feat(data/multiset/basic): has_ordered_sub multiset (#9566)
feat(data/multiset/basic): has_ordered_sub multiset (#9566)

* Provide `instance : has_ordered_sub (multiset α)`
* Prove most multiset subtraction lemmas as special cases of `has_ordered_sub` lemmas
* In a subsequent PR I will remove the specialized multiset lemmas



Co-authored-by: Floris van Doorn <240eaf9b7dd8bf34824fa6213c6ea24402f09b79@andrew.cmu.edu>

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