I am not sure how common this situation is but I am really lost.

So, this girl and I met online. We have really a lot in common and it felt natural to be with her from the early beginning. It is our first relationships, so neither of us have experience, however it was always easy and fun to discuss things that normally are considered awkward.

I am that "good type of guy" - always let her decide first, persuade nothing, always try to understand and discuss everything. It was not hard as she never lied, made a scandal etc. All the time I was enthusiastic and decisive about moves, dates, surprises and gifts. 

She was way more less enthusiastic. She would often slow me down, never gave any hints or was the first to initiate a hug/kiss (she never hugged me first). She explained that she can't move so fast, she needed a time. Although, she said that I am her type of person and she can't believe how well we are doing together. 

Yesterday I made a surprise visit to gift her some flowers and candies and she told me she is sorry that we can't stay together. She explained me she really likes me, but she does not share the same feelings as I do. She cried how she doesn't really want to let me go, but she is afraid the breakup will be much harder later. She agreed that it is stupid breaking up with such a good guy like me and she does realize how strong my feelings are, but she doesn't want to hurt me later. She said we can talk later if I need to think so I agreed.

That was a sleepless night. Never before I felt so bad and empty. Just imaging saying her goodbye makes me sick and I never though my feelings can be so strong. 

What I really want to know what is what is considered "good practice" in a such situations. I don't think I can prevent a breakup if she thinks it's better for us. What should we do? Is remaining a friends is an option? Waiting her to "get ready"? Kill and embalm her to stay together forever?
user
Girlfriend wants to break up with me because she cannot decide in her feelings. What should we do?
assistant
I am not sure how common this situation is but I am really lost.

So, this girl and I met online. We have really a lot in common and it felt natural to be with her from the early beginning. It is our first relationships, so neither of us have experience, however it was always easy and fun to discuss things that normally are considered awkward.

I am that "good type of guy" - always let her decide first, persuade nothing, always try to understand and discuss everything. It was not hard as she never lied, made a scandal etc. All the time I was enthusiastic and decisive about moves, dates, surprises and gifts. 

She was way more less enthusiastic. She would often slow me down, never gave any hints or was the first to initiate a hug/kiss (she never hugged me first). She explained that she can't move so fast, she needed a time. Although, she said that I am her type of person and she can't believe how well we are doing together. 

Yesterday I made a surprise visit to gift her some flowers and candies and she told me she is sorry that we can't stay together. She explained me she really likes me, but she does not share the same feelings as I do. She cried how she doesn't really want to let me go, but she is afraid the breakup will be much harder later. She agreed that it is stupid breaking up with such a good guy like me and she does realize how strong my feelings are, but she doesn't want to hurt me later. She said we can talk later if I need to think so I agreed.

That was a sleepless night. Never before I felt so bad and empty. Just imaging saying her goodbye makes me sick and I never though my feelings can be so strong. 

What I really want to know what is what is considered "good practice" in a such situations. I don't think I can prevent a breakup if she thinks it's better for us. What should we do? Is remaining a friends is an option? Waiting her to "get ready"? Kill and embalm her to stay together forever?
user
Girlfriend wants to breakup because she is unsure in her feelings for me and I am worried it will
assistant