This girl that I'm not friends with is perpetually messaging me through facebook and blackberry messenger. A couple weeks ago, when we first started talking, she kept referring to me as her "drinking buddy." I thought she was being silly, but still found it to be a little weird. She is convinced that we have plans to drink every Friday night and I have absolutely no idea where she got this idea from. I began ignoring her on blackberry messenger, but she added me on her mum's phone. I ended up removing bbm from my phone in hopes that she would get the hint, but then she started messaging me on facebook. I have not opened or responded her messages, but have been making public posts in order to show that I'm ignoring her. Rather than taking the hint, she has now publicly posted on my facebook wall asking me to message her about our "Friday night plans". This is the second weekend in a row that she has convinced herself we're spending time together, although I never agreed to anything. How can I get through to her that I don't want to be her friend? Preferably without being mean.
user
Girl keeps messaging me on facebook, blackberry messenger, and mums phone. How do I get her
assistant
This girl that I'm not friends with is perpetually messaging me through facebook and blackberry messenger. A couple weeks ago, when we first started talking, she kept referring to me as her "drinking buddy." I thought she was being silly, but still found it to be a little weird. She is convinced that we have plans to drink every Friday night and I have absolutely no idea where she got this idea from. I began ignoring her on blackberry messenger, but she added me on her mum's phone. I ended up removing bbm from my phone in hopes that she would get the hint, but then she started messaging me on facebook. I have not opened or responded her messages, but have been making public posts in order to show that I'm ignoring her. Rather than taking the hint, she has now publicly posted on my facebook wall asking me to message her about our "Friday night plans". This is the second weekend in a row that she has convinced herself we're spending time together, although I never agreed to anything. How can I get through to her that I don't want to be her friend? Preferably without being mean.
user
How do I get a crazy chick to go away without being an asshole about it?
assistant