I went on a "date" with my one friend to a bar. She sees her group of friends and they join us. One guy shows an intense interest in me. He starts joking "flirting" with me. Saying he wants to do me. And my friend told him to leave me alone and that I'm fragile.

Eventually at one point he sits close to me and grabs my hand. And then leans for a kiss and is licking his tongue at me. My friend just laughs. I was stupid and played along th ENTIRE time. Just saying thank you and laughing and smiling.

He even asked me to grab his butt.

My friend told him to leave me alone and to stop...but she said it in a joking manner. He was JUST joking.

But it really pissed me off and embarrassed me. Maybe he was actually gay or just got off on overpowering me. I felt like punching his face, some little scrawny kid. But it was my date's friend and I didn't want to ruin the party.

Next time what do I do? I played along and said I liked it thinking he would back off but he didn't. I don't want to be labeled as not cool or something. In fact this REALLY pissed me off. Who does that? Like, it just made me feel so insecure and little. Some guy goes and EMBARRASSES me in front of the girl I like. Honestly, it felt like bullying in the end.

Or am I over reacting? He WAS just joking, right? What kind of joke is that? Touching someone like that and making kissing faces? He was drunk but that doesn't excuse his behavior. I feel like saying I will punch him in the face if he touches me again. But what if he says he wants to do me again? What the hell am I supposed to say to those words?

God, I just feel humiliated. I almost feel like telling my "girlfriend" about this, but I don't want to sound wimpy or lame. I feel like I'm not cool or something if I have a problem about this. God, I just feel so small..
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Guy at bar fucked with me after my friend told him to leave me alone. He was just joking
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I went on a "date" with my one friend to a bar. She sees her group of friends and they join us. One guy shows an intense interest in me. He starts joking "flirting" with me. Saying he wants to do me. And my friend told him to leave me alone and that I'm fragile.

Eventually at one point he sits close to me and grabs my hand. And then leans for a kiss and is licking his tongue at me. My friend just laughs. I was stupid and played along th ENTIRE time. Just saying thank you and laughing and smiling.

He even asked me to grab his butt.

My friend told him to leave me alone and to stop...but she said it in a joking manner. He was JUST joking.

But it really pissed me off and embarrassed me. Maybe he was actually gay or just got off on overpowering me. I felt like punching his face, some little scrawny kid. But it was my date's friend and I didn't want to ruin the party.

Next time what do I do? I played along and said I liked it thinking he would back off but he didn't. I don't want to be labeled as not cool or something. In fact this REALLY pissed me off. Who does that? Like, it just made me feel so insecure and little. Some guy goes and EMBARRASSES me in front of the girl I like. Honestly, it felt like bullying in the end.

Or am I over reacting? He WAS just joking, right? What kind of joke is that? Touching someone like that and making kissing faces? He was drunk but that doesn't excuse his behavior. I feel like saying I will punch him in the face if he touches me again. But what if he says he wants to do me again? What the hell am I supposed to say to those words?

God, I just feel humiliated. I almost feel like telling my "girlfriend" about this, but I don't want to sound wimpy or lame. I feel like I'm not cool or something if I have a problem about this. God, I just feel so small..
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Guy touches me inappropriately and I'm embarrassed. I'm not sure what to do.
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