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My hubby is a foot taller than me but I'm usually the big spoon. I run hot and he stays cold, so if he's the big, I burn up, but I keep him warm if I am.
50-50, sharing is caring, and we both gotta roll over in the middle of the night. Both comfy. >


I'm usually a larger human than the average woman. So it's not like it keeps me warm. It would be more beneficial for the woman to be the big spoon since it would be warmer for her

In this case she isn't the "big spoon", she's the "backpack". >

awesome >

This is an incredibly common opinion. Next you'll say you love it when you have your head in her lap or she's rubbing/scratching it. >

No it's not, it's quite generally accepted that the man is usually the big spoon. >

I mean it is generally accepted and expected and I think a lot of women kind of like aspects of it that way, but the same as with like 'being open with your emotions and feelings' or whatever,  people will say theyre okay with it and plenty of guys say they would, but in actuality it doesnt always work out that way.  And it being common doesnt mean its all guys, there are plenty of guys who like to be traditionally masculine.
Its common for guys to think this way, is what Im saying. Even in this thread, the guys are saying they like it and its common but in reality it tends to be 50-50, because its more natural to just occur that way but also because of what each person wants at the time or whatever. >

I prefer being big spoon because of boob grabbing opportunities. >

Little spoon can reach back and grab booty tho >

It's like frontal hugs vs. behind the back hugs. The latter is more rare but it's still awesome when they happen. >

It's only unpopular with alpha chads. I think most guys like it. Plus boobs pressed on your back is comfy. >

I prefer to spoon my husband >

Being held or hugged from behind is one of the few things that make me feel safe and that's pretty much the most precious feeling there is >

Ehh it’s not really warmer when they’re the big spoon, our butts still get cold >

You are missing the third spoon /s >

My husband loves being little spoon too, but we usually trade off. >

I LOVE being little spoon.  Nothing better than my wife's boobs mashed up against my back and maaaaaybe the hand on my stomach goes somewhere else! >

It’s actually better if you have an Alaskan King bed and she’s on the other side… dogs go in the middle. I need my space. >

As a tall woman I ended up buying a California King. It's enough length for me.
But now I read about an Alaskan King. Holy shit. >

Wait until you hear about the Family XL king. >

How do you even get such large mattresses through doorways? >

same way you get a regular king through, bend it
I'm not sure how you get an Alaska king through a door though.  It's both tall and wide. >

California king fits through a doorway without folding. Regular king is a total waste. My feet would hang off. >

In my own bedroom. Better marriage than ever. >

That seems interesting, but I'd be afraid that it would make my SO feel more like a roommate. >

No, it's about sleeping separately and not about lack of intimacy. Sex is still done as usual.
Lot, lot of married couples don't realize that they (or their SO) is not really the best sleeping mate. >

I think about this a lot.  I'm already a marginal sleeper but my wife is a terrible sleeper - she's freezing cold when she gets into bed but by the end of the night she's kicked off all the sheets and taken her pj's off because she's so hot.  In between she wakes up at the sound of a pin dropping and I'm starting to suspect she may have sleep apnea based on the sounds she makes.  
I suggested a sleep study but she dismissed the idea. >

Bubba Prisoner 20941 has entered the chat. >

I definitely prefer being little spoon it's annoying having her hair tickling my nose and everytime I get it to stop she moves a little and it starts again >

How is it warmer for the big spoon?
Whenever I'm the big spoon I'm effectively a second blanket. >

Everybody likes to be the little spoon. It makes you feel safe- Jake Peralta