allow changing FPS and Image Size using V4L2
allow changing FPS and Image Size using V4L2

use logic similar to cap_libv4l: replace icvSetVideoSize by v4l2_reset
as it was not used for V4L1, the actual frame format is negotiated in
try_palette_v4l2 and the stream has to restarted anyway.
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