Maybe the caption says it all, we did meet on Tinder after all. 

So, I met this guy on Tinder back in August and we have met up once, hit off pretty well, had an awkward official date, and have hung out at Starbucks twice since then. This all happened in the span of August to the end of September, and since then I have been so busy and we text less and haven't made plans to hang out. We are both into each other, but I feel like he is much more interested in me physically. We haven't had sex yet but it comes up frequently, lately we have been texting each other and have been pretty flirty and suggestive and talking about our preferences. 

The thing is, he is super into sex, and I am not so much...before I met him I even wondered if I am into guys or possibly asexual. But I am very attracted to him and am entertaining the idea of sleeping with him. But honestly, I would rather have someone to spend time with and do fun things with. Being physical is great, but I don't want to just have a fling with him. There feels like there is untapped potential for us to be more than friends but I don't know how. How can I figure out what we are doing? I think he wants to be more casual but I just don't know!
user
Met guy on Tinder, hit off well, made official date a few weeks ago, but have been busy and haven't been able to hang out with him, and I am thinking about sleeping with him.
assistant
Maybe the caption says it all, we did meet on Tinder after all. 

So, I met this guy on Tinder back in August and we have met up once, hit off pretty well, had an awkward official date, and have hung out at Starbucks twice since then. This all happened in the span of August to the end of September, and since then I have been so busy and we text less and haven't made plans to hang out. We are both into each other, but I feel like he is much more interested in me physically. We haven't had sex yet but it comes up frequently, lately we have been texting each other and have been pretty flirty and suggestive and talking about our preferences. 

The thing is, he is super into sex, and I am not so much...before I met him I even wondered if I am into guys or possibly asexual. But I am very attracted to him and am entertaining the idea of sleeping with him. But honestly, I would rather have someone to spend time with and do fun things with. Being physical is great, but I don't want to just have a fling with him. There feels like there is untapped potential for us to be more than friends but I don't know how. How can I figure out what we are doing? I think he wants to be more casual but I just don't know!
user
Met a guy on Tinder, we have hit it off, didn't have sex, but we are texting a lot more and I want to have sex with him but I am not sure how.
assistant