My dad [51 M] was very abusive towards me in my life, beat the crap out of me when I was 10 for not wanting a haircut (mother said I didn't have to get one) so bad I had to go to the hospital, made me clean my younger brother's diapers when I was too young to do that, and a whole host of other things. Basically, I don't get along with my dad's side of the family at all, now he's remarried and has new family and stuff, and although he's not being abusive towards them that he was towards me, I still want nothing to do with him or his family.

I'm about to become roommates with my brother though, and he's still talking to them/good terms with them. We are talking about what's okay with us and what's not, and one of the things I want to mention is that I don't want my dad's side of the family (any of them) to ever be over at our new place. We won't be living too far off from my Dad's side of the family, so it's possible they want to visit my brother (or me) sometime, and I want to make sure from the very get go that I don't want them ever in my apartment.
user
I want my dad's side of the family
assistant
My dad [51 M] was very abusive towards me in my life, beat the crap out of me when I was 10 for not wanting a haircut (mother said I didn't have to get one) so bad I had to go to the hospital, made me clean my younger brother's diapers when I was too young to do that, and a whole host of other things. Basically, I don't get along with my dad's side of the family at all, now he's remarried and has new family and stuff, and although he's not being abusive towards them that he was towards me, I still want nothing to do with him or his family.

I'm about to become roommates with my brother though, and he's still talking to them/good terms with them. We are talking about what's okay with us and what's not, and one of the things I want to mention is that I don't want my dad's side of the family (any of them) to ever be over at our new place. We won't be living too far off from my Dad's side of the family, so it's possible they want to visit my brother (or me) sometime, and I want to make sure from the very get go that I don't want them ever in my apartment.
user
Am I being too unreasonable, or is this
assistant