I'm just gonna start this out by saying my mom and I have a good relationship usually. We argue, but we always make up soon after. I just finished my second year of college and moved back home for the summer and live with her, my stepdad, and two younger sisters. Right now, I work third shift and my mom is refusing to let me sleep past 2 because she insists that I'm wasting the day. I work 10 p.m. - 6:30 a.m. four or five days a week and usually don't make it home until 6:50 or so. It takes me a while to get to sleep, but normally I manage to go to sleep around 8. I've tried to explain that 6 hours of sleep isn't exactly ideal and no one comes home until around 6:30 p.m.  if not later, so I don't understand her issue here. I've tried to explain that most people need 7-8 hours of sleep and I have to sleep during the day, but she's not having it. 
This isn't the only issue, however. My girlfriend (F21) lives in the city where we go to school together and that's about an hour and a half away. I try to see her on the weekends (she can't come here because my stepdad isn't okay with me being gay), but my mom gets really upset. She's totally okay with me dating women, by the way. I would understand her point if she never saw me, but we hang out on week nights and on the weekends, her and my stepdad hang out with their friends. I just stay at home because I don't want to hang out with a group of mildly intoxicated 40 year olds. 
Last summer none of this was a problem because I worked with my mom Monday through Friday and I had friends to hang out with on the weekends, but now, I have a different job and a different group of friends who live back at school. I don't know what I should do here.
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My mom is making me do things I don't want to do and my
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I'm just gonna start this out by saying my mom and I have a good relationship usually. We argue, but we always make up soon after. I just finished my second year of college and moved back home for the summer and live with her, my stepdad, and two younger sisters. Right now, I work third shift and my mom is refusing to let me sleep past 2 because she insists that I'm wasting the day. I work 10 p.m. - 6:30 a.m. four or five days a week and usually don't make it home until 6:50 or so. It takes me a while to get to sleep, but normally I manage to go to sleep around 8. I've tried to explain that 6 hours of sleep isn't exactly ideal and no one comes home until around 6:30 p.m.  if not later, so I don't understand her issue here. I've tried to explain that most people need 7-8 hours of sleep and I have to sleep during the day, but she's not having it. 
This isn't the only issue, however. My girlfriend (F21) lives in the city where we go to school together and that's about an hour and a half away. I try to see her on the weekends (she can't come here because my stepdad isn't okay with me being gay), but my mom gets really upset. She's totally okay with me dating women, by the way. I would understand her point if she never saw me, but we hang out on week nights and on the weekends, her and my stepdad hang out with their friends. I just stay at home because I don't want to hang out with a group of mildly intoxicated 40 year olds. 
Last summer none of this was a problem because I worked with my mom Monday through Friday and I had friends to hang out with on the weekends, but now, I have a different job and a different group of friends who live back at school. I don't know what I should do here.
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Mom won't let me sleep past 2 a.m. I work 3 other jobs and
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