Hey, first post so not sure if formatting is right or anything. Sorry if it isn't. Feel free to correct me on anything, so I know for future reference. And thanks for reading.

Anyway, When I was 17 i met a girl, We'll call her "Dana" and we really clicked and well we started dating and fell in love, blah blah blah. The relationship lasted for about 2 years. And it was great, I truly was so happy with her. Then all of a sudden it ended. And I was devastated, but I eventually got over her. I have dated a couple chicks after her, and they were okay. Just regular relationships that weren't anything serious. But then I found my current GF, "Jane". And I really enjoy being with her. She's great and we are both quite happy together.

But back to the reason I'm making this post. Jane and I, even though 5 months isn't a substantially long time for a relationship. I am having really strong feelings for her, and it's getting more serious. However, every time i'm left alone to my own thoughts I get an outstanding feeling of feeling like i'm not worth being loved because of Dana. I just feel like, sooner or late Jane is going to lose her feelings for me just as Dana did. And I'm normally not an insecure person as far as my self image is concerned. But just in this relationship, I feel like there isn't enough there y'know? 

So I would like to know, for people who've gone through rough breakups. How did you get over feeling like you weren't enough when you got into a new relationship?
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I've had a rough break up with my
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Hey, first post so not sure if formatting is right or anything. Sorry if it isn't. Feel free to correct me on anything, so I know for future reference. And thanks for reading.

Anyway, When I was 17 i met a girl, We'll call her "Dana" and we really clicked and well we started dating and fell in love, blah blah blah. The relationship lasted for about 2 years. And it was great, I truly was so happy with her. Then all of a sudden it ended. And I was devastated, but I eventually got over her. I have dated a couple chicks after her, and they were okay. Just regular relationships that weren't anything serious. But then I found my current GF, "Jane". And I really enjoy being with her. She's great and we are both quite happy together.

But back to the reason I'm making this post. Jane and I, even though 5 months isn't a substantially long time for a relationship. I am having really strong feelings for her, and it's getting more serious. However, every time i'm left alone to my own thoughts I get an outstanding feeling of feeling like i'm not worth being loved because of Dana. I just feel like, sooner or late Jane is going to lose her feelings for me just as Dana did. And I'm normally not an insecure person as far as my self image is concerned. But just in this relationship, I feel like there isn't enough there y'know? 

So I would like to know, for people who've gone through rough breakups. How did you get over feeling like you weren't enough when you got into a new relationship?
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I'm in a new relationship. I don't see
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