Until the beginning of this semester at university (middle of January) my boyfriend and I had what I considered a very healthy and fulfilling relationship.  Lately however, we have only been able to see each other once a week or less. And I have difficulty getting in touch with him more than every other day. 

We both have much more hectic schedules than we did last semester as I have more demanding classes and a career related job, and he has been overwhelmed with school, athletics, work and other obligations. 

That being said I am still making a big effort to make time for him, and I encourage him to come over and spend time with me even when I have other things I need to do or it is late and I need to get up early. I can't tell if he is not making the same effort, or if he really is so busy that it is actually impossible at times. I know that he is struggling to keep up with everything, and staying up nights to finish assignments while still not getting everything done that he needs to, but I can't help but feel starved for attention.

I have spoken to him about whether or not we should break up (even though I really didn't want to) and while he understands  why I'm upset and agrees that our current situation isn't fair to either of us, he told me it isn't what he wants, but that he would leave it up to me.

I don't know if it makes any sense for me to end it over this, because I am not angry at him about anything. I still feel the same way toward him as I did when we use to be inseparable, but I get so lonely and sexually frustrated after days/weeks of not seeing him. I feel like I'm not able to look at this objectively because of how strong my feelings are on the subject so I would appreciate any advice you guys can give.
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My boyfriend and I don't see each other often anymore
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Until the beginning of this semester at university (middle of January) my boyfriend and I had what I considered a very healthy and fulfilling relationship.  Lately however, we have only been able to see each other once a week or less. And I have difficulty getting in touch with him more than every other day. 

We both have much more hectic schedules than we did last semester as I have more demanding classes and a career related job, and he has been overwhelmed with school, athletics, work and other obligations. 

That being said I am still making a big effort to make time for him, and I encourage him to come over and spend time with me even when I have other things I need to do or it is late and I need to get up early. I can't tell if he is not making the same effort, or if he really is so busy that it is actually impossible at times. I know that he is struggling to keep up with everything, and staying up nights to finish assignments while still not getting everything done that he needs to, but I can't help but feel starved for attention.

I have spoken to him about whether or not we should break up (even though I really didn't want to) and while he understands  why I'm upset and agrees that our current situation isn't fair to either of us, he told me it isn't what he wants, but that he would leave it up to me.

I don't know if it makes any sense for me to end it over this, because I am not angry at him about anything. I still feel the same way toward him as I did when we use to be inseparable, but I get so lonely and sexually frustrated after days/weeks of not seeing him. I feel like I'm not able to look at this objectively because of how strong my feelings are on the subject so I would appreciate any advice you guys can give.
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My boyfriend and I barely see each other anymore and
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