So, my GF and I have been together just on 8 months. I am her first boyfriend ever and she has never celebrated Valentines day in part to this.
I have never celebrated it anyway just because personally I don't believe it's anything, I really choose not to acknowledge it anyway.
The topic came up and she asked me what we were doing and I stated nothing because we had previously spoken about how we both felt it was an unnecessary day to really celebrate.
She got mad and demanded we do something and I kept asking why we had to and her only response was because she never got to before and because we NEEDED too. I said I don't want to blow a ton of money on a stupid day we both had already talked about not meaning anything. This got her even more mad and eventually after some yelling i comprised and said we would do something small.
A side note is for the last month and a half we have been fighting quite a lot and it seems like she's only been showing me affection when it really suited her. It's making me feel unhappy in the relationship and sort of at a crossroads with it all.

Now that was about a week and a half ago, over that time she has brought up the day and keeps showing me really pricey things on the Internet and such which I've told her is too much, again making her mad.
I'm really at a loss with what to do right now. Am I being unreasonable in this, should I make more of an effort?
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Had massive fight with gf over valentines
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So, my GF and I have been together just on 8 months. I am her first boyfriend ever and she has never celebrated Valentines day in part to this.
I have never celebrated it anyway just because personally I don't believe it's anything, I really choose not to acknowledge it anyway.
The topic came up and she asked me what we were doing and I stated nothing because we had previously spoken about how we both felt it was an unnecessary day to really celebrate.
She got mad and demanded we do something and I kept asking why we had to and her only response was because she never got to before and because we NEEDED too. I said I don't want to blow a ton of money on a stupid day we both had already talked about not meaning anything. This got her even more mad and eventually after some yelling i comprised and said we would do something small.
A side note is for the last month and a half we have been fighting quite a lot and it seems like she's only been showing me affection when it really suited her. It's making me feel unhappy in the relationship and sort of at a crossroads with it all.

Now that was about a week and a half ago, over that time she has brought up the day and keeps showing me really pricey things on the Internet and such which I've told her is too much, again making her mad.
I'm really at a loss with what to do right now. Am I being unreasonable in this, should I make more of an effort?
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Had a fight with GF over valentines
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