I've known him since I was 12, and I fell in love with him when we first talked. He was different, interesting, mysterious. We started dating when I started high school. I loved him a lot. He was my first real love, my first at everything. I used to get butterflies when he called me, messaged me, when I saw him. 

You know that feeling when you look at someone and you think "God I love him SO much!" and you hug them really tight? 

I don't feel that lately. I don't get the butterflies. And he is a good boyfriend. He didn't do anything wrong, we didn't fight, he loves me very much, and I know that. 

Also I want to mention that I haven't been able to have sex with him because I don't feel the need to. I just don't have the urge to have sex. I started thinking that maybe because I don't love him anymore I don't want to have sex, or maybe because we haven't had sex I don't love him anymore? I even thought that I'm asexual. 
My head is a mess. 
Sometimes I think that maybe because we've been together for so long it has become boring and that's why I feel like I don't love him as much as I did before. 

I told him about this, and we decided that we should try something new, exciting and to see if we can make it work. I am really afraid that I've fallen out of love. 

I guess I'm writing this to see if anyone had a similar situation, and what did you do about it? 
What would you do about it if you were in this situation?

I know this might seem a little bit scattered but, so are my thoughts right now. And I'm sorry for that. 

Please, if you have any suggestions tell me. 
I don't want to break up! I want to make it work, I'm not a quitter, and I care for him so much. I never want to leave him, and the thought of that makes me want to pour my eyes out. 
Thank you.
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I fell out of love with my boyfriend of 3 years. I
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I've known him since I was 12, and I fell in love with him when we first talked. He was different, interesting, mysterious. We started dating when I started high school. I loved him a lot. He was my first real love, my first at everything. I used to get butterflies when he called me, messaged me, when I saw him. 

You know that feeling when you look at someone and you think "God I love him SO much!" and you hug them really tight? 

I don't feel that lately. I don't get the butterflies. And he is a good boyfriend. He didn't do anything wrong, we didn't fight, he loves me very much, and I know that. 

Also I want to mention that I haven't been able to have sex with him because I don't feel the need to. I just don't have the urge to have sex. I started thinking that maybe because I don't love him anymore I don't want to have sex, or maybe because we haven't had sex I don't love him anymore? I even thought that I'm asexual. 
My head is a mess. 
Sometimes I think that maybe because we've been together for so long it has become boring and that's why I feel like I don't love him as much as I did before. 

I told him about this, and we decided that we should try something new, exciting and to see if we can make it work. I am really afraid that I've fallen out of love. 

I guess I'm writing this to see if anyone had a similar situation, and what did you do about it? 
What would you do about it if you were in this situation?

I know this might seem a little bit scattered but, so are my thoughts right now. And I'm sorry for that. 

Please, if you have any suggestions tell me. 
I don't want to break up! I want to make it work, I'm not a quitter, and I care for him so much. I never want to leave him, and the thought of that makes me want to pour my eyes out. 
Thank you.
user
The butterflies are gone, I don't know if I still love him,
assistant