What does it mean for a woman to be 贤惠 (xiánhuì)? Judging from what I've read, Chinese culture honors women who are 贤惠 (xiánhuì), e.g. a man would want a 贤惠 wife (this actually arose in my recent question).  However, I get the feeling there's not going to be a simple, one-word translation of 贤惠; it seems intertwined with traditional Chinese gender roles.
CC-EDICT says 贤惠 is a variant of 贤慧 (xiánhuì), and writes:

賢惠 贤惠 [xian2 hui4] /variant of 賢慧|贤慧[xian2 hui4]/
賢慧 贤慧 [xian2 hui4] /(of a wife) wise and kind/perfect in her traditional roles/

I'm fairly sure this is a surface-level definition (possibly even inaccurate).
Question: What does it mean for a woman to be 贤惠?
From what I've read online, it seems such a woman is &quot;virtuous&quot; and has &quot;family values&quot; (whatever that means), is loyal and respectful to her husband, and is willing to do housework.  Maybe she's shy, modest, and has feminine behavior.  It seems mostly unrelated to her physical appearance.
This might be a good example of how dictionaries, while correct, don't exactly capture everyday usage.
贤惠 is a very common everyday word, used when someone is:

good a cooking

good at cleaning up

good at taking care of chores


Usually it is used for women, married or not, but it can even be sarcastically used with men. If a guy cooks up a nice meal you can laughingly say something like: “好贤惠哦”.