I'm wondering if anyone can give me their thoughts on a situation I am going through with a guy I just met.

I have been single for a while and decided to join Tinder out of curiosity, and admittedly, to feed my ego. I was not really expecting to meet with anyone I met, but started talking to a guy who had similar interests and seemed like a genuinely cool guy. After texting for a week I decided to have an open mind and agreed to meet him for dinner. We really hit it off and it was exciting to meet someone who I "clicked" with. We went out again the following day and it was just as fun. He was kind of quick to kiss me on both dates and usually I'm pretty shy in that regard when getting to know someone, but I was happy that he seemed to like me.

The problem is, in person he seems like a great guy and someone I would like to get to know better; but the things and amount of times he texts me are odd and have begun to feel like too much too fast and make me feel uncomfortable. He will text me that he misses me throughout the day and if I don't respond he will get upset ("getting rejected by you is weird",  "wish I was sleeping next to you", "I want to see you as much as possible", and "I am being extra needy"). He will send me things like this multiple times a day and then act upset when I do not reciprocate his feelings or ask him to slow down a bit. I have only met him twice and feel like this is a red flag that he is being so intense. I'm wondering what your perspective is; if its even worth trying to talk to him about or if I should take this as a sign that maybe something's off about him. I've been single for awhile and maybe am overlooking his clingyness because I just want something to work out.
user
Met a guy who is great in person, but texts me things that are too much too fast and make me uncomfortable. Guy is overly sensitive when I ask him to slow down. I would continue hanging out with
assistant
I'm wondering if anyone can give me their thoughts on a situation I am going through with a guy I just met.

I have been single for a while and decided to join Tinder out of curiosity, and admittedly, to feed my ego. I was not really expecting to meet with anyone I met, but started talking to a guy who had similar interests and seemed like a genuinely cool guy. After texting for a week I decided to have an open mind and agreed to meet him for dinner. We really hit it off and it was exciting to meet someone who I "clicked" with. We went out again the following day and it was just as fun. He was kind of quick to kiss me on both dates and usually I'm pretty shy in that regard when getting to know someone, but I was happy that he seemed to like me.

The problem is, in person he seems like a great guy and someone I would like to get to know better; but the things and amount of times he texts me are odd and have begun to feel like too much too fast and make me feel uncomfortable. He will text me that he misses me throughout the day and if I don't respond he will get upset ("getting rejected by you is weird",  "wish I was sleeping next to you", "I want to see you as much as possible", and "I am being extra needy"). He will send me things like this multiple times a day and then act upset when I do not reciprocate his feelings or ask him to slow down a bit. I have only met him twice and feel like this is a red flag that he is being so intense. I'm wondering what your perspective is; if its even worth trying to talk to him about or if I should take this as a sign that maybe something's off about him. I've been single for awhile and maybe am overlooking his clingyness because I just want something to work out.
user
Is it normal that a guy who I just met seems to be very clingy and needs constant reassurance? Should I take it as a red flag?
assistant