**Right so, I'm (22 F) in a relationship just under 5 years with my boyfriend (24). We have lived together for 4 years.**

Recently I don't know how I feel about the relationship, don't get me wrong I love him to bits, I really do but I don't know if we are suited. I don't know if this is just a stage I'm going through at the moment, I did go through something like this during our third year, but realised I was being silly.

Recently we tend to be a little grumpy with each other, not very very tactful or sensitive to each others feelings. It's on both ends but obviously I don't know what he's thinking... He says he loves me and wants to be in this relationship and any time we tend to get a little mean, it's blamed on me for being a hormonal woman, which grates on my nerves and doesn't really help the situation.

There's a few other things that bother me in the relationship and I feel I shouldn't be complaining about them seens that I have put up with them for several years now. He doesn't compliment me at all, unless provoked, and then I only get them in a joking way and am told that what I get for fishing for compliments. Also another thing, hasn't bothered me until now but it's starting unfortunately, he tends to stay up til all hours and sleep all day so I spend alot of time by myself, and to top it he gigs around the country on weekends so I don't see him then either.

I guess I just kind of want to start having a more grown up relationship and a relationship where I feel that he is attracted to me and wants to spend time with me, I presume this isn't a weird or strange need, but what did I do? Should I stay, or should I leave and try and find what I want in another person? Will he ever change, well not change I love him as is but there are little things, that I don't think would change him, but more to the point enhance him!
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Boyfriend is a little on the immature side, not sure if I should stick it out or not.
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**Right so, I'm (22 F) in a relationship just under 5 years with my boyfriend (24). We have lived together for 4 years.**

Recently I don't know how I feel about the relationship, don't get me wrong I love him to bits, I really do but I don't know if we are suited. I don't know if this is just a stage I'm going through at the moment, I did go through something like this during our third year, but realised I was being silly.

Recently we tend to be a little grumpy with each other, not very very tactful or sensitive to each others feelings. It's on both ends but obviously I don't know what he's thinking... He says he loves me and wants to be in this relationship and any time we tend to get a little mean, it's blamed on me for being a hormonal woman, which grates on my nerves and doesn't really help the situation.

There's a few other things that bother me in the relationship and I feel I shouldn't be complaining about them seens that I have put up with them for several years now. He doesn't compliment me at all, unless provoked, and then I only get them in a joking way and am told that what I get for fishing for compliments. Also another thing, hasn't bothered me until now but it's starting unfortunately, he tends to stay up til all hours and sleep all day so I spend alot of time by myself, and to top it he gigs around the country on weekends so I don't see him then either.

I guess I just kind of want to start having a more grown up relationship and a relationship where I feel that he is attracted to me and wants to spend time with me, I presume this isn't a weird or strange need, but what did I do? Should I stay, or should I leave and try and find what I want in another person? Will he ever change, well not change I love him as is but there are little things, that I don't think would change him, but more to the point enhance him!
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Boyfriend says I'm always reason for fights due to hormones, very annoying, other things are starting to bother me, Will be ever be
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