I do not know why do you bother your self with this issue!!!! . Since they do not care and wanna the gold more than JUST a good man with why do you bother with this bullshit?? here is what happened with me i saw one of THEM then i asked some one to get some INFO about her to know if she is married or not She wasn't married ok good! but she asked what is his salary does he has a car ?! and you are blaming me sayin what's wrong with that we think the she has the right to knowbut my answer is She is 30 years old DOES IT MAKE SENSE TO ANY ONE OF YOU ??????????????