We were at a small gathering of friends hanging around, drinking, and generally having a good time. We're sitting at a table playing cards when my wife goes and sits behind him (in the same chair) and proceeds to grab his way upper thigh. It took me aback for a little while and I just didn't know what I should do. So, I sat and I stewed over it for a while until I decided that I was going to leave.

I told her I was going to leave, and she decided to come with me. I confronted her in the car about what had happened and she said she "didn't even notice." I feel like this is what really upsets me too. She sits down a guy and starts feeling up his leg and DOESNT NOTICE?! I feel like that gives me more reason for concern than the act itself. The fact that it is just so nonchalant. She has apologized prefusly after spending some time crying, and I actually started to feel bad about confronting her at all. I just have no idea what to do, am I overreacting? Am I justified? Why can't I just let this go? I just have all these questions and I don't know exactly if I'm being unreasonable.
user
wife sat behind a guy at a card game, proceeded to feel up his leg
assistant
We were at a small gathering of friends hanging around, drinking, and generally having a good time. We're sitting at a table playing cards when my wife goes and sits behind him (in the same chair) and proceeds to grab his way upper thigh. It took me aback for a little while and I just didn't know what I should do. So, I sat and I stewed over it for a while until I decided that I was going to leave.

I told her I was going to leave, and she decided to come with me. I confronted her in the car about what had happened and she said she "didn't even notice." I feel like this is what really upsets me too. She sits down a guy and starts feeling up his leg and DOESNT NOTICE?! I feel like that gives me more reason for concern than the act itself. The fact that it is just so nonchalant. She has apologized prefusly after spending some time crying, and I actually started to feel bad about confronting her at all. I just have no idea what to do, am I overreacting? Am I justified? Why can't I just let this go? I just have all these questions and I don't know exactly if I'm being unreasonable.
user
wife sits behind guy and starts feeling up his leg. then doesnt even notice. am
assistant