Good day Reddit Crew!
I had a post on here a few days ago.. 

I emailed her yesterday for what I am making the final attempt to work things out, she replied a few hours later that she was going to be away from home and would respond later, still no response though... 

I need to stress that i was the one to split up.. During the time of split up, I quit taking effexor(she thought i should get on meds about a year and a half ago) I felt completely neglected and tried hard to talk about the issues i was having only to be met with arguments, blame, and getting yelled at. We both agreed the kids were suffering, my ex-wife had to pick up the oldest 2 on more than one occasion, while i pleaded with my current ex about her yelling and fighting.

Ever since the other guy (facebook guy, she became friends with while we were having problems) asked her out 2 weeks after she moved out, its been an emotional rollercoaster, and I now find myself questioning if i could even get passed that whole scenario... I under stand we split up and her dating him was after the fact... however its the Who, what, where, and when that cause me issues. How would you feel?? Do i look at this like a rebound, if she decides to give it another shot?

Question.... Is it worth trying to work out your issues when you have a family involved?, I feel like it is, however what would condone not too? I feel like if we both went to counseling maybe we could learn to argue or communicate better.
user
I am trying to get over a breakup that occurred 4.5 years ago, and i need advice on how to proceed
assistant
Good day Reddit Crew!
I had a post on here a few days ago.. 

I emailed her yesterday for what I am making the final attempt to work things out, she replied a few hours later that she was going to be away from home and would respond later, still no response though... 

I need to stress that i was the one to split up.. During the time of split up, I quit taking effexor(she thought i should get on meds about a year and a half ago) I felt completely neglected and tried hard to talk about the issues i was having only to be met with arguments, blame, and getting yelled at. We both agreed the kids were suffering, my ex-wife had to pick up the oldest 2 on more than one occasion, while i pleaded with my current ex about her yelling and fighting.

Ever since the other guy (facebook guy, she became friends with while we were having problems) asked her out 2 weeks after she moved out, its been an emotional rollercoaster, and I now find myself questioning if i could even get passed that whole scenario... I under stand we split up and her dating him was after the fact... however its the Who, what, where, and when that cause me issues. How would you feel?? Do i look at this like a rebound, if she decides to give it another shot?

Question.... Is it worth trying to work out your issues when you have a family involved?, I feel like it is, however what would condone not too? I feel like if we both went to counseling maybe we could learn to argue or communicate better.
user
When do you just completely give up and move on from the mother of your child?
assistant