reddit,

Im in a bit of a situation and was wondering what is the best way to go about it. I am currently in a relationship of 10 months, which is going great.

 Before this relationship i have dated another guy for a short amount of time, maybe 2 months. Lets call him Matt. Back then I let Matt know that I thought we didn't have a spark and would be better off as friends. Until this day, Matt sends me emails on a monthly basis  saying that he misses me and wants to try things again. I feel like he is really heart broken even though it was such a short period of time. I want (for his sake!) for him to get over it and just find someone who wants him just as much. I tried letting him know I have a boyfriend, I have tried being rational and gentle about it. I know this post might sound a bit narcissistic, but I genuinely just want this guy to move on because he really deserves a loving girlfriend!! So my question to you- is there anything I can do to get this guy confident enough to get really excited about someone else?
user
in a relationship, ex
assistant
reddit,

Im in a bit of a situation and was wondering what is the best way to go about it. I am currently in a relationship of 10 months, which is going great.

 Before this relationship i have dated another guy for a short amount of time, maybe 2 months. Lets call him Matt. Back then I let Matt know that I thought we didn't have a spark and would be better off as friends. Until this day, Matt sends me emails on a monthly basis  saying that he misses me and wants to try things again. I feel like he is really heart broken even though it was such a short period of time. I want (for his sake!) for him to get over it and just find someone who wants him just as much. I tried letting him know I have a boyfriend, I have tried being rational and gentle about it. I know this post might sound a bit narcissistic, but I genuinely just want this guy to move on because he really deserves a loving girlfriend!! So my question to you- is there anything I can do to get this guy confident enough to get really excited about someone else?
user
I want to get
assistant