My boyfriend and I have been friends for about 10 years.  He asked me out in May and I said no at first and in June decided to give it a go.  I was really scared that we would move too serious too fast and well, that's what happened.  Except now I find out he has a very short fuse and gets offended easily and angry easily.  I'm not the best at wording things and am not perfect either; I sometimes make snarky remarks that send him into a full out rage of yelling then ignoring me.
I truly love him, he is one of my best friends.  But when we fight I feel like he becomes malicious and goes out of his way to  hurt me to make me leave him alone.  I don't understand how when we are together he tells me I am amazing and he is so lucky, but if we have a misunderstanding or I say something wrong when we aren't in person he goes ape shit and rips me a new one, hangs up on me and says he doesn't want to talk right now.
user
boyfriend has been close friend for 10 years, dating 7 months, love each other dearly. Gets insanely angry during fights.
assistant
My boyfriend and I have been friends for about 10 years.  He asked me out in May and I said no at first and in June decided to give it a go.  I was really scared that we would move too serious too fast and well, that's what happened.  Except now I find out he has a very short fuse and gets offended easily and angry easily.  I'm not the best at wording things and am not perfect either; I sometimes make snarky remarks that send him into a full out rage of yelling then ignoring me.
I truly love him, he is one of my best friends.  But when we fight I feel like he becomes malicious and goes out of his way to  hurt me to make me leave him alone.  I don't understand how when we are together he tells me I am amazing and he is so lucky, but if we have a misunderstanding or I say something wrong when we aren't in person he goes ape shit and rips me a new one, hangs up on me and says he doesn't want to talk right now.
user
My boyfriend gets extremely angry and is verbally abusive in my opinion when we fight. I don't know what to do and if I should
assistant