test: fix tls-hello-parser-failure on smartos
test: fix tls-hello-parser-failure on smartos

Assert that when the client closes it has seen an error, this prevents
the test from timing out.

Also queue a second write in the case that we were able to send the
buffer before the other side closed the connection.

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