Hi,

My girlfriend of 1 year has shattered my trust, and I am left wondering if this is something I should continue. I have been traveling for work where I go away for 2-3 weeks at a time, then I am home for a month. This happened while I had been away for about 2 weeks. 

She was with her girlfriends at a bar, and got really drunk because a guy she met was buying her and her friends drinks and shots. Her girlfriends left her alone with him at the end of the night, and she says that she got in a taxi with him. During the taxi ride to HIS PLACE he tried to kiss her 3 times, and she says that she said no every time and pushed him away. Then apparently she threw up in the cab, never got out when they got to his place, then they BOTH went back to her place. She says they both got out and he "ran away". She facetimed me immediately after telling me first how much she loves me etc. over and over then telling me the above story. She insists that she never kissed him or did anything with him. The bar closed at 2am and she called me at 2:30am.

I'm not sure what to think reddit. I don't believe that nothing happened. Why did she get in a cab with him? Why did she allow him to take her back to his place, even if she allegedly didn't go in? Why didn't she stop him and get out and get her own taxi home? My mind is filled of doubt and I keep replaying the night over and over in my mind.

Please help reddit - I really love this girl, and the amazing year we've had, but I'm not sure if I can work past this. I will be talking with her in a couple days, and I'd love some advice on how to address this. What questions should I ask? How should I approach this? What does she need to do if we move forward?

Thanks.
user
Girlfriend got drunk with another
assistant
Hi,

My girlfriend of 1 year has shattered my trust, and I am left wondering if this is something I should continue. I have been traveling for work where I go away for 2-3 weeks at a time, then I am home for a month. This happened while I had been away for about 2 weeks. 

She was with her girlfriends at a bar, and got really drunk because a guy she met was buying her and her friends drinks and shots. Her girlfriends left her alone with him at the end of the night, and she says that she got in a taxi with him. During the taxi ride to HIS PLACE he tried to kiss her 3 times, and she says that she said no every time and pushed him away. Then apparently she threw up in the cab, never got out when they got to his place, then they BOTH went back to her place. She says they both got out and he "ran away". She facetimed me immediately after telling me first how much she loves me etc. over and over then telling me the above story. She insists that she never kissed him or did anything with him. The bar closed at 2am and she called me at 2:30am.

I'm not sure what to think reddit. I don't believe that nothing happened. Why did she get in a cab with him? Why did she allow him to take her back to his place, even if she allegedly didn't go in? Why didn't she stop him and get out and get her own taxi home? My mind is filled of doubt and I keep replaying the night over and over in my mind.

Please help reddit - I really love this girl, and the amazing year we've had, but I'm not sure if I can work past this. I will be talking with her in a couple days, and I'd love some advice on how to address this. What questions should I ask? How should I approach this? What does she need to do if we move forward?

Thanks.
user
Girlfriend left a bar with
assistant