sqlccl: exclude cleanup from backup/restore/load benchmark timings
sqlccl: exclude cleanup from backup/restore/load benchmark timings

A few b.StopTimer calls got missed along the way. While I'm in here,
tweak the name of a couple of benchmarks to be more consistent with our
new naming.

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