I have a friend who is getting married to her on again, off again boyfriend of 10 years in five weeks.  I have only known this friend for 4 of those years, and they've had a relationship I would characterize as unstable.  In the time I've known her, they've broken up twice and tried an open relationship once.  I don't know him especially well, since they've had a long distance relationship for the whole time I've known her and he doesn't visit very often - she is more likely to go see him.

Last night we were out having dinner and she casually drops to me that she's interested in someone else and "doesn't know what to do about the wedding now."  WTF, excuse me?!  I tell her that if it was me I wouldn't be getting married if I didn't know what to do, but she got annoyed and said I clearly didn't understand.  (I haven't had a serious relationship in about three years)

Today she texted me and told me she plans to go ahead with the wedding anyway and if she doesn't stay with him then it wasn't meant to be.  Is there anything more I can do to convince her that this is stupid?!  Breaking off an engagement 5 weeks before the wedding is a hell of a lot cheaper than divorce and I honestly don't see them lasting if this is her attitude anyway!  I almost don't want to go to the wedding now.  

Any thoughts?
user
friend is getting engaged to her BF of
assistant
I have a friend who is getting married to her on again, off again boyfriend of 10 years in five weeks.  I have only known this friend for 4 of those years, and they've had a relationship I would characterize as unstable.  In the time I've known her, they've broken up twice and tried an open relationship once.  I don't know him especially well, since they've had a long distance relationship for the whole time I've known her and he doesn't visit very often - she is more likely to go see him.

Last night we were out having dinner and she casually drops to me that she's interested in someone else and "doesn't know what to do about the wedding now."  WTF, excuse me?!  I tell her that if it was me I wouldn't be getting married if I didn't know what to do, but she got annoyed and said I clearly didn't understand.  (I haven't had a serious relationship in about three years)

Today she texted me and told me she plans to go ahead with the wedding anyway and if she doesn't stay with him then it wasn't meant to be.  Is there anything more I can do to convince her that this is stupid?!  Breaking off an engagement 5 weeks before the wedding is a hell of a lot cheaper than divorce and I honestly don't see them lasting if this is her attitude anyway!  I almost don't want to go to the wedding now.  

Any thoughts?
user
My friend is getting married to someone she
assistant