My girlfriend and I have been dating for about a year and a half, we had one month long break in our relationship but this was several months ago and we're stronger than ever now.

However, this weekend, she is going to a college party with some friends and said that she was scared to get too drunk and hook up with random guys. No sex, just making out. I could tell it seemed like she actually sort of wanted to.

At first this hurt a lot, but I thought more about it. I am her first real boyfriend. I had a girlfriend before her for a long time, but I wasn't nearly as happy as I am with my current girlfriend. I could see being with her for a long long time, hopefully one day even getting married.

I but because I am her first, I feel like if she doesn't go out and experiment and get this sort of attention, then eventually she is going to leave me because she wants to experience other guys. 

I can't say I'm entirely comfortable with this, but to be honest it's not a huge deal to me. She said she won't communicate with any of them after the one night, and that it would be purely physical and in the moment. I would go out and do the same, which she encouraged, but there aren't many parties that my friend group attends and I'm not really the confident go-out-and-pick-up-girls kind of guy. I'd be willing to try though!

I guess my question is would this be a bad idea? Does it seem wrong? Am I right in thinking she'll leave eventually if I don't give her this opportunity?
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My girlfriend and I have been dating for about a year and a half, we had one month long break in our relationship but this was several months ago and we're stronger than ever now.

However, this weekend, she is going to a college party with some friends and said that she was scared to get too drunk and hook up with random guys. No sex, just making out. I could tell it seemed like she actually sort of wanted to.

At first this hurt a lot, but I thought more about it. I am her first real boyfriend. I had a girlfriend before her for a long time, but I wasn't nearly as happy as I am with my current girlfriend. I could see being with her for a long long time, hopefully one day even getting married.

I but because I am her first, I feel like if she doesn't go out and experiment and get this sort of attention, then eventually she is going to leave me because she wants to experience other guys. 

I can't say I'm entirely comfortable with this, but to be honest it's not a huge deal to me. She said she won't communicate with any of them after the one night, and that it would be purely physical and in the moment. I would go out and do the same, which she encouraged, but there aren't many parties that my friend group attends and I'm not really the confident go-out-and-pick-up-girls kind of guy. I'd be willing to try though!

I guess my question is would this be a bad idea? Does it seem wrong? Am I right in thinking she'll leave eventually if I don't give her this opportunity?
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