So I live in a dorm, across the hall are two girls. I was immediately attracted to one of the girls and after 1-2 weeks we started to make out etc.  no sex though.  I wasn't expecting anything when we started to hang out more, to be honest she was more aggressive sexually than I was. 

At first I genuinely thought I liked her. But now I realize that it was probably just the making out and immediate reciprocation of the attraction that I felt. Now however I realize I like her but not enough to go out with her or to have a relationship. Ive told her once that I just wasnt sure what I wanted but that I did like her. She has told me she likes me and I am pretty sure she wants more out of this than just hooking up. I realize that neither of us should have gotten involved like we did if we weren't sure what the other one wanted (I obviously didn't even know what I wanted, no excuse). Its not that I just don't want a gf, its that I don't think we would be good together, I don't "feel it" so to speak.

But now I'm not so sure what to do.  I realize I need to man up and just have the conversation and let her know. But don't know how to go about doing it without hurting her feelings.
user
like girl but not sure if she
assistant
So I live in a dorm, across the hall are two girls. I was immediately attracted to one of the girls and after 1-2 weeks we started to make out etc.  no sex though.  I wasn't expecting anything when we started to hang out more, to be honest she was more aggressive sexually than I was. 

At first I genuinely thought I liked her. But now I realize that it was probably just the making out and immediate reciprocation of the attraction that I felt. Now however I realize I like her but not enough to go out with her or to have a relationship. Ive told her once that I just wasnt sure what I wanted but that I did like her. She has told me she likes me and I am pretty sure she wants more out of this than just hooking up. I realize that neither of us should have gotten involved like we did if we weren't sure what the other one wanted (I obviously didn't even know what I wanted, no excuse). Its not that I just don't want a gf, its that I don't think we would be good together, I don't "feel it" so to speak.

But now I'm not so sure what to do.  I realize I need to man up and just have the conversation and let her know. But don't know how to go about doing it without hurting her feelings.
user
starting to like girl, shes not interested
assistant