rtptimerqueue: Optimize reschedule optations
rtptimerqueue: Optimize reschedule optations

This basically add ability to choose between inserting from head, tail
or in-place in order to try and minimize the distance to walk through in
the timer queue. This removes an overhead we had seen on high drop rate.

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