A little background:  I'm 24, she's 26 and we're a year into a fantastic relationship.  She's had 3 long-term relationships prior to me, all of which ended very badly with her being cheated on.  On one of them, see walked in on the act.  One of the ex's was very manipulative and really broke down her self-worth and has caused her to have some trust issues.  He cheated on her with another guy, and multiple girls.  He was a chronic liar, and a very very good one.

Fast-forward to now.  We've just recently moved in together and have gotten over the "getting to know you" phase, which we both welcome and are very happy with each other.  We're "settling down", I guess you could say.  Some issues have started to surface, however, that worry me a little and I'd like to address them, but I don't know how.  She has admitted to me that she has an irrational fear of being cheated on, due to her past experiences.  We've talked about this in detail and cleared many things up, but the problem is very deep.  Simple situations like me staying up when she goes to bed brings out a fear in her that I'm talking to other girls online, or looking at porn and masturbating because she's not good enough.  Both of these are things that have actually happened to her with previous boyfriends, so I respect that she would have these fears.  I would just like to find a way to address the issue and help her realize that I'm not like any of her scumbug ex-boyfriends.  I would never cheat, I would never lie to her.  I really do love this person as much as it is possible to love another human being.  Is there anything I can do?
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Girlfriend has irrational fears
assistant
A little background:  I'm 24, she's 26 and we're a year into a fantastic relationship.  She's had 3 long-term relationships prior to me, all of which ended very badly with her being cheated on.  On one of them, see walked in on the act.  One of the ex's was very manipulative and really broke down her self-worth and has caused her to have some trust issues.  He cheated on her with another guy, and multiple girls.  He was a chronic liar, and a very very good one.

Fast-forward to now.  We've just recently moved in together and have gotten over the "getting to know you" phase, which we both welcome and are very happy with each other.  We're "settling down", I guess you could say.  Some issues have started to surface, however, that worry me a little and I'd like to address them, but I don't know how.  She has admitted to me that she has an irrational fear of being cheated on, due to her past experiences.  We've talked about this in detail and cleared many things up, but the problem is very deep.  Simple situations like me staying up when she goes to bed brings out a fear in her that I'm talking to other girls online, or looking at porn and masturbating because she's not good enough.  Both of these are things that have actually happened to her with previous boyfriends, so I respect that she would have these fears.  I would just like to find a way to address the issue and help her realize that I'm not like any of her scumbug ex-boyfriends.  I would never cheat, I would never lie to her.  I really do love this person as much as it is possible to love another human being.  Is there anything I can do?
user
Girlfriend has trust issues
assistant