My SO and I have been married for six years. I'm f, 32 and he's m, 34. We're pretty open minded on a lot of things and we have a good relationship. My problem is a female friend of his who he is really close to. They hang out a lot and get along really well. I know nothing sexual is going on there but sometimes I worry that it might. Like I said we're pretty open minded and it wouldn't be marriage-ending if they did sleep together but I'd want to know about it first. Sometimes I get tempted to tell him to go ahead and get it over with.
We've talked about his friendship and I'm ok with it because he makes sure I have all the time and affection I need too.
I'm wondering what the best way to approach this might be and hope you can give me some advice, Reddit!
user
My husband and friend sleep together. I want to know first.
assistant
My SO and I have been married for six years. I'm f, 32 and he's m, 34. We're pretty open minded on a lot of things and we have a good relationship. My problem is a female friend of his who he is really close to. They hang out a lot and get along really well. I know nothing sexual is going on there but sometimes I worry that it might. Like I said we're pretty open minded and it wouldn't be marriage-ending if they did sleep together but I'd want to know about it first. Sometimes I get tempted to tell him to go ahead and get it over with.
We've talked about his friendship and I'm ok with it because he makes sure I have all the time and affection I need too.
I'm wondering what the best way to approach this might be and hope you can give me some advice, Reddit!
user
my SO and his friend of six years hang out a lot and like each other. I don't know how to approach this without coming
assistant