I'm debating whether or not I want to break up with her because, although I always try to have good intentions, I find myself forgetting things as well as not being in the relationship 100%.

I feel like I've just been a giant disappointment and I love her and want her to be happy, which is why I think she would be happier if she wasn't dating me.

The last thing I want to do is hurt her, but the truth is I'm not nearly as thoughtful and selfless as her and I don't want her to suffer by being in 
this relationship.

I'm not very sure about the relationship overall, I admit I don't think things through which upsets her but most of our arguments and fights are started by her and I've been thinking about taking a break for a little while because I believe that: 

1) She is the nicest most thoughtful person I have ever met, and I don't know how to reciprocate that emotion. 

2) The absolute last thing I want to do is hurt her, by breaking up I feel like I would do just that, she has been so wonderful that I would feel like such an ass doing that.

3) I rarely start an argument and I feel that when an argument does arise, she points out her nice doings and makes me feel bad for not being grateful and makes some personal attacks on me which I don't appreciate. (emotional, NOT physical)

4) I find myself also remaining silent and restrained when we fight, I don't want to hurt her or say something I'll regret so I let her dominate a fight.
user
I miss being a decent human being, I don't want to hurt her and I love her
assistant
I'm debating whether or not I want to break up with her because, although I always try to have good intentions, I find myself forgetting things as well as not being in the relationship 100%.

I feel like I've just been a giant disappointment and I love her and want her to be happy, which is why I think she would be happier if she wasn't dating me.

The last thing I want to do is hurt her, but the truth is I'm not nearly as thoughtful and selfless as her and I don't want her to suffer by being in 
this relationship.

I'm not very sure about the relationship overall, I admit I don't think things through which upsets her but most of our arguments and fights are started by her and I've been thinking about taking a break for a little while because I believe that: 

1) She is the nicest most thoughtful person I have ever met, and I don't know how to reciprocate that emotion. 

2) The absolute last thing I want to do is hurt her, by breaking up I feel like I would do just that, she has been so wonderful that I would feel like such an ass doing that.

3) I rarely start an argument and I feel that when an argument does arise, she points out her nice doings and makes me feel bad for not being grateful and makes some personal attacks on me which I don't appreciate. (emotional, NOT physical)

4) I find myself also remaining silent and restrained when we fight, I don't want to hurt her or say something I'll regret so I let her dominate a fight.
user
I'm an ass, I don't want to hurt her but I don't know if I want to
assistant