Edit: x-post in /r/sex

To start off, we have an extremely happy dating life. We NEVER quarrel, because we can always come to a compromise, or agree to disagree and put disagreements behind us. Unlike other girls, she rarely brings us past disagreements in our conversation.

We live in an Asian society where conversations about sex is taboo. At many times, girls are made to feel like sluts and guys are made to feel like perverts whenever we talk about it. To many redditors this may sound crazy, but we were raised with this idea. Different, but not necessarily bad.

My girlfriend wants to wait till marriage and I am perfectly fine with it. I'm not worried about sex before marriage. What I'm worried about is after it. We must talk about it somehow.

I regularly workout to maintain a good looking physique, but she rarely complimented me on how *hot* I am. This may sound greedy on my part for desiring it. However, the lack of sexual intimacy, the willingness to wait till marriage, and the lack of attention to my body makes me feel like she has an extremely low sex drive.

I want to start a conversation about sex with her, tell her what I feel and what I like, and how we could enjoy each other on a more intimate level. However, I don't want to come off as a pervert or have her repulsed since we might end up having a dodgy or limited conversation. I really hope that she truly wants to experience deeper level of physical intimacy with me, just that she may not be comfortable to talk it. But she may not have that sex drive, and I won't know till I ask.

Reddit, given my current limitations, how do I communicate this desire without sounding like a pervert, or making the conversation very awkward?
user
low sexual intimacy
assistant
Edit: x-post in /r/sex

To start off, we have an extremely happy dating life. We NEVER quarrel, because we can always come to a compromise, or agree to disagree and put disagreements behind us. Unlike other girls, she rarely brings us past disagreements in our conversation.

We live in an Asian society where conversations about sex is taboo. At many times, girls are made to feel like sluts and guys are made to feel like perverts whenever we talk about it. To many redditors this may sound crazy, but we were raised with this idea. Different, but not necessarily bad.

My girlfriend wants to wait till marriage and I am perfectly fine with it. I'm not worried about sex before marriage. What I'm worried about is after it. We must talk about it somehow.

I regularly workout to maintain a good looking physique, but she rarely complimented me on how *hot* I am. This may sound greedy on my part for desiring it. However, the lack of sexual intimacy, the willingness to wait till marriage, and the lack of attention to my body makes me feel like she has an extremely low sex drive.

I want to start a conversation about sex with her, tell her what I feel and what I like, and how we could enjoy each other on a more intimate level. However, I don't want to come off as a pervert or have her repulsed since we might end up having a dodgy or limited conversation. I really hope that she truly wants to experience deeper level of physical intimacy with me, just that she may not be comfortable to talk it. But she may not have that sex drive, and I won't know till I ask.

Reddit, given my current limitations, how do I communicate this desire without sounding like a pervert, or making the conversation very awkward?
user
Girl doesn't give
assistant