update fboss gtest usage for cmake 3.20+ and centos stream 8
update fboss gtest usage for cmake 3.20+ and centos stream 8

Summary:
Need to specify both gtest and gmock includes like folly does

Centos stream 8 doesn't have libmnl-static, and needed different alias for nl-route-3

Reviewed By: shri-khare

Differential Revision: D33537568

fbshipit-source-id: 506ef13224e71b874f8a43b52474f39da14a8d67

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