I was out with some friends last night, and we were all drinking really heavily, but I stopped early to sober up and drive home. We got back to the house, and everyone crashed there. My friend and I were sharing a bed due to lack of available space, and after the other people in that room fell asleep, things just kind of...happened.

It wasn't sex, but we made out heavily and grinded on each other until we both came. The problem is, he lives with his boyfriend of several years, and I knew that going into this. I feel awful, especially because, although I don't take it upon myself to monitor other people's behavior, I take a very clear stance about cheating in committed relationships.

I'm concerned that this is entirely my fault...I've known for a while that he was attracted to me, and I've been flirty, mostly because I've had a lot of bad luck romantically lately, and enjoy the attention. I didn't initiate what happened last night, but I definitely could have stopped it, and know that my leading him on hasn't helped the situation. Now I'm terrified that I may have not only ruined his relationship, but put myself in a position where I'll need to distance myself from him and the rest of that group of friends, which would be devastating.
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I was out with some friends last night, and we were all drinking really heavily, but I stopped early to sober up and drive home. We got back to the house, and everyone crashed there. My friend and I were sharing a bed due to lack of available space, and after the other people in that room fell asleep, things just kind of...happened.

It wasn't sex, but we made out heavily and grinded on each other until we both came. The problem is, he lives with his boyfriend of several years, and I knew that going into this. I feel awful, especially because, although I don't take it upon myself to monitor other people's behavior, I take a very clear stance about cheating in committed relationships.

I'm concerned that this is entirely my fault...I've known for a while that he was attracted to me, and I've been flirty, mostly because I've had a lot of bad luck romantically lately, and enjoy the attention. I didn't initiate what happened last night, but I definitely could have stopped it, and know that my leading him on hasn't helped the situation. Now I'm terrified that I may have not only ruined his relationship, but put myself in a position where I'll need to distance myself from him and the rest of that group of friends, which would be devastating.
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Made out with a good
assistant