Hi friends,

I've been dating this girl for the last 6 months.  Things are fantastic, she is a good-hearted, good-natured girl and I am an understanding, secure, and overall positive dude.  This weekend, she is going camping 1 on 1 with a long time male friend of hers.  Apparently, he had a crush on her a long time ago, but for the last 3-4 years she ignored it and they have been in the same group of close friends.  This girl has never given me a reason to be jealous, nor is she a flirt, and I have complete trust in her, but regardless I feel jealous.  I am not sure if this is some primal instincts or whether I should be having these feelings, but as for me I would never ask a female friend of mine, let alone one who has a bf, to go alone camping with me while I have a girlfriend.

Should I talk to her about it?  I don't want to seem insecure or possessive, but this thing is eating me away and destroying this so-far perfect relationship for me.  I do think she is being inconsiderate putting me in this situation.  What would be good ways to go about this?  In all reality, I don't care if she goes with him this weekend, but it is a brick in the small of my back because I would never put her in the same situation.

Would appreciate your thoughts.
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Girlfriend is going camping 1 on 1 with a male friend
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Hi friends,

I've been dating this girl for the last 6 months.  Things are fantastic, she is a good-hearted, good-natured girl and I am an understanding, secure, and overall positive dude.  This weekend, she is going camping 1 on 1 with a long time male friend of hers.  Apparently, he had a crush on her a long time ago, but for the last 3-4 years she ignored it and they have been in the same group of close friends.  This girl has never given me a reason to be jealous, nor is she a flirt, and I have complete trust in her, but regardless I feel jealous.  I am not sure if this is some primal instincts or whether I should be having these feelings, but as for me I would never ask a female friend of mine, let alone one who has a bf, to go alone camping with me while I have a girlfriend.

Should I talk to her about it?  I don't want to seem insecure or possessive, but this thing is eating me away and destroying this so-far perfect relationship for me.  I do think she is being inconsiderate putting me in this situation.  What would be good ways to go about this?  In all reality, I don't care if she goes with him this weekend, but it is a brick in the small of my back because I would never put her in the same situation.

Would appreciate your thoughts.
user
Girlfriend is going to camp with a male friend she has
assistant