All info has been altered as she's a redditor.

The two of us met online (she's really a girl and everything she claims to be), on reddit actually, a couple months ago. We quickly became friends and, after speaking to each other a ton, realized that we were extremely alike. A couple weeks ago we started to really talk non stop as in we would be speaking with each other all day. We eventually confessed that we like each other and set up a few remote dates as she lives in Georiga while I'm in New York. I understand there was no obligation for either of us to do anything.

We shared all kinds of personal information that two regular people wouldn't share online and I was fairly happy with the direction things were going in. While we discussed all sorts of things, the key piece, I believe, is when we discussed our other long term relationships. She had just been in a four year relationship with a guy that had been broken off just three months ago.

We spoke about how we should take things slowly from now on and I wanted to give her all the time she needed. Then, however, and rather abruptly, we stopped talking all day and instead, and, not for a lack of effort on my part, were barely speaking to each other. This all culminated today when I finally asked her what was up and she said that we should just be friends. She also suggested that we keep doing some of the things we were doing.

Naturally I was a bit heartbroken, but I'd seen the writing on the wall. I was hoping it wasn't the case and I was simply being dumb, but it seems I was right. I also believe she replaced me with someone else who was trying to talk to her when we first started "getting serious" which swayed her decision to indefinitely cool things off.

What I need advice for is that I think I should end all contact with her and then move on with my life. First I want to ask her if I've been replaced though. That's gnawing at the back of my mind.
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All info has been altered as she's a redditor.

The two of us met online (she's really a girl and everything she claims to be), on reddit actually, a couple months ago. We quickly became friends and, after speaking to each other a ton, realized that we were extremely alike. A couple weeks ago we started to really talk non stop as in we would be speaking with each other all day. We eventually confessed that we like each other and set up a few remote dates as she lives in Georiga while I'm in New York. I understand there was no obligation for either of us to do anything.

We shared all kinds of personal information that two regular people wouldn't share online and I was fairly happy with the direction things were going in. While we discussed all sorts of things, the key piece, I believe, is when we discussed our other long term relationships. She had just been in a four year relationship with a guy that had been broken off just three months ago.

We spoke about how we should take things slowly from now on and I wanted to give her all the time she needed. Then, however, and rather abruptly, we stopped talking all day and instead, and, not for a lack of effort on my part, were barely speaking to each other. This all culminated today when I finally asked her what was up and she said that we should just be friends. She also suggested that we keep doing some of the things we were doing.

Naturally I was a bit heartbroken, but I'd seen the writing on the wall. I was hoping it wasn't the case and I was simply being dumb, but it seems I was right. I also believe she replaced me with someone else who was trying to talk to her when we first started "getting serious" which swayed her decision to indefinitely cool things off.

What I need advice for is that I think I should end all contact with her and then move on with my life. First I want to ask her if I've been replaced though. That's gnawing at the back of my mind.
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A girl I really
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