I'm 19, male and I'm wondering whether it's okay to ask what kind of a relationship I'm in with someone.

I'm particularly reluctant to do so because of the unconventional nature of the relationship (at least to me) - it's an online one, but we each know what the other looks like - to a...*good* degree. 

The fact that we're quite physically close as well (as in < 3-4 hours by car) means that there is some real potential for "more than online buddies".

I've had a huge crush on this girl for a while, and while she has admitted that she likes talking to me quite a bit, she doesn't express anything more. I really had some trouble toning down my interest for her, as she did really have a more realistic feel for the relationship ("i don't really know you - so I'm not ready to say anything more than I like talking with you").

Anyways, yesterday, after much pushing from her part - we engaged in some rather explicit virtual fun. It required quite a bit of pushing from her part because I had only recently gotten my own rather idealistic romantic feelings under control, and I didn't want them popping up all over the place again after we did this.

In any case, as I had expected, I really did end up liking her even more after that experience. Today though, we haven't really talked much, and I've kept all of my feelings to myself - I haven't been "needy" with frequent "what are you up to?" questions - although I really wish she'd say something and just be more...there.

She has had a "full real" relationship before, while this is my first "relationship" (is it even one?) of any kind. Am I being too...needy? Is it okay for me to ask her what we are - just online friends with benefits, or something more?

What are your feelings on a relationship like this in general?
user
I'm 19, male, and online friends with someone who is physically close enough where real things could happen. Recently she
assistant
I'm 19, male and I'm wondering whether it's okay to ask what kind of a relationship I'm in with someone.

I'm particularly reluctant to do so because of the unconventional nature of the relationship (at least to me) - it's an online one, but we each know what the other looks like - to a...*good* degree. 

The fact that we're quite physically close as well (as in < 3-4 hours by car) means that there is some real potential for "more than online buddies".

I've had a huge crush on this girl for a while, and while she has admitted that she likes talking to me quite a bit, she doesn't express anything more. I really had some trouble toning down my interest for her, as she did really have a more realistic feel for the relationship ("i don't really know you - so I'm not ready to say anything more than I like talking with you").

Anyways, yesterday, after much pushing from her part - we engaged in some rather explicit virtual fun. It required quite a bit of pushing from her part because I had only recently gotten my own rather idealistic romantic feelings under control, and I didn't want them popping up all over the place again after we did this.

In any case, as I had expected, I really did end up liking her even more after that experience. Today though, we haven't really talked much, and I've kept all of my feelings to myself - I haven't been "needy" with frequent "what are you up to?" questions - although I really wish she'd say something and just be more...there.

She has had a "full real" relationship before, while this is my first "relationship" (is it even one?) of any kind. Am I being too...needy? Is it okay for me to ask her what we are - just online friends with benefits, or something more?

What are your feelings on a relationship like this in general?
user
There's potential for more than internet-friendship, so I'm wondering whether it's okay to ask her what kind of a relationship
assistant