I was going through a bad patch in my life, about two years ago. I was the typical loser, failed College (UK), no job etc, while she was doing the complete opposite. I told her that I disliked being around her because of this, she told me she was sorry but she wouldn't change and it was not her problem (rightly so).

Four months later I said hello to her on Facebook she responded and we just continued to talk but I never brought the past up and neither did she. To be honest, straight away I wondered if I should apologise but as time went on it felt weirder to bring it up again. Anytime we talk it's always me who instigates the conversation. 

I feel as if there's this distance between us still and i'm wondering what to do.

I was thinking saying something like, "do you remember two years ago when I said some stuff to you, I never apologised, I shouldn't have said what I said, I was going through a bad time but it doesn't excuse it. So I just wanted to say I am sorry."
user
Accidentally said some mean things to
assistant
I was going through a bad patch in my life, about two years ago. I was the typical loser, failed College (UK), no job etc, while she was doing the complete opposite. I told her that I disliked being around her because of this, she told me she was sorry but she wouldn't change and it was not her problem (rightly so).

Four months later I said hello to her on Facebook she responded and we just continued to talk but I never brought the past up and neither did she. To be honest, straight away I wondered if I should apologise but as time went on it felt weirder to bring it up again. Anytime we talk it's always me who instigates the conversation. 

I feel as if there's this distance between us still and i'm wondering what to do.

I was thinking saying something like, "do you remember two years ago when I said some stuff to you, I never apologised, I shouldn't have said what I said, I was going through a bad time but it doesn't excuse it. So I just wanted to say I am sorry."
user
I deteriorated a friendship, never apologised,
assistant