My boyfriend is a therapist, we have been dating for almost 3 years. Lately his sister has been getting to me; she and my boyfriend have a very odd/close relationship which I know stems from their emotionally abusive relationship with their father but sometimes it just gets too much for me. The other day she got mad at him for not looking at an area of her shirt where her side-boob was exposed and asked if she should go change.. And then proceeded to come back and hug him in her bra..This may seem like a minor occurrence but  it happens a lot and makes me uncomfortable.. He also used to smack her butt, but I kindly told him it makes me a little uncomfortable so now I think he still does it but not in-front of me.. (at least its out of sight out of mind right?) His sister also is very spoiled, judges everyone based on in-come (even my family), and admits she only wants to marry for money so she wont have to work.. But whenever he talks to her, he completely changes his opinion and personality and I feel bad about it because I don't feel attracted to him when he's like that.. I have voiced my concerns to him over and over but he always puts it like all these issues are fabricated by me and therefore I have the problem.. I mean maybe I have some trust issues but it just hurts when he makes me feel like I'm crazy and refuses to see things from my perspective... He also digs up old past situations that have happened and pins a blame on me for something that happened months or even a year(s) ago... I just wish he would talk to me on level-ground and maybe if he tried to understand it from my perspective he might understand.. I've tried to same for him but his sister just has no respect for me or my relationship with her brother.. She openly says she doesn't like us holding hands or hugging around her and so if I ever go to his house (he still lives at home) we are not allowed to outwardly display affection...
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my boyfriend has a sister I don't know about and his sister has a very creepy sister and he's very controlling of me.. I feel guilty for being in this situation and I want to be able
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My boyfriend is a therapist, we have been dating for almost 3 years. Lately his sister has been getting to me; she and my boyfriend have a very odd/close relationship which I know stems from their emotionally abusive relationship with their father but sometimes it just gets too much for me. The other day she got mad at him for not looking at an area of her shirt where her side-boob was exposed and asked if she should go change.. And then proceeded to come back and hug him in her bra..This may seem like a minor occurrence but  it happens a lot and makes me uncomfortable.. He also used to smack her butt, but I kindly told him it makes me a little uncomfortable so now I think he still does it but not in-front of me.. (at least its out of sight out of mind right?) His sister also is very spoiled, judges everyone based on in-come (even my family), and admits she only wants to marry for money so she wont have to work.. But whenever he talks to her, he completely changes his opinion and personality and I feel bad about it because I don't feel attracted to him when he's like that.. I have voiced my concerns to him over and over but he always puts it like all these issues are fabricated by me and therefore I have the problem.. I mean maybe I have some trust issues but it just hurts when he makes me feel like I'm crazy and refuses to see things from my perspective... He also digs up old past situations that have happened and pins a blame on me for something that happened months or even a year(s) ago... I just wish he would talk to me on level-ground and maybe if he tried to understand it from my perspective he might understand.. I've tried to same for him but his sister just has no respect for me or my relationship with her brother.. She openly says she doesn't like us holding hands or hugging around her and so if I ever go to his house (he still lives at home) we are not allowed to outwardly display affection...
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My boyfriend is a manipulative therapist who treats me like one of his patients and I feel like he doesn't want to be with me for the same reasons as he had a mental problem that left
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