<human>: Goal: How do I ask my daughter about her new boyfriend?

Which of the following methods is more reasonable for accomplishing this goal?

OPTIONS:
- Being very open and honest with her and ask to speak with him about her. Try to remain biased.
- Being very open and honest with her and ask to speak with her about him. Try to remain unbiased.
<bot>: Being very open and honest with her and ask to speak with her about him. Try to remain unbiased.