My ex and broke up over 3 years ago, it was fairly amicable, despite the reasons for the break up.
We dated for 1.5 years, most of it long distance but only by about 60 miles so we saw each other every two weeks or so. There was some cheating on both sides, emotional and physical, and a lot of trust issues going through each others phones and fb. By the end of it, I broke it off and we both decided that it was for the best.

We've kept in contact on we the years, hung out every couple months, checked up on each other. Anyway, I'm moving back to the same city and we've started talking more regularly. We just kind of fell into old patterns of being comfortable with each other. The thing I'm concerned with is that I'm single and he's dating someone right now. One of the reasons we broke up is because he was emotionally cheating with his ex at the time, lots of really uncomfortable stuff. I don't want to fall into the same trap. I want to be friends with him, we really do get a long well, and he hasn't really done anything cheating-like or untoward. I guess I just don't know where the line is of us just being/behaving like good friends and cheating territory. I don't want to make his gf feel weird about it either. Any advice?
user
My ex and I are really good friends but he's dating someone right now. I'm not sure where the line is between being friends and being friends with someone who's in a relationship with
assistant
My ex and broke up over 3 years ago, it was fairly amicable, despite the reasons for the break up.
We dated for 1.5 years, most of it long distance but only by about 60 miles so we saw each other every two weeks or so. There was some cheating on both sides, emotional and physical, and a lot of trust issues going through each others phones and fb. By the end of it, I broke it off and we both decided that it was for the best.

We've kept in contact on we the years, hung out every couple months, checked up on each other. Anyway, I'm moving back to the same city and we've started talking more regularly. We just kind of fell into old patterns of being comfortable with each other. The thing I'm concerned with is that I'm single and he's dating someone right now. One of the reasons we broke up is because he was emotionally cheating with his ex at the time, lots of really uncomfortable stuff. I don't want to fall into the same trap. I want to be friends with him, we really do get a long well, and he hasn't really done anything cheating-like or untoward. I guess I just don't know where the line is of us just being/behaving like good friends and cheating territory. I don't want to make his gf feel weird about it either. Any advice?
user
Ex and I are starting to talk more regularly. I'm worried that we're going to have
assistant