Hello.

Before my current girlfriend and I got together, she had a couple of flings with two of my friends (one after the other, not at the same time!). She didn't pursue anything serious with them, just casual sex, which didn't bother me at the time. I still liked her. While she was having those flings, she started to express romantic interest in me. We started talking, and she stopped hooking up with those guys. Eventually, we established a relationship.

Just recently, I started being very jealous since she still hangs out with them once in a while. It's inevitable that they hang out once a while since she's a very talented hair stylist, and she cuts hair for everyone. But it still bugs me.

I guess what's really bothering me is that the guy she had a longer fling with actually fell for her when they were hooking up, and I feel very uncomfortable and incredibly jealous when they're around each other.

I've expressed my discomfort with her, and she didn't brush me off or disregard my concern. She was very understanding and she assures me that she loves me and that she's not a cheater. I believe her, but I can't really pinpoint whether I have distrust towards her or towards the guys.

Other than that, we have a very wonderful relationship. We're practically inseparable. The only time she'll make time to cut their hair and hang out with them is when our days off from work don't align together, which happens only once every two or three weeks. Soooo I get overly jealous every two or three weeks haha...

I'm sorry if my description of my situation doesn't make sense. I can try to clarify any confusing parts if you have any questions.
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My girlfriend had flings with a couple of my friends, one of which fell in love with her, before she pursued a relationship with me, and now I
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Hello.

Before my current girlfriend and I got together, she had a couple of flings with two of my friends (one after the other, not at the same time!). She didn't pursue anything serious with them, just casual sex, which didn't bother me at the time. I still liked her. While she was having those flings, she started to express romantic interest in me. We started talking, and she stopped hooking up with those guys. Eventually, we established a relationship.

Just recently, I started being very jealous since she still hangs out with them once in a while. It's inevitable that they hang out once a while since she's a very talented hair stylist, and she cuts hair for everyone. But it still bugs me.

I guess what's really bothering me is that the guy she had a longer fling with actually fell for her when they were hooking up, and I feel very uncomfortable and incredibly jealous when they're around each other.

I've expressed my discomfort with her, and she didn't brush me off or disregard my concern. She was very understanding and she assures me that she loves me and that she's not a cheater. I believe her, but I can't really pinpoint whether I have distrust towards her or towards the guys.

Other than that, we have a very wonderful relationship. We're practically inseparable. The only time she'll make time to cut their hair and hang out with them is when our days off from work don't align together, which happens only once every two or three weeks. Soooo I get overly jealous every two or three weeks haha...

I'm sorry if my description of my situation doesn't make sense. I can try to clarify any confusing parts if you have any questions.
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My girlfriend had a fling with another guy, and I'm jealous because of it. I don't know how to approach this.
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