I am currently on an extended vacation in Northern Europe. I arrived about two weeks ago and will be here until the beginning of August. 

About a month before leaving America, I met a girl and we went on a few dates (made out, no sex).One day, I drove to her town and we spent the whole day together and had a legitimately good time. I knew that leaving for Europe just when we were starting to get to know each other would put a damper on things, but I had hope that everything would go smoothly.

Fast forward to now, when I'm two weeks into my vacation, and I'm starting to sense things may be taking a wrong turn. We send messages through Facebook, but it usually takes about a day (sometimes more) after she sees the message for her to respond. And she is always active on Facebook, so I'm just a little confused why she isn't responding. I get that she may be busy but consistently waiting a day to respond seems a little ridiculous. 

Also, the conversations seem a little forced, like we're just trying to keep in touch so we don't forget each other rather than we are really looking forward to talking. I feel like forcing conversation is worse than no conversation at all. I've thought about just not responding to one of her messages, just so we didn't have to continue messaging and maybe we'd start to miss each other a little bit. I know we can talk on the phone but that seems a little too serious considering we are only dating. I would suggest it but I don't want to weird her out.

I know you may be thinking I'm insecure about all of this, but that's really not the case. Maybe I'm just overthinking it. I just like this girl a lot and have never been in a situation like this before. I want to maintain a relationship and maintain the attraction toward each other throughout my vacation that way we both are excited to see each other when I come back. Any advice?
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Met a girl, dated briefly, now on vacation in Europe and
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I am currently on an extended vacation in Northern Europe. I arrived about two weeks ago and will be here until the beginning of August. 

About a month before leaving America, I met a girl and we went on a few dates (made out, no sex).One day, I drove to her town and we spent the whole day together and had a legitimately good time. I knew that leaving for Europe just when we were starting to get to know each other would put a damper on things, but I had hope that everything would go smoothly.

Fast forward to now, when I'm two weeks into my vacation, and I'm starting to sense things may be taking a wrong turn. We send messages through Facebook, but it usually takes about a day (sometimes more) after she sees the message for her to respond. And she is always active on Facebook, so I'm just a little confused why she isn't responding. I get that she may be busy but consistently waiting a day to respond seems a little ridiculous. 

Also, the conversations seem a little forced, like we're just trying to keep in touch so we don't forget each other rather than we are really looking forward to talking. I feel like forcing conversation is worse than no conversation at all. I've thought about just not responding to one of her messages, just so we didn't have to continue messaging and maybe we'd start to miss each other a little bit. I know we can talk on the phone but that seems a little too serious considering we are only dating. I would suggest it but I don't want to weird her out.

I know you may be thinking I'm insecure about all of this, but that's really not the case. Maybe I'm just overthinking it. I just like this girl a lot and have never been in a situation like this before. I want to maintain a relationship and maintain the attraction toward each other throughout my vacation that way we both are excited to see each other when I come back. Any advice?
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I'm on vacation, new girl I met back home doesn't respond
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