Replace deprecated with_lockmode with with_for_update
Replace deprecated with_lockmode with with_for_update

The Query.with_lockmode() method is deprecated since version 0.9.0
and will be removed in a future release. [1]
This patch replaces it with Query.with_for_update().

[1] https://docs.sqlalchemy.org/en/13/orm/query.html#sqlalchemy.orm.query.Query.with_lockmode

Change-Id: I735c7825ac490e695122bf64ca1f758bdd9d81ad

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