i have not cheated and don't plan to but I'm really frustrated here. also we have a child together.

me and my wife met in college she is was very beautiful (still is) and shy as well. we started dating and i met her parents and i learned a lot about her. she grew up extremely conservative, she only wears feminine clothes and only does girly things.

she cooked and cleaned for me and we seemed perfect for each other had a lot in common. we dated for 4 years before we got married she was so happy and so was i.

our sex life was........awkward she was a virgin (i had been with 3 other women before her) and didn't have any experience. after a few months she started enjoying it but still seemed closed off.

it wasn't long before after that she ended up pregnant i was nervous but excited none the less. we have a perfect healthy baby girl who i love so so much.

our sex life is completely dead now she is still affectionate with me (kisses cuddles etc.) but nothing beyond. i brought this up to her but she said she just isn't in the mood anymore.

it's been 9 months since we last did anything and I'm really getting frustrated. i feel horrible thinking about this but i have thought about straying i know it's wrong. 

it's just I'm not sure what to do here can someone help me or give me advice?
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My wife never wants to hqve sex anymore
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i have not cheated and don't plan to but I'm really frustrated here. also we have a child together.

me and my wife met in college she is was very beautiful (still is) and shy as well. we started dating and i met her parents and i learned a lot about her. she grew up extremely conservative, she only wears feminine clothes and only does girly things.

she cooked and cleaned for me and we seemed perfect for each other had a lot in common. we dated for 4 years before we got married she was so happy and so was i.

our sex life was........awkward she was a virgin (i had been with 3 other women before her) and didn't have any experience. after a few months she started enjoying it but still seemed closed off.

it wasn't long before after that she ended up pregnant i was nervous but excited none the less. we have a perfect healthy baby girl who i love so so much.

our sex life is completely dead now she is still affectionate with me (kisses cuddles etc.) but nothing beyond. i brought this up to her but she said she just isn't in the mood anymore.

it's been 9 months since we last did anything and I'm really getting frustrated. i feel horrible thinking about this but i have thought about straying i know it's wrong. 

it's just I'm not sure what to do here can someone help me or give me advice?
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My wife is very closed off and doesn't
assistant