My sister has continually for the past year become a problem for my family. she currently lives with myself (M/21) and our parents (M&F early 50's). She has a multitude of problems however I will state the ones that need attention the most. My sister has recently ended a relationship with her military husband of 2 years I think, her and her kids moved back home with our parents and has from that time gone off and gotten completely drunk at the bar and from alcohol she buys. She treats her children terribly at times, especially her older daughter. They yell at each other about every day and always ends up with her daughter crying, there is some hitting but none of it is physical abuse (although I know this is still bad). I do believe there was some abuse between her ex husband and her family, but I do not know the extent of the abuse, all I know is that her oldest has become more defiant to mostly anyone that's taking care of her, refusing to do anything and just ignoring them completely. My mother has tried constantly to get them some counseling or therapy to find out whats wrong but my sister never acts on it. A co-worker of mine has told me what could be wrong with the oldest daughter, she told me that she could be mad at her mom due to how she was treated when she was with her ex-husband and also how her oldest had to take care of her sister when her mother was passed out drunk on the couch.

I fear for my sister and her family, if anyone does call her in to any kind of Child abuse prevention she will lose her daughters and they will be forced on my mom as she is first on a list they agreed on a few years ago, and myself and my parents can't afford nor have the time to take care of them. I'm at a serious loss of what to do and under an unnecessary amount of stress.
user
Sister is a
assistant
My sister has continually for the past year become a problem for my family. she currently lives with myself (M/21) and our parents (M&F early 50's). She has a multitude of problems however I will state the ones that need attention the most. My sister has recently ended a relationship with her military husband of 2 years I think, her and her kids moved back home with our parents and has from that time gone off and gotten completely drunk at the bar and from alcohol she buys. She treats her children terribly at times, especially her older daughter. They yell at each other about every day and always ends up with her daughter crying, there is some hitting but none of it is physical abuse (although I know this is still bad). I do believe there was some abuse between her ex husband and her family, but I do not know the extent of the abuse, all I know is that her oldest has become more defiant to mostly anyone that's taking care of her, refusing to do anything and just ignoring them completely. My mother has tried constantly to get them some counseling or therapy to find out whats wrong but my sister never acts on it. A co-worker of mine has told me what could be wrong with the oldest daughter, she told me that she could be mad at her mom due to how she was treated when she was with her ex-husband and also how her oldest had to take care of her sister when her mother was passed out drunk on the couch.

I fear for my sister and her family, if anyone does call her in to any kind of Child abuse prevention she will lose her daughters and they will be forced on my mom as she is first on a list they agreed on a few years ago, and myself and my parents can't afford nor have the time to take care of them. I'm at a serious loss of what to do and under an unnecessary amount of stress.
user
Non-physical abuse of
assistant