So we meet.  Its immediately really honest, fun, amazing chemistry.  We meet each others friends, see each other a lot, miss each other, talk about the future.  He volunteers talks about the future.  I don't push it.

And then he says out of no where, 3 months in, that he doesn't want to be in a relationship.  He changed his mind.  He still wants to spend time with me, but cant be in a relationship.

I basically want to know if he's not that into me.  Is it me?  Or is it because he's young and trying to figure out his life.  

I find it particularly difficult because its difficult to meet people whom you feel life is easy, natural, fun with.  I know 3 months isnt that long, but we were so compatible.  I am struggling with why this happened.  Was the chemistry, and ease all in my head?  Was it one sided?
user
All the signs are there, but he doesn't want to be
assistant
So we meet.  Its immediately really honest, fun, amazing chemistry.  We meet each others friends, see each other a lot, miss each other, talk about the future.  He volunteers talks about the future.  I don't push it.

And then he says out of no where, 3 months in, that he doesn't want to be in a relationship.  He changed his mind.  He still wants to spend time with me, but cant be in a relationship.

I basically want to know if he's not that into me.  Is it me?  Or is it because he's young and trying to figure out his life.  

I find it particularly difficult because its difficult to meet people whom you feel life is easy, natural, fun with.  I know 3 months isnt that long, but we were so compatible.  I am struggling with why this happened.  Was the chemistry, and ease all in my head?  Was it one sided?
user
I feel like he isnt into me, but we feel so
assistant