My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years and have lived with each other the entire time. We moved to a new city and struggled to make friends initially because we're both pretty introverted. I finally took the jump to push myself out of my comfort zone and meet some lady friends and it turned out really well! My boyfriend unfortunately has not been able to push himself to do the same and I can tell there's a bit of tension because I have friends of my own, even though they all like him and welcome him with open arms.  
  
A few of the girls have asked me to live with them and I think it would be fun. My logic is that my boyfriend and I will be getting married in the next 5 years or so and that this is really my last chance to do something like this as a young adult. So I brought it up to him and it was a total disastor. He took it to mean that I must dislike living with him and that I'm abandoning him/going to break up with him. This is really not my intention at all, but I can understand his position if I were in his shoes...still I am leaning towards being selfish and seizing the opportunity. Is this wrong? Am I potentially ruining my relationship? I'm really just looking for advice and feedback on how I should possibly be handling this differently.
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I want to live with a few friends but my boyfriend is offended and
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My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years and have lived with each other the entire time. We moved to a new city and struggled to make friends initially because we're both pretty introverted. I finally took the jump to push myself out of my comfort zone and meet some lady friends and it turned out really well! My boyfriend unfortunately has not been able to push himself to do the same and I can tell there's a bit of tension because I have friends of my own, even though they all like him and welcome him with open arms.  
  
A few of the girls have asked me to live with them and I think it would be fun. My logic is that my boyfriend and I will be getting married in the next 5 years or so and that this is really my last chance to do something like this as a young adult. So I brought it up to him and it was a total disastor. He took it to mean that I must dislike living with him and that I'm abandoning him/going to break up with him. This is really not my intention at all, but I can understand his position if I were in his shoes...still I am leaning towards being selfish and seizing the opportunity. Is this wrong? Am I potentially ruining my relationship? I'm really just looking for advice and feedback on how I should possibly be handling this differently.
user
I want to live with friends and boyfriend is offended, I'm not sure how
assistant