My SO of 1 year has a girl in France who he talks to typically 7 hours a day. He was talking to her before we met and only after I kept asking who she was did he tell me about her and that he loved her as much as he loved me. 

He told me he had told her they were strickly friends but has still been messaging her every day refusing to stop talking to her even for a day, it's only been a week but he has told me there is no longer feelings between them but that they are really close friends and that she needs him. 

I don't know whether im overreacting or whether there is something to be worrdied about. Shes in France so not much can happen but I still feel like the rrelationship is unhealthy and hurting ours
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My SO is talking to a
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My SO of 1 year has a girl in France who he talks to typically 7 hours a day. He was talking to her before we met and only after I kept asking who she was did he tell me about her and that he loved her as much as he loved me. 

He told me he had told her they were strickly friends but has still been messaging her every day refusing to stop talking to her even for a day, it's only been a week but he has told me there is no longer feelings between them but that they are really close friends and that she needs him. 

I don't know whether im overreacting or whether there is something to be worrdied about. Shes in France so not much can happen but I still feel like the rrelationship is unhealthy and hurting ours
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SO and online friend have a
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