this has a little bit of a back story so please bear with me: Last year I was roommates with a friend (not a best friend) in the dorm of my school. He got on my nerves a lot but i didnt think anything of it because i knew that 2 people sharing a room for 10 months would always lead to being annoyed. this year we both ended up going to different schools and i now live with a really good friend of mind. this week my new roommate told me that my roommate from last year was telling him all summer about how i was "going to piss him off so much". i didnt mind THAT much other than the fact that he told him that so much. That would be the end of things but my roommate's gf went to visit his school a few weeks ago and apparently he asked her if "im pissing off my new roommate yet". this really pissed me off, and i know that next time i see him he is going to come approach me and ask me how my new school is and how me and my new roommate are getting along, and i dont want to call him out, but i refuse to act like nothing happened. the reason i dont want to call him out is because he is extremely meek and timid and will just back out of the situation and then bitch about it behind my back. So my question for reddit is: How can I handle this situation in the most "classy" way possible? I dont want to act rude or anything but i wont just pretend nothing happened. should i just give him short answers and then walk away? just ignore him?
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Roommate told my new roommate how i was going to piss him off and now i don't know how to handle it.
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this has a little bit of a back story so please bear with me: Last year I was roommates with a friend (not a best friend) in the dorm of my school. He got on my nerves a lot but i didnt think anything of it because i knew that 2 people sharing a room for 10 months would always lead to being annoyed. this year we both ended up going to different schools and i now live with a really good friend of mind. this week my new roommate told me that my roommate from last year was telling him all summer about how i was "going to piss him off so much". i didnt mind THAT much other than the fact that he told him that so much. That would be the end of things but my roommate's gf went to visit his school a few weeks ago and apparently he asked her if "im pissing off my new roommate yet". this really pissed me off, and i know that next time i see him he is going to come approach me and ask me how my new school is and how me and my new roommate are getting along, and i dont want to call him out, but i refuse to act like nothing happened. the reason i dont want to call him out is because he is extremely meek and timid and will just back out of the situation and then bitch about it behind my back. So my question for reddit is: How can I handle this situation in the most "classy" way possible? I dont want to act rude or anything but i wont just pretend nothing happened. should i just give him short answers and then walk away? just ignore him?
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My roommate told his gf that i was going to piss him off so much, but i don't want to call him out, so how can i handle
assistant