I need help!

I'm 19 and will be starting my sophomore year in college this fall and I have absolutely no experience with dating or boys. I feel like such a late bloomer because I only had my first kiss the summer of freshman year and making out is the furthest I've gone. It seems like most people assume that everyone my age is experienced in one way or another and I'm completely clueless how to even have a conversation with someone i'm interested in.

It's gotten to the point that it's hard for me to get close to guys because I don't even know how to go about flirting and dating or even just being friends with guys to begin with! During my freshman year I tried flirting with 3 guys and at some point during our "friendship" I would freak out because I felt like it might've been getting serious too quickly and they would find out i've never had a boyfriend or had sex and they'd think something's wrong with me.  Even when I think there may be a possibility that a guy I'm attracted to might like me back, I psych myself out and come up with a million reasons why they probably don't.

On top of all of that, i'm a token and in the back of my mind i'm always wondering if guys that i'm into would even like me back.  How do I ease out of my comfort zone to be more social with guys? I don't want to get into a serious relationship or anything, it'd just be nice to actually play the field instead of watching everyone else.
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I need help!

I'm 19 and will be starting my sophomore year in college this fall and I have absolutely no experience with dating or boys. I feel like such a late bloomer because I only had my first kiss the summer of freshman year and making out is the furthest I've gone. It seems like most people assume that everyone my age is experienced in one way or another and I'm completely clueless how to even have a conversation with someone i'm interested in.

It's gotten to the point that it's hard for me to get close to guys because I don't even know how to go about flirting and dating or even just being friends with guys to begin with! During my freshman year I tried flirting with 3 guys and at some point during our "friendship" I would freak out because I felt like it might've been getting serious too quickly and they would find out i've never had a boyfriend or had sex and they'd think something's wrong with me.  Even when I think there may be a possibility that a guy I'm attracted to might like me back, I psych myself out and come up with a million reasons why they probably don't.

On top of all of that, i'm a token and in the back of my mind i'm always wondering if guys that i'm into would even like me back.  How do I ease out of my comfort zone to be more social with guys? I don't want to get into a serious relationship or anything, it'd just be nice to actually play the field instead of watching everyone else.
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