27 Male  26 Female

Went out a few times, and I really started to like her.  Then, when I text/call asking if she is free on X or Y night, or she began to make excuses or ignore the calls completely.  I take these signs as her losing interest.  I figure if she liked me back, she would suggest alternate times or at least get back to me.

It sucks, but I try and start moving on.  But every few days I get a text like "Hi! what's up?" or just about something funny that we've talked about.  This kind of leads to a light conversation...which makes me want to ask her out again, in case I misinterpreted and she actually *is* interested.  So I tried it again, and still she never answered about hanging out.

Does she value me as a new friend, or something?  Is she keeping me on her "hook" (just making sure I'm around/available for her, also known as a boytoy)?  Is she legitimately busy as all hell?

Edited to add: just want to describe her a bit and what I feel *might* be happening.  She is a very very cute, petite little thing who usually has guys giving her lots of attention and hanging around her.  I am handsome and do not give her a ton of attention, so I think she might just be making sure I'm 'around'...making sure I will respond to her texts, etc.  I've seen girls like this before..heck, I've dated girls like this before, and it usually doesn't end well.  Just wanted to throw this in here as I think it could be the case.
user
I am starting to think she doesn't have any interest in me, but is giving me the odd 'hey, what's up' text every few days. Does she have a crush
assistant
27 Male  26 Female

Went out a few times, and I really started to like her.  Then, when I text/call asking if she is free on X or Y night, or she began to make excuses or ignore the calls completely.  I take these signs as her losing interest.  I figure if she liked me back, she would suggest alternate times or at least get back to me.

It sucks, but I try and start moving on.  But every few days I get a text like "Hi! what's up?" or just about something funny that we've talked about.  This kind of leads to a light conversation...which makes me want to ask her out again, in case I misinterpreted and she actually *is* interested.  So I tried it again, and still she never answered about hanging out.

Does she value me as a new friend, or something?  Is she keeping me on her "hook" (just making sure I'm around/available for her, also known as a boytoy)?  Is she legitimately busy as all hell?

Edited to add: just want to describe her a bit and what I feel *might* be happening.  She is a very very cute, petite little thing who usually has guys giving her lots of attention and hanging around her.  I am handsome and do not give her a ton of attention, so I think she might just be making sure I'm 'around'...making sure I will respond to her texts, etc.  I've seen girls like this before..heck, I've dated girls like this before, and it usually doesn't end well.  Just wanted to throw this in here as I think it could be the case.
user
Girl doesn't seem interested in hanging out again, but still stays in touch. We have only know eachother ~1 month, so it's not like we're good friends, so I'm wondering
assistant