We've been best friends for 7 years, and dating for 3. We started dating at the end of high school and have stayed long distance for almost 3/4 of college now (both of us graduate in 3 semesters). What we can't seem to get past is whether or not we're making a mistake by staying in the relationship. Both of us can easily picture us getting married, but the concept of "choice" and the societal pressure to date other people and get that experience is overwhelming. I guess I'm looking for people much older for advice. Do you regret breaking up with that first true love? What do you do when everything is perfect, but it's just too soon?
user
20[F] and 20[M] caught up in love, but can't seem to decide whether to break up or stay together.
assistant
We've been best friends for 7 years, and dating for 3. We started dating at the end of high school and have stayed long distance for almost 3/4 of college now (both of us graduate in 3 semesters). What we can't seem to get past is whether or not we're making a mistake by staying in the relationship. Both of us can easily picture us getting married, but the concept of "choice" and the societal pressure to date other people and get that experience is overwhelming. I guess I'm looking for people much older for advice. Do you regret breaking up with that first true love? What do you do when everything is perfect, but it's just too soon?
user
It's been almost a year since we've been in a relationship. We're both 20, and both graduated in 3 semesters.
assistant