Me and my girlfriend have been dating for a year and a couple months now, but in the last month or so I realized I really wasn't happy with it. I was losing attraction to her and losing patience. It was a combination of severe moodiness constantly, just being immature, and disrespect that eventually caused these feelings to come about. 

Anyway, so I've begun talking to her that we may need to break up because I just don't personally think I can handle it anymore, and that it isn't good for us. Every time she asks me why, I honestly but gently tell her. However, she breaks down crying saying she'll change and she'll try her hardest to make me happy and that she doesn't want to give up. Then, when she gets it together, she'll suddenly bust out sobbing again and say something like, "remember when we danced at your cousin's wedding?" and just keep sobbing. But, we've had this conversation five or six times over the course of our relationship because I've tried to break up with her for doing something not so great, or she's tried to break up with me because I was mad about her for doing these not so great things (won't get into details) and this happens every time. 

However, this makes me feel like she really, really does care for me and it really makes me wonder if we should break up. Then again, the other half of me is telling me I'm being a bitch for not having the courage and strength to just break up, because I know that if I don't we will have the conversation again in a few months or weeks.
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Me and my girlfriend have been dating for a year and a couple months now, but in the last month or so I realized I really wasn't happy with it. I was losing attraction to her and losing patience. It was a combination of severe moodiness constantly, just being immature, and disrespect that eventually caused these feelings to come about. 

Anyway, so I've begun talking to her that we may need to break up because I just don't personally think I can handle it anymore, and that it isn't good for us. Every time she asks me why, I honestly but gently tell her. However, she breaks down crying saying she'll change and she'll try her hardest to make me happy and that she doesn't want to give up. Then, when she gets it together, she'll suddenly bust out sobbing again and say something like, "remember when we danced at your cousin's wedding?" and just keep sobbing. But, we've had this conversation five or six times over the course of our relationship because I've tried to break up with her for doing something not so great, or she's tried to break up with me because I was mad about her for doing these not so great things (won't get into details) and this happens every time. 

However, this makes me feel like she really, really does care for me and it really makes me wonder if we should break up. Then again, the other half of me is telling me I'm being a bitch for not having the courage and strength to just break up, because I know that if I don't we will have the conversation again in a few months or weeks.
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assistant