Hello relationships. I'm having an issue with my mom, and I'm not sure how to address it. My siblings and I all live at home, and recently my mom and step-dad (59) have decided to move 16 hours away and leave us here. Because of that I will be in charge of both of my siblings (24F), and (19M). I am the only one who knows how to cook, I am the only one who cleans, and I am the only one who can drive. I will have to take both of my siblings to work, and go to work myself. I will have to do all of the shopping, cooking and cleaning. On top of all that I have a 1 year old. 

I do NOT want to do this, but I can't afford to move out on my own right now. I have no support system other than my mom and I feel like she's just abandoning us. My siblings are thrilled because they won't have to deal with everything like I have to. I have to work on all the finances. I will literally have to be mom to my siblings. They do not know how to do basic things such as pay bills, or keep a budget. I feel like its not fair to leave me with all this responsibility, I shouldn't have to play mom to my siblings. I just don't know what to do, and its terrifying me. 

I also must add. I had been living with my partner things didn't work out for us, which is why I'm here. I have been saving to move out, but I can't yet. 

How can I discuss this with my mom? I don't want to make her stay, but I don't want to be forced with all of this.
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My mom is moving 16 hours away leaving
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Hello relationships. I'm having an issue with my mom, and I'm not sure how to address it. My siblings and I all live at home, and recently my mom and step-dad (59) have decided to move 16 hours away and leave us here. Because of that I will be in charge of both of my siblings (24F), and (19M). I am the only one who knows how to cook, I am the only one who cleans, and I am the only one who can drive. I will have to take both of my siblings to work, and go to work myself. I will have to do all of the shopping, cooking and cleaning. On top of all that I have a 1 year old. 

I do NOT want to do this, but I can't afford to move out on my own right now. I have no support system other than my mom and I feel like she's just abandoning us. My siblings are thrilled because they won't have to deal with everything like I have to. I have to work on all the finances. I will literally have to be mom to my siblings. They do not know how to do basic things such as pay bills, or keep a budget. I feel like its not fair to leave me with all this responsibility, I shouldn't have to play mom to my siblings. I just don't know what to do, and its terrifying me. 

I also must add. I had been living with my partner things didn't work out for us, which is why I'm here. I have been saving to move out, but I can't yet. 

How can I discuss this with my mom? I don't want to make her stay, but I don't want to be forced with all of this.
user
My mom is moving to a different state
assistant