As mentioned above, my exboyfriend (25m) and our mutual roommate (22f) are moving out together, as we will be losing our housing later this summer.  (Our landlord wants to sell the house, no explicit problems with residency.)  Despite our previous discussions to all go our separate ways, they have since reneged, and are looking for a residence together, leaving me (24f) out on my own to look for housing. 

He is really good friends with this girl, and has been for quite some time, even offering her this place to stay after she didn't really have any other open prospects.  His interactions with her were very intimate; this led to jealousy on my behalf, and amongst a list of other things, fueled the break-up - as I wasn't confident in "loving myself enough for him to love me." In the meantime, this girl has become one of my closest friends, rivaling that of my own sister. 

Fast forward three months, and I find that our mutual housing agreements have been aborted, through the too-loud mentioning through a closed door.  They thought I wasn't home, and went on to discuss their plans to move in together with the rest of my roommates present (one is getting married, the other is studying abroad.)  

It seems that everyone knew except for me, and I've never felt so betrayed by the people that I called my "family," several hundred miles from home.

How to cope with these feelings of isolation, lack of belonging, and betrayal?
user
Ex-boyfriend and mutual roommate are moving out together, leaving me completely on my
assistant
As mentioned above, my exboyfriend (25m) and our mutual roommate (22f) are moving out together, as we will be losing our housing later this summer.  (Our landlord wants to sell the house, no explicit problems with residency.)  Despite our previous discussions to all go our separate ways, they have since reneged, and are looking for a residence together, leaving me (24f) out on my own to look for housing. 

He is really good friends with this girl, and has been for quite some time, even offering her this place to stay after she didn't really have any other open prospects.  His interactions with her were very intimate; this led to jealousy on my behalf, and amongst a list of other things, fueled the break-up - as I wasn't confident in "loving myself enough for him to love me." In the meantime, this girl has become one of my closest friends, rivaling that of my own sister. 

Fast forward three months, and I find that our mutual housing agreements have been aborted, through the too-loud mentioning through a closed door.  They thought I wasn't home, and went on to discuss their plans to move in together with the rest of my roommates present (one is getting married, the other is studying abroad.)  

It seems that everyone knew except for me, and I've never felt so betrayed by the people that I called my "family," several hundred miles from home.

How to cope with these feelings of isolation, lack of belonging, and betrayal?
user
Ex-boyfriend and mutual roommate are moving in together, and I'm left out on
assistant