I just recently moved back to school where I met my girlfriend where we both now live. We live 400 miles apart so I only saw her twice over summer. I just moved back in last week and was super excited to be in her presence again. I had visited 2 times since summer started which ended up being about once a month about exactly a month apart each time. Both of those times I came to visit went great and everything felt normal despite the time we spent apart. Now that I have moved back (moved back about 3 weeks after last visit), things are undeniably different. She seems happy on and off and even her texting is different than usual. Just really seems to feel different about me from the last time I saw her. She seems less interested in spending time with me, but it's odd because it seems things will be normal for part of a day and then go back to different again. The main thing that concerns me is her lack of sex drive since I moved back almost a week ago. In the past when I visited or had been away from her for any longer period of time she would always want to within the same day that I returned. Without fail. I have tried to since I've gotten back but she tells me she's not in the mood. When I discussed all of this with her, she made it clear that she cares about me and she agreed that something seemed different but wasn't sure what.

For now, I'll probably just give it some time but it is really uncomfortable especially starting a new semester of college with such uncertainty. All I want is for her to be happy whether that means breaking up with her or staying with her, but I don't feel that she is happy now.

Anyone been through this or have any suggestions? I'm trying my best to just act the same way I normally do.
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SO acting differently after moving back to school after seeing her 3 weeks prior. No sex drive and is happy on and
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I just recently moved back to school where I met my girlfriend where we both now live. We live 400 miles apart so I only saw her twice over summer. I just moved back in last week and was super excited to be in her presence again. I had visited 2 times since summer started which ended up being about once a month about exactly a month apart each time. Both of those times I came to visit went great and everything felt normal despite the time we spent apart. Now that I have moved back (moved back about 3 weeks after last visit), things are undeniably different. She seems happy on and off and even her texting is different than usual. Just really seems to feel different about me from the last time I saw her. She seems less interested in spending time with me, but it's odd because it seems things will be normal for part of a day and then go back to different again. The main thing that concerns me is her lack of sex drive since I moved back almost a week ago. In the past when I visited or had been away from her for any longer period of time she would always want to within the same day that I returned. Without fail. I have tried to since I've gotten back but she tells me she's not in the mood. When I discussed all of this with her, she made it clear that she cares about me and she agreed that something seemed different but wasn't sure what.

For now, I'll probably just give it some time but it is really uncomfortable especially starting a new semester of college with such uncertainty. All I want is for her to be happy whether that means breaking up with her or staying with her, but I don't feel that she is happy now.

Anyone been through this or have any suggestions? I'm trying my best to just act the same way I normally do.
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Moved back to school after 4 months apart, started out great, now her sex drive is gone and she seems unhappy.
assistant