This account is just becoming Secret Time...but anyways:

I was wondering if anyone's been in this sort of situation. I'm seeing someone I care deeply about (sure, the Love thing) and they're going through some rough times related to loss and just general depression (cutting, etc.). Recently, the cutting has started up again (it had only happened for a short period of time before and I found out pretty soon afterwards/at the end of it/ended it) and I don't know. It makes me upset, and is draining, and I think it's sort of evidently altering how I feel about them 'romantically' speaking, which I think in turn is just making it worse. 

The kicker is they think therapy in general is stupid and won't help.
user
I'm seeing someone I care about get cut again and they're getting depressed, and I'm kind of in love with them and don't know what
assistant
This account is just becoming Secret Time...but anyways:

I was wondering if anyone's been in this sort of situation. I'm seeing someone I care deeply about (sure, the Love thing) and they're going through some rough times related to loss and just general depression (cutting, etc.). Recently, the cutting has started up again (it had only happened for a short period of time before and I found out pretty soon afterwards/at the end of it/ended it) and I don't know. It makes me upset, and is draining, and I think it's sort of evidently altering how I feel about them 'romantically' speaking, which I think in turn is just making it worse. 

The kicker is they think therapy in general is stupid and won't help.
user
My boyfriend's trying to get into therapy in general and I'm not sure if I should be even considering that.
assistant