I have known my best friend Chu since birth, and he is one year older than I am. Our parents call us cousins, but for all I know, only I currently know we're related because our mothers were from a similar clan. We always talk and play together until recently because of work and school, but, we enjoy any time we can!

A week ago, my "cousin" Po came to visit me. Po is actually cousins with Chu, so I took the opportunity to learn how Chu is doing since he gets more time to talk with him nowadays. Po told me that Chu is usually talking to him about how he is worried and sad. I'm quite concerned because Chu hasn't brought up anything about this, and I recently noticed that we haven't talked about anything involving our lives lately. Mainly, we talk about stuff we hear in the entertainment and art industry, but at the same time he isn't as lively as he used to be.  I worry that he has something sad to hide for me and also others, as he won't tell anyone but Po (Po is very open, so I could see why). 

As much as I don't want to invade his personal life, I still feel a drive to do something. Po told he shouldn't have mentioned this in the first place. Chu is kind plus he can understand my poor speech (I sometimes mix up words or forget our discussion quickly) and I feel as if he's doing more for me than I have for him. We have always been able to rely on each other when needed, so I feel compelled to help.

Thing is, I don't know how.  If I questioned him during our talk and play sessions, I may make him feel pressured. We are both shy, so he would probably not answer and I would already have troubles asking. I would really appreciate suggestions on how to tackle this. We're going to meet up next week to catch-up after school work if that helps.
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I have known my best friend Chu since birth, and he is one year older than I am. Our parents call us cousins, but for all I know, only I currently know we're related because our mothers were from a similar clan. We always talk and play together until recently because of work and school, but, we enjoy any time we can!

A week ago, my "cousin" Po came to visit me. Po is actually cousins with Chu, so I took the opportunity to learn how Chu is doing since he gets more time to talk with him nowadays. Po told me that Chu is usually talking to him about how he is worried and sad. I'm quite concerned because Chu hasn't brought up anything about this, and I recently noticed that we haven't talked about anything involving our lives lately. Mainly, we talk about stuff we hear in the entertainment and art industry, but at the same time he isn't as lively as he used to be.  I worry that he has something sad to hide for me and also others, as he won't tell anyone but Po (Po is very open, so I could see why). 

As much as I don't want to invade his personal life, I still feel a drive to do something. Po told he shouldn't have mentioned this in the first place. Chu is kind plus he can understand my poor speech (I sometimes mix up words or forget our discussion quickly) and I feel as if he's doing more for me than I have for him. We have always been able to rely on each other when needed, so I feel compelled to help.

Thing is, I don't know how.  If I questioned him during our talk and play sessions, I may make him feel pressured. We are both shy, so he would probably not answer and I would already have troubles asking. I would really appreciate suggestions on how to tackle this. We're going to meet up next week to catch-up after school work if that helps.
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My best friend is
assistant