Alright, I'm going to preface this by asking for you guys to read this and respond without judgement. I know I'm in the wrong here. I (22f) met this guy (22m) at work. There's a lot of attraction there, he's really sweet, just the right amount of weird, and oddly innocent for his age. He has a long term girlfriend. We've been working together for a while, and have become good friends. He texts me a lot outside of work, just talking about our day, etc. That went on for about a month, and there was always some innocent flirting and stuff, nothing serious that either of us intended to act on. But then we did act on it. I know it's wrong. We've hooked up twice. Last night, I went out with a friend, and he was texting me. He brought up his girlfriend, and I don't know, I got a little irritated with that, I guess. I said something along the lines of, "If she makes you happy, then maybe we should stop hooking up." I was kind of catty, and he stopped texting me. Today, he is legitimately upset with me over this, and I'm unsure how I feel about this. I think he may actually have feelings for me, whereas I thought we were just messing around. I'm unsure of what to do. I'm confused at the fact that it's actually bothering me that he's upset, and I want to fix it. I'm confused and a little ashamed of the whole situation overall, and I don't know what to do about it either. I think I just need some outside input to better gain perspective.
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Alright, I'm going to preface this by asking for you guys to read this and respond without judgement. I know I'm in the wrong here. I (22f) met this guy (22m) at work. There's a lot of attraction there, he's really sweet, just the right amount of weird, and oddly innocent for his age. He has a long term girlfriend. We've been working together for a while, and have become good friends. He texts me a lot outside of work, just talking about our day, etc. That went on for about a month, and there was always some innocent flirting and stuff, nothing serious that either of us intended to act on. But then we did act on it. I know it's wrong. We've hooked up twice. Last night, I went out with a friend, and he was texting me. He brought up his girlfriend, and I don't know, I got a little irritated with that, I guess. I said something along the lines of, "If she makes you happy, then maybe we should stop hooking up." I was kind of catty, and he stopped texting me. Today, he is legitimately upset with me over this, and I'm unsure how I feel about this. I think he may actually have feelings for me, whereas I thought we were just messing around. I'm unsure of what to do. I'm confused at the fact that it's actually bothering me that he's upset, and I want to fix it. I'm confused and a little ashamed of the whole situation overall, and I don't know what to do about it either. I think I just need some outside input to better gain perspective.
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I hooked
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