I (M21) have been seeing this old friend of mine (F20) (friends from middle school and high school) and we have been going on dates quite often. Probably once or twice a week for the past month. On my bday on nov 28 she treated me to an extremely expensive dinner. We went on movie dates. Got high together and all that. However shes not really sending me signals that shes really into me. But we still go on dinners as if it were to be a date. I recently bought her a ps3 for xmas and she absolutely loved it. She even said "I would give you a really big kiss right now but" I was shocked when she said that and I should have kissed her then. After that incident we went out for dinner again and I had the guts this time to try n kiss her. After the date we were at my place and I decided to lean in for the kiss as she was leaving and all of a sudden she backs away and says "nooo I dont want this to get awkward" my confidence after that was just shot down and i felt so embarassed. am I just in the friendzone now? We have gone on multiple dates together and I just cant seem to read this girl. Any advice??
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I (M21) have been seeing this old friend of mine (F20) (friends from middle school and high school) and we have been going on dates quite often. Probably once or twice a week for the past month. On my bday on nov 28 she treated me to an extremely expensive dinner. We went on movie dates. Got high together and all that. However shes not really sending me signals that shes really into me. But we still go on dinners as if it were to be a date. I recently bought her a ps3 for xmas and she absolutely loved it. She even said "I would give you a really big kiss right now but" I was shocked when she said that and I should have kissed her then. After that incident we went out for dinner again and I had the guts this time to try n kiss her. After the date we were at my place and I decided to lean in for the kiss as she was leaving and all of a sudden she backs away and says "nooo I dont want this to get awkward" my confidence after that was just shot down and i felt so embarassed. am I just in the friendzone now? We have gone on multiple dates together and I just cant seem to read this girl. Any advice??
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