Okay so, we went on a date. It. Was. Stellar. We both had an amazing time. We even went to a pride parade, and she thought it was beautiful! She wishes her home country could celebrate like that. So it's not that she's homophobic. But around the end of the date, she found out I was bi. I didn't think it would be a big deal.

But now she is concerned that she cannot fulfill me in the way I need, and doesn't want to hold me back. This is a case of her just not understanding how it all works, she's even admitted as much, and I don't hold it against her.

And before anyone says "She's just using this as an excuse to cancel" /she/ made the second date before she found out about my sexuality. It would have been easier if I just kept my mouth shut, because if I'm with her, that part of me wouldn't matter. I'm happy to be monogamous with one gender or another. 

Can anyone give me advice on how to let her know that that is the case? I've tried saying that I wouldn't need that part of me, but she's so unsure.
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My bi girlfriend seems to not understand the concept of monogamy and wants to do more than she can before she'll be
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Okay so, we went on a date. It. Was. Stellar. We both had an amazing time. We even went to a pride parade, and she thought it was beautiful! She wishes her home country could celebrate like that. So it's not that she's homophobic. But around the end of the date, she found out I was bi. I didn't think it would be a big deal.

But now she is concerned that she cannot fulfill me in the way I need, and doesn't want to hold me back. This is a case of her just not understanding how it all works, she's even admitted as much, and I don't hold it against her.

And before anyone says "She's just using this as an excuse to cancel" /she/ made the second date before she found out about my sexuality. It would have been easier if I just kept my mouth shut, because if I'm with her, that part of me wouldn't matter. I'm happy to be monogamous with one gender or another. 

Can anyone give me advice on how to let her know that that is the case? I've tried saying that I wouldn't need that part of me, but she's so unsure.
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Girlfriend doesn't know how to date =/
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