I have a colleague who's been asking me several personal questions and I'm not sure whether it's because she's nosy and a gossip since she already told something I told her to another colleague, or whether she's a potential threat.  I don't know whether or not this colleague was taught manners or if it's in her nature to get into everyone's business but lately she's asked details like:

- where I live
- which transit station I go to
- which bus I take
- what time is my bus (she asked it Friday)
- if I live in an apartment or a house
- which month my birthday is in
- my age
- made a comment how nice a coat was I was wearing and how expensive it was (it was expensive but I didn't pay for it)
etc.

I've given her some details already but I don't feel comfortable giving out more and it's putting a strain on our working relationship.  The other day she asked, if you don't mind a personal question, how old are you?   (And you know what, I do mind, in part because I am much older than her and other colleagues, although and act younger)   I tried dodging the question with a hint saying I was hassled by a doorman a few years ago and asked for ID and she guessed a number, and then hassled me the rest of the shift for the precise number.   I have my reasons for not giving my exact age and especially not date of birth, and one of them is privacy.
user
Nosy colleague keeps asking personal questions, not sure if she's a potential threat or whether or not I should confront her about
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I have a colleague who's been asking me several personal questions and I'm not sure whether it's because she's nosy and a gossip since she already told something I told her to another colleague, or whether she's a potential threat.  I don't know whether or not this colleague was taught manners or if it's in her nature to get into everyone's business but lately she's asked details like:

- where I live
- which transit station I go to
- which bus I take
- what time is my bus (she asked it Friday)
- if I live in an apartment or a house
- which month my birthday is in
- my age
- made a comment how nice a coat was I was wearing and how expensive it was (it was expensive but I didn't pay for it)
etc.

I've given her some details already but I don't feel comfortable giving out more and it's putting a strain on our working relationship.  The other day she asked, if you don't mind a personal question, how old are you?   (And you know what, I do mind, in part because I am much older than her and other colleagues, although and act younger)   I tried dodging the question with a hint saying I was hassled by a doorman a few years ago and asked for ID and she guessed a number, and then hassled me the rest of the shift for the precise number.   I have my reasons for not giving my exact age and especially not date of birth, and one of them is privacy.
user
a nosy and potentially dangerous colleague is asking me personal questions and I don't know how to handle it without giving her
assistant