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Background: I am a 19 year old male, so I'm not too worried about any of this, I've got plenty of time ahead of me. I would consider myself self confident, independent and fairly intelligent (modest, I know). I'm also kind of, er, eccentric I guess. I don't try to be, but I'm known as "the weird kid" by almost all of my friends. I can make friends fairly easily. I've been told by a few (mostly unbiased) sources, that I could be considered attractive. I don't entirely see this, but I've heard one can feign attractiveness with confidence, so I'll assume it's that. After rereading all that, I think I'm a bit of a narcissist too. Anyway...

**(Important Part)**

My problem is this: I find it incredibly difficult to emotionally connect with anyone I've ever met. I have a capacity for empathy and everything, but my introversion is at times crippling. I find, when confronted with intimacy, I instinctively retreat within myself, and turn kind of cold and unresponsive. It happens worse, of course, when people try to flirt with me. I become distant, giving vague answers, avoiding eye contact. I'ts not pretty, and I imagine they must take it personally.

It's even begun to manifest in just plain not liking touching people now. Shaking hands is fine, but I don't like hugging, or sitting too close to even people I know well.

Of the three "relationships" I've been in, the girl had always asked me out, and I always endded it by, *ahem*, not talking to them and hoping the problem will fix itself. They never lasted more than a week or two.

I dunno reddit, this is more of a vent than anything, but I'm wondering if anyone can provide any insight.
user
I'm confident and moderately attractive, but I'm introverted to the point of deliberately avoiding relationships, and sometimes it hurts people feelings who
assistant
**(Feel free to skip over this part)**

Background: I am a 19 year old male, so I'm not too worried about any of this, I've got plenty of time ahead of me. I would consider myself self confident, independent and fairly intelligent (modest, I know). I'm also kind of, er, eccentric I guess. I don't try to be, but I'm known as "the weird kid" by almost all of my friends. I can make friends fairly easily. I've been told by a few (mostly unbiased) sources, that I could be considered attractive. I don't entirely see this, but I've heard one can feign attractiveness with confidence, so I'll assume it's that. After rereading all that, I think I'm a bit of a narcissist too. Anyway...

**(Important Part)**

My problem is this: I find it incredibly difficult to emotionally connect with anyone I've ever met. I have a capacity for empathy and everything, but my introversion is at times crippling. I find, when confronted with intimacy, I instinctively retreat within myself, and turn kind of cold and unresponsive. It happens worse, of course, when people try to flirt with me. I become distant, giving vague answers, avoiding eye contact. I'ts not pretty, and I imagine they must take it personally.

It's even begun to manifest in just plain not liking touching people now. Shaking hands is fine, but I don't like hugging, or sitting too close to even people I know well.

Of the three "relationships" I've been in, the girl had always asked me out, and I always endded it by, *ahem*, not talking to them and hoping the problem will fix itself. They never lasted more than a week or two.

I dunno reddit, this is more of a vent than anything, but I'm wondering if anyone can provide any insight.
user
I'm an introvert, and I find it difficult to connect emotionally with people I don't know very well. I have no idea
assistant