A little bit of back ground :

We have been together for around 9 months, at the starting it was really patchy cause she had an horrible ex , who kept wanting her back. ( Poems , love letters, attention grabbing by using drug and having break downs, she even admitted him at hospital once etc ). She kept saying that he likes him as friend and would hang out with him ( cause they have mutual friends ) and go out drinking and the whole deal with him in the group. 
Couple of time she said that he would grab her and kiss, but she kept going back to him to deal with his issues. 

and then her ex's visa expired so he left the country and they talk in messages occasionally apparent. 

we fought a lot about those issues mentioned above and recently concluded that she would cut off ties completely. 

And other issues we fought about recently was she was talking this guy online and sending her pic of each other and "virtual kisses" and "hugs" and "miss you" . In fairness she does talk to everyone the same way.

Any way my issue that I am struggling with is, We are living in different cities now for couple of months. 
She likes to drink and dancing , so she goes to clubs or drinking. I on the other hand have no interest what so ever and we have drank together once only and that too at home. Never seen her in that scenario except when she tells me about it.

Yesterday night she went to clubbing with her friends and she told me she got really really drunk and she got lost and then started to talking to 2 guys and they were talking pics with her etc , before her friend pulled her away.
user
feel uncomfortable/jealous/uncomfortable feeling when gf goes to clubs with her friends.
assistant
A little bit of back ground :

We have been together for around 9 months, at the starting it was really patchy cause she had an horrible ex , who kept wanting her back. ( Poems , love letters, attention grabbing by using drug and having break downs, she even admitted him at hospital once etc ). She kept saying that he likes him as friend and would hang out with him ( cause they have mutual friends ) and go out drinking and the whole deal with him in the group. 
Couple of time she said that he would grab her and kiss, but she kept going back to him to deal with his issues. 

and then her ex's visa expired so he left the country and they talk in messages occasionally apparent. 

we fought a lot about those issues mentioned above and recently concluded that she would cut off ties completely. 

And other issues we fought about recently was she was talking this guy online and sending her pic of each other and "virtual kisses" and "hugs" and "miss you" . In fairness she does talk to everyone the same way.

Any way my issue that I am struggling with is, We are living in different cities now for couple of months. 
She likes to drink and dancing , so she goes to clubs or drinking. I on the other hand have no interest what so ever and we have drank together once only and that too at home. Never seen her in that scenario except when she tells me about it.

Yesterday night she went to clubbing with her friends and she told me she got really really drunk and she got lost and then started to talking to 2 guys and they were talking pics with her etc , before her friend pulled her away.
user
She told me about her nights out with friends and partying and she got really drunk. I feel uncomfortable
assistant