Well we had only been dating since March of this year, but we knew since ~June of 2014 that we wanted to be together, just never acted on it, so it was sort of a long time coming. In the beginning of the relationship it was AWESOME. She was everything I wanted (or so I thought). We were big into partying and "raving" together, and she got me out of my shell and I started to go out all the time and hang with new people and party etc etc. But after a while, our differences started to show. Our relationship got worse and we'd fight a ton, but stay together because neither of us wanted to leave. But, just last month, after a concert she broke up with me because I "caused a scene" (she was on cocaine and being a total bitch). Now, we've been broken up for about 5 weeks and I've become a total recluse. I don't go out at all, I spend all my time sitting inside and playing video games and if I'm not home I'm at work. NOW, I found out all my "friends" are hanging out and partying with her - the same friends that told me they had my back and would help me through this. Now I REALLY have no incentive to leave and hang out with people. I obviously still miss her and would be together with her again if she was willing, but she's not. I know I'm a better person than she is and she was mostly the problem, but she turns it on me.  What do I do man? Am I wrong to want to spend all my time alone right now? I feel betrayed by my friends and like I can't even go out because she'll be intertwined with everyone I thought I was close with. Thanks.
user
Recently broke up with 18 year old GF who turned out to be a complete bitch, don't know where to go because everyone is hanging out with her and partying
assistant
Well we had only been dating since March of this year, but we knew since ~June of 2014 that we wanted to be together, just never acted on it, so it was sort of a long time coming. In the beginning of the relationship it was AWESOME. She was everything I wanted (or so I thought). We were big into partying and "raving" together, and she got me out of my shell and I started to go out all the time and hang with new people and party etc etc. But after a while, our differences started to show. Our relationship got worse and we'd fight a ton, but stay together because neither of us wanted to leave. But, just last month, after a concert she broke up with me because I "caused a scene" (she was on cocaine and being a total bitch). Now, we've been broken up for about 5 weeks and I've become a total recluse. I don't go out at all, I spend all my time sitting inside and playing video games and if I'm not home I'm at work. NOW, I found out all my "friends" are hanging out and partying with her - the same friends that told me they had my back and would help me through this. Now I REALLY have no incentive to leave and hang out with people. I obviously still miss her and would be together with her again if she was willing, but she's not. I know I'm a better person than she is and she was mostly the problem, but she turns it on me.  What do I do man? Am I wrong to want to spend all my time alone right now? I feel betrayed by my friends and like I can't even go out because she'll be intertwined with everyone I thought I was close with. Thanks.
user
Recently broken up with GF, now I'm stuck in an anti-social rut and don't know what to do or where to go from here.
assistant