MB-38069: Use the functionality in tlm to locate numa
MB-38069: Use the functionality in tlm to locate numa

And add the numa library to the name of dependencies
for memcached_daemon

Change-Id: I9a51cfcd80cae4cfdc5160766671873b0d140eb2
Reviewed-on: http://review.couchbase.org/123007
Tested-by: Build Bot <80754af91bfb6d1073585b046fe0a474ce868509@couchbase.com>
Tested-by: Sriram Melkote <3995a3476470ce2c0c01f75cee639e7d47357a62@couchbase.com>
Reviewed-by: Daniel Owen <b3fc0e1a51f252986e60be7da121b74d3ac6845f@couchbase.com>

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