I'm 21 years old and have only had 2 long term relationships (1.5 years and currently 2 years) and one 2 week, nonsexual fling in between. My first boyfriend was a high school boyfriend who ended up being terrible to me, and compared to the young, manipulative and uniformed high school relationship, my current boyfriend seemed like a dream come true. He's sweet, loving, attentive and cuddly. He really cares about me, and makes me feel so loved - but the problem is, he's boring as all hell! 

He never has any energy, he never seems to want to go out on dates, and only wants to snuggle and eat food every time we get together. I'm in my junior year of college, have only had 2 real relationships and have seemingly limitless dating opportunities including one guy I've recently been getting very friendly with. I'm so on the fence between ending things or not. He's so sweet and caring and loving and hasn't really done anything wrong, but I wonder if I'm only attracted to the physical and emotional comfort he brings me as opposed to loving him as a person. 

Help me sort out my thoughts and maybe help me feel less guilty about all this?
user
New relationship with a perfect boyfriend, but he's boring. Help me decide if I should break up with him or not.
assistant
I'm 21 years old and have only had 2 long term relationships (1.5 years and currently 2 years) and one 2 week, nonsexual fling in between. My first boyfriend was a high school boyfriend who ended up being terrible to me, and compared to the young, manipulative and uniformed high school relationship, my current boyfriend seemed like a dream come true. He's sweet, loving, attentive and cuddly. He really cares about me, and makes me feel so loved - but the problem is, he's boring as all hell! 

He never has any energy, he never seems to want to go out on dates, and only wants to snuggle and eat food every time we get together. I'm in my junior year of college, have only had 2 real relationships and have seemingly limitless dating opportunities including one guy I've recently been getting very friendly with. I'm so on the fence between ending things or not. He's so sweet and caring and loving and hasn't really done anything wrong, but I wonder if I'm only attracted to the physical and emotional comfort he brings me as opposed to loving him as a person. 

Help me sort out my thoughts and maybe help me feel less guilty about all this?
user
Boyfriend is sweet and loving, but I'm unsure if he's actually capable of loving me like I love him or if I'm
assistant