I share a desk with a woman who I have become friends with but we are like night and day.  She is extremely loud and boisterous and I am more introverted and quiet.  She talks about the guys shes dating, shows me guys she is interested in on Tinder, talks openly about how she needs a big cock using euphemisms but it is totally obvious what she is talking about.  This is only one example of the ways she makes me extremely uncomfortable.  

I find myself engaging in these conversations that make me extremely uncomfortable and self conscious, but I do not wish to hurt her feelings or damage our relationship, as we sit very close.

I have shared things with her regarding my personal life and she brings it up at work which makes me extremely uncomfortable.

It also looks very unprofessional to all those around us and I prefer to keep up an attitude of decorum especially since women are a minority in our industry.

How can I bring the vibe back up to professional while still keeping things fun between us?
user
Coworker talks openly about guy shes dating and shows interest in. makes me uncomfortable and look bad around coworkers and other coworkers. need to tone down the talk/relationship or risk damage to our
assistant
I share a desk with a woman who I have become friends with but we are like night and day.  She is extremely loud and boisterous and I am more introverted and quiet.  She talks about the guys shes dating, shows me guys she is interested in on Tinder, talks openly about how she needs a big cock using euphemisms but it is totally obvious what she is talking about.  This is only one example of the ways she makes me extremely uncomfortable.  

I find myself engaging in these conversations that make me extremely uncomfortable and self conscious, but I do not wish to hurt her feelings or damage our relationship, as we sit very close.

I have shared things with her regarding my personal life and she brings it up at work which makes me extremely uncomfortable.

It also looks very unprofessional to all those around us and I prefer to keep up an attitude of decorum especially since women are a minority in our industry.

How can I bring the vibe back up to professional while still keeping things fun between us?
user
Coworker and desk mate is extremely loud and boisterous at work which makes me very uncomfortable and self conscious. Need to re-establish professionalism and vibe with coworkers ASAP!
assistant