I'm not really sure what to do. I met this girl 6 months ago and we became pretty good friends. We go dancing about twice a week, just as friends, but a couple weeks ago she confessed to having a huge crush on me.

I've been attracted to her since we first met, but I told her that I was looking for someone more experienced. I said that she's too young for me and I didn't want to take advantage of her in case she was just lonely or naive, and I really don't want to be seen as one of those insecure creeper guys who looks for younger girls. She was a little offended but she let it go.

It came up again last week, but I didn't give a firm no. I just decided we should talk about it more. Then I asked my best friend [25 F] what I should do, and she encouraged me to give the girl a chance because my only reservation was the age thing.

So we talked about it for a long time. We're in different places in life, but we're not incompatible, and I'm convinced that her head is in the right place. I ended up kissing her goodnight.

I still have mixed feelings about it. I haven't been this excited about someone for years, but I am worried about the social scrutiny. I think I'm just here looking for advice from people who have tried something like this before.
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My friend wants to date me, and I'd like to date her too but I'm concerned that she's too young for me. Any advice?
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I'm not really sure what to do. I met this girl 6 months ago and we became pretty good friends. We go dancing about twice a week, just as friends, but a couple weeks ago she confessed to having a huge crush on me.

I've been attracted to her since we first met, but I told her that I was looking for someone more experienced. I said that she's too young for me and I didn't want to take advantage of her in case she was just lonely or naive, and I really don't want to be seen as one of those insecure creeper guys who looks for younger girls. She was a little offended but she let it go.

It came up again last week, but I didn't give a firm no. I just decided we should talk about it more. Then I asked my best friend [25 F] what I should do, and she encouraged me to give the girl a chance because my only reservation was the age thing.

So we talked about it for a long time. We're in different places in life, but we're not incompatible, and I'm convinced that her head is in the right place. I ended up kissing her goodnight.

I still have mixed feelings about it. I haven't been this excited about someone for years, but I am worried about the social scrutiny. I think I'm just here looking for advice from people who have tried something like this before.
user
Like the title says, my friend [19 F] wants to date me [29 M], and I'd like to date her too, but I'm concerned that
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