Hey there, just needed a little guidance/support here, if you can. My partner and I have been on and off for over a year. I have broken up with him a few times, but we always make up and then the cycle continues. Anyway, we ended things about a month ago and, surprise, hung out and became closer yet again. We hung out last night, and it was disastrous. He bugged me at the start of the night, then I told him what upset me, but it through me way off. Throughout the night I felt uncomfortable with him and detatched. We were out at a bar, drank, ended up arguing (privately) there. Then when we got to his house, I let everything out. Everything that I never said to him because he is such a kind and mellow guy. I called him some names and was just very blunt. I hurt him a lot. I know this needed to happen, for the cycle to end, but I can't help but feel like a terrible person. Our relationship was based off of love, communication and understanding one another; yet, a dark side of me came out. He told me I broke his heart. I just hope he forgives me one day and doesn't remember me for how I was last night.
user
huge blowout with bf, I said everything that was repressed and
assistant
Hey there, just needed a little guidance/support here, if you can. My partner and I have been on and off for over a year. I have broken up with him a few times, but we always make up and then the cycle continues. Anyway, we ended things about a month ago and, surprise, hung out and became closer yet again. We hung out last night, and it was disastrous. He bugged me at the start of the night, then I told him what upset me, but it through me way off. Throughout the night I felt uncomfortable with him and detatched. We were out at a bar, drank, ended up arguing (privately) there. Then when we got to his house, I let everything out. Everything that I never said to him because he is such a kind and mellow guy. I called him some names and was just very blunt. I hurt him a lot. I know this needed to happen, for the cycle to end, but I can't help but feel like a terrible person. Our relationship was based off of love, communication and understanding one another; yet, a dark side of me came out. He told me I broke his heart. I just hope he forgives me one day and doesn't remember me for how I was last night.
user
Broke up with my boyfriend of 1.5 years after an argument,
assistant