So my [23F] girlfriend wanted to hang out with her single, female friend. The single, female friend doesn't like it when I tag along because she feels like the third wheel, which I understand. (Come to think of it my girlfriend, her single, female friend, and myself have all never really hung out together...) My girlfriend asked what I wanted to do that night, and I said I would just stay in for the night and told her to have fun. I then asked where they were going and my girlfriend was like, "I don't know, maybe [Donut Lounge]." So my girlfriend in her friend go out and have a ladies night out. Good for them.

Fast forward to a few days later and I'm with my girlfriend looking through my her pictures. I asked where the location of a particular picture was taken from the night and she tells me "Starlight Pub". (My girlfriend and I go to "Starlight Pub" all the time.) I asked my girlfriend why she didn't just tell me she was going to "Starlight Pub"? She tells me she didn't want me to get jealous that she and her single, female friend were going there. She then admitted she had suggested and planned to go to "Starlight Pub" all along. She says it's not a big deal, but if it's not a big deal then why didn't she just tell me? I really don't care that they went to "Starlight Pub", but how come she just didn't tell me she was going there? I'm confused.
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Girlfriend and her friend went to "Starlight Pub" and didn't tell me. How come she didn't tell me she was going there?
assistant
So my [23F] girlfriend wanted to hang out with her single, female friend. The single, female friend doesn't like it when I tag along because she feels like the third wheel, which I understand. (Come to think of it my girlfriend, her single, female friend, and myself have all never really hung out together...) My girlfriend asked what I wanted to do that night, and I said I would just stay in for the night and told her to have fun. I then asked where they were going and my girlfriend was like, "I don't know, maybe [Donut Lounge]." So my girlfriend in her friend go out and have a ladies night out. Good for them.

Fast forward to a few days later and I'm with my girlfriend looking through my her pictures. I asked where the location of a particular picture was taken from the night and she tells me "Starlight Pub". (My girlfriend and I go to "Starlight Pub" all the time.) I asked my girlfriend why she didn't just tell me she was going to "Starlight Pub"? She tells me she didn't want me to get jealous that she and her single, female friend were going there. She then admitted she had suggested and planned to go to "Starlight Pub" all along. She says it's not a big deal, but if it's not a big deal then why didn't she just tell me? I really don't care that they went to "Starlight Pub", but how come she just didn't tell me she was going there? I'm confused.
user
Girlfriend tells me where her and her female friend were going, but not where she was actually going. Why didn't she just tell me she was going
assistant