There have been some trust broken in the past with us, and I am having a rough time with this situation. I was away for a week visiting my parents, my boyfriend and I were in contact every day, nothing seemed out of the ordinary. He went out to a club with a few of my friends (Which I thought was really cool and actually made me happy to hear that he was). I didn't even think twice about it while on vacation. 

I got home yesterday and just in casual conversation (him and I sharing what he had done during the week apart) he mentioned snuggling with my friends kitten all night. I asked "which couch did you sleep on?" He replied with "FRIENDS NAME's bed" and I said "With her?" And he stumbled over his words and tried to say that she wasn't in the bed at first but then admitted that she was. When I asked him why he would try and lie to me about it he said that he "Knew it would make me upset" and that they were fully clothed and really did just sleep. 

So that begs the question: Why would he have done it if he knew it would make me upset in the first place? Not to mention that if the situation were reversed I would not have invited my friends boyfriend to sleep in my bed with me at anytime, certainly not after a night of heavy drinking...  Seems a little sketchy to me.

I feel like I need to say something about it... To both of them... Am I over-reacting?
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went out drinking and stayed the night with my friend while I was on vacation... Am I silly for feeling betrayed by both
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There have been some trust broken in the past with us, and I am having a rough time with this situation. I was away for a week visiting my parents, my boyfriend and I were in contact every day, nothing seemed out of the ordinary. He went out to a club with a few of my friends (Which I thought was really cool and actually made me happy to hear that he was). I didn't even think twice about it while on vacation. 

I got home yesterday and just in casual conversation (him and I sharing what he had done during the week apart) he mentioned snuggling with my friends kitten all night. I asked "which couch did you sleep on?" He replied with "FRIENDS NAME's bed" and I said "With her?" And he stumbled over his words and tried to say that she wasn't in the bed at first but then admitted that she was. When I asked him why he would try and lie to me about it he said that he "Knew it would make me upset" and that they were fully clothed and really did just sleep. 

So that begs the question: Why would he have done it if he knew it would make me upset in the first place? Not to mention that if the situation were reversed I would not have invited my friends boyfriend to sleep in my bed with me at anytime, certainly not after a night of heavy drinking...  Seems a little sketchy to me.

I feel like I need to say something about it... To both of them... Am I over-reacting?
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went out drinking with boyfriend of three years, stayed the night in bed with friends kitten when I was on vacation... Feel a
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