I am currently a senior in high school and there is this girl I have known since my freshman year. We have been good friends since we have known each other. For example, just teasing each other when we run into each other. Around December of last year we really started to like each other and we were starting to make plans about hanging out with each other. However, before I was able to make a serious move, she gradually started to ignore me. I was not able to figure out what the problem was so sent her a multiple paragraph and in the text I said "I don't like you that much anyways and I can get over you soon" and she replied with "lol okay." I later found out she was really upset about that because I made her feel unimportant. A month passed and we were in February and she still wasn't taking to me so I tried to talk to her and she completely went off on me and said how I was a rude and narcissistic person (which was true at the time). Over the next two months I tried really really hard to be nice and later in May she apologized to me for making such a big deal out of it and once again we were best friends. When the school year started and I started seeing her every day, I realized that I really liked her. She didn't feel the same way but later her friends told me that she will give me another chance because I have changed so much and I am significantly nicer. Now present day, she comes and talks to me in a pleasant manner every day and she wants me to talk to her but I really struggle starting to even continuing conversations these days and I feel like she gets bored with that. This has going on for a few weeks but I still can't seem to get over the nervousness. Any advice or tips for this welcome.
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I like this girl that is my best friend but
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I am currently a senior in high school and there is this girl I have known since my freshman year. We have been good friends since we have known each other. For example, just teasing each other when we run into each other. Around December of last year we really started to like each other and we were starting to make plans about hanging out with each other. However, before I was able to make a serious move, she gradually started to ignore me. I was not able to figure out what the problem was so sent her a multiple paragraph and in the text I said "I don't like you that much anyways and I can get over you soon" and she replied with "lol okay." I later found out she was really upset about that because I made her feel unimportant. A month passed and we were in February and she still wasn't taking to me so I tried to talk to her and she completely went off on me and said how I was a rude and narcissistic person (which was true at the time). Over the next two months I tried really really hard to be nice and later in May she apologized to me for making such a big deal out of it and once again we were best friends. When the school year started and I started seeing her every day, I realized that I really liked her. She didn't feel the same way but later her friends told me that she will give me another chance because I have changed so much and I am significantly nicer. Now present day, she comes and talks to me in a pleasant manner every day and she wants me to talk to her but I really struggle starting to even continuing conversations these days and I feel like she gets bored with that. This has going on for a few weeks but I still can't seem to get over the nervousness. Any advice or tips for this welcome.
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I can't seem to get over the nervousness that comes
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