So I met 'Paul' at an anti-monsanto march a few weeks ago. we talked and had dinner at his place after with my female friend, and hit it off very well. I have completed two years of college and I've never had a real relationship. my experiences with guys have all been very short lived for one reason or another. 

Paul is 27 years old and comes from a different sort of back ground. never went to college but works whatever jobs he can and lives in a small apartment, with his 4 year old daughter half the week. he was previously engaged to his baby's mama but they broke up a long time ago and i don't have any concerns about their relationship. 

Anyways, we exchanged numbers after the first time we hung out and were quick to make plans again. slept together very quickly time-wise, which is out of my character normally, but I wanted to and it was very good. we have been texting and hanging out every 2-4 days for about 3 weeks now and I've spent the night at his house every time we have had sex.

like I said though, I am having some annoying questioning thoughts about him. I do not feel comfortable telling my family about this relationship. I feel that they would not condone it, as some of my friends have already told me. He is very sweet to me and treats me with respect. I do not feel coerced or anything like that. He's an awesome cook and we like all of the same foods. we are both musicians, artists and get along emotionally and spiritually. 

I haven't met his daughter yet because he is not okay with it. this makes sense to me. I realize step-'moms' or step-girlfriends are a touchy issue haha.

I don't want to be a stupid teenager who gets her heart broken in an embarrassing relationship with a guy who doesn't deserve me. I know that sounds bitchy but i feel he is really lucky that I was open to getting to know him just because our situations in life are very different. Am i being stupid? do you have any advice for me going forward? because i don't think i want to go backwards.
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met a guy, he is my boyfriend, he has a 4yo daughter. I don't know how to proceed.
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So I met 'Paul' at an anti-monsanto march a few weeks ago. we talked and had dinner at his place after with my female friend, and hit it off very well. I have completed two years of college and I've never had a real relationship. my experiences with guys have all been very short lived for one reason or another. 

Paul is 27 years old and comes from a different sort of back ground. never went to college but works whatever jobs he can and lives in a small apartment, with his 4 year old daughter half the week. he was previously engaged to his baby's mama but they broke up a long time ago and i don't have any concerns about their relationship. 

Anyways, we exchanged numbers after the first time we hung out and were quick to make plans again. slept together very quickly time-wise, which is out of my character normally, but I wanted to and it was very good. we have been texting and hanging out every 2-4 days for about 3 weeks now and I've spent the night at his house every time we have had sex.

like I said though, I am having some annoying questioning thoughts about him. I do not feel comfortable telling my family about this relationship. I feel that they would not condone it, as some of my friends have already told me. He is very sweet to me and treats me with respect. I do not feel coerced or anything like that. He's an awesome cook and we like all of the same foods. we are both musicians, artists and get along emotionally and spiritually. 

I haven't met his daughter yet because he is not okay with it. this makes sense to me. I realize step-'moms' or step-girlfriends are a touchy issue haha.

I don't want to be a stupid teenager who gets her heart broken in an embarrassing relationship with a guy who doesn't deserve me. I know that sounds bitchy but i feel he is really lucky that I was open to getting to know him just because our situations in life are very different. Am i being stupid? do you have any advice for me going forward? because i don't think i want to go backwards.
user
dating a guy who I like a lot. scared of his daughter. worried about things I'm not comfortable
assistant