I'm female, 20 he's male 20. Basically we both got broken up with latley, his relationship very lengthy though; 4 years.

I have always harboured a crush on [Tom] since i've known him. Not sure how he feels about me.

I was just wondering if you think this kind of situation would be disasterous.

* Friends who have sex

* But also cuddle and send cute text messages.

* Spend nights at each others house occasionally.

* Not a relationship, free to do what you want.

So basically, the comfort of a partner and the sex, but with out any commitment right after a huge break up.
Is this possible? Especially if i DO have a crush on him? Who knows, perhaps after a while of this and long after the break up turmoil is gone we could have a real relationship?

p.s I dont think i would be hurt if during our situation he did have sex with others. Just a note.
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Break up, long friendship but sex. Would you do this?
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I'm female, 20 he's male 20. Basically we both got broken up with latley, his relationship very lengthy though; 4 years.

I have always harboured a crush on [Tom] since i've known him. Not sure how he feels about me.

I was just wondering if you think this kind of situation would be disasterous.

* Friends who have sex

* But also cuddle and send cute text messages.

* Spend nights at each others house occasionally.

* Not a relationship, free to do what you want.

So basically, the comfort of a partner and the sex, but with out any commitment right after a huge break up.
Is this possible? Especially if i DO have a crush on him? Who knows, perhaps after a while of this and long after the break up turmoil is gone we could have a real relationship?

p.s I dont think i would be hurt if during our situation he did have sex with others. Just a note.
user
Been broken up with a long term boyfriend, had a crush on him, doesnt seem to
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