Hey.

A couple of days ago I broke up with my girlfriend. It initially started as a long distance relationship, we usually saw each other every month. Things were awesome, I was truly in love.

However a few days ago, I got really insecure about her actions and how some stuff she told me while I was away happened. I couldn't stand this, so I checked her gmail logs. I was devastated.

She cheated on my with her ex several times, they did lots of stuff together when she actually told me "I was alone or with my family".

I confronted her. She lied again, I had to use the logs. Everything just fell down to pieces.

I'm destroyed, I can't really forgive her (yet, I think) for what she did to me. Also, I finally got established on her home city, was living with her, I took my stuff and now I'm living with a friend of mine.

Dear reddit. I know some of the usual advice. I deleted her from every social network, erased all our photos, letters, threw away crap she gifted me. But now, she has started to write stuff and text me, I haven't answered anything, nor do I intend to, but I'm feeling like crap and I'm starting to question if this is the best solution to all this thing.

Can I get some words of wisdom here?
user
I found out she was cheating on me, I broke up with her, she's trying to contact me. I'm conflicted and I'm feeling kinda down about
assistant
Hey.

A couple of days ago I broke up with my girlfriend. It initially started as a long distance relationship, we usually saw each other every month. Things were awesome, I was truly in love.

However a few days ago, I got really insecure about her actions and how some stuff she told me while I was away happened. I couldn't stand this, so I checked her gmail logs. I was devastated.

She cheated on my with her ex several times, they did lots of stuff together when she actually told me "I was alone or with my family".

I confronted her. She lied again, I had to use the logs. Everything just fell down to pieces.

I'm destroyed, I can't really forgive her (yet, I think) for what she did to me. Also, I finally got established on her home city, was living with her, I took my stuff and now I'm living with a friend of mine.

Dear reddit. I know some of the usual advice. I deleted her from every social network, erased all our photos, letters, threw away crap she gifted me. But now, she has started to write stuff and text me, I haven't answered anything, nor do I intend to, but I'm feeling like crap and I'm starting to question if this is the best solution to all this thing.

Can I get some words of wisdom here?
user
Gf cheated on me with ex, I got the logs, confronted her, she lied and now I feel like crap. What should I do?
assistant