MB-11710: Expand error message when attempting 1.8.1 join
MB-11710: Expand error message when attempting 1.8.1 join

Tell the user how to fix the failure to join.

Change-Id: Iab2b520ebbb4ebddeacb1903003631adcc2b2e44
Reviewed-on: http://review.couchbase.org/39314
Reviewed-by: Aliaksey Kandratsenka <340b8e09ca65cd3fc686427fcfed17e87eaf61e2@gmail.com>
Tested-by: Aliaksey Kandratsenka <340b8e09ca65cd3fc686427fcfed17e87eaf61e2@gmail.com>

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