fix(controller): use new `fleetctl` semantics
fix(controller): use new `fleetctl` semantics

Fleetctl 0.3.2 by default will test for a unit's goal status 10 times,
once every tenth of a second, before failing. This is not generous
enough, so on starting services we do it async with `-no-block` and
then poll for goal status, and on stopping we wait 60 seconds.

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