So me (21) and my fiancé (27) have been together almost two years. We've been living together for a significant amount of that time, and we're getting married in less than a month. We are insanely in love and crazy about each other, and I wouldn't trade him for anything. 

He does A LOT for us. He works full time, and pays rent, etc. I'm on his phone and health care plan. Needless to say he isn't a useless bum. He takes care of me and I take care of him. 

I work part time, and my hours are slowly getting cut, and I may lose my job soon. So I feel like I'm obligated to do most of the cooking and cleaning. I don't MIND cooking, per say, but I really feel like, especially on his days off, if I didn't cook he wouldn't eat. It's very frustrating to cook all three meals, do the dishes for those meals, and prep his meals for work. 

Tonight I got very frustrated because dinner was just not going right at all. After I had finished cooking, he asked me if there was anything wrong, and I said I was just frustrated. He asked if there was anything he could do to help, and I said that I would appreciate it if he would help cook dinner every now and then, just to help out and have input on what he eats, and I guess as a favor to me. He got a little quiet, and then said that he was sorry, that he'd try to help more. But then he said "I don't really see where I need to do anything else, as I already do so much, but I'll try" 

Now that hurt, a lot, because I was already feeling guilty about asking him. Should I just forget about it and hope that he offers to help, or should I just tell him that its ok and I'll do all the cooking from now on? I'm trying not to feel bitchy and demanding, and it's hard :/
user
I feel like I'm being selfish for not wanting to cook for my fiancé all the time.
assistant
So me (21) and my fiancé (27) have been together almost two years. We've been living together for a significant amount of that time, and we're getting married in less than a month. We are insanely in love and crazy about each other, and I wouldn't trade him for anything. 

He does A LOT for us. He works full time, and pays rent, etc. I'm on his phone and health care plan. Needless to say he isn't a useless bum. He takes care of me and I take care of him. 

I work part time, and my hours are slowly getting cut, and I may lose my job soon. So I feel like I'm obligated to do most of the cooking and cleaning. I don't MIND cooking, per say, but I really feel like, especially on his days off, if I didn't cook he wouldn't eat. It's very frustrating to cook all three meals, do the dishes for those meals, and prep his meals for work. 

Tonight I got very frustrated because dinner was just not going right at all. After I had finished cooking, he asked me if there was anything wrong, and I said I was just frustrated. He asked if there was anything he could do to help, and I said that I would appreciate it if he would help cook dinner every now and then, just to help out and have input on what he eats, and I guess as a favor to me. He got a little quiet, and then said that he was sorry, that he'd try to help more. But then he said "I don't really see where I need to do anything else, as I already do so much, but I'll try" 

Now that hurt, a lot, because I was already feeling guilty about asking him. Should I just forget about it and hope that he offers to help, or should I just tell him that its ok and I'll do all the cooking from now on? I'm trying not to feel bitchy and demanding, and it's hard :/
user
I feel guilty for asking my fiancé to help out more and idk if I should
assistant