So I (M, 27) am at the wonderful age where everyone is starting to settle down. I am definitely not ready to get married yet, or even move in after just a year together. I am perfectly happy with Sue (27, F) and she is amazing to me, easily the best person I have ever been with. However, there is something still off and I still find myself drawn to the bachelor life. I just don't know if it is her or me. On paper, she is perfect for me and I am so happy with her. It is just this nagging fear of missing out and honestly always enjoying the "single game". No relationship is perfect, but I always had this idea that I would "know" and I wouldn't have this draw to be single again. On top of it, I don't want to lead her along for another year just to figure out that it wasn't just a phase that needed to pass. I don't think that is fair to her. There's also truth to the fact that I'm worried that anyone I would see after would not match up, due to being at the age where everyone is either settling down or has major baggage.
user
Unsure if I am going through
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So I (M, 27) am at the wonderful age where everyone is starting to settle down. I am definitely not ready to get married yet, or even move in after just a year together. I am perfectly happy with Sue (27, F) and she is amazing to me, easily the best person I have ever been with. However, there is something still off and I still find myself drawn to the bachelor life. I just don't know if it is her or me. On paper, she is perfect for me and I am so happy with her. It is just this nagging fear of missing out and honestly always enjoying the "single game". No relationship is perfect, but I always had this idea that I would "know" and I wouldn't have this draw to be single again. On top of it, I don't want to lead her along for another year just to figure out that it wasn't just a phase that needed to pass. I don't think that is fair to her. There's also truth to the fact that I'm worried that anyone I would see after would not match up, due to being at the age where everyone is either settling down or has major baggage.
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Is it she or me?
assistant