[The first post, sorry it's long.](

So today we had an awkward intimate hour at her suggestion, and after she got really guilty looking. She dodged any questions about if she was feeling alright, and finally after giving me a "last-kiss" style kiss, she told me she's now really attracted to the guy in the theater program I was worried about.

The whole time she wouldn't meet my eye, she said that he's not "dumb" like she used to insist. He's "really smart, and kind, and caring." I follow up with "As kind and caring as me?" It takes her a minute to reply, which was an answer in and of itself, and she says "he's *as* kind and caring as you." She said she's really curious about what it would be like to date him, and that they were ships passing in the night, never single at the same time. To quote her further, "You're my world, but he's like Africa." (We like Indiana Jones and adventure type novels/movies/posters, so Africa is a metaphor for the unexplored and mysterious.)

She went on to tell me that she actually had more of a past with the guy, that back before I met her, he used to walk her to her dorm every night, and flirted hard till he found out she had a boyfriend, and I think she liked him more than she let on.

She told me how much she loved being with me, but that she just doesn't know what to do. I told her I was going to take some time to think on it, but I don't know what to say.

They're in theater together, which means they spend at least four hours a day together, and *their characters are in love.* Other members of the theater department make side remarks that he's been acting odd as of late too. I'm no longer sure she's not cheating on me...

Edit: She's also spending much more time with the guy's closest friend in the theater department, and he's kind of a dick... I can't tell if it's related.
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I think she's falling for another guy after a year with me, she's "curious" about what it would be like to date
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[The first post, sorry it's long.](

So today we had an awkward intimate hour at her suggestion, and after she got really guilty looking. She dodged any questions about if she was feeling alright, and finally after giving me a "last-kiss" style kiss, she told me she's now really attracted to the guy in the theater program I was worried about.

The whole time she wouldn't meet my eye, she said that he's not "dumb" like she used to insist. He's "really smart, and kind, and caring." I follow up with "As kind and caring as me?" It takes her a minute to reply, which was an answer in and of itself, and she says "he's *as* kind and caring as you." She said she's really curious about what it would be like to date him, and that they were ships passing in the night, never single at the same time. To quote her further, "You're my world, but he's like Africa." (We like Indiana Jones and adventure type novels/movies/posters, so Africa is a metaphor for the unexplored and mysterious.)

She went on to tell me that she actually had more of a past with the guy, that back before I met her, he used to walk her to her dorm every night, and flirted hard till he found out she had a boyfriend, and I think she liked him more than she let on.

She told me how much she loved being with me, but that she just doesn't know what to do. I told her I was going to take some time to think on it, but I don't know what to say.

They're in theater together, which means they spend at least four hours a day together, and *their characters are in love.* Other members of the theater department make side remarks that he's been acting odd as of late too. I'm no longer sure she's not cheating on me...

Edit: She's also spending much more time with the guy's closest friend in the theater department, and he's kind of a dick... I can't tell if it's related.
user
I think my ex is cheating on me, and I don't know what to say to her...
assistant