Hi,
This past weekend, my girlfriend flew out to Spain to begin her study abroad trip. She has been in Madrid for a week before she heads to another location to take classes for 4 weeks. Ever since she has been there, she has been partying non stop at night, staying out until 3 to 4 in the morning. 

I have told her that I don't want to stop her from going out, but I find the amount of times she spends partying is excessive. Prior to going on the trip, she agreed to text me right before she left for any party from the hotel, and also to let me know when she was drinking. The first night there, she disappeared for 3 hours and then facetimed me later, pretty drunk saying that she went out the bars.

This hurt because it was only the first night away and she basically threw away everything we had talked about. She apologized like mad for her behavior and how she didnt' follow any of the ground rules we agreed to. She has been going out now until the wee hours into the night, and I am just worried sick. Every time she texts me shes going out, I can barely breathe until she comes back and lets me know that shes ok.

I can't contact her when she goes out at night because she doesn't have a data card for the country so basically I wait and stress until she comes back at night to make sure she's ok.

What can I do here, reddit? I feel trapped. I don't want to stop her from having fun but the stress and nerves are killing me inside. I don't think I can last 6 more weeks like this

Even as we speak, she is out right now at 5am in Madrid, clubbing god knows where.
user
Girlfriend went abroad, partying non stop. We set ground rules before she left, and she broke them on the first night. Now she goes out every night
assistant
Hi,
This past weekend, my girlfriend flew out to Spain to begin her study abroad trip. She has been in Madrid for a week before she heads to another location to take classes for 4 weeks. Ever since she has been there, she has been partying non stop at night, staying out until 3 to 4 in the morning. 

I have told her that I don't want to stop her from going out, but I find the amount of times she spends partying is excessive. Prior to going on the trip, she agreed to text me right before she left for any party from the hotel, and also to let me know when she was drinking. The first night there, she disappeared for 3 hours and then facetimed me later, pretty drunk saying that she went out the bars.

This hurt because it was only the first night away and she basically threw away everything we had talked about. She apologized like mad for her behavior and how she didnt' follow any of the ground rules we agreed to. She has been going out now until the wee hours into the night, and I am just worried sick. Every time she texts me shes going out, I can barely breathe until she comes back and lets me know that shes ok.

I can't contact her when she goes out at night because she doesn't have a data card for the country so basically I wait and stress until she comes back at night to make sure she's ok.

What can I do here, reddit? I feel trapped. I don't want to stop her from having fun but the stress and nerves are killing me inside. I don't think I can last 6 more weeks like this

Even as we speak, she is out right now at 5am in Madrid, clubbing god knows where.
user
Girlfriend goes out partying non stop in Spain, I don't want to stop her from doing it, but I can't do anything when she is out.
assistant