We dated for like a month, and this just happened yesterday. We went to a show at our school, and sat next to each other and her friends. We haven't done anything romantic yet, no kissing or fooling around really. The most that happened was we danced at prom. I was trying to take things slow with her because she is a very shy person. At least towards me that is. She would casually greet my friends in the hall, and then I would have to start every conversation or greeting that we ever had. It felt like I didn't mean much to her. It's true that she does have a lot of stuff to do, but so do I. We're both doing a ton over the summer, and would not see each other very often, and next year she's taking 5 APs and I'm taking 4 and 2 other full on classes. We both will be doing a lot of extracurricular stuff too. But I feel like she sees herself as not worth my time or something, which is totally not true. Even though we can't spend much time together, I enjoy every second we have. She's liked me for the past year, and she said that she still does a lot. I just don't feel like this is a reasonable end to the relationship, and I really want it to keep going. When she broke up with me, it was so unexpected that I went automatically into 'make the other person pleased' mode and just went along with it passively, which I really regret. I called her today and left a voicemail asking her to call me or text me to let me know if she really wanted to hear my side and how I feel and felt. I just want some closure, to smooth things over. I'm not looking for a miracle, though one would be nice. What should I do?
user
girlfriend broke up with me bc too busy and antisocial to talk to me. I don't want it to end, and think we can work through it since I'm just as busy. Left voicemail trying to get her to talk to me. No response as of
assistant
We dated for like a month, and this just happened yesterday. We went to a show at our school, and sat next to each other and her friends. We haven't done anything romantic yet, no kissing or fooling around really. The most that happened was we danced at prom. I was trying to take things slow with her because she is a very shy person. At least towards me that is. She would casually greet my friends in the hall, and then I would have to start every conversation or greeting that we ever had. It felt like I didn't mean much to her. It's true that she does have a lot of stuff to do, but so do I. We're both doing a ton over the summer, and would not see each other very often, and next year she's taking 5 APs and I'm taking 4 and 2 other full on classes. We both will be doing a lot of extracurricular stuff too. But I feel like she sees herself as not worth my time or something, which is totally not true. Even though we can't spend much time together, I enjoy every second we have. She's liked me for the past year, and she said that she still does a lot. I just don't feel like this is a reasonable end to the relationship, and I really want it to keep going. When she broke up with me, it was so unexpected that I went automatically into 'make the other person pleased' mode and just went along with it passively, which I really regret. I called her today and left a voicemail asking her to call me or text me to let me know if she really wanted to hear my side and how I feel and felt. I just want some closure, to smooth things over. I'm not looking for a miracle, though one would be nice. What should I do?
user
Dated for a month, she's too shy, broke up because she said how much she liked me. Don't want to lose her, but want her to come back. What should I do?
assistant