So today was one of many arguments with my gf of 4 years. She had come to visit with the expectation of taking me to her place to stay the night. I had planned to go with her but change of plans came up and I had to stay the night at home to babysit my little sister as well as pick her up the next morning. This was when my gf was halfway on her way so i decided to tell her when she arrived that we can spend some time around my area and get dinner.

 The whole time getting dinner, she keeps mentioning how upset she is and how much traffic she had to sit through (405 LA, hour commute with traffic) just to be told that i cant come spend the night. I told her im sorry i cant do anything about it and tried suggesting another night. She keeps saying things related to her still being upset, and while we're in the car, i got annoyed and said "Im sorry!! I cant do anything! Can you atleast enjoy the time we have now?? We couldnt even enjoy dinner!" she got really mad at me and starting saying things like "youre a really shitty boyfriend at comforting me. Im not like this when things dont go your way. All you're doing is getting mad at me for being a little upset. Am i not allowed to be upset??"

So idk reddit. This definitely aint the first argument we've had like this. She drove home cuz she was angry after i stepped out of the car out of frustration. 
What do you guys think?
user
gf upset that i cant
assistant
So today was one of many arguments with my gf of 4 years. She had come to visit with the expectation of taking me to her place to stay the night. I had planned to go with her but change of plans came up and I had to stay the night at home to babysit my little sister as well as pick her up the next morning. This was when my gf was halfway on her way so i decided to tell her when she arrived that we can spend some time around my area and get dinner.

 The whole time getting dinner, she keeps mentioning how upset she is and how much traffic she had to sit through (405 LA, hour commute with traffic) just to be told that i cant come spend the night. I told her im sorry i cant do anything about it and tried suggesting another night. She keeps saying things related to her still being upset, and while we're in the car, i got annoyed and said "Im sorry!! I cant do anything! Can you atleast enjoy the time we have now?? We couldnt even enjoy dinner!" she got really mad at me and starting saying things like "youre a really shitty boyfriend at comforting me. Im not like this when things dont go your way. All you're doing is getting mad at me for being a little upset. Am i not allowed to be upset??"

So idk reddit. This definitely aint the first argument we've had like this. She drove home cuz she was angry after i stepped out of the car out of frustration. 
What do you guys think?
user
After coming to visit my
assistant