Test: wait for actual startup in start_server.
Test: wait for actual startup in start_server.

start_server now uses return value from Tcl exec to get the server pid,
however this introduces errors that depend from timing: a lot of the
testing code base assumed the server to be actually up and running when
server_start returns.

So the old code that waits to see the pid in the log file was restored.

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