Hi reddit again,

I am listening to your advice and my friends advices. I talked to a counsellor and they did give me some advice on how to deal with this issue, and basically told me to either bring her to couples counselling or tell her that I don't want to be treated like a doormat. I do not know what the next steps I should do next though?

I plan to talk to my mother later tonight to prepare her for the worst outcome. I then plan to send my fiancée a text telling her to meet me at a Starbucks to have the talk. Or do you think it would be better to involve her parents too?  Maybe her parents can see the abuse she subjected me to?

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Edit:  Also how would I go to claim back the stuff I bought?  (e.g. engagement ring, wedding gown, etc).
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Need advice on how to get rid of my dog without my
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Hi reddit again,

I am listening to your advice and my friends advices. I talked to a counsellor and they did give me some advice on how to deal with this issue, and basically told me to either bring her to couples counselling or tell her that I don't want to be treated like a doormat. I do not know what the next steps I should do next though?

I plan to talk to my mother later tonight to prepare her for the worst outcome. I then plan to send my fiancée a text telling her to meet me at a Starbucks to have the talk. Or do you think it would be better to involve her parents too?  Maybe her parents can see the abuse she subjected me to?

Update from: 

Edit:  Also how would I go to claim back the stuff I bought?  (e.g. engagement ring, wedding gown, etc).
user
how do I get rid of her dog?
assistant