My boyfriend is a fantastic guy. When he's around me or his family or people he knows in general, he has a fantastic sense of humour and is a lot of fun to be around. Unfortunately, I don't think he's ever really had to learn how to act in social situations with people he doesn't know and he just kind of sticks to himself, either standing next to me and saying nothing, or standing off to the side of the room not talking to anyone.

It upsets me that he's so uncomfortable at these types of events, particularly since they're a big part of my job and in my industry others expect you to know how to handle meeting new people. I want to encourage him to try opening up and basically teaching himself how to talk to people he doesn't know, because I used to be the same and I know the only way to get better is practice, but I also don't want to sound critical because I understand how difficult it is to do that when you're a naturally introverted person. I want to help and be supportive, but not sure how.

Any advice, Reddit?
user
Boyfriend of 18 months is so uncomfortable around new people he doesn't know. How can I encourage him to open
assistant
My boyfriend is a fantastic guy. When he's around me or his family or people he knows in general, he has a fantastic sense of humour and is a lot of fun to be around. Unfortunately, I don't think he's ever really had to learn how to act in social situations with people he doesn't know and he just kind of sticks to himself, either standing next to me and saying nothing, or standing off to the side of the room not talking to anyone.

It upsets me that he's so uncomfortable at these types of events, particularly since they're a big part of my job and in my industry others expect you to know how to handle meeting new people. I want to encourage him to try opening up and basically teaching himself how to talk to people he doesn't know, because I used to be the same and I know the only way to get better is practice, but I also don't want to sound critical because I understand how difficult it is to do that when you're a naturally introverted person. I want to help and be supportive, but not sure how.

Any advice, Reddit?
user
How do I talk to my boyfriend about being more sociable in a supportive and non-critical way?
assistant