I'be been a long time lurker here and a conversation I had with my boyfriend a couple of days ago made me write this post.

We have been together for almost a year and  living together for ove half of it. We met each others families and everything. We get along great except for some tiny arguments here and there (which I believe are normal), except that I can't help but feel I am much more into him than he is into me. 

My friends have been mentioning marriage a lot recently so naturally it has been on my mind as well. I have to mention here than I do not intend to get married any time in the next 2 years at least. I believe I am still quite young and I want to wait until doing this huge step. The thing is I always imagined my boyfriend possibly the one I commit to. 

So when asked him about it he was quite shocked I would bring this up so early in the relationship. I explained to him that I don't want to do it anytime soon, but I would eventually want us to do this step. He said he has never even given it a thought which I guess worries me. Not sure if this is normal or not (he said guys don't think about this). When I said I would like to do it when I'm older not now he said "what makes you think I even want to marry you".

He also mentioned wanting to see how the relationship progresses which I find completely normal, it's what I want as well. But not even giving it a thought?
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I'm worried my boyfriend might
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I'be been a long time lurker here and a conversation I had with my boyfriend a couple of days ago made me write this post.

We have been together for almost a year and  living together for ove half of it. We met each others families and everything. We get along great except for some tiny arguments here and there (which I believe are normal), except that I can't help but feel I am much more into him than he is into me. 

My friends have been mentioning marriage a lot recently so naturally it has been on my mind as well. I have to mention here than I do not intend to get married any time in the next 2 years at least. I believe I am still quite young and I want to wait until doing this huge step. The thing is I always imagined my boyfriend possibly the one I commit to. 

So when asked him about it he was quite shocked I would bring this up so early in the relationship. I explained to him that I don't want to do it anytime soon, but I would eventually want us to do this step. He said he has never even given it a thought which I guess worries me. Not sure if this is normal or not (he said guys don't think about this). When I said I would like to do it when I'm older not now he said "what makes you think I even want to marry you".

He also mentioned wanting to see how the relationship progresses which I find completely normal, it's what I want as well. But not even giving it a thought?
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Is my boyfriend's response to
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