Very simple:  we were about to engage in some sexy times.  I went to go to the bathroom.  When I got back, she made a comment about how I left the door open and all the stink will get let out, so I went to go close the bathroom door.  I came back and said I wouldn't say that to her if we were in opposite positions.  I wasn't upset, just that is how I felt.

And she became extremely upset with me.  She said sexy times were off the table.  I could tell she was mad so that was no surprise or concern - I'd rather figure out the fight.  She says I'm accusing her of being a bitch.  I am not, just that like, hey, if we are about to do intimate things together, regardless if you're joking or not that's not a great thing to say?  (In regards to stinky bathroom)

She refuses to end the fight because, in her words, she resolves all of our fights.  I told her I feel like we resolve them together - that's what couples do.  She said I have to figure this one out on my own - I feel like that is unfair.  I'm trying to be communicative and open to her communication.  Just really confused as to what is going on here.  I wasn't even upset when I told her "I wouldn't say that to you".  I just meant to say that it is hard to feel sexy in the face of comments of hers(even if she meant to be not serious). 

Help?
user
I communicate my feelings to wife, she gets upset with me but won't
assistant
Very simple:  we were about to engage in some sexy times.  I went to go to the bathroom.  When I got back, she made a comment about how I left the door open and all the stink will get let out, so I went to go close the bathroom door.  I came back and said I wouldn't say that to her if we were in opposite positions.  I wasn't upset, just that is how I felt.

And she became extremely upset with me.  She said sexy times were off the table.  I could tell she was mad so that was no surprise or concern - I'd rather figure out the fight.  She says I'm accusing her of being a bitch.  I am not, just that like, hey, if we are about to do intimate things together, regardless if you're joking or not that's not a great thing to say?  (In regards to stinky bathroom)

She refuses to end the fight because, in her words, she resolves all of our fights.  I told her I feel like we resolve them together - that's what couples do.  She said I have to figure this one out on my own - I feel like that is unfair.  I'm trying to be communicative and open to her communication.  Just really confused as to what is going on here.  I wasn't even upset when I told her "I wouldn't say that to you".  I just meant to say that it is hard to feel sexy in the face of comments of hers(even if she meant to be not serious). 

Help?
user
Wife and I were about to do sexy times. She said she would
assistant