setup.py: add option to disable tbb at compile time
setup.py: add option to disable tbb at compile time

adds an option to ignore the tbb libraries if present
this is needed when an older version of tbb is present
which gets "frosty thomson'd" - stuartarchibald

Signed-off-by: Aisha Tammy <77f05fa62ddaff61b1d2b1d3b4db0d4b01ebea6d@aisha.cc>

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