So as I said I started talking to an old friend again. To give some perspective, we "dated" a little bit in middle school, nothing serious obviously. Since the beginning of high school we just grew apart like what happens normally. It was recently her birthday so I wished her a good one and then we started talking more frequently. 

Every thing was great, we would text back and forth just about all day having decent conversation. The best part was that there was equal effort on both sides as far as initiating conversation went.

We hung out a few times, going out of the way to see each other. When we were together it was good. We were both happy and wouldn't want to leave each other. As far as intimacy we stopped at kissing for the most part because she didn't want to rush into things, which I had no problem with. 

We talked about where our relationship was going and both agreed that we weren't opposed to something romantic, but felt no need to rush it and that friendship was more important. She expressed her fear of commitment to me and also told me how she doesn't handle the emotions that come along with it well. However, she also told me that she hadn't been treated as well as I was treating in years and that she was happy we were talking again. 

For reasons that I can't really explain this girl drives me crazy. She's just the type of girl that makes me feel great. So everything seems pretty great. 

However recently we haven't been talking as much. I started to sort of feel confused by her mixed signals and I decided to see if she would initiate conversation, but she doesn't anymore. I've tried to see her a couple times, but plans either fell through or were never made. I'm still interested in her, but right now I'm not sure how she feels at all. I kind of feel like there's another guy. 

So any insight or advice on the situation or what I should do would be greatly appreciated
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So as I said I started talking to an old friend again. To give some perspective, we "dated" a little bit in middle school, nothing serious obviously. Since the beginning of high school we just grew apart like what happens normally. It was recently her birthday so I wished her a good one and then we started talking more frequently. 

Every thing was great, we would text back and forth just about all day having decent conversation. The best part was that there was equal effort on both sides as far as initiating conversation went.

We hung out a few times, going out of the way to see each other. When we were together it was good. We were both happy and wouldn't want to leave each other. As far as intimacy we stopped at kissing for the most part because she didn't want to rush into things, which I had no problem with. 

We talked about where our relationship was going and both agreed that we weren't opposed to something romantic, but felt no need to rush it and that friendship was more important. She expressed her fear of commitment to me and also told me how she doesn't handle the emotions that come along with it well. However, she also told me that she hadn't been treated as well as I was treating in years and that she was happy we were talking again. 

For reasons that I can't really explain this girl drives me crazy. She's just the type of girl that makes me feel great. So everything seems pretty great. 

However recently we haven't been talking as much. I started to sort of feel confused by her mixed signals and I decided to see if she would initiate conversation, but she doesn't anymore. I've tried to see her a couple times, but plans either fell through or were never made. I'm still interested in her, but right now I'm not sure how she feels at all. I kind of feel like there's another guy. 

So any insight or advice on the situation or what I should do would be greatly appreciated
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Started talking to an old friend, had
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