I've been having issue with a girl that I like, last week I had to deal with a friend being sad because they lost a beloved family member. It meant multiple calls at nigh and sometimes midnight trains to their place to help them feel better. Needless to say I was stressed, other than that I've been talking to this really nice girl. We seemed to get along well, so I asked her on a date for Saturday. She said she was free so we agreed to that day, fast forward to about Friday, I asked her if she was still up for Saturday. She said she couldn't because something came up due to school.

That's cool, I mean things happen and it's no ones fault. Just reschedule and leave it at that. That's how I thought I was coming off but I guess it wasn't mutual. To be honest it felt like she wasn't meeting me halfway when try to reschedule and I expressed that. I said that if she honestly just didn't want to go out with me that I would have appreciated the honesty. Now this lead to a bit of a misunderstanding where she thought I was implying that she wasn't being entirely honest with me. I didn't really notice that I had done that until after she mentioned it.

It's just that my mind had been really preoccupied and honestly I was looking forward to a nice day out after such a shitty week so maybe i felt a little more upset than usual. I of course apologized and explained that I hadn't been myself for a couple days due to this unforeseen circumstance. I think she's mad, she hasn't really texted me back since Friday, I got some advice form a friend of mine (who is a girl) that maybe she was waiting for me to make the first move in contact so i texted hi a day ago but so far it's been nothin.

I just don't really know what to do at this point. I feel as if the only thing I can do now is just wait it out and she if she texts back. But that makes me feel so powerless, I've always been one to take charge in situations and this waiting period is just adding onto stress that i already had.
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Been Stressed due to a friends grief, was upset a girl cancelled plans for out date. Now she's mad.
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I've been having issue with a girl that I like, last week I had to deal with a friend being sad because they lost a beloved family member. It meant multiple calls at nigh and sometimes midnight trains to their place to help them feel better. Needless to say I was stressed, other than that I've been talking to this really nice girl. We seemed to get along well, so I asked her on a date for Saturday. She said she was free so we agreed to that day, fast forward to about Friday, I asked her if she was still up for Saturday. She said she couldn't because something came up due to school.

That's cool, I mean things happen and it's no ones fault. Just reschedule and leave it at that. That's how I thought I was coming off but I guess it wasn't mutual. To be honest it felt like she wasn't meeting me halfway when try to reschedule and I expressed that. I said that if she honestly just didn't want to go out with me that I would have appreciated the honesty. Now this lead to a bit of a misunderstanding where she thought I was implying that she wasn't being entirely honest with me. I didn't really notice that I had done that until after she mentioned it.

It's just that my mind had been really preoccupied and honestly I was looking forward to a nice day out after such a shitty week so maybe i felt a little more upset than usual. I of course apologized and explained that I hadn't been myself for a couple days due to this unforeseen circumstance. I think she's mad, she hasn't really texted me back since Friday, I got some advice form a friend of mine (who is a girl) that maybe she was waiting for me to make the first move in contact so i texted hi a day ago but so far it's been nothin.

I just don't really know what to do at this point. I feel as if the only thing I can do now is just wait it out and she if she texts back. But that makes me feel so powerless, I've always been one to take charge in situations and this waiting period is just adding onto stress that i already had.
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Asked a girl out on a date and she said she couldn't because she was busy with school. I convinced her to reschedule for later but she said she
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