Things have been great between the two of us, though there has been a significant source of stress that was making life much harder the last month, and is slightly ongoing. 

Long story short, she got out of her abusive relationship and we never officially said it but we somehow ended up dating and we have become very close. However, I recently learned that she feels we spend too much time together. Or to quote "a few times a week would be fine but he wants to all the time". We're both in university, in the same class and live very near to one another so naturally I see her everyday. 

On 99% of nights we will sleep in the same bed either at my place or hers. During the day we generally eat lunch together and then the rest of the day we spend apart. 

Now, I was actually thinking we had been spending too much together anyway...and now hearing this just leads me to question why she didn't say anything, or still hasn't said anything? 

Should I take the initiative and bring up a conversation about it? Something like "I enjoy your company but I've been feeling like you're getting a little smothered and need your space a little more."

Or should I just speak through my actions and begin giving her more space and not seeing her as often? Without the talking. Which would be more effective? And which would reflect better on me. I'd assume talking would be good, being adults and all...but in this case it seems like actions may speak louder than words.
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I feel like I might be spending too much time with my girlfriend, and she
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Things have been great between the two of us, though there has been a significant source of stress that was making life much harder the last month, and is slightly ongoing. 

Long story short, she got out of her abusive relationship and we never officially said it but we somehow ended up dating and we have become very close. However, I recently learned that she feels we spend too much time together. Or to quote "a few times a week would be fine but he wants to all the time". We're both in university, in the same class and live very near to one another so naturally I see her everyday. 

On 99% of nights we will sleep in the same bed either at my place or hers. During the day we generally eat lunch together and then the rest of the day we spend apart. 

Now, I was actually thinking we had been spending too much together anyway...and now hearing this just leads me to question why she didn't say anything, or still hasn't said anything? 

Should I take the initiative and bring up a conversation about it? Something like "I enjoy your company but I've been feeling like you're getting a little smothered and need your space a little more."

Or should I just speak through my actions and begin giving her more space and not seeing her as often? Without the talking. Which would be more effective? And which would reflect better on me. I'd assume talking would be good, being adults and all...but in this case it seems like actions may speak louder than words.
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I was just told that my girlfriend and I spend too much time together, and
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