Boyfriend, John, decided that he didn't want me going out for girls night anymore after I did something he did not approve of (swung on the stripper pole). Once he said that, I told him that if I can't go out I don't want him to hang out with his best friend, Tom, because we don't really get along. My boyfriend agreed that if I don't go out he won't see Tom. I soon took back my statement because that was immature (I'm still not allowed to go out though). Unfortunately I didn't take the statement back before I informed Tom that John and him could no longer hang out.

Tom is now upset about the situation even though they can hang out and it's no problem. My boyfriend told me that if they don't fix their friendship he's going to blame me for their falling out, which I don't think is fair. I gave him the choice. I told him at the time he could choose to hang out with me and have no more Tom since I'm not allowed to go out or dump me and have Tom. He choose me. If Tom chooses not to be friends with my boyfriend anymore is that my fault?
user
Boyfriend will blame me if his friendship falls apart because I didn't go out with him.
assistant
Boyfriend, John, decided that he didn't want me going out for girls night anymore after I did something he did not approve of (swung on the stripper pole). Once he said that, I told him that if I can't go out I don't want him to hang out with his best friend, Tom, because we don't really get along. My boyfriend agreed that if I don't go out he won't see Tom. I soon took back my statement because that was immature (I'm still not allowed to go out though). Unfortunately I didn't take the statement back before I informed Tom that John and him could no longer hang out.

Tom is now upset about the situation even though they can hang out and it's no problem. My boyfriend told me that if they don't fix their friendship he's going to blame me for their falling out, which I don't think is fair. I gave him the choice. I told him at the time he could choose to hang out with me and have no more Tom since I'm not allowed to go out or dump me and have Tom. He choose me. If Tom chooses not to be friends with my boyfriend anymore is that my fault?
user
boyfriend can't hang out with his best friend anymore because it's not a good time. Boyfriend doesn't want me to go out
assistant