So my boyfriend and I (both male and in our early 20s) have been together just over 2 years and mostly met through a volunteer organisation. We are both extremely dedicated to said organisation and spend most weekends and every Wednesday running our local unit. He is currently the unit manager and I run events lead and youth lead (it is a medical events based volunteering organisation). The current dilemma is that due to wider plans I don't think our local unit will survive (the building is being sold and I can't commute to the nearest other building - I already commute 45 mins one-way every week and weekend for it! The other building is 1hour 15 and that's just too much for me.) He has just applied to become area manager which allows him to detach himself from the mess and wants me to become unit manager.

We are both currently students - I study medicine and he studies paramedic science. I am significantly more driven and competitive and I usually push him to do things that will benefit him. 

On one hand I feel that I should be supportive but on the other, I feel jealous and spiteful that he is leaving me with a failing unit while he goes to chomp on the greener grass. Moreover, I basically run the show anyway as he is fairly lazy when it comes to getting things done so I am the main driver for the recent successes of the unit. I know I would make a better area manager than him. (Also, I have done a Law degree prior with industry placement so I know my way around paperwork and admin!) 

I am conflicted in my thoughts - an area manager promotion would look amazing on my CV and would stand me in good stead for applications further down the line. He also plans to go into some kind of managerial role sometime down the line too but is significantly less driven than I am (like comparing a potato and red bull). Am I feeling crazy for being really jealous and also for thinking him as being a bit douchey for leaving me with a failing unit? 

I've spoken to it about him and basically sound bipolar and keep jumping from yes to no. I've asked my friends who are also a bit at a loss. Please help!
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I want the promotion my boyfriend has applied to. Should I be happy or not?
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So my boyfriend and I (both male and in our early 20s) have been together just over 2 years and mostly met through a volunteer organisation. We are both extremely dedicated to said organisation and spend most weekends and every Wednesday running our local unit. He is currently the unit manager and I run events lead and youth lead (it is a medical events based volunteering organisation). The current dilemma is that due to wider plans I don't think our local unit will survive (the building is being sold and I can't commute to the nearest other building - I already commute 45 mins one-way every week and weekend for it! The other building is 1hour 15 and that's just too much for me.) He has just applied to become area manager which allows him to detach himself from the mess and wants me to become unit manager.

We are both currently students - I study medicine and he studies paramedic science. I am significantly more driven and competitive and I usually push him to do things that will benefit him. 

On one hand I feel that I should be supportive but on the other, I feel jealous and spiteful that he is leaving me with a failing unit while he goes to chomp on the greener grass. Moreover, I basically run the show anyway as he is fairly lazy when it comes to getting things done so I am the main driver for the recent successes of the unit. I know I would make a better area manager than him. (Also, I have done a Law degree prior with industry placement so I know my way around paperwork and admin!) 

I am conflicted in my thoughts - an area manager promotion would look amazing on my CV and would stand me in good stead for applications further down the line. He also plans to go into some kind of managerial role sometime down the line too but is significantly less driven than I am (like comparing a potato and red bull). Am I feeling crazy for being really jealous and also for thinking him as being a bit douchey for leaving me with a failing unit? 

I've spoken to it about him and basically sound bipolar and keep jumping from yes to no. I've asked my friends who are also a bit at a loss. Please help!
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Boyfriend getting promoted to area manager, he plans to go into a managerial role down the track, I want to keep my position
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