intel/intel-cl: handle arguments in intel-specific way
intel/intel-cl: handle arguments in intel-specific way

intel compiler's defaults are different enough from MSVC and GNU
that it's necessary to set specific defaults for Intel compilers.

This corrects/improves behaviors initially addressed in  b1c8f765fa6e2a

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