Allow a client to send early_data with SNI if the session has no SNI
Allow a client to send early_data with SNI if the session has no SNI

We can only send early_data if the SNI is consistent. However it is valid
for the client to set SNI and the server to not use it. This would still be
counted as consistent. OpenSSL client was being overzealous in this check
and disallowing this scenario.

Reviewed-by: Ben Kaduk <b34e9dc3dd24827b45bb22e8b76cde1bcb413b0e@mit.edu>
(Merged from https://github.com/openssl/openssl/pull/4738)

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