I'm on holiday at home with my family while he's still back where we live. The relationship hasn't been going that well lately and I thought I would use this time to decide whether we should continue it or break up. In a conversation with a friend, I realised I've already had the answer for a while but have just been refusing to accept it.

I'm terrified of doing it but I think it would be best for both in the long term. The question is what's the best way to do it. I really don't want to hurt him or see him mad but it's probably unavoidable.

I do and don't really want to do it while I'm still at home. I do because I can't pretend anymore that all is well, I can't keep pretending that I don't see his 'love you and miss you' messages and missed calls. I feel terrible that I have begun to avoid him, but it just doesn't feel right for me to talk to him the same way that I used to. I don't want to lie about my feelings but I don't want to break his either. I know I am by doing this though so I should really end it soon.

I don't because I think it would be quite low of me to end this with a phone call or a facebook message after more than 2 years together. Even though it would be so much easier for me. Also, I have quite a few belongings left in his flat and I would have to see him eventually no matter what so I can get them back. Also I'm slightly paranoid that if I do this now I might not see my things back. Plus I would ruin his new year's eve if I do this now.

I'm trying to rationalise this but I don't think I can. Help?
user
I think I should break up with my boyfriend but don't want to hurt him and don't know what's the best
assistant
I'm on holiday at home with my family while he's still back where we live. The relationship hasn't been going that well lately and I thought I would use this time to decide whether we should continue it or break up. In a conversation with a friend, I realised I've already had the answer for a while but have just been refusing to accept it.

I'm terrified of doing it but I think it would be best for both in the long term. The question is what's the best way to do it. I really don't want to hurt him or see him mad but it's probably unavoidable.

I do and don't really want to do it while I'm still at home. I do because I can't pretend anymore that all is well, I can't keep pretending that I don't see his 'love you and miss you' messages and missed calls. I feel terrible that I have begun to avoid him, but it just doesn't feel right for me to talk to him the same way that I used to. I don't want to lie about my feelings but I don't want to break his either. I know I am by doing this though so I should really end it soon.

I don't because I think it would be quite low of me to end this with a phone call or a facebook message after more than 2 years together. Even though it would be so much easier for me. Also, I have quite a few belongings left in his flat and I would have to see him eventually no matter what so I can get them back. Also I'm slightly paranoid that if I do this now I might not see my things back. Plus I would ruin his new year's eve if I do this now.

I'm trying to rationalise this but I don't think I can. Help?
user
Relationship has been going downhill for over 2 years. Deciding whether to continue or break up. Need advice on how to
assistant