So I [19f] met this great guy over the summer, lets call him mike [21m]. We basically became FWB because I wasn't over another guy. He was into all different types of music, he was really the nicest guy ever and I really liked him as a person. He was hinting at trying to turn it official, but we lived really far away for school and like i said, i still wasn't over the other guy. I really just wasn't ready for what he was looking for.

September he got a girlfriend, I told him I was happy for him and my aim was to leave him alone. He had other plans. He messaged me on Facebook every other day. His gf got pissed (rightly) but she deleted me off his Facebook without his permission (wrongly). As we were saying our last goodbyes he says "Thanks for reminding me what I stand for. You always brought out the best in me, even when I forget sometimes." I honestly believe that something like that will only be said to you a handful of times. I didn't know what to say at first, but after a while that line really started to touch me. But I left him alone because I respect other people's relationships. 

Now, I feel like a very different person than who I was in early August. A lot has happened (really). I realized the other day I am now looking for exactly what he was offering. I checked his closed off Facebook page a few days ago and there was a picture of only him- I was ecstatic- he only has his picture like that when single. I checked again today and there she was with him. He was looking as cute as ever. That really just stomped on all my dreams. 

Mostly though, I just want my friend back and I want him to recommend awesome music.
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met a great guy, he isn't happy with his gf, want to get back with him but I don't want to
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So I [19f] met this great guy over the summer, lets call him mike [21m]. We basically became FWB because I wasn't over another guy. He was into all different types of music, he was really the nicest guy ever and I really liked him as a person. He was hinting at trying to turn it official, but we lived really far away for school and like i said, i still wasn't over the other guy. I really just wasn't ready for what he was looking for.

September he got a girlfriend, I told him I was happy for him and my aim was to leave him alone. He had other plans. He messaged me on Facebook every other day. His gf got pissed (rightly) but she deleted me off his Facebook without his permission (wrongly). As we were saying our last goodbyes he says "Thanks for reminding me what I stand for. You always brought out the best in me, even when I forget sometimes." I honestly believe that something like that will only be said to you a handful of times. I didn't know what to say at first, but after a while that line really started to touch me. But I left him alone because I respect other people's relationships. 

Now, I feel like a very different person than who I was in early August. A lot has happened (really). I realized the other day I am now looking for exactly what he was offering. I checked his closed off Facebook page a few days ago and there was a picture of only him- I was ecstatic- he only has his picture like that when single. I checked again today and there she was with him. He was looking as cute as ever. That really just stomped on all my dreams. 

Mostly though, I just want my friend back and I want him to recommend awesome music.
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I fell for a friend and he fell for me. Now I have a crush on both of them and I'm
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