Idk how to feel about this... we've been together for 4 years. I lived with her for a year before having to move back home and she I trying to move here... we are both very jealous people... I came home to great loss in the family started drinking while away from her... alot... we resolved that. but then she asked if I was interested in an open relationship while we are apart...

I don't know what to think... it's got me worried... I have lost a few people that I was close to this summer. I see her in a month (a short time for us) and suddenly... this... i know she is frustrated sexually and it's hard... but we were managing and even enjoying ourselves seeing eachother almost every 2 months since I left and already planned every 2 months for the next few months we see each other (all the way up to the end of march is planned)...

How should I react? Should I worry? She is very frustrated sexually as am i... should I worry she is cheating? Am I just worrying to much? I am a worrier and would like to know how I should feel... how would you feel if in a ldr your so, after 4 years together and while you were in a poor place asked for an open relationship ? I am a jealous person and so is she... idk I'm confused and emotional and have issues lately... I said no already but this has been on my mind alot... 

Sorry for formatting I'm on my phone and don't normally post...
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gf of 4 years asked for an open relationship while
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Idk how to feel about this... we've been together for 4 years. I lived with her for a year before having to move back home and she I trying to move here... we are both very jealous people... I came home to great loss in the family started drinking while away from her... alot... we resolved that. but then she asked if I was interested in an open relationship while we are apart...

I don't know what to think... it's got me worried... I have lost a few people that I was close to this summer. I see her in a month (a short time for us) and suddenly... this... i know she is frustrated sexually and it's hard... but we were managing and even enjoying ourselves seeing eachother almost every 2 months since I left and already planned every 2 months for the next few months we see each other (all the way up to the end of march is planned)...

How should I react? Should I worry? She is very frustrated sexually as am i... should I worry she is cheating? Am I just worrying to much? I am a worrier and would like to know how I should feel... how would you feel if in a ldr your so, after 4 years together and while you were in a poor place asked for an open relationship ? I am a jealous person and so is she... idk I'm confused and emotional and have issues lately... I said no already but this has been on my mind alot... 

Sorry for formatting I'm on my phone and don't normally post...
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ldr gf asked about open relationship after 4 years. Worst
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