ME: 25
HER: 24

This seems to be a big problem with my GF of 1 year. 

She's made it clear that it's a borderline "deal breaker" if I "choose" or "want" to go, completely disregarding the fact that sometimes when you're out with buddies, they make spur of the moment plans to bar hop or hit up a strip club. Lately she's been making an effort to not allow this topic to bother her, but while making it clear that she would be hurt if I went, she tells me "do what you want". If I ever end up going to a strip joint with my buddies, I know she's going to get irrationally upset when I tell her. It would almost be easier to avoid telling her, but I emphasize "truth and honesty" in my relationship, so I can't keep it from her. Sometimes I'm reminded on why some BF's lie. GIRLS OF REDDIT... how big of an issue is this for you?
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GF doesn't want me going to strip clubs with my buddies. She doesn't want it to be an issue, but she's still going
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ME: 25
HER: 24

This seems to be a big problem with my GF of 1 year. 

She's made it clear that it's a borderline "deal breaker" if I "choose" or "want" to go, completely disregarding the fact that sometimes when you're out with buddies, they make spur of the moment plans to bar hop or hit up a strip club. Lately she's been making an effort to not allow this topic to bother her, but while making it clear that she would be hurt if I went, she tells me "do what you want". If I ever end up going to a strip joint with my buddies, I know she's going to get irrationally upset when I tell her. It would almost be easier to avoid telling her, but I emphasize "truth and honesty" in my relationship, so I can't keep it from her. Sometimes I'm reminded on why some BF's lie. GIRLS OF REDDIT... how big of an issue is this for you?
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GF of 1 year is going to strip club with buddies, despite clear boundaries. Would it be easier to avoid telling her if
assistant