Met this girl at university and against all my best judgements we began a relationship even though we live together. Started out great but began to learn that she has been through a lot with a close friend who took their life. This is as far as it goes and refuses to open up or let me close.

She has self harmed but has never told anyone before so I can't help but want to be there for her. 

Well now I am sat on my floor for what seems like a week because she says it's easier to not have anyone close and we shouldn't see each other. 

I've thought about it and If it's easier for her then that's all I want for her. But its killing me because now I can't face her and she's metres away with the rest of the flat like nothing is wrong and it really makes me angry. 

I started of being with her because I loved her company and how beautiful she is, but now I find myself getting angry at her and full of hate. She can't come to my face and tell me she doesn't care about us anymore and this makes it impossible to move on because if she is just doing this so she can avoid letting someone close even though she has feelings for me then I will find it impossible to forget about her

If anyone has any advice I could really use some right now. Thanks guys.
user
girl scared of feelings, boy being pushed away and doesn't know if he should give up on
assistant
Met this girl at university and against all my best judgements we began a relationship even though we live together. Started out great but began to learn that she has been through a lot with a close friend who took their life. This is as far as it goes and refuses to open up or let me close.

She has self harmed but has never told anyone before so I can't help but want to be there for her. 

Well now I am sat on my floor for what seems like a week because she says it's easier to not have anyone close and we shouldn't see each other. 

I've thought about it and If it's easier for her then that's all I want for her. But its killing me because now I can't face her and she's metres away with the rest of the flat like nothing is wrong and it really makes me angry. 

I started of being with her because I loved her company and how beautiful she is, but now I find myself getting angry at her and full of hate. She can't come to my face and tell me she doesn't care about us anymore and this makes it impossible to move on because if she is just doing this so she can avoid letting someone close even though she has feelings for me then I will find it impossible to forget about her

If anyone has any advice I could really use some right now. Thanks guys.
user
girlfriend is suicidal and refuses to let me close.
assistant