I am the first child in my family. As the female, I was raised to do the house chores, take care of kids, etc. Recently, my mom has given birth to my 3rd sibling. I was very happy of course, but it seems like the consequences for me are a little too much. 

Growing up it has been me that took care of my siblings while both my parents work. It was okay since I didn't have anything to do much then. Now, I am years late from getting my driver's licence, since my parents would always make an excuse telling me I need to so something at the specific day (cook, clean, etc.) I am also almost finished with taking a 3 year course, but my parents are telling me to drop it since its taking so much of my time away from family. Sports were dropped, hobbies were dropped, and even friends are very limited. I feel like I am in a box and my parents don't want me to leave or go anywhere. I feel like I'm literally doing nothing as I grow older. Everyone my age is doing something with their life while I stay at home. Whenever I tell them I want to do something with my life, they tell me just to sacrifice some of my time for family. I want to be able to have time for my self instead of spending it all on family.
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Parents are asking me to sacrifice too much for family. I want to
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I am the first child in my family. As the female, I was raised to do the house chores, take care of kids, etc. Recently, my mom has given birth to my 3rd sibling. I was very happy of course, but it seems like the consequences for me are a little too much. 

Growing up it has been me that took care of my siblings while both my parents work. It was okay since I didn't have anything to do much then. Now, I am years late from getting my driver's licence, since my parents would always make an excuse telling me I need to so something at the specific day (cook, clean, etc.) I am also almost finished with taking a 3 year course, but my parents are telling me to drop it since its taking so much of my time away from family. Sports were dropped, hobbies were dropped, and even friends are very limited. I feel like I am in a box and my parents don't want me to leave or go anywhere. I feel like I'm literally doing nothing as I grow older. Everyone my age is doing something with their life while I stay at home. Whenever I tell them I want to do something with my life, they tell me just to sacrifice some of my time for family. I want to be able to have time for my self instead of spending it all on family.
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I love spending time with family and all, but it'd be great to
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