My girlfriend and I started dating when we were juniors in high-school. We have been on and off for the past 2 years now. She's been my best friend and knows me better than anyone else. 

After college, we went on a pretty serious break, and as we were getting back together she revealed that she was closing on a house in our home town right near her parents house. It probably sounds stupid but if we were serious at the time, I would not have been for buying the house... I would have suggest that we wait (she came into money from her grandmothers estate), sit on the money and get a nice apartment somewhere to split rent for a few years, then figure out where we want to settle down. We have been getting more serious recently but every time I go to her house I always think that it will never be my home. 

It will always be hers. I think it could stop us from getting serious and settling down eventually. Am I being unreasonable?
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My girlfriend bought a house while we were on a break while we were still dating, and I found out after she closed on it. Am I
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My girlfriend and I started dating when we were juniors in high-school. We have been on and off for the past 2 years now. She's been my best friend and knows me better than anyone else. 

After college, we went on a pretty serious break, and as we were getting back together she revealed that she was closing on a house in our home town right near her parents house. It probably sounds stupid but if we were serious at the time, I would not have been for buying the house... I would have suggest that we wait (she came into money from her grandmothers estate), sit on the money and get a nice apartment somewhere to split rent for a few years, then figure out where we want to settle down. We have been getting more serious recently but every time I go to her house I always think that it will never be my home. 

It will always be hers. I think it could stop us from getting serious and settling down eventually. Am I being unreasonable?
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Long time girlfriend bought house during break... I can't get past it...
assistant