I've been dating around for a while since a big breakup and seeing one guy for 2 months. I'm not interested in a committed, let's do whatever it takes to make this work kind of relationship and probably wont be until after I graduate college at least. I was clear about that from the start, everything else I'd be fine with.

Since he had no experience (literally none, kissing, hand holding, nothing) and I had the experience of a 2.5 year relationship, he joked that I was like a "sexual guide/sacagaweah" to him when we first started seeing each other (even though we weren't having sex at the time).

I got a bit salty because that made it sound like he was using me to just round bases so he apologized and we were good again. 

Now it's been two months and we've recently started having sex and I asked, "so am I still a 'sexual guide'"? Kind of curious as to what he thought we were and hoping/assuming he wouldn't say I was. What he did say was: "hmm, I guess I'd say, 'test subject'".

I know he was at least partially joking, but is there anyone who wouldn't get offended at being called a 'test subject' in that context/any kind of relationship, even a casual one?

It made me feel used and very cold towards him because, at least to me, it seemed to imply that he was thinking of me as some kind of 'trial run' for a better girl and wasn't taking me seriously. The term 'test subject' is just dehumanizing in general. 

Am I right to be so salty and is this guy an idiot to call any girl that? Or am I completely overreacting?
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I've been dating around for a while since a big breakup and seeing one guy for 2 months. I'm not interested in a committed, let's do whatever it takes to make this work kind of relationship and probably wont be until after I graduate college at least. I was clear about that from the start, everything else I'd be fine with.

Since he had no experience (literally none, kissing, hand holding, nothing) and I had the experience of a 2.5 year relationship, he joked that I was like a "sexual guide/sacagaweah" to him when we first started seeing each other (even though we weren't having sex at the time).

I got a bit salty because that made it sound like he was using me to just round bases so he apologized and we were good again. 

Now it's been two months and we've recently started having sex and I asked, "so am I still a 'sexual guide'"? Kind of curious as to what he thought we were and hoping/assuming he wouldn't say I was. What he did say was: "hmm, I guess I'd say, 'test subject'".

I know he was at least partially joking, but is there anyone who wouldn't get offended at being called a 'test subject' in that context/any kind of relationship, even a casual one?

It made me feel used and very cold towards him because, at least to me, it seemed to imply that he was thinking of me as some kind of 'trial run' for a better girl and wasn't taking me seriously. The term 'test subject' is just dehumanizing in general. 

Am I right to be so salty and is this guy an idiot to call any girl that? Or am I completely overreacting?
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