[SPARK-31889][BUILD] Docker release script does not allocate enough memory to reliably publish
[SPARK-31889][BUILD] Docker release script does not allocate enough memory to reliably publish

### What changes were proposed in this pull request?
Allow overriding the zinc options in the docker release and set a higher so the publish step can succeed consistently.

### Why are the changes needed?

The publish step experiences memory pressure.

### Does this PR introduce _any_ user-facing change?

No

### How was this patch tested?
Running test locally with fake user to see if publish step (besides svn part) succeeds

Closes #28698 from holdenk/SPARK-31889-docker-release-script-does-not-allocate-enough-memory-to-reliably-publish.

Authored-by: Holden Karau <7ba12a55c808179d9faba67213e9e2d6eda985f0@apple.com>
Signed-off-by: Holden Karau <7ba12a55c808179d9faba67213e9e2d6eda985f0@apple.com>

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