24 [M] together with 23 [F] for 9 months now.

I guess i'm looking for more advice on how to deal with something or cope with it in a way that I show how supportive I am.

The problem: When my girlfriend is on her period (She informs me everytime) she gets really hormonal and uses aggressive tones alot and basically gets frustrated with everything thrown her way. If a pen drops, she gets pissed off.

Now when she is on I don't take any of this to heart, but the problem is I try to show how supportive I am and try to comfort her and calm her down, but to no avail.

It's like I have no affect in these situations. Obviously I know I can't control her hormones and I'm not trying to. All I want to do is be able to defuse it all. We had a rather heated argument the other night and she just kept going and going and going and I tried to stop it and used a very calming tone and did all I could to make her smile or laugh. She smiled maybe once for 1 second and then it went back to us arguing about absolutely nothing.

When she gets like this, she's very disrespectful. I know she doesn't mean it but she'll do things like "I don't want to hear it" and hold her hand up when i'm trying to speak. She normally never does things like that. She never interrupts me speaking.

I guess what I want to know is, how do I help? It's my first major relationship and it's a little intimidating. She always apologises and says shes sorry and she doesn't mean any of it and that its the hormones to which I nod and say it's fine and I haven't taken it to heart. I don't get offended in these instances.

So reddit, what can I do to help defuse the frustration and aggitation?
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24 [M] together with 23 [F] for 9 months now.

I guess i'm looking for more advice on how to deal with something or cope with it in a way that I show how supportive I am.

The problem: When my girlfriend is on her period (She informs me everytime) she gets really hormonal and uses aggressive tones alot and basically gets frustrated with everything thrown her way. If a pen drops, she gets pissed off.

Now when she is on I don't take any of this to heart, but the problem is I try to show how supportive I am and try to comfort her and calm her down, but to no avail.

It's like I have no affect in these situations. Obviously I know I can't control her hormones and I'm not trying to. All I want to do is be able to defuse it all. We had a rather heated argument the other night and she just kept going and going and going and I tried to stop it and used a very calming tone and did all I could to make her smile or laugh. She smiled maybe once for 1 second and then it went back to us arguing about absolutely nothing.

When she gets like this, she's very disrespectful. I know she doesn't mean it but she'll do things like "I don't want to hear it" and hold her hand up when i'm trying to speak. She normally never does things like that. She never interrupts me speaking.

I guess what I want to know is, how do I help? It's my first major relationship and it's a little intimidating. She always apologises and says shes sorry and she doesn't mean any of it and that its the hormones to which I nod and say it's fine and I haven't taken it to heart. I don't get offended in these instances.

So reddit, what can I do to help defuse the frustration and aggitation?
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