Long story short I broke up with my ex due to long distance. It wasn't purely the distance, more the less effort from his side but after I broke up with him I did beg to get back together except he had the notion that I would just break up with him again. This was my first relationship which lasted for about 10 months. I won't give much details for anonymity but now I am trying to get over him with no contact and hope that we can remain friends after.

The situation I'm in means I'm not exactly having the time of my life but my ex is because he's recently started uni so really I think he chose his new exciting life over me. What is more annoying is the fact that I got food poisoning last night so I'm not exactly having good times but I found out he's hanging out with his old friend for a birthday meal. I know that's not anything really big but it just shows that he's having a perfectly normal happy social life while I'm mostly browsing reddit feeling a bit nauseous due to the food poisoning. 

He's only contacted me twice since I started no contact but it's just to inform me that he got 29/30 on a mock test. He's not the type to boast or be arrogant; he's a really nice guy and I think he told me because we are still friends. But I can't help feeling like "what I have done wrong?" state of mind to be in this shitty situation where unfortunate events keep happening. None of us did anything wrong, no infidelity or in-compatibleness, I might have over reacted and broke up prematurely but I still stand by my decision and don't think there are any chances of reconciliation (although I keep wishing things might turn out alright :| ).  Why is this happening to me? :(
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Broke up with ex of 10 months, not over him yet, he's having a happy social life and I'm
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Long story short I broke up with my ex due to long distance. It wasn't purely the distance, more the less effort from his side but after I broke up with him I did beg to get back together except he had the notion that I would just break up with him again. This was my first relationship which lasted for about 10 months. I won't give much details for anonymity but now I am trying to get over him with no contact and hope that we can remain friends after.

The situation I'm in means I'm not exactly having the time of my life but my ex is because he's recently started uni so really I think he chose his new exciting life over me. What is more annoying is the fact that I got food poisoning last night so I'm not exactly having good times but I found out he's hanging out with his old friend for a birthday meal. I know that's not anything really big but it just shows that he's having a perfectly normal happy social life while I'm mostly browsing reddit feeling a bit nauseous due to the food poisoning. 

He's only contacted me twice since I started no contact but it's just to inform me that he got 29/30 on a mock test. He's not the type to boast or be arrogant; he's a really nice guy and I think he told me because we are still friends. But I can't help feeling like "what I have done wrong?" state of mind to be in this shitty situation where unfortunate events keep happening. None of us did anything wrong, no infidelity or in-compatibleness, I might have over reacted and broke up prematurely but I still stand by my decision and don't think there are any chances of reconciliation (although I keep wishing things might turn out alright :| ).  Why is this happening to me? :(
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broke up with ex and for some reason karma is acting upon me even though I didn't do anything
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