I have been dating this girl, let's call her Bonny, for about 9 months now. We lived in the same town (and dated) for about 5 months before she moved home with her parents which is 2 hours away. Currently, I go to school full-time and work on Sundays so I go over to her house every weekend from Fri night to Sun morn then I drive home for work.

Bonny and I have plans to move in together (our own place) in May once I finish school. But with the current situation, we rarely spend time together given our limited availability and because her parents are a bit controlling (the parents thing is a different issue that she and I are working out, not the main point of this post). 

I have started to feel distant from her. I used to be super excited to talk to her when she got off work or when going over for the weekend. But now, I feel numb inside and don't feel the same fire/connection to her. She has commented on how she thinks she is losing me. I still love and care about her very much though. I want to spend the rest of my life with her and we both feel the same love for each other. We have talked a lot about our future together. There are no major issues in our relationship. We communicate very well and have great chemistry.

I also suffer from depression which is another issue. But I am getting help for this and I don't believe my depression is the cause of my lack of feelings for her. My life is pretty stressful with work and school.

What can I do to rekindle the fire between us? Is it normal to feel this numbness or distance from your SO when situations like this occur?
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I'm starting to feel detached from my girlfriend given my limited availability and her controlling parents. How can I rekindle the love and fire
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I have been dating this girl, let's call her Bonny, for about 9 months now. We lived in the same town (and dated) for about 5 months before she moved home with her parents which is 2 hours away. Currently, I go to school full-time and work on Sundays so I go over to her house every weekend from Fri night to Sun morn then I drive home for work.

Bonny and I have plans to move in together (our own place) in May once I finish school. But with the current situation, we rarely spend time together given our limited availability and because her parents are a bit controlling (the parents thing is a different issue that she and I are working out, not the main point of this post). 

I have started to feel distant from her. I used to be super excited to talk to her when she got off work or when going over for the weekend. But now, I feel numb inside and don't feel the same fire/connection to her. She has commented on how she thinks she is losing me. I still love and care about her very much though. I want to spend the rest of my life with her and we both feel the same love for each other. We have talked a lot about our future together. There are no major issues in our relationship. We communicate very well and have great chemistry.

I also suffer from depression which is another issue. But I am getting help for this and I don't believe my depression is the cause of my lack of feelings for her. My life is pretty stressful with work and school.

What can I do to rekindle the fire between us? Is it normal to feel this numbness or distance from your SO when situations like this occur?
user
I have been spending a lot of time with my girlfriend. She has told me she feels like she is losing me because I
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