I have been very close friends with my female co-worker for a year. We sit right next to each other and have gotten very close. We go for walks together on all our breaks and have hung out outside of work as well. 

When we first met, I felt there was an attraction between us, but I could be wrong. She does have a flirty personality. But I also didn't make a move and remained rather reserved towards her flirtatious behavior. 

Over time, as we got to know each other more, we've had our share of disagreements and disputes. Without going into too many details, it came to a head one day and she asked me if our conversations about dating were strictly platonic. It was then that I asked her if she could see us dating, and she said no. Things went back to normal pretty quickly. I've gone on a few dates since then. 

I know, don't shit where you eat, office romances are messy, don't put all your eggs in one basket, etc. I will preface by saying that I don't have problems meeting girls or getting dates. I know conventional wisdom is to find someone outside of work.

But help me out Reddit. Is there anything I can do to rebuild romantic chemistry between us? I don't mean in a manipulative, "PUA" kind of way, but I like this girl a lot, and I'd be happy even just going on one date.
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I have been very close friends with my female co-worker for a year. We sit right next to each other and have gotten very close. We go for walks together on all our breaks and have hung out outside of work as well. 

When we first met, I felt there was an attraction between us, but I could be wrong. She does have a flirty personality. But I also didn't make a move and remained rather reserved towards her flirtatious behavior. 

Over time, as we got to know each other more, we've had our share of disagreements and disputes. Without going into too many details, it came to a head one day and she asked me if our conversations about dating were strictly platonic. It was then that I asked her if she could see us dating, and she said no. Things went back to normal pretty quickly. I've gone on a few dates since then. 

I know, don't shit where you eat, office romances are messy, don't put all your eggs in one basket, etc. I will preface by saying that I don't have problems meeting girls or getting dates. I know conventional wisdom is to find someone outside of work.

But help me out Reddit. Is there anything I can do to rebuild romantic chemistry between us? I don't mean in a manipulative, "PUA" kind of way, but I like this girl a lot, and I'd be happy even just going on one date.
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