So my Girlfriend(F19) has quite the hostile relationship with her Mother, it doesn't affect our relationship much but it's painful to watch her so upset every time she goes home.

I always am there to listen to her venting whenever they have a fight and comfort her as best I can.

But as a Boyfriend (M20) I don't know whether or not to keep on trying to encourage her to have a talk with her mother or whether to allow her to just hate her Mother more and more. 

Because I can see it eventually going way way way south and her possibly cutting off contact with her Mother eventually.
user
My girlfriend is estranged from her mother, I don't know how to respond to her tears when she goes home.
assistant
So my Girlfriend(F19) has quite the hostile relationship with her Mother, it doesn't affect our relationship much but it's painful to watch her so upset every time she goes home.

I always am there to listen to her venting whenever they have a fight and comfort her as best I can.

But as a Boyfriend (M20) I don't know whether or not to keep on trying to encourage her to have a talk with her mother or whether to allow her to just hate her Mother more and more. 

Because I can see it eventually going way way way south and her possibly cutting off contact with her Mother eventually.
user
I'm in an emotionally/physically abusive relationship with my GF and I don't know if I should continue to try and
assistant