build: Fix tri-state options in `configure.py`
build: Fix tri-state options in `configure.py`

The change fixes a bug whereby the value of the `hwloc` argument was not
correctly forwarded to CMake.

As a bonus, we now uniformly have `--enable` and `--disable` variants
for all Boolean flags in `configure.py`.

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