Without meaning to insult the entire female population, it's easiest (for the sake of this post) if we split the girls that I've met and only view them platonically and the girls that I've met and 'liked' into '*Type A*' and '*Type B*' respectively, I've found that 'Type A' girls have 'liked' me and wanted to be more than a friend whereas 'Type B' girls have usually only seen me as a friend. I feel that I don't act particularly differently around the two 'types' (at least not consciously) but this is how it usually pans out.

I'm a fun guy (I like to joke around), I'm well educated (engineer), sporty (I play soccer) and I've been told that I'm quite good looking by other girls (I've had a hard time believing that in the past but I've started to 'see it' in the last while). I don't really believe in 'leagues' when it comes to looks, etc. I will admit that looks do play a part for me when it comes to girls but I'm not so shallow that I'll go after the hottest girl in the room if she's an absolute bitch. However, I don't see any point in pursuing somebody that I don't find attractive in the slightest even if she is really cool - if there's no attraction there then it won't work out.

What I don't understand is why a 'Type A' girl would like me and a 'Type B' girl wouldn't? Surely it's not the case of the 'Type B' girls I'm going after are 'out of my league' and I should settle for a 'Type A'?

I suppose what spurred this post is there's a girl I'm chatting to at the minute who I'd consider to be a '10' and I don't want to mess it up. She's really funny and we get along very well plus she's extremely good looking to boot. 

Any advice, reddit?
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I'm very good at attracting people that I have no interest in but I have no idea how to attract people that I am interested in. I'm talking to a girl now and I don't want to mess
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Without meaning to insult the entire female population, it's easiest (for the sake of this post) if we split the girls that I've met and only view them platonically and the girls that I've met and 'liked' into '*Type A*' and '*Type B*' respectively, I've found that 'Type A' girls have 'liked' me and wanted to be more than a friend whereas 'Type B' girls have usually only seen me as a friend. I feel that I don't act particularly differently around the two 'types' (at least not consciously) but this is how it usually pans out.

I'm a fun guy (I like to joke around), I'm well educated (engineer), sporty (I play soccer) and I've been told that I'm quite good looking by other girls (I've had a hard time believing that in the past but I've started to 'see it' in the last while). I don't really believe in 'leagues' when it comes to looks, etc. I will admit that looks do play a part for me when it comes to girls but I'm not so shallow that I'll go after the hottest girl in the room if she's an absolute bitch. However, I don't see any point in pursuing somebody that I don't find attractive in the slightest even if she is really cool - if there's no attraction there then it won't work out.

What I don't understand is why a 'Type A' girl would like me and a 'Type B' girl wouldn't? Surely it's not the case of the 'Type B' girls I'm going after are 'out of my league' and I should settle for a 'Type A'?

I suppose what spurred this post is there's a girl I'm chatting to at the minute who I'd consider to be a '10' and I don't want to mess it up. She's really funny and we get along very well plus she's extremely good looking to boot. 

Any advice, reddit?
user
Why does a 'Type A' girl like me and a 'Type B' girl not?
assistant