peer: add async queue for gossiper msgs
peer: add async queue for gossiper msgs

  This commit refactors the core logic of the
  chanMsgStream to support an additional stream
  that is used to asynchronously queue for in-order
  delivery to the authenticated gossiper. The channel
  streams are slightly adapted to use the more flexible
  primitive. We may look to refactor this using more
  isolated interfaces, but for now this provides a
  minimal change to resolving known flakes.

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