ntfs-3g: enable extra programs and native xattr handling
ntfs-3g: enable extra programs and native xattr handling

NTFS-3G comes with a handful of extra programs that are hidden behind
--enable-extra. The most useful of them is ntfsusermap, a command used
to map Windows ownership & permissions onto Unix users. It can be pretty
useful for people who also have a Windows system partition and don't
want to accidentally delete system32 without sudo.

The other change enables native xattr handling on NTFS-3G by default
instead of resorting to ._ AppleDouble files. We all see AppleDouble
files as an annoyance, and it really doesn't make sense to use them when
 the underlying FS has perfect support for xattr.

I tested all changes on a Catalina with a Windows 10 system partition.
The permission change will not activate unless a user explicitly goes
hrough the mapping wizard program and puts a mapping file there.

Closes #56276.

Signed-off-by: BrewTestBot <8a898ee6867e4f2028e63d2a6319b2224641c06c@users.noreply.github.com>

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