Original post.

So wow yea what a big mess I've made first of all the kiss wasn't 10 seconds. It was more like 3 seconds but I was shocked as shit okay it felt like a never ending kiss.

So after waiting 2 days(stupid me) I decided to tell her. She was not happy in fact she was more mad at me for not telling her right away than the kiss. She called her sister and asked her about the kiss at first her sister denied it but then came clean.

My wife told her she can't trust her anymore and from here on out she won't be contacting her.

We talked later that day and she asked why I didn't tell her the second it happened. I told her they had just started talking again and I didn't want to mess it up.

She told me in the future if any woman were to come on to me she would want to know. She said because of how long I waited to tell her with good intentions  she doesn't feel she could trust me.

She want marriage counseling so that's what we are going to do. In retrospect I could have told her sooner but that was my fault and I take full responsibility of it.

That's the update and hopefully things will get better.
user
told my wife she cut contact with
assistant
Original post.

So wow yea what a big mess I've made first of all the kiss wasn't 10 seconds. It was more like 3 seconds but I was shocked as shit okay it felt like a never ending kiss.

So after waiting 2 days(stupid me) I decided to tell her. She was not happy in fact she was more mad at me for not telling her right away than the kiss. She called her sister and asked her about the kiss at first her sister denied it but then came clean.

My wife told her she can't trust her anymore and from here on out she won't be contacting her.

We talked later that day and she asked why I didn't tell her the second it happened. I told her they had just started talking again and I didn't want to mess it up.

She told me in the future if any woman were to come on to me she would want to know. She said because of how long I waited to tell her with good intentions  she doesn't feel she could trust me.

She want marriage counseling so that's what we are going to do. In retrospect I could have told her sooner but that was my fault and I take full responsibility of it.

That's the update and hopefully things will get better.
user
My wife's sister kissed me and I
assistant