Fix another bug with accept() and auto_delete, catch state problems in accept call
Fix another bug with accept() and auto_delete, catch state problems in accept call

- Can't tune QOS if we're not going to stop consuming aka when auto_delete aka when testing
- if you forgot to ack your messages, you will be in accepted still, so preemptively catch it before it goes too far down the stack to make sense what's wrong

mkl-/scioncc,mkl-/scioncc,mkl-/scioncc,scionrep/scioncc,scionrep/scioncc,scionrep/scioncc,ooici/pyon,crchemist/scioncc,crchemist/scioncc,ooici/pyon,crchemist/scioncc