Me (20 almost 21) and my girlfriend(21) have been together for one year and three months.  I'd be lying right now if I said I didn't love her, and I know she loves me too.  The problem is, the longer we are together the more I feel like we aren't a great fit for each other.

A few reasons why:
- I'm super laid back and easy to please, she is fairly high maintenance and stresses out a lot, this puts me in a bad mood
- We haven't had sex, this is not my choice at all. She has had sex before and I (kinda) have, but she doesn't want to and isn't very clear to me on why.

Truth be told, part of the problem is that I am in college, I have an internship this summer where I'll be making really good money for a student (~$35/hour) and I turn 21 at the start of summer.  I really want to go out and have a lot of fun before I can't anymore.  And its really bad, but lack of sexual interaction (she doesn't like to get physical except maybe once a month) has made me start being physically attracted to other girls.

Like I said earlier though I really love this girl and the last thing in the world I want is to hurt her.  I keep hoping that maybe she will randomly break up with me because she depends on me so much that I would never be able to bring myself to leave her.  So this is where I want your help, what should I do?
user
Not happy in my relationship, want it to end, but can't stand the thought
assistant
Me (20 almost 21) and my girlfriend(21) have been together for one year and three months.  I'd be lying right now if I said I didn't love her, and I know she loves me too.  The problem is, the longer we are together the more I feel like we aren't a great fit for each other.

A few reasons why:
- I'm super laid back and easy to please, she is fairly high maintenance and stresses out a lot, this puts me in a bad mood
- We haven't had sex, this is not my choice at all. She has had sex before and I (kinda) have, but she doesn't want to and isn't very clear to me on why.

Truth be told, part of the problem is that I am in college, I have an internship this summer where I'll be making really good money for a student (~$35/hour) and I turn 21 at the start of summer.  I really want to go out and have a lot of fun before I can't anymore.  And its really bad, but lack of sexual interaction (she doesn't like to get physical except maybe once a month) has made me start being physically attracted to other girls.

Like I said earlier though I really love this girl and the last thing in the world I want is to hurt her.  I keep hoping that maybe she will randomly break up with me because she depends on me so much that I would never be able to bring myself to leave her.  So this is where I want your help, what should I do?
user
my girlfriend and I don't seem to fit together, and I want to end
assistant