First post:

Update 1: 
Update 2: 

So a few things before I get to the update. 1.) yes, my husband is in therapy to deal with the car crash 2.) Alex wasn't terribly close to my husbands family. He cried, but wasn't devastated like my husband is.

So this is a pretty happy update, and I think we should be done unless anything else happens.

My mother in law had a tradition before she died that every year in October wed dress up nicely and take pictures in a pumpkin patch. She knew it was silly, but we always had a lot of laughs and it was very fun.

I thought it wouldn't go through this year due to her recent passing, but Alex gave my husband an amazing gift. He came over, and while crying told my husband that he had booked a photographer and A location  and in a few hours we were going to get the photos "for nan, because I know she'll know that we did it. And it will make her so happy."

So we went and did the photos. Pretty much everybody cried but we had a great time. My husband even invited Oliver to join for a few of the photos.

Alex apologized for not inviting him. He explained that the courthouse wedding wasn't planned and he honestly just didn't think it through. He said that he wanted my husband to help wth planning the next one.

... And they've already started! They're looking at venues and colors and flowers.

I think something that really helped my husband accept it was seeing Alex and Oliver interact. We haven't gotten many chances to see them act like a couple due to the secrecy and short time they've been publicly out to us.

When Oliver joined us for coffe at the house they wee cuddled up and joking. They acted a lot like us and that made Niall (my husband) realize that they were serious and that this wasn't a joke.
I think we should all be okay. Alex's siblings also forgave him and they're staying the night at his (three bedroom!!!! I'm jealous man) apartment. So yeah.
user
Alex and Oliver are finally talking and are full of life. Alex's family has forgiven
assistant
First post:

Update 1: 
Update 2: 

So a few things before I get to the update. 1.) yes, my husband is in therapy to deal with the car crash 2.) Alex wasn't terribly close to my husbands family. He cried, but wasn't devastated like my husband is.

So this is a pretty happy update, and I think we should be done unless anything else happens.

My mother in law had a tradition before she died that every year in October wed dress up nicely and take pictures in a pumpkin patch. She knew it was silly, but we always had a lot of laughs and it was very fun.

I thought it wouldn't go through this year due to her recent passing, but Alex gave my husband an amazing gift. He came over, and while crying told my husband that he had booked a photographer and A location  and in a few hours we were going to get the photos "for nan, because I know she'll know that we did it. And it will make her so happy."

So we went and did the photos. Pretty much everybody cried but we had a great time. My husband even invited Oliver to join for a few of the photos.

Alex apologized for not inviting him. He explained that the courthouse wedding wasn't planned and he honestly just didn't think it through. He said that he wanted my husband to help wth planning the next one.

... And they've already started! They're looking at venues and colors and flowers.

I think something that really helped my husband accept it was seeing Alex and Oliver interact. We haven't gotten many chances to see them act like a couple due to the secrecy and short time they've been publicly out to us.

When Oliver joined us for coffe at the house they wee cuddled up and joking. They acted a lot like us and that made Niall (my husband) realize that they were serious and that this wasn't a joke.
I think we should all be okay. Alex's siblings also forgave him and they're staying the night at his (three bedroom!!!! I'm jealous man) apartment. So yeah.
user
Alex and Oliver did a big thing for me and my husband. I'm happy and
assistant