The basic problem is this: my boyfriend will sometimes promises to do something, something I didn't ask for and he offers on his own - and then he doesn't do it.  

For example (this is just one of a few instances), because we moved into different regions and have less time to see each other, he offered to come over to my place and cook for me once a month and tbh I was really looking forward to it... but seeing that this hasn't happened once the past two months, I don't have my hopes up anymore. 

It's disappointing because I was really looking forward to it... but at the same time, I'm hesitant to actually fight about this because I feel like I'll come off as taking him for granted. 

Am I justified in feeling hurt/wanting to confront him, or should I just focus on the fact that he made the gesture?
user
BF doesn't make keep promises I don't ask him to make and it's getting frustrating. Is it selfish of me to
assistant
The basic problem is this: my boyfriend will sometimes promises to do something, something I didn't ask for and he offers on his own - and then he doesn't do it.  

For example (this is just one of a few instances), because we moved into different regions and have less time to see each other, he offered to come over to my place and cook for me once a month and tbh I was really looking forward to it... but seeing that this hasn't happened once the past two months, I don't have my hopes up anymore. 

It's disappointing because I was really looking forward to it... but at the same time, I'm hesitant to actually fight about this because I feel like I'll come off as taking him for granted. 

Am I justified in feeling hurt/wanting to confront him, or should I just focus on the fact that he made the gesture?
user
My boyfriend doesn't keep promises, I don't know how to approach him about it.
assistant