Well we had only been dating since March of this year, but we knew since ~June of 2014 that we wanted to be together, just never acted on it, so it was sort of a long time coming. In the beginning of the relationship it was AWESOME. She was everything I wanted (or so I thought). We were big into partying and "raving" together, and she got me out of my shell and I started to go out all the time and hang with new people and party etc etc. But after a while, our differences started to show. Our relationship got worse and we'd fight a ton, but stay together because neither of us wanted to leave. But, just last month, after a concert she broke up with me because I "caused a scene" (she was on cocaine and being a total bitch). Now, we've been broken up for about 5 weeks and I've become a total recluse. I don't go out at all, I spend all my time sitting inside and playing video games and if I'm not home I'm at work. NOW, I found out all my "friends" are hanging out and partying with her - the same friends that told me they had my back and would help me through this. Now I REALLY have no incentive to leave and hang out with people. I obviously still miss her and would be together with her again if she was willing, but she's not. I know I'm a better person than she is and she was mostly the problem, but she turns it on me.  What do I do man? Am I wrong to want to spend all my time alone right now? I feel betrayed by my friends and like I can't even go out because she'll be intertwined with everyone I thought I was close with. Thanks.
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Recently broke up with 18 year old GF who turned out to be a complete bitch, don't know where to
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Well we had only been dating since March of this year, but we knew since ~June of 2014 that we wanted to be together, just never acted on it, so it was sort of a long time coming. In the beginning of the relationship it was AWESOME. She was everything I wanted (or so I thought). We were big into partying and "raving" together, and she got me out of my shell and I started to go out all the time and hang with new people and party etc etc. But after a while, our differences started to show. Our relationship got worse and we'd fight a ton, but stay together because neither of us wanted to leave. But, just last month, after a concert she broke up with me because I "caused a scene" (she was on cocaine and being a total bitch). Now, we've been broken up for about 5 weeks and I've become a total recluse. I don't go out at all, I spend all my time sitting inside and playing video games and if I'm not home I'm at work. NOW, I found out all my "friends" are hanging out and partying with her - the same friends that told me they had my back and would help me through this. Now I REALLY have no incentive to leave and hang out with people. I obviously still miss her and would be together with her again if she was willing, but she's not. I know I'm a better person than she is and she was mostly the problem, but she turns it on me.  What do I do man? Am I wrong to want to spend all my time alone right now? I feel betrayed by my friends and like I can't even go out because she'll be intertwined with everyone I thought I was close with. Thanks.
user
Recently broken up with GF, now I'm stuck in an anti-social rut and don't know what to do or where
assistant