In full disclosure, not everything this year has been bad. I graduated and almost immediately found a pretty good job, so there's always that to fall back on. But the things I care about most all went horribly wrong.

I come from a very tight-knit family that lives in the same city as I do. As a result, even at my age (I'm 28), I would still visit several times a week and we remained close. That changed when my father died in April after being diagnosed with cancer about two months before. My mother has of course changed as a result of this, and finds it difficult to provide comfort for her two sons. That is of course understandable. I fortunately had a great listener: my girlfriend. Unfortunately, however, she had been studying abroad since February, so that was mostly limited to Skype calls. Not ideal, but at least it was something.

I wasn't that happy with her going abroad. We had been dating since April last year, and only got together in October. When she said she was off, I explained to her my unease was because my other ex-girlfriend (I've now had two) was away for half a year only to break up with me the moment she came back. You spend a long time hoping to see someone again, and then suddenly you run into them everywhere but it's painful. That sucks. She said to me that this wasn't going to happen to us.

Of course, you can't control the way you feel and it did happen to us. She broke up with me last Wednesday, two days after she came back, very much out of the blue ("I love you" messages were sent by her only a day before). I had no clue it was coming. So again I spent half a year waiting to be reunited in what was arguably the darkest period of my life, only to again be disappointed the moment she came back. Now I'm afraid of running into her.
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I had a really shitty year. I'm worried
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In full disclosure, not everything this year has been bad. I graduated and almost immediately found a pretty good job, so there's always that to fall back on. But the things I care about most all went horribly wrong.

I come from a very tight-knit family that lives in the same city as I do. As a result, even at my age (I'm 28), I would still visit several times a week and we remained close. That changed when my father died in April after being diagnosed with cancer about two months before. My mother has of course changed as a result of this, and finds it difficult to provide comfort for her two sons. That is of course understandable. I fortunately had a great listener: my girlfriend. Unfortunately, however, she had been studying abroad since February, so that was mostly limited to Skype calls. Not ideal, but at least it was something.

I wasn't that happy with her going abroad. We had been dating since April last year, and only got together in October. When she said she was off, I explained to her my unease was because my other ex-girlfriend (I've now had two) was away for half a year only to break up with me the moment she came back. You spend a long time hoping to see someone again, and then suddenly you run into them everywhere but it's painful. That sucks. She said to me that this wasn't going to happen to us.

Of course, you can't control the way you feel and it did happen to us. She broke up with me last Wednesday, two days after she came back, very much out of the blue ("I love you" messages were sent by her only a day before). I had no clue it was coming. So again I spent half a year waiting to be reunited in what was arguably the darkest period of my life, only to again be disappointed the moment she came back. Now I'm afraid of running into her.
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Dad died, girlfriend left me within a span
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