Remove octarine-bson depepency on mongo-java-driver uber-jar
Remove octarine-bson depepency on mongo-java-driver uber-jar

The mongo-java-driver and mongodb-driver “uber-jars” are no longer published. Applications that reference either of these artifacts must switch to either mongodb-driver-sync or mongodb-driver-legacy, depending on which API is being used. Care should be taken to ensure that neither of the uber-jars are included via a transitive dependency, as that could introduce versioning conflicts.

Right now because of above, any application using octarine-bson cannot move to mongo 4.x driver because octarine-bson is pulling in the old mongo-java-driver 3.x uber-jar and causing a versioning conflict.
In reality, octarine-bson only needs org.mongodb.bson so change it to only depend on that, and avoid the versioning conflict.

poetix/octarine,poetix/octarine,poetix/octarine