First time posting on reddit, sorry for any issues!

I don't really want to go into details, but let's just say it's a genetic physical disability. 

I see him almost every day. Not only do we have the same classes, he lives only a few minutes away from me. He's a popular guy- lots of friends, hosts amazing parties, and generally is pretty cool. However, he has terrible luck in the dating scene. He'll pick a girl to fixate on, sending flowers to her house, buying her jewelry, getting gift certificates to spas, and get tickets to her favourite band. 

Most girls turn him down. He gets very upset, and will tell everyone he knows how the girl he spent all this money on won't date him because of his disability. These girls go through hell because of him. He turns everyone against them. One girl had her car keyed because he would tell everyone who listened that she only hung out with him for his money, and left him when he wanted to get serious. Quite a few have transferred to different colleges to get away from the constant hate. 

I've always been able to hide in the friend status, but now he's turning his attention to me. I've turned down most of his gifts (except the "anonymous" ones he leaves on my doorstep that I can't give back), and I can tell he's starting to get frustrated with me. It's only a matter of time before he starts badmouthing me. 

I can't switch colleges, as this is the best one for my degree. But I don't want everyone to hate me because of what he says either. Is there any way for me to turn him down and not have everyone hate me for it?
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Guy thinks girls
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First time posting on reddit, sorry for any issues!

I don't really want to go into details, but let's just say it's a genetic physical disability. 

I see him almost every day. Not only do we have the same classes, he lives only a few minutes away from me. He's a popular guy- lots of friends, hosts amazing parties, and generally is pretty cool. However, he has terrible luck in the dating scene. He'll pick a girl to fixate on, sending flowers to her house, buying her jewelry, getting gift certificates to spas, and get tickets to her favourite band. 

Most girls turn him down. He gets very upset, and will tell everyone he knows how the girl he spent all this money on won't date him because of his disability. These girls go through hell because of him. He turns everyone against them. One girl had her car keyed because he would tell everyone who listened that she only hung out with him for his money, and left him when he wanted to get serious. Quite a few have transferred to different colleges to get away from the constant hate. 

I've always been able to hide in the friend status, but now he's turning his attention to me. I've turned down most of his gifts (except the "anonymous" ones he leaves on my doorstep that I can't give back), and I can tell he's starting to get frustrated with me. It's only a matter of time before he starts badmouthing me. 

I can't switch colleges, as this is the best one for my degree. But I don't want everyone to hate me because of what he says either. Is there any way for me to turn him down and not have everyone hate me for it?
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Dated a guy
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