Reduce Evergreen matrix
Reduce Evergreen matrix

* Only run noauth/nossl on standalones for 3.6+
* Only run auth/ssl on replica sets/sharded for 3.6+
* Only run mmap on 4.0

Also, bump server version to 5.0 for bespoke variants that only run
on one server version

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