As the title says, my boyfriend is so lazy when it comes to cleaning and tidying up after himself. I'm not particularly a clean freak either, but he is so oblivious to stuff that needs done. He will leave empty bottles/food wrappers on his table for days without moving them, then gets grumpy when I ask if he's ever gonna move them. I'll put a load of laundry on then hang it up to try and the clothes will literally sit there for a week until he thinks to put them away, or actually, he won't fold them away and he'll just wear them off the airer. It's so lazy! He'll come home from work, change our of the clothes he wore and will just leave them lying on the bed then complain that they're crushed or smelly. 

I used to tidy up after him because I hate seeing shit lying around everywhere. But I've stopped because I cba anymore and he's old enough to do it himself. I asked him if he could just look around the house to see if anything needs tidied or cleaned and he said he "just doesn't notice these things". I said that's not really an excuse - he's 25 and hasn't lived at home for years now, so he needs to, you know, start actually noticing these things. 

I used to nag him A LOT but I've stopped doing it. I'll tidy up my own stuff, do my own laundry and put my clothes away. It's not my fault if on Sunday night he can't find any clothes to wear to work because he didn't do his washing. But I don't really want it to be that way. I want him to notice these things and start taking some pride in his house. He's not even a messy person as such and he's very particular about some things so I'm sure he can get better with tidying up. What do you suggest?
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Boyfriend doesn't clean or tidy up after himself. I told him to look around the house in case things need to be done. He's not bothered with
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As the title says, my boyfriend is so lazy when it comes to cleaning and tidying up after himself. I'm not particularly a clean freak either, but he is so oblivious to stuff that needs done. He will leave empty bottles/food wrappers on his table for days without moving them, then gets grumpy when I ask if he's ever gonna move them. I'll put a load of laundry on then hang it up to try and the clothes will literally sit there for a week until he thinks to put them away, or actually, he won't fold them away and he'll just wear them off the airer. It's so lazy! He'll come home from work, change our of the clothes he wore and will just leave them lying on the bed then complain that they're crushed or smelly. 

I used to tidy up after him because I hate seeing shit lying around everywhere. But I've stopped because I cba anymore and he's old enough to do it himself. I asked him if he could just look around the house to see if anything needs tidied or cleaned and he said he "just doesn't notice these things". I said that's not really an excuse - he's 25 and hasn't lived at home for years now, so he needs to, you know, start actually noticing these things. 

I used to nag him A LOT but I've stopped doing it. I'll tidy up my own stuff, do my own laundry and put my clothes away. It's not my fault if on Sunday night he can't find any clothes to wear to work because he didn't do his washing. But I don't really want it to be that way. I want him to notice these things and start taking some pride in his house. He's not even a messy person as such and he's very particular about some things so I'm sure he can get better with tidying up. What do you suggest?
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boyfriend is lazy and doesn't notice cleanliness. What should I do?
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