My girlfriend and I broke up a week ago. I've been a wreck since then, trying to get her back. We were together for about 8 months, and we broke up because she started working a new job. She's been there about a month, work four to six 16 hour days per week. I've seen her twice in the last month. I confront her about maybe taking one less day, or try to make plans when she's not working. She turned it around and said I was trying to control her. 

Well, we were talking today, about what I can do to change and get her back. She said it would take a long time and there's no promise she'd get back with me. I then find out that she's been talking to, and has dated another guy (whom she works with), twice since we split. I'm having trouble believing all this happened in one week, ere go, she was cheating on me. I told her to have a nice life after she told me about him.

I've dated quite a few girls, but she was different. I honestly saw myself with her for a long time. A real long time. We have all the same interests, we were a perfect match. 

Does anyone have advice on how I can cope with all of this, and how I can get over it. What would you do to move on if you were in my shoes? Any advice is welcome, as I don't know what to do. Thank you in advance.
user
My girlfriend may have cheated,
assistant
My girlfriend and I broke up a week ago. I've been a wreck since then, trying to get her back. We were together for about 8 months, and we broke up because she started working a new job. She's been there about a month, work four to six 16 hour days per week. I've seen her twice in the last month. I confront her about maybe taking one less day, or try to make plans when she's not working. She turned it around and said I was trying to control her. 

Well, we were talking today, about what I can do to change and get her back. She said it would take a long time and there's no promise she'd get back with me. I then find out that she's been talking to, and has dated another guy (whom she works with), twice since we split. I'm having trouble believing all this happened in one week, ere go, she was cheating on me. I told her to have a nice life after she told me about him.

I've dated quite a few girls, but she was different. I honestly saw myself with her for a long time. A real long time. We have all the same interests, we were a perfect match. 

Does anyone have advice on how I can cope with all of this, and how I can get over it. What would you do to move on if you were in my shoes? Any advice is welcome, as I don't know what to do. Thank you in advance.
user
My ex cheated on me,
assistant