I have been having a tough year in college. Some anxiety, difficulty making friends, and high stress classes. Most of the time I'm fine, but when my stress starts to mount up, I need someone to talk to. My fear is that if I talk to my girlfriend about these problems in my life, she'll see me as too much to handle/annoying/undesireable. We've been together for 4 months but have known each other much longer. Would it be better to talk about things that are bothering me, or keep them to myself? 

She is having a wonderful time at her school and I also feel as though I would be a debbie downer if I brought up negative feelings.
user
I don't want to be a downer or a no good loser, but I'm afraid to talk to my long distance gf about my problems.
assistant
I have been having a tough year in college. Some anxiety, difficulty making friends, and high stress classes. Most of the time I'm fine, but when my stress starts to mount up, I need someone to talk to. My fear is that if I talk to my girlfriend about these problems in my life, she'll see me as too much to handle/annoying/undesireable. We've been together for 4 months but have known each other much longer. Would it be better to talk about things that are bothering me, or keep them to myself? 

She is having a wonderful time at her school and I also feel as though I would be a debbie downer if I brought up negative feelings.
user
my anxiety and stress is getting in the way of my ability to be a good boyfriend and girlfriend.
assistant