My ex bf (23M) of 3 years broke up with me 3 weeks ago. The break up wasn't totally unexpected but I really thought we would work through everything, like we had in the past. Since then my self esteem has been at an all time low and then today I found out that he had already been seeing another girl before we broke up and they are still together. I can't describe the level of heartbreak and betray I am feeling right now. I really thought that we were still going to work things out. To make it worse the girl is a friend of his that I always suspected had a crush on him. I feel like the biggest idiot in the world and just want to crawl into a hole and fade away. I feel completely and utterly worthless in the world and I have no idea how to feel normal ever again.
user
I feel like the biggest idiot in the world and have no idea how to feel normal again after finding out my ex bf was seeing another girl before we broke up and they are still together
assistant
My ex bf (23M) of 3 years broke up with me 3 weeks ago. The break up wasn't totally unexpected but I really thought we would work through everything, like we had in the past. Since then my self esteem has been at an all time low and then today I found out that he had already been seeing another girl before we broke up and they are still together. I can't describe the level of heartbreak and betray I am feeling right now. I really thought that we were still going to work things out. To make it worse the girl is a friend of his that I always suspected had a crush on him. I feel like the biggest idiot in the world and just want to crawl into a hole and fade away. I feel completely and utterly worthless in the world and I have no idea how to feel normal ever again.
user
bf of 3 years broke up with me, I thought we would work things out, and now I found out he was seeing another girl before I even knew he was breaking up with me
assistant