Ok, so me (23M), and my gf (22F), have been dating for about 6 months. We live in different states so we see each other 1-2x a month, usually for a weekend.

She recently moved into a new apt with 2 other roommates about 1 month ago. She's had her cousin stay over for a few days once, then this past week, a male friend of hers from college was visiting her so he stayed at her apartment for almost a week as well. I want to visit her soon but she says too many people are staying at her apartment and her roommates are getting upset because they JUST moved in a few weeks ago.

Problems-

1) It's kind of bothering me that she's let her family and a guy friend stay over for a few days, but I just want to stay to visit her for like 2-3 nights and she says we'll have to get a hotel or something (I've gotten a hotel to visit her before but that was when we first met and I wasn't comfortable staying at her old apt or at her parent's house, etc).

2) I'm not sure how normal it is to have an old male college friend of hers stay at her apartment for several days. I never really asked any questions but she told me he is sleeping in her bed since he's super tall, and she's sleeping on the couch or something. It just sounds super sketchy to me.

Anyone have any advice?
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GF let a guy friend stay at her apt for several days,
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Ok, so me (23M), and my gf (22F), have been dating for about 6 months. We live in different states so we see each other 1-2x a month, usually for a weekend.

She recently moved into a new apt with 2 other roommates about 1 month ago. She's had her cousin stay over for a few days once, then this past week, a male friend of hers from college was visiting her so he stayed at her apartment for almost a week as well. I want to visit her soon but she says too many people are staying at her apartment and her roommates are getting upset because they JUST moved in a few weeks ago.

Problems-

1) It's kind of bothering me that she's let her family and a guy friend stay over for a few days, but I just want to stay to visit her for like 2-3 nights and she says we'll have to get a hotel or something (I've gotten a hotel to visit her before but that was when we first met and I wasn't comfortable staying at her old apt or at her parent's house, etc).

2) I'm not sure how normal it is to have an old male college friend of hers stay at her apartment for several days. I never really asked any questions but she told me he is sleeping in her bed since he's super tall, and she's sleeping on the couch or something. It just sounds super sketchy to me.

Anyone have any advice?
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My GF and I are dating long distance (1-2x a month), one
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