I dated this girl for about 3 months about 10 months ago. We go to different colleges so we didnt really see each other but once a month. Well we both went back home for the summer and she gets back today ( I got back three days ago). We made plans to get dinner throughout the summer and we will now be getting dinner Tomorrow night. Is this a date? 

The thing is, throughout all this time that we have been apart, I have never stopped liking her. I tried to not like her, thinking that its better to just move on as I felt that I was the only one trying to actually make plans to see each other. However within a day or two she would be back on my mind. Nonetheless, the longest we ever went talking was one week twice this summer. Other then that, she would text me first, or I would her. 

She will now go to my university this semester as she is done with CC. So I am kind of at the point where if anything is going to happen, it needs to happen soon. I understand "dating" for a while before committing to a relationship but I am ready for a relationship, and if she isint then there is no point in this. Even though we dated for 3 and have known each other about a year next month. 

It sounds selfish and stupid but knowing that its not going to happen, rather then hoping and wishing one day it will, will probably be best for me. I just dont know how to actually go about bringing it up. Like I said, we are getting dinner. I will not be bringing it up at that particular dinner at least I dont think I should, but I am hoping to get some kind of feedback.

I dont even know how to go about tomorrow in general. Obviously I give her a hug when I see her, but do I give her a kiss on the lips? cheek? no kiss until maybe after? no kiss at all? Do i bring flowers? It was her birthday a week ago, so I do have a card for her. I dont know if I should get her anything else?
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Have plans for dinner with this girl I like and have
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I dated this girl for about 3 months about 10 months ago. We go to different colleges so we didnt really see each other but once a month. Well we both went back home for the summer and she gets back today ( I got back three days ago). We made plans to get dinner throughout the summer and we will now be getting dinner Tomorrow night. Is this a date? 

The thing is, throughout all this time that we have been apart, I have never stopped liking her. I tried to not like her, thinking that its better to just move on as I felt that I was the only one trying to actually make plans to see each other. However within a day or two she would be back on my mind. Nonetheless, the longest we ever went talking was one week twice this summer. Other then that, she would text me first, or I would her. 

She will now go to my university this semester as she is done with CC. So I am kind of at the point where if anything is going to happen, it needs to happen soon. I understand "dating" for a while before committing to a relationship but I am ready for a relationship, and if she isint then there is no point in this. Even though we dated for 3 and have known each other about a year next month. 

It sounds selfish and stupid but knowing that its not going to happen, rather then hoping and wishing one day it will, will probably be best for me. I just dont know how to actually go about bringing it up. Like I said, we are getting dinner. I will not be bringing it up at that particular dinner at least I dont think I should, but I am hoping to get some kind of feedback.

I dont even know how to go about tomorrow in general. Obviously I give her a hug when I see her, but do I give her a kiss on the lips? cheek? no kiss until maybe after? no kiss at all? Do i bring flowers? It was her birthday a week ago, so I do have a card for her. I dont know if I should get her anything else?
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We have been making plans to get dinner for the past
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