I [26F] have been seeing a guy [27M] for a few months now. Things were going great – we would talk all day, hang out 2-3 times a week, go on daytrips, and I even met his family and friends. However I just found out that he has never been in a relationship, which is a bit concerning because it seemed like that was what we were progressing towards. The closest thing he’s ever had was a long term FWB. 

He's made it clear that he disapproves of people who date more than one person at a time, so I'm not worried about that (he even deleted his tinder account).  I just cannot figure out if he thinks of me as another FWB or something more than that. 

I know the typical answer is “just ask him,” but he’s a shy person and admittedly not very expressive or communicative about his feelings. Because of this the couple attempts I’ve made at getting him to verbalize how he feels about me/us just leads to joking and a change of subject. 

There is no kissing, hand holding, or PDA of any sort in public or whenever we are around other people. Again, I don’t know if this is because of his shyness or because that is pretty standard FWB protocol. 

My self-esteem has never been a problem before, but just the fact that I haven’t been able to figure him out and he can’t talk to him about it has really gotten into my head and is making me overthink things.  Has anyone else ever been in a similar situation? Any advice on how to talk to him without him shutting down on me?
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I [26F] am seeing a guy [27M] that has never had a girlfriend. Am I just another FWB?
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I [26F] have been seeing a guy [27M] for a few months now. Things were going great – we would talk all day, hang out 2-3 times a week, go on daytrips, and I even met his family and friends. However I just found out that he has never been in a relationship, which is a bit concerning because it seemed like that was what we were progressing towards. The closest thing he’s ever had was a long term FWB. 

He's made it clear that he disapproves of people who date more than one person at a time, so I'm not worried about that (he even deleted his tinder account).  I just cannot figure out if he thinks of me as another FWB or something more than that. 

I know the typical answer is “just ask him,” but he’s a shy person and admittedly not very expressive or communicative about his feelings. Because of this the couple attempts I’ve made at getting him to verbalize how he feels about me/us just leads to joking and a change of subject. 

There is no kissing, hand holding, or PDA of any sort in public or whenever we are around other people. Again, I don’t know if this is because of his shyness or because that is pretty standard FWB protocol. 

My self-esteem has never been a problem before, but just the fact that I haven’t been able to figure him out and he can’t talk to him about it has really gotten into my head and is making me overthink things.  Has anyone else ever been in a similar situation? Any advice on how to talk to him without him shutting down on me?
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Been seeing a guy for a few months. He has never been in a relationship. Am I just a
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