support setting the node name and cookie when a shell is started
support setting the node name and cookie when a shell is started

Signed-off-by: Jordan Wilberding <220780119b0515e812290c52572d947e9668976c@gmail.com>

ericbmerritt/sinan,erlware-deprecated/sinan,erlware-deprecated/sinan,ericbmerritt/sinan,erlware-deprecated/sinan,ericbmerritt/sinan