Hi Reddit,
I have been wanting to end things with my current GF due to a number of reasons, but mostly because of our differing rural/urban lifestyle aspirations (She wants to move after lease is up, I want to stay. See previous post: 

However, tickets to an out-of-state wedding next month have already been bought and booked (by her). I would be her +1, and it would also be my meeting her friends and most of her family for the first time. 

So, maybe this is a stupid, selfish question, but, would it be better to break it off now, or wait until after the trip? I feel like it would be more of an asshole move to do it before, but I also don't want to get her hopes up by going on the trip/meeting her family.

I care about her a lot, and don't wish to hurt her any more than I have to, but things just aren't working out. Any suggestions?
user
planning to end things with current GF due to rural lifestyle differences, would it be better to wait until after going to her friend's out-of-state wedding
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Hi Reddit,
I have been wanting to end things with my current GF due to a number of reasons, but mostly because of our differing rural/urban lifestyle aspirations (She wants to move after lease is up, I want to stay. See previous post: 

However, tickets to an out-of-state wedding next month have already been bought and booked (by her). I would be her +1, and it would also be my meeting her friends and most of her family for the first time. 

So, maybe this is a stupid, selfish question, but, would it be better to break it off now, or wait until after the trip? I feel like it would be more of an asshole move to do it before, but I also don't want to get her hopes up by going on the trip/meeting her family.

I care about her a lot, and don't wish to hurt her any more than I have to, but things just aren't working out. Any suggestions?
user
planning to break up with current gf due rural/urban differences, but want to do it after going to her friend's out-of-state wedding w/ her, should I
assistant