EDIT: She just woke back up and texted me back, and everything is good, but I think you guys are right in that she'll probably have these insecurities for awhile :/. She's actually lost quite a bit of weight since before we met, and I'll definitely support her if she wants to continue that, but I'll love her regardless. Thanks guys!

This is a petty issue really, but I just need someone to talk about it to. My new girlfriend and I (only been dating about a month) were texting each other tonight, having fun, etc. until she made a back-handed joke about being "fat" and I just said "you stop talking silly!" and she said she wasn't being funny.

She is "plus sized" I guess, I'd say only a size 14, and I'm a skinny guy, but it does not bother me at all and I think she's absolutely beautiful. I texted her this, and she said I haven't even seen it yet (her body) which is true but I said it didn't matter.

Well last week we were talking about our turn ons and stuff, and one of mine was 50s/retro style lingerie, and I sent her a picture as an example of what I liked, and yea the girl was thin but I didn't think anything about it, but I after I said it didn't matter she texted me, "I don't look like that girl in that lingerie picture you sent me." and that's the last thing I got from her. I'm pretty sure she fell asleep because she does that but I know she went to sleep upset :/

How do I let my girlfriend know that I love her and that I'm attracted to her? I don't care at all about her weight and I want her to know I only sent her that picture because I wanted to see HER in that lingerie. What should I do/say to her?
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Girlfriend insecure about her weight; I want her to know I love her and I'm attracted to her regardless
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EDIT: She just woke back up and texted me back, and everything is good, but I think you guys are right in that she'll probably have these insecurities for awhile :/. She's actually lost quite a bit of weight since before we met, and I'll definitely support her if she wants to continue that, but I'll love her regardless. Thanks guys!

This is a petty issue really, but I just need someone to talk about it to. My new girlfriend and I (only been dating about a month) were texting each other tonight, having fun, etc. until she made a back-handed joke about being "fat" and I just said "you stop talking silly!" and she said she wasn't being funny.

She is "plus sized" I guess, I'd say only a size 14, and I'm a skinny guy, but it does not bother me at all and I think she's absolutely beautiful. I texted her this, and she said I haven't even seen it yet (her body) which is true but I said it didn't matter.

Well last week we were talking about our turn ons and stuff, and one of mine was 50s/retro style lingerie, and I sent her a picture as an example of what I liked, and yea the girl was thin but I didn't think anything about it, but I after I said it didn't matter she texted me, "I don't look like that girl in that lingerie picture you sent me." and that's the last thing I got from her. I'm pretty sure she fell asleep because she does that but I know she went to sleep upset :/

How do I let my girlfriend know that I love her and that I'm attracted to her? I don't care at all about her weight and I want her to know I only sent her that picture because I wanted to see HER in that lingerie. What should I do/say to her?
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Girlfriend texted me a picture of herself in lingerie, I didn't think anything of it, she got upset and texted me back, she said she didn't do it, how do I
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