I still love her, and she loves me too. We had a hard time maintaining a relationship that recently became separated by a distance of 3,000 miles. We always had long-term plans and my negativity about the distance destroyed us this past week.

Anticipating leaving for Europe, she gave me her Valentine's Day Card (actually two envelopes) early under the condition that I promise I wouldn't open them until Feb. 14.

So here we are. Her relationship status has already changed and I haven't heard from her since I said goodbye. I still love her.

Do I:
1. Open it now and figure out if it changes anything?
2. Throw it away and try to move on?
3. Open in on Feb. 14 as promised?

I know it seems trivial, and a lot of people have problems on here that are much worse (fuck Jenny) but for some reason this has taken the brunt of my hyperfocusing.
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Girlfriend left me a card for V-Day before leaving, we break up,
assistant
I still love her, and she loves me too. We had a hard time maintaining a relationship that recently became separated by a distance of 3,000 miles. We always had long-term plans and my negativity about the distance destroyed us this past week.

Anticipating leaving for Europe, she gave me her Valentine's Day Card (actually two envelopes) early under the condition that I promise I wouldn't open them until Feb. 14.

So here we are. Her relationship status has already changed and I haven't heard from her since I said goodbye. I still love her.

Do I:
1. Open it now and figure out if it changes anything?
2. Throw it away and try to move on?
3. Open in on Feb. 14 as promised?

I know it seems trivial, and a lot of people have problems on here that are much worse (fuck Jenny) but for some reason this has taken the brunt of my hyperfocusing.
user
Want to know if I should open a love letter I promised
assistant