Just starting to talk about wedding plans with the family and the subject of the rehearsal dinner came up. FMIL was talking about doing a small and very fancy dinner, like 100/per person and only invite 30 ish people. I have a VERY large family, 30 people probably wouldn't be able to include all of my immediate family and wedding party. FMIL insists that you don't need to invite all immediate family but that's a whole different issue.

FH and I had been talking about doing a very casual thing that everyone was invited to. My friend did that at her wedding, they got fast casual catering in a park and played lawn games. I liked the idea because there will probably be about 150 people in town for the wedding, all of whom I will want to hang out with. There just wont be enough time to see and talk to everyone very much at the reception so I like the idea of having multiple events throughout the weekend that anyone/everyone can go to. When I expressed this to FMIL and my sister they both said it would be super tacky to do as the rehearsal dinner. 

So random people in the internet, what do you think? Tacky?
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Just starting to talk about wedding plans with the family and the subject of the rehearsal dinner came up. FMIL was talking about doing a small and very fancy dinner, like 100/per person and only invite 30 ish people. I have a VERY large family, 30 people probably wouldn't be able to include all of my immediate family and wedding party. FMIL insists that you don't need to invite all immediate family but that's a whole different issue.

FH and I had been talking about doing a very casual thing that everyone was invited to. My friend did that at her wedding, they got fast casual catering in a park and played lawn games. I liked the idea because there will probably be about 150 people in town for the wedding, all of whom I will want to hang out with. There just wont be enough time to see and talk to everyone very much at the reception so I like the idea of having multiple events throughout the weekend that anyone/everyone can go to. When I expressed this to FMIL and my sister they both said it would be super tacky to do as the rehearsal dinner. 

So random people in the internet, what do you think? Tacky?
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