I have been with this guy for 2 and a half years, and I really do love him. Lately he's been getting angry at everything, though. I'm a pretty calm person, but when he gets angry, I lose it. His anger makes me angry. It's usually when I'm telling him how I feel about some of the things he says or does. I simply tell him, "I don't like it when you........" or "it bothers me when you........." and he stays silent. It's as if I'm talking to a wall. I then ask him to say something and he replies with "I don't know what to say." If we're on the phone he'll make excuses to get off. I tell him it's important to communicate and that our relationship won't work out if he never talks things out with me. Then he gets angry. This has been going on for a few months now. I just want to have a healthy relationship with him because I don't plan on losing him. He's a great guy, but he really needs to calm down sometimes. He's punched a car door, thrown his glasses, and he's also been very rude to me. I don't deserve his disrespect and I've told him numerous times. He was the perfect guy, but he's changed a lot. I don't know what to do anymore! Please help, Reddit!
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My boyfriend gets mad every
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I have been with this guy for 2 and a half years, and I really do love him. Lately he's been getting angry at everything, though. I'm a pretty calm person, but when he gets angry, I lose it. His anger makes me angry. It's usually when I'm telling him how I feel about some of the things he says or does. I simply tell him, "I don't like it when you........" or "it bothers me when you........." and he stays silent. It's as if I'm talking to a wall. I then ask him to say something and he replies with "I don't know what to say." If we're on the phone he'll make excuses to get off. I tell him it's important to communicate and that our relationship won't work out if he never talks things out with me. Then he gets angry. This has been going on for a few months now. I just want to have a healthy relationship with him because I don't plan on losing him. He's a great guy, but he really needs to calm down sometimes. He's punched a car door, thrown his glasses, and he's also been very rude to me. I don't deserve his disrespect and I've told him numerous times. He was the perfect guy, but he's changed a lot. I don't know what to do anymore! Please help, Reddit!
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My boyfriend is angry, and
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