Here is a link to my last post. 

edited for clarity

Since posting this last thread, I have talked to my SO about the things that i felt like i thought were important. And the results were not what i expected. I brought up my problems and she answered with pretty much a complete breakdown. She went into detail about how:
-She doesnt like herself or what she has become and all kinds of stuff like that
-Is upset at herself all the time over nothing and takes it out on me
-Has no idea how to make any of this go back to how it used to.
-Feels worthless.
-Is sorry for all of this but has no idea how to fix it

I now am faced with I guess either trying to help (which I firmly believe that I cannot help her, she can only help herself) or other things that could happen (ie break up or something like that). I don't know what to do because this has been 2 years, I dont want to just throw it away too quickly or anything. But at the same time, I am tired of being frustrated all the time due to the things we talked about coming back up.
user
SO is unhappy, depressed, and has no idea how to fix it. Can I fix it or do I have to
assistant
Here is a link to my last post. 

edited for clarity

Since posting this last thread, I have talked to my SO about the things that i felt like i thought were important. And the results were not what i expected. I brought up my problems and she answered with pretty much a complete breakdown. She went into detail about how:
-She doesnt like herself or what she has become and all kinds of stuff like that
-Is upset at herself all the time over nothing and takes it out on me
-Has no idea how to make any of this go back to how it used to.
-Feels worthless.
-Is sorry for all of this but has no idea how to fix it

I now am faced with I guess either trying to help (which I firmly believe that I cannot help her, she can only help herself) or other things that could happen (ie break up or something like that). I don't know what to do because this has been 2 years, I dont want to just throw it away too quickly or anything. But at the same time, I am tired of being frustrated all the time due to the things we talked about coming back up.
user
talked to SO about problems, she said she has issues, we will probably end up breaking up or something.
assistant