My SO and I go to the same university and it's where we met. Before at the start of the relationship I would always be over at his place and we would always be together but that was over a year ago. Now I'm lucky if I even get to see him once a week. This week I wasn't. I really care for him and I wish we can spend more time together but he has more important things to do and I just don't fit into his life anymore. It makes me sad but I feel like this relationship is going nowhere. I don't think I'm strong enough to keep going, I just want to end it now but what if I'm giving up too easily?

He doesn't include me in anything he does anymore. I even asked before if I can join him in the next project he's doing. He agreed to it but it's been a couple projects past now and that never happened. I do invite him to my events but he rarely comes and only if it's a movie. As soon as the movie is over I drive him back home because he can't spend anymore time to grab a bite after.

I don't even feel like I'm his friend anymore. When we are together he would be texting his friends a bunch and we hardly ever text each other.

I don't get it. This relationship feels fake. It's my last year here at school but I find I'm too obsessed with thinking about him and I don't want to lose focus. We never even celebrated our anniversary or valentines day. I was upset about the Valentines day one since I tried to plan something with him but he overworked himself the night before and slept through the day. When I tried to reschedule it he didn't didn't think it was that big of a deal and nothing came of it. There are many instances similar to this where I felt that I'm not as important to him as other things in his life. I know school is important and I wouldn't want to distract him from that but he could make some time or show in some way that he cares.
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Relationship with SO is going nowhere and I'm not sure
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My SO and I go to the same university and it's where we met. Before at the start of the relationship I would always be over at his place and we would always be together but that was over a year ago. Now I'm lucky if I even get to see him once a week. This week I wasn't. I really care for him and I wish we can spend more time together but he has more important things to do and I just don't fit into his life anymore. It makes me sad but I feel like this relationship is going nowhere. I don't think I'm strong enough to keep going, I just want to end it now but what if I'm giving up too easily?

He doesn't include me in anything he does anymore. I even asked before if I can join him in the next project he's doing. He agreed to it but it's been a couple projects past now and that never happened. I do invite him to my events but he rarely comes and only if it's a movie. As soon as the movie is over I drive him back home because he can't spend anymore time to grab a bite after.

I don't even feel like I'm his friend anymore. When we are together he would be texting his friends a bunch and we hardly ever text each other.

I don't get it. This relationship feels fake. It's my last year here at school but I find I'm too obsessed with thinking about him and I don't want to lose focus. We never even celebrated our anniversary or valentines day. I was upset about the Valentines day one since I tried to plan something with him but he overworked himself the night before and slept through the day. When I tried to reschedule it he didn't didn't think it was that big of a deal and nothing came of it. There are many instances similar to this where I felt that I'm not as important to him as other things in his life. I know school is important and I wouldn't want to distract him from that but he could make some time or show in some way that he cares.
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My SO doesn't include me in anything anymore and I
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