I am having really serious communication issues with my husband. It seems like my very existence upsets him. If I have a feeling or an opinion, I am 'overreacting' or 'making stuff up'. But my feelings are real to me. I don't raise my voice, I try to improve my argument. Example: Tonight he chastised me for putting stuff in the oven too soon (2 mins left on preheat). I was trying to be helpful and spend time with him because I thought cooking together would be nice. 

We don't even sleep in the same room because everything I do is annoying to him so I have to sleep in the guest room. The way he speaks to me makes me feel small and unloved. It seems like everything I do and say is wrong in his eyes. How can I get through to him that his attitude towards me is really hurtful?
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I am having really serious communication issues with my husband. It seems like my very existence upsets him. If I have a feeling or an opinion, I am 'overreacting' or 'making stuff up'. But my feelings are real to me. I don't raise my voice, I try to improve my argument. Example: Tonight he chastised me for putting stuff in the oven too soon (2 mins left on preheat). I was trying to be helpful and spend time with him because I thought cooking together would be nice. 

We don't even sleep in the same room because everything I do is annoying to him so I have to sleep in the guest room. The way he speaks to me makes me feel small and unloved. It seems like everything I do and say is wrong in his eyes. How can I get through to him that his attitude towards me is really hurtful?
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