I have been dating my boyfriend for over a year and we live together. At first we had sex all the time at least once a day usually more than that. At first I lied about having an orgasm as well until I felt bad and didn't want to lie to him so I told him. Since then he has done literally nothing different and as far as I know hasn't researched any ways to help me get there. I have tried telling him what to do and even asked if he wanted to watch me finish myself off. About 6 months ago I had asked him maybe to buy me a vibrator and I could use it during sex as I am 90% sure I can't orgasm without clitoral stimulation. In the past month or so we haven't really even had sex as I had my wisdom teeth out and had my period so was out of commission for about 2 weeks but it's been an extra 2 weeks on top of that. We also smoke a lot of weed and i know that can ruin someone's sex drive (not mine cause I still get myself off everyday). I'm just wondering how I could make our sex life better? I like the sex we have I just hate how when he's done he just walks away and I'm supposed to finish myself off when he doesn't even bother. Any tips?
user
boyfriends never made me orgasm what should I do to help our sex life
assistant
I have been dating my boyfriend for over a year and we live together. At first we had sex all the time at least once a day usually more than that. At first I lied about having an orgasm as well until I felt bad and didn't want to lie to him so I told him. Since then he has done literally nothing different and as far as I know hasn't researched any ways to help me get there. I have tried telling him what to do and even asked if he wanted to watch me finish myself off. About 6 months ago I had asked him maybe to buy me a vibrator and I could use it during sex as I am 90% sure I can't orgasm without clitoral stimulation. In the past month or so we haven't really even had sex as I had my wisdom teeth out and had my period so was out of commission for about 2 weeks but it's been an extra 2 weeks on top of that. We also smoke a lot of weed and i know that can ruin someone's sex drive (not mine cause I still get myself off everyday). I'm just wondering how I could make our sex life better? I like the sex we have I just hate how when he's done he just walks away and I'm supposed to finish myself off when he doesn't even bother. Any tips?
user
I've been having sex with my boyfriend for over a year now and I have nothing to show for it other
assistant