What title says-- we're on our mid 20s, and my friend (F) has been seeing this guy for about three weeks, who has a gf, and is hence cheating on her. All his friends know he's cheating on her and they don't care about it, seems like this is something he's done before. Gf obviously doesn't know.
What title says-- we're on our mid 20s, and my friend (F) has been seeing this guy for about three weeks, who has a gf, and is hence cheating on her. All his friends know he's cheating on her and they don't care about it, seems like this is something he's done before. Gf obviously doesn't know.

My friend and cheater are not serious, just hooking up, *our* friends that know she's hooking up with him think it's okay. Except me. Obviously I'm not okay with cheating, I think cheater is an asshole, deserves the worst happening to him, and should stop both relationships, *BUT* I think that doesn't make my friend the good/innocent one, after all, cheating's happening because she keeps enabling it and isn't stopping it. I don't even know the gf but I pity this is happening behind her back; she's going to be the hurted one in the end.

What'd you do if your friend did this, what'd you tell her? Should I just give a f**k and keep going, or tell my friend to put an end to it, if only for gf? Or it's cheater the only bad one here?
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Friend keeps seeing cheating guy who's cheating
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What title says-- we're on our mid 20s, and my friend (F) has been seeing this guy for about three weeks, who has a gf, and is hence cheating on her. All his friends know he's cheating on her and they don't care about it, seems like this is something he's done before. Gf obviously doesn't know.
What title says-- we're on our mid 20s, and my friend (F) has been seeing this guy for about three weeks, who has a gf, and is hence cheating on her. All his friends know he's cheating on her and they don't care about it, seems like this is something he's done before. Gf obviously doesn't know.

My friend and cheater are not serious, just hooking up, *our* friends that know she's hooking up with him think it's okay. Except me. Obviously I'm not okay with cheating, I think cheater is an asshole, deserves the worst happening to him, and should stop both relationships, *BUT* I think that doesn't make my friend the good/innocent one, after all, cheating's happening because she keeps enabling it and isn't stopping it. I don't even know the gf but I pity this is happening behind her back; she's going to be the hurted one in the end.

What'd you do if your friend did this, what'd you tell her? Should I just give a f**k and keep going, or tell my friend to put an end to it, if only for gf? Or it's cheater the only bad one here?
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friend keeps seeing cheater who's cheating on
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