connection: Increase timeout for connections over the network
connection: Increase timeout for connections over the network

At scale, a 5 second timeout to query minions wasn't sufficient.  This
patch increases it to one minute, while shortening it for connections
to the daemon so failed daemon connection attempts are still
responded to quickly.

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