Hi reddit, some background:

Me and my boyfriend fought a lot, but loved each other very much. We met while we were working together in foreign country, got back in the States and fell in love, started living together, etc. 

 I was very fond of him and we were there for each other in every aspect of our lives. A few days ago, he was acting very weird and broke up. I was in shock but I tried to keep it sane. After a few days I called him and said I wanted to talk, just to make things clean and talk about the reasons for breakup. 

 He confessed to me that after we broke up, he hooked up with some girl that he thought he could have a relationship with, but after a hook up felt really bad and realized that he doesn't want to be with her. He said he wanted to try with me again, and I really want it to work. There are lot of differences in our personalities, we can change some things that bother us and some not. 

 We talked a lot and came up to conclusion that we want to see if we can make it work or not, because we would regret if we don't try. 

 I'm confused about it. I love him and want to spend a whole life with him, but don't know if I can bare that he was with another woman after we broke up. I know he didn't cheat and maybe that was the fair way to try something else without hurting me directly while in relationship. But, maybe it helped him to realize what we have is special and that's why he was honest all the way about it. 

 He's a really sweet person and I don't want to loose him but I don't want to be a consolation prize. I'm ready to work hard to fix things.

I'm really bangin' my head about this, can't sleep, eat or whatever.
user
Boyfriend broke up with me and now wants to get back together with me. Don't know if I can be with him. I'm really confused about
assistant
Hi reddit, some background:

Me and my boyfriend fought a lot, but loved each other very much. We met while we were working together in foreign country, got back in the States and fell in love, started living together, etc. 

 I was very fond of him and we were there for each other in every aspect of our lives. A few days ago, he was acting very weird and broke up. I was in shock but I tried to keep it sane. After a few days I called him and said I wanted to talk, just to make things clean and talk about the reasons for breakup. 

 He confessed to me that after we broke up, he hooked up with some girl that he thought he could have a relationship with, but after a hook up felt really bad and realized that he doesn't want to be with her. He said he wanted to try with me again, and I really want it to work. There are lot of differences in our personalities, we can change some things that bother us and some not. 

 We talked a lot and came up to conclusion that we want to see if we can make it work or not, because we would regret if we don't try. 

 I'm confused about it. I love him and want to spend a whole life with him, but don't know if I can bare that he was with another woman after we broke up. I know he didn't cheat and maybe that was the fair way to try something else without hurting me directly while in relationship. But, maybe it helped him to realize what we have is special and that's why he was honest all the way about it. 

 He's a really sweet person and I don't want to loose him but I don't want to be a consolation prize. I'm ready to work hard to fix things.

I'm really bangin' my head about this, can't sleep, eat or whatever.
user
Boyfriend broke up with me while in relationship, I want to make things work, but don't know how.
assistant