So I drove about 2 hours to see her yesterday. We've been fighting a lot here and there and she's been spending the night over at this guys house that she just met. We've had some problems with her cheating in the past, but we've gotten through them. Now, she tells me that she loves me, and wants to be with me, but also wants to experience the "college life." 

She graduates in a year, and expects us to be able to pick this up when she moves back. I told her that I can't just have her spending the night at other guys houses by herself. 

When we talk about it in the phone, she tells me thing like "I love you baby I was running errands with Chris. I listened to your message and I really want to make this work. Baby"

She says that she wants our relationship to work, but isn't willing to actually make changes. 

Reddit, how do I start seeing the bad side of people, and stop trying to be the only one to make any effort? 95% of me says to break it off because she doesn't care, but that last 5% seems to think that people can change and things will go back to how they were a year ago.
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Gf still wants to be with me, but wants to
assistant
So I drove about 2 hours to see her yesterday. We've been fighting a lot here and there and she's been spending the night over at this guys house that she just met. We've had some problems with her cheating in the past, but we've gotten through them. Now, she tells me that she loves me, and wants to be with me, but also wants to experience the "college life." 

She graduates in a year, and expects us to be able to pick this up when she moves back. I told her that I can't just have her spending the night at other guys houses by herself. 

When we talk about it in the phone, she tells me thing like "I love you baby I was running errands with Chris. I listened to your message and I really want to make this work. Baby"

She says that she wants our relationship to work, but isn't willing to actually make changes. 

Reddit, how do I start seeing the bad side of people, and stop trying to be the only one to make any effort? 95% of me says to break it off because she doesn't care, but that last 5% seems to think that people can change and things will go back to how they were a year ago.
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Gf tells me she loves me, wants to stay together,
assistant