sql: fix a bug causing distsql to not be used on retries
sql: fix a bug causing distsql to not be used on retries

The erronous condition seems to have been introduced by mistake in
https://reviewable.io/reviews/cockroachdb/cockroach/12299#-KZ2PfBtHBm30NGvjAo0

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