My gf and I just recently broke up last night. It was a mutual breakup as we had just been arguing and fighting a lot recently. The fights we had were always regarding similar topics and even though we reconciled after we would eventually fall back into old habits. Our last fight was an eye opener for me and made me realize I still have things to work on and that I need to do that on my own. 

We both confessed that we want to still be with each other and that we still have feelings for one another. However, I explained that right now there are still things that we both need to work on and that it would probably better if we did that on our own and breakup. 

So to the question, my ex had bought us tickets a couple months ago for a concert next week. She texted me recently and said that she still wants me to come if I want to. I'm not sure what I want to do as we just broke up and I don't think i'm fully ready right now to handle the feelings I still have for her. But at the same time I still do want to go with her cuz I do enjoy doing things with her. 

What are your thoughts and perspectives? Thank you for all the advice :)
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Broke up with gf, she still wants me to go
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My gf and I just recently broke up last night. It was a mutual breakup as we had just been arguing and fighting a lot recently. The fights we had were always regarding similar topics and even though we reconciled after we would eventually fall back into old habits. Our last fight was an eye opener for me and made me realize I still have things to work on and that I need to do that on my own. 

We both confessed that we want to still be with each other and that we still have feelings for one another. However, I explained that right now there are still things that we both need to work on and that it would probably better if we did that on our own and breakup. 

So to the question, my ex had bought us tickets a couple months ago for a concert next week. She texted me recently and said that she still wants me to come if I want to. I'm not sure what I want to do as we just broke up and I don't think i'm fully ready right now to handle the feelings I still have for her. But at the same time I still do want to go with her cuz I do enjoy doing things with her. 

What are your thoughts and perspectives? Thank you for all the advice :)
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I just broke up with my gf and I still
assistant