I had a crush on this girl for about a month (I have known her for 2). She is in my friend group, so I was worried about my feelings negatively affecting it. Eventually I couldn't hide my feelings for her and I came out with it. She had had a crush on me as well for about the same duration. Everything was going perfectly, except neither of us had been in a relationship before. We didn't know how it worked, and decided to wing it. We went out for ice cream and played games, but on the 4th day of the relationship she sent me a text saying she couldn't handle the stress and wanted to go back to being friends until she knew me better. I gave her space, and asked my friends for advice. They urged me to just be friends for a while, but I left the group to sulk for a few days. 

After I was finished, I realized how different I had acted during the relationship. I was usually calm and collected but I had been acting emotional and passionate (not in a sexual way though). I couldn't think straight and wound up being a completely different person. I don't know how she feels because she doesn't want to talk about it with me. My friends told me she had been crying and was upset with how things went. I tried to get on the same page with her but then she said she doesn't see me as a boyfriend anymore. She had been talking with her other friends and they tell me she still like-likes me. Once I was back to being myself, I explained my behavior to my friends (not my crush because of the communication disconnect) and they understand. I feel like the passionate illogical version of me drove her away, and that if I control it we can be together.

This is all pretty complicated so if you want me to elaborate ask in the comments.
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My crush and I like each other and are having difficulty
assistant
I had a crush on this girl for about a month (I have known her for 2). She is in my friend group, so I was worried about my feelings negatively affecting it. Eventually I couldn't hide my feelings for her and I came out with it. She had had a crush on me as well for about the same duration. Everything was going perfectly, except neither of us had been in a relationship before. We didn't know how it worked, and decided to wing it. We went out for ice cream and played games, but on the 4th day of the relationship she sent me a text saying she couldn't handle the stress and wanted to go back to being friends until she knew me better. I gave her space, and asked my friends for advice. They urged me to just be friends for a while, but I left the group to sulk for a few days. 

After I was finished, I realized how different I had acted during the relationship. I was usually calm and collected but I had been acting emotional and passionate (not in a sexual way though). I couldn't think straight and wound up being a completely different person. I don't know how she feels because she doesn't want to talk about it with me. My friends told me she had been crying and was upset with how things went. I tried to get on the same page with her but then she said she doesn't see me as a boyfriend anymore. She had been talking with her other friends and they tell me she still like-likes me. Once I was back to being myself, I explained my behavior to my friends (not my crush because of the communication disconnect) and they understand. I feel like the passionate illogical version of me drove her away, and that if I control it we can be together.

This is all pretty complicated so if you want me to elaborate ask in the comments.
user
I made a girl mad by acting weird, she dumped me.
assistant