If there's one thing you must know about me [19F] is that I am really insecure about myself and I've never been in a relationship because of this.

Anyway, about a year ago, I got told by my crush that he likes me. Everything was going great. I was really happy. That was until I came across a Facebook profile of a very close friend of his - a female. 😐😮 He had basically liked or liked and commented on 90% of her posts. She's really pretty. They were either profile photo updates, shared posts or status updates. Whenever he commented on something of hers, he left hearts and kisses at the end of whatever he was commenting. He still likes and comments on nearly everything now. Even their friends thought something was going on between them two, but they always denied it. He's practically non-existent on my profile. She's not the only female friend he has.

As mentioned before, I am really insecure about myself and I know I will get really jealous. We aren't even in a relationship now and I'm a little jealous now. How am I supposed to tell him I don't want to be in a relationship with him because of his female friends? I feel so horrible because of this. Why does it bother me so much?

It's not really long, but...
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My male crush is making me [19F]
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If there's one thing you must know about me [19F] is that I am really insecure about myself and I've never been in a relationship because of this.

Anyway, about a year ago, I got told by my crush that he likes me. Everything was going great. I was really happy. That was until I came across a Facebook profile of a very close friend of his - a female. 😐😮 He had basically liked or liked and commented on 90% of her posts. She's really pretty. They were either profile photo updates, shared posts or status updates. Whenever he commented on something of hers, he left hearts and kisses at the end of whatever he was commenting. He still likes and comments on nearly everything now. Even their friends thought something was going on between them two, but they always denied it. He's practically non-existent on my profile. She's not the only female friend he has.

As mentioned before, I am really insecure about myself and I know I will get really jealous. We aren't even in a relationship now and I'm a little jealous now. How am I supposed to tell him I don't want to be in a relationship with him because of his female friends? I feel so horrible because of this. Why does it bother me so much?

It's not really long, but...
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I am too insecure about myself to
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