I met my best friend in 7th grade, and we became friend's instantly. Throughout high school we hung out with the same people, but it wasn't until the summer before 11th grade that we got really close. We had the best summer, and we would be able to spend days on end hanging out and having fun. However, we met guy's during our junior year, and this created a lot of tension, because both of the guy's were not good for us. She started getting short with me, and we would ignore each other completely sometimes. By the end of the school year we hardly talked, and  I cut off contact because I was tired of having my feelings hurt. I had basically no friends senior year, and I tried mending our friendship during graduation time. We started hanging out again, but it wasn't the same. I found out that when we weren't friends that she was talking badly about me behind my back, and this made me feel pretty terrible. We stopped talking shortly after this, and we haven't spoken since. It has now been about three years since we have talked, but I get nostalgic a lot about the fun we used to have. I have no idea if I should try talking to her again, or how to forget about our friendship. It probably sounds silly that I even care at this point,  but I have anxiety and it make's it hard for me to interact with new people. Thank you for any comments or advice!
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Best friend and I stopped talking for three years, and it's been three years since we
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I met my best friend in 7th grade, and we became friend's instantly. Throughout high school we hung out with the same people, but it wasn't until the summer before 11th grade that we got really close. We had the best summer, and we would be able to spend days on end hanging out and having fun. However, we met guy's during our junior year, and this created a lot of tension, because both of the guy's were not good for us. She started getting short with me, and we would ignore each other completely sometimes. By the end of the school year we hardly talked, and  I cut off contact because I was tired of having my feelings hurt. I had basically no friends senior year, and I tried mending our friendship during graduation time. We started hanging out again, but it wasn't the same. I found out that when we weren't friends that she was talking badly about me behind my back, and this made me feel pretty terrible. We stopped talking shortly after this, and we haven't spoken since. It has now been about three years since we have talked, but I get nostalgic a lot about the fun we used to have. I have no idea if I should try talking to her again, or how to forget about our friendship. It probably sounds silly that I even care at this point,  but I have anxiety and it make's it hard for me to interact with new people. Thank you for any comments or advice!
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I really like a girl I used to be friends with, and I don't even know
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