So last month, my ex girlfriend calls me on the phone and tells me that shes breaking up with me. Her reasons were that her feelings changed about me, and that our relationship had changed too much to keep it going. This is after two and a half years of a very happy and very loving relationship.

At first I was numb, but now its hitting me a lot harder than I had expected. This was my first real relationship, and I've had a really hard time coping with it. I can't concentrate on school work, and none of my previous hobbies are entertaining anymore. I'm hurt, angry, and confused. 

What's really messing with my head is how drastically her feelings changed so quickly. Over the summer, we both worked 40+ hour weeks, so we didn't see each other as much as we had liked. I had a feeling that things weren't so good between us, but I was hoping that we could fix that before school started up again.

But instead of giving me time to fix things, she just breaks up with me. She says she needs time to figure out what she wants, and a month later, she still hasn't said anything about getting back together.

I feel extremely jealous when I think about her doing anything with somebody else, because I still have very strong feelings for her. I just don't know how to move on or deal with this, and I could use some advice.

She wants to stay friends because I'm her "best friend", but I really don't believe it since she hasn't showed any effort to talk to me or check on how I'm doing. It seems like a really convenient excuse to me.

Supposedly she still cares about me, and that I still mean something to her, but she has changed from the person I once knew. I don't know how to let her go.
user
My ex girlfriend broke up with me and just wants to stay friends. I'm not sure how to move on
assistant
So last month, my ex girlfriend calls me on the phone and tells me that shes breaking up with me. Her reasons were that her feelings changed about me, and that our relationship had changed too much to keep it going. This is after two and a half years of a very happy and very loving relationship.

At first I was numb, but now its hitting me a lot harder than I had expected. This was my first real relationship, and I've had a really hard time coping with it. I can't concentrate on school work, and none of my previous hobbies are entertaining anymore. I'm hurt, angry, and confused. 

What's really messing with my head is how drastically her feelings changed so quickly. Over the summer, we both worked 40+ hour weeks, so we didn't see each other as much as we had liked. I had a feeling that things weren't so good between us, but I was hoping that we could fix that before school started up again.

But instead of giving me time to fix things, she just breaks up with me. She says she needs time to figure out what she wants, and a month later, she still hasn't said anything about getting back together.

I feel extremely jealous when I think about her doing anything with somebody else, because I still have very strong feelings for her. I just don't know how to move on or deal with this, and I could use some advice.

She wants to stay friends because I'm her "best friend", but I really don't believe it since she hasn't showed any effort to talk to me or check on how I'm doing. It seems like a really convenient excuse to me.

Supposedly she still cares about me, and that I still mean something to her, but she has changed from the person I once knew. I don't know how to let her go.
user
Ex girlfriend broke up with me, I feel like a waste of her time and I have no idea how
assistant