left with a number of sex toys that
assistant