I have always believed that Love was dumb, it took a hold of all my friends and made them act irrationally. I was not into playing that game, that is, until I met him. We were friends instantly, spent all our time together and this continued until now. One month shy of two years. 

This boy has told me he wants to stay with me but have sex with other people. He has downloaded tinder behind my back, he has random girls on snapchat he talks too, and worst of all I am still madly in love with him and want him to be in my life forever.

Love is so messed up. I should know better but I keep trying to reason that he will stop because he knows how badly it upsets me.  Its almost compulsive. He is so cute I dont know why he feels like he needs a confidence boost from these random ( truthfully not so cute girls) when I would do anything for him. He always has an excuse and if he doesn't he just gets mad and blows up so there is no chance of a good discussion.

We have decided to take a break, not break up. And see how the time apart makes us feel about eachother. I'm still texting him ..even though according to a majority of this subreddit you should stay out of contact with you man.

I feel like I'm avoiding doing all the right things to help myself but in reality I feel so lost but in love. I don't want to ruin anything good but if its bad I need to know now and leave this bastard for real. No "break" like Ross and Rachel but an honest to goodness goodbye forever we cant be friends if this continues
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Don't know if I should break up with my boyfriend but I'm confused how to go about
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I have always believed that Love was dumb, it took a hold of all my friends and made them act irrationally. I was not into playing that game, that is, until I met him. We were friends instantly, spent all our time together and this continued until now. One month shy of two years. 

This boy has told me he wants to stay with me but have sex with other people. He has downloaded tinder behind my back, he has random girls on snapchat he talks too, and worst of all I am still madly in love with him and want him to be in my life forever.

Love is so messed up. I should know better but I keep trying to reason that he will stop because he knows how badly it upsets me.  Its almost compulsive. He is so cute I dont know why he feels like he needs a confidence boost from these random ( truthfully not so cute girls) when I would do anything for him. He always has an excuse and if he doesn't he just gets mad and blows up so there is no chance of a good discussion.

We have decided to take a break, not break up. And see how the time apart makes us feel about eachother. I'm still texting him ..even though according to a majority of this subreddit you should stay out of contact with you man.

I feel like I'm avoiding doing all the right things to help myself but in reality I feel so lost but in love. I don't want to ruin anything good but if its bad I need to know now and leave this bastard for real. No "break" like Ross and Rachel but an honest to goodness goodbye forever we cant be friends if this continues
user
I broke up with my boyfriend of two years. I want him to stay in my life
assistant