Had a date with a girl I met on a dating site both late 20s, this was the 2nd time we went out. I have OCD when it comes to relationships, I obsess about finding one, being in one, making it last. It really brings out the worst of my anxieties but I can't not do it just because it's uncomfortable. I went through a breakup 6 months ago that really took me by surprise and broke my heart but I feel that I'm ready to allow myself to be vulnerable again.

Anyways, I'm really bad at picking up hints but I think she has dropped a few but there just hasn't been an opportunity to make a move. I know that if I don't show my intentions by now it will be too late, but if it isn't natural then there's probably nothing there? I'm not trying to overplay my hand either but I've been solid on the eye contact and some physical contact. We've had dinner dates so maybe next time we'll do something different but it's probably too late. I genuinely like her, she's what I'm looking for but I just don't know how to just put on a move, everything before had just been natural.

I want to give up and not allow myself to obsess about it because it's really driving me crazy but I don't want to just give up on her either. I've dated a few girls in the last few months but they never went anywhere because there wasn't an attraction. This one is different to me but I'm too scared to make a move because I know how painful it will be to lose her and my obsessive thinking makes it's very difficult to not over analyze everything.

I'm very content being alone, I have everything I need but I feel like I failed with this girl, I'm too afraid.
user
No clue what to do, afraid to lose someone I really like but I'm too afraid
assistant
Had a date with a girl I met on a dating site both late 20s, this was the 2nd time we went out. I have OCD when it comes to relationships, I obsess about finding one, being in one, making it last. It really brings out the worst of my anxieties but I can't not do it just because it's uncomfortable. I went through a breakup 6 months ago that really took me by surprise and broke my heart but I feel that I'm ready to allow myself to be vulnerable again.

Anyways, I'm really bad at picking up hints but I think she has dropped a few but there just hasn't been an opportunity to make a move. I know that if I don't show my intentions by now it will be too late, but if it isn't natural then there's probably nothing there? I'm not trying to overplay my hand either but I've been solid on the eye contact and some physical contact. We've had dinner dates so maybe next time we'll do something different but it's probably too late. I genuinely like her, she's what I'm looking for but I just don't know how to just put on a move, everything before had just been natural.

I want to give up and not allow myself to obsess about it because it's really driving me crazy but I don't want to just give up on her either. I've dated a few girls in the last few months but they never went anywhere because there wasn't an attraction. This one is different to me but I'm too scared to make a move because I know how painful it will be to lose her and my obsessive thinking makes it's very difficult to not over analyze everything.

I'm very content being alone, I have everything I need but I feel like I failed with this girl, I'm too afraid.
user
I don't know what the fuck I'm doing, I understand the whole "seduction" methods going around
assistant