I was away in Germany for 6 months and while I was gone, a guy I had feelings for and had done things with ended up talking to a different girl. This girl, named Rachel, was not someone I was mad or jealous of. That is until I found my best friend of 7 years had become good friends with her.

I'm okay with Rachel because if she was with a guy who sucked, more power to her. Women shouldn't be split apart by men. BUT to become good friends with the one person I confide in the most kills me.

I should mention that my best friend went through a similar situation in which she was upset because a guy dumped her for someone else. BFF tells me she doesn't like that we are friends on social media and that I like this girls pictures. I think it's a but petty but I respect it. 

But basically BFF tells me I have no right to feel uncomfortable with her being friends with Rachel (girl who ended up with the guy I still have feelings for). 

Is it weird that I'm not jealous of Rachel with the guy but with my BFF? Is BFF right and I shouldn't be upset or uncomfortable although she is with her guy situation?
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Best friend made new friend while I was away and I feel
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I was away in Germany for 6 months and while I was gone, a guy I had feelings for and had done things with ended up talking to a different girl. This girl, named Rachel, was not someone I was mad or jealous of. That is until I found my best friend of 7 years had become good friends with her.

I'm okay with Rachel because if she was with a guy who sucked, more power to her. Women shouldn't be split apart by men. BUT to become good friends with the one person I confide in the most kills me.

I should mention that my best friend went through a similar situation in which she was upset because a guy dumped her for someone else. BFF tells me she doesn't like that we are friends on social media and that I like this girls pictures. I think it's a but petty but I respect it. 

But basically BFF tells me I have no right to feel uncomfortable with her being friends with Rachel (girl who ended up with the guy I still have feelings for). 

Is it weird that I'm not jealous of Rachel with the guy but with my BFF? Is BFF right and I shouldn't be upset or uncomfortable although she is with her guy situation?
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Best friend makes friendship with other girl who ended up with my
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