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Hey again /r/relationshps. I didn't expect to be posting another update. This morning my [27M] girlfriend [27F] called me and said she had spoken about our problems to her best friend who convinced her she was in the wrong. She apologized and said it was a mistake on her part to have been so upset with me. She said her insecurities are a result of her past, and she's ready to let those things go and be with me. She said she had been wrong to try and control my thoughts, and was fully committed to  making things work between us. I was grateful for her honest effort to fix things, and agreed to give it another shot.

Later when we were together she confessed that her female friend bailed on their plans to go to a concert together last night. Instead she ended up going with a mutual male friend of ours, and they kissed. She said it was a dumb mistake, and both of them agreed on that point after it had happened. She said she was just in pain, and wanted to feel better.

I appreciate her honesty. She didn't have to tell me, and she did. But it was crushing to hear that. Last night I was in my bath tub trying not to cry while she went to a concert and kissed our mutual friend. I understand she was in pain, but its really troubling to me that she chose that method to deal with it. I said I wanted to go home and think it over. That's where I am now. She seems desperate to try again. I don't know if I can. I don't know what to do. Your kind and insightful replies have been a huge help. I'd really appreciate your advice again. Thank you.
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Girlfriend and I broke up
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[Updated post](

Hey again /r/relationshps. I didn't expect to be posting another update. This morning my [27M] girlfriend [27F] called me and said she had spoken about our problems to her best friend who convinced her she was in the wrong. She apologized and said it was a mistake on her part to have been so upset with me. She said her insecurities are a result of her past, and she's ready to let those things go and be with me. She said she had been wrong to try and control my thoughts, and was fully committed to  making things work between us. I was grateful for her honest effort to fix things, and agreed to give it another shot.

Later when we were together she confessed that her female friend bailed on their plans to go to a concert together last night. Instead she ended up going with a mutual male friend of ours, and they kissed. She said it was a dumb mistake, and both of them agreed on that point after it had happened. She said she was just in pain, and wanted to feel better.

I appreciate her honesty. She didn't have to tell me, and she did. But it was crushing to hear that. Last night I was in my bath tub trying not to cry while she went to a concert and kissed our mutual friend. I understand she was in pain, but its really troubling to me that she chose that method to deal with it. I said I wanted to go home and think it over. That's where I am now. She seems desperate to try again. I don't know if I can. I don't know what to do. Your kind and insightful replies have been a huge help. I'd really appreciate your advice again. Thank you.
user
I forgave my girlfriend for
assistant