several fixes to apf_stk build:
several fixes to apf_stk build:

1) pretty sure STKIoss isn't a thing.
SEACASIoss seems to be what we were using
before the CMake overhaul, switch to that.

2) need to include STKMesh_TPL_* to bring
in the required Boost dependencies.

3) need to compile this code in C++11 mode,
as the Trilinos headers require it now.

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