This literally just happened a few minutes ago. I am an engineering student so I am often working late into the night. Well, tonight was no different. I originally told her I would be working until around midnight, but I was planning on leaving around 10 PM to surprise her. Anyway, around 9 PM she tells me shes going to the bars...now, I know my GF. Since she's turned 21 she's been to the bars once and she never enjoys drinking. I've begged her to drink quite a lot and she just isn't interested. 

So, anyway, since she thought I'd be done late she said we would be done around the same time. Well, surprise! I'm done early...I tell her I can come in with her and just be the DD (she has ignored my question of who she was going with). She repeatedly tells me no, it's okay, and that I could pick her up later. I am so confused!!! I figured it would be great. I'm done early, I come in, hang out, take her home. Well, what I am potentially worried about are two things:

1. Her male best friend told her 3 months ago he was in love with her. It really put a dent into our relationship and she almost left me and talked to him quite a bit. She's since ignored him, except for maybe one day they texted back and forth. A female friend of hers turned 21 tonight, and they could have gone out together.... OR

2. She has met a male friend in a class of hers who is definitely into her, and she has admitted it. He asked her out to coffee, which she accepted on the premise that he understood that she had a boyfriend and it was just as friends. He cancelled on her earlier...but maybe he asked her to the bars later? Idk. 

What is going on???
user
GF never likes to drink. Went to the bars tonight. I was free, offered to be the DD, she tells me not to come. She has ignored my questions as
assistant
This literally just happened a few minutes ago. I am an engineering student so I am often working late into the night. Well, tonight was no different. I originally told her I would be working until around midnight, but I was planning on leaving around 10 PM to surprise her. Anyway, around 9 PM she tells me shes going to the bars...now, I know my GF. Since she's turned 21 she's been to the bars once and she never enjoys drinking. I've begged her to drink quite a lot and she just isn't interested. 

So, anyway, since she thought I'd be done late she said we would be done around the same time. Well, surprise! I'm done early...I tell her I can come in with her and just be the DD (she has ignored my question of who she was going with). She repeatedly tells me no, it's okay, and that I could pick her up later. I am so confused!!! I figured it would be great. I'm done early, I come in, hang out, take her home. Well, what I am potentially worried about are two things:

1. Her male best friend told her 3 months ago he was in love with her. It really put a dent into our relationship and she almost left me and talked to him quite a bit. She's since ignored him, except for maybe one day they texted back and forth. A female friend of hers turned 21 tonight, and they could have gone out together.... OR

2. She has met a male friend in a class of hers who is definitely into her, and she has admitted it. He asked her out to coffee, which she accepted on the premise that he understood that she had a boyfriend and it was just as friends. He cancelled on her earlier...but maybe he asked her to the bars later? Idk. 

What is going on???
user
GF told me it was okay to hang out with her male best friend, who she had met soon after we met, and who always had a crush on her,
assistant