My partner and I have been together for a good 2 and a half years now and lived together for one. We're both relatively normal ppl I would say and don't gravitate to extreme spectrum's of clingy, crazy or being completely independent of each other. 

Like most couples we have had our share of arguments and we try to reach compromises, the problem of which though I feel have been more on my part than hers sometimes. 

Let's just say she has a better memory for things and can make sounder arguments than I can which results in highlighting some of my flaws. I'm self reflective enough to admit to these and hey relationships are about growing right? However, when I ask for some things it always seems to come to the point where she'll give me reason as to why she can't or won't do it or that my point or opinion is flawed and makes me feel like my views aren't important. 

Of course it doesn't help that sometimes the way I speak tends to be like I'm mothering her and humans just have an innate need to not do something they have been told to do. I view this as give and take in a relationship of course, if there are some things she wants me to do/not do, I should be able to ask the same right?
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I am honest to the point of being blunt and sometimes I don't like the way that my partner
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My partner and I have been together for a good 2 and a half years now and lived together for one. We're both relatively normal ppl I would say and don't gravitate to extreme spectrum's of clingy, crazy or being completely independent of each other. 

Like most couples we have had our share of arguments and we try to reach compromises, the problem of which though I feel have been more on my part than hers sometimes. 

Let's just say she has a better memory for things and can make sounder arguments than I can which results in highlighting some of my flaws. I'm self reflective enough to admit to these and hey relationships are about growing right? However, when I ask for some things it always seems to come to the point where she'll give me reason as to why she can't or won't do it or that my point or opinion is flawed and makes me feel like my views aren't important. 

Of course it doesn't help that sometimes the way I speak tends to be like I'm mothering her and humans just have an innate need to not do something they have been told to do. I view this as give and take in a relationship of course, if there are some things she wants me to do/not do, I should be able to ask the same right?
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Stuck in a relationship with someone who I feel is sometimes too hands on.
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