So my boyfriend and I are both graduating from college in May and there is a bit of an unspoken agreement that we are not going to stay together after we graduate, but we decided to talk about it once we reach the bridge

Recently, I have had feelings that maybe we should just break up now because it seems arbitrary to wait until May or whenever the other moves away for a job when we know its coming anyway. I have this weird feeling of being in limbo and am not sure if I just cut ties now while I am with friends and not in a completely different and new place. 

Lastly, I have also started to look at other men when I'm out with friends. I'm not sure if thats just cause I feel uncertain or a sign that I should just end it

I was just hoping that maybe some people had been in similar boats and could shed some light. Thanks!
user
How can I know if I should just end things now or wait to see if
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So my boyfriend and I are both graduating from college in May and there is a bit of an unspoken agreement that we are not going to stay together after we graduate, but we decided to talk about it once we reach the bridge

Recently, I have had feelings that maybe we should just break up now because it seems arbitrary to wait until May or whenever the other moves away for a job when we know its coming anyway. I have this weird feeling of being in limbo and am not sure if I just cut ties now while I am with friends and not in a completely different and new place. 

Lastly, I have also started to look at other men when I'm out with friends. I'm not sure if thats just cause I feel uncertain or a sign that I should just end it

I was just hoping that maybe some people had been in similar boats and could shed some light. Thanks!
user
Boyfriend and I are graduating soon and not planning to stay together, but that doesn't mean
assistant