I'm in college right now, and I've been getting a solid heavy workload from myself and my classes. Timing is hectic and I've been pretty tight with my finances for the sake of saving since I'm not working. Then this girl comes along...

She's cute, hilarious, so goddamned kind to me and actually has alot in common with me being a film-junkie and enjoying wide varieties of music. I talked to her but then the break came along and I won't see her until mid January. She contacted me out of no-where and wished me a merry christmas, and here I am.

When I first talked to her I tried to keep flirting to a minimum since a relationship isn't neccesarily a good thing for me being so busy right now. I do feel like she has a thing for me though, and I wish she didn't. I feel like a prick because by dating her I could gain two physical things. A place to sleep closer to campus, and a person to sleep with. It would save me gas money and bus fare some days and save me those lonely nights wishing I had time for a woman in my life...

I know myself and I'm a terrible person, I drop people as I please and if someone inconveniences me I have no problem making them hate me. Unfortunately with this girl I have a conscience and don't want to do that to her, or hurt her in anyway (seeing as I've already objectified her in my head). I've got two questions.

1. Should I date this girl regardless of the fact that I'm a busy person who won't be able to spoil her with free time and money?

2. Is it fine to just ask her out at the drop of a hat after being friends with her?

Please no rants on how objectifying women is a terrible thing and I should feel bad about it, I genuinely do but the thought of what I could gain crossed my mind and I don't forget easily.
user
I'm a busy guy who doesn't want to give up on a girl who I think has a thing for me but I'm running out of time.
assistant
I'm in college right now, and I've been getting a solid heavy workload from myself and my classes. Timing is hectic and I've been pretty tight with my finances for the sake of saving since I'm not working. Then this girl comes along...

She's cute, hilarious, so goddamned kind to me and actually has alot in common with me being a film-junkie and enjoying wide varieties of music. I talked to her but then the break came along and I won't see her until mid January. She contacted me out of no-where and wished me a merry christmas, and here I am.

When I first talked to her I tried to keep flirting to a minimum since a relationship isn't neccesarily a good thing for me being so busy right now. I do feel like she has a thing for me though, and I wish she didn't. I feel like a prick because by dating her I could gain two physical things. A place to sleep closer to campus, and a person to sleep with. It would save me gas money and bus fare some days and save me those lonely nights wishing I had time for a woman in my life...

I know myself and I'm a terrible person, I drop people as I please and if someone inconveniences me I have no problem making them hate me. Unfortunately with this girl I have a conscience and don't want to do that to her, or hurt her in anyway (seeing as I've already objectified her in my head). I've got two questions.

1. Should I date this girl regardless of the fact that I'm a busy person who won't be able to spoil her with free time and money?

2. Is it fine to just ask her out at the drop of a hat after being friends with her?

Please no rants on how objectifying women is a terrible thing and I should feel bad about it, I genuinely do but the thought of what I could gain crossed my mind and I don't forget easily.
user
I'm in college and have a lot of responsibility and little time. Dating a girl whom I will see in January (at least) makes me feel like a prick for asking her
assistant