So 1 month ago October 26th my now ex broke up with me after 2 and half years. She said she was not in love with me anymore and that I felt more like a friend, that she felt bad beacuse she diden't have as much time as she used to have to spend with me. She is still In school and right now there is alot going on in her life and she has a small job thing and also friends. So she felt like she diden't have time for a boyfriend right now.

Well in april 2015 I almost broke up with her beacuse I diden't know how I felt and had alot going on with school. but I decided that maybe I just needed a break so we spent 4 weeks apart, untill I texted her and said I missed her and we began to hang out again and I feel in love with her again and everything was great.

So to me it seems kinda like it might be the same this time, that she just needs time beacuse she got alot going on right now. And when I have asked her about it, if she thinks there is a chance of us getting back together she says that she doesen't know and just need time for herself right now. She said she will tell me when she wants to meet and talk.

To me it won't really feel like it's over untill I get to meet her and talk again and see if maybe she do want to give it another chance and see what happens. Maybe it's beacuse it's only been 1 month and that It happend so suddenly, but I haven't really accepted that it is really over. and well she haven't hinted that it is either possible or impossible. She says she doesent know and don't want to get my hopes up incase that isn't what she feel when we do meet and talk.

Maybe someone has some advice to me or has been in a similar situation. Well I would be thankful for anything really beacuse this really sucks and I'm scared. But I'm trying to be optimistic beacuse it seems like anything can happen when we do meet.
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So 1 month ago October 26th my now ex broke up with me after 2 and half years. She said she was not in love with me anymore and that I felt more like a friend, that she felt bad beacuse she diden't have as much time as she used to have to spend with me. She is still In school and right now there is alot going on in her life and she has a small job thing and also friends. So she felt like she diden't have time for a boyfriend right now.

Well in april 2015 I almost broke up with her beacuse I diden't know how I felt and had alot going on with school. but I decided that maybe I just needed a break so we spent 4 weeks apart, untill I texted her and said I missed her and we began to hang out again and I feel in love with her again and everything was great.

So to me it seems kinda like it might be the same this time, that she just needs time beacuse she got alot going on right now. And when I have asked her about it, if she thinks there is a chance of us getting back together she says that she doesen't know and just need time for herself right now. She said she will tell me when she wants to meet and talk.

To me it won't really feel like it's over untill I get to meet her and talk again and see if maybe she do want to give it another chance and see what happens. Maybe it's beacuse it's only been 1 month and that It happend so suddenly, but I haven't really accepted that it is really over. and well she haven't hinted that it is either possible or impossible. She says she doesent know and don't want to get my hopes up incase that isn't what she feel when we do meet and talk.

Maybe someone has some advice to me or has been in a similar situation. Well I would be thankful for anything really beacuse this really sucks and I'm scared. But I'm trying to be optimistic beacuse it seems like anything can happen when we do meet.
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