I have been with J for almost a year and a half now. I have a 2 1/2 year old daughter from a previous relationship whom we both love dearly; however this isn't the point of my post. My problem right now is that J and I decided to pack our belongings and move to a new state in June. It's been hard on us financially. He found a job as a security guard pretty quickly but I have had absolutely no luck. I've been a stay at home mom since I was 19 so I have NO job experience. It seems like NO ONE wants to hire me because of that. I have been turned down and hung up on after the person said, "Sorry,  I need someone with more experience." 

So not only am I being turned down one after another, J is not being understanding. He is calling me lazy, worthless, a bitch, stupid, a gold digger, a moocher... basically anything you can call someone with no job. It hurts a lot. We're both in dire need of money to pay our rent. His security job only nets him about 1200 a month. Our rent here with all utilities rounds out to $1000
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Background: J and I lived together in our home state and I was on state assistance, and we managed to split the rent and that is how we paid for it previously. We moved to this new state because he has family here and it just seemed like a better opportunity at life. We were originally staying with his mother but things fell apart with her husband being really violent/anger problems and we were kicked out and forced to stay in a hotel for a week before we could find a place to take us. 

His grandmother paid for the first two months of our rent here because it should have only taken two months for us to both get jobs. I can't get cash assistance here because I was already getting it in my other state but I do have food stamps right now.
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J and I moved across the country to a new state to be together. He found a job but I have no job experience. He has
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I have been with J for almost a year and a half now. I have a 2 1/2 year old daughter from a previous relationship whom we both love dearly; however this isn't the point of my post. My problem right now is that J and I decided to pack our belongings and move to a new state in June. It's been hard on us financially. He found a job as a security guard pretty quickly but I have had absolutely no luck. I've been a stay at home mom since I was 19 so I have NO job experience. It seems like NO ONE wants to hire me because of that. I have been turned down and hung up on after the person said, "Sorry,  I need someone with more experience." 

So not only am I being turned down one after another, J is not being understanding. He is calling me lazy, worthless, a bitch, stupid, a gold digger, a moocher... basically anything you can call someone with no job. It hurts a lot. We're both in dire need of money to pay our rent. His security job only nets him about 1200 a month. Our rent here with all utilities rounds out to $1000
. 
Background: J and I lived together in our home state and I was on state assistance, and we managed to split the rent and that is how we paid for it previously. We moved to this new state because he has family here and it just seemed like a better opportunity at life. We were originally staying with his mother but things fell apart with her husband being really violent/anger problems and we were kicked out and forced to stay in a hotel for a week before we could find a place to take us. 

His grandmother paid for the first two months of our rent here because it should have only taken two months for us to both get jobs. I can't get cash assistance here because I was already getting it in my other state but I do have food stamps right now.
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Boyfriend and I are looking for a place to live for now, and I'm being turned down for jobs because of my lack of experience. He's
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