The past week I've not been sleeping great due to this im now aware my partner for the past 12 months is masturbating right beside me in bed.. our sex life is great and I was only turned on by this but have since confronted her and its not played out the way I thought it would have.

The first occasion I woke up to hear her breathing fast and could hear moving around but quickly fell back asleep.

The second time I woke up to her giving full on groans and moans and could physically feel the bed moving.

The third occasion was last night we had just switched the lights of and barely shut our eyes we were spooning and I could hear the same noises I did the previous nights so I sat up and asked her "Are you playing with yourself" to what she very defensively replied "What?! No" anyway then I asked if she was horny and she moaned of a sore head I couldn't fall asleep and some time later im hearing her rattlin' away at it again.. now im no expert but I liked to like I can tell when someone is really sleeping by their breathing pattern as it normally a lot slower. 

I just called her she asked how I was doing I said I was quite hurt about last night she said she didn't know what I was talking about. So I said when I asked you if you were horny last night you said no, correct? "yes and I can't believe you though I was playing with myself" she replied I said it sounded an awful lot like it then I heard you at it again some time after that then she blew up "What, you don't believe me, are you calling me a liar?" I said yes i think your lying, I didn't just hear a little rustle I heard the whole thing right to climax.. im not bothered that you do it, its just a bit demeaning when im lying right beside you after trying to come on to you. again she got really defensive/angry "Well, I can tell you I wasn't so now were both upset" I replied well I know what I heard so unless you were doing it in your sleep then that's the only explanation she replied "yeah, maybe"
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The past week I've not been sleeping great due to this im now aware my partner for the past 12 months is masturbating right beside me in bed.. our sex life is great and I was only turned on by this but have since confronted her and its not played out the way I thought it would have.

The first occasion I woke up to hear her breathing fast and could hear moving around but quickly fell back asleep.

The second time I woke up to her giving full on groans and moans and could physically feel the bed moving.

The third occasion was last night we had just switched the lights of and barely shut our eyes we were spooning and I could hear the same noises I did the previous nights so I sat up and asked her "Are you playing with yourself" to what she very defensively replied "What?! No" anyway then I asked if she was horny and she moaned of a sore head I couldn't fall asleep and some time later im hearing her rattlin' away at it again.. now im no expert but I liked to like I can tell when someone is really sleeping by their breathing pattern as it normally a lot slower. 

I just called her she asked how I was doing I said I was quite hurt about last night she said she didn't know what I was talking about. So I said when I asked you if you were horny last night you said no, correct? "yes and I can't believe you though I was playing with myself" she replied I said it sounded an awful lot like it then I heard you at it again some time after that then she blew up "What, you don't believe me, are you calling me a liar?" I said yes i think your lying, I didn't just hear a little rustle I heard the whole thing right to climax.. im not bothered that you do it, its just a bit demeaning when im lying right beside you after trying to come on to you. again she got really defensive/angry "Well, I can tell you I wasn't so now were both upset" I replied well I know what I heard so unless you were doing it in your sleep then that's the only explanation she replied "yeah, maybe"
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