So basically, my friend and her boyfriend invited me out to dinner last night. We had a small debate over something which we agreed to disagree on and I thought that the subject was dropped. Yet she and her boyfriend continued to argue about it, and then the argument just turned into an argument about each other. (You're being condescending, you always do this, blah blah blah) honestly I was on her side but it didn't really matter. They shouldn't have been having a personal argument in front of me, so I said "guys, stop." And she gives me the nastiest look. 

Eventually they make up, all the while I'm just sitting there awkwardly. He goes outside to smoke a cigarette and I said I was sorry, I didn't mean to start an argument. And she says that me saying "Guys, stop," was "Unecessary and unhelpful," this kind of caught me off guard so I sort of just let it go in the moment. But I'm still really bothered by it. I don't think I was obligated to A) sit there and listen to them argue, or B) Be helpful in an argument that had nothing to do with me at that point. I think I was totally justified in asking them to stop arguing.

Like I said, I just let it go in the moment, but I'm still really bothered that she felt like I was the one in the wrong here. Should I tell her this or should I just let it go? I feel like enough time has passed that it would be kind of petty to bring it up again, especially since I acted like everything was fine after. I have anxiety and get really panicky when it comes to confrontation, so if I choose to say something it's going to be a pretty big emotional and physical ordeal for me and I'm wondering if it's worth it or if I should just pick my battles.
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Friend and her boyfriend were arguing at dinner, I asked them to stop and she got offended, acted like I was in
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So basically, my friend and her boyfriend invited me out to dinner last night. We had a small debate over something which we agreed to disagree on and I thought that the subject was dropped. Yet she and her boyfriend continued to argue about it, and then the argument just turned into an argument about each other. (You're being condescending, you always do this, blah blah blah) honestly I was on her side but it didn't really matter. They shouldn't have been having a personal argument in front of me, so I said "guys, stop." And she gives me the nastiest look. 

Eventually they make up, all the while I'm just sitting there awkwardly. He goes outside to smoke a cigarette and I said I was sorry, I didn't mean to start an argument. And she says that me saying "Guys, stop," was "Unecessary and unhelpful," this kind of caught me off guard so I sort of just let it go in the moment. But I'm still really bothered by it. I don't think I was obligated to A) sit there and listen to them argue, or B) Be helpful in an argument that had nothing to do with me at that point. I think I was totally justified in asking them to stop arguing.

Like I said, I just let it go in the moment, but I'm still really bothered that she felt like I was the one in the wrong here. Should I tell her this or should I just let it go? I feel like enough time has passed that it would be kind of petty to bring it up again, especially since I acted like everything was fine after. I have anxiety and get really panicky when it comes to confrontation, so if I choose to say something it's going to be a pretty big emotional and physical ordeal for me and I'm wondering if it's worth it or if I should just pick my battles.
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Friend got pissed and yelled at me for saying "guys, stop" in an argument. Should I confront her or just let it
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