Enable build parallelism
Enable build parallelism

Use `--parallel` option to CMake.

This option was added in CMake 3.12. Now that we're running on Focal, we have CMake 3.16.

Since we have new CMake, also rewrite the generate command to use `-B` instead of `cd`'ing in a subshell.

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