I've been dating a really amazing guy for over a year and we just recently moved in together. I've never met anyone I've been more compatible with - except for one aspect - sex. Initially we lived in different cities and only saw each other on weekends. So we'd have sex once a week. He said he wasn't into sexting or sharing pictures online because it was too impersonal (which I didn't agree with but I accepted that as a reasonable preference).

After the first couple of months of dating he just started rejecting me through body language and some weekends we wouldn't have sex. We talked about it and he'd say things like "I feel like that part of me is broken from last relationships" or "This is just how I've always been".

Another detail is that he watches porn a decent amount. He has porn on his phone and he doesn't even try to clear the bookmarks or cookies from our laptop browser. I've brought that up too, saying I totally have nothing against porn but it's replacing me. It also really hurts my self esteem because he has one fetish - obscenely large tits. I'm very average size, maybe even on the smaller side. He says maybe he's addicted to porn and he wants to get better and maybe he should get help. But it's been over 6 months of him saying this with no change.

We've had sex maybe 3-4 times in 3 months living together and I try to ask him if there's anything causing this. Is it me? No. Are you not attracted to me? I'm so attracted to you! Is there something I'm doing that makes you uncomfortable? No, not at all. Do you feel ashamed after or dirty? No, I feel great and close to you.

I've done nothing but try to accommodate him and to try to create positive and open sexual experiences and trust. When we first started dating he couldn't keep his hands off of me and I have always been very sexually confident. Now it's a surprise if he holds my boob while cuddling. Three weeks ago I told him it feels like we're just best friends living together and he got really upset and said he didn't agree.
user
Dating for over a year and living together. All aspects of the relationship are amazing but boyfriend seems to have no sexual attraction to me (even though we've talked and he swears that he is sexually attracted and that he's
assistant
I've been dating a really amazing guy for over a year and we just recently moved in together. I've never met anyone I've been more compatible with - except for one aspect - sex. Initially we lived in different cities and only saw each other on weekends. So we'd have sex once a week. He said he wasn't into sexting or sharing pictures online because it was too impersonal (which I didn't agree with but I accepted that as a reasonable preference).

After the first couple of months of dating he just started rejecting me through body language and some weekends we wouldn't have sex. We talked about it and he'd say things like "I feel like that part of me is broken from last relationships" or "This is just how I've always been".

Another detail is that he watches porn a decent amount. He has porn on his phone and he doesn't even try to clear the bookmarks or cookies from our laptop browser. I've brought that up too, saying I totally have nothing against porn but it's replacing me. It also really hurts my self esteem because he has one fetish - obscenely large tits. I'm very average size, maybe even on the smaller side. He says maybe he's addicted to porn and he wants to get better and maybe he should get help. But it's been over 6 months of him saying this with no change.

We've had sex maybe 3-4 times in 3 months living together and I try to ask him if there's anything causing this. Is it me? No. Are you not attracted to me? I'm so attracted to you! Is there something I'm doing that makes you uncomfortable? No, not at all. Do you feel ashamed after or dirty? No, I feel great and close to you.

I've done nothing but try to accommodate him and to try to create positive and open sexual experiences and trust. When we first started dating he couldn't keep his hands off of me and I have always been very sexually confident. Now it's a surprise if he holds my boob while cuddling. Three weeks ago I told him it feels like we're just best friends living together and he got really upset and said he didn't agree.
user
My boyfriend keeps rejecting me sexually. I feel really uncomfortable. What should I do?
assistant