My best friend [18M] was diagnosed with brain cancer a few months ago. He has had minimal interaction with any girls since due to chemo/radio, and is becoming a little frustrated/is losing confidence.

He has been considering hiring a prostitute, but I won't let him because I personally don't think anyone should lose their virginity to a prostitute, especially at such a young age.

This idea has been in my mind for a while, but this is the first time I've REALLY considered it. When I think about it I feel like it wouldn't affect me. In fact, I feel like it may be a positive experience. I love this kid like a brother, and it would mean the world to me if I could give him something he would never forget.

However, I'm not sure how my girlfriend would react. I'm paranoid that she'll react negatively and think that I'm abusing our relationship, or that it may make her consider having an open relationship with other guys/cheating on me (which I am NOT okay with).

I jokingly mentioned the idea to my friend when I first showed him a photo of my girlfriend before we dated (he found her very attractive). However, I haven't discussed it seriously with him. I plan on doing that last if all is well. 

This is obviously a very complicated and sensitive situation, and I seek all of your advice as I don't feel like I can really talk about it to anyone else. I would like if it was just a one-off thing, if all goes to plan.

Help me /r/relationships!
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Best friend has cancer, considering letting him lose his virginity to my girlfriend. I'm nervous about
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My best friend [18M] was diagnosed with brain cancer a few months ago. He has had minimal interaction with any girls since due to chemo/radio, and is becoming a little frustrated/is losing confidence.

He has been considering hiring a prostitute, but I won't let him because I personally don't think anyone should lose their virginity to a prostitute, especially at such a young age.

This idea has been in my mind for a while, but this is the first time I've REALLY considered it. When I think about it I feel like it wouldn't affect me. In fact, I feel like it may be a positive experience. I love this kid like a brother, and it would mean the world to me if I could give him something he would never forget.

However, I'm not sure how my girlfriend would react. I'm paranoid that she'll react negatively and think that I'm abusing our relationship, or that it may make her consider having an open relationship with other guys/cheating on me (which I am NOT okay with).

I jokingly mentioned the idea to my friend when I first showed him a photo of my girlfriend before we dated (he found her very attractive). However, I haven't discussed it seriously with him. I plan on doing that last if all is well. 

This is obviously a very complicated and sensitive situation, and I seek all of your advice as I don't feel like I can really talk about it to anyone else. I would like if it was just a one-off thing, if all goes to plan.

Help me /r/relationships!
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best friend diagnosed with brain cancer. Considering letting him lose his virginity to my girlfriend. Not
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