I've been seeing this girl for about a month now, we're both in college and neither of us are very experienced. I care about her and it seems like (and she tells me) she cares about me a lot. We fool around a bit. Today, we went to a party together. I was DD but she drank and smoked a bit. Nothing too extreme, she seemed almost sober by the time we returned to the dorms. We get in bed and start things. I reach down, she is receptive and vocal and says "ohh Y". Woah. My name is X. Y is our gay friend who was at the party. they start with the same letter but the mistake isn't on my end. 

I stop and she says fuck. She spends the next 20 minutes apologizing and beating herself up over it while I try to console her. I'm not feeling hurt, more shocked and confused.

I guess I'm totally lost on what I should be feeling and how to prove from here. Any thoughts would be appreciated
user
girl I'm seeing calls me by another guys name during shenanigans. Not sure what to feel
assistant
I've been seeing this girl for about a month now, we're both in college and neither of us are very experienced. I care about her and it seems like (and she tells me) she cares about me a lot. We fool around a bit. Today, we went to a party together. I was DD but she drank and smoked a bit. Nothing too extreme, she seemed almost sober by the time we returned to the dorms. We get in bed and start things. I reach down, she is receptive and vocal and says "ohh Y". Woah. My name is X. Y is our gay friend who was at the party. they start with the same letter but the mistake isn't on my end. 

I stop and she says fuck. She spends the next 20 minutes apologizing and beating herself up over it while I try to console her. I'm not feeling hurt, more shocked and confused.

I guess I'm totally lost on what I should be feeling and how to prove from here. Any thoughts would be appreciated
user
I was called by someone else's name. It doesn't really bother me. I'm confused on how to feel instead
assistant