track connection flow control when writing to a stream
track connection flow control when writing to a stream

Even though we now take the connection flow control into account when
limiting stream_send() calls, the actual count of available bytes was
only decreased after a STREAM frame was actually sent. We now decrease
the count when stream_send() is called.

Follow-up to 56fc60bfa2d92e3abfd6c06a47c191dcb439eac8.

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