I met an international student last summer, and we hit it off. She has come to visit me multiple times for extended stays, and it has been great, overall.

Yesterday, she took a 2 hour train to meet a male friend in Hong Kong. She met him at a hostel while traveling, 2 years ago. She hasn't seen him since then, but they've talked quite a lot on social media and email over the 2 years. 

Anyways, they went to an equivalent of a theme park, basically HK's version of Sea World, and spent the whole day together. Then they went to some bars, and then they ended their night in the same room of a hostel, separate beds.

I asked her about why they're in the same room, and she said not to worry, that he has a girlfriend.  

The next day, they shopped nearly all day, before she took a train home.

To what degree should I be concerned about this?

Some background information:

On the positive side, she has told me that she's in love with me and adores me.

On the negative side, in the past 2 months, she has had feelings for a dance partner (she does professional dancing, such as Tango, Ballet, etc.). I convinced her to stop dancing with that partner. Also, on a different occasion in this time span, her mom's friend convinced her to go on a blind date with someone.

In both negative instances, I told her how those actions made me feel, and she agreed to not do them, anymore. 

I don't know how much of a difference Chinese culture has on her actions, if at all. 

Any advice?
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Girl in China, I'm in US.
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I met an international student last summer, and we hit it off. She has come to visit me multiple times for extended stays, and it has been great, overall.

Yesterday, she took a 2 hour train to meet a male friend in Hong Kong. She met him at a hostel while traveling, 2 years ago. She hasn't seen him since then, but they've talked quite a lot on social media and email over the 2 years. 

Anyways, they went to an equivalent of a theme park, basically HK's version of Sea World, and spent the whole day together. Then they went to some bars, and then they ended their night in the same room of a hostel, separate beds.

I asked her about why they're in the same room, and she said not to worry, that he has a girlfriend.  

The next day, they shopped nearly all day, before she took a train home.

To what degree should I be concerned about this?

Some background information:

On the positive side, she has told me that she's in love with me and adores me.

On the negative side, in the past 2 months, she has had feelings for a dance partner (she does professional dancing, such as Tango, Ballet, etc.). I convinced her to stop dancing with that partner. Also, on a different occasion in this time span, her mom's friend convinced her to go on a blind date with someone.

In both negative instances, I told her how those actions made me feel, and she agreed to not do them, anymore. 

I don't know how much of a difference Chinese culture has on her actions, if at all. 

Any advice?
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assistant