Me and my ex broke up a week ago, we had a 6y relationship and we're both 23. I broke up with him because he was very emotionally and borderline physically abusive.
during the relationship, i lost all my friends because of him except for one and he still has all of his.
After the break up, he begged for me back and obviously I refused, then I met him yesterday (i know this is a big no no, but I dont know why i did it) and he seems to have completely forgotten about me, he has tons of plans with his friends and stuff to do, and he seems so happy
I don't want him back but I still feel sad emotions about the whole thing, last weekend I was feeling happy and hopeful about the future and relieved that I don't have to deal with his abuse anymore, this week I'm a total mess.. what gives? why am i jealous that he moved on? I'm not jealous because Im not in his life anymore, Im jealous that me managed to just switch his feelings button to OFF and I still get sad about it.
Will this ever go away? or am I stuck in this pit of doom forever? :(
user
Me and abusive ex broke up a week ago. he seems extremely happy now despite me feeling kinda jealously about it. why are my emotions so strong now and wont they go
assistant
Me and my ex broke up a week ago, we had a 6y relationship and we're both 23. I broke up with him because he was very emotionally and borderline physically abusive.
during the relationship, i lost all my friends because of him except for one and he still has all of his.
After the break up, he begged for me back and obviously I refused, then I met him yesterday (i know this is a big no no, but I dont know why i did it) and he seems to have completely forgotten about me, he has tons of plans with his friends and stuff to do, and he seems so happy
I don't want him back but I still feel sad emotions about the whole thing, last weekend I was feeling happy and hopeful about the future and relieved that I don't have to deal with his abuse anymore, this week I'm a total mess.. what gives? why am i jealous that he moved on? I'm not jealous because Im not in his life anymore, Im jealous that me managed to just switch his feelings button to OFF and I still get sad about it.
Will this ever go away? or am I stuck in this pit of doom forever? :(
user
abusive ex who I tried to break up with a week ago is fully over me and idk why i feel so negative about it.. should i just let it go?
assistant