Hi ladies. I'm a 31 yo man engaged to my 28 lady. Lately I feel like things on the bedroom have gotten "routine". We both still orgasm and I love cunnilingus but I feel there is something lacking.
Recently I've been asking her questions like "what do you think about that really turns you on?" Or "what do you think about our could be done or said to make your panties wet without direct sexual acts" all of which she had replied "I dunno, I really can't say."
I've asked does dirty talk, dom/sub, toys ect. And i still don't get an answer.
I feel like I'm not doing my best at making sure she has the best O and want to see if they is anything else I can do to make her legs shake and a wet spot on the bed.
Maybe I see all the stuff people here on reddit do and feel like I'm not doing it all. But she is also reserved. What can I do Thanks

I know it may be me looking for something different but how do I find what she is comfortable with and how far to go if she is not very vocal?
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Want to know something to make my wife cum more.
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Hi ladies. I'm a 31 yo man engaged to my 28 lady. Lately I feel like things on the bedroom have gotten "routine". We both still orgasm and I love cunnilingus but I feel there is something lacking.
Recently I've been asking her questions like "what do you think about that really turns you on?" Or "what do you think about our could be done or said to make your panties wet without direct sexual acts" all of which she had replied "I dunno, I really can't say."
I've asked does dirty talk, dom/sub, toys ect. And i still don't get an answer.
I feel like I'm not doing my best at making sure she has the best O and want to see if they is anything else I can do to make her legs shake and a wet spot on the bed.
Maybe I see all the stuff people here on reddit do and feel like I'm not doing it all. But she is also reserved. What can I do Thanks

I know it may be me looking for something different but how do I find what she is comfortable with and how far to go if she is not very vocal?
user
I am looking to find how to get into my partners heard and
assistant