I feel like I'm stuck. He's way past me (see old post for details) and doesn't seem to respect me at all these days/wants nothing to do with me. 

Even if I don't want to be with him, I can't get him out of my head. I can't stop missing him so much, wishing he wasn't being so cold, wishing he would just come around and give me a hug (I have cancer (won't kill me), recently admitted it to him & he said nothing. He saw it on Facebook...) I know this will never happen. I know it's over, but I'm just lost. I've heard all the tried-and-true distraction/exercise advice and nothing seems to work. I tend to deal with things by writing them out or just discussing them endlessly...and this doesn't help, because my coping mechanism kind of allows me to fixate. Help?
user
Can't get over him. Feel very stuck and upset...non-conventional advice?
assistant
I feel like I'm stuck. He's way past me (see old post for details) and doesn't seem to respect me at all these days/wants nothing to do with me. 

Even if I don't want to be with him, I can't get him out of my head. I can't stop missing him so much, wishing he wasn't being so cold, wishing he would just come around and give me a hug (I have cancer (won't kill me), recently admitted it to him & he said nothing. He saw it on Facebook...) I know this will never happen. I know it's over, but I'm just lost. I've heard all the tried-and-true distraction/exercise advice and nothing seems to work. I tend to deal with things by writing them out or just discussing them endlessly...and this doesn't help, because my coping mechanism kind of allows me to fixate. Help?
user
can't get over ex despite spending months trying. What can
assistant