As I said in the title, I (22M) am concerned that my brother (20M) and mother (62F) hate each other.

A little background:

My brother and I have always had a tense relationship. My mother was always harder on my brother, which instill a very strong sibling rivalry which we still carry on but to a lesser extent.
A year before I left college, my dad was caught cheating on my mom which ultimately ended in a very nasty divorce. The family is pretty well shattered, but I've tried my best to stay on everyone's good terms.

Since then, I've moved away and gotten a job in another part of the country. My brother is still in school near where we grew up and is frequently home on the weekends where a fight between him and my mother inevitably breaks out. As a sibling, I am beginning to feel guilty about the favorship my mother has shown me and how my little brother has suffered because of it, yet at the same time I know some of her frustration with him is merited. They simply do not communicate well at all and their relationship is ruined because of it. Now I feel like it might be my responsibility to step in a start the healing process but I don't know where my place is.

I would love any thoughts or advice anyone has about a sibling and parent who disagree on everything or the guilt they might feel because of it.
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Brother and mother fight a lot, still resent each other, unsure where my place is in the relationship. Need advice/thoughts.
assistant
As I said in the title, I (22M) am concerned that my brother (20M) and mother (62F) hate each other.

A little background:

My brother and I have always had a tense relationship. My mother was always harder on my brother, which instill a very strong sibling rivalry which we still carry on but to a lesser extent.
A year before I left college, my dad was caught cheating on my mom which ultimately ended in a very nasty divorce. The family is pretty well shattered, but I've tried my best to stay on everyone's good terms.

Since then, I've moved away and gotten a job in another part of the country. My brother is still in school near where we grew up and is frequently home on the weekends where a fight between him and my mother inevitably breaks out. As a sibling, I am beginning to feel guilty about the favorship my mother has shown me and how my little brother has suffered because of it, yet at the same time I know some of her frustration with him is merited. They simply do not communicate well at all and their relationship is ruined because of it. Now I feel like it might be my responsibility to step in a start the healing process but I don't know where my place is.

I would love any thoughts or advice anyone has about a sibling and parent who disagree on everything or the guilt they might feel because of it.
user
Family hates each other due to multiple stressful events in past. Don't know if it's my place to intervene or
assistant