There's this girl I've known for about 3 years, always had some feeling for her.

We talked a lot during that time, about almost anything and I also helped her out with some personal problems she had.

I finally told her my feelings last January. She sais that while she was flattered, she didn't have the same feelings for me.

So I broke contact...

But then after a while she started contacting me again and I started to respond, thinking I got over her. But I realised after awhile that my feelings for her were still the same.

So I went for a second try and this time she said yes, after about 10 seconds of silence.

I though everthing would be awesome from now on. I was pretty wrong. First when I texted her that I miss her she responded by saying that she wasn't at the point of missing me and that she wanted to take things slow.

Nowadays it's never her that initiates contact anymore, neither does she snuggle up to me without me asking her to, she doesn't want to stay over at my place and she doesn't respond when I text her a <3.

All this has got me thinking that I manipulated her into this relationship; She realised that if she said no to a relationship a second time we would stop texting etc. completely. So she said yes, so that she wouldn't loose me.

That's my theory, because if she really wanted to be in this relationship, then she would take some initiative, right?

This entire thing is making me miserable, so I'm actively thinking about ending it for her sake. I don't want her to be in a relationship she doesn't want
user
fell for a girl. she said yes after some time of no contact. now she doesn't initiate contact and everything is slowly
assistant
There's this girl I've known for about 3 years, always had some feeling for her.

We talked a lot during that time, about almost anything and I also helped her out with some personal problems she had.

I finally told her my feelings last January. She sais that while she was flattered, she didn't have the same feelings for me.

So I broke contact...

But then after a while she started contacting me again and I started to respond, thinking I got over her. But I realised after awhile that my feelings for her were still the same.

So I went for a second try and this time she said yes, after about 10 seconds of silence.

I though everthing would be awesome from now on. I was pretty wrong. First when I texted her that I miss her she responded by saying that she wasn't at the point of missing me and that she wanted to take things slow.

Nowadays it's never her that initiates contact anymore, neither does she snuggle up to me without me asking her to, she doesn't want to stay over at my place and she doesn't respond when I text her a <3.

All this has got me thinking that I manipulated her into this relationship; She realised that if she said no to a relationship a second time we would stop texting etc. completely. So she said yes, so that she wouldn't loose me.

That's my theory, because if she really wanted to be in this relationship, then she would take some initiative, right?

This entire thing is making me miserable, so I'm actively thinking about ending it for her sake. I don't want her to be in a relationship she doesn't want
user
really unsure wether/how to continue relationship w/ girlfriend due to lack of initiative / lack of interest. Wondering if it's worth ending
assistant