So I (25F) have been causally seeing a guy (43m) in a friends with benefits/fb situation. He has a 3yr old daughter, and this is new territory for me. I have worked in daycares half my life and used to spend most of my summers as a nanny, I love kids and I am completely comfortable with them. However this is different from what I am used to. 

We have only been hanging out a short time (3 months tops) and because it is not serious between us I have kept my distance from his personal life. He gets his daughter on weekends and whenever his ex needs help. I just don't want to cross any boundaries, so I limit my contact with him when I know she is there, and I don't hang out when she is there. Until last night he had not asked me to hang out when she was around, and I guess I was fairly comfortable with that. 

Last night he did ask me to come over, he told me his daughter was asleep, but she was restless and it couldn't be a late night. I declined going over, and let him know another night would work better for me. At this point I don't know if I should establish a boundary with him or just follow his lead? I am just looking for advice, insight, outside perspective. Anything anyone is willing to give.
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Currently hanging out with guy in fb situation with his 3yr old daughter, don't want
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So I (25F) have been causally seeing a guy (43m) in a friends with benefits/fb situation. He has a 3yr old daughter, and this is new territory for me. I have worked in daycares half my life and used to spend most of my summers as a nanny, I love kids and I am completely comfortable with them. However this is different from what I am used to. 

We have only been hanging out a short time (3 months tops) and because it is not serious between us I have kept my distance from his personal life. He gets his daughter on weekends and whenever his ex needs help. I just don't want to cross any boundaries, so I limit my contact with him when I know she is there, and I don't hang out when she is there. Until last night he had not asked me to hang out when she was around, and I guess I was fairly comfortable with that. 

Last night he did ask me to come over, he told me his daughter was asleep, but she was restless and it couldn't be a late night. I declined going over, and let him know another night would work better for me. At this point I don't know if I should establish a boundary with him or just follow his lead? I am just looking for advice, insight, outside perspective. Anything anyone is willing to give.
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FWB has child, I don't want to hang out with them, should I establish a
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