Childhood sweethearts in its truest sense, we started our relationship in 2009 when we were in high school. Broke up when we were in 3rd year college because he cheated on me, but never really severed ties with him. We occasionally talk and hook up throughout our breakup. Had another boyfriend after a year and cheated on that boyfriend with him. Now, I moved to his city for a job in public relations last February and has been with him ever since. We were trying to rekindle the flame but he wasn't ready and I wanted more. Not to mention the fact that he recently had a thing with another girl whom he also considers his best friend. At one point, I thought he was only using me for my body because we hook up a lot. Now I'm leaving him and I was so sure about him being the guy I was going to marry. I don't know what to do. Should I move on? Also, how do I finally accept his relationship with his other "best friend". I just can't accept the fact that when I leave, they're going to be happy while i'll be in America, alone and miserable.
user
I'm leaving my childhood best friend behind to live in America. I want to marry him but he's not ready
assistant
Childhood sweethearts in its truest sense, we started our relationship in 2009 when we were in high school. Broke up when we were in 3rd year college because he cheated on me, but never really severed ties with him. We occasionally talk and hook up throughout our breakup. Had another boyfriend after a year and cheated on that boyfriend with him. Now, I moved to his city for a job in public relations last February and has been with him ever since. We were trying to rekindle the flame but he wasn't ready and I wanted more. Not to mention the fact that he recently had a thing with another girl whom he also considers his best friend. At one point, I thought he was only using me for my body because we hook up a lot. Now I'm leaving him and I was so sure about him being the guy I was going to marry. I don't know what to do. Should I move on? Also, how do I finally accept his relationship with his other "best friend". I just can't accept the fact that when I leave, they're going to be happy while i'll be in America, alone and miserable.
user
Left boyfriend of 4 years who cheated on me but has a best friend. I'm moving to America next year
assistant