Me and my girlfriend have been dating for 9 months. Shes become my best friend and lover as cheesy as it sounds and the feelings are mutual. We've been on vacation together, and spend every day together, no in-betweens and if we're not together we know where each other are. We're as solid as solid can be. The only thing we ever argue over is instagram... when i post a picture (not often) i get alot of likes from girls i knew in college, meaningless, but not in her eyes. A few times it's made her really upset but we've talked it out and cleared it up that they're just friends. Yesterday the same thing happened which turned in to a huge fight with her claiming i slept with all these girls (not an ounce true, i was never much of the player). I had to delete the picture and we didn't talk until we got home. We have NEVER had trust issues, and she tossed her phone at me to look, and I went to her search... To my surprise i found a name under more recent ones that  i did not recognize.  Turns out it was the kid she was seeing before she met me. At first she could not remember why his name would even be there, and then she tried to remember claiming he came up in her feed and she was trying to unfollow him and had totally forgot about it. I did my research right then and there and she had not liked a single one of his pictures. Shes not friends with him on facebook and no text messages to blink an eye over. She's a seriously trust worthy girl and we have an amazing bond, i can see myself marrying her with no issues. But seeing his name in the search bar is really messing with my head. To add, her reaction was the exact same reaction i had given when she would question me and i was telling her the truth even though i knew she wouldnt beleive me. I have a tendency to over think, but am i being to harsh, over reacting, or turning nothing in to something? We both deleted instagram seeing it to be an insecurity issue that could be toxic to our relationship
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Instagram is the only issue
assistant
Me and my girlfriend have been dating for 9 months. Shes become my best friend and lover as cheesy as it sounds and the feelings are mutual. We've been on vacation together, and spend every day together, no in-betweens and if we're not together we know where each other are. We're as solid as solid can be. The only thing we ever argue over is instagram... when i post a picture (not often) i get alot of likes from girls i knew in college, meaningless, but not in her eyes. A few times it's made her really upset but we've talked it out and cleared it up that they're just friends. Yesterday the same thing happened which turned in to a huge fight with her claiming i slept with all these girls (not an ounce true, i was never much of the player). I had to delete the picture and we didn't talk until we got home. We have NEVER had trust issues, and she tossed her phone at me to look, and I went to her search... To my surprise i found a name under more recent ones that  i did not recognize.  Turns out it was the kid she was seeing before she met me. At first she could not remember why his name would even be there, and then she tried to remember claiming he came up in her feed and she was trying to unfollow him and had totally forgot about it. I did my research right then and there and she had not liked a single one of his pictures. Shes not friends with him on facebook and no text messages to blink an eye over. She's a seriously trust worthy girl and we have an amazing bond, i can see myself marrying her with no issues. But seeing his name in the search bar is really messing with my head. To add, her reaction was the exact same reaction i had given when she would question me and i was telling her the truth even though i knew she wouldnt beleive me. I have a tendency to over think, but am i being to harsh, over reacting, or turning nothing in to something? We both deleted instagram seeing it to be an insecurity issue that could be toxic to our relationship
user
found a name on instagram
assistant