** We have been together for two years and I have this feel since  five or six months ago. **

**I start to realize her defects are bothering me**. In her intelligence, in her looks, in the tastes we don't share, etc. 
I'm looking girls all time, and not only physically but also I think  how they could be as couple, in a way to contrast them with my gf, as if I couldn't appreciate her bright side. In other words, I'm seeing women like when I was single. 

I find even her less attractive than before and I enjoy sex but It don't blow my mind as the first year, actually I'm interested in how feels sex with other chicks and It makes me feel guilty as fuck. (Anyway I wont cheat her under no circumstances!)

Anyone would say that it clearly means I'm losing my love for her but on the other hand, I can't stand being without her, I really need her, she truly appreciates me and Ican't leave behind that. She is the only who helps me and talks me when I'm feeling sad or alone,  and beyond all that I still find unique in a lot of other things.
**Could be this a passing moment and can I appreciate her as the first time again?**

 We've talked a lot about this, I always we conclude that It's a selfish argument (wich it's sadly  true) and I'm demanding on her with no need. Last week, I said I don't know the future of the relationship and perhaps in the future we've to break up or perhaps not  and we'll be aging together, in this moment she sobbed and said *"hopefully..."*  and instantaneously after we both started to cry like kids.  I'm fucking confused.
user
I realized my gf is not the person I love, I'm afraid I'll lose her and I'm confused on the future of the relationship.
assistant
** We have been together for two years and I have this feel since  five or six months ago. **

**I start to realize her defects are bothering me**. In her intelligence, in her looks, in the tastes we don't share, etc. 
I'm looking girls all time, and not only physically but also I think  how they could be as couple, in a way to contrast them with my gf, as if I couldn't appreciate her bright side. In other words, I'm seeing women like when I was single. 

I find even her less attractive than before and I enjoy sex but It don't blow my mind as the first year, actually I'm interested in how feels sex with other chicks and It makes me feel guilty as fuck. (Anyway I wont cheat her under no circumstances!)

Anyone would say that it clearly means I'm losing my love for her but on the other hand, I can't stand being without her, I really need her, she truly appreciates me and Ican't leave behind that. She is the only who helps me and talks me when I'm feeling sad or alone,  and beyond all that I still find unique in a lot of other things.
**Could be this a passing moment and can I appreciate her as the first time again?**

 We've talked a lot about this, I always we conclude that It's a selfish argument (wich it's sadly  true) and I'm demanding on her with no need. Last week, I said I don't know the future of the relationship and perhaps in the future we've to break up or perhaps not  and we'll be aging together, in this moment she sobbed and said *"hopefully..."*  and instantaneously after we both started to cry like kids.  I'm fucking confused.
user
I'm seeing women that I can't stand, I'm losing her, totally in love but not sure if I can last the whole time.
assistant