We've been dating for 8 month now. We really love each other and neither of us could imagine a better relationship. We're best friends and the sex is mutually great.

There's just one toxic issue that I can't seem to get out of my head. Months ago, my girlfriend and I were talking about sex and I asked her offhand if she had ever squirted. She said yes, once, when she was drunk and getting fucked really hard by a guy she was hooking up with and he told her that she was squirting. 

I know it's irrational and stupid to be bothered about this, but I can't get it out of my head. Though I'm the first guy she's consistently had orgasms with, not once has she squirted in the hundreds of times we've had sex. It's not too uncommon for her to feel like she has to pee (supposed to be a clue that she has to squirt) in certain positions, but she's never actually done it with me. The other day I gave her a nice massage and fingered her with the "come hither" motion, yet it still didn't work (though she said she felt very close).

I realize that this is a non-issue from a rational standpoint, and it's something that she couldn't care less about. Still, I can't help but feel inadequate when I compare myself to some guy that she wasn't even dating and didn't have serious feelings for that made her squirt with his dick when he wasn't even trying. I want it to happen so I can put this issue to rest in my mind, but I feel pathetic when I actually try to get her to squirt with my fingers and am unable to. 

I just hate that this guy is taking up so much of my mental space. Any advice on what I/we should do in this situation would be greatly appreciated.
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My girlfriend has squirted once in her life, and it's bothering me to no end.
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We've been dating for 8 month now. We really love each other and neither of us could imagine a better relationship. We're best friends and the sex is mutually great.

There's just one toxic issue that I can't seem to get out of my head. Months ago, my girlfriend and I were talking about sex and I asked her offhand if she had ever squirted. She said yes, once, when she was drunk and getting fucked really hard by a guy she was hooking up with and he told her that she was squirting. 

I know it's irrational and stupid to be bothered about this, but I can't get it out of my head. Though I'm the first guy she's consistently had orgasms with, not once has she squirted in the hundreds of times we've had sex. It's not too uncommon for her to feel like she has to pee (supposed to be a clue that she has to squirt) in certain positions, but she's never actually done it with me. The other day I gave her a nice massage and fingered her with the "come hither" motion, yet it still didn't work (though she said she felt very close).

I realize that this is a non-issue from a rational standpoint, and it's something that she couldn't care less about. Still, I can't help but feel inadequate when I compare myself to some guy that she wasn't even dating and didn't have serious feelings for that made her squirt with his dick when he wasn't even trying. I want it to happen so I can put this issue to rest in my mind, but I feel pathetic when I actually try to get her to squirt with my fingers and am unable to. 

I just hate that this guy is taking up so much of my mental space. Any advice on what I/we should do in this situation would be greatly appreciated.
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GF of 8 months doesn't always squirt. I can't seem to get it out of my
assistant