Original [post]( (I forgot the password to the original account). 

Updating what happened since that post, we found out that she was indeed pregnant. We were okay with it and were surprisingly not angry at all... that was until the next day they tell us it was 6 months along. Considering the situation, I think we were pretty calm. We banned the boyfriend from the house (shorter than expected due to an early birth). This is all we did as far as punishment goes.

Anyways, the baby is being taken care of in my parent's house. The boyfriend now has two part time jobs and my sister is going back to high school. My parents have been paying for the diapers, bottles, and other consumables for the baby and I have paid for some equipment such as the stroller. The boyfriend got his first paycheck a couple days back. What does he do with it? He buys a 360 with the money, paying $300 (these things aren't cheaper yet?). Not a used one even, he flat out buys a brand new one. I found this out through my sister who came home carrying it in the packaging. First thing I say is "I am going to kick his ass". I did this with a hope that it would sink in that this is not an okay thing to do. I want him to at least redeem himself so I am not actually going to do anything physically. I am extremely angry about this, but I've got to make sure we do what is right for the baby's sake. We're not exactly hurting for money right now, but that can easily change and the baby has only been around for about a month.
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I am losing my mind on the matter of my sister's boyfriend
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Original [post]( (I forgot the password to the original account). 

Updating what happened since that post, we found out that she was indeed pregnant. We were okay with it and were surprisingly not angry at all... that was until the next day they tell us it was 6 months along. Considering the situation, I think we were pretty calm. We banned the boyfriend from the house (shorter than expected due to an early birth). This is all we did as far as punishment goes.

Anyways, the baby is being taken care of in my parent's house. The boyfriend now has two part time jobs and my sister is going back to high school. My parents have been paying for the diapers, bottles, and other consumables for the baby and I have paid for some equipment such as the stroller. The boyfriend got his first paycheck a couple days back. What does he do with it? He buys a 360 with the money, paying $300 (these things aren't cheaper yet?). Not a used one even, he flat out buys a brand new one. I found this out through my sister who came home carrying it in the packaging. First thing I say is "I am going to kick his ass". I did this with a hope that it would sink in that this is not an okay thing to do. I want him to at least redeem himself so I am not actually going to do anything physically. I am extremely angry about this, but I've got to make sure we do what is right for the baby's sake. We're not exactly hurting for money right now, but that can easily change and the baby has only been around for about a month.
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I need help dealing with the emotional aftermath of my sister's baby.
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