That may not be the best title. What I mean is how do I make him understand how unhappy I am?
Some background;
Our relationship it not THAT bad.He doesn't beat me, doesn't cheat on me, is a great father to our 3 children. However I feel like I don't even come up on his radar. I feel like he doesn't consider me or my feelings at all. And to be frank I'm at the point where I'm not even sure if he loves me anymore. He says he does but he can say it all the wants to, he doesn't show it and I certianly don't feel it! IIf I bring this up I get patronised. "Yes I do love you can you stop bringing this up?" But nothing changes. I still feel unloved, unwanted and unappreciated.
He seems to do and say things just to upset me, and then will refuse to admit that he may have hurt my feelings, or if they did they shouldn't have.
Our sex life is great! But it doesn't mean much when he looses all intrest in me as soon as it's over.
We spend little to no quality time together and the last time I suggested getting a baby sitter to go out he groaned and asked if we had to.
I don't want our marriage to end, but I don't want to feel this way for the rest of my life. I try to talk to him about it, suggest councling etc but he insists we are fine and we don't need it. Honestly would I feel like this if we were fine and we didn't need it? 
I'm sorry this is probally really disjointed and full of spelling mistakes lol. I just don't know what my next move should be...
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user
I don't think my husband loves me, I don't know how to talk to him about it
assistant
That may not be the best title. What I mean is how do I make him understand how unhappy I am?
Some background;
Our relationship it not THAT bad.He doesn't beat me, doesn't cheat on me, is a great father to our 3 children. However I feel like I don't even come up on his radar. I feel like he doesn't consider me or my feelings at all. And to be frank I'm at the point where I'm not even sure if he loves me anymore. He says he does but he can say it all the wants to, he doesn't show it and I certianly don't feel it! IIf I bring this up I get patronised. "Yes I do love you can you stop bringing this up?" But nothing changes. I still feel unloved, unwanted and unappreciated.
He seems to do and say things just to upset me, and then will refuse to admit that he may have hurt my feelings, or if they did they shouldn't have.
Our sex life is great! But it doesn't mean much when he looses all intrest in me as soon as it's over.
We spend little to no quality time together and the last time I suggested getting a baby sitter to go out he groaned and asked if we had to.
I don't want our marriage to end, but I don't want to feel this way for the rest of my life. I try to talk to him about it, suggest councling etc but he insists we are fine and we don't need it. Honestly would I feel like this if we were fine and we didn't need it? 
I'm sorry this is probally really disjointed and full of spelling mistakes lol. I just don't know what my next move should be...
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user
I feel unloved, unwanted and unappreciated. I feel like he doesn't care for me and I would like to talk to him about it. I feel
assistant