So this is the first time I've ever attempted to get to know a girl and pursue a relationship, and I'm pretty damn clueless. One of my friends introduced me to another girl and we went out a couple of times in a group setting. We seemed to have a good bit in common, and I was able to get her number. I've texted her a couple of times, but I'm trying to avoid absolutely blowing her phone up. I'm a little bit...stuck at this point. I never usually see her, so I don't really get the opportunity to speak with her in person. Using the phone is all I have.

I'm not sure if I should ask her to hang out through text, because it seems like something you should avoid. Yet I never see her so texting is like the only means of communication I have with her. I would like to get to know her more closely, but I'm not sure how to go about that. I just don't want to spend all of my time doing small talk through text and never give it a chance to develop.

edit: This is also in a college town, if that helps to narrow things down!
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Met a girl, only means of speaking with her so far is through texting, not sure how to develop it and get to
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So this is the first time I've ever attempted to get to know a girl and pursue a relationship, and I'm pretty damn clueless. One of my friends introduced me to another girl and we went out a couple of times in a group setting. We seemed to have a good bit in common, and I was able to get her number. I've texted her a couple of times, but I'm trying to avoid absolutely blowing her phone up. I'm a little bit...stuck at this point. I never usually see her, so I don't really get the opportunity to speak with her in person. Using the phone is all I have.

I'm not sure if I should ask her to hang out through text, because it seems like something you should avoid. Yet I never see her so texting is like the only means of communication I have with her. I would like to get to know her more closely, but I'm not sure how to go about that. I just don't want to spend all of my time doing small talk through text and never give it a chance to develop.

edit: This is also in a college town, if that helps to narrow things down!
user
How do I get to know a girl without blowing her phone up?
assistant