Her and I had been dating for about a year and 8 months and in the past maybe 6 or more have been at eachother's throats. We would argue a lot, and I'll admit I wasn't a good boyfriend and that I didn't love her anymore at the time we broke up. We broke up about 10 days ago. She claims recently (in the past three days) that she no longer loves me.

However, since then we've tried to stay friends including a few days of her trying to convince me to be fuck-buddies. I didn't want to do that because I knew it would be really emotionally confusing for me. Before she had moved on from the relationship she told me she slept with her friend who had been obsessed with her while we were dating. Now she says she's over the relationship and she's gone on a date with this guy she met on tinder and told me they slept together.

As soon as I heard that my heart dropped and I felt really sick. I'm glad she's moving on, and I even gave her some advice because she was nervous he didn't like her. But I felt so sad when I went to bed last night (she told me yesterday).

While this is happening I'm struggling to get matches on tinder and I've always had really low self-esteem when it comes to girls.

Am I just mean because I want her to be celibate while I try to sleep with other girls? Or I am rightfully jealous? Or is it something else....
user
I'm jealous of my ex who's already moved on and is dating someone else. I want to get back with her.
assistant
Her and I had been dating for about a year and 8 months and in the past maybe 6 or more have been at eachother's throats. We would argue a lot, and I'll admit I wasn't a good boyfriend and that I didn't love her anymore at the time we broke up. We broke up about 10 days ago. She claims recently (in the past three days) that she no longer loves me.

However, since then we've tried to stay friends including a few days of her trying to convince me to be fuck-buddies. I didn't want to do that because I knew it would be really emotionally confusing for me. Before she had moved on from the relationship she told me she slept with her friend who had been obsessed with her while we were dating. Now she says she's over the relationship and she's gone on a date with this guy she met on tinder and told me they slept together.

As soon as I heard that my heart dropped and I felt really sick. I'm glad she's moving on, and I even gave her some advice because she was nervous he didn't like her. But I felt so sad when I went to bed last night (she told me yesterday).

While this is happening I'm struggling to get matches on tinder and I've always had really low self-esteem when it comes to girls.

Am I just mean because I want her to be celibate while I try to sleep with other girls? Or I am rightfully jealous? Or is it something else....
user
Friends with ex-gf for about six months, we broke up a week ago, she's already moved on and I feel sad.
assistant