Hey Guys, 19M here and I've been single my entire life (up until last week). I've known the girl I am seeing right now for 8 months and she is amazing: cute, funny, nerdy, smart etc etc but I have problems of my own: I just can't put my feelings into a relationship. 

I cared and really really liked her at first, but now it almost seems like texting her is a *drag*. I'll pretend to go to sleep because I don't want to text and just enjoy my time. But it's not just her, I personally *loathe* texting people all the time. But when I go home to see her (long-distance relationship), I just don't have it in me. I'm tired and would rather see friends i've know my whole life than see her. 

This problem has happened to me numerous times: I will really like a girl, treat her right and get to the relationship point, but then I lose all interest. Like absolutely all. In fact, all I really want is to be able to spend time as I choose and not *feel obligated to text and hangout with her*. This feeling of forced hanging out (even if it is once every 2 weeks) is getting me down, and it just doesn't feel right. 

Is there something wrong with me? Cause there's nothing wrong with these girls and I feel extremely guilty, as though i'm consciously playing with them for no reason. I just want to be able to spend my time and feelings as I choose, and not be obligated into anything. And it's really complicated because we have many mutual friends and I just don't feel the same way she does when she tells me her feelings.
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Need serious advice: Lose interest in girl after she gets feelings for me, because
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Hey Guys, 19M here and I've been single my entire life (up until last week). I've known the girl I am seeing right now for 8 months and she is amazing: cute, funny, nerdy, smart etc etc but I have problems of my own: I just can't put my feelings into a relationship. 

I cared and really really liked her at first, but now it almost seems like texting her is a *drag*. I'll pretend to go to sleep because I don't want to text and just enjoy my time. But it's not just her, I personally *loathe* texting people all the time. But when I go home to see her (long-distance relationship), I just don't have it in me. I'm tired and would rather see friends i've know my whole life than see her. 

This problem has happened to me numerous times: I will really like a girl, treat her right and get to the relationship point, but then I lose all interest. Like absolutely all. In fact, all I really want is to be able to spend time as I choose and not *feel obligated to text and hangout with her*. This feeling of forced hanging out (even if it is once every 2 weeks) is getting me down, and it just doesn't feel right. 

Is there something wrong with me? Cause there's nothing wrong with these girls and I feel extremely guilty, as though i'm consciously playing with them for no reason. I just want to be able to spend my time and feelings as I choose, and not be obligated into anything. And it's really complicated because we have many mutual friends and I just don't feel the same way she does when she tells me her feelings.
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I don't care enough to have real relationships, and I just want to be
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