docs(material/theming): revise customizing-component-styles (#22466)
docs(material/theming): revise customizing-component-styles (#22466)

This change updates the customizing-component-styles doc to give more
specific guidance on overriding component styles. In particular:
* Much stronger language to make it clear that this is not supported or
  recommended.
* Reorganize content such that topics have a bit more cohesion/flow
* Call out that layout/positioning styles on host elements are the only
  safe styles to apply.
* Emphasize the perils of overrides in general
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