Hey everyone!
This is my first time posting here.

I have always had a suspicion that something is still going on between my current girlfriend and her ex. I know that they are friends and I don't get on her case when she hangs out with him. 

I'm completely aware of my worth. I'm a good looking guy and according to her I satisfy her. I tend to not worry about her cheating on me.

She spent yesterday at the mall with him while I was at work.

 Okay no problem.

So i go over there afterwards and she refused to kiss me. She hardly acknowldeged my existence and was smiling and laughing at everything that her ex was saying. 

I told her that I was getting tired, (it was around 10pm and I had work this morning) and asked her to come back to my house for the night.

She said no, I'm going to stay at his (her ex's) house for the night.

In front of the two of them I got visibly upset and I told her to come outside to talk.

She didn't seem to understand why I would be upset about her choosing him over me.
I childishly said to her, "okay, that's fine, I'll just see if my ex wants to crash with me then.

What I'm really upset about is that all she would have had to do to make me feel better was to say okay i'm sorry I'll come with you.
Instead she did go with him and stayed over there.
I really hope that I'm overreacting but I would like an unbiased outside opinion.
user
GF hangs out with her ex, refuses to kiss me. I get upset and ask her to come back to my house for the
assistant
Hey everyone!
This is my first time posting here.

I have always had a suspicion that something is still going on between my current girlfriend and her ex. I know that they are friends and I don't get on her case when she hangs out with him. 

I'm completely aware of my worth. I'm a good looking guy and according to her I satisfy her. I tend to not worry about her cheating on me.

She spent yesterday at the mall with him while I was at work.

 Okay no problem.

So i go over there afterwards and she refused to kiss me. She hardly acknowldeged my existence and was smiling and laughing at everything that her ex was saying. 

I told her that I was getting tired, (it was around 10pm and I had work this morning) and asked her to come back to my house for the night.

She said no, I'm going to stay at his (her ex's) house for the night.

In front of the two of them I got visibly upset and I told her to come outside to talk.

She didn't seem to understand why I would be upset about her choosing him over me.
I childishly said to her, "okay, that's fine, I'll just see if my ex wants to crash with me then.

What I'm really upset about is that all she would have had to do to make me feel better was to say okay i'm sorry I'll come with you.
Instead she did go with him and stayed over there.
I really hope that I'm overreacting but I would like an unbiased outside opinion.
user
my girlfriend chose him over me. I'm not sure if I'm overreacting.
assistant