My (22M) close friend (22F) is leaving the country soon. She was here to study, and now that shes graduated, she has to leave. Im not sure when i'll be seeing her next, and im finding it really hard to say goodbye.

We've had on and off relationships in the past, and it never worked because i never fully appreciated her, and other people got involved. Despite all that, we're still able to be close friends with one another and we treat each other like siblings.

Over the past two weeks, i find myself wanting to spend more and more one on one time with her. My gf (22F) has some insecurities when it comes to her because she knows we have history. Lately, we've been having some trouble because she found out her sister had been cheating on her bf and its affecting our relationship. That's why I've been resisting the urge to spend too much time with my friend. However, i feel like im letting her down as i dont know when I'll be seeing her next.

She (my friend) represents my past (we've been friends for 9 years), and while we've had rocky moments in our friendship (often over our feelings for one another), we're very close and comfortable with one another now. I love my girlfriend, and my friend knows that too. I dont want to cheat, but i feel that just by wanting to spend more time with my friend before she leaves, im doing exactly that. 

Shes leaving two days from now, and before she goes i want (not need) to spend some time with her, but i fear that it may send the wrong message to my gf. I am also worried that this constitutes cheating. I need help, please advise.
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friend of 9 years is leaving soon, i want to spend more time with her but im worried that its considered cheating (especially when my gf is having trust issues
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My (22M) close friend (22F) is leaving the country soon. She was here to study, and now that shes graduated, she has to leave. Im not sure when i'll be seeing her next, and im finding it really hard to say goodbye.

We've had on and off relationships in the past, and it never worked because i never fully appreciated her, and other people got involved. Despite all that, we're still able to be close friends with one another and we treat each other like siblings.

Over the past two weeks, i find myself wanting to spend more and more one on one time with her. My gf (22F) has some insecurities when it comes to her because she knows we have history. Lately, we've been having some trouble because she found out her sister had been cheating on her bf and its affecting our relationship. That's why I've been resisting the urge to spend too much time with my friend. However, i feel like im letting her down as i dont know when I'll be seeing her next.

She (my friend) represents my past (we've been friends for 9 years), and while we've had rocky moments in our friendship (often over our feelings for one another), we're very close and comfortable with one another now. I love my girlfriend, and my friend knows that too. I dont want to cheat, but i feel that just by wanting to spend more time with my friend before she leaves, im doing exactly that. 

Shes leaving two days from now, and before she goes i want (not need) to spend some time with her, but i fear that it may send the wrong message to my gf. I am also worried that this constitutes cheating. I need help, please advise.
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Friend is leaving in two days, and i want to spend more time with her, but i fear that it may be seen as cheating by my girlfriend because shes
assistant