messaging: make verb handler registering independent of current scheduling group
messaging: make verb handler registering independent of current scheduling group

0c6bbc8 refactored `get_rpc_client_idx()` to select different clients
for statement verbs depending on the current scheduling group.
The goal was to allow statement verbs to be sent on different
connections depending on the current scheduling group. The new
connections use per-connection isolation. For backward compatibility the
already existing connections fall-back to per-handler isolation used
previously. The old statement connection, called the default statement
connection, also used this. `get_rpc_client_idx()` was changed to select
the default statement connection when the current scheduling group is
the statement group, and a non-default connection otherwise.

This inadvertently broke `scheduling_group_for_verb()` which also used
this method to get the scheduling group to be used to isolate a verb at
handle register time. This method needs the default client idx for each
verb, but if verb registering is run under the system group it instead
got the non-default one, resulting in the per-handler isolation not
being set-up for the default statement connection, resulting in default
statement verb handlers running in whatever scheduling group the process
loop of the rpc is running in, which is the system scheduling group.

This caused all sorts of problems, even beyond user queries running in
the system group. Also as of 0c6bbc8 queries on the replicas are
classified based on the scheduling group they are running on, so user
reads also ended up using the system concurrency semaphore.

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