As the title states, we've been together for 2 months and sleeping together for maybe a month. I'm not as sexually experienced as he is, I had only had sex a total of 3 times (not number of partners) before I met him so this is all pretty new to me. He has had multiple long term relationships.

He has a medical condition which can sometimes make getting and staying hard difficult so I have made an effort to help him out. Usually sex starts with me giving him a blowjob. It's not my favorite thing to do but it makes him feel good and gets things going so I'm down. However, he has never gone down on me. Sex ends when he has an orgasm. I'll ask if he came but he's only asked me once if I did. I did make a mistake!! I was caught off guard when he asked this and I just said "yes" - it was like word vomit. So I own up to that and I know I should've been honest. But since then he hasn't asked again. I don't know if he assumes I'm having an orgasm? Or if he's just selfish?

As I mentioned above I'm not very sexually experienced. So I'm not sure how to bring this up or what to say. I've never orgasmed during sex (even before this guy) so it's not like I have a road map of how I can come during sex. I've tried to reach down and touch myself during sex to get things going but it feels very awkward and kind of gets in the way. 

I know I can't keep going on like this. I'm starting to get resentful that he orgasms and I don't. Once (because of his medical condition) he couldnt orgasm even after we'd had sex for awhile. So he just kind of said "it's not gonna happen" and we stopped. In my head I was just thinking...okay you didn't orgasm but I still can?
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I'm not orgasming during sex with my boyfriend, he's never asked me if I orgasmed in the past. Is
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As the title states, we've been together for 2 months and sleeping together for maybe a month. I'm not as sexually experienced as he is, I had only had sex a total of 3 times (not number of partners) before I met him so this is all pretty new to me. He has had multiple long term relationships.

He has a medical condition which can sometimes make getting and staying hard difficult so I have made an effort to help him out. Usually sex starts with me giving him a blowjob. It's not my favorite thing to do but it makes him feel good and gets things going so I'm down. However, he has never gone down on me. Sex ends when he has an orgasm. I'll ask if he came but he's only asked me once if I did. I did make a mistake!! I was caught off guard when he asked this and I just said "yes" - it was like word vomit. So I own up to that and I know I should've been honest. But since then he hasn't asked again. I don't know if he assumes I'm having an orgasm? Or if he's just selfish?

As I mentioned above I'm not very sexually experienced. So I'm not sure how to bring this up or what to say. I've never orgasmed during sex (even before this guy) so it's not like I have a road map of how I can come during sex. I've tried to reach down and touch myself during sex to get things going but it feels very awkward and kind of gets in the way. 

I know I can't keep going on like this. I'm starting to get resentful that he orgasms and I don't. Once (because of his medical condition) he couldnt orgasm even after we'd had sex for awhile. So he just kind of said "it's not gonna happen" and we stopped. In my head I was just thinking...okay you didn't orgasm but I still can?
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is he just not up to sex or is he just being selfish? Is there anything I can do
assistant