Met a girl in Uni and stayed together for 5 years, she was the girl I lost my virginity to and she had one partner before me so we were both pretty inexperienced. 

I didnt know it then but I suffer from anxiety issues and had several "performance related issues" shall we say...fuck it its a throwawy, sometimes I couldnt get it up and often I would launch the business too soon, leading to massive self esteem issues and feelings of inferiority.

That relationshp ended and i was a mess.

My fear is now, how am I going to get passed the awkward new bit of a relationship especially the sexual part without a girl thinking im a freak?

I think Im a good guy, I care too much, im not one for shagging around, I know im young but I really like being in relationships, I love the security and comfort and genuine love that it comes from, waking up next to someone and lying around in each others arms deciding what to do for the day that kind of thing.

I dont really have a question as such, maybe im just looking for input/advice, but I dont feel like Im a great catch, I feel like meeting someone I would be overcome with nerves that I would excuse myself from stuff until she got fed up of me, or dissapoint her so much in the bedroom that she'll find somone who couldnt count their sexual partners with 1 finger.

I think in some ways I could be attractive considering im reasonably fit, do some interesting hobbies and have lots of interests and stuff which may attract people but then theyll see my insecurities and decide that theyd rather a boyfriend than a project and go somewhere else!
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After a 5 year relationship I dont know how to start or explain my wierd ways to a new girl to get her to stay long enough to realise I am actually a
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Met a girl in Uni and stayed together for 5 years, she was the girl I lost my virginity to and she had one partner before me so we were both pretty inexperienced. 

I didnt know it then but I suffer from anxiety issues and had several "performance related issues" shall we say...fuck it its a throwawy, sometimes I couldnt get it up and often I would launch the business too soon, leading to massive self esteem issues and feelings of inferiority.

That relationshp ended and i was a mess.

My fear is now, how am I going to get passed the awkward new bit of a relationship especially the sexual part without a girl thinking im a freak?

I think Im a good guy, I care too much, im not one for shagging around, I know im young but I really like being in relationships, I love the security and comfort and genuine love that it comes from, waking up next to someone and lying around in each others arms deciding what to do for the day that kind of thing.

I dont really have a question as such, maybe im just looking for input/advice, but I dont feel like Im a great catch, I feel like meeting someone I would be overcome with nerves that I would excuse myself from stuff until she got fed up of me, or dissapoint her so much in the bedroom that she'll find somone who couldnt count their sexual partners with 1 finger.

I think in some ways I could be attractive considering im reasonably fit, do some interesting hobbies and have lots of interests and stuff which may attract people but then theyll see my insecurities and decide that theyd rather a boyfriend than a project and go somewhere else!
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how do i approach someone who isnt asexual and isnt a freak but is a nice person to have around without doing self loathing?
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