Here is a link to my last post. 

edited for clarity

Since posting this last thread, I have talked to my SO about the things that i felt like i thought were important. And the results were not what i expected. I brought up my problems and she answered with pretty much a complete breakdown. She went into detail about how:
-She doesnt like herself or what she has become and all kinds of stuff like that
-Is upset at herself all the time over nothing and takes it out on me
-Has no idea how to make any of this go back to how it used to.
-Feels worthless.
-Is sorry for all of this but has no idea how to fix it

I now am faced with I guess either trying to help (which I firmly believe that I cannot help her, she can only help herself) or other things that could happen (ie break up or something like that). I don't know what to do because this has been 2 years, I dont want to just throw it away too quickly or anything. But at the same time, I am tired of being frustrated all the time due to the things we talked about coming back up.
user
Girlfriend and I had a talk that we've been needing to
assistant
Here is a link to my last post. 

edited for clarity

Since posting this last thread, I have talked to my SO about the things that i felt like i thought were important. And the results were not what i expected. I brought up my problems and she answered with pretty much a complete breakdown. She went into detail about how:
-She doesnt like herself or what she has become and all kinds of stuff like that
-Is upset at herself all the time over nothing and takes it out on me
-Has no idea how to make any of this go back to how it used to.
-Feels worthless.
-Is sorry for all of this but has no idea how to fix it

I now am faced with I guess either trying to help (which I firmly believe that I cannot help her, she can only help herself) or other things that could happen (ie break up or something like that). I don't know what to do because this has been 2 years, I dont want to just throw it away too quickly or anything. But at the same time, I am tired of being frustrated all the time due to the things we talked about coming back up.
user
talked to SO about problems, she said she has issues, we
assistant