Hey there, throwaway for obvious reasons. So, here is a bit of backstory:

After seeing that I had well over $800 dollars in my own account, and little games in my collection, I decided to go on Steam and make a few purchases. I wanted to use my own bank account with PayPal - however, my mother was strictly adamant about it, so I used, in secret, her debit card. I attempted linking it with my bank account, but it ultimately failed, remaining to her account.

After spending about $700 dollars in the course of 9 months, I was about to reveal this to my parents, when my dad gets a disturbing phonecall from a bank in Amsterdam. It was his brother and another angry guy, who claimed that money from their bank accounts was missing. And also, money from my dad's account was missing - he was pissed real bad. On the phone, he sounded ready to kill me, and tells me that I've been stealing money from him.

I checked my PayPal purchase history - nothing but the purchases I made, and I tell him that they must be making a mistake. There was absolutely no transaction that linked to his or his brother's acoounts. I then carefully explain to him that I am going to pay for my purchases, and that he shouldn't be making a fuss about it. Instead, he blows in rage and tells me that I'm "going to be in deep shit when [he comes] home".

We are financially stable, and yes, I can pay for all my expenses, but he is making such a big drama about it and says that we are going to "lose the house" and we're going to be homeless. What can I do to calm him down and defuse the situation?
user
Spent $700 dollars with my mom's account over 9 months, want to pay for it but dad and his brother, and another distraught guy from the Netherlands claim that I've been taking
assistant
Hey there, throwaway for obvious reasons. So, here is a bit of backstory:

After seeing that I had well over $800 dollars in my own account, and little games in my collection, I decided to go on Steam and make a few purchases. I wanted to use my own bank account with PayPal - however, my mother was strictly adamant about it, so I used, in secret, her debit card. I attempted linking it with my bank account, but it ultimately failed, remaining to her account.

After spending about $700 dollars in the course of 9 months, I was about to reveal this to my parents, when my dad gets a disturbing phonecall from a bank in Amsterdam. It was his brother and another angry guy, who claimed that money from their bank accounts was missing. And also, money from my dad's account was missing - he was pissed real bad. On the phone, he sounded ready to kill me, and tells me that I've been stealing money from him.

I checked my PayPal purchase history - nothing but the purchases I made, and I tell him that they must be making a mistake. There was absolutely no transaction that linked to his or his brother's acoounts. I then carefully explain to him that I am going to pay for my purchases, and that he shouldn't be making a fuss about it. Instead, he blows in rage and tells me that I'm "going to be in deep shit when [he comes] home".

We are financially stable, and yes, I can pay for all my expenses, but he is making such a big drama about it and says that we are going to "lose the house" and we're going to be homeless. What can I do to calm him down and defuse the situation?
user
My parents are saying that I've been stealing money from them. Is this true? How can I calm down my parents?
assistant