I’ve been with my girlfriend, whom we’ll call Jenny, for 2 years. She is a perfectly normal size at 5’3 and 145 lbs, and has stayed that size throughout our relationship. She’s mentioned feeling a bit insecure about her body in the past, but I wasn’t concerned about it because it seems like most women feel the same way (unfortunately). However, in the past few weeks I’ve noticed some concerning behaviour from her.

 
I usually cook breakfast for Jenny in the morning because I wake up early. A week or two ago I made her her regular breakfast of bacon, eggs and toast, and she turned it down, saying she didn’t feel like eating the same thing again (She usually eats the same meal every morning.). She made herself a small salad with no meat or dressing. I didn’t think much of this. However she has continued to eat a similarly small breakfast every day. She’s also eating smaller portions for lunch and dinner, for example last night she filled up her plate with vegetables but took only a small amount of mashed potatoes + one chicken wing for dinner. She has also stopped eating snacks at all, and she now drinks regular coffee instead of fancy lattes and such.
 

 I casually commented on her eating habits yesterday and asked why she was making such a drastic change. She just said that she was “trying to be more healthy”. I can appreciate this, but her food habits seem less like eating healthy and more like starving herself. However, I’m unsure about this because she hasn’t displayed any signs of body issues before this. I also don’t know how to voice my concerns to her without sounding insulting. Do you guys have any ideas? I’m very concerned about her.
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I’ve been with my girlfriend, whom we’ll call Jenny, for 2 years. She is a perfectly normal size at 5’3 and 145 lbs, and has stayed that size throughout our relationship. She’s mentioned feeling a bit insecure about her body in the past, but I wasn’t concerned about it because it seems like most women feel the same way (unfortunately). However, in the past few weeks I’ve noticed some concerning behaviour from her.

 
I usually cook breakfast for Jenny in the morning because I wake up early. A week or two ago I made her her regular breakfast of bacon, eggs and toast, and she turned it down, saying she didn’t feel like eating the same thing again (She usually eats the same meal every morning.). She made herself a small salad with no meat or dressing. I didn’t think much of this. However she has continued to eat a similarly small breakfast every day. She’s also eating smaller portions for lunch and dinner, for example last night she filled up her plate with vegetables but took only a small amount of mashed potatoes + one chicken wing for dinner. She has also stopped eating snacks at all, and she now drinks regular coffee instead of fancy lattes and such.
 

 I casually commented on her eating habits yesterday and asked why she was making such a drastic change. She just said that she was “trying to be more healthy”. I can appreciate this, but her food habits seem less like eating healthy and more like starving herself. However, I’m unsure about this because she hasn’t displayed any signs of body issues before this. I also don’t know how to voice my concerns to her without sounding insulting. Do you guys have any ideas? I’m very concerned about her.
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