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I am 23 years old, and i got married when i was 17 years old. I was pregnant and i thought getting married was the best option for my daughter because i grew up in an unstable household and i wanted the best for my child. We were married in a court house in Michigan in 2008. I was very unhappy, and i left in 2012 and moved back to California to stay with friends. My daughter(his biological daughter as well) is still with my Husband. I knew if i took her with me to California i wouldn't have been able to support her, and take care of her the way she deserved. Since then i have been struggling just to live, i couldn't find a stable place to live, or a job. I bounced around from friend's house to friend's house. Now i am in a better place, and i have found someone i am extremely happy with. I am currently pregnant. 

I have been away from my Husband since 2012, we both dont want to be married any longer but i dont know anything about divorce. I understand that my rights as a parent with my daughter(who is with him) will most likely be taken away since i have not been with her since i left as well. I dont want custody of her because i know she is happy, and healthy with my husband and his family. [if that seems cold, its not, i just know she's happy there, and i can't take her away from her wonderful gma and gpa ] I want to divorce my husband, but i dont know what or even how to do this. I can't afford a lawyer, or to fly back to michigan for court dates, etc.
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I am a 23 year old female, who's been married since 2008 and whom hasn't lived with her husband since 2012. we have
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Im sorry if this isn't the right place to post this, if it is the wrong place, pm me the right subreddit and i will post there.

I am 23 years old, and i got married when i was 17 years old. I was pregnant and i thought getting married was the best option for my daughter because i grew up in an unstable household and i wanted the best for my child. We were married in a court house in Michigan in 2008. I was very unhappy, and i left in 2012 and moved back to California to stay with friends. My daughter(his biological daughter as well) is still with my Husband. I knew if i took her with me to California i wouldn't have been able to support her, and take care of her the way she deserved. Since then i have been struggling just to live, i couldn't find a stable place to live, or a job. I bounced around from friend's house to friend's house. Now i am in a better place, and i have found someone i am extremely happy with. I am currently pregnant. 

I have been away from my Husband since 2012, we both dont want to be married any longer but i dont know anything about divorce. I understand that my rights as a parent with my daughter(who is with him) will most likely be taken away since i have not been with her since i left as well. I dont want custody of her because i know she is happy, and healthy with my husband and his family. [if that seems cold, its not, i just know she's happy there, and i can't take her away from her wonderful gma and gpa ] I want to divorce my husband, but i dont know what or even how to do this. I can't afford a lawyer, or to fly back to michigan for court dates, etc.
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i got married when i was 17, now i have no idea how to divorce. i need help so i can get my
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