This has been a continuing issue for the past six months and I don't know what to do or how to fix it. I feel like the only time I get to see him is his 'scrap' times. When his work roster is completely full, I have to fight between his work, down time and friends to spend time with him. Then when his work roster is pretty much non-existent I still have to fight between his down time and friends. Every time I bring it up, our conversation either goes down with him: staying silent or listening to me cry or him getting defensive and saying he literally spends most of his spare time with me. I don't think that's true because we only spend 1-2 days/week together (mostly 1).

For example, this week he bought a weekly permit for a recreational hobby of his (I don't want to be specific). I have exams commencing at the end half of the week/weekend/early next week so I asked him to put aside a day the first half of this week to see me. He quickly responds that he's busy on all those days so I asked about the end half of the week on the days in between my exams.

He then proceeds to get angry saying how he is disappointed with me and how my priorities are all wrong because I have exams and should only focus on that.  Although he did apologise soon after, I'm still upset and feel like he's using me having exams as an excuse so he can do his activity all week with his friends. 

I don't see the big deal of me putting aside a day of studies for him but he can't set aside a day of the week for me? I'd like to add that the permit/pass he bought is very inexpensive, a few dollars and he could go anytime this week or just buy another week any other week??

Am I overreacting or is this relationship doomed? I'm tired of feeling in a slump over me feeling not like a priority but I don't know how to fix things.
user
Boyfriend gets angry when I want to spend time with him, not sure if I'm overreacting or he is being unreasonable. I don't see the big deal of him not being able to set aside a day to see me, but he can't set aside a day of the
assistant
This has been a continuing issue for the past six months and I don't know what to do or how to fix it. I feel like the only time I get to see him is his 'scrap' times. When his work roster is completely full, I have to fight between his work, down time and friends to spend time with him. Then when his work roster is pretty much non-existent I still have to fight between his down time and friends. Every time I bring it up, our conversation either goes down with him: staying silent or listening to me cry or him getting defensive and saying he literally spends most of his spare time with me. I don't think that's true because we only spend 1-2 days/week together (mostly 1).

For example, this week he bought a weekly permit for a recreational hobby of his (I don't want to be specific). I have exams commencing at the end half of the week/weekend/early next week so I asked him to put aside a day the first half of this week to see me. He quickly responds that he's busy on all those days so I asked about the end half of the week on the days in between my exams.

He then proceeds to get angry saying how he is disappointed with me and how my priorities are all wrong because I have exams and should only focus on that.  Although he did apologise soon after, I'm still upset and feel like he's using me having exams as an excuse so he can do his activity all week with his friends. 

I don't see the big deal of me putting aside a day of studies for him but he can't set aside a day of the week for me? I'd like to add that the permit/pass he bought is very inexpensive, a few dollars and he could go anytime this week or just buy another week any other week??

Am I overreacting or is this relationship doomed? I'm tired of feeling in a slump over me feeling not like a priority but I don't know how to fix things.
user
I feel like my boyfriend only sees me when his schedule is full and I have to spend time with him. He gets mad whenever I bring this up as he feels like I'm overthinking and overreacting. He has bought a permit/pass for the week for a recreational hobby
assistant