Background: We have dated for 2 years now. She is in college and I just graduated this past May. We both are in the education field. I didn't get a full time job, but will be subbing in 3 different districts. 

About 3-4 months ago I told her that she needed to show more initiative in our relationship (including sex). Before this I didn't initiate sex once to see if she would start something. Never did. It lasted for a good 2 months and then I spoke up. She has gotten better with initiating sex, if I tell her earlier in the day that we should make love. She can never make a decision or suggest something to do. It seems like I always come up with date ideas or what we're doing for the night, and I hate that. Most times we would just end up on the bed watching some lame show. Another thing, after about 6 months of dating her, I've noticed she's stopped hanging out with her friends. She's mostly at home watching some dumb reality show.

This may sound selfish (and probably is): but she got me a gift card and lawn chair for my birthday...on the day of my birthday. It's like there is no care coming from her. Sometimes I feel like this relationship is fake. We don't even celebrate our 1st and 2nd year anniversaries. 

Some days I just want to get rid of her. I wanted an outside perspective to see my relationship from another view. Suggestions?
user
Girlfriend doesn't initiate sex and is in college. In our relationship for two years. She's not caring about our relationship.
assistant
Background: We have dated for 2 years now. She is in college and I just graduated this past May. We both are in the education field. I didn't get a full time job, but will be subbing in 3 different districts. 

About 3-4 months ago I told her that she needed to show more initiative in our relationship (including sex). Before this I didn't initiate sex once to see if she would start something. Never did. It lasted for a good 2 months and then I spoke up. She has gotten better with initiating sex, if I tell her earlier in the day that we should make love. She can never make a decision or suggest something to do. It seems like I always come up with date ideas or what we're doing for the night, and I hate that. Most times we would just end up on the bed watching some lame show. Another thing, after about 6 months of dating her, I've noticed she's stopped hanging out with her friends. She's mostly at home watching some dumb reality show.

This may sound selfish (and probably is): but she got me a gift card and lawn chair for my birthday...on the day of my birthday. It's like there is no care coming from her. Sometimes I feel like this relationship is fake. We don't even celebrate our 1st and 2nd year anniversaries. 

Some days I just want to get rid of her. I wanted an outside perspective to see my relationship from another view. Suggestions?
user
I got my girlfriend a gift card and lawn chair for my birthday. I'm getting tired of this.
assistant