I recently started dating someone new, which I was hesitant about. I got out of a serious relationship a few months ago and was enjoying having fun and being single (actually having time to be with friends, flings, etc.) I met this guy we'll call Evan through a couple of mutual acquaintances. We hit it off and started seeing each other regularly. 

I feel like it's moving too fast, though. The more I get to know him, the weirder it feels. We only met two weeks ago but we already spend most nights together, and he's extremely affectionate. 

It's also weird because I've never been with anyone this close to my age. He seems immature (that's such an awful word for it, but it's morning and I can't find a softer way to say it). It's the kind of relationship I would've wanted when I was sixteen. At the same time, though, I feel like maybe it's okay to just act like a kid for awhile. I had to grow up very fast, and my relationships always reflected that. The closest I've ever been to a partner in age was four years apart. 

My friend group is the same way; most of my friends are graduated and in their mid-twenties. I can't even imagine bringing him to anything with my friend group. 

I genuinely do enjoy spending time with him, and I have a lot of fun when I'm around him, but I got so used to being single and I have really different priorities now: friends, work, school, etc. I just wish he could act a little bit more grown up, and have more of his own life. 

I'd end things, but I also feel like our friend groups getting involved has complicated things. A lot of people know we're together, and I don't want to have to tell everyone we ended things.

I just don't really know what to do. When we're with his friends, I feel perfectly at ease, but my friends can be really judgmental and I worry about what they'd think of him. I know that's shallow, but I can't help it.
user
Not sure if I should continue dating someone who's immature and has no life
assistant
I recently started dating someone new, which I was hesitant about. I got out of a serious relationship a few months ago and was enjoying having fun and being single (actually having time to be with friends, flings, etc.) I met this guy we'll call Evan through a couple of mutual acquaintances. We hit it off and started seeing each other regularly. 

I feel like it's moving too fast, though. The more I get to know him, the weirder it feels. We only met two weeks ago but we already spend most nights together, and he's extremely affectionate. 

It's also weird because I've never been with anyone this close to my age. He seems immature (that's such an awful word for it, but it's morning and I can't find a softer way to say it). It's the kind of relationship I would've wanted when I was sixteen. At the same time, though, I feel like maybe it's okay to just act like a kid for awhile. I had to grow up very fast, and my relationships always reflected that. The closest I've ever been to a partner in age was four years apart. 

My friend group is the same way; most of my friends are graduated and in their mid-twenties. I can't even imagine bringing him to anything with my friend group. 

I genuinely do enjoy spending time with him, and I have a lot of fun when I'm around him, but I got so used to being single and I have really different priorities now: friends, work, school, etc. I just wish he could act a little bit more grown up, and have more of his own life. 

I'd end things, but I also feel like our friend groups getting involved has complicated things. A lot of people know we're together, and I don't want to have to tell everyone we ended things.

I just don't really know what to do. When we're with his friends, I feel perfectly at ease, but my friends can be really judgmental and I worry about what they'd think of him. I know that's shallow, but I can't help it.
user
I'm younger than my boyfriend and I don't know what to do. I love
assistant