Some background:  
We have been together since our uni days, me straight out of college and him as a mature student. We originally met up just to sleep together and then we realised we were great together and things moved quickly from there. We got engaged after a year (more as a sign of commitment than actually wanting to get married) and moved in to a shared house a few months later.  
  

The Problems:  
* We don't have have sex at all any more. Last time was October when we were both completely wasted. He's been on anti-anxiety meds since before I met him which he claims it destroys his libido, but he still gets himself off a few times a week. I recently found that his material of choice is pictures of his female friends / exes.  
* I've seen messages from him on facebook to some of these friends flirting and asking for nudes. I confronted him about it and says it's normal and it's just me being insecure.  
* I also recently found out he has a fetish for young girls. I'm sure he's been on some dodgy websites but I won't accuse him as I have no proof.  
  
Apart from the physical relationship, we are as good together as we have ever been, but I don't know if I can deal with the lack of intimacy and knowing he gets turned on by his friends more than me.
user
Fiancé has no sex life. I
assistant
Some background:  
We have been together since our uni days, me straight out of college and him as a mature student. We originally met up just to sleep together and then we realised we were great together and things moved quickly from there. We got engaged after a year (more as a sign of commitment than actually wanting to get married) and moved in to a shared house a few months later.  
  

The Problems:  
* We don't have have sex at all any more. Last time was October when we were both completely wasted. He's been on anti-anxiety meds since before I met him which he claims it destroys his libido, but he still gets himself off a few times a week. I recently found that his material of choice is pictures of his female friends / exes.  
* I've seen messages from him on facebook to some of these friends flirting and asking for nudes. I confronted him about it and says it's normal and it's just me being insecure.  
* I also recently found out he has a fetish for young girls. I'm sure he's been on some dodgy websites but I won't accuse him as I have no proof.  
  
Apart from the physical relationship, we are as good together as we have ever been, but I don't know if I can deal with the lack of intimacy and knowing he gets turned on by his friends more than me.
user
Fiance gets turned on by his
assistant