How can I train myself to become more observant of all my pieces? This is always what gets me. I want to find a way to train myself to become more observant, and able to look at every piece that's about to murder me.
As I mention here, not having any undefended piece greatly helps.


Each move, you have to check out for all your pieces, and after a few games of paying attention, it'll most probably become natural to know what pieces of yours are under somehow in peril, and not.
In case you missed some tactic, didn't count attacks and defenses well enough, whatnot, you always have at least one defender.
You'll start noticing overloads, which is probably a tactical trick beyond your level right now.


Eventually, you'll constantly have a map in your mind telling you :


this is attacked twice, defended by this and this : ✓
this is attacked once and defended by that : ✓
I can be put in check in various ways by his queen, but all my pieces are defended at least once : ✓
He just played this move, so this and that are threatened. I must find a move that defends both of them, e.g. moving one to defend the other, and I'll be fine.


Then, go look for problems that arise after multiple moves.