So, my boyfriend and I of 4 years were having trouble in our relation ship and considering taking a break but kept putting it off. I found texts on his phone from my best friend telling him she wanted him (nothing happened between them before we broke up though) but this triggered a break up. 
   Now we had been broken up for two day and the "ex friend" invited him to her house to talk, when he got there she through her self at him and they had sex. Now after they did it he left and felt totally disgusting and ashamed and he said he didn't enjoy it. (you should also know that I was pretty much his first sexual partner and I was worried that he need to "test the waters")  
   Now he is saying he feels like the worst person for what he did to me and that he loves me and knows NOW that he only want to be with me sexually and that I'm the only girl for him and that he thinks I'm his perfect match and he would never ever ever hurt me this way again and that he is going to do every thing to make it up to me and make me trust him again. 
   It has been a week and a half sense we broke up and we do need to spend more time apart I know that. I love him very much I just don't know how to feel. Oh and he is 24 and I am 22. 

What does every one here think? I need advice! I don't know what to think of any of this!
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Boyfriend of 4 years had sex with my best friend while we were on a break and he doesn't know how to feel now we're back together and going to
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So, my boyfriend and I of 4 years were having trouble in our relation ship and considering taking a break but kept putting it off. I found texts on his phone from my best friend telling him she wanted him (nothing happened between them before we broke up though) but this triggered a break up. 
   Now we had been broken up for two day and the "ex friend" invited him to her house to talk, when he got there she through her self at him and they had sex. Now after they did it he left and felt totally disgusting and ashamed and he said he didn't enjoy it. (you should also know that I was pretty much his first sexual partner and I was worried that he need to "test the waters")  
   Now he is saying he feels like the worst person for what he did to me and that he loves me and knows NOW that he only want to be with me sexually and that I'm the only girl for him and that he thinks I'm his perfect match and he would never ever ever hurt me this way again and that he is going to do every thing to make it up to me and make me trust him again. 
   It has been a week and a half sense we broke up and we do need to spend more time apart I know that. I love him very much I just don't know how to feel. Oh and he is 24 and I am 22. 

What does every one here think? I need advice! I don't know what to think of any of this!
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boyfriend of 4 years with my best friend (and ex) had sex with her when he was on a break. I am not sure how to feel.
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