Background: My previous gf and I started dating in our junior yr in HS. We graduated and went to different colleges and we drifted apart. We broke up in my third semester while attending college, yet we always had this sexual attraction to one another. we would occasionally meet up, please each other sexually and go our separate ways. this was common for months, even though she had a bf and i was talking to a potential gf. now onto the main issue...

I went on vacations and when i got back home in early January, she texted me that she wants to "watch a movie", me being single guy went for it. I pick her up and she sleeps over for the night and i drop her off in the morning before work. this happened every friday night/saturday morning in January.

we talk about rekindling our relationship and turns out she is in a relationship and she has been lying and cheating on her current bf, btw they have been dating for over a yr. I decided to end all contact with her and didnt hear a word from her till last week.

My sibling told me she was married and four months pregnant, so by doing the math: she got pregnant in **January **...

I am unemployed, going to receive my bachelors degree in December, and in a tough spot. I was hoping /RA could help me out with some advice. If I'm the father, i do want to be part of this child's life but financially I dont think i support the kid. I dont want anything to do with my previous gf, and I dont know what route to take. I know my parents would be devastated by this news, but they will support me. I feel like crap and everything i think about is the fact that i might be a father. Any advice is appreciated. BTW its a throwaway account
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ex-gf and I did the dirty
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Background: My previous gf and I started dating in our junior yr in HS. We graduated and went to different colleges and we drifted apart. We broke up in my third semester while attending college, yet we always had this sexual attraction to one another. we would occasionally meet up, please each other sexually and go our separate ways. this was common for months, even though she had a bf and i was talking to a potential gf. now onto the main issue...

I went on vacations and when i got back home in early January, she texted me that she wants to "watch a movie", me being single guy went for it. I pick her up and she sleeps over for the night and i drop her off in the morning before work. this happened every friday night/saturday morning in January.

we talk about rekindling our relationship and turns out she is in a relationship and she has been lying and cheating on her current bf, btw they have been dating for over a yr. I decided to end all contact with her and didnt hear a word from her till last week.

My sibling told me she was married and four months pregnant, so by doing the math: she got pregnant in **January **...

I am unemployed, going to receive my bachelors degree in December, and in a tough spot. I was hoping /RA could help me out with some advice. If I'm the father, i do want to be part of this child's life but financially I dont think i support the kid. I dont want anything to do with my previous gf, and I dont know what route to take. I know my parents would be devastated by this news, but they will support me. I feel like crap and everything i think about is the fact that i might be a father. Any advice is appreciated. BTW its a throwaway account
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My ex gf is now pregnant,
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