Recently we've both been under quite a bit of stress because of uni. I've been wanting to see her (she lives 100 miles away but we're at uni in the same city) but she kept saying she was busy sorting everything out for uni (she's going into first year, I'm starting my second) and it kept escalating into little arguments since she thought that I didn't understand how important uni is to her. Also I asked about seeing her on her on her birthday and she kept complaining that since her birthday is the first day of freshers' week, she'd be too busy making friends, getting pissed etc. and didn't want to miss out on that. Yesterday I asked about it again and she broke up with me, saying that even though she loves me and wants to be with me it seems like the only option right now because I'm "not giving her the space she needs for uni." She insists that once freshers' is over, we can try and sort everything out and maybe get back together. She keeps on saying she "has to do this" because she's given me chance after chance to stop mentioning it. I know I'm a dickhead, I just really wanted to see her.

I just want her back right now. I don't think I can handle going over a month with that uncertainty but I love her so much. I'm seeing her a week on Tuesday to discuss things in person (she did it via text while I'm on holiday) but I just don't know what to do. I know she loves me. Everything was fine until yesterday, after that last argument.
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GF broke up with me "for now" because she's "too busy" for
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Recently we've both been under quite a bit of stress because of uni. I've been wanting to see her (she lives 100 miles away but we're at uni in the same city) but she kept saying she was busy sorting everything out for uni (she's going into first year, I'm starting my second) and it kept escalating into little arguments since she thought that I didn't understand how important uni is to her. Also I asked about seeing her on her on her birthday and she kept complaining that since her birthday is the first day of freshers' week, she'd be too busy making friends, getting pissed etc. and didn't want to miss out on that. Yesterday I asked about it again and she broke up with me, saying that even though she loves me and wants to be with me it seems like the only option right now because I'm "not giving her the space she needs for uni." She insists that once freshers' is over, we can try and sort everything out and maybe get back together. She keeps on saying she "has to do this" because she's given me chance after chance to stop mentioning it. I know I'm a dickhead, I just really wanted to see her.

I just want her back right now. I don't think I can handle going over a month with that uncertainty but I love her so much. I'm seeing her a week on Tuesday to discuss things in person (she did it via text while I'm on holiday) but I just don't know what to do. I know she loves me. Everything was fine until yesterday, after that last argument.
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my girlfriend broke up with me because I wanted to see her
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