So, we are not exclusive and he refuses to commit completely because of other things in his life that are not related. But we love each other so that's not a big deal. We talk 5 or 6 times a day and see each other 1 or 2 times a week. He used to text first thing in the morning and last thing at night, but he stopped a few months ago. If I text him he answers right away, but he usually waits for me to initiate it.
He also usually waits for me to suggest a time to get together. I'll say, when can I see you or when do you have time for me this weekend, or do you want to get dinner tomorrow night. He always says yes. When we are together, he's a normal BF.
I have been getting increasingly annoyed that he doesn't initiate dates or texts or phone calls. I feel like that indicates he doesn't really care if he doesn't talk to me or see me. I've told him this before, but he kind of waves it off.
This weekend has been weird, and I haven't seen him or heard from him. Tonight I texted him "do you have dinner plans? I don't" He replied, "are you asking me to dinner?" I said, "no, I'm tired of always being the one to ask you. If you would like to see me, you will ask me. You certainly know that I want to be with you." He replied, "i'm gonna stay home. Good night."
Now, I don't know if he intended to break up, or what. And I don't know if I want to stay in the relationship if he continues this way. And by saying good night, I assume that means he won't be texting me any more this evening, which is completely not normal. I think I'm more angry than sad, but I'm also terrified because I do love him. Thoughts?
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BF gets upset that I initiate everything (texts, calls, etc.) but doesn't initiate anything himself. He
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So, we are not exclusive and he refuses to commit completely because of other things in his life that are not related. But we love each other so that's not a big deal. We talk 5 or 6 times a day and see each other 1 or 2 times a week. He used to text first thing in the morning and last thing at night, but he stopped a few months ago. If I text him he answers right away, but he usually waits for me to initiate it.
He also usually waits for me to suggest a time to get together. I'll say, when can I see you or when do you have time for me this weekend, or do you want to get dinner tomorrow night. He always says yes. When we are together, he's a normal BF.
I have been getting increasingly annoyed that he doesn't initiate dates or texts or phone calls. I feel like that indicates he doesn't really care if he doesn't talk to me or see me. I've told him this before, but he kind of waves it off.
This weekend has been weird, and I haven't seen him or heard from him. Tonight I texted him "do you have dinner plans? I don't" He replied, "are you asking me to dinner?" I said, "no, I'm tired of always being the one to ask you. If you would like to see me, you will ask me. You certainly know that I want to be with you." He replied, "i'm gonna stay home. Good night."
Now, I don't know if he intended to break up, or what. And I don't know if I want to stay in the relationship if he continues this way. And by saying good night, I assume that means he won't be texting me any more this evening, which is completely not normal. I think I'm more angry than sad, but I'm also terrified because I do love him. Thoughts?
user
Should I stay in a relationship if he rarely initiates texts, calls or dates? Or did
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