So I am in a situation where I have been seeing a girl for about 2 months now.  I asked her what she was looking for, because I am looking for a serious relationship.  I really like being around her and we always have a great time together.

She said that she feels the same way, but here is where the catch comes in.  Both of us have been dating, and I just found out from her that she is currently also seeing another guy, who she has been seeing for a bit longer than myself.  She says that she likes this guy as well, but isn't really sure where they stand, and he doesn't seem that serious.

I think I set off a chain of events here where I essentially told her that I want to get serious, but wouldn't be comfortable with doing that if she was still seeing another guy.  I think I put her under a bit of stress, because that chain of events ends in her picking one guy over the other.  We last spoke a few days ago, and I told her that I would respect her decision either way, but felt like I was getting mixed signals.  She said that she needed some time to think about it, and I told her to take some time and let me know what she thinks.

Is there anything else I should do at this point?  Should I be concerned since she didn't really jump at the opportunity, even though she said she felt the same way?  Should I be worried about this other guy if she ends up 'choosing' me?  Should I leave her alone and give her some space, or try to help her in the process?

The waiting game sucks.
user
Girl I am dating is also seeing another guy. I asked to get serious and she essentially needs to 'choose'. Is there
assistant
So I am in a situation where I have been seeing a girl for about 2 months now.  I asked her what she was looking for, because I am looking for a serious relationship.  I really like being around her and we always have a great time together.

She said that she feels the same way, but here is where the catch comes in.  Both of us have been dating, and I just found out from her that she is currently also seeing another guy, who she has been seeing for a bit longer than myself.  She says that she likes this guy as well, but isn't really sure where they stand, and he doesn't seem that serious.

I think I set off a chain of events here where I essentially told her that I want to get serious, but wouldn't be comfortable with doing that if she was still seeing another guy.  I think I put her under a bit of stress, because that chain of events ends in her picking one guy over the other.  We last spoke a few days ago, and I told her that I would respect her decision either way, but felt like I was getting mixed signals.  She said that she needed some time to think about it, and I told her to take some time and let me know what she thinks.

Is there anything else I should do at this point?  Should I be concerned since she didn't really jump at the opportunity, even though she said she felt the same way?  Should I be worried about this other guy if she ends up 'choosing' me?  Should I leave her alone and give her some space, or try to help her in the process?

The waiting game sucks.
user
Found out girl is dating another guy, but doesn't feel the same way, and might pick me or him. Help.
assistant