I live with my bf but since his older brother moved out of his parents house & moved in with us I have been severely depressed.

His bro has OCD, anorexia, "eats" our food (more like makes a big plate of food then throws it out), tells us how & what we can use & drains our internet cos he plays battlefield all day long. He has no job, no goals & is hoping to find a gf soon. He listens into our conversations, wakes us up in the morning. Even having sex gets interrupted. I come home to a messy house after work, I am the only one who cleans up, cooks the meals & pretty much mother the pair of them. My bf has accepted that he won't get a job & is ok with all of this. I would never get in between family so I keep my mouth shut, though passively let my bf know my concerns. I tried approaching his brother but I get an aggressive response. He is in his 30's & his parents don't want him back because they just got him out.

My bf & I have/had a great relationship, though since his brother moved in, I am not attracted to him anymore & I feel angry all the time. I want to move out but it breaks my bf's heart. It's not fair on him. He is trying to be a good partner & brother. I do love him & I know that I am not angry with him, just the situation.
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depressed bf has OCD & older brother moved in & is causing chaos in our home life. Need funny, effective
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I live with my bf but since his older brother moved out of his parents house & moved in with us I have been severely depressed.

His bro has OCD, anorexia, "eats" our food (more like makes a big plate of food then throws it out), tells us how & what we can use & drains our internet cos he plays battlefield all day long. He has no job, no goals & is hoping to find a gf soon. He listens into our conversations, wakes us up in the morning. Even having sex gets interrupted. I come home to a messy house after work, I am the only one who cleans up, cooks the meals & pretty much mother the pair of them. My bf has accepted that he won't get a job & is ok with all of this. I would never get in between family so I keep my mouth shut, though passively let my bf know my concerns. I tried approaching his brother but I get an aggressive response. He is in his 30's & his parents don't want him back because they just got him out.

My bf & I have/had a great relationship, though since his brother moved in, I am not attracted to him anymore & I feel angry all the time. I want to move out but it breaks my bf's heart. It's not fair on him. He is trying to be a good partner & brother. I do love him & I know that I am not angry with him, just the situation.
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Boyfriend's brother moved in, brother is causing huge depression on me & my bf, I want to move out but
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