stub: optimize ThreadlessExecutor used for blocking calls
stub: optimize ThreadlessExecutor used for blocking calls

The `ThreadlessExecutor` currently used for blocking calls uses `LinkedBlockingQueue` which is relatively heavy both in terms of allocations and synchronization overhead (e.g. when compared to `ConcurrentLinkedQueue`). It accounts for ~10% of allocations and ~5% of allocated bytes per-call in the `TransportBenchmark` when using in-process transport with [stats and tracing disabled](https://github.com/grpc/grpc-java/issues/5510).

Changing to use a `ConcurrentLinkedQueue` results in a ~5% speedup of that benchmark.

Before:
```
Benchmark                         (direct)  (transport)  Mode  Cnt      Score     Error  Units
TransportBenchmark.unaryCall1024      true    INPROCESS  avgt   60   1877.339 ±  46.309  ns/op
TransportBenchmark.unaryCall1024     false    INPROCESS  avgt   60  12680.525 ± 208.684  ns/op
```

After:
```
Benchmark                         (direct)  (transport)  Mode  Cnt      Score     Error  Units
TransportBenchmark.unaryCall1024      true    INPROCESS  avgt   60   1779.188 ±  36.769  ns/op
TransportBenchmark.unaryCall1024     false    INPROCESS  avgt   60  12532.470 ± 238.271  ns/op
```

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