Being an introvert, I don't like opening up. I occasionally open up to my SO but it's either I'm too stressed out or I feel a necessary to voice my opinions. My SO is an extrovert (and she constantly tease me about it, but that's besides the point) and she complains about me not talking to her enough. Sometimes, I come home after school/doing work and I'm exhausted and I enjoy listening to her, and today I opened up and complained about some miscommunication between us (some of her really mean teases that were uncomfortable, her friend whom I dislike) and she feels like I suddenly changed. Her original words was "back in the past, you're complimenting me, every time you talk now you are complaining about me." I didn't really mean it like that, it's just that i feel like she wanted me to talk and when I started talking she's not ok with it. What should I do?
user
My SO complains about me not talking enough, I started talking (complained
assistant
Being an introvert, I don't like opening up. I occasionally open up to my SO but it's either I'm too stressed out or I feel a necessary to voice my opinions. My SO is an extrovert (and she constantly tease me about it, but that's besides the point) and she complains about me not talking to her enough. Sometimes, I come home after school/doing work and I'm exhausted and I enjoy listening to her, and today I opened up and complained about some miscommunication between us (some of her really mean teases that were uncomfortable, her friend whom I dislike) and she feels like I suddenly changed. Her original words was "back in the past, you're complimenting me, every time you talk now you are complaining about me." I didn't really mean it like that, it's just that i feel like she wanted me to talk and when I started talking she's not ok with it. What should I do?
user
I'm an introvert and I have communication problems with my SO. I'm
assistant