We have been dating for almost three years [19f]/[24m] now and the topic of moving out has come up more than once. He doesn't think he's ready to move out because he has to pay for his bill's, school out of pocket, and won't have fun money. While I get financial aid and only have a few bill's and a cat to take care of.
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He has recently been looking for a second job so he will feel more secure with moving out, but I can afford to pay for the rent and take care of all my bills while he just would have to pay utilities/his bill's/ect. The problem is, is that he doesn't want me to pay for most of it, and wants to take care of his half. This really irritates me because I don't see me paying for more a problem and feel he is just making excuses to hold off moving out together. This has caused a lot of arguments lately where he says if its that important to just move out on my own which is impossible. Is it wrong to feel detached from him after hearing the same ol' hurtful things all the time? Or am I being unreasonable?
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We have been dating for almost three years [19f]/[24m] now and the topic of moving out has come up more than once. He doesn't think he's ready to move out because he has to pay for his bill's, school out of pocket, and won't have fun money. While I get financial aid and only have a few bill's and a cat to take care of.
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He has recently been looking for a second job so he will feel more secure with moving out, but I can afford to pay for the rent and take care of all my bills while he just would have to pay utilities/his bill's/ect. The problem is, is that he doesn't want me to pay for most of it, and wants to take care of his half. This really irritates me because I don't see me paying for more a problem and feel he is just making excuses to hold off moving out together. This has caused a lot of arguments lately where he says if its that important to just move out on my own which is impossible. Is it wrong to feel detached from him after hearing the same ol' hurtful things all the time? Or am I being unreasonable?
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