I found out this morning after taking a couple at home pregnancy tests that I am 4 weeks pregnant. I called and asked the father, let's call him Steve, to come over immediately so that I could tell him. 
He was very calm and comforting when I could barely get the words out and started crying. We are not even officially dating, so this obviously wasn't planned. 
The conversation turned sour when he brought up abortion and seemed shocked that I didn't see it as the clear option. 
He took me to the doctors, where they confirmed that I am indeed pregnant. After the appointment we sat down and talked it through and he is very adamant that we should not have this child. I don't think I could ever have an abortion. 
He is being very emotionally supportive, and I can tell that this is affecting him very heavily, but I now feel like I'm trapped in a situation where I look naive and stupid trying get him to change his mind.
He says that he will be there for me regardless, and help me raise this child, but how do I bring a child into the world that isn't wanted by his father? What if Steve resents me and this child forever? I know that this is ultimately my decision, but how do I try to get him to see my point of view? We have an appointment with a pregnancy counselor next week.
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My boyfriend wants me to get an abortion. How do I convince
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I found out this morning after taking a couple at home pregnancy tests that I am 4 weeks pregnant. I called and asked the father, let's call him Steve, to come over immediately so that I could tell him. 
He was very calm and comforting when I could barely get the words out and started crying. We are not even officially dating, so this obviously wasn't planned. 
The conversation turned sour when he brought up abortion and seemed shocked that I didn't see it as the clear option. 
He took me to the doctors, where they confirmed that I am indeed pregnant. After the appointment we sat down and talked it through and he is very adamant that we should not have this child. I don't think I could ever have an abortion. 
He is being very emotionally supportive, and I can tell that this is affecting him very heavily, but I now feel like I'm trapped in a situation where I look naive and stupid trying get him to change his mind.
He says that he will be there for me regardless, and help me raise this child, but how do I bring a child into the world that isn't wanted by his father? What if Steve resents me and this child forever? I know that this is ultimately my decision, but how do I try to get him to see my point of view? We have an appointment with a pregnancy counselor next week.
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I'm pregnant with a child that he doesn't want, and I want
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