I realize I'm super duper young. But I've never caught a break with dating. My first serious girlfriend at 16 convinced me to commit suicide. I failed and she left me. My second girlfriend, a year after the first one, turned out to be the "treat me like a princess" kind of girl who shamed me because I had severe depression at the time. My third relationship lasted for 2 years and we lived together for 14 months. This last one broke it off without reason and brought another man to our home a week later. And she said I was at fault because I wasn't supposed to catch her in the act. I used over 10 000 euros to provide for the both of us and she just left me. I believe the last thing she said to me was "my boyfriend will kill you".

I am a troubled man. I am too kind, my sense of empathy is too strong and I'm not tough enough. This really is a serious problem. I can't live for myself, I find it easier to please others and experience happiness through their joy. I would do anything for others. I always put myself and my interests aside to comfort or please others. And in dating worlds, this is the recipe for a disaster. Don't women like men who would do anything for them? Men who would lay down their life for them? Every woman has said to me "it's not me, it's you" or "I'm leaving you, because you are you".

I understand that a relationship is to be shared and both parties should keep the things that make them unique. Instead of sacrificing everything for the relationship. Because after it ends, you're stuck for months trying to reclaim your own identity.

But what the hell am I doing wrong? I'm starting to think that there's no one out there for me. Please, anything helps.
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I keep finding women who abuse me for my
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I realize I'm super duper young. But I've never caught a break with dating. My first serious girlfriend at 16 convinced me to commit suicide. I failed and she left me. My second girlfriend, a year after the first one, turned out to be the "treat me like a princess" kind of girl who shamed me because I had severe depression at the time. My third relationship lasted for 2 years and we lived together for 14 months. This last one broke it off without reason and brought another man to our home a week later. And she said I was at fault because I wasn't supposed to catch her in the act. I used over 10 000 euros to provide for the both of us and she just left me. I believe the last thing she said to me was "my boyfriend will kill you".

I am a troubled man. I am too kind, my sense of empathy is too strong and I'm not tough enough. This really is a serious problem. I can't live for myself, I find it easier to please others and experience happiness through their joy. I would do anything for others. I always put myself and my interests aside to comfort or please others. And in dating worlds, this is the recipe for a disaster. Don't women like men who would do anything for them? Men who would lay down their life for them? Every woman has said to me "it's not me, it's you" or "I'm leaving you, because you are you".

I understand that a relationship is to be shared and both parties should keep the things that make them unique. Instead of sacrificing everything for the relationship. Because after it ends, you're stuck for months trying to reclaim your own identity.

But what the hell am I doing wrong? I'm starting to think that there's no one out there for me. Please, anything helps.
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I am a kind man with a strong sense
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