I've been seeing a guy for the past couple of weeks that I met on OKC. It actually took a lot of persuading on his part, but we hung out and it turns out he's pretty sweet. We've seen each other roughly once a week over the past month or so which has been lovely, and I'm starting to feel comfortable with him. I would increase the frequency of the dates but we agreed to take it slowly. I also work and am in the middle of sorting out a very important masters application, which takes up all of my free time in the week.  

We slept together on the third & fourth dates, which I now realise may have been a mistake for a few reasons. I'm not sure where I stand with him, and now I'm too shy to ask. I don't think it's a purely sexual thing but I'm thinking sex probably shouldn't have come into the equation so soon. I don't want restrict him to seeing just me as we're only going to be going on our fifth date at the weekend, but I don't know how comfortable I feel with him potentially seeing/sleeping with other women. How do I bring this up without seeming too clingy?
user
been seeing a guy for the past couple of weeks who I'm comfortable with, but don't know where I stand
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I've been seeing a guy for the past couple of weeks that I met on OKC. It actually took a lot of persuading on his part, but we hung out and it turns out he's pretty sweet. We've seen each other roughly once a week over the past month or so which has been lovely, and I'm starting to feel comfortable with him. I would increase the frequency of the dates but we agreed to take it slowly. I also work and am in the middle of sorting out a very important masters application, which takes up all of my free time in the week.  

We slept together on the third & fourth dates, which I now realise may have been a mistake for a few reasons. I'm not sure where I stand with him, and now I'm too shy to ask. I don't think it's a purely sexual thing but I'm thinking sex probably shouldn't have come into the equation so soon. I don't want restrict him to seeing just me as we're only going to be going on our fifth date at the weekend, but I don't know how comfortable I feel with him potentially seeing/sleeping with other women. How do I bring this up without seeming too clingy?
user
Seeing a great guy for just over a month, have slept with him twice but wondering whether to ask if
assistant