My relationship with my mother is something straight out of /r/raisedbynarcissists.

For the past 3 years my mother has been emotionally abusive, verbally abusive and generally awful to me. She's picked on me and singled me out in front of other family members, she's openly told my siblings that she doesn't like me, she's mocked my mental health problems, she just hasn't been a mother to me.

A week ago she went crazy at me for spilling coffee. She ridiculed me and called me stupid. She's done this many times before but this time I'd had enough and I defended myself. Our shouting match resulted in me telling her she gives me anxiety. She also is a cause of my depression and non-existent self esteem, but I didn't say that.

Now she wants to know why she gives me anxiety. She is completely unaccountable and if I tell her the truth she will absolutely explode on me and drag my entire family into the mix. This will not be a civilised, mature conversation.
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emotionally abusive mother gives me anxiety; need advice on how
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My relationship with my mother is something straight out of /r/raisedbynarcissists.

For the past 3 years my mother has been emotionally abusive, verbally abusive and generally awful to me. She's picked on me and singled me out in front of other family members, she's openly told my siblings that she doesn't like me, she's mocked my mental health problems, she just hasn't been a mother to me.

A week ago she went crazy at me for spilling coffee. She ridiculed me and called me stupid. She's done this many times before but this time I'd had enough and I defended myself. Our shouting match resulted in me telling her she gives me anxiety. She also is a cause of my depression and non-existent self esteem, but I didn't say that.

Now she wants to know why she gives me anxiety. She is completely unaccountable and if I tell her the truth she will absolutely explode on me and drag my entire family into the mix. This will not be a civilised, mature conversation.
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emotionally abusive mother gives me anxiety. I tell her and
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