My fiancé broke up with me two nights ago. "I'm still in love with you, but I'm not willing to put effort into this."

I've been justifying his behaviors for about a year. The truth is, that if by December (the end of my school semester), he still wasn't doing anything to *try* in our relationship, I was going to force myself to leave him. I love him with all my heart, but I was going to put my self-respect first. The thing is though, that I was going to TRY first. I was going to make an effort to work things out.

He hit me with this curve ball two nights ago. This is the second time in our relationship that he's done this, and he doesn't get another chance. I know that he's going to come crawling back, either two weeks from now or two months from now, and I'll have to not take him back. 
I'm definitely in a bad place right now. I've pretty much cried for two days. I've been staying with a friend because he and I live together (we moved in together a year and a half ago, and things were great for the longest time.) I'm not ready to see or speak to him. 

I guess I'm just wondering where to start with picking up the pieces. I can't take the cat (even though she loves me more. The place I'm moving to is no pets. My mom did say she'll take her though, so I might take her there), the person that I considered my best friend, confidant, and life partner is gone, the school semester just started last week (and I work a full time job), I have to move on literally no notice... I'm in emotional anguish right now. The person I built my life with and was building a future with just decided to dip.  And the life that I've busted my ass to build for myself, is gone. The home I made for myself is gone. I don't know how to go about separating our things, or moving, or rebuilding my life, or staying a new home for myself,  or dealing with any of this, either emotionally or logistically. How do I do this?
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Fiance broke up with me, I'm emotionally shattered, I have no idea how to start rebuilding my life. What do I do?
assistant
My fiancé broke up with me two nights ago. "I'm still in love with you, but I'm not willing to put effort into this."

I've been justifying his behaviors for about a year. The truth is, that if by December (the end of my school semester), he still wasn't doing anything to *try* in our relationship, I was going to force myself to leave him. I love him with all my heart, but I was going to put my self-respect first. The thing is though, that I was going to TRY first. I was going to make an effort to work things out.

He hit me with this curve ball two nights ago. This is the second time in our relationship that he's done this, and he doesn't get another chance. I know that he's going to come crawling back, either two weeks from now or two months from now, and I'll have to not take him back. 
I'm definitely in a bad place right now. I've pretty much cried for two days. I've been staying with a friend because he and I live together (we moved in together a year and a half ago, and things were great for the longest time.) I'm not ready to see or speak to him. 

I guess I'm just wondering where to start with picking up the pieces. I can't take the cat (even though she loves me more. The place I'm moving to is no pets. My mom did say she'll take her though, so I might take her there), the person that I considered my best friend, confidant, and life partner is gone, the school semester just started last week (and I work a full time job), I have to move on literally no notice... I'm in emotional anguish right now. The person I built my life with and was building a future with just decided to dip.  And the life that I've busted my ass to build for myself, is gone. The home I made for myself is gone. I don't know how to go about separating our things, or moving, or rebuilding my life, or staying a new home for myself,  or dealing with any of this, either emotionally or logistically. How do I do this?
user
My fiance of 2 years ended our relationship of 2.5 months. I don't know what to do next or what to do emotionally, physically,
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