Hey guys, I never thought about asking for help but I really need a way to fix this.  My girlfriend (23) is the first woman I've ever been involved in a serious relation ship with.  We are each others first serious relationship and we've been going on for a year and a half.   Before her I never took women seriously, I had sex with them but that was pretty much it... I never found them to be interested to the point that I'd actually want to marry them.

The problem comes that I am really insecure... Good example is right now she's in Maine for a summer job and I won't see her for 9 weeks.  We were talking today about how she was doing... she said she had a lot of fun she's been really busy, etc... She went to go pee down a path and when she came back one of the guys that's a counselor with her commented on how nice of an ass she has.  Also, when she was on the bus and told them she was on a relationship they "jokingly" told her to get off the bus.

I do not try to be super jealous but when she tells me how much fun she's having I feel a spot around my heart just clench up and I get really sad.  I don't want her to leave me, however, I am always honest with her no matter what and tell her how I feel.  She's the greatest woman I've ever met. 

I need help to fix myself.

P.S. - This 9 week summer job she has is pretty much a prequel for me deploying in December for 7 months. SORRY FOR THE LONG POST
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Hey guys, I never thought about asking for help but I really need a way to fix this.  My girlfriend (23) is the first woman I've ever been involved in a serious relation ship with.  We are each others first serious relationship and we've been going on for a year and a half.   Before her I never took women seriously, I had sex with them but that was pretty much it... I never found them to be interested to the point that I'd actually want to marry them.

The problem comes that I am really insecure... Good example is right now she's in Maine for a summer job and I won't see her for 9 weeks.  We were talking today about how she was doing... she said she had a lot of fun she's been really busy, etc... She went to go pee down a path and when she came back one of the guys that's a counselor with her commented on how nice of an ass she has.  Also, when she was on the bus and told them she was on a relationship they "jokingly" told her to get off the bus.

I do not try to be super jealous but when she tells me how much fun she's having I feel a spot around my heart just clench up and I get really sad.  I don't want her to leave me, however, I am always honest with her no matter what and tell her how I feel.  She's the greatest woman I've ever met. 

I need help to fix myself.

P.S. - This 9 week summer job she has is pretty much a prequel for me deploying in December for 7 months. SORRY FOR THE LONG POST
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my girlfriend of 2 years (23) has a really amazing
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