I really don't want anything to do with my mom's side of the family anymore.

My mom was (is?) suffering from mental health issues and substance abuse problems last summer, and didn't have many friends. She is divorced and my brother lives a city away. She's currently in jail, and has been since October when it all ended.
 
I was listed as the emergency contact for her, which meant during a 4-month long hell I was constantly on the phone with therapists, doctors, lawyers and the police. It was really hard to do, on top of two jobs. It really put me in a dark place in my life where I relapsed into debilitating anxiety.

My mom's family could have stepped up to the place but my grandmother literally skipped town, moved down to my mom's family's house hours away. No one helped me. Their family sucks.

I don't speak to them anymore but just got an invite to their bridal shower. I attended their wedding. Should I ignore it, send them something or what? If I go, it means my mom's whole family will be there and I fucking hate those people for what they did, or lack thereof.
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Shitty family on my
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I really don't want anything to do with my mom's side of the family anymore.

My mom was (is?) suffering from mental health issues and substance abuse problems last summer, and didn't have many friends. She is divorced and my brother lives a city away. She's currently in jail, and has been since October when it all ended.
 
I was listed as the emergency contact for her, which meant during a 4-month long hell I was constantly on the phone with therapists, doctors, lawyers and the police. It was really hard to do, on top of two jobs. It really put me in a dark place in my life where I relapsed into debilitating anxiety.

My mom's family could have stepped up to the place but my grandmother literally skipped town, moved down to my mom's family's house hours away. No one helped me. Their family sucks.

I don't speak to them anymore but just got an invite to their bridal shower. I attended their wedding. Should I ignore it, send them something or what? If I go, it means my mom's whole family will be there and I fucking hate those people for what they did, or lack thereof.
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Mom was a mess
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