Originally it was supposed to be those 7 guys, my girlfriend, me, and about three other girls, it trickled down to just the other guys and my girlfriend being the only ones free to go to the beach house because everyone else was too busy.

These guys, they're my girlfriends friends, I met them through her, she's turned down a few of them over the time she's known them. Don't get me wrong, cool enough guys, but not guys you'd want to leave your girlfriend at a beach house on the other side of the country alone with for seven days with lots of alcohol.

This trip is in a couple of weeks, we've argued about it a bit and she keeps saying I've turned them down over the years, why are you worried? Don't you trust me? If it were you and your female friends I'd wouldn't kick up a fuss (bullshit, I know).

She'd been looking forward to this trip for a long time because she's had a rough year, being laid off then starting a new job under a really nasty boss, she really wanted us to go on it together but as more stress piled on she kind of just went with the flow, as in 'ok if you can't make it I'll still go'.

I have told her that I trust her, just not those guys and the amount of alcohol that will be there. Plus I know at least 4 of these guys have tried to sleep with her or get into a relationship with her in the past.

So yeah, we've been fighting kind of badly lately, on one hand I feel bad because I know she's stressed and could use a breather but does it have to be when she's alone getting drunk with these dudes? Am I so wrong to not want her to go on this trip?
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Girlfriend wants to stay at a beach house with a bunch of guys, doesn't understand why I'm quite mad, tells me I've turned them down over the years. Am I
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Originally it was supposed to be those 7 guys, my girlfriend, me, and about three other girls, it trickled down to just the other guys and my girlfriend being the only ones free to go to the beach house because everyone else was too busy.

These guys, they're my girlfriends friends, I met them through her, she's turned down a few of them over the time she's known them. Don't get me wrong, cool enough guys, but not guys you'd want to leave your girlfriend at a beach house on the other side of the country alone with for seven days with lots of alcohol.

This trip is in a couple of weeks, we've argued about it a bit and she keeps saying I've turned them down over the years, why are you worried? Don't you trust me? If it were you and your female friends I'd wouldn't kick up a fuss (bullshit, I know).

She'd been looking forward to this trip for a long time because she's had a rough year, being laid off then starting a new job under a really nasty boss, she really wanted us to go on it together but as more stress piled on she kind of just went with the flow, as in 'ok if you can't make it I'll still go'.

I have told her that I trust her, just not those guys and the amount of alcohol that will be there. Plus I know at least 4 of these guys have tried to sleep with her or get into a relationship with her in the past.

So yeah, we've been fighting kind of badly lately, on one hand I feel bad because I know she's stressed and could use a breather but does it have to be when she's alone getting drunk with these dudes? Am I so wrong to not want her to go on this trip?
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Girlfriend wants to go on a trip with a bunch of random dudes; doesn't understand why I'm not okay with it (even though I'm quite mad)
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