Need some advice on this one. Met 27/F through online dating back in November. Got to meet her in December just before the holidays and we hit it off, similar background, some shared interests, and an obvious desire to go out again. We agreed to hold off until after xmas and new years since that's a complicated time to start dating new people.

Our first date after new years was a day date on a Sunday, very relaxing and we both seemed to have a good time. Subsequent date (in Jan.) was dinner/movie (traditional, I know), and another dinner a few weeks later (now Feb.). No sex, but there has been some kissing/intimacy.

I am frustrated at the large gaps in time between our dates, and that doesn't seem to be improving. She travels a lot for work, whereas I travel only occasionally. It's now February and it seems bizarre to me to only be a few dates in with her. I genuinely like her and want to build something positive, however I have avoided talking to her about this as I can't gauge if she's just taking things slow or whether I am being kept at arms length due to other people in her life. She's travelling again over valentine's day, which sucks. Left with the question, do I just relax, go with the flow, keep going on dates, and let the chips fall where they may?
user
Met a girl, not sure if she is taking things slow or am I being held at arms
assistant
Need some advice on this one. Met 27/F through online dating back in November. Got to meet her in December just before the holidays and we hit it off, similar background, some shared interests, and an obvious desire to go out again. We agreed to hold off until after xmas and new years since that's a complicated time to start dating new people.

Our first date after new years was a day date on a Sunday, very relaxing and we both seemed to have a good time. Subsequent date (in Jan.) was dinner/movie (traditional, I know), and another dinner a few weeks later (now Feb.). No sex, but there has been some kissing/intimacy.

I am frustrated at the large gaps in time between our dates, and that doesn't seem to be improving. She travels a lot for work, whereas I travel only occasionally. It's now February and it seems bizarre to me to only be a few dates in with her. I genuinely like her and want to build something positive, however I have avoided talking to her about this as I can't gauge if she's just taking things slow or whether I am being kept at arms length due to other people in her life. She's travelling again over valentine's day, which sucks. Left with the question, do I just relax, go with the flow, keep going on dates, and let the chips fall where they may?
user
Met, stayed friend, no sex, lots of dates with her, she's travelling but idk if she's just taking
assistant