[rtp] perform media decoding in a separate thread
[rtp] perform media decoding in a separate thread

Using a thread-pool executor poses two problems:

- the codec gets executed in a random thread at each pass, which is
  not guaranteed to work.

- even though we offload the work to the thread pool, we are still
  holding up the reception loop. This throws off jitter and bitrate
  calculations.

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