So I moved into a flat about 2 months ago, my first time not living at home or in student accommodation. It's a Victorian house divided into flats, me and my flatmate in the middle, a family upstairs. We barely see the neighbours - they keep themselves to themselves and don't really seem to speak English - but occasionally we hear shouting and screaming coming from upstairs. One time my flatmate bumped into the man upstairs in the hallway after one of these shouting sessions, he seemed uneasy and made some shaky story to explain. Then earlier things got even worse.

I heard shouting, it got even more intense and was soon accompanied by loud banging on the outside windows. This wasn't a petulant toddler, this sounded like an adult woman screaming. It wasn't in English, but seemed pretty scared. The only explanation I can think of is that the guy was being abusive. And I just don't know what to do.

I feel that if I leave it, I'm turning a blind eye to a potential awful situation, which could end in something ugly. Due to the language barrier I can't really make innocent inquiries, and I just feel that phoning the authorities will be a big waste of time - it'll get NFA'd and nothing will come of it. Also, we all share a landlord, and the people upstairs are quite close to them, if we stirred up bad blood they are more likely to side with them than us. What to do, Reddit?
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my flatmate heard shouting, banging on windows, and screaming in the hallway,
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So I moved into a flat about 2 months ago, my first time not living at home or in student accommodation. It's a Victorian house divided into flats, me and my flatmate in the middle, a family upstairs. We barely see the neighbours - they keep themselves to themselves and don't really seem to speak English - but occasionally we hear shouting and screaming coming from upstairs. One time my flatmate bumped into the man upstairs in the hallway after one of these shouting sessions, he seemed uneasy and made some shaky story to explain. Then earlier things got even worse.

I heard shouting, it got even more intense and was soon accompanied by loud banging on the outside windows. This wasn't a petulant toddler, this sounded like an adult woman screaming. It wasn't in English, but seemed pretty scared. The only explanation I can think of is that the guy was being abusive. And I just don't know what to do.

I feel that if I leave it, I'm turning a blind eye to a potential awful situation, which could end in something ugly. Due to the language barrier I can't really make innocent inquiries, and I just feel that phoning the authorities will be a big waste of time - it'll get NFA'd and nothing will come of it. Also, we all share a landlord, and the people upstairs are quite close to them, if we stirred up bad blood they are more likely to side with them than us. What to do, Reddit?
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What can/should I do about a potentially abusive woman in the flat
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