In the past 10 months, I've had four bad encounters with four separate guys who all shared an extremely specific physical type.  I think this means that that type is "not meant for me".  (The four guys were not conventionally attractive men, and I think most women would be unattracted to their type, but for some reason, I was to it.) 

I just got over the last of the four and had to sort of cold reboot my heart and loins to do it, so maybe because of that, right now I just don't find any guys at all, their faces, their bodies, or personalities, very interesting.  

At the same time, I do need to get into a new guy, and do it now, in order to put the period at the end of Guy # 4's era and move on.

How are "types" decided for us, how do they form, and how do I find a new one?  Do we consciously decide what our type is?  If so, how do I do that?  And if not, what does decide it and how can I influence that process or speed it up?
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I have a bad experience with a certain physical type, which means I don't find any attractive guys interesting, and I need to find a
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In the past 10 months, I've had four bad encounters with four separate guys who all shared an extremely specific physical type.  I think this means that that type is "not meant for me".  (The four guys were not conventionally attractive men, and I think most women would be unattracted to their type, but for some reason, I was to it.) 

I just got over the last of the four and had to sort of cold reboot my heart and loins to do it, so maybe because of that, right now I just don't find any guys at all, their faces, their bodies, or personalities, very interesting.  

At the same time, I do need to get into a new guy, and do it now, in order to put the period at the end of Guy # 4's era and move on.

How are "types" decided for us, how do they form, and how do I find a new one?  Do we consciously decide what our type is?  If so, how do I do that?  And if not, what does decide it and how can I influence that process or speed it up?
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Charlie Brown now knows it is time to let go of the Little Red-Haired Girl and all other red-haired girls because red-haired girls are not
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