Hey guys,
So recently, I reconnected with a friend through facebook (she found me) that was my oldest friend. We are studying in two different countries, both abroad. When she friended me, I thought she would initiate a conversation just to catch up and stuff. She didn't, so I took the initiative to do so. We did catch up, but her replies were very to the point and she did nothing to carry the conversation. When I initiated the conversation I was really excited because I hadn't seen this person in an incredible amount of time, and we were each other's first friends. I was really thrilled to catch up and see what she had been up to all this time and hopefully develop a good friendship out of it. So in that context, her responses kind of threw me off, as she always seemed distracted and not really into it. I don't think there was anything I said that could have offended/upset her in any way, and I'm just trying to get you guys' thoughts on why this could be. 

Cheers!
user
reconnected with a friend after a long time. She seemed
assistant
Hey guys,
So recently, I reconnected with a friend through facebook (she found me) that was my oldest friend. We are studying in two different countries, both abroad. When she friended me, I thought she would initiate a conversation just to catch up and stuff. She didn't, so I took the initiative to do so. We did catch up, but her replies were very to the point and she did nothing to carry the conversation. When I initiated the conversation I was really excited because I hadn't seen this person in an incredible amount of time, and we were each other's first friends. I was really thrilled to catch up and see what she had been up to all this time and hopefully develop a good friendship out of it. So in that context, her responses kind of threw me off, as she always seemed distracted and not really into it. I don't think there was anything I said that could have offended/upset her in any way, and I'm just trying to get you guys' thoughts on why this could be. 

Cheers!
user
My friend has been my oldest friend for 16 years,
assistant