I'm not usually a materialistic person, but I just found out my fiance spent around 1k on my ring, which while it's not nothing, I guess I assumed he'd spend more. He also has a decent amount of money. He's also supposedly been saving for a long time, and we have been together for 5 years. I don't ask for a lot in our relationship, and he's always been kind of stingy. I'm the opposite kind of person. I tend to treat him to things a lot, like clothes or little surprises without needing an occasion. 

I'm not sure why it matters so much to me, I guess it's part of the waiting so long to get engaged, and then not really following through with some of the things I was hoping for in a ring, like the setting should be conflict free and from reclaimed materials. 

I think to add to it, he didn't really get me a Christmas present, which is more about the thought of it, rather than the cost.
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I'm upset because my fiance didn't spend as much on my ring as
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I'm not usually a materialistic person, but I just found out my fiance spent around 1k on my ring, which while it's not nothing, I guess I assumed he'd spend more. He also has a decent amount of money. He's also supposedly been saving for a long time, and we have been together for 5 years. I don't ask for a lot in our relationship, and he's always been kind of stingy. I'm the opposite kind of person. I tend to treat him to things a lot, like clothes or little surprises without needing an occasion. 

I'm not sure why it matters so much to me, I guess it's part of the waiting so long to get engaged, and then not really following through with some of the things I was hoping for in a ring, like the setting should be conflict free and from reclaimed materials. 

I think to add to it, he didn't really get me a Christmas present, which is more about the thought of it, rather than the cost.
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My fiance has spent 1k on my engagement ring, but I feel like
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