Back in December I went out to a club with a group of friends. We were all having a good night. I ended up spending most of the night dancing with a guy, not a lot of talking happened but he had fun dancing together. My friend literally dragged me away because we had to go and I think he asked for my phone number but I was unable to give it to him.  
  
He lives in a different state than me, so I wasn't obsessing over finding him. Some of my friends ended up going out with his mutual friends a few nights later, but he had already gone back home. I later found out he plays for a sports team, so there were opportunities for him to be back in my area in the future.  
  
Fast forward a few months to the last few weeks and I find myself thinking about what I may have missed out on. I was able to come across his facebook page and obviously now have the opportunity to message him.  
  
I'm not sure if doing so would make me come off as extremely creepy and if I should just move on. I'm not looking for anything serious at the time and see it as something that could just be fun. So I'm not sure if it is even worth pursuing. Any insight?
user
Met someone 4 months ago at a club, found out he lives in a different state and he plays for a sports
assistant
Back in December I went out to a club with a group of friends. We were all having a good night. I ended up spending most of the night dancing with a guy, not a lot of talking happened but he had fun dancing together. My friend literally dragged me away because we had to go and I think he asked for my phone number but I was unable to give it to him.  
  
He lives in a different state than me, so I wasn't obsessing over finding him. Some of my friends ended up going out with his mutual friends a few nights later, but he had already gone back home. I later found out he plays for a sports team, so there were opportunities for him to be back in my area in the future.  
  
Fast forward a few months to the last few weeks and I find myself thinking about what I may have missed out on. I was able to come across his facebook page and obviously now have the opportunity to message him.  
  
I'm not sure if doing so would make me come off as extremely creepy and if I should just move on. I'm not looking for anything serious at the time and see it as something that could just be fun. So I'm not sure if it is even worth pursuing. Any insight?
user
Met a guy through a club, made new friends, found his facebook. Should I message him?
assistant