I started dating this girl a few months ago who seemed nice enough. But in little over a month she professed her love for me. I thought she was a little odd but we enjoyed each other enough.

She came out to me that she had been a victim of rape and that she had been emotional abused by previous boyfriends and that I was the first guy to treat her well. I am one of the only people she ever told. I showed complete sympathy obviously and she has since been incredibly clingy and needy, needing my constant attention. I was frustrated with her personality and how she was acting but we could have sex to pass the time and not really on our issues. But as time passed i found her increasing difficult to get along with, with her being increasing passive aggressive and judgemental towards me yet still being overly clingy. I had been losing my initial spark with her for the past month and a half. 

I have since moved overseas and she insisted on trying to maintain a long distance relationship and against my better judgement, i went along with it. Now this relationship is just on my nerves. I find her irritating, uninteresting, and overly clingy. I want to break up with her but I also realize that ever other man she has been with has betrayed her and she really cares about me, and then i feel like the biggest asshole in the world. If i broke up with, it would spiral her in another cycle of depression and i fear that she would even self harm if i did. I just am not interesting in dating her anymore because sex is no longer there to smooth out the thing that get under my skin about her. what do you suggest I do?
user
girlfriend of 5 months is a rape victim and i find
assistant
I started dating this girl a few months ago who seemed nice enough. But in little over a month she professed her love for me. I thought she was a little odd but we enjoyed each other enough.

She came out to me that she had been a victim of rape and that she had been emotional abused by previous boyfriends and that I was the first guy to treat her well. I am one of the only people she ever told. I showed complete sympathy obviously and she has since been incredibly clingy and needy, needing my constant attention. I was frustrated with her personality and how she was acting but we could have sex to pass the time and not really on our issues. But as time passed i found her increasing difficult to get along with, with her being increasing passive aggressive and judgemental towards me yet still being overly clingy. I had been losing my initial spark with her for the past month and a half. 

I have since moved overseas and she insisted on trying to maintain a long distance relationship and against my better judgement, i went along with it. Now this relationship is just on my nerves. I find her irritating, uninteresting, and overly clingy. I want to break up with her but I also realize that ever other man she has been with has betrayed her and she really cares about me, and then i feel like the biggest asshole in the world. If i broke up with, it would spiral her in another cycle of depression and i fear that she would even self harm if i did. I just am not interesting in dating her anymore because sex is no longer there to smooth out the thing that get under my skin about her. what do you suggest I do?
user
I want to break up with my girlfriend but she is
assistant