We'd been seeing each other for about 3 months, having sex, going on dates together, enjoying each other's company, laughter, teasing, relaxation. I brought up the issue of being in a relationship and she then said that she wanted space, she's stressed from her job, she's had past heartbreak and she doesn't know what she wants. Initially I agreed to the break.

I went no contact for a while, then I figured something didn't feel right. I didn't want to be kicked to one side and held there indefinitely. So I texted her that I wanted to break up, that our time apart has given me the chance to get out more and see friends, focus on my life and myself, finding peace and happiness. I said that I don't feel resentment, that I want the best for her and we could be friends.

Right now I genuinely feel much more joy and serenity. Perhaps something can blossom down the road with her but I don't hold out hope. I'd rather be in the present moment.

What do you guys think? Was this the right thing to do? It felt like it was.

Thanks,

Cairo
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Broke up
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We'd been seeing each other for about 3 months, having sex, going on dates together, enjoying each other's company, laughter, teasing, relaxation. I brought up the issue of being in a relationship and she then said that she wanted space, she's stressed from her job, she's had past heartbreak and she doesn't know what she wants. Initially I agreed to the break.

I went no contact for a while, then I figured something didn't feel right. I didn't want to be kicked to one side and held there indefinitely. So I texted her that I wanted to break up, that our time apart has given me the chance to get out more and see friends, focus on my life and myself, finding peace and happiness. I said that I don't feel resentment, that I want the best for her and we could be friends.

Right now I genuinely feel much more joy and serenity. Perhaps something can blossom down the road with her but I don't hold out hope. I'd rather be in the present moment.

What do you guys think? Was this the right thing to do? It felt like it was.

Thanks,

Cairo
user
Broke up
assistant