My girlfriend of 20 months broke up with me yesterday and at first I was feeling fine, but after thinking about it all day today I feel guilty because I know I wasn't being the "romantic" boyfriend she was looking for (I think), which I should have and could have been to reciprocate how she was to me.

She gave me a "We're both too busy with school and other things" reason, but I think it was because of my lack of "romanticism" and that's been in my head all day and can't get past it.

Basically, I want to know if it would be appropriate to offer an apology or just wait it out until I eventually get over it. The thing is, I have mixed feelings about whether I'm looking to get her back or just as closure for myself.
user
Girlfriend broke up with
assistant
My girlfriend of 20 months broke up with me yesterday and at first I was feeling fine, but after thinking about it all day today I feel guilty because I know I wasn't being the "romantic" boyfriend she was looking for (I think), which I should have and could have been to reciprocate how she was to me.

She gave me a "We're both too busy with school and other things" reason, but I think it was because of my lack of "romanticism" and that's been in my head all day and can't get past it.

Basically, I want to know if it would be appropriate to offer an apology or just wait it out until I eventually get over it. The thing is, I have mixed feelings about whether I'm looking to get her back or just as closure for myself.
user
Girlfriend of 20 months
assistant