Background: We have dated for 2 years now. She is in college and I just graduated this past May. We both are in the education field. I didn't get a full time job, but will be subbing in 3 different districts. 

About 3-4 months ago I told her that she needed to show more initiative in our relationship (including sex). Before this I didn't initiate sex once to see if she would start something. Never did. It lasted for a good 2 months and then I spoke up. She has gotten better with initiating sex, if I tell her earlier in the day that we should make love. She can never make a decision or suggest something to do. It seems like I always come up with date ideas or what we're doing for the night, and I hate that. Most times we would just end up on the bed watching some lame show. Another thing, after about 6 months of dating her, I've noticed she's stopped hanging out with her friends. She's mostly at home watching some dumb reality show.

This may sound selfish (and probably is): but she got me a gift card and lawn chair for my birthday...on the day of my birthday. It's like there is no care coming from her. Sometimes I feel like this relationship is fake. We don't even celebrate our 1st and 2nd year anniversaries. 

Some days I just want to get rid of her. I wanted an outside perspective to see my relationship from another view. Suggestions?
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Background: We have dated for 2 years now. She is in college and I just graduated this past May. We both are in the education field. I didn't get a full time job, but will be subbing in 3 different districts. 

About 3-4 months ago I told her that she needed to show more initiative in our relationship (including sex). Before this I didn't initiate sex once to see if she would start something. Never did. It lasted for a good 2 months and then I spoke up. She has gotten better with initiating sex, if I tell her earlier in the day that we should make love. She can never make a decision or suggest something to do. It seems like I always come up with date ideas or what we're doing for the night, and I hate that. Most times we would just end up on the bed watching some lame show. Another thing, after about 6 months of dating her, I've noticed she's stopped hanging out with her friends. She's mostly at home watching some dumb reality show.

This may sound selfish (and probably is): but she got me a gift card and lawn chair for my birthday...on the day of my birthday. It's like there is no care coming from her. Sometimes I feel like this relationship is fake. We don't even celebrate our 1st and 2nd year anniversaries. 

Some days I just want to get rid of her. I wanted an outside perspective to see my relationship from another view. Suggestions?
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