vhost: avoid memory write on net header when necessary
vhost: avoid memory write on net header when necessary

Like what we did for virtio PMD driver [0][1], we could also apply such
trick to vhost, to avoid the memory write on net header when necessary.

[0]: c9ea670c1dc7 ("net/virtio: fix performance regression due to TSO")
[1]: 16994abee215 ("net/virtio: optimize header reset on any layout")

With this, the cache issue of the mergeable path is again greatly reduced:
even the write of "num_buffers" could be avoided. A quick PVP test shows
the gap between the mergeable Rx and non-mergeable Rx is pretty small now:
they are basically the same in my test.

Signed-off-by: Yuanhan Liu <5dcef21195e64c9c08aa779bb62b25e9133eaa33@linux.intel.com>

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