me and my ex broke up pretty recently.  I know she has been going out more, and being with her friends and stuff which is cool.  but we stil talk sometimes, and she said that she was frustrated, because when she was out with one of her guy friends, at one point he smelled like me.  and it made her want to be "close" with someone.  she didnt act on it, but....

now sometimes all i can imagine is that first time she gets intimate with another guy.  i keep relating it to how we met and did so the first night, and all i can picture is.. well, nsfw type things.  she is quite beautiful, especially her body, and i know that she gets flirted with frequently.... its just a matter of time...

 Is there an easy way to get over and accept the fact that yes, we are broken up, and yes, she at some point will be intimate with someone else?
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me and my ex broke up pretty recently.  I know she has been going out more, and being with her friends and stuff which is cool.  but we stil talk sometimes, and she said that she was frustrated, because when she was out with one of her guy friends, at one point he smelled like me.  and it made her want to be "close" with someone.  she didnt act on it, but....

now sometimes all i can imagine is that first time she gets intimate with another guy.  i keep relating it to how we met and did so the first night, and all i can picture is.. well, nsfw type things.  she is quite beautiful, especially her body, and i know that she gets flirted with frequently.... its just a matter of time...

 Is there an easy way to get over and accept the fact that yes, we are broken up, and yes, she at some point will be intimate with someone else?
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