Started talking about 4 months ago over text because he works for the forest service and was fighting fires at the time. We had known of each other, but never really started talking until then.

At first he was super excited to get to know me and really flirty, but everytime he came back he got distant and I would maybe see him once out of the three days he was back and then he'd be gone for another two weeks. My thought is that he just had a lot of people to see and a lot of other things to do while he's in town for so short of time.

We would text almost everyday, and now that he's back for the next 6 months or so, we still text everyday. Except now he doesn't seem to make a huge effort to see me. When we text he says things like "oh we should go here" or "Ill take you here sometime" etc. When he asks me I always am busy, and when I ask him he is busy. It's been frustrating.

When we do hang out, its after 10pm and usually its to have sex. It hasn't been this everytime, but definitely a majority of the time. I've stayed the night everytime, but usually we have our own stuff to do in the mornings and it'll be another week until we see each other again. But even still, we text everyday and it's great conversations, not just flirty or small talk.

I told him I'd like to see him more often and he said "that would be good we should do something this week". We haven't yet, but to be fair it is finals week and when he asked me to hang I had a final the next morning. 

We also opened up a little bit too that same day and he's going through a lot with alcohol dependency and I'm going through my own things too. I mean I usually feel like its great WHEN we are talking or hanging out, but I feel like he can be super standoffish or distant when I'm trying to make that happen. (Although he does text first most of the time).
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We talk everyday over text
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Started talking about 4 months ago over text because he works for the forest service and was fighting fires at the time. We had known of each other, but never really started talking until then.

At first he was super excited to get to know me and really flirty, but everytime he came back he got distant and I would maybe see him once out of the three days he was back and then he'd be gone for another two weeks. My thought is that he just had a lot of people to see and a lot of other things to do while he's in town for so short of time.

We would text almost everyday, and now that he's back for the next 6 months or so, we still text everyday. Except now he doesn't seem to make a huge effort to see me. When we text he says things like "oh we should go here" or "Ill take you here sometime" etc. When he asks me I always am busy, and when I ask him he is busy. It's been frustrating.

When we do hang out, its after 10pm and usually its to have sex. It hasn't been this everytime, but definitely a majority of the time. I've stayed the night everytime, but usually we have our own stuff to do in the mornings and it'll be another week until we see each other again. But even still, we text everyday and it's great conversations, not just flirty or small talk.

I told him I'd like to see him more often and he said "that would be good we should do something this week". We haven't yet, but to be fair it is finals week and when he asked me to hang I had a final the next morning. 

We also opened up a little bit too that same day and he's going through a lot with alcohol dependency and I'm going through my own things too. I mean I usually feel like its great WHEN we are talking or hanging out, but I feel like he can be super standoffish or distant when I'm trying to make that happen. (Although he does text first most of the time).
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Hanging out with a guy
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