mesh: Fix starting IV Update when not on primary subnet
mesh: Fix starting IV Update when not on primary subnet

The Mesh Profile Specification states in section 3.10.5 IV Update
procedure: "The IV Update procedure is initiated by any node that is a
member of a primary subnet", meaning if we're not on the primary
subnet we should not try to initiate the procedure.

Additionally this fixes initiating IV Update in all cases where the
sequence is updated, by putting the code into bt_mesh_next_seq().

Fixes zephyr#17977

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