I'm sure I'm not the first to have this problem, but it's fuckin' confusing nonetheless. 

I'm a fairly average looking 24 year old guy, decent enough social skills, dress alright etc. No major causes for concern, basically.
But I have little experience in dating because whenever I realise somebody is attracted to me, I begin losing interest almost immediately. To the point where I find them physically unattractive as a result. 

Meanwhile, any woman who is obviously uninterested in me romantically is the most beautiful woman on the goddamn planet. I will worship and brood over her, making myself COMPLETELY miserable over these doomed crushes for months at a time. 

I've just started to get to know a girl who is obviously interested in me. We get on very well, have a huge amount of things in common, and we talk a lot.
...but I keep talking myself out of dating her, simply because she's interested in me.

Has anybody here dealt with this? How did you overcome it? 

Is it worth pursuing a relationship with this girl, and hope that as I get more settled with her, this becomes less of an issue?
user
I'm uninterested in women who are attracted to me. Obsessed with women
assistant
I'm sure I'm not the first to have this problem, but it's fuckin' confusing nonetheless. 

I'm a fairly average looking 24 year old guy, decent enough social skills, dress alright etc. No major causes for concern, basically.
But I have little experience in dating because whenever I realise somebody is attracted to me, I begin losing interest almost immediately. To the point where I find them physically unattractive as a result. 

Meanwhile, any woman who is obviously uninterested in me romantically is the most beautiful woman on the goddamn planet. I will worship and brood over her, making myself COMPLETELY miserable over these doomed crushes for months at a time. 

I've just started to get to know a girl who is obviously interested in me. We get on very well, have a huge amount of things in common, and we talk a lot.
...but I keep talking myself out of dating her, simply because she's interested in me.

Has anybody here dealt with this? How did you overcome it? 

Is it worth pursuing a relationship with this girl, and hope that as I get more settled with her, this becomes less of an issue?
user
I can't handle the idea of dating someone I'm not attracted to.
assistant