I just want the clarification of unbiased people to see if maybe I was harsh in a particular situation. 

My husband, 26, is from a South American country. In general, he plays fast and loose with the term 'being on time.' He is always at the very least 10 minutes late wherever he goes. Granted, I am also not the most punctual person ever, and there have been times he has waited on me or times when I have made us late as well.

However, this morning made me really upset. Church started at 10:45. I began getting ready at 10. He quickly gets ready except for brushing his teeth. As I'm getting ready, I remind him three to four times to get up and brush his teeth so that we can be ready to leave for church at the same time and avoid being late. When I am ready to leave, he is still sitting on the couch playing on my iPad, and only gets up to brush his teeth when I am ready to walk out the door. At this point I'm pretty upset because he had ample opportunity to get up and brush his teeth, but he played around on the couch until the last minute, so I left for church and left him at home to avoid being late. Of note, he has his own car and could have followed me to church, which is only 5 minutes away.

This is not the first time this has happened, but I guess I'm finally sick of it. He is now telling me that he won't be coming come until late tonight and that I need counseling and that I shouldn't expect to hear from him. He is ignoring my text messages, and I'm questioning my entire marriage over this.

Any advice is appreciated.
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Husband is playing his iPad on the couch when I'm getting ready to leave for church.
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I just want the clarification of unbiased people to see if maybe I was harsh in a particular situation. 

My husband, 26, is from a South American country. In general, he plays fast and loose with the term 'being on time.' He is always at the very least 10 minutes late wherever he goes. Granted, I am also not the most punctual person ever, and there have been times he has waited on me or times when I have made us late as well.

However, this morning made me really upset. Church started at 10:45. I began getting ready at 10. He quickly gets ready except for brushing his teeth. As I'm getting ready, I remind him three to four times to get up and brush his teeth so that we can be ready to leave for church at the same time and avoid being late. When I am ready to leave, he is still sitting on the couch playing on my iPad, and only gets up to brush his teeth when I am ready to walk out the door. At this point I'm pretty upset because he had ample opportunity to get up and brush his teeth, but he played around on the couch until the last minute, so I left for church and left him at home to avoid being late. Of note, he has his own car and could have followed me to church, which is only 5 minutes away.

This is not the first time this has happened, but I guess I'm finally sick of it. He is now telling me that he won't be coming come until late tonight and that I need counseling and that I shouldn't expect to hear from him. He is ignoring my text messages, and I'm questioning my entire marriage over this.

Any advice is appreciated.
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Husband is always a little late to church. He doesn't brush teeth until the last minute
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