My gf got a new job from a guy that i KNOW was interested on her. After a while she started to focus more on her job than me, and i thought that guy had something to do with it, so i got kinda jealous.

After a few days being more caring and being specially sweet she didn´t respond how id like her to, so i got kinda intense (sadly). On our aniversary i sent her flowers, fluffy bears and even a capella quartet.

When she got home that night she was furious because i hadnt been giving her enough space, which was true i guess, and i snapped and brought that guy into the conversation. That made her lose her calm and in the end she asked for "a break".

I left to a bar with some friends because a was really bad emotionally, and there a girl started to hit on me. Even though she was hot i could only think about that damn fight.

After a while i decided to call my gf, because i couldnt stand with that "break" situation, and when i did...SHE WAS WITH THAT GUY!

I flipped out, of course,and went to kill my sadness with alcohol. Eventually that girl from before came again, and since i was drunk and terribly sad i fell for it.

In the end we ended up having sex, and in the next morning i heard my voice mail, and of course there it was..my gf called the night before saying she was sorry and that she wanted to talk. 

I managed to kick the girl out, but eventually my gf found out and told me that she wouldnt get back with me because "everything was MY fault", which i TOTALLY disagree.

Am i wrong? I mean, she totally cheated me emotionally and was absent when i needed her. AND SHE WAS WITH THAT GUY.
user
gf and i were on a break, she went to a guy. i got drunk and had sex with a girl,
assistant
My gf got a new job from a guy that i KNOW was interested on her. After a while she started to focus more on her job than me, and i thought that guy had something to do with it, so i got kinda jealous.

After a few days being more caring and being specially sweet she didn´t respond how id like her to, so i got kinda intense (sadly). On our aniversary i sent her flowers, fluffy bears and even a capella quartet.

When she got home that night she was furious because i hadnt been giving her enough space, which was true i guess, and i snapped and brought that guy into the conversation. That made her lose her calm and in the end she asked for "a break".

I left to a bar with some friends because a was really bad emotionally, and there a girl started to hit on me. Even though she was hot i could only think about that damn fight.

After a while i decided to call my gf, because i couldnt stand with that "break" situation, and when i did...SHE WAS WITH THAT GUY!

I flipped out, of course,and went to kill my sadness with alcohol. Eventually that girl from before came again, and since i was drunk and terribly sad i fell for it.

In the end we ended up having sex, and in the next morning i heard my voice mail, and of course there it was..my gf called the night before saying she was sorry and that she wanted to talk. 

I managed to kick the girl out, but eventually my gf found out and told me that she wouldnt get back with me because "everything was MY fault", which i TOTALLY disagree.

Am i wrong? I mean, she totally cheated me emotionally and was absent when i needed her. AND SHE WAS WITH THAT GUY.
user
Me [30 M] with my gf [29 F] 1 year, "we were on a break" situation. She cheated me emotionally and
assistant