We've been split up for like 2 months, and I went nc for almost 3 weeks until last week when she messaged me apologising and telling me she missed me and all that, and asking if we could become friends. I decided to give it a shot and things seemed okay, she was telling me things that got in the way of us, and how they're not an issue anymore, we had a laugh and things seemed fine. 

However, since that night it seems I always have to start the conversation, and she doesn't reply til very late as she is "busy", I believe this to an extent, I know she works and she's very swamped with college work, but I know she's forever on her phone and she'll be tweeting so even a simple message to say so would be nice! She started the conversation once I think since. She never carries on the conversation if say she falls asleep either, but she goes out of her way to read the last message during the next day, and not reply! When we do (eventually) talk, conversation seems to be great however!

I just feel like I look bad if I'm always texting her first, I don't want to look clingy or anything. 

She's been telling me a lot of stuff she misses from our relationship recently, which confuses me too.. Im not sure whether or not she has feelings still, going off how she told me she misses me, how upset she was and how she wishes things worked out differently, I'd say she does, she's a very blunt texter but always has been so I can't tell if there's any interest or not. I've asked to meet up once since, but she already had plans, but said she would've otherwise. 

I'm so confused, why would she ask to be friends but not make any effort to initiate conversation with me? What does she want?
user
ex asked to be friends, but doesn't seem to want to make any effort to initiate conversation!
assistant
We've been split up for like 2 months, and I went nc for almost 3 weeks until last week when she messaged me apologising and telling me she missed me and all that, and asking if we could become friends. I decided to give it a shot and things seemed okay, she was telling me things that got in the way of us, and how they're not an issue anymore, we had a laugh and things seemed fine. 

However, since that night it seems I always have to start the conversation, and she doesn't reply til very late as she is "busy", I believe this to an extent, I know she works and she's very swamped with college work, but I know she's forever on her phone and she'll be tweeting so even a simple message to say so would be nice! She started the conversation once I think since. She never carries on the conversation if say she falls asleep either, but she goes out of her way to read the last message during the next day, and not reply! When we do (eventually) talk, conversation seems to be great however!

I just feel like I look bad if I'm always texting her first, I don't want to look clingy or anything. 

She's been telling me a lot of stuff she misses from our relationship recently, which confuses me too.. Im not sure whether or not she has feelings still, going off how she told me she misses me, how upset she was and how she wishes things worked out differently, I'd say she does, she's a very blunt texter but always has been so I can't tell if there's any interest or not. I've asked to meet up once since, but she already had plans, but said she would've otherwise. 

I'm so confused, why would she ask to be friends but not make any effort to initiate conversation with me? What does she want?
user
ex asked to be friends, I agreed, but now only ever have to initiate conversation and not reply.
assistant