I met my girlfriend Thea through online dating and we hit it off almost instantly. Things are getting serious, but as we’ve started to have sex I’ve realized that her living with her parents is really annoying. We only ever go back to my apartment for anything intimate, which seems a little unfair, and feels like the burden of entertaining for us is always on me.

But when we do go over to Thea’s house it’s really uncomfortable. She gets really stressed out whenever I try to fool around with her in her room, even though I have no intention to go all the way there. We also have to be *very* quiet, and barely speak above a whisper since her mom works nights. Thea basically acts like an overnight guest in her own house, though when she’s at my house she’s a little more relaxed.

I asked Thea when she plans to move out of her parent’s house but she says she has no plans to until she finishes grad school, which I guess I can understand but that’s more than a year away. What should I do?
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Girlfriend still lives with parents, and I hate
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I met my girlfriend Thea through online dating and we hit it off almost instantly. Things are getting serious, but as we’ve started to have sex I’ve realized that her living with her parents is really annoying. We only ever go back to my apartment for anything intimate, which seems a little unfair, and feels like the burden of entertaining for us is always on me.

But when we do go over to Thea’s house it’s really uncomfortable. She gets really stressed out whenever I try to fool around with her in her room, even though I have no intention to go all the way there. We also have to be *very* quiet, and barely speak above a whisper since her mom works nights. Thea basically acts like an overnight guest in her own house, though when she’s at my house she’s a little more relaxed.

I asked Thea when she plans to move out of her parent’s house but she says she has no plans to until she finishes grad school, which I guess I can understand but that’s more than a year away. What should I do?
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