Storytime! I (20M)think I am in love with one of my friends. I met her (19F) a few months ago when she started at my job. As one of the more seasoned people there, I approach her trying too be friendly and introduce myself too her off the clock. We click and I think 'awesome, this is a coworker I'm not gonna secretly hate!' Time goes on and she's still a mystery too everyone at work. Keeps too herself, never brings up her past, etc. She does seem too like talking too me though, so I casually mention after work as we're both headed to our cars that I still don't know anthing about her, and she invites me to ask her questions. At this point I already know that she has a boyfriend because he came to pick her up once, but I didn't meet him. I find out that she's lived different places and had some hard times. We start too get to know each other better at work over about a month and start texting each other (oftentimes till 1 or 2 AM) This week she dropped on me that her boyfriend started using heroin…AGAIN. Fast forward, and she explains that she's also a former junkie and that they met in rehab. She tells me that she doesn't know what to do, and that she's already relapsed once because of him using again. Of course I tell her that she needs to distance herself from him. She has no one else in the city we live in, so I invited her too my parents house for thanksgiving. She said she would love too come over for thanksgiving. After no response too multiple texts over the last two days, and a very rushed 10 second "hi, bye" at work yesterday she texts me that she's not coming over, and she's going over to her bf's parents house for thanksgiving.
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I'm im love with a recovering (relapsing) heroin addict who's in a harmful relationship. She's now trying too distance herself from
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Storytime! I (20M)think I am in love with one of my friends. I met her (19F) a few months ago when she started at my job. As one of the more seasoned people there, I approach her trying too be friendly and introduce myself too her off the clock. We click and I think 'awesome, this is a coworker I'm not gonna secretly hate!' Time goes on and she's still a mystery too everyone at work. Keeps too herself, never brings up her past, etc. She does seem too like talking too me though, so I casually mention after work as we're both headed to our cars that I still don't know anthing about her, and she invites me to ask her questions. At this point I already know that she has a boyfriend because he came to pick her up once, but I didn't meet him. I find out that she's lived different places and had some hard times. We start too get to know each other better at work over about a month and start texting each other (oftentimes till 1 or 2 AM) This week she dropped on me that her boyfriend started using heroin…AGAIN. Fast forward, and she explains that she's also a former junkie and that they met in rehab. She tells me that she doesn't know what to do, and that she's already relapsed once because of him using again. Of course I tell her that she needs to distance herself from him. She has no one else in the city we live in, so I invited her too my parents house for thanksgiving. She said she would love too come over for thanksgiving. After no response too multiple texts over the last two days, and a very rushed 10 second "hi, bye" at work yesterday she texts me that she's not coming over, and she's going over to her bf's parents house for thanksgiving.
user
I'm over my head, and in love with a girl who I think I might be in love with too, because
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