Everyday you tell me that you hate your retail job, and I see the stress that it's causing you. The apathetic managers. The way customers treat you for trying to help. You have the experience to move up or out, and hell, the hand has been offered multiple times, but you decide to stay. Last week, you came home crying because you felt stuck at a career with other people that have given up on life. I tried to say, "apply to work somewhere else. People are hiring now and need people like you." And you said, "no. I can't."

You refuse to apply to other jobs. I realize how demoralizing it can be to apply for a job that you're qualified for and not get a phone call. But you have to keep trying. The other day, you told me an agency asked you to apply, but during the online application you got frustrated and quit because at one point the form cleared out and you didn't want to fill it out again. Why?

You sent your resume to a local, career-finding agency, but refuse to follow up with them. Instead, you criticize them up and down for not helping you or calling you. 

Last night, we were talking about horrible, under-experienced employees at a company dying for some new talent. You mentioned the work you done; how you would do it differently and all I said was, "apply. Drop your resume into the ring." And all you would say is "no". 

I love you so much, but for the life of me I cannot understand why you won't try to fix your work situation. You tell me that we can't start a family because you don't make enough money (which is smart, I get it). We can't go on a weekend honeymoon because you don't make enough money. We can't look at discounted, used cars because you don't make enough money. Babe, I know we're not rich, but we certainly could be doing worse. And if you just try to get out where you are, we just might make life a little easier. I'm so tired of telling you to simply "try"
user
You refuse to try despite all my advice and encouragement. I love you so much, but I'm tired of telling you to simply "try"
assistant
Everyday you tell me that you hate your retail job, and I see the stress that it's causing you. The apathetic managers. The way customers treat you for trying to help. You have the experience to move up or out, and hell, the hand has been offered multiple times, but you decide to stay. Last week, you came home crying because you felt stuck at a career with other people that have given up on life. I tried to say, "apply to work somewhere else. People are hiring now and need people like you." And you said, "no. I can't."

You refuse to apply to other jobs. I realize how demoralizing it can be to apply for a job that you're qualified for and not get a phone call. But you have to keep trying. The other day, you told me an agency asked you to apply, but during the online application you got frustrated and quit because at one point the form cleared out and you didn't want to fill it out again. Why?

You sent your resume to a local, career-finding agency, but refuse to follow up with them. Instead, you criticize them up and down for not helping you or calling you. 

Last night, we were talking about horrible, under-experienced employees at a company dying for some new talent. You mentioned the work you done; how you would do it differently and all I said was, "apply. Drop your resume into the ring." And all you would say is "no". 

I love you so much, but for the life of me I cannot understand why you won't try to fix your work situation. You tell me that we can't start a family because you don't make enough money (which is smart, I get it). We can't go on a weekend honeymoon because you don't make enough money. We can't look at discounted, used cars because you don't make enough money. Babe, I know we're not rich, but we certainly could be doing worse. And if you just try to get out where you are, we just might make life a little easier. I'm so tired of telling you to simply "try"
user
You refuse to try to improve your situation and instead criticize and complain about everything, from your work situation to your customers. You are
assistant