So I met a girl, we went out like twice, we chatted a lot on facebook, everything was fine and then out of blue she starts ignoring me.

We haven't seen each other for past 2 weeks because whenever I asked her out she was doing something else ("sorry, I'm busy doing XXX") and I was like: "it's fine, I'll text you later, have a nice day".

It was like this for the past 2 weeks. At some point I texted her in the morning on facebook - no answer, I was a little worried I did something wrong or said something that might offended her so I politely asked her couple hours later if she was mad at me for something.

She said that she is really sorry, she's busy. She knows I text her, I ask her out to do cool things, I offer my time and all she does is rescheduling our meetings or canceling them. She added that in my eyes it might looks a little uneven and on my place she probably would give up. She also added that she can't "repay" for that because she simply doesn't have time now.

Soo... I guess, this is not going to happen, right? All I can read out of her behaviour is politely telling me to, well, "fuck off". But then again, why would she apologize me? To make me feel better? Out of pitty? I probably should stop bothering her.

I'm not really experienced in dating - ok fine, I'm unexperienced, absolutely 0. My question is... is this how you blow people off?
user
Rescheduling, canceling meetings for a longer period of time = "fuck off" ?
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So I met a girl, we went out like twice, we chatted a lot on facebook, everything was fine and then out of blue she starts ignoring me.

We haven't seen each other for past 2 weeks because whenever I asked her out she was doing something else ("sorry, I'm busy doing XXX") and I was like: "it's fine, I'll text you later, have a nice day".

It was like this for the past 2 weeks. At some point I texted her in the morning on facebook - no answer, I was a little worried I did something wrong or said something that might offended her so I politely asked her couple hours later if she was mad at me for something.

She said that she is really sorry, she's busy. She knows I text her, I ask her out to do cool things, I offer my time and all she does is rescheduling our meetings or canceling them. She added that in my eyes it might looks a little uneven and on my place she probably would give up. She also added that she can't "repay" for that because she simply doesn't have time now.

Soo... I guess, this is not going to happen, right? All I can read out of her behaviour is politely telling me to, well, "fuck off". But then again, why would she apologize me? To make me feel better? Out of pitty? I probably should stop bothering her.

I'm not really experienced in dating - ok fine, I'm unexperienced, absolutely 0. My question is... is this how you blow people off?
user
Girl I met, went out twice, stopped talking, but still to this day
assistant