We have been married for last 7 years. For last few years we have been fighting regularly.
I am not a native speaker of English so please bear with me.

My wife is not satisfied with current things.  We both are working people. I am 35 and she is 32. we have separate accounts. She does not reveal her banking transactions to me. I want to have a control on money for our better future. So sometimes I want information on how the money was spent etc. She is annoyed with this.

She keeps on demanding like we buy new things. I feel she is too materialistic.
She is also not wise with money. She spends some of her money on expensive things like shoes etc. So I try to control the spendings.
Usually she tells me she wants some new thing. My reaction is always not positive. This creates conflicts.
She says I am too tight fisted.

Also I feel she is not living up to my expectations in bed. She is not receptive when I try to initiate sex. So she tries to control by not giving sex. I pretend I dont care on this but I am worried. We are in a conservative society so we cannot separate. Also we have a 4 yr old daughter. I hear stories of people loving their spouses till death. I would like our relationship to be happy and full of love for both of us.
user
wife is materialistic. I try to control spending and its creating issues. Also she is not giving sex etc. She is also not responsive
assistant
We have been married for last 7 years. For last few years we have been fighting regularly.
I am not a native speaker of English so please bear with me.

My wife is not satisfied with current things.  We both are working people. I am 35 and she is 32. we have separate accounts. She does not reveal her banking transactions to me. I want to have a control on money for our better future. So sometimes I want information on how the money was spent etc. She is annoyed with this.

She keeps on demanding like we buy new things. I feel she is too materialistic.
She is also not wise with money. She spends some of her money on expensive things like shoes etc. So I try to control the spendings.
Usually she tells me she wants some new thing. My reaction is always not positive. This creates conflicts.
She says I am too tight fisted.

Also I feel she is not living up to my expectations in bed. She is not receptive when I try to initiate sex. So she tries to control by not giving sex. I pretend I dont care on this but I am worried. We are in a conservative society so we cannot separate. Also we have a 4 yr old daughter. I hear stories of people loving their spouses till death. I would like our relationship to be happy and full of love for both of us.
user
We are having frequent quarrels over spending money. perhaps we are not communicating the right way. and it is affecting relationship. I need some
assistant