Hello everyone, I decided to make a post today partly because I need to vent and partly because I could use some advice. I am a nineteen year old female and last week I was heavily contemplating suicide and it took an intervention from my mother to bring me back from the edge. 

I just got out of an emotionally abusive four year relationship where we never had sex and communication was very limited on his end. But because I focused so much on this guy (19 M), I kind of fucked myself over in the long run and now have to rebuild but I got very overwhelmed last week and almost decided to kill myself. 

I have a very close guy friend (20 M) that I have known for two years and he didn't know what was up with me the last week as I had been acting strange, I was ashamed about it but I told him anyways and I basically got slapped in the face figuratively speaking of course. 

He said that suicide was cowardly, pathetic, and selfish and honestly it really hurt me as he went on to say that he basically didn't care that I could have died last week because it was my choice. But today he told me that he's a depressed person and something is bothering him but he won't say what. I don't know what he expects from me after his display yesterday and I really want to go off on him but I'm afraid he won't talk to me again and he's my only friend right now. How should I handle this situation, it's tearing me apart right now.
user
Almost killed myself last week, friend
assistant
Hello everyone, I decided to make a post today partly because I need to vent and partly because I could use some advice. I am a nineteen year old female and last week I was heavily contemplating suicide and it took an intervention from my mother to bring me back from the edge. 

I just got out of an emotionally abusive four year relationship where we never had sex and communication was very limited on his end. But because I focused so much on this guy (19 M), I kind of fucked myself over in the long run and now have to rebuild but I got very overwhelmed last week and almost decided to kill myself. 

I have a very close guy friend (20 M) that I have known for two years and he didn't know what was up with me the last week as I had been acting strange, I was ashamed about it but I told him anyways and I basically got slapped in the face figuratively speaking of course. 

He said that suicide was cowardly, pathetic, and selfish and honestly it really hurt me as he went on to say that he basically didn't care that I could have died last week because it was my choice. But today he told me that he's a depressed person and something is bothering him but he won't say what. I don't know what he expects from me after his display yesterday and I really want to go off on him but I'm afraid he won't talk to me again and he's my only friend right now. How should I handle this situation, it's tearing me apart right now.
user
Got out of an abusive relationship
assistant