I've had a crush on this girl for about a month now. She's 16 or 17 as well, but we aren't super well acquainted. We've been in the same class and school district for the past 4 or 5 years, and as badly as I want to ask her out and get to know her, I haven't.

Aside from the classic jitters of asking a pretty girl out and my own inexperience, I am concerned I might not be able to handle a relationship.

Most notably, she and I exist in pretty separate social circles. I'm friendly with her in-school social circle, but I don't hang out with them personally. I'm worried that if I want to spend a moderate amount of time with her, I will have to spend too much time away from my current friends, who are near and dear to me. I don't want to neglect them.

Also, Junior year is pretty rough and I don't know if I could manage my time correctly with a girlfriend before second semester came around, so I could reorganize myself. Should I wait in this case? I've been guilty in the past of crushing way to hard on a girl I've never dated (although I'd describe past events as infatuation - this is different).

Finally, the only thing I can think of is to ask her out to coffee or a movie or something so I can talk to her and get to know her. She seems smart and collected, and she seems to have self-respect. However, from what I gather this isn't typical in high school? And I don't know what is typical if that isn't.
user
I have a crush on a girl who is a good friend and classmate, but I'm worried about time management and social barriers. Should I ask her out or
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I've had a crush on this girl for about a month now. She's 16 or 17 as well, but we aren't super well acquainted. We've been in the same class and school district for the past 4 or 5 years, and as badly as I want to ask her out and get to know her, I haven't.

Aside from the classic jitters of asking a pretty girl out and my own inexperience, I am concerned I might not be able to handle a relationship.

Most notably, she and I exist in pretty separate social circles. I'm friendly with her in-school social circle, but I don't hang out with them personally. I'm worried that if I want to spend a moderate amount of time with her, I will have to spend too much time away from my current friends, who are near and dear to me. I don't want to neglect them.

Also, Junior year is pretty rough and I don't know if I could manage my time correctly with a girlfriend before second semester came around, so I could reorganize myself. Should I wait in this case? I've been guilty in the past of crushing way to hard on a girl I've never dated (although I'd describe past events as infatuation - this is different).

Finally, the only thing I can think of is to ask her out to coffee or a movie or something so I can talk to her and get to know her. She seems smart and collected, and she seems to have self-respect. However, from what I gather this isn't typical in high school? And I don't know what is typical if that isn't.
user
I have a crush that I don't know how to manage or if I can handle a serious relationship. Should I wait for a while or ask her out
assistant