I have been dating my girlfriend for two year, until recently everything has been going great. She is scared by the fact that we could be together for the rest of our lives and feels that I am perfectly okay that. She feels as if I am set on her for life. This makes her feel like she doesn't have to do any work in our relationship because I would never leave her. She wants to feel as if she has to work to keep me.

I have also only ever been with her. She says she wants me to be with another girl so she knows I can and I am not just fixated on her.

How should I handle this? I want to be with her, but I also do not want her to be lazy in our relationship. What should I do to show her I may not always be around?
user
Girlfriend thinks I would never leave her, wants to feel some fear that I potentially could. What can I do to show her that so she doesn't
assistant
I have been dating my girlfriend for two year, until recently everything has been going great. She is scared by the fact that we could be together for the rest of our lives and feels that I am perfectly okay that. She feels as if I am set on her for life. This makes her feel like she doesn't have to do any work in our relationship because I would never leave her. She wants to feel as if she has to work to keep me.

I have also only ever been with her. She says she wants me to be with another girl so she knows I can and I am not just fixated on her.

How should I handle this? I want to be with her, but I also do not want her to be lazy in our relationship. What should I do to show her I may not always be around?
user
My girlfriend feels like I would never leave her because I would always be there for her.
assistant