Event engine endpoint read and write API changes (#29450)
Event engine endpoint read and write API changes (#29450)

* Event engine endpoint read and write API changes

* updating api change

* set google_specific  to nullptr by default

* Event-Engine --> EventEngine

* life-time --> lifetime

* removing default args to make sanity checks pass
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