Hi Reddit,

As a journalist building friendships with the wider community is a very valuable thing. Often the best way to do this is to ask someone to join you for a coffee or a beer.

Generally speaking, it’s easy enough to suggest to another guy we get a drink - but with a member of the opposite sex a different dynamic can be apparent, as obviously you want to communicate an interest in the person but on the other hand I'm not seeking out a romantic relationship (I have a girlfriend).

Previously, I’ve said something like.. ‛Are you free now? I am glad to buy a coffee for your thoughts on...’ but wonder if it can’t be further refined/improved upon.
user
What is the most effective way to ask a girl to join you for a drink, without putting the onus
assistant
Hi Reddit,

As a journalist building friendships with the wider community is a very valuable thing. Often the best way to do this is to ask someone to join you for a coffee or a beer.

Generally speaking, it’s easy enough to suggest to another guy we get a drink - but with a member of the opposite sex a different dynamic can be apparent, as obviously you want to communicate an interest in the person but on the other hand I'm not seeking out a romantic relationship (I have a girlfriend).

Previously, I’ve said something like.. ‛Are you free now? I am glad to buy a coffee for your thoughts on...’ but wonder if it can’t be further refined/improved upon.
user
How can I ask a guy I don't know to a drink without it being too forward?
assistant