Beginner Openings/Defenses to learn What are good openings/defenses to study for both black and white for beginners. I've messed around with the sicilian defense and it is not bad, there's just so many variations and different types of defenses/openings its overwhelming. I understand the only way to learn is to play one for a little while. Are there any sites with virtual chess boards that show step by step examples of some of the popular styles. It's not easy to learn when all you get e4, e5 nf3 etc. Are there any viable openings for white other than d4/e4, these seem overused and very cliche
In my opinion this is a pretty hard question to answer, because there is no single correct answer to it.

The choice of opening repertoire for a player should be determined by his play style, e.g. do you prefer to be aggressive always on the offense or are you more of a tactical player, looking for strategic weaknesses in your opponent's position, do you prefer closed over open positions, etc.

So my answer to your question would be to follow the basic principles of opening play:  


control the center;
develop your minor pieces to their best squares;
get your king to safety;
do not move a single piece too often in the opening, unless there's a pretty good reason to do so;
do not bring your queen out too early.


From there on pick an opening that fits your play style and study the ideas behind it, not just memorize the moves, understand what each of them accomplishes.


  Are there any viable openings for white other than d4/e4, these seem
  overused and very cliche


These opening moves are most certainly not cliche. Although you might see these moves as the first move in almost every game there are lots of variations that follow. Therefore my recommendation for you would be to play an opening from the family of The Italian Game as White and maybe The French Defense as Black.

From my experience as an amateur I came to the conclusion that one shouldn't focus too much on openings. After you pick an opening that fits your style, focus on the endgame and various tactics and strategic ideas. This seems to be more efficient in the long run.

Good luck!