[Java] Upgrade to Version 0.43.0, Mockito 4.9.0, JMH 1.36, gRPC 1.51.0, and Protobuf 3.21.9.
[Java] Upgrade to Version 0.43.0, Mockito 4.9.0, JMH 1.36, gRPC 1.51.0, and Protobuf 3.21.9.

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