So I met a guy online, and we had a phone conversation that lasted 40 minutes today--our first contact outside texting. In retrospect I'm wondering if I should have ended the call earlier. I got the inpression at times that he might have been distracted; he didn't seem flirtatious or excited. He's planning to take me to dinner.

I'm kind of worried I asked too many questions or was just garrulous. Maybe I'm imagining things (I'm a naturally anxious person) but I wonder if I overloaded him, whether he was bored, or whether he was surfing the net while talking to me (which would be rude but he may have been looking for food options or googling something about a topic I mentioned).

Does this bode poorly for the first date if he didn't seem super enthused during the call? He did mention that he tends not to do calls before a date; generally he has kept it to text. He called me because I told him I didn't like text exchanges (I explained on the phon that I think it's not a good way to get to know someone.) Reddit, am I reading too much into this?
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So I met a guy online, and we had a phone conversation that lasted 40 minutes today--our first contact outside texting. In retrospect I'm wondering if I should have ended the call earlier. I got the inpression at times that he might have been distracted; he didn't seem flirtatious or excited. He's planning to take me to dinner.

I'm kind of worried I asked too many questions or was just garrulous. Maybe I'm imagining things (I'm a naturally anxious person) but I wonder if I overloaded him, whether he was bored, or whether he was surfing the net while talking to me (which would be rude but he may have been looking for food options or googling something about a topic I mentioned).

Does this bode poorly for the first date if he didn't seem super enthused during the call? He did mention that he tends not to do calls before a date; generally he has kept it to text. He called me because I told him I didn't like text exchanges (I explained on the phon that I think it's not a good way to get to know someone.) Reddit, am I reading too much into this?
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