x-post r/BreakUps

Met an amazing guy while volunteering in Asia last January 2011.  I'm a 22 y/o American and he is a 21 y/o Aussie. After leaving Asia, we both went to our respective countries but kept in touch and grew so close together and eventually fell in love.  I graduated in May and came here (Melbourne AUS) for an internship but more to be with him. 

I am one of those girls that will do anything for the people I care about - friends, family, boyfriend.  I love people carefully, but when I do, I love them unconditionally. He is one of those guys that every girl wants to date but no one believes exists.  Not a jealous bone in his body, incapable of being mean or selfish, and the most gentle and loving soul you will encounter.

He just broke up with me meh 10 hours ago.  He was meant to come home (USA) with me in December for Christmas to meet my family.  When I asked him about it again just two days ago, he really freaked at the thought of meeting my family (though I lived with his for 2 months), thought it was too much to invest emotionally and decided that he can't 'give me what I deserve'.  So yep, its over and I am now residing in a country where the number of people I know I can count on half of one hand.

Reddit, I'm searching for 43 ways to mend my broken heart over the next 43 days - until I go home (alone) for Christmas and am back with my family and closest friends.  What would you do? What do you suggest? I have never felt so alone or scared in my life, and it doesn't help being away from everyone I know.  I just want each day to have a purpose, to help me get through the next 6 weeks without him.

Anything, Reddit. Really, anything helps.
user
fell in love with caring, loving guy in Asia, he broke up with me and is now traveling alone. need help coping/mending broken heart in next 43 days. help?? :D
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x-post r/BreakUps

Met an amazing guy while volunteering in Asia last January 2011.  I'm a 22 y/o American and he is a 21 y/o Aussie. After leaving Asia, we both went to our respective countries but kept in touch and grew so close together and eventually fell in love.  I graduated in May and came here (Melbourne AUS) for an internship but more to be with him. 

I am one of those girls that will do anything for the people I care about - friends, family, boyfriend.  I love people carefully, but when I do, I love them unconditionally. He is one of those guys that every girl wants to date but no one believes exists.  Not a jealous bone in his body, incapable of being mean or selfish, and the most gentle and loving soul you will encounter.

He just broke up with me meh 10 hours ago.  He was meant to come home (USA) with me in December for Christmas to meet my family.  When I asked him about it again just two days ago, he really freaked at the thought of meeting my family (though I lived with his for 2 months), thought it was too much to invest emotionally and decided that he can't 'give me what I deserve'.  So yep, its over and I am now residing in a country where the number of people I know I can count on half of one hand.

Reddit, I'm searching for 43 ways to mend my broken heart over the next 43 days - until I go home (alone) for Christmas and am back with my family and closest friends.  What would you do? What do you suggest? I have never felt so alone or scared in my life, and it doesn't help being away from everyone I know.  I just want each day to have a purpose, to help me get through the next 6 weeks without him.

Anything, Reddit. Really, anything helps.
user
Met an amazing guy. Broke up with him due to emotional reasons. Need help to mend broken heart succesfully over next 43 days. Help please.
assistant