I can't really read this guy I've gone on 4 dates with. Our dates have all seemed pretty successful, but I just can't really gauge his interest at all. He seemed kind of standoffish starting around about our third date. He postponed two dates between our third and fourth dates, and there was a two week gap of time before our fourth date. We've kissed and stuff, and on our fourth date he had the perfect opportunity to take things further physically and he didn't make a move aside from just a goodnight kiss. He didn't say much about making plans to get together again after our fourth date.

I like him, but I don't wanna keep wasting my time and energy thinking about him and keeping him in my picture if he's not interested.

I don't know if 4 dates is too soon to ask what's up, let him know that I'm interested and see if he's interested as well, or if I should just cut my losses, stop talking to him and see if he attempts to initiate conversation any more?
user
Can't gauge the interest of a guy I've been dating for 1 month/4 dates. Should I ask him
assistant
I can't really read this guy I've gone on 4 dates with. Our dates have all seemed pretty successful, but I just can't really gauge his interest at all. He seemed kind of standoffish starting around about our third date. He postponed two dates between our third and fourth dates, and there was a two week gap of time before our fourth date. We've kissed and stuff, and on our fourth date he had the perfect opportunity to take things further physically and he didn't make a move aside from just a goodnight kiss. He didn't say much about making plans to get together again after our fourth date.

I like him, but I don't wanna keep wasting my time and energy thinking about him and keeping him in my picture if he's not interested.

I don't know if 4 dates is too soon to ask what's up, let him know that I'm interested and see if he's interested as well, or if I should just cut my losses, stop talking to him and see if he attempts to initiate conversation any more?
user
4 dates with a guy, not sure if I should just cut my losses and move on, or
assistant