My girlfriend and I have been dating for 5 months. We were together in person for 2 months but have been long distance for the past 3 months. When we were together for the first two months everything was fine, but since we've been apart for the past three months we've had some communication issues. She said she needs to feel like I'm still chasing her. This takes me by surprise because I feel like everything is generally going well. I've honestly never been this open and talkative with any woman that I've ever dating before. She literally said 

>I really need you to TALK, because sometimes I just feel the same as not having a boyfriend...alone. I don't know if you think that just because I'm already your girlfriend you don't have to win me anymore or what.

When we were together in person everything was fine. If I was going to buy lunch, I'd check and see if she wanted me to get something for her. I'd just kiss her randomly if we were out somewhere or just see if she wanted to go out for a walk. But we can't do that for now since we are long distance. 

The thing is, I feel like we generally communicate really well. We text each  other pretty much everyday through Whatsapp and talk a few times a week through Skype. I'm not really sure what else she wants. We agree on all of the major relationship issues (religion, kids, sex, money) so I don't think this is something to break up over.

We've talked about this before and I was never really the gushy type. When we were together she could see my actions and know that I was thinking about her so she really didn't mind that I didn't say it that much.

Even though neither of us were virgins when we first started dating this is the first serious relationship for both of us. 

I'm not sure what to do. Does anybody have any words of advice?
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My girlfriend and I have been dating for 5 months. We were together in person for 2 months but have been long distance for the past 3 months. When we were together for the first two months everything was fine, but since we've been apart for the past three months we've had some communication issues. She said she needs to feel like I'm still chasing her. This takes me by surprise because I feel like everything is generally going well. I've honestly never been this open and talkative with any woman that I've ever dating before. She literally said 

>I really need you to TALK, because sometimes I just feel the same as not having a boyfriend...alone. I don't know if you think that just because I'm already your girlfriend you don't have to win me anymore or what.

When we were together in person everything was fine. If I was going to buy lunch, I'd check and see if she wanted me to get something for her. I'd just kiss her randomly if we were out somewhere or just see if she wanted to go out for a walk. But we can't do that for now since we are long distance. 

The thing is, I feel like we generally communicate really well. We text each  other pretty much everyday through Whatsapp and talk a few times a week through Skype. I'm not really sure what else she wants. We agree on all of the major relationship issues (religion, kids, sex, money) so I don't think this is something to break up over.

We've talked about this before and I was never really the gushy type. When we were together she could see my actions and know that I was thinking about her so she really didn't mind that I didn't say it that much.

Even though neither of us were virgins when we first started dating this is the first serious relationship for both of us. 

I'm not sure what to do. Does anybody have any words of advice?
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Long distance relationship is not
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