 Mike says despite his struggle, if it were his own kids, he'd still try to rescue them, which would put his own life at risk. But there is a safer way. Bring a flotation device, which could be as simple as a boogie board. Here's how you could use it. Far enough away from him so then when you hand him, he's not right on top of you. Safe distance. You say, relax, I'm here to save you.