engine: fix intent vs txn timestamp discrepancy
engine: fix intent vs txn timestamp discrepancy

Txns can write intents at timestamps less than their timestamp. When
reading, we look at the intent timestamp, but when resolving intents we
were examining the transaction timestamp which led to a loop where an
intent could not be resolved.

```
make stress PKG=./sql TESTTIMEOUT=20s TESTS=TestParallel
5935 runs so far, 0 failures, over 8m35s
```

Fixes #7654.
Fixes #6025.

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