Revert "change how relations are detect so that it can work with relation proxies (aka octopus)"
Revert "change how relations are detect so that it can work with relation proxies (aka octopus)"

This reverts commit 584e24023bb6aefd5bc4ec130e8b2658d54661e0.

cfiorini/wice_grid,leikind/wice_grid,awanosik/wice_grid,brian-vogogo/wice_grid,ryanfox1985/wice_grid,fedelcar/wice_grid,brian-vogogo/wice_grid,zuf/wice_grid,ryanfox1985/wice_grid,awanosik/wice_grid,zuf/wice_grid,nathanvda/wice_grid,fedelcar/wice_grid,avbrychak/wice_grid,nathanvda/wice_grid,leikind/wice_grid,avbrychak/wice_grid,cfiorini/wice_grid