So we've been together over a year and our sex life is great. Always has been. The only problem (for me) is that she doesn't shave her vagina. It's not that she has a crazy bush or anything. She trims it back but nowhere near a clean shave. 

The first time we had sex I just thought she wasn't shaved because she was single for a while and didn't need/want to. But here we are over a year later and she has never "cleaned up". 

It's been a turnoff for me since day one and always crosses my mind when we're getting intimate. I make myself see past it. But I think it's time to speak up about it. It's definitely not something she HAS to do just something I (personally) wish she'd do. 

I have a feeling she may get really offended or maybe even embarrassed if I say anything so I thought I'd ask what ways I could ask without upsetting her. 

Thanks in advance! 

**Edit to answer a few questions:** Yes I do (myself) keep myself well groomed. 

I'm not suggesting that she HAS to do this. I'm not even expecting her to do so after I mention it. I'm purely looking for insight and advice on bringing this up to her and will respect any decision she makes. 

I'm not an asshole. ;)
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I want my girlfriend to shave her vagina, how
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So we've been together over a year and our sex life is great. Always has been. The only problem (for me) is that she doesn't shave her vagina. It's not that she has a crazy bush or anything. She trims it back but nowhere near a clean shave. 

The first time we had sex I just thought she wasn't shaved because she was single for a while and didn't need/want to. But here we are over a year later and she has never "cleaned up". 

It's been a turnoff for me since day one and always crosses my mind when we're getting intimate. I make myself see past it. But I think it's time to speak up about it. It's definitely not something she HAS to do just something I (personally) wish she'd do. 

I have a feeling she may get really offended or maybe even embarrassed if I say anything so I thought I'd ask what ways I could ask without upsetting her. 

Thanks in advance! 

**Edit to answer a few questions:** Yes I do (myself) keep myself well groomed. 

I'm not suggesting that she HAS to do this. I'm not even expecting her to do so after I mention it. I'm purely looking for insight and advice on bringing this up to her and will respect any decision she makes. 

I'm not an asshole. ;)
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Girlfriend doesn't shave her vagina, looking for ways to
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