Allow for default {connect,server}_args
Allow for default {connect,server}_args

The `BaseLdapConnector` now accepts the kwargs `server_args` and
`connect_args`, which are merged with DEFAULT_SERVER_ARGS and
DEFAULT_CONNECT_ARGS, which are usually defined in subclasses.

Also, set `use_ssl=False` in the test connector.

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