mbedtls: handle NET_SEND_FAILED
mbedtls: handle NET_SEND_FAILED

Under the condition the associated client went away (turn off WLAN at the
client), we can spin forever mistaking NET_SEND_FAILED for WANT_WRITE,
which was also true.  This makes sure we understand that was fatal
immediately.
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