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We've all had intrusive thoughts. Most come to their senses before actually going through with them.
Probably immediately followed up with divorce papers >

Seems reasonable after attempted murder. >

Really? I think he deserves a second chance
edit: /s >

Your comment reminded me of those relationship posts where the OP is like “my guy is so amazing expect for this teeny tiny thing,” where the “one thing” ends up being a fondness for cruel and/or illegal things. >

Or when the 'one thing' was addressed, but it turns out there where actually a lot of other things the 'tiny thing' was blocking. >

Radiologist, living in a fancy suburb and driving a Tesla, two young kids, neighbors say they were a "beautiful, idyllic family, no indication of issues", wife apparently had no clue as well...and then he randomly decides to drive his family off a cliff. You can never really know WTF is going on in a person's head. Hope everyone (especially the kids) can get all the help they need to recover and move on. >

Medicine is a high stress job and environment, suicide and mental health issues are higher than national averages. The money is great but the mental price tends to be high. Not justifying anything but I guess I’d more more surprised if a construction worker or something did it. >

Construction workers actually have massively outsized rates of suicide, way higher than most jobs. Their harsh and unsupportive work culture leads to a lot of repressed mental health issues.
I do understand the point you’re getting at though >

I picked a blue collar job since most feel more fulfilled than white collar but of course I chose poorly >

You aren’t supposed to listen to the call of the void. 
Thankfully the family is okay.