I've been dating this guy long distance for a year. He's had depression issues and it caused a lot of drama in our relationship. I understand depression and I also understand that it varies for everyone, but I truly feel like he's either being a huge baby about all of this or is messing around with me.

I was away for the summer visiting family but still wanted to come see him and vice versa. I was supposed to come and see him in July. He put it on hold due to this not even a week before. I said that's fine, let me know when you want to see me. He said he will get better and see me. So, we fought a lot during this time period basically because I didn't understand how he was so depressed that I couldn't even see him for a weekend. He was adamant, tried "getting better" and wouldn't talk to me.

I blew it off and prepared to just end things. About 2 weeks ago, he messaged me saying how he knew I was going home and that he still wants to be together. Basically, he insisted that I go home, get settled, and then we'll try meeting up and rebuild a relationship. Commitment. All of that.

While I'm on the plane, which was only 2 days after this talk, I get an email saying he's still depressed and basically it's TBA. He wants to be together but doesn't know when.

I didn't reply. He didnt send anything more. Should I just not respond?  I don't chase people. My friends assumed that he's seeing someone there maybe but I really don't think so. He has a hatred of dishonesty, I told him I would still be friends with him if he wanted that, would have literally no reason to string me along. What would you do?
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Guy I've been seeing is texting me saying he wants to be together but doesn't know when or I guess I'm
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I've been dating this guy long distance for a year. He's had depression issues and it caused a lot of drama in our relationship. I understand depression and I also understand that it varies for everyone, but I truly feel like he's either being a huge baby about all of this or is messing around with me.

I was away for the summer visiting family but still wanted to come see him and vice versa. I was supposed to come and see him in July. He put it on hold due to this not even a week before. I said that's fine, let me know when you want to see me. He said he will get better and see me. So, we fought a lot during this time period basically because I didn't understand how he was so depressed that I couldn't even see him for a weekend. He was adamant, tried "getting better" and wouldn't talk to me.

I blew it off and prepared to just end things. About 2 weeks ago, he messaged me saying how he knew I was going home and that he still wants to be together. Basically, he insisted that I go home, get settled, and then we'll try meeting up and rebuild a relationship. Commitment. All of that.

While I'm on the plane, which was only 2 days after this talk, I get an email saying he's still depressed and basically it's TBA. He wants to be together but doesn't know when.

I didn't reply. He didnt send anything more. Should I just not respond?  I don't chase people. My friends assumed that he's seeing someone there maybe but I really don't think so. He has a hatred of dishonesty, I told him I would still be friends with him if he wanted that, would have literally no reason to string me along. What would you do?
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Guy and I had fight, he's still depressed, I want to see him, but he won't be with me.
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