This has been going on for a month-ish now, where she'll have an occasional beer or glass of wine. Never enough to the point where she becomes intoxicated, but still, I hate it. I've brought it up to her before, and she just tells me that I need to calm down about it, and realize it's not as bad as I make it. Today, we had an argument about it. It ended with me telling her that I didn't want her to drink anymore, but then a minute later, I just told her that I need to look at it from her point of view. It's not "bad", it doesn't get her drunk, and she always does it around adults who let her, but I just don't like it. My morals are strongly against anything that has to do with alcohol.

Another point I brought up is that I switched it around. I said, "If you didn't like my occasional bottle or glass, I would stop because I know you don't like it." Should she have done the same for me, or are my expectations flawed?

Did I do the right thing? Should I have put a boundary on it only because of my morals, or continue looking at it from her point of view? Should she have recognized my disinterest from the start, and stopped doing it herself because she knows I don't like it?
user
I get upset over my girlfriend's occasional drinking, but she doesn't like it because it's not as bad as I make
assistant
This has been going on for a month-ish now, where she'll have an occasional beer or glass of wine. Never enough to the point where she becomes intoxicated, but still, I hate it. I've brought it up to her before, and she just tells me that I need to calm down about it, and realize it's not as bad as I make it. Today, we had an argument about it. It ended with me telling her that I didn't want her to drink anymore, but then a minute later, I just told her that I need to look at it from her point of view. It's not "bad", it doesn't get her drunk, and she always does it around adults who let her, but I just don't like it. My morals are strongly against anything that has to do with alcohol.

Another point I brought up is that I switched it around. I said, "If you didn't like my occasional bottle or glass, I would stop because I know you don't like it." Should she have done the same for me, or are my expectations flawed?

Did I do the right thing? Should I have put a boundary on it only because of my morals, or continue looking at it from her point of view? Should she have recognized my disinterest from the start, and stopped doing it herself because she knows I don't like it?
user
Girlfriend drinks occasionally, I don't like it. She's aware of it, I still don't like it.
assistant