It took about 1.5 months for me to come clean about a short lived fling with a toxic woman, but I finally did it. I don't need the internets to tell me I am a bastard and that I did something wrong... because I know that and willingly admit it. 

My struggle is this: I know that if I didn't tell her we probably could have lived a happy life together, al beit with my own inner struggle that would probably have silently held us back in a lot of ways.

Reddit, admitting what I did was the best course of action, correct? (Given the circumstances. I know you are all looking for a chance to jump down my throat. Please spare me.) I am not looking for a pity party here, just honesty. 

The jury is still out on what is going to happen, but I am playing this one close to the chest and don't want to talk to friends about it yet, though I am sure they will find out eventually. I will reap what I have sown on all accords either way I am sure.
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I (M26) was unfaithful to my GF(26) of 2+ years-- recently came clean-- I
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It took about 1.5 months for me to come clean about a short lived fling with a toxic woman, but I finally did it. I don't need the internets to tell me I am a bastard and that I did something wrong... because I know that and willingly admit it. 

My struggle is this: I know that if I didn't tell her we probably could have lived a happy life together, al beit with my own inner struggle that would probably have silently held us back in a lot of ways.

Reddit, admitting what I did was the best course of action, correct? (Given the circumstances. I know you are all looking for a chance to jump down my throat. Please spare me.) I am not looking for a pity party here, just honesty. 

The jury is still out on what is going to happen, but I am playing this one close to the chest and don't want to talk to friends about it yet, though I am sure they will find out eventually. I will reap what I have sown on all accords either way I am sure.
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coming clean and sharing my story/rage/feelings about my infidelity. EDIT: I'm not saying I
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