Everything about our relationship is great, except the sex. She told me that to her, it's not very important. It's just not a big deal to her. She said it feels nice, but that's all it really is, I guess. And whenever we do have sex, it's always me to initiate it. 

I really don't know how to explain it.. we've talked, but nothing changed. We had sex for the first time in 2 weeks (longest we'd ever gone) after talking, but we were drunk, and like always, I was the one to start it. I don't even like to try because I feel I'll just get rejected, which is what happens a lot of the time.

Due to my sexual frustration, it's affecting our relationship, and causing issues that weren't there before. We fight and argue more, I tend to snap very easily at her, and can't really take jokes as well any more. I hate it, because I really do love this girl, and she makes me happy. But I can't keep going like this.

I really don't know what to do. I feel like I come off as like a sex addict or something because I always want to.. but that's just because I'm really not satisfied... before the two weeks, it was maybe twice a week. Months before that it was nearly every day, sometimes more than once. It's just been slowly getting worse and worse, I guess. 

The worst part is knowing she doesn't care about it, but it's so important to me. I need the intimacy and physical contact. I need her to initiate it, and I need her to want it... but she just doesn't. And it just makes me so incredibly sad.
user
Feeling very neglected sexually by girlfriend,
assistant
Everything about our relationship is great, except the sex. She told me that to her, it's not very important. It's just not a big deal to her. She said it feels nice, but that's all it really is, I guess. And whenever we do have sex, it's always me to initiate it. 

I really don't know how to explain it.. we've talked, but nothing changed. We had sex for the first time in 2 weeks (longest we'd ever gone) after talking, but we were drunk, and like always, I was the one to start it. I don't even like to try because I feel I'll just get rejected, which is what happens a lot of the time.

Due to my sexual frustration, it's affecting our relationship, and causing issues that weren't there before. We fight and argue more, I tend to snap very easily at her, and can't really take jokes as well any more. I hate it, because I really do love this girl, and she makes me happy. But I can't keep going like this.

I really don't know what to do. I feel like I come off as like a sex addict or something because I always want to.. but that's just because I'm really not satisfied... before the two weeks, it was maybe twice a week. Months before that it was nearly every day, sometimes more than once. It's just been slowly getting worse and worse, I guess. 

The worst part is knowing she doesn't care about it, but it's so important to me. I need the intimacy and physical contact. I need her to initiate it, and I need her to want it... but she just doesn't. And it just makes me so incredibly sad.
user
Girlfriend doesn't care about sex, and
assistant