I am feeling crappy about myself because recently a few of my friends have gotten annoyed with me saying our friendship is "one-sided" since I don't plan enough activities or invite them out enough. The thing is, they plan quite a bit of stuff and I almost always agree to their plans and do spend time with them. I'm not the most organized or the best planner myself and I tend to do a lot of things spur of the moment and be spontaneous.  

To me, I feel like that's just my personality, I'm not big into planning and I like to just do whatever happens on the weekend because it almost always turns out fun.  I have a wide range of friends and I'm a very social person, but I can be introverted as well and I prefer if other people make plans and then I can just join in and invite other friends of mine if its that kind of a party.  I never meant to hurt anyone's feelings or make them feel like I don't make an effort for them, it's just kind of my personality this way. I do spend time with my friends, I just don't always make the initiative to make the plans, especially when they seem to always have something planned.  

Am I a shitty friend?
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I am feeling crappy about myself because recently a few of my friends have gotten annoyed with me saying our friendship is "one-sided" since I don't plan enough activities or invite them out enough. The thing is, they plan quite a bit of stuff and I almost always agree to their plans and do spend time with them. I'm not the most organized or the best planner myself and I tend to do a lot of things spur of the moment and be spontaneous.  

To me, I feel like that's just my personality, I'm not big into planning and I like to just do whatever happens on the weekend because it almost always turns out fun.  I have a wide range of friends and I'm a very social person, but I can be introverted as well and I prefer if other people make plans and then I can just join in and invite other friends of mine if its that kind of a party.  I never meant to hurt anyone's feelings or make them feel like I don't make an effort for them, it's just kind of my personality this way. I do spend time with my friends, I just don't always make the initiative to make the plans, especially when they seem to always have something planned.  

Am I a shitty friend?
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