I met my girlfriend at College and it started off great. Everything was fun, she was smart, cared about school, seemed dependent and confident, everything was well. More recently, she hasn't cared about anything. She doesn't care about school, she doesn't go to all her classes, all she wants to do is spend all her time with me. Most of the time, this isn't an issue. I love her and I love spending time with her, but it has started effecting every part of my life. Before I met her, I worked out daily, was part of many honors societies at school, and always had the intention of transferring to a better college 2 years in. I have stopped working out as regularly as I did and received a 2.33 GPA this semester. Im scared she is taking away all of my time and kind of forcing me to make her my top priority. When I tell her I need to study or just need alone time in general, she always takes it as a breach of intimacy and I no longer want to be with her rather than taking it as, "Oh, he just needs to study." Its this same reaction every time. I can't do this anymore. I need alone time and the thought of breaking up with her has come to mind. I have to make school my top priority at this point in my life and Im not ready to fall into this. I feel like this is the time of my life that I need to learn how to be an adult and I need to do it alone.
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Girlfriend doesn't care about school, its
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I met my girlfriend at College and it started off great. Everything was fun, she was smart, cared about school, seemed dependent and confident, everything was well. More recently, she hasn't cared about anything. She doesn't care about school, she doesn't go to all her classes, all she wants to do is spend all her time with me. Most of the time, this isn't an issue. I love her and I love spending time with her, but it has started effecting every part of my life. Before I met her, I worked out daily, was part of many honors societies at school, and always had the intention of transferring to a better college 2 years in. I have stopped working out as regularly as I did and received a 2.33 GPA this semester. Im scared she is taking away all of my time and kind of forcing me to make her my top priority. When I tell her I need to study or just need alone time in general, she always takes it as a breach of intimacy and I no longer want to be with her rather than taking it as, "Oh, he just needs to study." Its this same reaction every time. I can't do this anymore. I need alone time and the thought of breaking up with her has come to mind. I have to make school my top priority at this point in my life and Im not ready to fall into this. I feel like this is the time of my life that I need to learn how to be an adult and I need to do it alone.
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My girlfriend takes all my time
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