So here's the thing. While living in Ireland and attending an Irish secondary school, there is no bigger stigma than being someone who is 'a frigdit' i.e someone who has never kissed (or in ireland, 'shifted') someone. After being very socially awkward, lacking in confidence and being self-conscious, it is only now at age 16 that I'm beginning to come out of my shell and actually talk to girls. After asking a few girls whom I liked over the past few months for, 'the shift', I have been met with rejection each time. Keeping "beggars can't be choosers" in mind, I decided to lower my standards a bit to a girl that I'm almost certain I have a chance with, however do not really have feelings for. So after the past week of chatting to her, trying to work something out, I have been thinking, what do I do afterwards? I have no real intention of continuing in a relationship with this girl after the shift, but due to my lack of experience, I have no idea what to do. Any help would be much appreciated.
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I am a virgin, trying to get my
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So here's the thing. While living in Ireland and attending an Irish secondary school, there is no bigger stigma than being someone who is 'a frigdit' i.e someone who has never kissed (or in ireland, 'shifted') someone. After being very socially awkward, lacking in confidence and being self-conscious, it is only now at age 16 that I'm beginning to come out of my shell and actually talk to girls. After asking a few girls whom I liked over the past few months for, 'the shift', I have been met with rejection each time. Keeping "beggars can't be choosers" in mind, I decided to lower my standards a bit to a girl that I'm almost certain I have a chance with, however do not really have feelings for. So after the past week of chatting to her, trying to work something out, I have been thinking, what do I do afterwards? I have no real intention of continuing in a relationship with this girl after the shift, but due to my lack of experience, I have no idea what to do. Any help would be much appreciated.
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I am trying out my first kiss; I
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