Here's the deal:
I'm kind of madly in ~something~ with my friend. I realized this just before he entered into a relationship with his boyfriend. I finally told him after months of being utterly petrified of the prospect, and it turns out that it's mutual. Not just a mutual attraction, but in his words "You're the first person i think of when I wake up and I want to spend literally all my time with you." He said that he's wanted this for basically two years, and wants to build something too, but circumstances are getting in the way.

Here's the rub: He's currently dating this guy. He told me he can't see that relationship lasting much longer. He basically said he feels a much deeper connection with me but the current situation can't be changed, since he and his BF are both working together this summer. Even worse, I'm graduating, and I'll probably be far from school.
I know this sounds like whiny and star-crossed, and I figure the suggestions will be "move-on" and "don't even start a LDR". It's just...as someone who is demisexual, and hasn't really felt this way about ANYONE before, I just really want to know if there's a way this could work out. I really can't imagine feeling this way about anyone ever again.
user
I'm falling for a friend. It's mutual but he's currently in a relationship (and I'm graduating soon). Can this work out?
assistant
Here's the deal:
I'm kind of madly in ~something~ with my friend. I realized this just before he entered into a relationship with his boyfriend. I finally told him after months of being utterly petrified of the prospect, and it turns out that it's mutual. Not just a mutual attraction, but in his words "You're the first person i think of when I wake up and I want to spend literally all my time with you." He said that he's wanted this for basically two years, and wants to build something too, but circumstances are getting in the way.

Here's the rub: He's currently dating this guy. He told me he can't see that relationship lasting much longer. He basically said he feels a much deeper connection with me but the current situation can't be changed, since he and his BF are both working together this summer. Even worse, I'm graduating, and I'll probably be far from school.
I know this sounds like whiny and star-crossed, and I figure the suggestions will be "move-on" and "don't even start a LDR". It's just...as someone who is demisexual, and hasn't really felt this way about ANYONE before, I just really want to know if there's a way this could work out. I really can't imagine feeling this way about anyone ever again.
user
Am falling for a friend, he's currently in a relationship but wants out, I'm graduating soon and I want to know if there's a way this can work out.
assistant