I've been with my girlfriend for just under 2 years, and I'm simply not into it anymore. She didn't do anything wrong, our relationship has been pretty good. But I find myself not looking forward to seeing her and simply not very attracted to her anymore. I've decided I should break up with her.

Here's the problem: she's graduating in about 3 weeks, and then is taking the MCATS (extremely difficult and important medical school test) a few weeks after that. Her whole extended family is flying in and I'm supposed to meet them for the first time ever for graduation.

She's absolutely head over heels about me, and she has no idea I feel this way... I've been a little more distant but she just thinks it's because I'm busy with schoolwork.

Is it wrong of me to wait until after her MCATS to break up with her? I don't want to ruin her graduation and possibly make her do poorly because of me. We had a falling out about 6 months ago where we almost split and she was torn, and had a test the next week that she saiddohe really struggled studying for. She kept on telling me jokingly after we were good again "if you're gonna do that again don't do it right before I have a test".

I don't wanna drag this out because I feel like that's not the right thing to do and not fair for her, but basically her whole life is dependent on this test, and I also don't want her to be in a terrible place during graduation.

What do you guys think I should do?
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Girlfriend is graduating very soon, do I breakup with her now so she does
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I've been with my girlfriend for just under 2 years, and I'm simply not into it anymore. She didn't do anything wrong, our relationship has been pretty good. But I find myself not looking forward to seeing her and simply not very attracted to her anymore. I've decided I should break up with her.

Here's the problem: she's graduating in about 3 weeks, and then is taking the MCATS (extremely difficult and important medical school test) a few weeks after that. Her whole extended family is flying in and I'm supposed to meet them for the first time ever for graduation.

She's absolutely head over heels about me, and she has no idea I feel this way... I've been a little more distant but she just thinks it's because I'm busy with schoolwork.

Is it wrong of me to wait until after her MCATS to break up with her? I don't want to ruin her graduation and possibly make her do poorly because of me. We had a falling out about 6 months ago where we almost split and she was torn, and had a test the next week that she saiddohe really struggled studying for. She kept on telling me jokingly after we were good again "if you're gonna do that again don't do it right before I have a test".

I don't wanna drag this out because I feel like that's not the right thing to do and not fair for her, but basically her whole life is dependent on this test, and I also don't want her to be in a terrible place during graduation.

What do you guys think I should do?
user
I'm supposed to break up with my girlfriend in 3 weeks, but she's going
assistant