We were in a long distance relationship for almost two years, but about a month ago it ended. My brother passed away in November and I found out (about a week after it happened) that my boyfriend had seen another girl and lied about it on the night of my brother's funeral. I should mention that he was in town for the funeral and said he wanted to visit family while he was in town, even though that night obviously wasn't the best timing. He insists that nothing happened with this girl and that his cousin brought her along, but I've seen texts between him and this cousin about how to get the two of them together and how great her ass is, etc. so I'm not sure if I totally believe that.

So I ended it after I saw a picture of the two of them on Facebook from that night. In the past, I've found out about him being in contact with a few of his ex's on whatsapp, facebook, snapchat, etc. 

It's a long story, but now we've decided to try and give our relationship another shot. I told him that I would stop being possessive of him, but under the condition that he cut off the 4 girls he cheated with and the 1 girl from the night of my brother's funeral. I've asked this of him before, and he reacted in the same way.

He deactivates his Facebook without deleting/blocking them and the reactivates it a week later, hoping I'll forget about the whole thing. I made it clear that this time he needs to actually do what I ask, and he tells me that "a relationship isn't a contract, don't make us start this way," etc.

Is what I'm asking of him valid? I think it is but I need other perspectives too.
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Boyfriend cheated, I want him to cut off the girls he cheated with but he seems to
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We were in a long distance relationship for almost two years, but about a month ago it ended. My brother passed away in November and I found out (about a week after it happened) that my boyfriend had seen another girl and lied about it on the night of my brother's funeral. I should mention that he was in town for the funeral and said he wanted to visit family while he was in town, even though that night obviously wasn't the best timing. He insists that nothing happened with this girl and that his cousin brought her along, but I've seen texts between him and this cousin about how to get the two of them together and how great her ass is, etc. so I'm not sure if I totally believe that.

So I ended it after I saw a picture of the two of them on Facebook from that night. In the past, I've found out about him being in contact with a few of his ex's on whatsapp, facebook, snapchat, etc. 

It's a long story, but now we've decided to try and give our relationship another shot. I told him that I would stop being possessive of him, but under the condition that he cut off the 4 girls he cheated with and the 1 girl from the night of my brother's funeral. I've asked this of him before, and he reacted in the same way.

He deactivates his Facebook without deleting/blocking them and the reactivates it a week later, hoping I'll forget about the whole thing. I made it clear that this time he needs to actually do what I ask, and he tells me that "a relationship isn't a contract, don't make us start this way," etc.

Is what I'm asking of him valid? I think it is but I need other perspectives too.
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Boyfriend has contacts with girls he cheated with and lied about, is it out of line for
assistant