Hey guys. 
Im in a happy relationship with a beautiful and loving girlfriend whom I really get along with. She's beyond anything I ever expected from a girlfriend, and I'm really happy she's with me. 
However, she sometimes gets sad and anxious and cries if our conversation somehow makes her talk about her past. Note that I've never bothered her with details or forced her to tell me about it, it's just something she really seems to regret. I've tried to diplomatically coax it out of her, but she's worried I might get mad and break up with her (we've been going out since April this year, more or less) since I'm her first boyfriend that hasn't treated her like crap during the relationship. She's told me a few things, like the fact that she had friends with benefits before we went out on our first date and that she maintained them for a bit afterwards, and I've explained I don't care because she has obviously learned and changed but also because at that point it wasn't clear if we were dating or not. 
I'm not concerned or worried, and I'm confident she never did anything that I have a problem with. I asked her about things I'd be mad about and she told me she never did them, like hard drugs (or soft drugs for that matter) or something awful or get raped or anything like that. The fact that I'm not comfortable with some "expected" sexual acts might be part of it; I don't really like oral sex and I usually like keeping things normal with her, and she's told me she doesn't mind. 
The reason I reach out to you is because it's my first relationship and I don't know how to judge this properly. Any advice, friends?
user
Girlfriend has some sexual memories that bother
assistant
Hey guys. 
Im in a happy relationship with a beautiful and loving girlfriend whom I really get along with. She's beyond anything I ever expected from a girlfriend, and I'm really happy she's with me. 
However, she sometimes gets sad and anxious and cries if our conversation somehow makes her talk about her past. Note that I've never bothered her with details or forced her to tell me about it, it's just something she really seems to regret. I've tried to diplomatically coax it out of her, but she's worried I might get mad and break up with her (we've been going out since April this year, more or less) since I'm her first boyfriend that hasn't treated her like crap during the relationship. She's told me a few things, like the fact that she had friends with benefits before we went out on our first date and that she maintained them for a bit afterwards, and I've explained I don't care because she has obviously learned and changed but also because at that point it wasn't clear if we were dating or not. 
I'm not concerned or worried, and I'm confident she never did anything that I have a problem with. I asked her about things I'd be mad about and she told me she never did them, like hard drugs (or soft drugs for that matter) or something awful or get raped or anything like that. The fact that I'm not comfortable with some "expected" sexual acts might be part of it; I don't really like oral sex and I usually like keeping things normal with her, and she's told me she doesn't mind. 
The reason I reach out to you is because it's my first relationship and I don't know how to judge this properly. Any advice, friends?
user
My girlfriend sometimes gets sad and anxious
assistant