feat: change `validateBulkLoadParameters` default to `true`
feat: change `validateBulkLoadParameters` default to `true`

BREAKING CHANGE: This changes the default value of the `validateBulkLoadParameters` option from `false` to `true`. If you don't explicitly specify a value for this option, you might run into unexpected validation errors when loading data via `BulkLoad`. Set this to `false` explicitly to restore existing behavior, or `true` for proper parameter validation (recommended).

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