So, I've had feelings for one of my close female friends (we'll call her D) for pretty much as long as I've known her, which has been about 2 years.  She's stunning and so intelligent, pretty much my dream girl in every way.  We have a ton in common and we share a lot of the same friends.  

I never acted on my feelings for fear of straining the friendship.  Also, I just never thought she would share similar feelings. However, we both just graduated high school and I thought I would go for it, what the hell right?  Well we started talking a lot more and we even kissed a few times.  So I had made the jump from the friend zone.  However, I could tell she was scared to get closer to me.  She would usually be busy when I asked to hangout or be short with me with certain things.  

We had a long emotional talk at about 5 am after a big camping party.  She told me that she's had emotional feelings for me for awhile and that she had made up her mind about how she felt about me.  But, she also said that she was scared to start something right before college when the result of that cant end well, even though we're going to the same school.  She thinks we both deserve a fresh start in college.  She said she wants to have a fun summer with me but she's scared that at the end of it our relationship will be ruined.  She has these commitment issues that she has trouble getting over, and I can understand that because I share those issues.  I was really looking forward to taking the chance and seeing where things would go, and maybe even continue to college..  I kind of put myself out there with her and it hurt to hear that.  I don't know what I can say to convince her that sometimes you just need to take a chance.  This is something that I've wanted and it sounds like something that she's wanted too.  Maybe she's right, I just don't know what to do Reddit.
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Have feelings for close friend and she's scared to start relationship right before college due to commitment issues. Need
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So, I've had feelings for one of my close female friends (we'll call her D) for pretty much as long as I've known her, which has been about 2 years.  She's stunning and so intelligent, pretty much my dream girl in every way.  We have a ton in common and we share a lot of the same friends.  

I never acted on my feelings for fear of straining the friendship.  Also, I just never thought she would share similar feelings. However, we both just graduated high school and I thought I would go for it, what the hell right?  Well we started talking a lot more and we even kissed a few times.  So I had made the jump from the friend zone.  However, I could tell she was scared to get closer to me.  She would usually be busy when I asked to hangout or be short with me with certain things.  

We had a long emotional talk at about 5 am after a big camping party.  She told me that she's had emotional feelings for me for awhile and that she had made up her mind about how she felt about me.  But, she also said that she was scared to start something right before college when the result of that cant end well, even though we're going to the same school.  She thinks we both deserve a fresh start in college.  She said she wants to have a fun summer with me but she's scared that at the end of it our relationship will be ruined.  She has these commitment issues that she has trouble getting over, and I can understand that because I share those issues.  I was really looking forward to taking the chance and seeing where things would go, and maybe even continue to college..  I kind of put myself out there with her and it hurt to hear that.  I don't know what I can say to convince her that sometimes you just need to take a chance.  This is something that I've wanted and it sounds like something that she's wanted too.  Maybe she's right, I just don't know what to do Reddit.
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feeling for close female friend. She's scared to get closer to me before college bc of commitment issues and
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