Boyfriend moved for college to New York. I'm supposed to take summer classes in the same area and planned to stay with him. We were in a limbo-esque scenario. He and I used to speak every day for the past nine months. It was difficult. We knew we didn't want to have a long distance relationship at such a young age, but we spoke about what it would be like when I was there.

Long story short, I cut off contact because I felt we both needed space. I wanted to wait for him, he didn't. It hurt me too much to know he wouldn't be committed to me when I could do it so easily. It became too much and I felt like I had to. I still cared about him immensely. This was a month ago. In another month I was planning to move out to stay with him for a bit.

I still have feelings for him. A lot of feelings. He says he really doesn't know how he feels about me. He wants to try when I get out there, but right now knows that it doesn't matter to even discuss it. He wants it to develop naturally.

I'm stuck. I don't know if I can find another place. Money is tight. Dorms aren't an option during the summer. I just feel screwed. This has been my plan for a while now, and now I don't know what to do. Please help.
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Boyfriend moved for college to New York. I'm supposed to take summer classes in the same area and planned to stay with him. We were in a limbo-esque scenario. He and I used to speak every day for the past nine months. It was difficult. We knew we didn't want to have a long distance relationship at such a young age, but we spoke about what it would be like when I was there.

Long story short, I cut off contact because I felt we both needed space. I wanted to wait for him, he didn't. It hurt me too much to know he wouldn't be committed to me when I could do it so easily. It became too much and I felt like I had to. I still cared about him immensely. This was a month ago. In another month I was planning to move out to stay with him for a bit.

I still have feelings for him. A lot of feelings. He says he really doesn't know how he feels about me. He wants to try when I get out there, but right now knows that it doesn't matter to even discuss it. He wants it to develop naturally.

I'm stuck. I don't know if I can find another place. Money is tight. Dorms aren't an option during the summer. I just feel screwed. This has been my plan for a while now, and now I don't know what to do. Please help.
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