ARROW-13288: [Python] Missing default values of kernel options in PyArrow
ARROW-13288: [Python] Missing default values of kernel options in PyArrow

This PR ensures that default values for kernel options in PyArrow are consistent with the C++ defaults.

Closes #10683 from edponce/ARROW-13288-Missing-default-values-of-kernel-options

Authored-by: Eduardo Ponce <6a4c8f271abaad6949809c569bf8d3844179d012@gmail.com>
Signed-off-by: Benjamin Kietzman <be26f8d5d161e4d7965ee00602589fb2b74149f2@gmail.com>

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