Ok, So, My boyfriend and I just celebrated our 6 year anniversary, we had a wonderful time and it was romantic and stuff.

On the way back from our anniversary weekend, I think i may have blindsided him. I told him  something I'd been thinking about for a while, That I do not want kids. Please, PLEASE, do not bombard me with  "oh but you're so young, of course you don't want them now but that'll change." I've heard it all before. 

So I asked him point blank "Do you want kids?" He said he wasn't sure,  and that he felt like he did but he would need to think it out.

So this is the part I think I may have obliterated, I said "Okay. I'm gonna give you a year, I love you and I don't want to lose you, but I don't want to trap you with me and have you wanting to have something that I'm not willing to give" He agreed.

I feel like I ultimatum-ed him which has proven time and time again  not to work, But i don't mean it maliciously, I just don't want to  be with him until he decided he wants kids and at that point I have to  break up with him and leave him with nobody, and more selfishly, I don't want to waste  my time in a relationship where our future plans don't align in the right places. 

I don't know, am I just being an awful person and making him feel like i'm pressuring him? Am I unjustified in this pressuring?  Am I just an all around terrible person? Help.
user
Boyfriend is unsure about kids and I don't know if i'm justified in pressuring him
assistant
Ok, So, My boyfriend and I just celebrated our 6 year anniversary, we had a wonderful time and it was romantic and stuff.

On the way back from our anniversary weekend, I think i may have blindsided him. I told him  something I'd been thinking about for a while, That I do not want kids. Please, PLEASE, do not bombard me with  "oh but you're so young, of course you don't want them now but that'll change." I've heard it all before. 

So I asked him point blank "Do you want kids?" He said he wasn't sure,  and that he felt like he did but he would need to think it out.

So this is the part I think I may have obliterated, I said "Okay. I'm gonna give you a year, I love you and I don't want to lose you, but I don't want to trap you with me and have you wanting to have something that I'm not willing to give" He agreed.

I feel like I ultimatum-ed him which has proven time and time again  not to work, But i don't mean it maliciously, I just don't want to  be with him until he decided he wants kids and at that point I have to  break up with him and leave him with nobody, and more selfishly, I don't want to waste  my time in a relationship where our future plans don't align in the right places. 

I don't know, am I just being an awful person and making him feel like i'm pressuring him? Am I unjustified in this pressuring?  Am I just an all around terrible person? Help.
user
I don't want kids, my boyfriend does, he doesn't know. So I ultimatum-ed him, and
assistant