Hi reddit.

I recently started dating a woman that I really like, after talking to her a lot for around a month. We go to university together and have a bunch of classes together, eat together, study together, etc. I asked her out, we went to the movies, had a lot of fun, kissed, yada yada.  

My biggest problem is that I've never been in a relationship. I'm relatively inexperienced romantically(kissed like 2 girls and had sex once before), and this is the first time I met someone that I thought 'Damn I really want to spend a lot of time with you'.

I really like her, and so I don't want to rush things, but then I don't know what I can or can't do. How often can we hold hands? Do we just kiss whenever one of us feels like it? How do I know she wants to be kissed at a particular moment? How do I know HOW she wants to be kissed? How do I know if I'm doing something 'wrong'?

These are a bunch of things that, if it were some random girl, I wouldn't even care about(or at least not care as much). I really just don't want to fuck this up. Are there any basic relationship rules or something other than 'do what your heart wants'? I appreciate anything you guys can tell me (criticisms or advice)

Thanks in advance.

P.S I'm guessing that some people will wonder about the age gap. We've talked about it. It's weird but we both like each other and don't care for it. The fact that she's older than me only stresses me out more because she's had more experience with relationships than me, and I really, REALLY don't want to fuck up.

P.S.S This is my first post here, so I'm not sure how things work. If you guys need any additional information that I didn't mention to help out just ask :P
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I've never been in a relationship, but I like this woman. How do I know if I'm doing things wrong? How do I know if I
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Hi reddit.

I recently started dating a woman that I really like, after talking to her a lot for around a month. We go to university together and have a bunch of classes together, eat together, study together, etc. I asked her out, we went to the movies, had a lot of fun, kissed, yada yada.  

My biggest problem is that I've never been in a relationship. I'm relatively inexperienced romantically(kissed like 2 girls and had sex once before), and this is the first time I met someone that I thought 'Damn I really want to spend a lot of time with you'.

I really like her, and so I don't want to rush things, but then I don't know what I can or can't do. How often can we hold hands? Do we just kiss whenever one of us feels like it? How do I know she wants to be kissed at a particular moment? How do I know HOW she wants to be kissed? How do I know if I'm doing something 'wrong'?

These are a bunch of things that, if it were some random girl, I wouldn't even care about(or at least not care as much). I really just don't want to fuck this up. Are there any basic relationship rules or something other than 'do what your heart wants'? I appreciate anything you guys can tell me (criticisms or advice)

Thanks in advance.

P.S I'm guessing that some people will wonder about the age gap. We've talked about it. It's weird but we both like each other and don't care for it. The fact that she's older than me only stresses me out more because she's had more experience with relationships than me, and I really, REALLY don't want to fuck up.

P.S.S This is my first post here, so I'm not sure how things work. If you guys need any additional information that I didn't mention to help out just ask :P
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I have no idea how to be in a relationship. What can/can't I do? What is too soon? What should I already be doing?
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