So my ex broke up with me after 3 years together, about 6 months ago. He stated that he didn't feel the same anymore. Just a few weeks later he told me he was seeing some one else. Recently he told me that they had broken up but were still seeing each other (whatever that means). 

I am having alot of trouble with dealing with everything, and everyone keeps saying that I should be moved on by now but I am still upset more then not. 

I keep wanting to know why he choose her over me. We were together for 3 years I cared and loved him for who he was. I don't understand why I am the one who gets the short end of the stick after everything. I still miss him alot. To make things worse we are both leaving for separate places for the next 6 months and I keep getting upset cause I know I'm going to miss him and want to talk to him but he won't want to talk to me but will probably talk to everyone else. 

I know I'm an ex now and everything but since when did that mean that I should be treated like shit. I was the one that supported and was there for him for the past 3 years, I gave him my heart and always tried to make him happy. But now that I'm the ex that means I automatically become less then shit? And my ex keeps saying that we will be friends again when I have been in another relationship! Why does that even matter? Just cause someones in a relationship doesn't mean they are over their ex.

I'm just rambling now though.

Some advise would be nice though cause I'm starting to feel like I'm never going to find someone that makes me feel like he made me feel.
user
Ex of 6 months broke up with me, now he is dating someone else. I am still upset that he chose her over me and want to know why
assistant
So my ex broke up with me after 3 years together, about 6 months ago. He stated that he didn't feel the same anymore. Just a few weeks later he told me he was seeing some one else. Recently he told me that they had broken up but were still seeing each other (whatever that means). 

I am having alot of trouble with dealing with everything, and everyone keeps saying that I should be moved on by now but I am still upset more then not. 

I keep wanting to know why he choose her over me. We were together for 3 years I cared and loved him for who he was. I don't understand why I am the one who gets the short end of the stick after everything. I still miss him alot. To make things worse we are both leaving for separate places for the next 6 months and I keep getting upset cause I know I'm going to miss him and want to talk to him but he won't want to talk to me but will probably talk to everyone else. 

I know I'm an ex now and everything but since when did that mean that I should be treated like shit. I was the one that supported and was there for him for the past 3 years, I gave him my heart and always tried to make him happy. But now that I'm the ex that means I automatically become less then shit? And my ex keeps saying that we will be friends again when I have been in another relationship! Why does that even matter? Just cause someones in a relationship doesn't mean they are over their ex.

I'm just rambling now though.

Some advise would be nice though cause I'm starting to feel like I'm never going to find someone that makes me feel like he made me feel.
user
Ex broke up 7 months ago, is dating someone else.
assistant