There are some things that are bothering me in our relationship and I really want to talk them out. My boyfriend and I aren't able to see each other a lot lately due to both of our schedules changing drastically (one of the issues that I want to talk about).

Today is his birthday so I'll be seeing him tonight. I'll also see him tomorrow night as well for a little get together at his place. Then we have some stuff planned for the weekend as well with some friends. So I'll get to see him a lot more than I usually do this week which is great! I feel like there are things that I really want to discuss and work through, but I also don't want to potentially bring him down on his birthday. 

I'm conflicted because I don't think it's good to bottle things up, but I also don't want to upset him while he's supposed to be having fun this week.

What do you guys think? Should I try to discuss things with him tonight and clear the air so we can have fun this week or hold it in until after birthday stuff is done?

It's nothing too horrible that I want to talk about, but could be a potentially heavy conversation.
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There are some things that are bothering me in our relationship and I really want to talk them out. My boyfriend and I aren't able to see each other a lot lately due to both of our schedules changing drastically (one of the issues that I want to talk about).

Today is his birthday so I'll be seeing him tonight. I'll also see him tomorrow night as well for a little get together at his place. Then we have some stuff planned for the weekend as well with some friends. So I'll get to see him a lot more than I usually do this week which is great! I feel like there are things that I really want to discuss and work through, but I also don't want to potentially bring him down on his birthday. 

I'm conflicted because I don't think it's good to bottle things up, but I also don't want to upset him while he's supposed to be having fun this week.

What do you guys think? Should I try to discuss things with him tonight and clear the air so we can have fun this week or hold it in until after birthday stuff is done?

It's nothing too horrible that I want to talk about, but could be a potentially heavy conversation.
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