When there's a conflict, whether small or big, my BF is pretty avoidant. He tells me in person or on the phone he will call me the next day, but then I don't hear from him. What usually happens is that I would call him up in 2-3 days and tell him I'm coming over to talk and we do and resolve it. (This has happened about three times).

We had a little incident post-Halloween partying (alcohol was involved, and he left my apartment saying he would call me the next day). It's been two days, but I'm not going to call him to talk this time. I don't know if he's not good with these serious discussions, doesn't want to let me down (if we are breaking up), but I take it personally and start feeling like he's not invested enough in me to talk to me. I usually want to work things out asap, but am aware that's not always the best idea because I get very emotional reactive and may say something like "we should break up then!". So I appreciate taking a few days to think about it. However, am seriously concerned he may not even reach out to me. 

What do you and your SO do when you have a disagreement? I'm trying to be patient and give him time/space. Should I give him a week and if I don't hear anything from him, just write this off?
user
we have a little disagreement and whenever I try to resolve it he doesn't call me back in a few days. Should I give him some space to try
assistant
When there's a conflict, whether small or big, my BF is pretty avoidant. He tells me in person or on the phone he will call me the next day, but then I don't hear from him. What usually happens is that I would call him up in 2-3 days and tell him I'm coming over to talk and we do and resolve it. (This has happened about three times).

We had a little incident post-Halloween partying (alcohol was involved, and he left my apartment saying he would call me the next day). It's been two days, but I'm not going to call him to talk this time. I don't know if he's not good with these serious discussions, doesn't want to let me down (if we are breaking up), but I take it personally and start feeling like he's not invested enough in me to talk to me. I usually want to work things out asap, but am aware that's not always the best idea because I get very emotional reactive and may say something like "we should break up then!". So I appreciate taking a few days to think about it. However, am seriously concerned he may not even reach out to me. 

What do you and your SO do when you have a disagreement? I'm trying to be patient and give him time/space. Should I give him a week and if I don't hear anything from him, just write this off?
user
BF is not good at serious discussions, I have had a few. He's not reaching out to me, am I being unreasonable?
assistant