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Update: I'm in therapy and moving on. We have gone NC and I have no intention of ever taking her back ever again. Since then, mutual friends have come out of the woodwork and sent me screenshots/text conversations of her 'new man' hitting on them after him and my ex made it official, and further googling showed me that this perfect guy is a womanizing, generally unsavory person.

Herein lies the problem: I still care about my ex as a human being despite what she did to me. She told me herself that she had strong feelings for this new guy and that he seems perfect before we went NC. How/Should I pass along this information to her without seeming insanely crazy and being accused of wrecking things? She's got a bright future, doesn't  deserve an STD and deserves to know what she's getting into, or am I overthinking and should leave things alone?
user
How can I pass along info to my now ex without her feeling
assistant
Previous story [here](

Update: I'm in therapy and moving on. We have gone NC and I have no intention of ever taking her back ever again. Since then, mutual friends have come out of the woodwork and sent me screenshots/text conversations of her 'new man' hitting on them after him and my ex made it official, and further googling showed me that this perfect guy is a womanizing, generally unsavory person.

Herein lies the problem: I still care about my ex as a human being despite what she did to me. She told me herself that she had strong feelings for this new guy and that he seems perfect before we went NC. How/Should I pass along this information to her without seeming insanely crazy and being accused of wrecking things? She's got a bright future, doesn't  deserve an STD and deserves to know what she's getting into, or am I overthinking and should leave things alone?
user
I'm currently dating a new guy and am being accused of destroying her
assistant