kahip: update build system to cmake for v3.11, retain scons for older versions (#25645)
kahip: update build system to cmake for v3.11, retain scons for older versions (#25645)

* kahip: update to cmake for v3.11, retain scons for older versions

* kahip: update build system to cmake for v3.11, retain SCons for older versions

* address PR comments and add maintainer

* address PR comments - correct version to 2.10, add deprecated and url, and remove scons version
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