We've hurt each other so much and I'm pretty sure that the damage is unfixable. It's incredibly frightening to move forward in my life without someone who has been around for so long. I've definitely neglected myself and instead chose to focus mainly on the relationship… it's like I don't know how to be my own person anymore.

Don't be like me, guys. Cultivate your own shit before deciding to be some bitch ass martyr for love. 

Any advice for getting my confidence back? I work from home and manage my own hours, so I'm finding it impossible to be productive when all I want to do is turn on some sad old bastard music and cry all over my keyboard.
user
I'm scared to start my own life because I don't know what to do with my life right now.
assistant
We've hurt each other so much and I'm pretty sure that the damage is unfixable. It's incredibly frightening to move forward in my life without someone who has been around for so long. I've definitely neglected myself and instead chose to focus mainly on the relationship… it's like I don't know how to be my own person anymore.

Don't be like me, guys. Cultivate your own shit before deciding to be some bitch ass martyr for love. 

Any advice for getting my confidence back? I work from home and manage my own hours, so I'm finding it impossible to be productive when all I want to do is turn on some sad old bastard music and cry all over my keyboard.
user
Broke up a 7 year relationship and I'm scared to start a new one. Should I just end it?
assistant