mfem: apply patches from #19452 when mfem@4.1: (#20151)
mfem: apply patches from #19452 when mfem@4.1: (#20151)

As part of pull request #19452, a patch method was added to the mfem
package to delete byte order marks from 3 mfem source files. These
files first appeared in a stable release of mfem as of version
4.1. Consequently, attempts to install mfem 3.4 or mfem 4.0 fail
because no files exist at the path arguments of the filter_file
commands used to execute this operation. Decorating the patch method
so it runs only on mfem versions 4.1 and later resolves the errors
that were thrown due to files not found.

This commit adds that decorator.
LLNL/spack,LLNL/spack,LLNL/spack,iulian787/spack,iulian787/spack,LLNL/spack,iulian787/spack,iulian787/spack,LLNL/spack,iulian787/spack