We've been together since last November and overall it has been a good relationship. Within the first month of us dating, I noticed two significant scars on both of her forearms. She would not tell me what they were from for a while, but eventually she told me she had been stupid when she was younger. 

Later on I noticed several large scars on her stomach, and I didn't have to ask because I know they were all from cutting. She has been completely normal ever since I've been dating her, and otherwise, I would never have had a clue of her past.

She has had one major spell where she got super depressed for no reason that I could figure out about two months into the relationship. My family has also asked us to go to the beach next month but I am extremely reluctant about it because I have no idea how to explain the scars on her stomach which I know someone will eventually bring up.

So far I have just accepted that this was her past and have done my best to be extremely supportive of her. However, the past few days she has gone into a major depression again and tonight I multiple precise cuts on her arm. She told me it was a dog that scratched her but I called bull shit on the spot and she did not try to argue against it.

I could accept if this was her past, but if this is an ongoing thing it is absolutely terrifying to me and I honestly feel like it is a deal breaker. We have been living together since June and everything has been normal until now. The thought of living with someone willing to do this just gets to me very bad. I want to help her and be supportive but this really just crosses the line.

After I called bull shit I just got in my car in left. I did not want to make an irrational decision without hearing some other opinions first. Sorry for the crappy writing but I am on mobile right now. Am I just being ridiculous right now or are my feelings normal? Thanks for any input.
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Girlfriend has been cutting herself for
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We've been together since last November and overall it has been a good relationship. Within the first month of us dating, I noticed two significant scars on both of her forearms. She would not tell me what they were from for a while, but eventually she told me she had been stupid when she was younger. 

Later on I noticed several large scars on her stomach, and I didn't have to ask because I know they were all from cutting. She has been completely normal ever since I've been dating her, and otherwise, I would never have had a clue of her past.

She has had one major spell where she got super depressed for no reason that I could figure out about two months into the relationship. My family has also asked us to go to the beach next month but I am extremely reluctant about it because I have no idea how to explain the scars on her stomach which I know someone will eventually bring up.

So far I have just accepted that this was her past and have done my best to be extremely supportive of her. However, the past few days she has gone into a major depression again and tonight I multiple precise cuts on her arm. She told me it was a dog that scratched her but I called bull shit on the spot and she did not try to argue against it.

I could accept if this was her past, but if this is an ongoing thing it is absolutely terrifying to me and I honestly feel like it is a deal breaker. We have been living together since June and everything has been normal until now. The thought of living with someone willing to do this just gets to me very bad. I want to help her and be supportive but this really just crosses the line.

After I called bull shit I just got in my car in left. I did not want to make an irrational decision without hearing some other opinions first. Sorry for the crappy writing but I am on mobile right now. Am I just being ridiculous right now or are my feelings normal? Thanks for any input.
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GF is inflicting self-harm on her
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