My boyfriend woke up early yesterday morning and was sitting at his desk, next to our bed. I was sleeping and he said I started to pant and breathe harder. He thought 'Oh she is having a sex dream' then I say his friends name, which is also our roommate. I wake up and he is clearly upset I ask what's wrong and he says we'll talk about it later. He asks me what I was dreaming about, I remember going to the house I grew up and and seeing my sisters there.  So later comes and he tells me what happen. I tell him I do not remember having a sex dream about his friend and that I have no attraction to him. He is very upset and told me the way I was breathing (when I said his friends name) was how I breathe when we are having sex and I am trying to not make noise. I have no idea what to do. Our roommate sometimes walks around without a shirt on and a few weeks ago I said to my bf "so and so's chest hair grosses me out.' But now my bf thinks I just said that to ensure he doesn't get suspicious of my attraction towards him. This whole time I am like 'wtf I am attracted to you not him. I love you and would not do that to you.' but he is still upset and he is still trying to "connect things." ie my bf took a shower and when he came out he said our roommates face was red, flushed like he was embarrassed and  rushed in his room. I have no idea what he is talking about because I say 3 things to our roommate--hi, good morning, have a good day. My bf is hurting so bad and I do not know what to do or how to make him feel better.
   
**edit:** would would be great to hear from people who have heard their SO do this and how they felt. How did you get over it?
user
bf heard me say our roommate in my sleep, he is upset. I don't know how to make him feel better.
assistant
My boyfriend woke up early yesterday morning and was sitting at his desk, next to our bed. I was sleeping and he said I started to pant and breathe harder. He thought 'Oh she is having a sex dream' then I say his friends name, which is also our roommate. I wake up and he is clearly upset I ask what's wrong and he says we'll talk about it later. He asks me what I was dreaming about, I remember going to the house I grew up and and seeing my sisters there.  So later comes and he tells me what happen. I tell him I do not remember having a sex dream about his friend and that I have no attraction to him. He is very upset and told me the way I was breathing (when I said his friends name) was how I breathe when we are having sex and I am trying to not make noise. I have no idea what to do. Our roommate sometimes walks around without a shirt on and a few weeks ago I said to my bf "so and so's chest hair grosses me out.' But now my bf thinks I just said that to ensure he doesn't get suspicious of my attraction towards him. This whole time I am like 'wtf I am attracted to you not him. I love you and would not do that to you.' but he is still upset and he is still trying to "connect things." ie my bf took a shower and when he came out he said our roommates face was red, flushed like he was embarrassed and  rushed in his room. I have no idea what he is talking about because I say 3 things to our roommate--hi, good morning, have a good day. My bf is hurting so bad and I do not know what to do or how to make him feel better.
   
**edit:** would would be great to hear from people who have heard their SO do this and how they felt. How did you get over it?
user
My bf woke up and thought I was having sex with our roommate and I am trying not to make noise.
assistant