Hey guys this is strange to begin with, but I''ll introduce the situation:

I'm 28, she's 20. We met while at college (I'm a returner) and on my senior year of college, we met and have been together since October of 2011 (8 months)

She's going to a different school in Chicago, I'm beginning a full-time job (nights). Save the insults, if your not a part of the solution, you're wasting my time. I understand I should be married with kids, and a house, with someone around my own age, but guess what? I'm not. 

I love this girl, but I don't have all encompassing dreams of marriage, life-long partnerships; just wondering if I'm being as stupid as the other half of my personality claims I'm being by merely staying in this relationship.

I've met most of her family who initially have an issue with my age, (parties with her peers are awkward) but once they've met me, it's usually looked past (they see I'm not just a fuck and run).

I just found this job through a referral from my ex girlfriend of 2.5 years- strange as it may be-  My current girlfriend is upset about it, but desperate times call for desperate measures. 

I could go on, but anything (besides degrading comments) will be looked into
user
I'm 28 and she's 20. We've been together for 8 months and she's moving far away.
assistant
Hey guys this is strange to begin with, but I''ll introduce the situation:

I'm 28, she's 20. We met while at college (I'm a returner) and on my senior year of college, we met and have been together since October of 2011 (8 months)

She's going to a different school in Chicago, I'm beginning a full-time job (nights). Save the insults, if your not a part of the solution, you're wasting my time. I understand I should be married with kids, and a house, with someone around my own age, but guess what? I'm not. 

I love this girl, but I don't have all encompassing dreams of marriage, life-long partnerships; just wondering if I'm being as stupid as the other half of my personality claims I'm being by merely staying in this relationship.

I've met most of her family who initially have an issue with my age, (parties with her peers are awkward) but once they've met me, it's usually looked past (they see I'm not just a fuck and run).

I just found this job through a referral from my ex girlfriend of 2.5 years- strange as it may be-  My current girlfriend is upset about it, but desperate times call for desperate measures. 

I could go on, but anything (besides degrading comments) will be looked into
user
28, 20, dating 8 months, should I stay with this girl?
assistant