Hello people, i'm gonna start a few years ago:
I met this girl (let's call her girlx) we had this big chemistry i liked her a lot (Not only physical, mostly her personality and her intelligence) we kinda went out for a bit always talking how we would be as a couple but nothing serious happened (even tho we both wanted) and that was it, we continued been friends and stuff.

Now, fast forward 2 or 3 years later, i'm in a stable relationship for over a year with an amazing girl, we have our ups and downs but i'm happy with her; but, around a few months ago i found out she (girlx) was going as an expat to the netherlands, and suddenly i start remembering the things i liked about her, what we would be as a couple, our conversations, when we hanged out and all that stuff, checking her facebook profile, etc.

Last night, i had a dream about girlx where we were sitting face to face talking, and i was telling her i had waited for her so long even tho before nothing happened and she had some relationships after that, and she answers me back saying she would wait for me even tho she knows i have a girlfriend at the moment and that she doesn't care she will still wait for me, and then we just hang out around the house saying cute stuff to each other trying to be close to each other.

I'm so confused right now, why is this happening if i'm supposed to be happy with this relationship i'm right now? what should i do? What can i do about this? A friend told me to talk to her with a coffee and clarify stuff but she is still in the netherlands and she's not coming back until the end of the year at least; should i go with his advice tho?
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Had a dream about a
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Hello people, i'm gonna start a few years ago:
I met this girl (let's call her girlx) we had this big chemistry i liked her a lot (Not only physical, mostly her personality and her intelligence) we kinda went out for a bit always talking how we would be as a couple but nothing serious happened (even tho we both wanted) and that was it, we continued been friends and stuff.

Now, fast forward 2 or 3 years later, i'm in a stable relationship for over a year with an amazing girl, we have our ups and downs but i'm happy with her; but, around a few months ago i found out she (girlx) was going as an expat to the netherlands, and suddenly i start remembering the things i liked about her, what we would be as a couple, our conversations, when we hanged out and all that stuff, checking her facebook profile, etc.

Last night, i had a dream about girlx where we were sitting face to face talking, and i was telling her i had waited for her so long even tho before nothing happened and she had some relationships after that, and she answers me back saying she would wait for me even tho she knows i have a girlfriend at the moment and that she doesn't care she will still wait for me, and then we just hang out around the house saying cute stuff to each other trying to be close to each other.

I'm so confused right now, why is this happening if i'm supposed to be happy with this relationship i'm right now? what should i do? What can i do about this? A friend told me to talk to her with a coffee and clarify stuff but she is still in the netherlands and she's not coming back until the end of the year at least; should i go with his advice tho?
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Had an amazing long term
assistant