I (33m) was with this woman (36f)for almost 7 years.  My nephews (12m, 16m 17m) grew up with her and we did many things together...we broke up about 3 years ago. I've had two relationships since. Now I'm getting engaged and hopefully married to a wonderful woman(33f) and I just found out my ex and my family went camping this weekend. Sister (34F)and nephews.

They never stopped talking to her even though I asked them to. Now, its true that they don't really know my current SO because we're both very busy.  But should it not be assumed that when you break up, the family breaks up too? They have no business dealings, there is no reason for it...I know it's hard to let go but I did it, they should too

My SO doesn't know this and I can only assume that she'll be crushed when I tell her...help me to get them to understand why it's important to me that they stop this. They think they're doing no harm in keeping a relationship with her.
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My family is still talking to my ex, who is my nephews' mom and I'm engaged. I don't
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I (33m) was with this woman (36f)for almost 7 years.  My nephews (12m, 16m 17m) grew up with her and we did many things together...we broke up about 3 years ago. I've had two relationships since. Now I'm getting engaged and hopefully married to a wonderful woman(33f) and I just found out my ex and my family went camping this weekend. Sister (34F)and nephews.

They never stopped talking to her even though I asked them to. Now, its true that they don't really know my current SO because we're both very busy.  But should it not be assumed that when you break up, the family breaks up too? They have no business dealings, there is no reason for it...I know it's hard to let go but I did it, they should too

My SO doesn't know this and I can only assume that she'll be crushed when I tell her...help me to get them to understand why it's important to me that they stop this. They think they're doing no harm in keeping a relationship with her.
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My ex and family are still talking to my ex even though I asked them to stop. They
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