So I'm a fairly small girl. He happened to mention that he dated someone my height, + quite a few pounds and was very into it. I AM A SMALL GIRL. He said that if I lost a few pounds, he wouldn't break up with me, "but..." And I know if I lost any significant amount I'd be underweight, though I've definitely ended up at smaller weights in the past. I told him I don't want to gain weight, but I'm at a very healthy weight right now (just below 20 BMI), and I don't like the feeling of being very heavy; I'm a dancer, so it feels easier and more fun for me to move a smaller body. Also, he's basically a fitness model, so I was totally surprised that he was into bigger girls, or that I was on the smaller range of acceptable for him (though he compliments me all the time and tells me I'm the hottest girl he's been with in his opinion).
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SO said he'd date someone my height and weight, but.... I'm really interested in him and don't know if he's into bigger girls or if he's just not into BBW. EDIT: (also, my name is Lyra of Reddit, so
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So I'm a fairly small girl. He happened to mention that he dated someone my height, + quite a few pounds and was very into it. I AM A SMALL GIRL. He said that if I lost a few pounds, he wouldn't break up with me, "but..." And I know if I lost any significant amount I'd be underweight, though I've definitely ended up at smaller weights in the past. I told him I don't want to gain weight, but I'm at a very healthy weight right now (just below 20 BMI), and I don't like the feeling of being very heavy; I'm a dancer, so it feels easier and more fun for me to move a smaller body. Also, he's basically a fitness model, so I was totally surprised that he was into bigger girls, or that I was on the smaller range of acceptable for him (though he compliments me all the time and tells me I'm the hottest girl he's been with in his opinion).
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guy in relationship with a smaller woman who is into bigger women. As a result, he's into more BBW. I'm about average weight and generally happy with my body. Not sure if he's into me too, but it's nice
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