Currently, I spend 5-6 nights a week at my boyfriend's condo.  We practically live together as it is, so I think I would like to move in with him in the near future.

My problem is, he owns his condo and I currently live rent-free with a family member.  I am done school at the end of December and will be able to work full time and afford to pay rent somewhere.  At this point, it doesn't make sense to get my own place and pay rent for an apartment that I'll probably only use 1-2 days a week.

BUT, he hasn't asked me to move in with him.  I don't know if I should wait for him to ask, or bring it up myself.  It is his condo, so I don't want to overstep or make him feel uncomfortable.

We have talked about getting a place together.  He wants to move into a townhouse with a yard for the dog, but can't really afford to do it himself.  He's said that eventually he thinks he wants us to buy one together.  I'm not ready to take out a mortgage with him or anything, I definitely want to make sure that we can live together and that the relationship will last.  I think it will, but I'd hate to own a house together and then realize that we don't like living together full time or something.

Is it appropriate for me to start that conversation, or no?
user
I want to move in with my boyfriend, but don't know if it's appropriate
assistant
Currently, I spend 5-6 nights a week at my boyfriend's condo.  We practically live together as it is, so I think I would like to move in with him in the near future.

My problem is, he owns his condo and I currently live rent-free with a family member.  I am done school at the end of December and will be able to work full time and afford to pay rent somewhere.  At this point, it doesn't make sense to get my own place and pay rent for an apartment that I'll probably only use 1-2 days a week.

BUT, he hasn't asked me to move in with him.  I don't know if I should wait for him to ask, or bring it up myself.  It is his condo, so I don't want to overstep or make him feel uncomfortable.

We have talked about getting a place together.  He wants to move into a townhouse with a yard for the dog, but can't really afford to do it himself.  He's said that eventually he thinks he wants us to buy one together.  I'm not ready to take out a mortgage with him or anything, I definitely want to make sure that we can live together and that the relationship will last.  I think it will, but I'd hate to own a house together and then realize that we don't like living together full time or something.

Is it appropriate for me to start that conversation, or no?
user
Would like to live with boyfriend in condo that he owns. Should I bring
assistant