Throw away because I know he uses reddit. 

I've recently started dating a wonderful man. We get along great, he's very kind, and we have a lot in common. This may sound silly but I'm really freaked out by the amount of money he makes. He doesn't go around flaunting it or anything but he's always wanting to take me out to nice dinners and buy me things when we go shopping. It's flattering and really sweet but it just makes me uncomfortable given my past. I'm also a little concerned about the the holidays coming up and not being able to keep up with gift giving and stuff. 

My family didn't have a lot of money when I was young but now my parents are doing much better financially. Because of this I've really learned the value of money and have a better appreciation of the things I do have now. I think he kind of missed that experience as his parents have always had money. It doesn't help that with my last boyfriend, I paid most of his bills and he never paid for a date ever. Stupid fucker.  

I really don't want to come off as a gold digger to him and I really don't want him spending all this money on me. I guess my question is how do I talk to him about this without me seeming unappreciative and bitchy. I really like this guy I don't want to ruin things.
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New boyfriend makes way more money than I'm comfortable with and not sure what to do about it.
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Throw away because I know he uses reddit. 

I've recently started dating a wonderful man. We get along great, he's very kind, and we have a lot in common. This may sound silly but I'm really freaked out by the amount of money he makes. He doesn't go around flaunting it or anything but he's always wanting to take me out to nice dinners and buy me things when we go shopping. It's flattering and really sweet but it just makes me uncomfortable given my past. I'm also a little concerned about the the holidays coming up and not being able to keep up with gift giving and stuff. 

My family didn't have a lot of money when I was young but now my parents are doing much better financially. Because of this I've really learned the value of money and have a better appreciation of the things I do have now. I think he kind of missed that experience as his parents have always had money. It doesn't help that with my last boyfriend, I paid most of his bills and he never paid for a date ever. Stupid fucker.  

I really don't want to come off as a gold digger to him and I really don't want him spending all this money on me. I guess my question is how do I talk to him about this without me seeming unappreciative and bitchy. I really like this guy I don't want to ruin things.
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New boyfriend makes more money than I ever have and I'm not sure how to talk to him
assistant