Title is as title does, I guess it all boils down to having poor taste in women or something.

I value trust, and relationships with long term goals. Each of the relationships was over a year long before the cheating happened. 

I've always been employed, and work hard to make sure bills are paid and stomachs are full. There has never been any kids. I have always been faithful.

I am nowhere near perfect. I too, have my flaws, but infedelity it not one of them.

Me and my wife went at it, because she had 'red flags' of cheating (guilt, lack of intimacy, etc.) - when I confronted her with my concerns, she threw it in my face that she's different "than my exes" and acted like the better person.

She's never given them any real bad rap before - so it made it worse. 

Against my better judgement, I went through her personal messages, chats, and texts to find out that I'm batting 1.000 with women in my life who have more than one man.

She's now gone for all the right reasons, because I don't believe in second chances when it comes to a complete betrayal of trust.

but now what? I'm single, and trying to move forward, but I've wasted thousands of dollars and years of my life on "bad women". How hard is it to find a good woman these days - and how do I prevent myself from going "WELP HERE COMES NUMBER FOUR" every waking moment of our relationship?
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I've been burned in the past
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Title is as title does, I guess it all boils down to having poor taste in women or something.

I value trust, and relationships with long term goals. Each of the relationships was over a year long before the cheating happened. 

I've always been employed, and work hard to make sure bills are paid and stomachs are full. There has never been any kids. I have always been faithful.

I am nowhere near perfect. I too, have my flaws, but infedelity it not one of them.

Me and my wife went at it, because she had 'red flags' of cheating (guilt, lack of intimacy, etc.) - when I confronted her with my concerns, she threw it in my face that she's different "than my exes" and acted like the better person.

She's never given them any real bad rap before - so it made it worse. 

Against my better judgement, I went through her personal messages, chats, and texts to find out that I'm batting 1.000 with women in my life who have more than one man.

She's now gone for all the right reasons, because I don't believe in second chances when it comes to a complete betrayal of trust.

but now what? I'm single, and trying to move forward, but I've wasted thousands of dollars and years of my life on "bad women". How hard is it to find a good woman these days - and how do I prevent myself from going "WELP HERE COMES NUMBER FOUR" every waking moment of our relationship?
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I think I'm being jaded by
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