We'd do it until I was chafed and raw. This went on for a year. Then we moved in together and she suddenly switched off. I asked her what happened, and if anything is wrong and she told me to accept it or get out (not her exact words - she was more "gentle" than that). 

I love her, but going 3 months between sex and only doing it one way every time is driving me crazy. I try everything I can think of to make it better for her. Without getting into too explicit detail, I'm even planning a vasectomy so she won't have to worry about the pregnancy aspect. I don't think it's the quality of the sex that's the problem - she just... Doesn't think about it any more.

Asking her if we can work on it would only put more pressure on her, and seems unlikely to work because she knows full well how I feel. In every other situation she appears loving and warm, just... Not in bed any more.

What can I do?
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My wife suddenly stopped being insatiable after
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We'd do it until I was chafed and raw. This went on for a year. Then we moved in together and she suddenly switched off. I asked her what happened, and if anything is wrong and she told me to accept it or get out (not her exact words - she was more "gentle" than that). 

I love her, but going 3 months between sex and only doing it one way every time is driving me crazy. I try everything I can think of to make it better for her. Without getting into too explicit detail, I'm even planning a vasectomy so she won't have to worry about the pregnancy aspect. I don't think it's the quality of the sex that's the problem - she just... Doesn't think about it any more.

Asking her if we can work on it would only put more pressure on her, and seems unlikely to work because she knows full well how I feel. In every other situation she appears loving and warm, just... Not in bed any more.

What can I do?
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Wife's sex drive suddenly dropped off, I
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