At the end of January my best friend cut me off for what felt like no reason. We were in the middle of a very tiny fight, and then it turned into the cold war. I got a little explanation two months later, a vague hint that "things were too negative," but honestly she must've been lying extraordinarily well that whole time because I never felt anything negative between us. Maybe I'm an idiot though!

After all this time, the irrationality of it could make sense if she's depressed. She has a history of mental distress. She's been diagnosed with severe anxiety, which she sees someone for, but depression has always been in her life, too. She was suicidal about 10 years ago, and goes through very dark times depending on her life circumstances. The last time we spoke she was dealing with a difficult medical diagnosis, great stress from her close friends, and a scary restructuring at her office. 2015 was a truly back breaking year for her on every level.

I was her friend through all of that, and we would plow right into mental health issues together. Now I'm starting to realize I may need to take her health into account if I want to restart this friendship. I could be wrong (maybe I was an asshole!), but I'm looking for advice on what to do if this is depression speaking, not my friend.
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My best friend stopped speaking to me six months ago. She has a
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At the end of January my best friend cut me off for what felt like no reason. We were in the middle of a very tiny fight, and then it turned into the cold war. I got a little explanation two months later, a vague hint that "things were too negative," but honestly she must've been lying extraordinarily well that whole time because I never felt anything negative between us. Maybe I'm an idiot though!

After all this time, the irrationality of it could make sense if she's depressed. She has a history of mental distress. She's been diagnosed with severe anxiety, which she sees someone for, but depression has always been in her life, too. She was suicidal about 10 years ago, and goes through very dark times depending on her life circumstances. The last time we spoke she was dealing with a difficult medical diagnosis, great stress from her close friends, and a scary restructuring at her office. 2015 was a truly back breaking year for her on every level.

I was her friend through all of that, and we would plow right into mental health issues together. Now I'm starting to realize I may need to take her health into account if I want to restart this friendship. I could be wrong (maybe I was an asshole!), but I'm looking for advice on what to do if this is depression speaking, not my friend.
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My best friend broke up with me because of her depression at work,
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