I am a naturally personable person and have a large group of friends. Almost all of these friends come to me for advice and input on their personal issues. I would consider myself to be the main advice giver in the group. 

My boyfriend of two years, whom I live with, has fallen in well with my friend group and is now friends with many of them as well. When I told him about how many of them come to me for advice on their personal, and often private, problems he demanded that I tell him what they told me. When I told him that I can only tell him certain things because many of my friends confide in me and may not be comfortable with him knowing their secrets he got very upset. He thinks that I need to tell him everything they tell me because "I'm his girlfriend and I'm not allowed to keep secrets from him" 

I calmly explained that I never keep any of my own secrets from him and will always tell him if the information effects him directly or if my friends are okay with him knowing about it, but that I can't tell him my friends secrets if they are uncomfortable with anyone else knowing the information. He isn't satisfied with this response and still feels like I should be telling him everything they confide in me. 

Part of the reason I don't tell him everything is because he is more judgmental than I am and even if my friends haven't specifically said I can't tell anyone else, I don't think its fair to share information with him that he is just going to judge them for. 

Am I wrong for wanting to keep my friends private information from him?
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My boyfriend thinks I should tell him everything I know about my friends personal issues because he is my
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I am a naturally personable person and have a large group of friends. Almost all of these friends come to me for advice and input on their personal issues. I would consider myself to be the main advice giver in the group. 

My boyfriend of two years, whom I live with, has fallen in well with my friend group and is now friends with many of them as well. When I told him about how many of them come to me for advice on their personal, and often private, problems he demanded that I tell him what they told me. When I told him that I can only tell him certain things because many of my friends confide in me and may not be comfortable with him knowing their secrets he got very upset. He thinks that I need to tell him everything they tell me because "I'm his girlfriend and I'm not allowed to keep secrets from him" 

I calmly explained that I never keep any of my own secrets from him and will always tell him if the information effects him directly or if my friends are okay with him knowing about it, but that I can't tell him my friends secrets if they are uncomfortable with anyone else knowing the information. He isn't satisfied with this response and still feels like I should be telling him everything they confide in me. 

Part of the reason I don't tell him everything is because he is more judgmental than I am and even if my friends haven't specifically said I can't tell anyone else, I don't think its fair to share information with him that he is just going to judge them for. 

Am I wrong for wanting to keep my friends private information from him?
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boyfriend thinks I should share all my friends secrets but they confide in me.
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