bump version 4.1.0 pre 3
bump version 4.1.0 pre 3

Sorry for the different formats for pre versions, trying to make
it sort right AND work non-confusingly with rubygems which
didn't like the first thing we did based on semver docs.

team-umlaut/umlaut,team-umlaut/umlaut,team-umlaut/umlaut