Hey reddit!! So my girlfriend of about 9 months keeps wanting to spend time with her ex boyfriend. I usually don't have an issue with this but this time is kind of different than with past relationships. My GF is amazing and we have been getting along amazingly. She is amazing with my family and friends and i wouldn't change anything, i am so in love with this girl. 

My GF is friends with all of her ex boyfriends, but this one....she cheated on, with me.... She feels an extreme amount of guilt for what she did and mainly does this to not only make him feel okay about them still being friends, but also to make herself feel better because she is guilty. Keep in mind that he doesn't know that he was cheated on. She was struggling on telling him that their relationship was going no where and ended up breaking up with him anyways, but he doesn't know the whole truth. Also, her reasoning is that they have mutual friends, so its a way for her to see other people.

My problem is that I don't like this guy, at all, and he doesn't respect our relationship. I don't like her hanging out with him but i put up with it, but i'm getting tired of it. We are thinking of moving in together and if we do, he is not someone i want in my house because of the lack of respect. I don't want to see my girlfriends priorities going to hanging out and texting this because she feels bad for him. I feel like that will ultimately take away and whittle down our relationship because he isn't someone that i like. Am I asking too much to ask her to not pursue such a great friendship with him, or is it something that i'll have to deal with?

I don't want the fact that she feels bad for him to make it that she isn't focusing on what is right in front of her.
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girlfriend wants to hang out with ex boyfriend, i don't like him
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Hey reddit!! So my girlfriend of about 9 months keeps wanting to spend time with her ex boyfriend. I usually don't have an issue with this but this time is kind of different than with past relationships. My GF is amazing and we have been getting along amazingly. She is amazing with my family and friends and i wouldn't change anything, i am so in love with this girl. 

My GF is friends with all of her ex boyfriends, but this one....she cheated on, with me.... She feels an extreme amount of guilt for what she did and mainly does this to not only make him feel okay about them still being friends, but also to make herself feel better because she is guilty. Keep in mind that he doesn't know that he was cheated on. She was struggling on telling him that their relationship was going no where and ended up breaking up with him anyways, but he doesn't know the whole truth. Also, her reasoning is that they have mutual friends, so its a way for her to see other people.

My problem is that I don't like this guy, at all, and he doesn't respect our relationship. I don't like her hanging out with him but i put up with it, but i'm getting tired of it. We are thinking of moving in together and if we do, he is not someone i want in my house because of the lack of respect. I don't want to see my girlfriends priorities going to hanging out and texting this because she feels bad for him. I feel like that will ultimately take away and whittle down our relationship because he isn't someone that i like. Am I asking too much to ask her to not pursue such a great friendship with him, or is it something that i'll have to deal with?

I don't want the fact that she feels bad for him to make it that she isn't focusing on what is right in front of her.
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Girlfriend and i are thinking of moving in together because she has
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