So relatively recently my on/off girlfriend of 3 years (minor breaks for various reasons, we were actively dating for a year before this happened) called me while I was away on a holiday to tell me that things weren't working out between us. In terms of the reasons at the time she didn't explain it well and I tried to take it on the chin.

So after I get back from my holiday we meet up in a mutually agreed location to exchange some things we had accumulated over our relationship. She hugs me and cuddles up with me and stuff but later goes on to tell me she's now dating a 30 year old, and since then she's been treating me like garbage and it's really getting me down that she is suddenly so indifferent to me.

If I'm being honest, I think their "relationship" is kinda disgusting and I can't shake the feeling that this dude is praying on a young woman who's in a vulnerable position and when I question these things she won't speak to me.

Since all things seem to be failing and I still really care about this girl I've decided to see if the Reddit community has any decent advice on what I should do in terms of how to get over it or redeem it because I can't really get any good advice on this since it's such an unusual situation, seemingly at least. 

Ps. It's not a money thing, the guy is a total bum before people say **not looks either** I don't get it. (This is my first reddit post idk)
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So relatively recently my on/off girlfriend of 3 years (minor breaks for various reasons, we were actively dating for a year before this happened) called me while I was away on a holiday to tell me that things weren't working out between us. In terms of the reasons at the time she didn't explain it well and I tried to take it on the chin.

So after I get back from my holiday we meet up in a mutually agreed location to exchange some things we had accumulated over our relationship. She hugs me and cuddles up with me and stuff but later goes on to tell me she's now dating a 30 year old, and since then she's been treating me like garbage and it's really getting me down that she is suddenly so indifferent to me.

If I'm being honest, I think their "relationship" is kinda disgusting and I can't shake the feeling that this dude is praying on a young woman who's in a vulnerable position and when I question these things she won't speak to me.

Since all things seem to be failing and I still really care about this girl I've decided to see if the Reddit community has any decent advice on what I should do in terms of how to get over it or redeem it because I can't really get any good advice on this since it's such an unusual situation, seemingly at least. 

Ps. It's not a money thing, the guy is a total bum before people say **not looks either** I don't get it. (This is my first reddit post idk)
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