My boyfriend and I have been dating for over a year now, and he is wonderful in every way possible, and I love him very much. However, I will be graduating high school and attending a college four hours away. My boyfriend and I have talked about it, and decided that it would be best if we didn't carry on our relationship during my college years, since the workload at my college is notoriously stressful and almost overwhelming, and a long distance relationship would add to my worries. 

My boyfriend and I have been dating for a long time (in high school/college terms), and he is my third boyfriend, and the my only one to last over two months (the others were both happened when I was 15, so they weren't "real" relationships, i.e., anything more than kissing and didn't see each other out of our friend group)

And lately, I've been thinking about what it would be like to date (as in, nothing very serious going on) with boys other than my significant other, but without losing any feeling of love for him. 

I have asked my mom about these feelings, and she suggests that since I won't get too much dating done at my college of choice and I'm still young, I should try dating a few boys at once, and not get into a committed relationship until after I've "tried out some other boys" in order to figure out what I want in a man. 

I asked my friend for a second opinion, and she told me to do whatever would make me happiest. However, I have never tried anything like this before, and it's making me confused. I'm not sure if this choice would help with all my feelings, or if I will regret not doing this in the future. I don't know how my boyfriend will react, or if he'll still want to date me non-exclusively afterwards.

What is your advice on how I should proceed with this option? Thank you!
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My boyfriend and I have been dating for over a year now, and he is wonderful in every way possible, and I love him very much. However, I will be graduating high school and attending a college four hours away. My boyfriend and I have talked about it, and decided that it would be best if we didn't carry on our relationship during my college years, since the workload at my college is notoriously stressful and almost overwhelming, and a long distance relationship would add to my worries. 

My boyfriend and I have been dating for a long time (in high school/college terms), and he is my third boyfriend, and the my only one to last over two months (the others were both happened when I was 15, so they weren't "real" relationships, i.e., anything more than kissing and didn't see each other out of our friend group)

And lately, I've been thinking about what it would be like to date (as in, nothing very serious going on) with boys other than my significant other, but without losing any feeling of love for him. 

I have asked my mom about these feelings, and she suggests that since I won't get too much dating done at my college of choice and I'm still young, I should try dating a few boys at once, and not get into a committed relationship until after I've "tried out some other boys" in order to figure out what I want in a man. 

I asked my friend for a second opinion, and she told me to do whatever would make me happiest. However, I have never tried anything like this before, and it's making me confused. I'm not sure if this choice would help with all my feelings, or if I will regret not doing this in the future. I don't know how my boyfriend will react, or if he'll still want to date me non-exclusively afterwards.

What is your advice on how I should proceed with this option? Thank you!
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