So I am in a situation where I have been seeing a girl for about 2 months now.  I asked her what she was looking for, because I am looking for a serious relationship.  I really like being around her and we always have a great time together.

She said that she feels the same way, but here is where the catch comes in.  Both of us have been dating, and I just found out from her that she is currently also seeing another guy, who she has been seeing for a bit longer than myself.  She says that she likes this guy as well, but isn't really sure where they stand, and he doesn't seem that serious.

I think I set off a chain of events here where I essentially told her that I want to get serious, but wouldn't be comfortable with doing that if she was still seeing another guy.  I think I put her under a bit of stress, because that chain of events ends in her picking one guy over the other.  We last spoke a few days ago, and I told her that I would respect her decision either way, but felt like I was getting mixed signals.  She said that she needed some time to think about it, and I told her to take some time and let me know what she thinks.

Is there anything else I should do at this point?  Should I be concerned since she didn't really jump at the opportunity, even though she said she felt the same way?  Should I be worried about this other guy if she ends up 'choosing' me?  Should I leave her alone and give her some space, or try to help her in the process?

The waiting game sucks.
user
Girl I am dating is dating a guy, and has been for a bit longer than I have. I am waiting on her to decide whether or not she wants to be in a
assistant
So I am in a situation where I have been seeing a girl for about 2 months now.  I asked her what she was looking for, because I am looking for a serious relationship.  I really like being around her and we always have a great time together.

She said that she feels the same way, but here is where the catch comes in.  Both of us have been dating, and I just found out from her that she is currently also seeing another guy, who she has been seeing for a bit longer than myself.  She says that she likes this guy as well, but isn't really sure where they stand, and he doesn't seem that serious.

I think I set off a chain of events here where I essentially told her that I want to get serious, but wouldn't be comfortable with doing that if she was still seeing another guy.  I think I put her under a bit of stress, because that chain of events ends in her picking one guy over the other.  We last spoke a few days ago, and I told her that I would respect her decision either way, but felt like I was getting mixed signals.  She said that she needed some time to think about it, and I told her to take some time and let me know what she thinks.

Is there anything else I should do at this point?  Should I be concerned since she didn't really jump at the opportunity, even though she said she felt the same way?  Should I be worried about this other guy if she ends up 'choosing' me?  Should I leave her alone and give her some space, or try to help her in the process?

The waiting game sucks.
user
Girl I am dating is now seeing another guy, and I am not sure how to handle the situation.
assistant