Make sure Kopete doesn't beleive the contact is in the contactlist while it isn't
Make sure Kopete doesn't beleive the contact is in the contactlist while it isn't

This should fix the Bug 98222.  but since i can't reproduce it, i can't be sure.

BUG: 98222

svn path=/trunk/kdenetwork/kopete/; revision=385322

josh-wambua/kopete,Jtalk/kopete-fork-xep0136,Jtalk/kopete-fork-xep0136,Jtalk/kopete-fork-xep0136,Jtalk/kopete-fork-xep0136,josh-wambua/kopete,josh-wambua/kopete,Jtalk/kopete-fork-xep0136,Jtalk/kopete-fork-xep0136,josh-wambua/kopete,josh-wambua/kopete,josh-wambua/kopete,josh-wambua/kopete