How to play the French as White Club opponents frequently play the French Defence again me, and I have trouble countering it with the Advance variation, since  Black gets active pieces. Is there another good variation that avoids the Winawer, while giving White less problems?
Three most common replies to the French are 3.Nc3, 3.Nd2 and 3.e5, in your question you are ruling out 3.Nc3 and 3.e5, so 3.Nd2, the Tarrasch, seems like a natural suggestion, and it is less sharp than Winawer and if closing of the center happens it is on better terms for white than in Advance variation, so it might be worth a look. But if you want to avoid French structures in general, then by all means play the exchange variation that Brian Towers has suggested.