fixed: transmit add/subRef for locally destroyed containers      : use delayed subRef, just like for sync between local aspects
fixed: transmit add/subRef for locally destroyed containers
     : use delayed subRef, just like for sync between local aspects

git-svn-id: b504d20b1860c4dab5f6fc5ca22923154e6ffb67@2539 4683daeb-ad0f-0410-a623-93161e962ae5

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