So to begin with me and my GF had been going out for 3.5 years (2 years long distance before being closer). She moved back home for the summer and she wanted to take a break for the summer, and i opposed it, but agreed hoping it would help. over the break i was unable to get any dates while she had multiple. 

once she returned from being gone for the summer, we tried to work things out and i felt they were going good, but she did not. evetually she said she couldnt do it anymore because she didn't feel the connection and we split up. 

This was less than a week after my dad had passed away with cancer and looked to her for comfort. its been a week since this has all happened and i haven't spoke with her because she made it clear she's not comfortable talking to me.

since she was my first for everything and my first serious girlfriend i feel really lost with nobody to look to for comfort. I've tried talking with my mom and brothers but it doesn't seem to help.

I guess I'm mostly asking for any advice to help deal with the loss of both my GF and my father.
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GF of 3.5 years (two years long distance) and my father passed away less than a week after breaking
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So to begin with me and my GF had been going out for 3.5 years (2 years long distance before being closer). She moved back home for the summer and she wanted to take a break for the summer, and i opposed it, but agreed hoping it would help. over the break i was unable to get any dates while she had multiple. 

once she returned from being gone for the summer, we tried to work things out and i felt they were going good, but she did not. evetually she said she couldnt do it anymore because she didn't feel the connection and we split up. 

This was less than a week after my dad had passed away with cancer and looked to her for comfort. its been a week since this has all happened and i haven't spoke with her because she made it clear she's not comfortable talking to me.

since she was my first for everything and my first serious girlfriend i feel really lost with nobody to look to for comfort. I've tried talking with my mom and brothers but it doesn't seem to help.

I guess I'm mostly asking for any advice to help deal with the loss of both my GF and my father.
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GF of 3.5 years and my dad died less than a week before we broke up. Feeling extremely lost
assistant