Hello, first off this is a throwaway.  

I am completely mind fucked and I am still trying to process everything that just happened. I will try and break it down as simple and easy as I can.  

1) GF, we will call her T is out of town for a family birthday. I normally would go for a visit to her family however because I do not have off tomorrow, I had to stay behind, no big deal.  

2) T(GF) was able to meet up with some old highschool/college friends for a girls night out which was tonight, about 3 hours or so ago.

3) 20 minutes ago I get a message from one of her friends(who I've only met once previously) on Facebook, let's call her C. It says that T(GF) is using me because I am white, T(gf) would much rather be with a black man and then only reason she is with me is because it would "ease her parent's mind." Then the message goes on to say C(friend) will be in town next weekend and she would like to get together and talk about it. 

4) T(gf) and I never really talked about exs or prior relationships. Mainly because I don't care to hear about things like that and from what C has said, I'm now extremely curious. 

5) Emotions: I'm so fucking confused. If it's true, I'm hurt also for being used. I understand that's a big what if though. What if her friend is just trying to break us up? The first time I met her she said I was cute. 

6) About me/us: Light brown hair, blue eyes. 6 feet and 6 inches, those are two separate measurements. Without sounding like a complete douche, I consider myself pretty attractive, I consider both of us better than average on the attractiveness scale. We've been together for 2 years and some change, lived together for 8 months. 

What in the literal fuck.
user
GF having a girls night out, meets up with some old friends, friend in town says she's using me because I'm white. What the fuck am I supposed to do?
assistant
Hello, first off this is a throwaway.  

I am completely mind fucked and I am still trying to process everything that just happened. I will try and break it down as simple and easy as I can.  

1) GF, we will call her T is out of town for a family birthday. I normally would go for a visit to her family however because I do not have off tomorrow, I had to stay behind, no big deal.  

2) T(GF) was able to meet up with some old highschool/college friends for a girls night out which was tonight, about 3 hours or so ago.

3) 20 minutes ago I get a message from one of her friends(who I've only met once previously) on Facebook, let's call her C. It says that T(GF) is using me because I am white, T(gf) would much rather be with a black man and then only reason she is with me is because it would "ease her parent's mind." Then the message goes on to say C(friend) will be in town next weekend and she would like to get together and talk about it. 

4) T(gf) and I never really talked about exs or prior relationships. Mainly because I don't care to hear about things like that and from what C has said, I'm now extremely curious. 

5) Emotions: I'm so fucking confused. If it's true, I'm hurt also for being used. I understand that's a big what if though. What if her friend is just trying to break us up? The first time I met her she said I was cute. 

6) About me/us: Light brown hair, blue eyes. 6 feet and 6 inches, those are two separate measurements. Without sounding like a complete douche, I consider myself pretty attractive, I consider both of us better than average on the attractiveness scale. We've been together for 2 years and some change, lived together for 8 months. 

What in the literal fuck.
user
GF is using me because she feels she is being hurt by a black man more than a white man.
assistant