Ok, background: i am currently living in malaysia, malay, but have been living in Dubai for most of my life. My family is all malay, all muslim. I met her in uni and we hit it off. She's Indonesian, catholic, dad chinese and mom java, both catholic.

I love her. Really do. And she loves me too. My parents are okay with me dating her but want me to convert her into Islam if I wish to take this further. She hasn't told her parents about us because when she just mentioned the fact that we were getting close, her dad flew into a rage, her mom got sick and there was threat of her moving back to Indonesia. 

Thing is... When we were getting into this relationship, we talked about it and decided that we'd break up after a year. We knew that was where it was going so we decided we'd end it on our terms. It's been a year. I brought up the whole break up thing and... It didn't go well. She cried and I instantly regretted talking about it. Don't get me wrong.. I do not ever want to break up with her but she's been getting a lot of pressure from her parents about finding a suitable man, pressure from her all-catholic community to find a good catholic husband and it's stressing her out. Oh and it's her first relationship too. 

I don't know what to do. Should i just do what I want to do and keep going with the relationship, do what I think is right and break up with her or.. I dunno, talk to her parents? I've talked to my parents about it and I am 100% certain I can marry her if I want. Just not in Malaysia (because Malaysia has a law whereby no Non muslims can marry a Muslim unless they convert). 

So.. Reddit, help. I can't really talk to anyone else about it.
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I'm in a relationship with a catholic girl and my parents want me to convert her to Islam (this is illegal in the country where i live, in the current time it's
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Ok, background: i am currently living in malaysia, malay, but have been living in Dubai for most of my life. My family is all malay, all muslim. I met her in uni and we hit it off. She's Indonesian, catholic, dad chinese and mom java, both catholic.

I love her. Really do. And she loves me too. My parents are okay with me dating her but want me to convert her into Islam if I wish to take this further. She hasn't told her parents about us because when she just mentioned the fact that we were getting close, her dad flew into a rage, her mom got sick and there was threat of her moving back to Indonesia. 

Thing is... When we were getting into this relationship, we talked about it and decided that we'd break up after a year. We knew that was where it was going so we decided we'd end it on our terms. It's been a year. I brought up the whole break up thing and... It didn't go well. She cried and I instantly regretted talking about it. Don't get me wrong.. I do not ever want to break up with her but she's been getting a lot of pressure from her parents about finding a suitable man, pressure from her all-catholic community to find a good catholic husband and it's stressing her out. Oh and it's her first relationship too. 

I don't know what to do. Should i just do what I want to do and keep going with the relationship, do what I think is right and break up with her or.. I dunno, talk to her parents? I've talked to my parents about it and I am 100% certain I can marry her if I want. Just not in Malaysia (because Malaysia has a law whereby no Non muslims can marry a Muslim unless they convert). 

So.. Reddit, help. I can't really talk to anyone else about it.
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Muslim family and religious catholic family are pressuring my girlfriend to find a good muslim husband. We are breaking up and I need advice on how to talk to them about it...
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