A pregnancy test came up positive few days back. The reason, I was careless. We discussed it, figured we didn't want the baby right now. We got married last year and decided that we'll wait 2-3 years as both of us are young. We are not broke but I would like to raise my child without worrying about healthcare expenses. Even with insurance I can't bear hospital bills on my own if something went wrong. 

Her family would be ecstatic about the prospects of a baby. My parents and siblings however would be more logical and chide me for being careless. I think would still be in favour of keeping the baby. 

I am not a very emotional person. Every decision I take is on logic, at least I think so. Right now as nurses prep my wife for the abortion I am having a panic attack. I have held my own in a bad car crash and helped others even with a broken arm. This has never happened to me before. 

A massive feeling of guilt is over me. I didn't share it with any of my friends or family members. I can only watch my wife from a distance and imagine the pain she has to go through. 

I can't help to think if we made the right decision. Was it logical or more because i won't have my family's approval. A scene of some movie where someone explains how a foetus is aborted keeps flashing in my head. Have any of you dealt with something similar?
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I was careless. Pregnancy test came positive. We decided to abort. Now its only
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A pregnancy test came up positive few days back. The reason, I was careless. We discussed it, figured we didn't want the baby right now. We got married last year and decided that we'll wait 2-3 years as both of us are young. We are not broke but I would like to raise my child without worrying about healthcare expenses. Even with insurance I can't bear hospital bills on my own if something went wrong. 

Her family would be ecstatic about the prospects of a baby. My parents and siblings however would be more logical and chide me for being careless. I think would still be in favour of keeping the baby. 

I am not a very emotional person. Every decision I take is on logic, at least I think so. Right now as nurses prep my wife for the abortion I am having a panic attack. I have held my own in a bad car crash and helped others even with a broken arm. This has never happened to me before. 

A massive feeling of guilt is over me. I didn't share it with any of my friends or family members. I can only watch my wife from a distance and imagine the pain she has to go through. 

I can't help to think if we made the right decision. Was it logical or more because i won't have my family's approval. A scene of some movie where someone explains how a foetus is aborted keeps flashing in my head. Have any of you dealt with something similar?
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I was careless, pregnant, and had an abortion. Wondering if I was right to
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