net: only enforce the services required to connect
net: only enforce the services required to connect

also once half of all outgoing nodes have our preferred flags, require only
minimal flags from the rest.

Github-Pull: #10441
Rebased-From: b6fbfc228236947eaea5c14dda299f5a01810e92

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