Hey all, so, I did a quick search and didn't really find anything that revolved around a "ten year relationship" but I do understand that no matter what type of relationship you're in, things can seem very similar between stories, I just figured I would search out people with that amount of baggage or more first.

So, as I mentioned above, we're splitting and it's been ten years. We have a house, many pets, *tons* of furniture and pretty much a lifetime to sort through...I don't know where to start. Thankfully, we're not married but were getting really close to it.

I live in Arizona and don't know of any resources outside of couples counseling and therapy. I don't believe this to be an LGBTQ-specific situation, mainly because this is just about breakup/divorce but I assume some of you would know more about these types of situations than myself.

Any and all help is appreciated and thanks in advance!
user
Broke up with my long term partner (31 M) of 10 years (28 F) and need advice
assistant
Hey all, so, I did a quick search and didn't really find anything that revolved around a "ten year relationship" but I do understand that no matter what type of relationship you're in, things can seem very similar between stories, I just figured I would search out people with that amount of baggage or more first.

So, as I mentioned above, we're splitting and it's been ten years. We have a house, many pets, *tons* of furniture and pretty much a lifetime to sort through...I don't know where to start. Thankfully, we're not married but were getting really close to it.

I live in Arizona and don't know of any resources outside of couples counseling and therapy. I don't believe this to be an LGBTQ-specific situation, mainly because this is just about breakup/divorce but I assume some of you would know more about these types of situations than myself.

Any and all help is appreciated and thanks in advance!
user
I have a lot of baggage and am unsure how to deal with it.
assistant