[x] add a --production option to select production crates
[x] add a --production option to select production crates

These are the crates in default-members and reachable from them. We're
going to switch the build-dev job in CI to use this in the next commit.

aptos-labs/aptos-core,aptos-labs/aptos-core,aptos-labs/aptos-core,libra/libra,aptos-labs/aptos-core,aptos-labs/aptos-core,aptos-labs/aptos-core,libra/libra,libra/libra,libra/libra,libra/libra,aptos-labs/aptos-core