This morning when my girlfriend  left for work left her facebook open. I  woke up an hour later and went to check my email on her computer. I realized her facebook was open and a open flirtatious message caught my eye. I have never snooped on her before but I could not help it based on the content of the message. This guy seems to be a old "friends with benefits". I read through the message history and there is a lot of flirting going on between the two (nothing to explicit). It is mainly initiated by him. 

The message that stood out was that he was joking around that they should move in together (she is looking for a roomate) and that she should tell me that they are just roomates and not to tell me the little specifics. My girlfriend just reponded with a :) haha. The messages had no indication that they are meeting up or anything physical happening between them. Despite him initating most of the flirting, my girlfriend starts conversations with him in a flirtatious manner. She also mentions to him in the conversations that she is happy with me, that I am a good guy etc. and is not use to being in such a stable relationships. I know she has had some pretty shitty relationships in the past and compared to them I am pretty "normal"

We have been dating for just over a year, rarely fight and love eachother very much. I am not proud that I snooped on her open facebook but at the same time I feel like I need to confront her or I know it will eat away at me. Any adivice? I am really conflicted as what to do?
user
I snooped on
assistant
This morning when my girlfriend  left for work left her facebook open. I  woke up an hour later and went to check my email on her computer. I realized her facebook was open and a open flirtatious message caught my eye. I have never snooped on her before but I could not help it based on the content of the message. This guy seems to be a old "friends with benefits". I read through the message history and there is a lot of flirting going on between the two (nothing to explicit). It is mainly initiated by him. 

The message that stood out was that he was joking around that they should move in together (she is looking for a roomate) and that she should tell me that they are just roomates and not to tell me the little specifics. My girlfriend just reponded with a :) haha. The messages had no indication that they are meeting up or anything physical happening between them. Despite him initating most of the flirting, my girlfriend starts conversations with him in a flirtatious manner. She also mentions to him in the conversations that she is happy with me, that I am a good guy etc. and is not use to being in such a stable relationships. I know she has had some pretty shitty relationships in the past and compared to them I am pretty "normal"

We have been dating for just over a year, rarely fight and love eachother very much. I am not proud that I snooped on her open facebook but at the same time I feel like I need to confront her or I know it will eat away at me. Any adivice? I am really conflicted as what to do?
user
Snooped on girlfriends
assistant