I've always been a lurker and never had the courage to post anything but I need some help trying to get over this.  My (I guess now) ex-boyfriend and I met as work colleagues. I was never interested in dating co-workers but we became friends and eventually started dating. 
   He has always been wonderful but always weird about when we could hang-out. This should have been a reg flag but I've never had an actual serious relationship so apparently I was naive. I never was able to go to his place and sometimes our time was cut short. He always blamed it on being called into work but now I know it's not the truth. Where I work employees get called in all the time. So it never raised any questions. 
   I kind of had my doubts but finally a co-worker informed me today that he is happily married. Why they didn't do it sooner I have no idea. He said he didn't have a Facebook and I believed him. But he does and he has pictures all over of his happy family. It just feel so used. I'm not sure where to go from here.
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My boyfriend was married and I never realized
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I've always been a lurker and never had the courage to post anything but I need some help trying to get over this.  My (I guess now) ex-boyfriend and I met as work colleagues. I was never interested in dating co-workers but we became friends and eventually started dating. 
   He has always been wonderful but always weird about when we could hang-out. This should have been a reg flag but I've never had an actual serious relationship so apparently I was naive. I never was able to go to his place and sometimes our time was cut short. He always blamed it on being called into work but now I know it's not the truth. Where I work employees get called in all the time. So it never raised any questions. 
   I kind of had my doubts but finally a co-worker informed me today that he is happily married. Why they didn't do it sooner I have no idea. He said he didn't have a Facebook and I believed him. But he does and he has pictures all over of his happy family. It just feel so used. I'm not sure where to go from here.
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How do I move on from a married
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