So love is not a problem with us, my girlfriend and I love each other absolutely and trust each other absolutely.  But my parents had love and trust and it just wasn't enough, they divorced when I was young and I really don't want to put my children through anything like that. 

So I guess what I am asking for is two things:

1) Some feedback on my areas of concern; and

2) To solicit advice from people with some experience in marriage regarding what really mattered (i.e., worked vs. didn't work because) or what to be wary of.  

Here are my areas of concern:

1) She doesn't seem to like my family or her own,

2) Our sex has never really been mind-blowing,

3) We both want to live closer to where we are from but those are different places, (midwest v. east coast)

4) She is always stressed out by her job to the point of it impacting her life and relationships, 

5) We have very different ideas of what our ideal home would be like (she likes cities and I like country).
user
Wondering what I should look for or be wary of in a long
assistant
So love is not a problem with us, my girlfriend and I love each other absolutely and trust each other absolutely.  But my parents had love and trust and it just wasn't enough, they divorced when I was young and I really don't want to put my children through anything like that. 

So I guess what I am asking for is two things:

1) Some feedback on my areas of concern; and

2) To solicit advice from people with some experience in marriage regarding what really mattered (i.e., worked vs. didn't work because) or what to be wary of.  

Here are my areas of concern:

1) She doesn't seem to like my family or her own,

2) Our sex has never really been mind-blowing,

3) We both want to live closer to where we are from but those are different places, (midwest v. east coast)

4) She is always stressed out by her job to the point of it impacting her life and relationships, 

5) We have very different ideas of what our ideal home would be like (she likes cities and I like country).
user
We love each other and I would like to know if any of
assistant