I met a great girl three months ago who was really into me. She pushed things from the beginning by saying "I love you" very early on. I hesitated but I said it back. That's the backstory but just the beginning.

In the three months that followed, she pushed things even further with occasional wedding talk, wedding venue research, talk of who her bridesmaids would be, what baby names she liked, and jokes about how long I'd wait to put a ring on her finger.

I'll be honest and say the talk made me excited. However, I normally just laughed it off without saying too much. I didn't buy into it entirely nor did I tell her to knock it off. I did shower her with lots of romantic talk and kind words in return. Mostly after we had sex and emotions were high but other times as well. I got drunk at a wedding one time and told her she was "the one". I thought that's what she wanted to hear anyway.

Fast forward three months and she ended up breaking up with **me**. Her reasons were mostly... 1) she couldn't love me as much as I loved her, 2) there was a feeling in her gut that it wasn't right, 3) how it was a mistake we rushed things and it's probably because she feels like she's getting old

What are your thoughts on why this fell apart? I'm very confused by it. 

**Edit**: I keep thinking I put her on a pedestal or didn't provide any challenge to her (by going along with the future talk) and that's why it fell apart. But, the other part of me thinks she's crazy to begin with and even if I didn't do those things, this relationship was still doomed.
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Girlfriend of three months breaks up with me
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I met a great girl three months ago who was really into me. She pushed things from the beginning by saying "I love you" very early on. I hesitated but I said it back. That's the backstory but just the beginning.

In the three months that followed, she pushed things even further with occasional wedding talk, wedding venue research, talk of who her bridesmaids would be, what baby names she liked, and jokes about how long I'd wait to put a ring on her finger.

I'll be honest and say the talk made me excited. However, I normally just laughed it off without saying too much. I didn't buy into it entirely nor did I tell her to knock it off. I did shower her with lots of romantic talk and kind words in return. Mostly after we had sex and emotions were high but other times as well. I got drunk at a wedding one time and told her she was "the one". I thought that's what she wanted to hear anyway.

Fast forward three months and she ended up breaking up with **me**. Her reasons were mostly... 1) she couldn't love me as much as I loved her, 2) there was a feeling in her gut that it wasn't right, 3) how it was a mistake we rushed things and it's probably because she feels like she's getting old

What are your thoughts on why this fell apart? I'm very confused by it. 

**Edit**: I keep thinking I put her on a pedestal or didn't provide any challenge to her (by going along with the future talk) and that's why it fell apart. But, the other part of me thinks she's crazy to begin with and even if I didn't do those things, this relationship was still doomed.
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Girlfriend of three months dumped me because I
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