I am in love with both of my girlfriends.  They know of each other but they don't know each other.  Each started off as casual and they both progressed at similar states.  I am deeply in  love with both but I feel like society tells me that I have to choose one.  Neither, has pressured me to choose just them, at the most it's been to not disrespect them when I am with them, which I would never do.

My worry is that at some point, I feel like I'm going to have to choose and by doing so, I won't just lose 1 but I'll lose both.  Anybody been in this situation before, and how did it work out in the end if it is no longer ongoing?
user
In love with both girls but not sure if I can be in both. Would love to hear other's stories on how they dealt
assistant
I am in love with both of my girlfriends.  They know of each other but they don't know each other.  Each started off as casual and they both progressed at similar states.  I am deeply in  love with both but I feel like society tells me that I have to choose one.  Neither, has pressured me to choose just them, at the most it's been to not disrespect them when I am with them, which I would never do.

My worry is that at some point, I feel like I'm going to have to choose and by doing so, I won't just lose 1 but I'll lose both.  Anybody been in this situation before, and how did it work out in the end if it is no longer ongoing?
user
I am in love with both my girlfriends, can I choose one or both and lose 1 or both and still be in love
assistant