I am brand new to Reddit and I am in need of help.
I am 26, been in a relationship for 7months, and I have the deepest love and admiration for my partner. Recently we have begun fighting A LOT. He says he feels repressed in the relationship, like he isn't being heard. So i tried to consider his feelings on everything, and always make sure that I ask him what he would like to do, and let him know that his desicion is fine by my me. Then he got angry bc he said that when I respond with , "whatever you would like", made him paranoid and he wanted me to 'be myself'. I told him I wanted him to be happy and I would give him whatever he needed, but he just didn't say anything and keeps finding things to be upset about. 
Then when he is upset he is either yelling, or he shuts down completely and says that I scare him when I am trying to get him to open up and talk to me!! SOMEONE HELP MEE!!!!!!
user
i try to do what my boyfriend asks when he is upset but he still finds a way to be upset. Then when I want to communicate about it he either yells, or shuts down completely and says that I scare him when I try to get a
assistant
I am brand new to Reddit and I am in need of help.
I am 26, been in a relationship for 7months, and I have the deepest love and admiration for my partner. Recently we have begun fighting A LOT. He says he feels repressed in the relationship, like he isn't being heard. So i tried to consider his feelings on everything, and always make sure that I ask him what he would like to do, and let him know that his desicion is fine by my me. Then he got angry bc he said that when I respond with , "whatever you would like", made him paranoid and he wanted me to 'be myself'. I told him I wanted him to be happy and I would give him whatever he needed, but he just didn't say anything and keeps finding things to be upset about. 
Then when he is upset he is either yelling, or he shuts down completely and says that I scare him when I am trying to get him to open up and talk to me!! SOMEONE HELP MEE!!!!!!
user
my boyfriend doesn't talk to me or listen to me in the relationship, and is upset when I try to be more helpful and patient. HELP!
assistant