I have a smaller group of friends than she does and I tend to have a couple of regular handouts with them every week. Mondays I go out with a group (usually two couples) to a bar and do trivia. Friday nights are usually spent at a friend’s (a different couple) playing board games. In our 2.5 years of dating, she's come to trivia twice and hung out with my ‘game friends’ maybe six times. 

In the past six months or so I've stopped inviting her to trivia, after two years I finally get the clue (my final invite included a standing invitation). Recently when a friend of hers brought up trivia she says that she doesn't dislike it, just doesn't want to go every week. 

The fact that she doesn't like playing board games at all (I really enjoy them) and the introverted nature of my game friends keep her away from the Friday night events. 

We've talked about her trying harder, but I don't feel like I should have to nag her in order for me to make an appearance (not to mention that if she doesn't want to be there in the first place, I will sense it and I'll be uncomfortable). 

Although I am much more introverted than she is, I feel that I participate with her friends far more than she participates with mine. I have only been in a couple of long-term relationships (and this is her most serious one by far), so I might be missing something. I know it is important for people in a relationship to have their own hobbies, friends and alone time, but something keeps nagging at me that this isn't quite right. Am I off base?
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My girlfriend doesn't like board games,
assistant
I have a smaller group of friends than she does and I tend to have a couple of regular handouts with them every week. Mondays I go out with a group (usually two couples) to a bar and do trivia. Friday nights are usually spent at a friend’s (a different couple) playing board games. In our 2.5 years of dating, she's come to trivia twice and hung out with my ‘game friends’ maybe six times. 

In the past six months or so I've stopped inviting her to trivia, after two years I finally get the clue (my final invite included a standing invitation). Recently when a friend of hers brought up trivia she says that she doesn't dislike it, just doesn't want to go every week. 

The fact that she doesn't like playing board games at all (I really enjoy them) and the introverted nature of my game friends keep her away from the Friday night events. 

We've talked about her trying harder, but I don't feel like I should have to nag her in order for me to make an appearance (not to mention that if she doesn't want to be there in the first place, I will sense it and I'll be uncomfortable). 

Although I am much more introverted than she is, I feel that I participate with her friends far more than she participates with mine. I have only been in a couple of long-term relationships (and this is her most serious one by far), so I might be missing something. I know it is important for people in a relationship to have their own hobbies, friends and alone time, but something keeps nagging at me that this isn't quite right. Am I off base?
user
Is it too much for a
assistant