Need some advice on this one. Met 27/F through online dating back in November. Got to meet her in December just before the holidays and we hit it off, similar background, some shared interests, and an obvious desire to go out again. We agreed to hold off until after xmas and new years since that's a complicated time to start dating new people.

Our first date after new years was a day date on a Sunday, very relaxing and we both seemed to have a good time. Subsequent date (in Jan.) was dinner/movie (traditional, I know), and another dinner a few weeks later (now Feb.). No sex, but there has been some kissing/intimacy.

I am frustrated at the large gaps in time between our dates, and that doesn't seem to be improving. She travels a lot for work, whereas I travel only occasionally. It's now February and it seems bizarre to me to only be a few dates in with her. I genuinely like her and want to build something positive, however I have avoided talking to her about this as I can't gauge if she's just taking things slow or whether I am being kept at arms length due to other people in her life. She's travelling again over valentine's day, which sucks. Left with the question, do I just relax, go with the flow, keep going on dates, and let the chips fall where they may?
user
Really like new female I'm seeing, but rarely get to see her. Doesn't feel like dating.
assistant
Need some advice on this one. Met 27/F through online dating back in November. Got to meet her in December just before the holidays and we hit it off, similar background, some shared interests, and an obvious desire to go out again. We agreed to hold off until after xmas and new years since that's a complicated time to start dating new people.

Our first date after new years was a day date on a Sunday, very relaxing and we both seemed to have a good time. Subsequent date (in Jan.) was dinner/movie (traditional, I know), and another dinner a few weeks later (now Feb.). No sex, but there has been some kissing/intimacy.

I am frustrated at the large gaps in time between our dates, and that doesn't seem to be improving. She travels a lot for work, whereas I travel only occasionally. It's now February and it seems bizarre to me to only be a few dates in with her. I genuinely like her and want to build something positive, however I have avoided talking to her about this as I can't gauge if she's just taking things slow or whether I am being kept at arms length due to other people in her life. She's travelling again over valentine's day, which sucks. Left with the question, do I just relax, go with the flow, keep going on dates, and let the chips fall where they may?
user
Dated a girl for a few months, got to know her very well and liked her on a number
assistant