During the first few months of our relationship, the sex was great. Four to six months in, we hit a slump and the frequency and quality decreased. We talked it out and the sex has improved.

However, he also confessed that he would get bored of having sex within a few weeks - this applied to all of his partners. He said the sex got too routine. As far as I know, he never broke up with anyone due to this. His past relationshups ended due to other reasons. I have a feeling that this is a more serious problem than the honey moon phase going away.

He reassured me that this is something he has struggled with internally. He is a competitive person and loves the thrill of the chase. He loves (the thought of) going on the prowl and the subsequent feeling of having consexual sex with someone. It's like winning a game for him. He said that he often fantasizes of having sex with other women but no one in particular. I understand he feels horny all the time or feels sexually attracted to other women and that's fine with me - he is a human being with hormones after all! However, I don't want that to interfere our relationship and sex life. If he's struggling with these temptations, shouldn't I be worried that he'll cheat? Or what if he gets bored of having sex with me in a year, or two years, or a decade from now? Apparently there is nothing I can do to ever rectify this. I can't be another woman every few months. If he gets bored, he might not want to have sex with me for months at a time...that would make me sexually frustrated and emotionally hurt. We always have vanilla sex and he isn't open to using toys or role playing. I just feel really lost about this. Is it worth staying together? He isn't sure if he will ever out grow these feelings, or if outgrowing them is even possible. He is adamant that he wants a monogamous relationship and he wants to be with me and only me.
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My boyfriend has gotten bored of having sex within
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During the first few months of our relationship, the sex was great. Four to six months in, we hit a slump and the frequency and quality decreased. We talked it out and the sex has improved.

However, he also confessed that he would get bored of having sex within a few weeks - this applied to all of his partners. He said the sex got too routine. As far as I know, he never broke up with anyone due to this. His past relationshups ended due to other reasons. I have a feeling that this is a more serious problem than the honey moon phase going away.

He reassured me that this is something he has struggled with internally. He is a competitive person and loves the thrill of the chase. He loves (the thought of) going on the prowl and the subsequent feeling of having consexual sex with someone. It's like winning a game for him. He said that he often fantasizes of having sex with other women but no one in particular. I understand he feels horny all the time or feels sexually attracted to other women and that's fine with me - he is a human being with hormones after all! However, I don't want that to interfere our relationship and sex life. If he's struggling with these temptations, shouldn't I be worried that he'll cheat? Or what if he gets bored of having sex with me in a year, or two years, or a decade from now? Apparently there is nothing I can do to ever rectify this. I can't be another woman every few months. If he gets bored, he might not want to have sex with me for months at a time...that would make me sexually frustrated and emotionally hurt. We always have vanilla sex and he isn't open to using toys or role playing. I just feel really lost about this. Is it worth staying together? He isn't sure if he will ever out grow these feelings, or if outgrowing them is even possible. He is adamant that he wants a monogamous relationship and he wants to be with me and only me.
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BF is worried about losing his mojo and getting
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