Basically, we've only been together about a month. I have this tendency to adapt my personality a little too much to suit who I'm dating. I've been working on this a lot recently, but I worry that because the man I'm with right now is so affectionate and so loving, my feelings for him are only this intense because I know he feels that way. 

I'm also incredibly happy that he came into my life now, when I was really in need of the kind of positive attention that he brings into my life, so maybe my feelings are also a result of being so grateful to have him. 

Maybe it shouldn't be an issue that I can't tell, but I want to know that I can love him this much completely independently of what he feels for me. I also know that I have a tendency to create problems when I should sit back and just enjoy being this happy. Maybe I'm overthinking the whole thing. Thanks for listening, Reddit.
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Have tendency to adapt personality too much to match current partners affection; worry that my intense feelings for boyfriend are a
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Basically, we've only been together about a month. I have this tendency to adapt my personality a little too much to suit who I'm dating. I've been working on this a lot recently, but I worry that because the man I'm with right now is so affectionate and so loving, my feelings for him are only this intense because I know he feels that way. 

I'm also incredibly happy that he came into my life now, when I was really in need of the kind of positive attention that he brings into my life, so maybe my feelings are also a result of being so grateful to have him. 

Maybe it shouldn't be an issue that I can't tell, but I want to know that I can love him this much completely independently of what he feels for me. I also know that I have a tendency to create problems when I should sit back and just enjoy being this happy. Maybe I'm overthinking the whole thing. Thanks for listening, Reddit.
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I have a tendency to adapt my personality too much to suit how my boyfriend feels about me. Wondering if this
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