This has been controlling my personal life for way too long now, and I'm ready to change. I feel as though I am not a very serious person at heart, but I am terrible at communicating this. I have been told I looked pissed off when I am content. I just want to "go with the flow" of things so to speak. The worst part- all my friends are outgoing,funny people and then there is me...it's like I have a mental block or something, I can identify my problem but haven't overcome it yet. I feel a though my life is filled with interesting events (I am an active individual) but personally I lack the confidence or mentality to uphold an upbeat personality. I consider myself a good looking guy, but I struggle with girls because of this deficiency.

I know I can't be the only one who struggles with this. Any advice would be appreciated!
user
I am a good looking guy who has trouble staying positive or outgoing. I want advice on how to get out of this mental block (which is
assistant
This has been controlling my personal life for way too long now, and I'm ready to change. I feel as though I am not a very serious person at heart, but I am terrible at communicating this. I have been told I looked pissed off when I am content. I just want to "go with the flow" of things so to speak. The worst part- all my friends are outgoing,funny people and then there is me...it's like I have a mental block or something, I can identify my problem but haven't overcome it yet. I feel a though my life is filled with interesting events (I am an active individual) but personally I lack the confidence or mentality to uphold an upbeat personality. I consider myself a good looking guy, but I struggle with girls because of this deficiency.

I know I can't be the only one who struggles with this. Any advice would be appreciated!
user
Want to "go with the flow" and live life but I have been told I look pissed off when I am content. Any advice?
assistant