Firstly, I apolgoize if this turns into a jumbled mess. It's been a long day and I'm pretty mixed up about the things that are going on.

I have been dating this guy for almost two years, there have been some challenges along the way but overall we have a good relationship and I'm happy with him. Recently it came up that my boyfriend has a tumblr, I had no problems with this and didn't even bother to find out any information on it because he mentioned it being used as a sort of journal that he didn't have any followers on. Yesterday I learned that he has one female friend who he is following and who is following him. This girl I have no problems with, they met because the friend dated a good friend of his for a long time. 

The issue I'm having is that this girl is someone who actively post nudes on this tumblr. He has a facebook or as he calls it a "fakebook", that he's come up with a number of excuses to not at me on, but she is there as well. They text often and hang out on a one on one basis. He claims that it's an innocent friendship, that he's not interested in her and only sees her as his friend's girlfriend(they broke up a few months ago) and from other friends opinion it seems that she is just not attracted to him. He says that the issue is that I don't trust him. I do overall, but they're closeness makes me feel uncomfortable. We tried to talk things over last night, but it ended in a arugment.

 I don't know what to do and I need some advice. I don't care if they hang out, but if it involves anything that impairs their judgements(they both smoke and drink often) I have an issue and the tumblr thing really bothers me because of how often she post nudes on it. He says that that's just how she's always been and it doesn't mean anything.  Opinions please?
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My boyfriend has a female friend who actively post nudes on tumblr. They are following each other and it makes me uncomfortable.
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Firstly, I apolgoize if this turns into a jumbled mess. It's been a long day and I'm pretty mixed up about the things that are going on.

I have been dating this guy for almost two years, there have been some challenges along the way but overall we have a good relationship and I'm happy with him. Recently it came up that my boyfriend has a tumblr, I had no problems with this and didn't even bother to find out any information on it because he mentioned it being used as a sort of journal that he didn't have any followers on. Yesterday I learned that he has one female friend who he is following and who is following him. This girl I have no problems with, they met because the friend dated a good friend of his for a long time. 

The issue I'm having is that this girl is someone who actively post nudes on this tumblr. He has a facebook or as he calls it a "fakebook", that he's come up with a number of excuses to not at me on, but she is there as well. They text often and hang out on a one on one basis. He claims that it's an innocent friendship, that he's not interested in her and only sees her as his friend's girlfriend(they broke up a few months ago) and from other friends opinion it seems that she is just not attracted to him. He says that the issue is that I don't trust him. I do overall, but they're closeness makes me feel uncomfortable. We tried to talk things over last night, but it ended in a arugment.

 I don't know what to do and I need some advice. I don't care if they hang out, but if it involves anything that impairs their judgements(they both smoke and drink often) I have an issue and the tumblr thing really bothers me because of how often she post nudes on it. He says that that's just how she's always been and it doesn't mean anything.  Opinions please?
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My boyfriend has a female friend who posts nudes on his tumblr, we tried talking it over and ended up in an argument
assistant