So like the title says I've been seeing this woman for about 3 months. We met online and have had a fun time except she wants this to be much more of a serious thing then I do. I knew before we met that she was a divorced single mother of three and she was just looking to have fun and get back out there, not looking for a dad for her kids (whom I have never met). So fast forward 3 months and some problems arise.

We only see each other about once a week but she has gotten really attached and seems to panic at small things; e.g. I cancel because something came up and I get text "are you mad at me?" "should I back off?" also she got me an $90 gift for xmas, I didn't get her anything because we really never talked about it and honestly didn't think the relationship warranted it.

So I think the best thing to do is stop this before it goes any farther but here is my problem. She got a divorce because she caught her ex cheating on her with hookers and it really destroyed her self-esteem and confidence. So knowing this I don't want to lie to her or lead her on but how do I end it without destroying her? Just a "rip off the bandaid" thing?
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So like the title says I've been seeing this woman for about 3 months. We met online and have had a fun time except she wants this to be much more of a serious thing then I do. I knew before we met that she was a divorced single mother of three and she was just looking to have fun and get back out there, not looking for a dad for her kids (whom I have never met). So fast forward 3 months and some problems arise.

We only see each other about once a week but she has gotten really attached and seems to panic at small things; e.g. I cancel because something came up and I get text "are you mad at me?" "should I back off?" also she got me an $90 gift for xmas, I didn't get her anything because we really never talked about it and honestly didn't think the relationship warranted it.

So I think the best thing to do is stop this before it goes any farther but here is my problem. She got a divorce because she caught her ex cheating on her with hookers and it really destroyed her self-esteem and confidence. So knowing this I don't want to lie to her or lead her on but how do I end it without destroying her? Just a "rip off the bandaid" thing?
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