We just broke up two days ago.
I went to my parents for a night and came home last night at 9:30 and he wasn't here.

 
He goes to the bar with his coworkers every night, usually I end up having to go pick him up and bring him home, but he had the car. Or else I would have. 

He texted me saying he was sleeping at work tonight.

He has a bad drinking problem, and I know he was out with his guy friends drinking all night. But I hope I just hope he wasn't with another girl.

Part of me thinks he just got really really drunk and went to the office and slept. He's not the type of guy a woman desires when he's drinking anyways.
So there's that.

I feel like when he gets home we'll end up talking it out because when he dumped me, he was drunk..and knowing him after being together for over three years, I know how he is drunk and how the next day he feels bad.

We live together, so the no contact thing doesn't work. I don't have anywhere to go. And I'm on this lease.

My goal, is to work toward repairing this relationship by the time the lease is up.

I told him I was just going to my parents house for a day or so, to let us calm down. I told him we were going to talk when I get back and he said okay. 

I know he cares, and he has a problem.

But I just can't imagine him being with someone else. I just hope last night he just drank himself into a stupor.. Because I know once we talk we'll work things out. I know how he works better than he knows how he works..and he has pushed every good thing out of his life.. 
I refuse to give up on him.
user
We broke up two days ago. He went out and got really drunk with his guy friends, and I'm just trying to
assistant
We just broke up two days ago.
I went to my parents for a night and came home last night at 9:30 and he wasn't here.

 
He goes to the bar with his coworkers every night, usually I end up having to go pick him up and bring him home, but he had the car. Or else I would have. 

He texted me saying he was sleeping at work tonight.

He has a bad drinking problem, and I know he was out with his guy friends drinking all night. But I hope I just hope he wasn't with another girl.

Part of me thinks he just got really really drunk and went to the office and slept. He's not the type of guy a woman desires when he's drinking anyways.
So there's that.

I feel like when he gets home we'll end up talking it out because when he dumped me, he was drunk..and knowing him after being together for over three years, I know how he is drunk and how the next day he feels bad.

We live together, so the no contact thing doesn't work. I don't have anywhere to go. And I'm on this lease.

My goal, is to work toward repairing this relationship by the time the lease is up.

I told him I was just going to my parents house for a day or so, to let us calm down. I told him we were going to talk when I get back and he said okay. 

I know he cares, and he has a problem.

But I just can't imagine him being with someone else. I just hope last night he just drank himself into a stupor.. Because I know once we talk we'll work things out. I know how he works better than he knows how he works..and he has pushed every good thing out of his life.. 
I refuse to give up on him.
user
bf is an alcoholic, dumped me while drunk and didn't come home last night.
assistant