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I would agree that there are aspects of masturbation that are better than sex...
You know just how hard to press or squeeze and how fast to go and when to stop.
But you cannot replicate the passion of sex with another person by yourself. Nor can you just lay there and enjoy masturbation as you do need to work for it.
As far as working for my partner, this is part of what gets me off. I love going down on my wife.
Well I guess you’re in the right subreddit at least >

Right website tbh >

I mean is it a fair judgement when most redditors have not experienced both? >

Was in my first relationship 5 years. Never came. Never. The energy was not there and he did not care. Just terrible, looking back. 
After some time being single, having different sexual encounters and finallly - right now being in an incredibly passionate and love filled relationship, I can finally orgasm during sex. I hope you will find a good partner, who will care about your pleasure, wish you all the best) >

Thank you, I hope so, too 💓