Hi Reddit.

I'm with my gf for about 5 months now, I'm 100% she doesn't even think about her ex anymore, as he was a total douchebag and we're absolutely happy together. However, he keeps not only messaging her, but once every few weeks buys her presents, tells her she's the love of his life and today, for Valentine's Day she sent her flowers and some sweets. My question is, do I let her solve the problem (its hard, he lives in the same town etc) or *CAN I message him about it*? I have a freaking strong urge to do so, not that I'm going to kill him or anything, I just want to politely tell him to fuck off forever. Is it a good idea, or should I turn a blind eye, as I trust her completely?
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my gf had an ex boyfriend but
assistant
Hi Reddit.

I'm with my gf for about 5 months now, I'm 100% she doesn't even think about her ex anymore, as he was a total douchebag and we're absolutely happy together. However, he keeps not only messaging her, but once every few weeks buys her presents, tells her she's the love of his life and today, for Valentine's Day she sent her flowers and some sweets. My question is, do I let her solve the problem (its hard, he lives in the same town etc) or *CAN I message him about it*? I have a freaking strong urge to do so, not that I'm going to kill him or anything, I just want to politely tell him to fuck off forever. Is it a good idea, or should I turn a blind eye, as I trust her completely?
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gf sends ex presents, he wants her
assistant