gui: Fix m_node.startShutdown() order
gui: Fix m_node.startShutdown() order

This change forwards the shutdown request on the GUI (close the
application for instace) to the node as soon as possible. This way the
GUI doesn't have to wait for long operations to complete (rescan the
wallet for instance), instead those operations detect the shutdown
request and abort/interrupt.

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