My girlfriend and I have been long distance for about 3 weeks now, and dating 8 1/2 months total. Our relationship is amazing when we're with each other, and I love her to death, but since we've been away I feel as though I'm putting most of the work in the relationship. I'm always the one who texts "How was your day?" I'm always the one who asks when would be a good time to skype. She always ends texts conversations at weird times without saying good bye (which is especially bad for me since I have Generalized Anxiety Disorder and not having that closure makes me worry for hours). And just this morning, she said she was going to call me, but she never did. I was too sad to even bring it up with her. I'll be seeing her this weekend, and no, I don't want to end our relationship over this. I love her so much. And no, she's not cheating on me (trust me). I just don't know how to bring this up without making her feel bad or making me look like an overly-obsessive asshole. We've never had a fight, and I don't want to start now. Also, I feel as though if I tell her my concerns, she'll only start doing more because I asked her to. I don't think I should have to tell her to be a little more involved in our relationship. Please help.
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My girlfriend and I are recently long distance, and
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My girlfriend and I have been long distance for about 3 weeks now, and dating 8 1/2 months total. Our relationship is amazing when we're with each other, and I love her to death, but since we've been away I feel as though I'm putting most of the work in the relationship. I'm always the one who texts "How was your day?" I'm always the one who asks when would be a good time to skype. She always ends texts conversations at weird times without saying good bye (which is especially bad for me since I have Generalized Anxiety Disorder and not having that closure makes me worry for hours). And just this morning, she said she was going to call me, but she never did. I was too sad to even bring it up with her. I'll be seeing her this weekend, and no, I don't want to end our relationship over this. I love her so much. And no, she's not cheating on me (trust me). I just don't know how to bring this up without making her feel bad or making me look like an overly-obsessive asshole. We've never had a fight, and I don't want to start now. Also, I feel as though if I tell her my concerns, she'll only start doing more because I asked her to. I don't think I should have to tell her to be a little more involved in our relationship. Please help.
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I feel like I'm doing the majority of the
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