So my bf and I have been dating for 2.5 years, we have lived together for 1.5 years, and we plan to marry each other soon. However, some things have been worrying me that I can't talk to him about, and I want to figure out what's going on before we take that next step.

He and I are a little opposite in some aspects, but it's usually a good thing. However, it leads to him being upset with me quite often (and by quite often, I mean almost every day). He thinks I'm messy and doesn't like cleaning up after me but I always cook, do the dishes, do the laundry, etc. 

He also hates when I have to spend time on my schoolwork instead of hang out with him or when I talk to any other guys. He's not like overly possessive, but will get really mad at me.

When I say "he gets mad", I mean that he is almost inconsolable and needs me to make it better. But no matter what I say I can't make anything better, and so I spend so much of my day trying to make things better for him but it just happens over and over again and I feel like shit because I make him upset. 

I really don't know what to do. I feel like I'm giving up on it but I don't want to - I love him and he's supposed to be my forever. I want things to get better but I don't know how.  I feel as if the things he gets upset about are things that I have little control over and it's just becoming SO emotionally draining to the point where it's all I can think about even during school. 

I have tried brining this up to him before but he got upset that I thought he was "always mad" and ended up turning it around on me because I'm the one who makes him mad... 

Reddit, what should I do? How do I talk to him about this?
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bf is constantly angry with me,
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So my bf and I have been dating for 2.5 years, we have lived together for 1.5 years, and we plan to marry each other soon. However, some things have been worrying me that I can't talk to him about, and I want to figure out what's going on before we take that next step.

He and I are a little opposite in some aspects, but it's usually a good thing. However, it leads to him being upset with me quite often (and by quite often, I mean almost every day). He thinks I'm messy and doesn't like cleaning up after me but I always cook, do the dishes, do the laundry, etc. 

He also hates when I have to spend time on my schoolwork instead of hang out with him or when I talk to any other guys. He's not like overly possessive, but will get really mad at me.

When I say "he gets mad", I mean that he is almost inconsolable and needs me to make it better. But no matter what I say I can't make anything better, and so I spend so much of my day trying to make things better for him but it just happens over and over again and I feel like shit because I make him upset. 

I really don't know what to do. I feel like I'm giving up on it but I don't want to - I love him and he's supposed to be my forever. I want things to get better but I don't know how.  I feel as if the things he gets upset about are things that I have little control over and it's just becoming SO emotionally draining to the point where it's all I can think about even during school. 

I have tried brining this up to him before but he got upset that I thought he was "always mad" and ended up turning it around on me because I'm the one who makes him mad... 

Reddit, what should I do? How do I talk to him about this?
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My bf is always mad and
assistant