Basically I'm a seventeen year old trans ftm. Throughout the years I have dated both guys and girls, and have decided that I am bi. I've recently gotten out of a really abusive relationship and am not dating my amazing girlfriend, who I love more than anything. She has helped me through my depression and has just been my rock. 

Still, I feel the need to be in a relationship with other people. I definitely don't want to break up with my girlfriend, and I would never EVER cheat on her. I feel like the ideal situation would be if we were still together and we both had feelings for another person and it was completely consensual.

I just don't know how that would go down, because I haven't told my girlfriend. I feel like that would just cause tension. I also don't know if the person I'm having additional feelings feels the same way.

Overall I'm not sure. Am I polyamorous, or just being a greedy asshole? Should I tell my girlfriend? Should I tell the person I also have feelings for? I'm so confused.
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Bisexual ftm dude here
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Basically I'm a seventeen year old trans ftm. Throughout the years I have dated both guys and girls, and have decided that I am bi. I've recently gotten out of a really abusive relationship and am not dating my amazing girlfriend, who I love more than anything. She has helped me through my depression and has just been my rock. 

Still, I feel the need to be in a relationship with other people. I definitely don't want to break up with my girlfriend, and I would never EVER cheat on her. I feel like the ideal situation would be if we were still together and we both had feelings for another person and it was completely consensual.

I just don't know how that would go down, because I haven't told my girlfriend. I feel like that would just cause tension. I also don't know if the person I'm having additional feelings feels the same way.

Overall I'm not sure. Am I polyamorous, or just being a greedy asshole? Should I tell my girlfriend? Should I tell the person I also have feelings for? I'm so confused.
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I'm not sure if
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