Hi everyone,

I [m20] want to break up with my gf [f22] of two years. I've thought really long about this and I'm sure about my decision. She's the sweetest, nicest girl I've ever met, but still I often catch myself thinking how I want to spent more time with my friends and such when I'm with her (other things as well, but this is what it boils down to, more freedom and stuff).

So my question is what, or better when would be the best way/time to tell her? We had a rough patch a couple of months ago, but since than things have all cleared up, and it really worked well again, but my side of the story has returned again, and I'm sure she doesn't expect this at all.

Would it be best to just tell her that I'm breaking up with her, and why (keep it short), or give her time to ask questions. Where would be the best (her dormroom, her parental house, public place (don't think so), etc.). I'm just trying to make this as easy as possible for her, because I'm positive she will be devistated.
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I'm breaking up with my gf. How would you tell her?
assistant
Hi everyone,

I [m20] want to break up with my gf [f22] of two years. I've thought really long about this and I'm sure about my decision. She's the sweetest, nicest girl I've ever met, but still I often catch myself thinking how I want to spent more time with my friends and such when I'm with her (other things as well, but this is what it boils down to, more freedom and stuff).

So my question is what, or better when would be the best way/time to tell her? We had a rough patch a couple of months ago, but since than things have all cleared up, and it really worked well again, but my side of the story has returned again, and I'm sure she doesn't expect this at all.

Would it be best to just tell her that I'm breaking up with her, and why (keep it short), or give her time to ask questions. Where would be the best (her dormroom, her parental house, public place (don't think so), etc.). I'm just trying to make this as easy as possible for her, because I'm positive she will be devistated.
user
I'm breaking up with gf dm20, but want to do it in a way that's not too painful and I don't want her to be devastated, what do I do?**
assistant