All he talks about is depressing shit like how he never feels like he fits in (which is untrue, he's very likeable), how he can't find a job (also untrue, he's just too busy sitting around feeling sorry for himself to actually get off the couch and apply for one), and how girls supposedly don't like him. He's smart, good looking, and sweet. He has everything going for him but sits on the couch all day feeling sorry for himself instead of getting up and making things happen. 

I care about him but at some point I also need to take care of myself and being around someone so draining isn't good for me. Should I talk to him about this or just let the friendship fizzle out?

PS: I realize this sounds a lot like depression. I've hinted at this and he says he doesn't have the money to seek treatment
user
Friend is super nice but all he does is complain and feel sorry
assistant
All he talks about is depressing shit like how he never feels like he fits in (which is untrue, he's very likeable), how he can't find a job (also untrue, he's just too busy sitting around feeling sorry for himself to actually get off the couch and apply for one), and how girls supposedly don't like him. He's smart, good looking, and sweet. He has everything going for him but sits on the couch all day feeling sorry for himself instead of getting up and making things happen. 

I care about him but at some point I also need to take care of myself and being around someone so draining isn't good for me. Should I talk to him about this or just let the friendship fizzle out?

PS: I realize this sounds a lot like depression. I've hinted at this and he says he doesn't have the money to seek treatment
user
My friend is depressing and I need to be around someone with a
assistant