Okay, so I don't want to make this longer than it needs to be but here goes nothing. So about a month ago, a new intern started working with me. She's been training with me for the past month. Over the past month we have gotten to know each other very well. She disclosed to me that she has a boyfriend, and they live together. She tells me, eludes, etc. that she's not happy with her current relationship because she feels like she has to "report" to him everything that she does. For example, she's not "allowed" to have my number in her phone because it will set him off. She has told me that he's not physically abusive, but from what she's told me he's very emotional abusive to her. 

Well, over the past month or so, we have been getting very close and her and I have a ton of fun together. We always "joke" that we will be getting married, and when we're going to move in together and all that stuff. Except, now it's not really a joke to me any more and I would really like that with her, someday. NOT NOW, but she is a great girl and we have a bunch of the same interests and all that jazz. 

The only problem is, I don't know how to, advance (?), our relationship, or if I should even do that. Should I just wait for things to take their course? Should I try to tell her how I feel? Should I take the "eluding to the truth" route? I'm really not sure. I've always said that I would never mess with a girl that is in a relationship, and never have. But, this girl is on my mind constantly and I don't really know where to go from here. 

Advice?

Thanks!
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New girl I work with
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Okay, so I don't want to make this longer than it needs to be but here goes nothing. So about a month ago, a new intern started working with me. She's been training with me for the past month. Over the past month we have gotten to know each other very well. She disclosed to me that she has a boyfriend, and they live together. She tells me, eludes, etc. that she's not happy with her current relationship because she feels like she has to "report" to him everything that she does. For example, she's not "allowed" to have my number in her phone because it will set him off. She has told me that he's not physically abusive, but from what she's told me he's very emotional abusive to her. 

Well, over the past month or so, we have been getting very close and her and I have a ton of fun together. We always "joke" that we will be getting married, and when we're going to move in together and all that stuff. Except, now it's not really a joke to me any more and I would really like that with her, someday. NOT NOW, but she is a great girl and we have a bunch of the same interests and all that jazz. 

The only problem is, I don't know how to, advance (?), our relationship, or if I should even do that. Should I just wait for things to take their course? Should I try to tell her how I feel? Should I take the "eluding to the truth" route? I'm really not sure. I've always said that I would never mess with a girl that is in a relationship, and never have. But, this girl is on my mind constantly and I don't really know where to go from here. 

Advice?

Thanks!
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A coworker of mine has
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