We had a relatively amicable, mutual breakup. We promised each other to remain friends. 

At first, she seemed to really struggle with this. She would text me relatively often, or even ask if it was okay to call me (to which I always replied that it was). But recently, she hasn't been reaching out much at all, with me usually initiating contact. 

She also started ignoring a text here and there, which when we were together never happened, and didn't happen when we first broke up a few weeks ago. 

She also uses vague descriptions when she says what she was up to. Some include "she went to bed early", though I would see her posting on social media well after these so call bed times. 

I'm assuming she's either meeting up with a new guy/guys already, but we were so honest in our relationship it seems out of character. I'm not jealous of that, it's the dishonesty, or what I believe to be dishonesty that is messing with me. I feel like we knew each other so well, and now...well I don't know.

Maybe I'm being paranoid, but I don't know. 

Like I said, at first, after we broke up she said "I still love you"  at the end of our phone call but now it's simply "bye" and her tone of voice during our phone calls isn't necessarily cold, but it isn't warm either.

We are both the type to not play any games, but it feels like there's some sort of "game" per se being played.

I don't know what to think, she's such a good person, and it's kind of tearing me up.
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Me and my ex-gf decided to stay friends, and we've taken some
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We had a relatively amicable, mutual breakup. We promised each other to remain friends. 

At first, she seemed to really struggle with this. She would text me relatively often, or even ask if it was okay to call me (to which I always replied that it was). But recently, she hasn't been reaching out much at all, with me usually initiating contact. 

She also started ignoring a text here and there, which when we were together never happened, and didn't happen when we first broke up a few weeks ago. 

She also uses vague descriptions when she says what she was up to. Some include "she went to bed early", though I would see her posting on social media well after these so call bed times. 

I'm assuming she's either meeting up with a new guy/guys already, but we were so honest in our relationship it seems out of character. I'm not jealous of that, it's the dishonesty, or what I believe to be dishonesty that is messing with me. I feel like we knew each other so well, and now...well I don't know.

Maybe I'm being paranoid, but I don't know. 

Like I said, at first, after we broke up she said "I still love you"  at the end of our phone call but now it's simply "bye" and her tone of voice during our phone calls isn't necessarily cold, but it isn't warm either.

We are both the type to not play any games, but it feels like there's some sort of "game" per se being played.

I don't know what to think, she's such a good person, and it's kind of tearing me up.
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ex-gf is not being as responsive as she was, but we still
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