vm: provide better error message for VM startup timeout
vm: provide better error message for VM startup timeout

"Cannot execute qrexec-daemon!" error is very misleading for a startup
timeout error, make it clearer. This rely on qrexec-daemon using
distinct exit code for timeout error, but even without that, include its
stderr in the error message.

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