Hola Redditors,

I want to explain my situation and hear others opinions on what my plans are. So in July 2014 I was traveling through Santiago Chile and I met a girl via Badoo (Tinder). We met at a coffee shop near her house and 2 hours later we were in her bed. We had an amazing night and she messaged me the next night for the same. I told her from the start I was passing through and she seemed okay with this.

We had these 2 nights together and then I kept traveling through South America, but we continued to chat every day. Then she decided to buy a plane ticket and meet me in Sao Paulo Brazil for an 8 day "honeymoon". She rented us an apartment on AirBnB and we had an amazing week. At the end when she flew home she gave me a book of love notes she had been writing me, leading up to her visit to Brazil. I loved it and truly felt she loved me.

Fast forward 5 weeks and I was back in Canada when I decided to take a chance and fly back to Santiago to live with this girl. She welcomed me into her (our) apartment and we've had another amazing 3 months living together. Going on picnic's, playing games, having disagreements and making up, holidays, birthdays & I've met her family maybe 10 times and they seem to like me.

I feel think I'm in love and see my future with this woman. We've discussed in detail our future, moving to Vancouver, having kids and a dog, decorating our house, etc. My question is this: I've known her for 6 months now (minus a week), is it too soon to ask her to marry me? I've heard 1-2 years but I don't feel I need to know anymore about this girl to know she's the one. I'll never know everything and I'm fine with that. There is some other reasons to move faster because we have talked about marriage in Chile with her family and moving to Canada in May which leaves us 5 months to do all that. But I don't think those facts are pressuring me to move fast.

Thanks for any tips/advice.
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Hola Redditors,

I want to explain my situation and hear others opinions on what my plans are. So in July 2014 I was traveling through Santiago Chile and I met a girl via Badoo (Tinder). We met at a coffee shop near her house and 2 hours later we were in her bed. We had an amazing night and she messaged me the next night for the same. I told her from the start I was passing through and she seemed okay with this.

We had these 2 nights together and then I kept traveling through South America, but we continued to chat every day. Then she decided to buy a plane ticket and meet me in Sao Paulo Brazil for an 8 day "honeymoon". She rented us an apartment on AirBnB and we had an amazing week. At the end when she flew home she gave me a book of love notes she had been writing me, leading up to her visit to Brazil. I loved it and truly felt she loved me.

Fast forward 5 weeks and I was back in Canada when I decided to take a chance and fly back to Santiago to live with this girl. She welcomed me into her (our) apartment and we've had another amazing 3 months living together. Going on picnic's, playing games, having disagreements and making up, holidays, birthdays & I've met her family maybe 10 times and they seem to like me.

I feel think I'm in love and see my future with this woman. We've discussed in detail our future, moving to Vancouver, having kids and a dog, decorating our house, etc. My question is this: I've known her for 6 months now (minus a week), is it too soon to ask her to marry me? I've heard 1-2 years but I don't feel I need to know anymore about this girl to know she's the one. I'll never know everything and I'm fine with that. There is some other reasons to move faster because we have talked about marriage in Chile with her family and moving to Canada in May which leaves us 5 months to do all that. But I don't think those facts are pressuring me to move fast.

Thanks for any tips/advice.
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