so its kind of a long story, but the other day i met this girl on that yik yak app, we were talking, got her snapchat, and kept talking, eventually finding out we go to the same college. I was trying to be a nice person, and wanted to actually talk/see her in person before anything else could come of it. however, she took it in a completely different context and assumed i thought of it as romantic. (it didnt help that i usually use "babe, sweetheart, hun, etc" when i talk to girls). 

    we keep talking, and she seems very clingy, asking me lots and lots of questions, and she reveals that she is a virgin (no shame in that, just for context). while we are talk, i keep feeling pressured into asking her out, so i do (big mistake in my opinion now, as we still have not even met in real life). she wants me to meet her friends, i have no problem with it, but i dont want to seem like i am leading her on more than i already seem to have.

details that have been revealed to me, she is 29, latina, about average looking, virgin with absolutely no experiance at all (not that i care, just would rather not go through that ordeal)

so this is my question. How do I either slow things down/break it off without seeming like an asshole, and without hurting her.
user
met girl on yik yak, keep talking, she assumed we were romantically interested in eachother, keeps pressuring me to meet her friends,
assistant
so its kind of a long story, but the other day i met this girl on that yik yak app, we were talking, got her snapchat, and kept talking, eventually finding out we go to the same college. I was trying to be a nice person, and wanted to actually talk/see her in person before anything else could come of it. however, she took it in a completely different context and assumed i thought of it as romantic. (it didnt help that i usually use "babe, sweetheart, hun, etc" when i talk to girls). 

    we keep talking, and she seems very clingy, asking me lots and lots of questions, and she reveals that she is a virgin (no shame in that, just for context). while we are talk, i keep feeling pressured into asking her out, so i do (big mistake in my opinion now, as we still have not even met in real life). she wants me to meet her friends, i have no problem with it, but i dont want to seem like i am leading her on more than i already seem to have.

details that have been revealed to me, she is 29, latina, about average looking, virgin with absolutely no experiance at all (not that i care, just would rather not go through that ordeal)

so this is my question. How do I either slow things down/break it off without seeming like an asshole, and without hurting her.
user
met girl on yik yak, really liked her, we keep talking and she seems clingy, don't want to seem like an asshole/hurt
assistant