My boyfriend "John" (16) and me have been together for 3 month now. I know this is not long at all and we are young and make mistakes but please hear me out. We're in our last year of highschool and everything's going pretty fine in our relationship. 
We treat each other respectfully, we have common interests, we communicate whenever there is something the other doesn't like. 
I used to be emotionally unstable before, unlike other girls I don't hate my body, I hate my personality. I didn't believe anyone would find me interesting at all, especially after the end of my first relationship that lasted 6months and ended with my ex finding me too boring.

John is a very positive person. His positive aura has made me into a very happy and relaxed person as well. I feel desired and loved and I am happier than ever. 
Now the problem is he taught me to relax and not be a workaholic and enjoy my teenage life as I will never be this young again. And now that I am, I feel a lot less focused at school and everywhere else, I can't organize, I do everything wrong where I used to have a clear mind. I can't focus. All I think about is when I will see him again, when I can be my happiest again. 
It's the last year of highschool so grades do matter. But there's no way I want to end this beautiful relationship over this. This is also a thing I do not know how to tell him. I don't want to be obsessive. There ARE still many other things I enjoy without him: painting, playing instruments, programming and all these other non-lazy hobbies I had before. But I am so extremely demotivated at school and can't seem to listen to what the teacher says and my time management is almost completely gone. I only want to see him during the break. It feels so wrong to only go to school because of this. Any way to make me less… addicted? Because he is still able to do his school work and everything without neglecting me in any way.
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I'm obsessed with love and I am not sure what to do
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My boyfriend "John" (16) and me have been together for 3 month now. I know this is not long at all and we are young and make mistakes but please hear me out. We're in our last year of highschool and everything's going pretty fine in our relationship. 
We treat each other respectfully, we have common interests, we communicate whenever there is something the other doesn't like. 
I used to be emotionally unstable before, unlike other girls I don't hate my body, I hate my personality. I didn't believe anyone would find me interesting at all, especially after the end of my first relationship that lasted 6months and ended with my ex finding me too boring.

John is a very positive person. His positive aura has made me into a very happy and relaxed person as well. I feel desired and loved and I am happier than ever. 
Now the problem is he taught me to relax and not be a workaholic and enjoy my teenage life as I will never be this young again. And now that I am, I feel a lot less focused at school and everywhere else, I can't organize, I do everything wrong where I used to have a clear mind. I can't focus. All I think about is when I will see him again, when I can be my happiest again. 
It's the last year of highschool so grades do matter. But there's no way I want to end this beautiful relationship over this. This is also a thing I do not know how to tell him. I don't want to be obsessive. There ARE still many other things I enjoy without him: painting, playing instruments, programming and all these other non-lazy hobbies I had before. But I am so extremely demotivated at school and can't seem to listen to what the teacher says and my time management is almost completely gone. I only want to see him during the break. It feels so wrong to only go to school because of this. Any way to make me less… addicted? Because he is still able to do his school work and everything without neglecting me in any way.
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I am addicted to the love of my life, how can I
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