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“Therefore we ought to exercise ourselves in small things, and beginning with them to proceed to the greater.”
stoicism
7,205
“There is no correlation between the degree to which you are confident that you are right and the chances of you not being wrong.”
stoicism
7,630
“It was as if I'd lost some cosmic game of musical chairs; the song had stopped, I was left standing, and there was simply nothing to be dine about it.”
stoicism
7,040
“Most adult geniuses are more playful than most children.”
stoicism
6,876
“All roads to Hades are of equal length”
stoicism
6,841
“[A] resistance that dispenses with consolations is always stronger than one which relies on them.”
stoicism
7,470
“I’ve let people’s opinions, my own self judgements and many negative things take this life away from me. No more!”
stoicism
6,790
“To be everywhere is to be nowhere.”
stoicism
7,384
“why should I demand from fortune that she should give me this and that rather than demand from myself that I should not ask for them? why should I ask for them, after all? am I to pile them up in total forgetfulness of the frailty of human existence?”
stoicism
6,891
“Life will question you in its vital moments. It's up to you in how you'll respond. You might have drifted from the principles that you once followed. You could've indulged in vices or fallen into unthinking habits. It's your choice to start your practice again. Remind yourself of what's valuable and then act. You still have a choice to be brave, temperate, and wise.”
stoicism
7,236
“Unhappiness and the like often inspire us to perform random acts of unkindness.”
stoicism
6,984
“If it should ever happen to you to be turned to externals in order to please some person, you must know that you have lost your purpose in life.”
stoicism
7,100
“When you start to lose your temper, remember: There's nothing manly about rage. It's courtesy and kindness that define a human being- and a man. That's who possesses strength and nerves and guts, not the angry whiners.”
stoicism
7,228
“The ability to utter wise words is not exclusive to the wise.”
stoicism
6,857
“Ordinary riches can be stolen from a man. Real riches cannot. In the treasure-house of your soul, there are infinitely precious things that may not be taken from you.”
stoicism
7,142
“We would rarely waste time if our existence were earned.”
stoicism
6,869
“Nothing great is produced suddenly, since not even the grape or fig is. If you say to me now that you want a fig, I will answer you that it requires time: let it flower first, then put forth fruit, and then ripen. Is then the fruit of or a fig-tree not perfected suddenly and in one hour, and would you possess the fruit of a man's mind in so short a time and so easily? Do not expect it, even if I tell you”
stoicism
7,641
“Philosophy calls for simple living, not for doing penance, and the simple way of life need not be a crude one.”
stoicism
7,433
“Let whatever appears to be the best be to you an inviolable law. And if any instance of pain or pleasure, glory or disgrace, be set before you, remember that now is the combat, now the Olympiad comes on, nor can it be put off; and that by one failure and defeat honor may be lost or—won.”
stoicism
6,900
“Yet the object of our focus is not to be chosen lightly. In the marketplace of ambitions, dreams are sold in all sizes and shapes. But true fulfillment and achievement do not lie in the mere attainment of goals, but rather in the pursuit of those that are truly worthy. A target, after all, gives direction to our arrow, but the archer’s glory lies not in merely hitting the target, but in striking one that demands skill and character.”
stoicism
7,431
“For a delight in bustling about is not industry - it is only the restless energy of a hunted mind. And the state of mind that looks on all activity as tiresome is not true repose, but a spineless inertia.”
stoicism
7,078
“We are hurried, not by what is happening, but by what we are desiring.”
stoicism
7,539
“Feeling sorry for our bodies ought to be the closest we get to feeling sorry for ourselves.”
stoicism
7,113
“It was for the best. So Nature had no choice but to do it.”
stoicism
7,261
“A shallow reading of a problem begets outrage; a detailed approach to a problem encourages moderation.”
stoicism
7,183
“We cannot be too young to die.”
stoicism
7,575
“The worst that can happen to anyone will happen to everyone.”
stoicism
7,155
“We each unwittingly contribute, each and every day, to the preventions and to the causes of millions of accidents.”
stoicism
6,961
“Add nothing of your own from within, and that's an end of it.”
stoicism
7,046
“Things we wouldn't be willing to pay for if it meant giving up our house for them, or some pleasant or productive estate, we are quite ready to obtain at the cost of anxiety, of danger, of losing our freedom, our decency, our time.”
stoicism
6,930
“He is a slave.'' But shall that stand in his way? Show me a man who is not a slave; one is a slave to lust, another to greed, another to ambition, and all men are slaves to fear.”
stoicism
7,229
“Pleasure is often felt through the tongue or genitals as an attempt to distract oneself from the pain one is feeling through the heart.”
stoicism
7,083
“Avoid talking often and excessively about your accomplishments and dangers, for however much you enjoy recounting your dangers, it's not so pleasant for others to hear about your affairs.”
stoicism
6,791
“Limiting one’s desires actually helps to cure one of fear. ‘Cease to hope … and you will cease to fear.’ … Widely different [as fear and hope] are, the two of them march in unison like a prisoner and the escort he is handcuffed to. Fear keeps pace with hope … both belong to a mind in suspense, to a mind in a state of anxiety through looking into the future. Both are mainly due to projecting our thoughts far ahead of us instead of adapting ourselves to the present.”
stoicism
7,022
“Most people would rather have their remarks be misunderstood than be disagreed with.”
stoicism
7,517
“The modern expectation is that there will be equality in all things in the couple—which means, at heart, an equality of suffering. But calibrating grief to ensure an equal dosage is no easy task: misery is experienced subjectively, and there is always a temptation for each party to form a sincere yet competitive conviction that, in truth, his or her life really is more cursed--in ways that the partner seems uninclined to acknowledge or atone for. It takes a superhuman wisdom to avoid the consoling conclusion that one has the harder life.”
stoicism
7,626
“And here are two of the most immediately useful thoughts you will dip into. First that things cannot touch the mind: they are external and inert; anxieties can only come from your internal judgement. Second, hat all these things you see will change almost as you look at them, and then will be no more. Constantly bring to mind all that you yourself have already seen changed. The universe is change: life is judgement.”
stoicism
7,330
“We have, not problems, but negative attitudes towards some situations (towards which some people have or would have positive attitudes).”
stoicism
7,244
“There is usually at least one person praying for a situation, or an outcome, that is the exact opposite of the one someone or some people are praying for.”
stoicism
6,828
“I fail to remember ever having made an effort — no trace of struggle is detectable in my life, I am the opposite of a heroic nature. To “want” something, to “strive” for something, to have an “end,” a “desire” in mind — I know none of this from my experience. Even at this moment I look out upon my future — a broad future! — as upon a smooth sea: no desire ripples upon it. Not in the least do I want anything to be different from what it is; I myself do not want to be any different ... But thus I have always lived.”
stoicism
7,280
“The problem with pleasure is that it needs to be intermittent in order to retain its pleasantness.”
stoicism
7,451
“Is the child or wife of another dead? There is no one who would not say, “This is an accident of mortality.” But if anyone’s own child happens to die, it is immediately, “Alas! how wretched am I!” It should be always remembered how we are affected on hearing the same thing concerning others.”
stoicism
7,245
“Living is the outside of dying.”
stoicism
7,469
“What are virtues, if not practiced evenly in both times of joy and in hardships?”
stoicism
7,552
“Expectation is the only seed of disappointment.”
stoicism
6,959
“[I]f you gape after externals, you must of necessity ramble up and down in obedience to the will of your master. And who is the master? He who has the power over the things which you seek to gain or try to avoid.”
stoicism
7,456
“It's with a heavy heart that I assure you that regardless of how lasting your fortune feels, it can be taken from you before you can even think to try to hold on.”
stoicism
7,332
“Zu den herrlichsten Schätzen, die durch die Bemühungen anderer aus der Finsternis ans Licht gezogen sind, werden wir geführt; kein Zeitalter ist uns verschlossen, zu allen haben wir Zutritt [...] Die Zusammenfassung aller Zeiten macht ihm [/ihr] das Leben lang.”
stoicism
7,645
“There is, I assure you, a medical art for the soul. It is philosophy, whose aid need not be sought, as in bodily diseases, from outside ourselves. We must endeavor with all our resources and all our strength to become capable of doctoring ourselves.”
stoicism
7,336
“Life sometimes delays giving us the thing we are forever praying or working hard for, until it has managed to show us that that thing is not that important, or important at all.”
stoicism
7,013
“Most of us would eventually lose count if we were to literally count our blessings.”
stoicism
7,601
“If you have assumed any character beyond your strength, you have both demeaned yourself ill in that and quitted one which you might have supported.”
stoicism
7,274
“Growth is often the cause or the result of pain.”
stoicism
6,900
“Yet the object of our focus is not to be chosen lightly. In the marketplace of ambitions, dreams are sold in all sizes and shapes. But true fulfillment and achievement do not lie in the mere attainment of goals, but rather in the pursuit of those that are truly worthy. A target, after all, gives direction to our arrow, but the archer’s glory lies not in merely hitting the target, but in striking one that demands skill and character.”
stoicism
7,254
“Remind yourself that what you love is mortal … at the very moment you are taking joy in something, present yourself with the opposite impressions. What harm is it, just when you are kissing your little child, to say: Tomorrow you will die, or to your friend similarly: Tomorrow one of us will go away, and we shall not see one another any more?”
stoicism
7,588
“In the evening I came home and read about the Messina earthquake, and how the relief ships arrived, and the wretched survivors crowded down to the water's edge and tore each other like wild beasts in their rage of hunger. The paper set forth, in horrified language, that some of them had been seventy-two hours without food. I, as I read, had also been seventy-two hours without food; and the difference was simply that they thought they were starving.”
stoicism
7,416
“To lose someone you love is something you'll regard as the hardest of all blows to bear, while all the time this will be as silly as crying because the leaves fall from the beautiful trees that add to the charm of your home. [...] At one moment chance will carry off one of them, at another moment another; but the falling of the leaves is not difficult to bear, since they grow again, and it is no more hard to bear the loss of those whom you love and regard as brightening your existence; for even if they do not grow again they are replaced. "But their successors will never be quite the same." No, and neither will you.”
stoicism
6,790
“To be everywhere is to be nowhere.”
stoicism
7,610
“What progress, you ask, have I made? I have begun to be a friend to myself.”
stoicism
6,936
“Humans are not made for sitting at a desk all day. We have been evolving for millions of years to hunt animals through dense forest and vast plains. To walk huge distances in search of water. To spend hours searching for edible fruit to bring home to our families. The sedentary lifestyle many of us lead these days is no more than a by-product of the last few centuries.”
stoicism
7,043
“The good and the bad occur at all times and will keep happening. We can become lost if we go with the hype of ‘good and bad’ every time.”
stoicism
7,157
“A wise answer is even more pleasing when it is a response to a foolish question.”
stoicism
7,370
“Remember that you must behave in life as at a dinner party. Is anything brought around to you? Put out your hand and take your share with moderation. Does it pass by you? Don’t stop it. Is it not yet come? Don’t stretch your desire towards it, but wait till it reaches you. Do this with regard to children, to a wife, to public posts, to riches, and you will eventually be a worthy partner of the feasts of the gods. And if you don’t even take the things which are set before you, but are able even to reject them, then you will not only be a partner at the feasts of the gods, but also of their empire.”
stoicism
7,085
“The goodness inside you is like a small flame, and you are its keeper. It’s your job, today and every day, to make sure that it has enough fuel, that it doesn’t get obstructed or snuffed out. Every person has their own version of the flame and is responsible for it, just as you are. If they all fail, the world will be much darker—that is something you don’t control. But so long as your flame flickers, there will be some light in the world.”
stoicism
6,783
“Why should we place Christ at the top and summit of the human race? Was he kinder, more forgiving, more self-sacrificing than Buddha ? Was he wiser, did he meet death with more perfect calmness, than Socrates ? Was he more patient, more charitable, than Epictetus ? Was he a greater philosopher, a deeper thinker, than Epicurus ? In what respect was he the superior of Zoroaster ? Was he gentler than Lao-tsze , more universal than Confucius ? Were his ideas of human rights and duties superior to those of Zeno ? Did he express grander truths than Cicero ? Was his mind subtler than Spinoza ’s? Was his brain equal to Kepler ’s or Newton ’s? Was he grander in death – a sublimer martyr than Bruno ? Was he in intelligence, in the force and beauty of expression, in breadth and scope of thought, in wealth of illustration, in aptness of comparison, in knowledge of the human brain and heart, of all passions, hopes and fears, the equal of Shakespeare , the greatest of the human race?”
stoicism
7,011
“Show me one who is sick and yet happy, in peril and yet happy, dying and yet happy, in exile and happy, in disgrace and happy. Show him me. By the gods I would fain see a Stoic. Nay you cannot show me a finished Stoic; then show me one in the moulding, one who has set his feet on the path”
stoicism
7,546
“Even the busiest bee does not move from one flower to another as often as an untamed mind moves from one thought to another.”
stoicism
7,115
“So there are two reasons to embrace what happens. One is that it's happening to you. It was prescribed for you, and it pertains to you. The thread was spun long ago, by the oldest cause of all.”
stoicism
7,334
“All too often, a wise or free person is ridiculed, because of ignorance, by fools or slaves.”
stoicism
7,667
“During the Great Depression, the philosophy of grin-and-bear-it became a national coping mechanism.”
stoicism
7,109
“We get addicted, not to the substance, but to the effect.”
stoicism
6,861
“That on which you so pride yourself will be your ruin, you who think yourself to be somebody.”
stoicism
7,136
“It is foolish to expect a fool to act wisely.”
stoicism
7,224
“It is impossible to separate the art of living from the art of dying, because to be living is to be dying.”
stoicism
7,197
“A child is one of the most common results of the lack or loss of self-control.”
stoicism
7,278
“Really, doesn't everything make sense? There are, of course, things from which we more or less recover, although some of them are too harsh even for saints. But that is no reason to accuse God. Even if there are reasons to doubt him, the fact that he did not arrange the world like a well-ordered parlor is not one of them. It rather speaks in his favor. This used to be much better understood.”
stoicism
7,545
“It is impossible to trip and fall while walking slowly.”
stoicism
6,804
“From the philosopher Catulus, never to be dismissive of a friend's accusation, even if it seems unreasonable, but to make every effort to restore the relationship to its normal condition.”
stoicism
6,975
“The most beautiful things come from the hardest conditions.”
stoicism
6,850
“[I]n a man praise is due only to what is his very own. Suppose he has a beautiful home and a handsome collection of servants, a lot of land under cultivation and a lot of money out at interest; not one of these things can be said to be in him – they are just things around him. Praise in him what can neither be given nor snatched away, what is peculiarly a man's. You ask what that is? It is his spirit, and the perfection of his reason in that spirit.”
stoicism
7,331
“The fact that we are all going to die prevents the vast majority of people from being driven insane by the fact that they are going to die.”
stoicism
7,641
“Philosophy calls for simple living, not for doing penance, and the simple way of life need not be a crude one.”
stoicism
7,157
“A wise answer is even more pleasing when it is a response to a foolish question.”
stoicism
6,771
“If you are distressed by anything external, the pain is not due to the thing itself, but to your estimate of it; and this you have the power to revoke at any moment.”
stoicism
7,159
“Saving money, when buying an unnecessary thing, leads to wasting time, when using the thing.”
stoicism
7,335
“Seeing that our birth involves the blending of these two things—the body, on the one hand, that we share with animals, and, on the other hand, rationality and intelligence, that we share with the gods—most of us incline to this former relationship, wretched and dead though it is, while only a few to the one that is divine and blessed.”
stoicism
6,875
“These deep interactions with Greek and Roman culture, to include Stoic philosophy, certainly affected the zeitgeist of the era and most certainly impacted the educational theories in the early days of the Republic. With so much interest in reviving and adopting elements of Stoic philosophy within America, many intended references to Stoic ethics may be hidden within the works of the early generations of America, as they explicitly referenced “American” ideals that would have incorporated Stoic philosophy.”
stoicism
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“As things are, there is about wisdom a nobility and magnificence in the fact that she didn't just fall to a person's lot, that each man owes her to his own efforts, that one doesn't go to anyone other than oneself to find her.”
stoicism
7,591
“We might never rid ourselves of a lingering anxiety regarding our death; this is a kind of tax we pay in return for self-awareness.”
stoicism
7,246
“You have not yet reaped the sweetest fruits of meditation, if you still do not meditate only to meditate.”
stoicism
7,472
“Not even once has life or the weather complained about a human being.”
stoicism
7,171
“A family member is initially loved out of expectation … and is eventually loved out of habit.”
stoicism
7,499
“There is a correlation between how foolish a man is and how tolerant he is of people who waste his time.”
stoicism
7,325
“Giving in to sleep is a great opportunity to practice letting go of life.”
stoicism
6,931
“The Iliad consists of nothing more than impressions and the use of impressions. An impression prompted Paris to carry off the wife of Menelaus, and an impression prompted Helen to go with him. If an impression, then, had prompted Menelaus to feel that it was a gain to be deprived of such a wife, what would have come about? Not only the Iliad would have been lost, but the Odyssey too!”
stoicism
6,971
“Be careful to leave your sons well instructed rather than rich, for the hopes of the instructed are better than the wealth of the ignorant.” ~ Epictetus”
stoicism
7,039
“At the heart of stoicism lay the desire to disappoint oneself before someone else had the chance to do so. Stoic­ism was a crude defense against the dangers of the affections of others, dangers that would take more endurance than a life in the desert to be able to face.”
stoicism
7,632
“Saiba que um teto de palha abriga o homem tão bem quanto o de ouro.”
stoicism
7,585
“At dawn, when you have trouble getting out of bed, tell yourself, "I have to go to work - as a human being. What do I have to complain of, if I'm going to do what I was born for - the things I was brought into the world to do? Or is this what I was created for? To huddle under the blankets and stay warm?”
stoicism
7,040
“Most adult geniuses are more playful than most children.”
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