Claiming I've been 'saying things' recently about how she doesn't have many friends, meaning in other words that she thinks I think she needs me for all her social entertainment (which isn't necessarily untrue). I didn't think I had been hinting at it or anything so it's obviously just something that's playing on her mind, moreso after I told her about this weekend.

You see I visit her every weekend (we live in different cities) and I don't spend as much time with my friends as I find it hard to balance the two (they don't get along) so she takes priority. However this one weekend I said I wanted to spend time with my friends because we want to arrange a holiday and she's gotten a bit weird about it, like almost trying to make me feel guilty.

She used to go out a lot with her university friends but she doesn't get on with them anymore meaning the only time she goes out is when I do too as her best-best-friends are back in her hometown. So I either have to chose my girlfriend or my friends for a night out, 90% of the time it's my gf, which is obviously fine with me but kind of sucks as I used to go out with my friends every week, sometimes twice and it sucks not being able to as much anymore.

Anyway, how do I approach this without hurting her feelings? It's not my fault she doesn't have many friends to hang out with, it's not unfair of me to want to spend time with my friends and her is it? It annoys me how I'm made to feel guilty sometimes for wanting to go out with my friends, I feel like I'm old enough to do what the **** I want and not feel like I'm being monitored the whole time.

Probably doesn't seem that big of an issue but I do think it's a bit of a deal breaker if it continues.
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Claiming I've been 'saying things' recently about how she doesn't have many friends, meaning in other words that she thinks I think she needs me for all her social entertainment (which isn't necessarily untrue). I didn't think I had been hinting at it or anything so it's obviously just something that's playing on her mind, moreso after I told her about this weekend.

You see I visit her every weekend (we live in different cities) and I don't spend as much time with my friends as I find it hard to balance the two (they don't get along) so she takes priority. However this one weekend I said I wanted to spend time with my friends because we want to arrange a holiday and she's gotten a bit weird about it, like almost trying to make me feel guilty.

She used to go out a lot with her university friends but she doesn't get on with them anymore meaning the only time she goes out is when I do too as her best-best-friends are back in her hometown. So I either have to chose my girlfriend or my friends for a night out, 90% of the time it's my gf, which is obviously fine with me but kind of sucks as I used to go out with my friends every week, sometimes twice and it sucks not being able to as much anymore.

Anyway, how do I approach this without hurting her feelings? It's not my fault she doesn't have many friends to hang out with, it's not unfair of me to want to spend time with my friends and her is it? It annoys me how I'm made to feel guilty sometimes for wanting to go out with my friends, I feel like I'm old enough to do what the **** I want and not feel like I'm being monitored the whole time.

Probably doesn't seem that big of an issue but I do think it's a bit of a deal breaker if it continues.
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