My sister is an awful person to me. We had a typical sibling relationship growing up, where we fought like cats and dogs. Everyone always told us we'd end up best friends, but I can honestly say I never see that happening.

We'll send each other funny pictures via text, talk about huge life events, etc. but then something inevitably happens that makes me want to cut her out of my life, only seeing her on holidays and when necessary. Am I unreasonable for not wanting a close relationship with my sister anymore?

An example I can give is I just had a miscarriage about a month ago. On the morning of, I was frantically texting her the events as they played out, unsure of what to do. When I told her I had just passed the baby, she responded with "pics or it didn't happen."

Weeks later, the next time I saw her, she told me that maybe I should stop getting pregnant, and that I probably miscarried because I was so stressed about it. Her words were "It's probably your fault you miscarried anyway, what with you freaking out and taking so many tests." Even though it was an unplanned pregnancy, she knew how much it meant to me and how devestated I was to lose this baby. She just didn't seem to care.

She always has something nasty to say about my appearance, acts like she has authority over me, puts me down in front of anyone she's trying to impress, etc. I really don't know what to do from this point because my parents don't know I was ever pregnant so I can't really explain to them why I don't wish to associate myself with her anymore, but they'll definitely ask me why I don't want much to do with her. I know that it may seem like an immature thing to do, what with my age, but I can truly say she's a toxic person in my life and nearly every encounter with her leaves me feeling depressed and worthless.
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My sister is verbally abusive and I have to see her on holidays and when necessary. Am I being too harsh on
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My sister is an awful person to me. We had a typical sibling relationship growing up, where we fought like cats and dogs. Everyone always told us we'd end up best friends, but I can honestly say I never see that happening.

We'll send each other funny pictures via text, talk about huge life events, etc. but then something inevitably happens that makes me want to cut her out of my life, only seeing her on holidays and when necessary. Am I unreasonable for not wanting a close relationship with my sister anymore?

An example I can give is I just had a miscarriage about a month ago. On the morning of, I was frantically texting her the events as they played out, unsure of what to do. When I told her I had just passed the baby, she responded with "pics or it didn't happen."

Weeks later, the next time I saw her, she told me that maybe I should stop getting pregnant, and that I probably miscarried because I was so stressed about it. Her words were "It's probably your fault you miscarried anyway, what with you freaking out and taking so many tests." Even though it was an unplanned pregnancy, she knew how much it meant to me and how devestated I was to lose this baby. She just didn't seem to care.

She always has something nasty to say about my appearance, acts like she has authority over me, puts me down in front of anyone she's trying to impress, etc. I really don't know what to do from this point because my parents don't know I was ever pregnant so I can't really explain to them why I don't wish to associate myself with her anymore, but they'll definitely ask me why I don't want much to do with her. I know that it may seem like an immature thing to do, what with my age, but I can truly say she's a toxic person in my life and nearly every encounter with her leaves me feeling depressed and worthless.
user
My sister is a horrible person and I don't know if I should just cut her out of my life like I've
assistant