I [25f] have been seeing this guy [25m] from a dating site for a month. We finally had "the talk" after a few dates because I didn't know what he wants. He said he wanted casual dating (and sex) and not exclusive, and he doesn't mind me seeing other guys as well. He also wants to settle down eventually with a relationship, but he is just not sure yet if that person is going to be me because it has only been a month. I also want to continue seeing him to know if I want to be in a relationship with him, but I want to be just exclusively seeing him. I don't want it to be exclusive now because it has only been such a short time, but I am just conflicted whether I should continue seeing him...

The sex between us was awesome, but I am scared that it will turn into just hooking up and not a relationship...I am also scared that he only said he is considering a relationship...after being casual...just so he can continue having sex with me.

When we go out, we do talk about our personal lives. It's not like we jump straight into sex every time. However, I don't know why I start to get the vibe he only wants sex from me now and relationship possibly later.
user
Guy said he wanted casual
assistant
I [25f] have been seeing this guy [25m] from a dating site for a month. We finally had "the talk" after a few dates because I didn't know what he wants. He said he wanted casual dating (and sex) and not exclusive, and he doesn't mind me seeing other guys as well. He also wants to settle down eventually with a relationship, but he is just not sure yet if that person is going to be me because it has only been a month. I also want to continue seeing him to know if I want to be in a relationship with him, but I want to be just exclusively seeing him. I don't want it to be exclusive now because it has only been such a short time, but I am just conflicted whether I should continue seeing him...

The sex between us was awesome, but I am scared that it will turn into just hooking up and not a relationship...I am also scared that he only said he is considering a relationship...after being casual...just so he can continue having sex with me.

When we go out, we do talk about our personal lives. It's not like we jump straight into sex every time. However, I don't know why I start to get the vibe he only wants sex from me now and relationship possibly later.
user
He said he only wants
assistant