make vcvars64 and cuda_version can be set in xly pipe (#40870)
make vcvars64 and cuda_version can be set in xly pipe (#40870)

* make vcvars64 and cuda_version can be set in xly pipe

* make third_party_path reused by ci and build pipe;test=windows_ci_inference;test=windows_op;test=windows_ci
luotao1/Paddle,PaddlePaddle/Paddle,PaddlePaddle/Paddle,PaddlePaddle/Paddle,PaddlePaddle/Paddle,luotao1/Paddle,luotao1/Paddle,PaddlePaddle/Paddle,PaddlePaddle/Paddle,PaddlePaddle/Paddle,luotao1/Paddle,luotao1/Paddle,luotao1/Paddle,luotao1/Paddle