So a close friend of mine we will call K used to live a house or two down from my mother. Her family still lives there but she moved out. K also has a 14 year old outdoor/indoor cat. Now this cat loves affection and will generally come to see anybody who wanders by. It also likes begging for food, even though it's well fed at home. 

So this, coupled with k coming from a somewhat dysfunctional family, leads my mother to believe that the cat is being neglected. 

Now, k moved out a few years ago to the city which is 400km away. And is now rooming with me. 

She left the cat there. Half because it's a family cat, and half because most apartments she's lived in don't allow pets. 

Now, recently. The cat has become sick and somehow K's family didn't notice. Be it because they thought the symptoms were because of age or being an outdoor cat, Or maybe it's just that K's family is actually being stupid/neglectful and not letting K know her cat was sick. 

Now, my mother. Being a cat owner and being generally vigilant. Noticed this cat was very very sick. 

And messaged me to let K know her cat was sick. Immediately after which she started calling the bylaw officer and asking online for the number to the pound. (It's a no kill pound) 

And when K messaged her to ask her to stop and not call the pound so that she could figure out what to do, my mother accused her of neglecting and abandoning this poor cat. When K was not even aware of it being sick.

K then immediately got a hold of her family and set up an appointment at the vet. 

Now. I don't disagree with my mothers intentions. The cat clearly needed help. But there was a better, more diplomatic method of achieving that than calling the pound when the cats owner lives with her son.  

And it pisses me off that she refuses to acknowledge how rude and insensitive she was in doing this.
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Mother called the pound on a sick
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So a close friend of mine we will call K used to live a house or two down from my mother. Her family still lives there but she moved out. K also has a 14 year old outdoor/indoor cat. Now this cat loves affection and will generally come to see anybody who wanders by. It also likes begging for food, even though it's well fed at home. 

So this, coupled with k coming from a somewhat dysfunctional family, leads my mother to believe that the cat is being neglected. 

Now, k moved out a few years ago to the city which is 400km away. And is now rooming with me. 

She left the cat there. Half because it's a family cat, and half because most apartments she's lived in don't allow pets. 

Now, recently. The cat has become sick and somehow K's family didn't notice. Be it because they thought the symptoms were because of age or being an outdoor cat, Or maybe it's just that K's family is actually being stupid/neglectful and not letting K know her cat was sick. 

Now, my mother. Being a cat owner and being generally vigilant. Noticed this cat was very very sick. 

And messaged me to let K know her cat was sick. Immediately after which she started calling the bylaw officer and asking online for the number to the pound. (It's a no kill pound) 

And when K messaged her to ask her to stop and not call the pound so that she could figure out what to do, my mother accused her of neglecting and abandoning this poor cat. When K was not even aware of it being sick.

K then immediately got a hold of her family and set up an appointment at the vet. 

Now. I don't disagree with my mothers intentions. The cat clearly needed help. But there was a better, more diplomatic method of achieving that than calling the pound when the cats owner lives with her son.  

And it pisses me off that she refuses to acknowledge how rude and insensitive she was in doing this.
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Mother called the bylaw officer to let
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