dns, cares: don't filter NOTIMP, REFUSED, SERVFAIL
dns, cares: don't filter NOTIMP, REFUSED, SERVFAIL

Report the aforementioned DNS server failure codes as-is, stop c-ares
from reporting them as ARES_ECONNREFUSED.

Reported by Steve Freegard.

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