We go to the same college, although he lives a little further away. 
We've been together for 2 years now but throughout our relationship - we only see each other 2-3 times a month. Can I call it a relationship? we both lack experience in this area as you can see. He is awful when it comes to making plans, and is a workaholic.
but a majority of our relationship is spent on texting each other and when we meet, we always do the same thing.

I have been getting mixed opinions;
1. If you're happy, that's fine. Especially if you're busy
2. That's too little, if he cared then he would make more time for you
3. Are you sure this is a relationship? 

I don't know if it's a relationship. Maybe it is, but just an odd one.
We will start working in a few months time, and our hometown is 4 hours away from each other.
Matters are more complicated because my parents don't like the idea of me being in a relationship. (lol asians)

Anyway, is it a problem? or is it only a problem if I view it as a problem?
To be honest, I'm neutral as I'm not sure what I want.
user
In a relationship for 2 years, but only see each other 2-3 times at most every month. Half of our relationship is spent on long distance, is this a relationship? I don't know if I can accept it,
assistant
We go to the same college, although he lives a little further away. 
We've been together for 2 years now but throughout our relationship - we only see each other 2-3 times a month. Can I call it a relationship? we both lack experience in this area as you can see. He is awful when it comes to making plans, and is a workaholic.
but a majority of our relationship is spent on texting each other and when we meet, we always do the same thing.

I have been getting mixed opinions;
1. If you're happy, that's fine. Especially if you're busy
2. That's too little, if he cared then he would make more time for you
3. Are you sure this is a relationship? 

I don't know if it's a relationship. Maybe it is, but just an odd one.
We will start working in a few months time, and our hometown is 4 hours away from each other.
Matters are more complicated because my parents don't like the idea of me being in a relationship. (lol asians)

Anyway, is it a problem? or is it only a problem if I view it as a problem?
To be honest, I'm neutral as I'm not sure what I want.
user
I'm [f/19] not sure about my relationship. Is it a problem or is it only a problem if I view it as a problem?
assistant