First of all I apologize for my english as it is not my first language

The issue is very simple, I have been in an ldr with a girl for almost a year after we both had to move away from our country for our respective jobs.

in 6 months we could be back toghether and we are working for this to happen.

problem is a few months ago and againg a few weeks ago a guy (old friend of her) stayed for a few days at her place. that would not have been a problem with me but she felt the need to specify many times that he is actually gay.

well I found now that he is not a at all gay and now i feel that I have lost any trust I had in her, I feel somehow betrayed even if I do not think she cheated.

I tried to speak with her about this but I only got evasive responces at first negating any lie (even if she aknowledges knowing that he was infact not gay) and that I'm the unreasonable person here

I'm over reacting? and at the same time can some girl explain to me why she would feel the need to lie?
user
gf lied to me about
assistant
First of all I apologize for my english as it is not my first language

The issue is very simple, I have been in an ldr with a girl for almost a year after we both had to move away from our country for our respective jobs.

in 6 months we could be back toghether and we are working for this to happen.

problem is a few months ago and againg a few weeks ago a guy (old friend of her) stayed for a few days at her place. that would not have been a problem with me but she felt the need to specify many times that he is actually gay.

well I found now that he is not a at all gay and now i feel that I have lost any trust I had in her, I feel somehow betrayed even if I do not think she cheated.

I tried to speak with her about this but I only got evasive responces at first negating any lie (even if she aknowledges knowing that he was infact not gay) and that I'm the unreasonable person here

I'm over reacting? and at the same time can some girl explain to me why she would feel the need to lie?
user
she lied to me about
assistant