I apologize for the length of this and will try to keep it concise.

I am not sure what I should do.  I dated this girl, Shelly, for a year.  Shelly was divorcing her husband and has two kids.  We were madly in love.  The story book feeling, everything you can imagine, etc.  She makes me feel like anything is possible.

This all changed when she felt like I had cheated by talking to a friend of mine, who was a female.  Shelly is a very jealous girl.  We stayed together even though Shelly felt hurt and betrayed.  A few months went by and Shelly left me for her ex husband and father of her children.  Over the course of this year, Shelly and I have went back and forth about getting back together, but she never could commit to leaving her ex husband now boyfriend(Not sure what you call that).  Finally I gave up and began seeing other people and acting single as I was.

I met a girl, Amber, who is very nice and we get along great.  It's the start of a new relationship and is going well.  This is where it gets complicated.  Now Shelly is completely enamored with me again and wants to be with me.  I absolutely LOVE the idea of being with Shelly again, but I don't know if I can get past all of the hurt she's caused me this year.  Additionally, Amber seems like a great girl on her own.  I feel like I'm stuck in the middle and I don't know what to do.

I love Shelly and always will.  We are absolutely crazy about each other in every way possible.  Emotionally and physically.  The problem is she's hurt me like no one else ever has before.  Amber is a great girl, but it's too soon to tell how things would really go with her.  I know Amber is falling hard for me, and I started falling for her but now I feel emotionally unavailable.

If you have any questions I can clarify let me know, I may be missing some important info.
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My ex left me for her ex. I started seeing a new girl. Now Shelly wants me
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I apologize for the length of this and will try to keep it concise.

I am not sure what I should do.  I dated this girl, Shelly, for a year.  Shelly was divorcing her husband and has two kids.  We were madly in love.  The story book feeling, everything you can imagine, etc.  She makes me feel like anything is possible.

This all changed when she felt like I had cheated by talking to a friend of mine, who was a female.  Shelly is a very jealous girl.  We stayed together even though Shelly felt hurt and betrayed.  A few months went by and Shelly left me for her ex husband and father of her children.  Over the course of this year, Shelly and I have went back and forth about getting back together, but she never could commit to leaving her ex husband now boyfriend(Not sure what you call that).  Finally I gave up and began seeing other people and acting single as I was.

I met a girl, Amber, who is very nice and we get along great.  It's the start of a new relationship and is going well.  This is where it gets complicated.  Now Shelly is completely enamored with me again and wants to be with me.  I absolutely LOVE the idea of being with Shelly again, but I don't know if I can get past all of the hurt she's caused me this year.  Additionally, Amber seems like a great girl on her own.  I feel like I'm stuck in the middle and I don't know what to do.

I love Shelly and always will.  We are absolutely crazy about each other in every way possible.  Emotionally and physically.  The problem is she's hurt me like no one else ever has before.  Amber is a great girl, but it's too soon to tell how things would really go with her.  I know Amber is falling hard for me, and I started falling for her but now I feel emotionally unavailable.

If you have any questions I can clarify let me know, I may be missing some important info.
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My ex wants me back after I start seeing someone new. I need advice on how to
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