So I've been friends with Jakob for close to 3 years now and ever since we met we have been inseparable. Last year, I finally gained the courage to tell him that I loved him, and so I sent a letter saying that. It didn't matter if feelings were reciprocated but I wanted him to know that. They weren't and I found out he was just getting into a relationship with a foreign exchange student that had gone to his high school. 

She rarely comes back to the US to visit from the European country in which she lives and they've been together for about a year now. Jakob and I live in the same town for the summer and he's taken me on multiple date like activities: movies, dinner, kayaking, etc. and every time he is flirty. 

Our friends all joke that we are dating and in the future we will get married when we realize we are meant for each other and we play it off since he's in a relationship with someone else. However this gf has no inclination of wanting to go to college or live in the US at any point. I need advice in what I should do or say to him. I still love him and always will and I don't know what I'd do if we ever just stopped talking.
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In love with my best friend who has a gf, what do I do?
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So I've been friends with Jakob for close to 3 years now and ever since we met we have been inseparable. Last year, I finally gained the courage to tell him that I loved him, and so I sent a letter saying that. It didn't matter if feelings were reciprocated but I wanted him to know that. They weren't and I found out he was just getting into a relationship with a foreign exchange student that had gone to his high school. 

She rarely comes back to the US to visit from the European country in which she lives and they've been together for about a year now. Jakob and I live in the same town for the summer and he's taken me on multiple date like activities: movies, dinner, kayaking, etc. and every time he is flirty. 

Our friends all joke that we are dating and in the future we will get married when we realize we are meant for each other and we play it off since he's in a relationship with someone else. However this gf has no inclination of wanting to go to college or live in the US at any point. I need advice in what I should do or say to him. I still love him and always will and I don't know what I'd do if we ever just stopped talking.
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I love a guy I've known for 3 years but he has a girlfriend who lives in another country. Should I tell him? How do I
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